Daily Community Chat Megathread

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-04T16:35:38+00:00

Lauren Chen’s about to hit the wall and is wearing more makeup than ever and she licking fights with Rollo😂😂😂

SierraMistSoda · 2023-05-04T16:26:30+00:00

Why does this red pill guy Rollo have a adult daughter with a masters degree? Isn't that like super anti redpill for women to go be career women? He seems happy this is what she is doing but at the same time saying women should not do this?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-04T16:20:31+00:00

If the studies said everyone was wealthy and making six figures while myself and everyone i knew was poor as dirt, what should I believe?

Imagine saying this because someone said studies debunked your anecdotal evidence.

Just to clarify, we’re not still believing this whole “Women are so emotional and only think with their feelings” bullshit right?

chancetolive · 2023-05-04T15:59:03+00:00

https://twitter.com/RationalMale/status/1653442566896103425?t=Xkp2AA0RJKp-0lwWqSrgHQ&s=19

Lol it made Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro respond.. among other people. 6 million views.

I find the sedations one most interesting as everyone can agree that being deep in your escapism is hurting your potential in the real world.

Isn't 25-29 technically the best time health wise and mentally for both men and women to have children and a family?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-04T15:42:37+00:00

Update me now!

Peacesquad · 2023-05-04T15:42:07+00:00

I deserve the world. Just because

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-04T15:32:07+00:00

Y'all need to go out into the world and observe couples.

Go to the mall (or Walmart or outdoor event). Bring a notebook. Test out your little theories. Really test them out, and try to prove them wrong.

Bring us the results.

I'm convinced y'all just don't see couples out in the wild.

There are some ugly mother fuckers out there, happy in relationships and enjoying themselves.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-04T15:24:17+00:00

I love watching HGTV and observing couples.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-05-04T15:13:13+00:00

Why do men hate being a good guy? They don't like being a good guy because they don't want to be a provider right? But in reality they went around with all the promiscuous women, some more than others, having their fun and then if they find a girl to settle down with they think oh I can't do that because it will make me beta of some crap. In the average relationship its not like the women is not providing anything either, she cooks, cleans, births babies. So why do men think the are being so taken advantage of in this arrangement?

chancetolive · 2023-05-04T15:04:23+00:00

guess who's out of ppd dungeon for personal attacks

jobbo321 · 2023-05-04T15:02:39+00:00

Lefties on r/politics putting it up for a mega corporation like Disney will never not be funny.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-05-04T14:44:44+00:00

Do you think men will ever get baby fever? I feel like these me who want to be forever bachelors are going to want a kid one day?

Slipthe · 2023-05-04T14:38:08+00:00

Because I blush so easily, I feel like I am physically conditioned not to be decisive, because being assertive can sometimes embarrass me if people push back, or if they completely ignore it.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-05-04T14:30:37+00:00

In Dr. Calhoun's infamous "Rat Utopia" experiment, several interesting phenomena started to develop.

In the famous "Universe 25", population peaked at 2,200 mice and thereafter exhibited a variety of abnormal, often destructive, behaviors including refusal to engage in courtship, females abandoning their young. By the 600th day, the population was on its way to extinction. Though physically able to reproduce, the mice had lost the social skills required to mate.

This has a great synopsis of the experiment, I will copy paste what I consider to be very thought provoking snippets.

" While dominant males initially thrived and fathered all the offspring they could muster, the less dominant were inactive and eventually became violent towards each other. Those who were attacked would later attack others. The female counterparts of the withdrawn males simply hid. Nursing females in the presence of territorial males began to exhibit aggression, attacking and wounding their own young and forcing them to leave the nest before weaning was complete."

" The next generation of mice, having never experienced healthy mouse behaviour, had no concept of mating or parenting, or even territorialism." - Sound similar?

"Some(rats) – dubbed the “beautiful ones” – spent their time eating, drinking, and grooming themselves in seclusion." - I believe the current crop of men in constant self improvement cycles are there ( i cannot deny I fall into this group ). The constant self improvement in diet, fitness, financial, often done in seclusion has created this niche of "the beautiful ones", often the this journey is undertaken by men to help better attract women, quickly becomes an all encompassing endeavor with no defined end.

What's hilarious to me about this is that the human "beautiful ones" started out improving to get more women, and they eventually may improve their pool of enthusiastic women, but it pales in comparison to the group of men that are HYPER successful with women (meaning exponetially more, and higher attractiveness/quality). In the experiment, the rats that were MOST prolific and sexually successful weren't the most beautiful and strongest ones but the rat that was more aggressive and territorial about his resources took the lions share of the sexual selection in the female rats.

