Daily Community Chat Megathread

jobbo321 · 2023-05-05T20:59:56+00:00

Would women give the same advice that goes along the lines of "stop your pathetic self pity, stop being obsessed with finding a girlfriend" in the scenario that a woman would complain that she's depressed because she can't find a boyfriend?

Patient-Exit-3606 · 2023-05-05T20:00:28+00:00

Last thing for today, cuz I feel like I’m spamming and spending way too much time online.

This isn’t related to pillsphere topics either, but you guys are always up for discussion of moral quandaries, so here goes:

Do you think it’s immoral if I sign for for charity 5ks that I know I’m gonna win in order to get the prize money, and then not donate at least a portion of the profits back? Cuz on one hand, mathematically, paying the entry fee adds money that the charity wouldn’t have received otherwise (somebody else would have won the prize money, instead of me, but there’d be one less participant in the race.) On the other, like… they’re for charity, and I feel like it’s demoralizing to average runners who show up to these small races and have high hopes of winning, you know? I feel like an adult playing a sport against 10 yos, collecting a trophy afterwards.

I could run more competitive races, but then I’d risk the money I spend on the entry fees. And I could donate a portion of the prize money back to the charity, but then, obviously, I’m not able to put as much towards my financial goals…

Why do I feel like such an asshole keeping the money? Thoughts?

meteorness123 · 2023-05-05T19:18:10+00:00

Q : Do you think women are capable of truly loving a man whom they are not related to ?

meteorness123 · 2023-05-05T19:00:59+00:00

Q4everybody : Is vitamin d deficiency a meme or did things actually get better for you once you began to supplement it ?

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-05-05T18:51:59+00:00

Sheryl Sandberg:

“When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner."

Patient-Exit-3606 · 2023-05-05T18:50:03+00:00

My butt isn’t huge, but it’s round and perky, and I like it a lot. I like the rest of my body too.

I think people get too much shit for liking their appearance.

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-05-05T18:45:05+00:00

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DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-05T18:40:10+00:00

If your planning on smash

Then ask her to invite you at HER place

Trust me in my experience girls get so comfortable when the sex is happening at their place

hdjdjr3 · 2023-05-05T18:31:19+00:00

Yesterday I went on a “surprise date” (it was not supposed to be a date but other people bailed and only me and this girl showed up) with a girl met on an online group.

Since we were only the two of us we ditched the original plan of going to a restaraunt and went ice skating (my idea). We both sucked at it but we had a good laugh.

After ice skating we went to a bar and took a couple of drinks and chatted for another couple hours (we splitted the bill). After that I took her to her car and asked for her number with the excuse of checking if she arrived home safe. She gave it to me.

Today I sent her a meme and as of now we are chatting a lot (we have also done a 3 hour long phone call) but i feel like it’s too platonic, there are no flirty text. Even during the “date” we did nothing physical.

She asked me to hang out with her and two friends of hers (those two friends are in a relationship) this Saturday. Do you think she is into me? Or just see me as a friend?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-05T18:28:31+00:00

I've only been working out for 2 weeks and I already can't wait to shed this fat off. It'll be nice to walk around without a shirt and not be embarassed.

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-05T18:12:37+00:00

Half the Bumble profiles I see say ‘dm me on insta’ or ‘my snap is’. Girls are so allergic to making the first move my god.

gat15 · 2023-05-05T18:01:02+00:00

What would you think of a guy with a girl best friend?

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-05T17:57:49+00:00

More jewels from the ask Mrp subreddit:

I have been married for 10 years and my wife is a medical resident who gained some weight due to working 80+ hours a week to become a medical doctor and financially provide for me. She has been too exhausted to have frequent sex with me due to her going through the hell that is medical residency and I got angry and went on Hinge and now I have multiple side chick plates that I spin. My wife got angry when she found out. How do I maintain frame?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-05T17:41:19+00:00

You rarely choose something independent of the actions of someone else.

