Daily Community Chat Megathread

scwizard · 2023-07-19T18:04:44+00:00

At whole foods during lunch.

So many miniskirts wow. Haven't seen this many in a while.

potoricco · 2023-07-19T17:21:01+00:00

Tired of women framing their male partners incompetence/malicious intent as something “funny/quirky/cute uwu”

Your husband Can’t remember your fucking birthday or your EYE COLOR but you stay with him

Women….when will we change…

potoricco · 2023-07-19T17:16:51+00:00

Notice how “unisex clothes” are always things like Tshirts baggy clothes, never things like skirts, dresses frilly outfits

That’s because, in a patriarchal society, male/masculine is the default, and femininity is only seen as a deviation of that.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-19T17:08:18+00:00

Question4Men: Do you think women are funny? Personally I’ve had a lot of female friends over the years and I don’t think any of them had ever made me laugh with a joke. If they do it’s because of their actions.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-19T17:07:54+00:00

Do you guys think that due to all of these talks about "Chad" we've made them even more attractive to women? I think it'll be interesting to discuss all of the reasons why that is so if it is so, to begin with.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-19T16:41:43+00:00

Are women logical creatures?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-19T16:27:59+00:00

I make a CVM post about nice guys being villainized just for asking why women date abusive guys.

Several users answer by villainizing nice guys... kinda proving my point xD

_demidevil_ · 2023-07-19T16:01:34+00:00

Hi can anyone answer this for me - what pill am I? What exactly is BluePill? I know people say normal dating practices but I’m autistic and I don’t know what’s normal. I’m definitely not Red or Black Pill.
I am a feminist. I definitely don’t think men should be paying for dates but I get the impression Blue Pillers do think they should pay?
I’m really stuck on this paying for dates.

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-19T16:01:05+00:00

So basically, a kid reacher puberty at like age 11, which is when it's the most intense (at least for boys it is). It's this brand new thing, hormones are going wild, you can orgasm, you have this powerful longing now all of a sudden. It's so strong that at that age I saw all the other boys literally change personality-wise, like there is a visible shift there.

And then the societal norm is that you should wait AT MINIMUM 5 extra years before you got to actually experience anything. Because ok, the adult world is willing to gracefully turn its head when like a 16 years old has sex with another 16 years old (it's just awkward cause we somehow need to let them know to use a condom).

Imagine a world where a young person's introduction to the realm of sexuality was NOT half a decade (at the absolute minimum) of sitting on those feelings alone. There is just absolutely no way, right?

KirthWGersen · 2023-07-19T15:58:53+00:00

They say women never approach, but this afternoon, my teenage son was walking through a shopping centre to meet me, on holiday in the UK, and a girl stopped him and asked him for his Snapchat.

Same thing happened at home in the Mediterranean. But that time it was Instagram.

Good genes, that's all I'm saying...

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-19T15:57:04+00:00

So yesterday I asked how many men actually had an abundance of options, and the highest I got was I think 5%

So why are we pushing abundance mentality again? If scarcity is what's going on, shouldn't we be acting accordingly?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-19T15:54:57+00:00

Anyway, what did I miss

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-19T15:47:24+00:00

More porn should be made to appeal to women

It's like a needle in a haystack to find a video where the frame actually includes the man, he is actually making noise, and the woman isn't screaming in fake pleasure and/or pain

Yes, most women in porn are either in pain or have a low chance of cumming, much like irl

Get it together women, let's make better porn

DerayRevan · 2023-07-19T15:24:39+00:00

"Why wouldn't looks matter"

They certainly do matter but just like money, looks have their limit depending the context

I would tell a average looking guy to not focus on looks but getting good at approaching women in many social settings

I would tell a rich guy, to focus on the money in attracting women

I definitely think looks are important and for many guys need to focus on them but the Blackpill does a good job of extremely overrating them on every dating metric

potoricco · 2023-07-19T15:09:52+00:00

That ain’t dababy that’s my baby ❤️😍

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-19T15:04:31+00:00

Just saw on another subreddit somebody saying going to therapy is "healthy masculinity"

I've seen everything now. Trust me I'd study psychology too if it meant I'd get paid for the crap they do.

Just tell your patients little things that might help them but not quite enough so they keep coming back for more.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-19T14:43:38+00:00

Victims have responsibilities!

Sparkling_gourami · 2023-07-19T14:26:51+00:00

Trying to get better at approaching women IRL. Saw a cute girl at a concert who was by herself, so I started a conversation and got her contact info. Just getting over the fear of rejection felt good. Doing it this once will definitely make it easier in the future. I definitely had this big worry about being a creep, but so much of it is in your head at the end of the day.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-19T14:22:34+00:00

"There's just as many women, as men, that are unsuccessful in romance , and they are so mostly for same reasons as men"

All l've to do is look at the statistics and data on that

80% of divorces initiated by women, neither through bedroom stuff or money specifically when the women starts out-earning the man, that's a 80% unsuccessful rate for

But for women only 20% so not the same reason and numbers

More women have sexual access than men, so things are not the same here

Many women have reported to finding many men economically unattractive, so again not the same reason nor the numbers are the same

So either your one of apex Fallacy people who is bias to their observation or you've no idea what your talking about

John_Oakman · 2023-07-19T14:22:04+00:00

If societies and institutions are oppressive and evil, then 'nice guys' and 'good men' are also evil for their passive support of such oppression and evil. Thus they deserve whatever scorn and hatred from those who seek true justice...

baresquad · 2023-07-19T13:54:03+00:00

Q4m: What type of treatment do average men deserve?