Boiled down, it is more behavior and resource gathering/defending that attracts women rather than looking handsome/focusing in "looksMAXXing". Strength in behavior > physical strength.

I believe this to be the same case for human women. It's amusing that I fell into the trap of countless self improvement cycles and it has been various Chad friends in my life who have been infinitely more sexually/romantically successful than me, these men that are demonstrably a "lessor" mate choice than me in a plethora of criterias.

It bothers, it rubs me the wrong way. At this stage of my life, I don't see what else I can do to bridge the gap.

danielwastaken · 2023-05-04T14:20:46+00:00

It is so much worse to know that you had a shot but missed it than to never have had a chance at all.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-04T14:20:29+00:00

Women: All men are terrible assholes!

PPD Men: Hold up! Its YOUR FAULT for chasing Chad. Leave me out of it!

Also PPD Men: All women are awful gold digging bitches!

Women: Stop chasing Stacy-

PPD Men: NO! Its all women’s fault! You’re all gold digging bitches! I cant be responsible for my bad taste in lovers,

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-04T14:16:17+00:00

It's so sad how many here dismiss solid advice. Instead, continue to create their own self fulfilling prophecies.

How you make a woman feel > your appearance.

VampireChaser · 2023-05-04T13:44:23+00:00

Girl: What's your type?

Me: A girl who likes me back.

Girl: Come on, I'm being serious giggles

Me: Not fat or overweight.

Girl: WTF!

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-04T13:40:48+00:00

Just matched with an attractive UChicago girl who likes Taylor Swift and sent the first message. It’s all falling into place…

Twinseo09 · 2023-05-04T13:20:24+00:00

Men here will claim that women are attracted to dark triad men, but at this point, this statement is getting old and oversimplified. While it's true that certain behaviors associated with these men, such as confidence, charisma, and coolness under pressure, can be attractive, it's important to remember that these men possess BOTH desirable and undesirable traits.

In fact, it's not just women who are attracted to these traits. As HUMANS, we are drawn to confidence, charisma, and other desirable traits they showcase, regardless of gender.

It's also important to recognize that the manipulation and harm caused by dark triad individuals is not limited to sexual relationships with women. Men are also getting yoinked by these men financially and through manipulation tactics as well.

scwizard · 2023-05-04T13:02:08+00:00

I am so sick of the men complaining they can't get a gf but then rejecting any advice a woman gives them and even belittleling her because she is a woman and "can't understand"

Lol. Only woman I'd ever take dating advice from are lesbians. Not even bi girls.

Even if that advice is "put on your favorite dress and lipstick and go to a gay bar" it's probably better advice than hetero women give.

dbz__f · 2023-05-04T12:54:33+00:00

Western women: “Omg you’re an Aquarius? That means you’re an emotionally deep romantic but are looking for love and bla bla bla bla”

Asian women: “You were born in year of the sea urchin? You are intelligent and sensitive but will be hurt in love and bla bla bla bla”

All women are the same regardless of race or what part of the planet they’re from

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-04T12:40:49+00:00

Another reason the manosphere will not be adapted by most men: Alot of the manosphere beliefs require people to not think about them.

Example 1: “80% of divorces are initiated by women”. To a person not thinking hard, that sounds bad. “Oh! Breakups are bad, so women are bad for breaking up!”

For someone with experience and some analytical skills, they would be asking “Why did she file for divorce”, which is not what the manosphere expects people to ask, because they never give you a breakdown for reasons for divorce. At best, the manosphere only brings up reasons for divorce when you remind them that people break up over adultery and abuse.

A similar example: “Marriage is a bad deal for men” sounds great if you’re not looking deeper. Once looking into the fact that women are worst off after a divorce, men are more likely to re-marry, only 10% of men pay alimony and even that is easy to avoid by not being a breadwinner type, “Marriage is a bad deal for men” loses its validity.

Example 3: “Even serial killers get more fangirls AND pussy than the average guy”.

Dumb men: Wow, that’s fucked up! Nice guys finish last!

People with a decent IQ: Why would I want a psycho bitch in my life? How desperate do you have to be to want a psycho bitch?

Willow-girl · 2023-05-04T12:36:38+00:00

Yesterday I was up on a ladder, cleaning out a showcase that probably hadn't been cleaned in years, when a teacher passing by remarked, "I don't think I've ever seen anyone who works as hard as you do."