This is what a lack of personal responsibility looks like.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-05T17:39:52+00:00

People who stay together "for the kids" are straight capping. You are staying together for you because you are scared of change. Divorced parents are 100% better than witnessing
parents in a dysfunctional relationship.

scwizard · 2023-05-05T17:28:21+00:00

/u/gofigure62 /u/januaryphilosopher and /u/TermAggravating8043 and /u/BigVulvaEnergy all of you girls saying that a guy who has a newborn absolutely can't afford to play 5 hours of D&D every other week.

How many kids do you have, and how much time did those kids dads spend with them when they were babies?

I'm wondering how out of pocket the dad's behavior is compared to your lived experiences as moms.

Reference to: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/137y5hh/daily_community_chat_megathread/jiz8p94/

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-05T17:25:57+00:00

My good homie whos been together with his wife for a decade is moving forward with his divorce. I now have zero married friends 😞

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-05T17:15:59+00:00

Again never understood this concept of opening up for guys

If many guys feel insecure about opening up towards their woman

Then obviously just go to your male friends and talk about it

Whenever l had serious problems to talk about, either my brother or friends

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-05-05T16:56:39+00:00

My boss just told me about a promotion opportunity, better pay...but do I want to do the work?

I feel like I'm just now settling into my newish role; I inherited 4 accounts a year ago, and I'm going help launch a new account which will bring my total to 5 accounts. The most on my team, but also the smallest in volume.

I'm just now feeling like a part of the team in terms of banter, friendliness, knowledge of personal life, etc. For the entire time I've been at this company I've been on 3 teams, but only briefly before I'm whisked off to a new department.

Its like I get a position, get my feet under me, and then its off to a new dept/role because of some outside shit I can't control. I don't mind bouncing around in positions because its given me some broad knowledge, but I also don't have any true authority born from years with an account.

Also I liked being siloed away from the client and just being a workhorse; don't have to talk to anyone, just do my shit and send the reports. But the new position requires that front face persona; the person that hosts the meetings, travels to the client, does the presentations, etc.

Earlier this year I had to give a brief presentation to my department regarding on one of my client's successful campaigns and I about passed out from nerves and anxiety. I suppose it gets easier the more you do it but....ehh...I'm not a natural public speaker.

My overly caution nature says stay in my lane, get better at what I do, and then try to advance in a year, but then I'm like, inflation sucks, I want more money.

Wat do?

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-05T16:53:40+00:00

Talking to this IT woman about dating

She wants the men who go on dates to pay even though she makes more than the majority of them

Couldn't understand the logic behind that

But came to a conclusion about women still having lady traits after 50 yrs now

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-05-05T16:50:35+00:00

Q4M: for the men who do not struggle getting women (not necessarily super attractive guys) but just guys who do not struggle getting casual sex

If you work, how much salary do you think is enough to be comfortable and continue casual relationships? (Factor in where you live of course)

Like how much did you start making before you said “fuck it, this is is enough for me. I can get consistent casual sex. I dont need to slave anymore”

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-05T16:41:01+00:00

Q4W: How do you feel about guys reading erotica? Is it the same as watching porn to you? Is it too feminine a hobby?

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-05T16:35:04+00:00

Some people from my school have such victim complexes about minor things. Like "oh no I have high-functioning autism and ADHD I'm basically non-functional" like bitch you go to one of the best liberal arts schools in the country. If you couldn't function, you wouldn't be here. Calm down.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-05T16:33:01+00:00

Some career women can be insufferable.

https://www.reddit.com/r/fatFIRE/comments/1358opq/wife_of_a_fatfire/

A "strong independent" woman marries a rich man 15 years older than her with $25-30m net worth without a prenup. But now she's lamenting about how she can't "create her own wealth" or become an accomplished career women. She needs more "career achievements" to feel good about herself. She's concerned about even taking maternity leave because of the "gap of a few weeks in her career" when she should be concerned about how to be a good mother.

If she wanted her career to take priority in her relationship, she too can marry someone who is much poorer than her like many men do. She was able to marry someone rich because she's a woman, while most men don't have the ability to marry someone rich. Nobody just stumbles into a relationship with a rich person worth that much who is 15 years older than them. She went out of her way to hunt for a rich husband and is now lamenting that her career isn't a priority anymore. She dug her own grave.