I smiled and thanked him while thinking, "I'll bet you don't know too many dairy farmers ..."

nexkell · 2023-05-04T11:58:20+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/136a92a/men_arent_happy_because_they_are_having_less_sex/

And the hate of men continues.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-04T11:33:42+00:00

I’m getting so tired of guy saying “I dont have a type” because alot of them do. They’re just not aware or they pretend all women act like their type so to never feel ashamed that his taste in women might be hindering his dating success.

dbz__f · 2023-05-04T11:16:42+00:00

What’s your take on massages? Are you okay with your partner getting a massage with someone of the opposite sec as them?

I’d only accept a woman massages my gf, I don’t want a man to massage her. As for me I don’t want to get massaged by a guy, I think I’d only accept massages from my gf

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-04T10:25:54+00:00

If you have to keep explaining away exceptions to your rule, maybe your rule wasn't too good to begin with.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-04T10:15:56+00:00

Every time I see a guy bring up “80% of divorces are initiated by women”, I am just going to bring up abuse stories.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-04T09:41:41+00:00

CMV: We need to seriously study outliers and men that statistically shouldn’t have a chance of getting a female or causal, but they getting females and casual. There’s a code in there somewhere a glitch or smt that we can use and exploit that may reduce the sexless rate amongst men. How do these men get ride or die commitment when they shouldn’t and how do they get causal when they too ugly or got some other shit wrong with them? What’s up with the females I mean ig the hypergamy is there but they ain’t chasing after Chad and they don’t feel like they are settling for this guy the shouldn’t be getting Chad treatment but he is.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-04T08:45:17+00:00

"How am I an asshole just for having a preference??"

It's not your preference, it's how you articulate it and how you judge those who don't fall into your preference.

"Sex is something special to me that I only want to share with people that I am truly committed to, I would like a partner who feels the same way."

But instead you said:

"I don't want some used up whore who spent their youth getting railed by chad."

"I am attracted to an athletic build in a girl, it's just what gets me going."

But instead you said:

"I don't want a disgusting Land Whale."

"I'm really attracted to Asian women, I just think they're so beautiful."

But instead you said:

"Western women are washed up sluts, I want a woman who is submissive and knows their place."

Billsandasonom · 2023-05-04T08:04:08+00:00

The fact that body positivity, attention and fear toward eating disorders and 'being too skinny' and all related bullshit has actually been a thing while the west on average gets fatter and fatter is proof mainstream political zeitgeist is coming from a left-wing upper middle class deluded demographic. Even if you aren't some basic upper mid class white girl with disordered eating causing you to be underweight, you are likely to be associated or have many commonalities with them. Nevertheless, take a glance at your surroundings. Does it look like a lot of people are skipping lunch? LOL

This is also the same with almost all of the left or woke issues these days. It's not that these issues aren't problems or important, it's that they are important mostly to these privileged white liberals because they've run out of things to complain about and they demand you listen and pay heed to their words - when most people have their own problems to worry about.

LaloTwins · 2023-05-04T07:52:45+00:00

some justice

scwizard · 2023-05-04T06:08:45+00:00

Q4W:

Which would you rather have? Your current husband/boyfriend? Or 50 million dollars.

And why?

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-04T06:08:28+00:00

It is amazing on FNF, whenever these women are asked if someone past matter 99% of the time they say no.

The past matters if you are a women or man, people are the result of habits and beheaviors. You are here, because of the person you were that lead you to this point in time.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-04T06:06:14+00:00

Unicorn types that may or may not exist (or died out or got wifed up):

The Virgin That Acts Like A Slut: Gonna drop some Red Pills on you my man, if she’s a virgin but she way too sexual or she’s into kinky shit she ain’t innocent and has done stuff with other men even if they ain’t fucked her pussy. She’s probably sucked some dick or had dick up her ass or handjobs. Sorry y’all, but we ending this Disney fantasy shit today ya virgin slut has sampled the carousel without riding it or that ass rode it. Y’all lying to yourselves if you really believe that shit 😂

The Loyal High N Woman: The higher the count the more likely to cheat is fax ngl but the ones that won’t cheat will already be wifed up and those mfs married to them ain’t about to let a horny female go without a fight.

Hot Older Woman: They either stay single and fuck or they get locked down with the quickness because she older but she’s fine as fuck and fine bitches ain’t easy to find these days women getting too fat.

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-05-04T04:59:07+00:00

It's actually gay for a man to have sex with a woman because he's fucking something that came out of another man's dick.