False_Cod_4747 · 2023-05-05T16:30:58+00:00

Would you date someone you wouldn't marry?

I treat dating like the precursor or feeling out process. As soon as I got to the point where I didn't see it working out long-term I'd end it. Why spend more time than necessary when I could be looking for a more compatible partner?

I initially thought most people would think like this but it seems lots would stay whether it's for the accessibility to sex, to not be alone in the meantime, to have an option but still look for better on the sides, etc.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-05-05T16:30:41+00:00

This has been a wild week. I slept with two new women, both originally from Ukraine. This war and it's effects are going to be studied for decades after!

Guys, you have to give up on Amy, Sara, Jen. You need to be seeing the influx of Yuliya and Ekatarina. They are young, incredibly sexy women. AND they are interesting after, they are just so damn feminine and intelligent, instead of the current pink hair freaks with their clits numb from their furious hitachi wands, overweight on vegetarian crap and bug food, bingeing whatever netflix show of the week.

Best bet to find these new comers are at your local eastern european nail salons. They are GORGEOUS, and surprisingly upbeat despite the atrocities that are currently happening in their homeland.

I suspect in the future, there will be such a large population of incredible women in Russia that will want out. The war has chewed up men in their prime.

WestCombSplit · 2023-05-05T16:30:00+00:00

Hollywood and celebrities are the ultimate grifters

dysonRing · 2023-05-05T16:28:32+00:00

https://youtu.be/qCdktKARBDs?t=180

Alpha widowing. BTW Gilliam Jacob's has the GOAT profile face. Like seriously no one is more beautiful from the side.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-05-05T16:22:00+00:00

Dating app Hinge has a prompt: “my biggest date fail was…”

Typical answer? “He bought me food but I was allergic” or some variation on “he did all the work but it was unsatisfactory for some reason.”

I’m not a men’s right zealot but women are ridiculously entitled during courtship

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-05-05T16:15:41+00:00

Why do progressives/BPers make up this grand narrative of homophobia/sexism/etc… when a guy is okay with his partner doing stuff with a girl, but not a guy? Isn’t a much simpler explanation that girl just can’t make another girl pregnant so his instincts don’t tell him to mate guard?

scwizard · 2023-05-05T16:10:07+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1389q68/my_36m_wife_34f_has_asked_me_to_give_up_a_hobby_i/

Why do some women get like this once they have babies? Suddenly wanting to ban fun. Like now you can't even play games every other week because that isn't helping out the babies.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-05T16:07:43+00:00

I've come to conclusion after many discussions of the man cheating and people still questioning if he loves her or not

I think men should do two things in this situations

Marry both woman, both your main one and the other one

Or

Don't let her find out

I would personally go with having both woman as my wives

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-05T16:06:20+00:00

It's so fun being mansplained about my menstrual cycle by a 20-something who can't get a date.

I fully understand why some of y'all struggle. 😂💀

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-05T16:04:57+00:00

Director and playwright of a play that got a Russian award are arrested for "justification of terrorism" in their play. The play is about Russian women who try to get to Syria to marry radicals and it's clearly against terrorism. You have to read it using your ass and not eyes to get it the other way. Ironically enough the "expertise" of their play found both justification of terrorism and some radical feminism "that is as dangerous as terrorism".

I guess next time they'll arrest Dostoevsky for justifying killing grannies.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-05T15:44:36+00:00

Parody of every dating podcast

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYStD5G3_xQ&ab_channel=FreedomToons

"I am smarter than the hot 18 year old" lmaoo

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-05T15:42:04+00:00

A man can give up, but that gnawing will be in the background of everything he does. It will gnaw and gnaw and dig and burrow into their head until it's too much. In which case they will be told 'you're not enough'. 'You're not worthy.' 'You're a terrible person, why would anyone want to be with you.' 'Do as I say or you'll die alone.' 'You must alter your personality, your appearance, your mind, body and soul.' It's a lose lose.

So person wants something, but can't get it. Also, person refuses to make any changes to achieve their goal. Now person is lamenting that desire still being there while blaming society.

I don't see a reason to pity lazy people. It’s like hearing a fat girl complain about being fat and also insist she doesn't want to drastically change herself to stop being fat..