PBtoast707 · 2023-05-04T04:45:54+00:00

Today I bought a new truck and was able to get it for about $4K under MSRP. The salespeople were really surprised to see someone my age (24) actually negotiate and fight them on the price. Are people my age really that avoidant of confrontation? They won’t even negotiate? My dad always told me to never pay MSRP, always lower.

KommandaKoopa · 2023-05-04T03:31:18+00:00

When the fuck did music from the 90s become considered ‘classics’?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-05-04T03:23:36+00:00

Patient-Exit-3606 · 2023-05-04T03:18:20+00:00

Somebody legit just tried telling me “HVM don’t give women any autonomy”

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2023-05-04T02:38:39+00:00

Why are women so against geomaxxing?

You gals can geomaxx too. Just go to Sweden or whatever other country you think has the highest-value men.

social_mule · 2023-05-03T23:59:03+00:00

My two favorite types of PPD posts:

CMV: I believe x, y and z.
- First top level comment: I completely agree.
- Second top level comment: You hit the nail on the head.
- Third top level comment: I couldn't have said it better myself
Q4M: How do you feel about peas and carrots?
- First top level comment: My husband hates peas and carrots.
- Second top level comment: Well, I'm not a man but I like peas and hate carrots.
- Third top level comment: I'm a woman and if you arrange peas and a carrot just the right way they resemble a dick and nuts.

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-05-03T20:18:10+00:00

My two year old has gained the ability to say “I love you,” but alas, she is female and therefore a liar

/s

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-03T22:58:10+00:00

We continued talking and shes telling me how last year she did so much vile shit with men that she would not even think of doing with her husband.

This is the worry with AF/BB come to life. A woman who doesn't look at you like a sexual partner but as a husband.

GasolineSmellah · 2023-05-03T19:34:08+00:00

Words cannot describe how much I despise cheaters, despite never being cheated on. It’s just instinctual. I lose any ounce of sympathy I had for a female once I find out they cheated on someone.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-03T20:20:35+00:00

Accept that people act in their best self interest, and you will never be disappointed or puzzled by people motives and behaviors.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-03T22:49:01+00:00

Atleast Astrology girls think people can be divided into 12 categories instead of thinking people are a monolithic hivemind based on their chromosomes.

saraimarsena · 2023-05-04T00:55:29+00:00

Are men really asking how fast women slept with previous men they’ve dated? I hear a lot of “well if she slept with a bunch of other dudes super fast in the past, but she makes me wait, she’s for the streets!” and stuff, but like… how do men even know?

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-03T21:04:12+00:00

lol someone just got modded for posting Limp Bizkit lyrics. Bless your hearts PPD mods.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-05-03T21:54:49+00:00

Matched with a 43 year old woman on tinder (40 miles away with pictures and all. Zero secrecy) as shes said “all my friends are married so they would not be on her anyway”

The other day we’re chatting and I come to find out shes married with kids and shes on tinder to cheat because she had found some pictures of her husband with another woman from a few years back but he does not know that she knows. She said that “I didn’t say anything about it but eventually I was like fuck it if he’s gonna do it so am I”

She said her and her husband have been doing their own thing for years and they have not had sex in years. She said her husband is latino/hispanic and is racist towards black men.

We continued talking and shes telling me how last year she did so much vile shit with black men that she would not even think of doing with her husband.

Her words: “Cheating is a rush too tbh. Especially when I’m doing stuff that I never let him do”

“I’d actually love to cuck him. Should just be me having fun.”

Im going to copy, verbatim, some of the things she has said through text detailing her escapades last year:

“Well I was with someone for awhile, very aggressive personality, didn’t take no for an answer. We did pretty much everything”

“Well he started sharing me with his friends which was hot but then he wanted to basically pimp me out to strangers and I drew a line”

“Yeah. They were all close by so they’d roll by my job at lunch and use me in their cars. Lovvvvved the race play stuff”

“Also you never know. Some of that guy’s friends weren’t exactly hot but I did all sorts of dirty shit with them anyway”

“This one guy was pretty heavy, only liked getting head, prob too fat to fuck well lol. He would roll by my job (I work at a school) and text me “get out here white slut” and off I’d go, and after he nutted I had to drink his piss too”

“They filmed a lot of it. Hopefully it never gets out lmao”

“All the people I know are either married or children so like if anyone is going to see me it’s someone else who’s cheating lol”

“2 guys at once, then 3 guys at once, all holes used”

“Being pissed on and pissed in, eating multiple asses”