Also, if this is what men mean about “being vulnerable”, I can see why women’s pussies are drying. They want a man, not a baby boy.

Patient-Exit-3606 · 2023-05-05T15:33:46+00:00

https://youtu.be/V4ul7i97_bE

“Wah wah, lifting won’t fix my face”

GO TO THE GYM AND STOP EATING LIKE A FAT FUCK.

baresquad · 2023-05-05T15:32:19+00:00

The woe is me attitude gotta be what’s currently turning women off from average men the most.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-05T15:32:00+00:00

Full moon has arrived, and so has my period.

Told my partner this am to not even breathe in my direction.

Pity him. He's in a dead bedroom for a week.

Maffioze · 2023-05-05T15:27:49+00:00

The wall doesn't exist for women, it exists for any man who tries to talk to Lillth.

scwizard · 2023-05-05T15:04:37+00:00

Gotta love the growing movement against no-fault divorce!

Last year, I said this would happen. People said I was nuts at the time, but I saw it coming. They'll go after our property rights and ability to work for pay next. They won't be satisfied until we have the legal status of chattel.

Yeah they're gonna force all women to wear collars with tags that have their owners names on them. Maybe cat ears too.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-05T14:33:21+00:00

An example of a post I saw years ago on married red pill:

I 47(M) have been with my forever girlfriend, 27(F) for 10 years. We used to have sex every day. Her dad died 6 weeks ago and we haven’t had sex since then. She is depressed and lies in bed. How do I get her to put out? Should I cheat on her? Should I break up with her? Also she took time off of work and I am worried she will get fired for taking too much time off and use me for my resources. She still cooks and cleans.

AlphaMale20000: you need to use dread game on her. tell her you’re going out but don’t tell her where. Stay out for several hours. When you get home, tell her that you went to the gym and met a cute personal trainer and that she gave you her number. Joke that because she hasn’t had sex with you for so long that you considered taking up that offer because the trainer is a babe. Chuckle to yourself.

JohnRedPill: you should have dumped that b**** the second she didn’t have sex with you. Entitled c*** she is post wall and ungrateful that you even give her the time of day.

quaker5 · 2023-05-05T14:19:07+00:00

has the popularization of Japanese and Korean media in the west increased the SMV of East Asian men?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-05T14:16:18+00:00

When they 'fix' themselves, it's like saying there's something broken about you. You can't live your life how you want, you have to do what we want you to do.

You can't say shit like that while whining about being an undateable social pariah. Otherwise, it displays stupidity and cognitive dissonance.

Dont gloat about being a maverick if you cant handle being a pariah.

Or simply: If you’re happy with your situation, DONT WHINE ABOUT IT.

I think the manosphere is filled who want to be “The Badass” but dont have the fortitude nor the willingness to sacrifice to achieve it, so they blame other people for his personal failures instead.

Willow-girl · 2023-05-05T14:14:33+00:00

There has been justice for Priscilla.

Slipthe · 2023-05-05T13:49:14+00:00

I keep thinking about using Obsidian to make a Wikipedia page of everyone I know, so that I can list facts about them like their favorite dessert.

So then gift giving it 10x easier and looks super thoughtful lol.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-04T20:51:23+00:00

Red Pill Men: “why do women say men are bad??? We are nice”

Also Red pill men:

I pretend to be open minded to get women to open up about their sexual history so that I can reject them for their past

I convinced a lady to be in a harem

it’s not cheating when a man has sex with other women. I will debate about this until the end of time

I call women “holes” and get defensive when women say it’s a turn off

I hate every woman I have ever had sex with

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-05-05T03:44:52+00:00

My husband passed out in our toddler’s room, and she passed out in ours, and now I don’t know which sleepy baby to cuddle with

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-05T00:45:58+00:00

The women who are try justifying why they don't approach men are funny. "it's just in my feminine nature to like being chased after"

Everyone likes to be chased after and to get free validation without risking rejection. You're avoiding approaching and chasing after people because it's a lot of work and sucks to get rejected.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-05T03:28:00+00:00

The annoying part of twoxchromosomes is that you can't comment disagreeing with any of the narrative. It's a circlejerk beehive.

There are a lot of unhinged takes and misandrist stereotyping of men. I don't care that they're offensive but it's annoying to not be able to argue when a lot of the takes are wrong and easily argued against.

Momitar · 2023-05-04T23:03:01+00:00

Everyone should learn how to engage in casual conversation.

Frequent the same grocery store often, talk with the meat counter guys. “Hey Greg (name tag), how’s it going? What would you recommend for meat today?” Engage in small talk for a minute or two.

At the Deli counter, “Don’t worry about getting that sandwich meat right on the pound. I’m not too worried if it’s over some.” Typical response, “You’d be surprised by how many people do.” “Yeah, people can be nutty sometimes even when there’s no need for it.” Engage in small talk for a minute or two.

Checking out and you arrive at the same time as someone else who has less stuff than you, wave them on ahead. “Go ahead, I’m not in the huge of a hurry.”

Cashier, “Hey Hollie, been busy today?” Engage in small talk for a minute.

Mailman, “Thanks man! Appreciate the effort. Take care out there.”

And here’s the trick. Make an effort to remember one thing they said to you and the next time you go back to the place and they are working, ask them about it.

Engage with strangers in the store too. Peak in their cart and see if there is something there to start a quick conversation. “Making pasta tonight?” “Sounds good! You recommend that pasta sauce?”

Standing in the beer isle and see dude checking out a brand of beer, “That one any good?”

Doesn’t matter if it’s only a few words, helps build up people skills and learning cues in interactions. Talk to both genders, young and old. You’re not trying to score dates, you’re just socializing for a minute or two and building up “soft skills”.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-05-04T20:35:59+00:00

Lonely men cold approaching women on their own in bars raise the hackles of more nervous women. Get yourself a wingman. Approach a group of women and get the party started. It gives off much less creepy vibes if you have a friend.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-04T21:26:14+00:00

This is the correct late night talk show host ranking. In no particular order :

Conan O brien

Letterman

Craig Ferguson

bootyhunter69420 · 2023-05-04T22:48:47+00:00

men get mad when we offer them advice

Look, get hobbies, socialize, look good etc is all great advice, but it’s not actionable and sounds like bullshit if not expanded upon which it never is. It’s like telling someone who’s depressed just be happy, if it was that easy they’d do it. Just very blue pill thinking

TRP helps you giving actual actionable advice and by giving the reasons behind it

This again is where blue pillers and women fall short in actually convincing anyone to listen. Men have constantly heard your “advice” it’s not really advice. They’re asking how to act upon the general advice that is constantly repeated. You can’t expect people who are asking for help to “just get it” or they wouldn’t be asking for help

saraimarsena · 2023-05-05T02:42:29+00:00

thoughts on this tiktok about girls liking nice guys ?

me personally i 100% agree, and what she said was exactly my first thought.

being kind and funny isn’t going to turn an ugly guy attractive.

being caring and funny will absolutely have me falling for a guy who’s passed the looks threshold that i find physically attractive.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-05T09:30:17+00:00

Being "nice" is a secondary characteristic, akin to a misdemeanor charge. It only has worth if you have other attractive traits going for you.

"He's funny, he's hot, he's got a swagger about him, and he's actually really nice!"

If the only thing you've got going for you is "being nice", you're just pretty damn uninteresting as a person.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-05T12:17:03+00:00

I think Im getting closer to the manosphere’s problem: Wanting to be simplistic. It appeals to guys who want things to be simple, even when simplicity is not possible.

Then with that in mind, a self-analysis would be difficult and overwhelming to handle. Would rather someone say what to do in a simple sentence.

“Just use tinder” is more simple than “go outside, be social, join clubs, make friends, get a social group, improve your life in general”.

“Women are hypergamous” is more simple than “women vary greatly, like men, based on their culture, social class, experiences, value system, interests,etc”.

“AWALT” is more simple than “Maybe I should vet for personality and stop blaming my bad experiences on all women.”

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-05-04T20:40:51+00:00

Ah, the memes write themselves nowadays.