“One guy really liked hurting me, would whip my boobs and ass”

“Think it was more of a power move. Like I was there to be used for their pleasure and not for mine. I mean I definitely came from it. The sheer depravity of it all lol”

“I think I was fucked out for awhile lol. But we recover. Hence back on tinder”

”Being used by a group of black men multiple times a week in the filthiest ways possible is exhausting 🤕. Don’t get me wrong I loved it, just a lot”

“Kinda do wish I had some of those videos they were wild”

“Laying on my side getting ass fucked hard while another guy was switching between fucking my face and sitting on it. I think about that moment a lot lol”

“Well I came to realize that my destiny was to be a set of holes for black men to use and abuse”

“a guy pissed inside me once and wow i came like immediately”

“also loved when my tits and ass were whipped so hard i had black and blues for weeks. lovvvvvve when guys hurt my tits. i want to try someone burning them”

I have NO idea why I am posting this lol but it was very entertaining and something i wanted to share. I understand the man was unfaithful as well but there is truly nothing compared to a woman scorned. God only knows what the husband is doing and the fact that there are kids involved makes it even more insane but hopefully they never find out which they most likely wont as her husband is oblivious to her revenge infidelity. She said she has been celibate for over a year. We talked about divorce and she said once kids are involved you gotta put up with shit you wouldn’t normally

Just wild stuff

saraimarsena · 2023-05-03T22:34:38+00:00

low body count does not necessarily = doesn’t enjoy sex

waiting to vet before sleeping w someone also does not necessarily = doesn’t enjoy sex. it also doesn’t always mean she’s not attracted to you.

being in a DB is a valid fear and concern that anyone can have, so it at least makes sense to look for other markers of genuine interest and attraction.

but i see those assumptions on here quite a lot recently. it may be true in some cases, but it is not automatically the case.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-05-04T02:12:26+00:00

PPD men hate tattoos. That said, my husband surprised me with a new tattoo today for my birthday. It’s good to have a spouse who supports your hobbies.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-04T19:16:59+00:00

Why are so many guys here just scared of just saying “I am speaking for myself and speaking on my own experiences”? Why do they think their anecdotes always have to be projected onto everyone else.

For example, instead of saying “Everyone’s miserable because theyre having less sex” just say “I am miserable because I believe sex is the only thing making me happy”.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-05-04T20:31:50+00:00

Lilith is alright with me but she hates radfems 😥

LILITH I MADE YOU A SCARF OUT OF MY ANTI-PATRIARCHAL LEG HAIR PLS LOVE ME 🥺🥺

old_new_age · 2023-05-03T20:50:45+00:00

Cant use certain words thanks to those angry virgins. I see why women hate them mfs now.

freshlywaxednutsack · 2023-05-04T00:25:47+00:00

My boyfriend and I do this really silly thing where I put on a shirt and ask him what he thinks, he’ll say “Mhmm let me see” as he squishes his entire face between my boobs and we both laugh because it is so dumb. Cute things like this make relationships so special.

danielwastaken · 2023-05-04T21:58:15+00:00

Something that I find really attractive about women is when they have contrasting likes and interests. Like if a girl likes heavy metal and deathcore while also loving "girly" things like cute dresses I get so much more into her. Do women feel the same about men?

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-05-03T19:25:29+00:00

i knew i shouldn't've come back, this sub's gotten me fucked up again

GlasgaAccentfurYanks · 2023-05-03T19:53:55+00:00

Average Adam should make a return.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-03T19:56:15+00:00

Anyone else get the urge to just give up on everything and let your life just sink into complete disrepair? God that sounds amazing rn

2023-05-03T20:44:57+00:00

Everyday I wake up, I try to remind myself how blessed I am to have lived, even though I have lived a somewhat sinful and pitiful life. While I most likely will be dying alone when I'm old, at least I had the chance to go out my own way.

lolmastr13 · 2023-05-03T21:25:12+00:00

Something that I’ve wondered is how normal is it to crave female validation and to what extent?

Should men with good careers and hobbies be satisfied even if they don’t get any female validation?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-05-03T23:20:40+00:00

Should we collect some (extremely biased through bad sampling techniques but just for fun) data?

-What’s your gender?

-What’s your n count?

-What would be the ideal frequency for sex per week for you?

Edit: Quick results with the disclaimer that this is EXTREMELY IMPROPER PRACTICE and BAD STATS:

It appears that for men, there is a near-zero correlation between n count and libido (not significant)

And for women, there is a negative correlationbetween n count and libido, meaning as n count increases, libido decreases. (also not significant.)