I don't know who needs to hear this, but gassing someone up out of complete reality (which is something women frequently do with each other — oftentimes deliberately with malicious intention as this is how intra-female competition works) is actually one of the worst things you can do for their mental health and self-esteem in the long-term.

Sooner or later, reality is going to hit them like a semi in a head-on collision, and it's going to make them even feel worse than they may feel now.

If you want to compliment someone, compliment something that is actually positive and good about them instead of just saying they're so perfect and '1000/10!!1'.

Getting complimented by a guy as a guy is actually note-worthy of something, because it's usually tied to some positive trait or behavior you exhibited and/or something you achieved.

Getting "complimented" by a girl as a girl is usually artificial. It can be an inflated compliment, or it can be a backhanded compliment; or maybe even be a thinly veiled insult and/or tactic to make you end up doing something that makes you look worse.

Very reminiscent of the body fat movements telling people who are obese and likely have heart disease and other highly associated comorbidities that they're 'perfectly healthy' and that you can be 'healthy at any size'. It's funny how the wealthier and abundant a society becomes — the more they need to sedate and delude themselves away from reality.

Meme for reference:

https://twitter.com/LocalBateman/status/1649515140528627717?cxt=HHwWioCzrfzRoOQtAAAA

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-05-04T21:30:38+00:00

Just the reminder women can break rules in PPD while men just get the shovel for basically nothing.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-04T21:47:10+00:00

I’ll never get over a guy who wanted to pull that “woe is me, women dont know how hard men have it getting rejected” bullshit, but given suggestions to mitigate these problems, he brushed it off. Im trying to figure out why guys here love to think that theyre deserving of pity when they put themselves in these situations, brushing off any alternatives.

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-05-05T00:44:33+00:00

yeah, we had online dating too! We had eHarmony back in our day, so online dating has changed nothin!

It's all the same thing! They even had iPhones in the 70s too.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-05T00:52:08+00:00

Men here be like “if she is a 31 year old virgin but made out with 2 guys in her life and gave her ex boyfriend a handful of handjobs then she rode the cock carousel and is a slut”

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-05T12:32:55+00:00

Do the Alpha LARPers here actually want people to believe them and think that they do, or is it just to fulfill their own little fantasy?

Like bruh, "Alphas" who are fucking multiple hot women at a time simply aren't going to be spending all their time constantly posting on this forum through various alt accounts...

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-05-04T20:00:34+00:00

LeaveNCountAlone · 2023-05-04T22:33:45+00:00

Waiting patiently for another picture purge thread

Nate_Reborn · 2023-05-05T01:53:05+00:00

How do I get a custom flair?

Downtown_Werewolf_44 · 2023-05-05T07:53:16+00:00

Spent some times on the french version of r/AmItheAsshole, there is a lot of post about relationship issues and some are basicaly mirroring situations.

The trend I noticed is that the guy is always wrong: It's either his fault or he should be more unterstanding, find out why is girlfriend is like that or accept her how she is.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-04T20:08:27+00:00

Cold approaching in malls is a great opportunity

Since you'll never see the women again

So it doesn't matter how bad you mess up the approach

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-04T20:17:44+00:00

Matched w/ another girl based on a movie we both like. Sent both girls I matched with messages. No responses yet, but I'm gonna give it a day.

How long do you think is reasonable to wait for a response before calling a match a lost cause?

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-04T20:37:54+00:00

Man, women do really care about height on dating apps. Such a fucking bummer.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-04T20:40:34+00:00

TwoXChromosomes is one of the most interesting subs on Reddit.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-04T20:44:20+00:00

Why do people assume l've beef with career women when they are just not my ideal relationship people

To me it shows male preferences aren't very welcoming in anyway

take_number_two · 2023-05-04T22:15:59+00:00

My theory is that it isn’t that women are only dating out of their league, it’s that a lot of young women just aren’t dating at all. Just talking from my own experience and that of my close friends. We say we want to meet someone but we don’t put ourselves out there (for different reasons)

Peacesquad · 2023-05-04T23:04:29+00:00

This is insane. I believe women go on girl trips to visit family and go to the museum! These guys are toxic patriarchy!