Note: averaged any data that was given in a range, and excluded anyone who answered any of the questions with some variation of “idk”

Edit 2: I’ll run the regression analysis again tomorrow with any additional data points that people want to add, and see if it changes

PettyKlayThompson · 2023-05-03T23:44:02+00:00

Is the “misogynistic manwhore” a common thing? Most of the males in my family have slept around a lot. You’d think they’d be more open minded because of it, but they are 100% misogynists and Preach the “don’t wife a hoe”. But the type who’ll only show those beliefs when talking to other men. For example, I had a talk with my cousin about college and he told me “I hope you’re fucking those thots before they’re used up.” I had to give a dry laugh and say “yea yea”. My mom talks about how my dad was a slut before (2 of my siblings have different mothers), and my own brother had sex with the woman I clearly had crushes on. Craziest thing is that most of them are happily (from what I can tell) married. I’m still working on breaking down my own beliefs stemming from growing up around that.

Also what’s everyone’s favorite hobby that they probably spend way too much money on? I’ve thought of the money I’ve burnt making music and it made me almost puke.

JackieMoonJersey · 2023-05-04T01:14:30+00:00

Does anyone else wish they were asexual or aromantic? Like this is also so complex and time consuming that I’d honestly just wish I didn’t care about any of it at all. I’m trying to work on not caring about sexual history; and also controlling emotional feelings for casual sex. And now I really envy those who just follow the “when you’re ready it’ll come to you “ approach for sex and romance

old_new_age · 2023-05-04T17:08:07+00:00

im just spitballin but it seems like the bad boy discourse kinda goes like this:

-the best thing you can do to attract women is be an outgoing, assertive, attractive person, who knows themselves well, knows what they want, sets healthy boundaries, helps people when they can and is overall a good, upstanding citizen

-the second best thing you can do to attract women is be kind of a piece of shit, but still assertive, confident, maybe be unnecessarily blunt, "tell it like it is," be manipulative when necessary, show your masculinity by being loud and abrasive

-the worst thing you can do is nothing

and I think a lot of guys are kind of in the third camp, where maybe they're not literally doing nothing, but, at the very least, they're confused as to why guys who are seemingly assholes are better off than them. maybe it's kinda like the "all publicity is good publicity" thing, where the main goal is really just "putting yourself out there," and putting yourself out there as a horrible person is actually better than not putting yourself out there at all (but nobody tells guys this)

samtheaccountant · 2023-05-04T17:33:26+00:00

Might as well just hope the drop in my T levels over time lessens my desire for romantic and sexual intimacy, so I just don’t care for it anymore. Go full monk mode.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-04T18:30:42+00:00

demisexual ain’t real it’s cap

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DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-03T19:06:25+00:00

Q4W: do you need to feel special in a relationship? Why do you need to feel special?

I never understood it. It just seems to be a given that in any relationship I would be dropped for somebody better if the opportunity arose.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-05-03T19:33:58+00:00

If you only pull uggos you ain’t HV mang sorry you a beta

hdjdjr3 · 2023-05-03T20:35:07+00:00

I have noticed that a huge chunk of men on here have (or at least claim to have) a lot of expirience with women and dating in general. Even some women here have (or claim to have) boyfriends who are in the top 20%

Do you guys think that there is some weird correlation between being succesfull at dating and commenting on PPD?

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-05-03T20:48:04+00:00

Is there anything women can say that men can’t say here or something?

TigerRude4 · 2023-05-03T21:51:39+00:00

I can't judge my own attractiveness to save my life, I matched with some hot women on old, but I don't really have a high match rate though and I only got few dates on old, but not from those hot women. But when I look in the mirror I don't see an attractive man, probably below average.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-05-03T22:39:11+00:00

Is there a woman equivalent to AF/BB?

Becky bucks/Stacy fucks?

LeaveNCountAlone · 2023-05-03T22:53:01+00:00

Going to a fancy schmancy restaurant for date number 3 🍣🍱

ArtisticReverseLayup · 2023-05-04T00:11:37+00:00

The way the internet and certain groups make it sound, wide majority people are actively searching for new sexual partners all the time when outside relationships. But from what I’ve seen most people just take what comes when it comes, outside of extremely horny times during dry spells. Even amongst youth (and ignoring terminally online/socially inept people) I’d be surprised if they end up with more than 10-30 sexual partners during their lifetime.

Also what’s everyone’s favorite sport to play? I play basketball on the weekends but I’m interested in trying out snowboarding. It’s one of those things that immediately just look fun.

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-05-04T01:30:05+00:00

Just the everyday reminder that women can break PPD rules with no repercussion while if you have a penis every single of your comments will be analyzed with a microscope to give you a ban.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-04T16:56:19+00:00

Its weird to see people say Gen Z is over-diagnosed with problems. From my experience, parents would rather deny their kids have mental disorders.

teball3 · 2023-05-04T17:51:42+00:00

I'm going to be real with y'all. I've been here a while and I still can't tell the difference between blue pillers and purple pillers like 90% of the time.

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-04T17:52:03+00:00

Another dating app (Hinge) observation: Why do they have options for drinking, cigs, and weed for 'yes', 'no', and 'sometimes'? Isn't it binary? Either you do or you don't. Or if you're gonna put sometimes, be like Bumble and have the other options be 'never' and 'regularly'.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-05-04T17:53:17+00:00

https://www.bankrate.com/mortgages/single-women-pursue-homeownership/

Single women own more homes than Men.

Housing market crashes.

Men will be blamed.

https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2022/09/26/women-now-outnumber-men-in-the-u-s-college-educated-labor-force/#:~:text=This%20shift%20in%20the%20college,a%20bachelor's%20degree%20each%20year.

Women now go to college more than men

Student debt explodes.

Men will be blamed.

I kid. I kid!

Peacesquad · 2023-05-04T19:30:12+00:00

Please

False_Cod_4747 · 2023-05-04T19:41:09+00:00

Q4F: Y'all ever fart and have it slide up the front?

TigerRude4 · 2023-05-03T19:02:03+00:00

First bitches

GlasgaAccentfurYanks · 2023-05-03T19:05:24+00:00

No one is owed sex. No one is owed a relationship.

This is the oft repeated coda of modern living among autonomous adult men and women. Online anyway.

Is it true?

Why does disappointment exist? Why does longing exist? Are all of the collective problems of humans misplaced expectations?

Animal desire - socialized - through a cultural matrix, some psychological hokum and here we are ready for rational thinking mating practices.

Why am I not owed sex? Why am I not owed a relationship?

By the sweat of my own brow, if I strive through sheer will and effort to attain possibly the most valued of things (human relationships/ experiences of love with another) - how can I be sure I didn't earn it - I didn't make that happen, that I took the best of what I knew and left behind the debris, the mistakes and folly that life sets upon most people and attained the realm of being competent, at the doors of the bare minimum - then in the great aftermath, was charming, stylish, fit, healthy - savvy, witty and interesting, self-sufficient and perhaps lovable - kind, curious - content with little.

Why then, I think I would be owed the world, for it had already been gifted to me, if for a brief time only.

Nothing is guaranteed.

But if you actually think you are not owed a relationship, not owed sex - it translates as unworthy - that is some terrifically bad self-esteem. You have to be resolute and fearless in the approach for such things, to take rejection in your stride and laugh at seriousness at which people take life, life in all its fragility.

There is no time to doubt yourself.

But what you owe others - is love. Abandon everything else.

ooooooh edgy stuff huh, deep thinker at work...

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-03T19:27:05+00:00

Man, Hinge is such a wasteland. Once you get past the fat chicks, drug addicts, and single moms there are like ten decent girls on there.

jackedsoon · 2023-05-03T20:04:22+00:00

Just checked my hinge stats on my restart

450 likes sent out ~50 matches

Pretty decent ngl kinda proud of myself. Still haven’t gone on a date yet but that’s on me being lazy tbh

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-03T20:08:35+00:00

Women.

dbz__f · 2023-05-03T23:38:37+00:00

Just did a big stinky poo

Smells worse than usual. Better get that air freshener out

Edit: holy shit there’s still more

False_Cod_4747 · 2023-05-04T00:53:08+00:00

If your dick is within the realm of normal sized and your chick says it's the perfect size for her, an extra say quarter inch of girth would add just that little bit of extra filled out feeling and sensation for her. If she then fucked this hypothetical dick for say a year and got used to it, another quarter inch would add that extra feeling and sensation again... And so on to an extent...

Moral of the story, assuming you're not massively hung the better feeling dick for your chick is just slightly bigger than yours. Thoughts?

saraimarsena · 2023-05-04T01:44:51+00:00

ugh how do you effectively reheat rice ???

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-04T02:11:44+00:00

I "just paid attention to her" and she ignored me/called me a creep. What next?