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/V4nyANwH7Qs

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-05-04T23:12:12+00:00

Holy fuck what an L this has to be as a father (Daughter is going on fresh and fit 😬)

scwizard · 2023-05-04T23:15:19+00:00

North Carolina’s Republican-controlled state Senate on Thursday passed legislation that would ban most abortions after 12 weeks.

North Carolina Republicans gained a veto-proof supermajority last month then-Democratic state Rep. Tricia Cotham switched parties. Cotham, who campaigned in favor of abortion rights as a Democrat, voted for the bill.

Sisterhood really is dead.

nsfw4throwaway · 2023-05-04T23:20:34+00:00

Went on a date with a gorgeous girl who's in an open relationship, she was pretty clear about what she's looking for, and seems to be mostly interested in sex, but also wants to do some date like activities: get drinks, watch movies, sorta FWB like shit. Other than just asking her for what her boundaries are, anyone have advice?

Last time I saw a girl who said she was in an open relationship, she was in fact not. and that shit kinda scared me off from it, didn't like feeling like a piece of shit for fucking her.

This one appears to be way more upfront about it, but still not quite sure what to make of it.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-04T23:39:05+00:00

Bill Maher is a legend. Not for his work but for this : The guy has never been lusted over by a woman in his life ever and he knows it. And he could not give less of a fuck about it. External validation can never be the solution.

Legend.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-05T00:48:46+00:00

This sounds spooky but I am convinced that a man's personality and his behavior can change a woman's physical perception of him.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-05T00:59:10+00:00

TRP seems to be all about external validation.

Short-term, fleeting external validation in the form of causal sex.

downward_spiral9494 · 2023-05-05T00:59:42+00:00

Im terrified of speaking to any woman

jobbo321 · 2023-05-05T09:43:00+00:00

Finally get a match again. Girl seems cute. After a day of conversation asks for my snapchat. See her last name on Snapchat, it sounds familiar. Turns out it's the younger sister (2 year age difference) of a female friend in high school whom I knew decently. I was in the same class as her for 6 years.

I wasn't interested in her but it still feels awkward talking to her younger sister.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-05-05T13:43:13+00:00

Q4A If you could only find out three pieces of information about a girl or guy (weight, age, job, bank balance etc) before you had to commit, what info would you pick?

Ainsleygz · 2023-05-05T13:44:26+00:00

Overall a lot of women here have wrong opinions because they assume other women are like them.

I know because I have done it as well. I've assumed sexual harassment isn't that common because I myself wouldn't do it.

The same logic applies here. Sorry ladies but just because you aren't a certain way doesn't mean other women aren't. You give other women too much credit.

Young women in big cities are indeed; -picky -selfish -vain -etc.

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BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-04T20:04:48+00:00

Watching a Hallmark movie and vaping during my lunch break. Life is good.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-04T20:15:41+00:00

Rate this guy, ladies

https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/ed\_sheeran.jpg?w=1024

Barneysparky · 2023-05-04T20:20:02+00:00

Behind the Bastards have an update on Tate, you all should listen,.

666chihuahua · 2023-05-04T20:20:31+00:00

Instead of just approaching women with the goal of booking a date I’d just be generally nice if I were you. Holding doors and making eye contact, letting her go in front of you in line when there’s a confusion, smiling, saying thank you and offering help. Women want to be treated as people.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-04T20:48:50+00:00

Ladies, rate this guy honestly. (same guy with different hair color).

https://www.oocities.org/imjustthebest2001/01234prees.jpg

https://giffiles.alphacoders.com/208/208506.gif

baresquad · 2023-05-04T22:14:43+00:00

I get more grossed out by age gaps the older I get. Being 28 now, I connect with 21-23 year olds and aside from being on 2 different wavelengths of adulthood, I see men my age and older wanting relationships with young women as robbing them of their 20s.