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/136xhkr/just_pay_attention_to_her/

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-04T02:30:28+00:00

What do yall think about Eboni K Williams saying she wouldn't date a bus driver unless she owned the bus?

https://news.yahoo.com/eboni-k-williams-tells-iyanla-145218062.html

Iyanla basically told her that her standards are too high and social media is split. I think what Eboni said is normal and represent the majority of highly paid women. They always want to date men "on their level" financially, even if they're single in their 40s. Meanwhile rich men can date a minimum wage making woman without issue as long as she's cute and nice. It is what it is.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-04T16:49:55+00:00

CMV: Some Red Pill men just want to be treated like females and that shit is sus af it ain’t masculine at all it’s cringe and beta behavior

jobbo321 · 2023-05-04T16:58:08+00:00

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DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-04T17:08:16+00:00

CMV: We need to shame any lingering female behavior out of the men here, it’s an act of compassion for these lost men

0DarkFlirty · 2023-05-04T17:38:00+00:00

I actually like paying for my girl's nails, hair and clothes as long as she doesn't abuse my generosity. Maybe after we've been exclusive for like 9 months or so. Don't believe the nonsense tiktoks about dating a "baddie" where you HAVE to buy all these gifts and fund her lifetyle before she gets with you. Nuh uh. Nah. If anything these simps drop $400 for her hair when that shit costs $150 and she spends the rest on another dude. Now that's just gay.

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-04T17:46:47+00:00

Conservative women on dating apps are not actually conservative. They just want hot blue collar men or men who will pay for everything. If you claim to be conservative, but drink underage or smoke weed, you're not a real conservative. You're just an opportunist.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-05-04T18:47:36+00:00

Q4M: if you are in a relationship and another girl hits on you in front of your wife/gf, what would you want her response to be?

WelderThese2755 · 2023-05-04T19:17:49+00:00

Question for Redpill and Blackpill:

What do you think of autistic mens’ chances with women? I myself am an autistic 17 year old, and I would like to know how likely an autistic man is to find a girlfriend. Do you still think autistic mens’ have a chance, or do you believe women have already written them off as too unattractive? I’m not Redpill or Blackpill, but I’d like to hear from both sides. Bluepilled people are able to give their opinions here if they wish, as I want to hear both sides.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-04T19:30:03+00:00

q4a: do you agree with this?

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/kWioVwMRvDk

Convinceparents · 2023-05-03T19:09:45+00:00

Question for all: for men that have been with sexually inexperienced women, how did you teach her what to do to sexually satisfy you? For women, what tricks have you used in the past that works? (I recently kind of gotten engaged- we don’t get engaged in my culture, we ask parents for blessings and they just did so we’re planning the next step together). My friends recommend watching porn but I also heard they’re not realistic.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-03T20:50:32+00:00

Q4(straight) Men:

How many erect penii have you seen in your entire life (not including porn or your own)?

Ciabatta_Scoober · 2023-05-04T18:24:34+00:00

It’s kinda sad how terminally online blue pillers on here are.

You point out issues you see in real life and they just lob studies that aren’t actually relevant, but they have saved because all their opinions on dating come from online instead of having friends and family in the dating market.

Edit: lol, then you link a study that proves your point and they claim the study must be wrong because it doesn’t fit their narrative.

CannIGetUhhhh · 2023-05-03T19:38:34+00:00

We have no evidence that women are capable of loving men because for the majority of the world's history it was pretty much forced. With 50% of gen z women bring "bi" it might not actually be that way

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-05-04T19:43:42+00:00

men having outbursts over words comes from a place of lacking masculinity and feminine behavior

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-03T19:29:01+00:00

Ok l just have to address this

Because it seems many women here still have no understanding of the male sex drive

When a man looks at a woman, two things happen in the sex drive

This woman is so beautiful l wanna have kids with her immediately, this sexual feeling puts her being a 7,8,9
This woman is unattractive but if l was really really really desperate and had a crazy day, l might hookup with her. This are unattractive/ugly but despite that, still get male sexual attention

Am sure we all have a story of an unattractive woman getting thousands of dms from desperate men

GlasgaAccentfurYanks · 2023-05-03T19:10:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/136if7y/cmv_most_men_would_be_content_with_women_at_least/

We really letting men post this soft ass beta shit and ask “Why ain’t I got bitches?”

This is why you ain’t got bitches. Bitches want men, lesbian women and some bi women only want bitches. We lesbians and bisexual women now all of sudden?

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