I believe that if an older man genuinely had romantic feelings for a woman that young, he’d defer dating her until she gained a bit more experience in the world as an adult, allowing her to learn and understand herself as an individual outside of the confines of a relationship with a man 7+ years older than her, while also being emotionally mature enough to accept that she also may not be available when she’s older. (Which would be ok because in that case, what’s best for her wasn’t meant to be that older man)

scwizard · 2023-05-04T23:04:23+00:00

https://i.redd.it/ndy5vjcgbuxa1.jpg

Ignorance really is bliss. She sounds like she was happier at those ages than most kids were.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-05T01:27:32+00:00

What are green things I can add to a green themed gift basket? I’m sending my bf themed gift boxes every month of the summer because I loveee him so I need it to be great :) I have green Extra gum and sour skittles on my list so far.

I wanna fill it up pretty good so nothing too expensive please

scwizard · 2023-05-05T07:37:44+00:00

Today I am a vocally transgender, nihilistic, socialist-anarchist that dreams of a world where all the money has been burned. I don't talk to anyone from my time in the military and on a personal level, I despise my own country and the culture that produced me. Ofc now I exist primarily on the fringes of society and don't know a way back inside, either.

Once I believed that burning down the system would give fertile ground for something better to take it's place.

Now days I'm helping prop up this evil system that eats people.

dbz__f · 2023-05-05T08:36:42+00:00

Question for women:

Your bf/husband and a bunch of his friends are hanging out, just guys. Talking about female celebrities and asking each other “would you do (insert random attractive female celebrity). What is the appropriate response your bf/husband should give?

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-05-05T11:18:46+00:00

If you a man and say you want to “gag” on a woman imma just assume you like they Bud Lite person or smt.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-05T11:19:58+00:00

PPD in a nutshell https://youtube.com/shorts/DKx0YTCX-58?feature=share

nexkell · 2023-05-05T11:20:56+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/116k5f9/how_do_you_feel_when_men_purposefully_go_out_of/

Talk about being fragile let alone anti social. But again Askwomen is also TwoX and full of feminists who hate men.

TheSongsInYourHead · 2023-05-05T12:43:01+00:00

How many of you (not the ones in school) are actually in clubs?

I've seen the advice to join clubs and while I think joining a club is better than sitting at home alone, I've rarely met someone who frequents any kind of club.

Most people I know do their 9 - 5 during the week and then hangout with their friends on the weekend. And then on the weekends it's at a friend's house more often than not.

And then what kind of club would you even join? I don't think all activities lend themselves to meeting women.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-04T20:51:09+00:00

I don't why so many dudes don't make a move after the second date

Because that's an obvious indication

If she's rejects the kiss oh well aleast you confirmed something you either knew or wanted to uncover

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-04T22:47:48+00:00

Mickey Avalon song just came on, and I can't stop laughing about the time he signed my tits at a concert. 🤣

So rich, so pretty!! 🎶

scwizard · 2023-05-04T23:30:55+00:00

If you had a teenage daughter would you allow her to have an Instagram or TikTok account?

It's a damned if you do damned if you don't. You don't want get being unsocialized and not fitting in with her friends, but you also don't want her being so addicted to clout she goes on fresh and fit right when she turns 18.

politicsthrowaway230 · 2023-05-05T01:52:50+00:00

Idk why FDS is mentioned so much, unless I’m missing something it doesn’t seem like it gets much traction?

Ainsleygz · 2023-05-05T10:57:11+00:00

Two my plates just got upgraded and I’m moving them both in after laying out my ground rules for them. Max I’m gonna add to the harem is six females but imma work with the two that I upgraded for now. Gonna be dropping some of my other plates and just keep two of them.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-05T08:55:12+00:00

This was something /u/scwizard and I were talking about earlier.

I have mentioned to people multiple times that my high school literally banned us from showing our fucking shoulders. And I always get doubted! People act like I'm lying or being dramatic! I bought NO TANK TOPS until I moved out of that goddamn town!

I believe her. Religious people have a weird thing about shoulders. It's weird cause sundresses that go halfway up the thigh are apparently totally fine so long as shoulders aren't showing.

Nah this is more of what's really happening.

Go 30 seconds in: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6N4lysyHSFU

That's the kind of shit people be wearing and then want to cry foul when they run into dress code violations. This is a very touchy subject that I don't want to run afoul of any rules but that outfit is designed to show off what its showing off and there's no need for that in that environment. On their personal time? By all means. But not there.

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