Few dates a week? Easy causal sex?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-19T13:43:19+00:00

Say what you will about Fresh & Fit but you can't blame them for the fact that 90% of the women that go on there can't even name three fucking countries.

That segment has always been my fave, how the fuck can you be a grown ass adult and not know three countries?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-19T13:42:55+00:00

How far do you Travel to get to your barber/hair salon? The same guy has been cutting my hair since like 2006 but he was about 5 mins from my parents house. When I bought my own spot in 2017 it made the drive to him about 45 mins but I still go

DerayRevan · 2023-07-19T13:40:27+00:00

"Promote gender equality and empower women"

We don't have time for that

Most of the world is like "ok his a man and she's a woman so there's differences, finish"

It's only here where people have the time for to say otherwise because of their unimportant or privileged lives

Especially with the 72 genders thing

Western people are so privileged it blows my mind how they have time for such nonsense

"Identify my PrOnUons" bruh some kid in the Sahara is dying of dehydration, and you want me to sit here and consider your pronouns a problem ?

potoricco · 2023-07-19T13:33:38+00:00

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Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-19T13:21:27+00:00

People here say that most people settle. How much are you willing to settle?

rosesonthefloor · 2023-07-19T10:47:47+00:00

If you’re in a monogamous, committed relationship, you do have an obligation to put good-faith effort into meeting the sexual needs of your partner.

Shit like this is just cruel.

Maffioze · 2023-07-19T10:15:02+00:00

Fml I woke up to about 20 flies in the house?? I don't even understand how this is possible, where do they come from?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-19T10:03:27+00:00

Shoutout to morning wood, I can't start my morning without you.

Like, literally can't start it cause it's there every single damn morning.

jackedsoon · 2023-07-19T09:47:09+00:00

Just jerked off in hotel toilet and had no lube. Then realised they have body lotion dispenser right next to the sink. Couldve had a pleasant wank but instead it was a burning and fast one. Tmi

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-19T09:00:23+00:00

If low socio-economic people are having more children, and country keeps importing low s-e workers... isn't this outcome expected?

Low s-e class keeps expanding faster then people move to upper classes, leading to more low s-e behaviour.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-19T08:15:21+00:00

After really amazing sex all I want to do is have more sex, but all my husband wants to do is sleep.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-07-19T08:04:36+00:00

To all the women, what are your thoughts on dating a baby faced guy? Would it be a turn off because it's "unmasculine"?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-19T07:21:58+00:00

My mom cheated on my dad and they broke up and my dad raised me and now I have mommy issues at age 22. Can a female PPDer pretend to be my mom and wish me good night, ty.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-19T06:32:08+00:00

What are the most accurate films from the male perspective? I have watched Taxi Driver, All Quiet on the Western Front, Apocalypse Now, and Deerhunter. I want a list of films that accurately portray life for men

happy_discus · 2023-07-19T05:49:06+00:00

So many comments sources here are "Trust me bro", it's honestly comical how much everyone here makes shit up. (By everyone I mean EVERYONE)

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Opening_Tell9388 · 2023-07-18T20:02:00+00:00

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-07-18T20:07:18+00:00

Fresh and Fit is an over hated podcast

potoricco · 2023-07-18T20:09:17+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/55uhnlg36scb1.jpeg?width=2308&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=011186e5d19452ec11e596dd5afdd95760286d7b

Fitness buddies, can you tell me why I only feel this in my arms and not my back

I need stronger back muscles but none of the machines work cuz I only feel them in my arms

AspiringMogger · 2023-07-18T20:11:53+00:00

Saw a dark skinned fat Indian guy today at my workplace try to chat this arab girl up and she wasn’t having non of it. She was visibly repulsed and just sped away in a mad demeanour. I was looking at their exchange like

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-18T20:13:36+00:00

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-18T20:13:41+00:00

Our opinions are influenced by 2 major factors:

- emotion

- logic

When our emotion and logic both agree is when we feel most comfortable in holding any particular opinion. If our emotion disagrees with our logic, we feel uneasy.

Then can you see the problem of trying to change a woman's opinion, as a man?

Women have stronger mirror neuron activity than men.

A mirror neuron is a neuron that fires both when an organism acts and when the organism observes the same action performed by another.

I.e. when we observe someone like us doing something, we sort of feel as if we're doing it ourselves

This pattern is stronger in women than men. What this means is women's emotions are strongly influenced by the emotions of the other women in their circle, and as a result they frequently share similar opinions.

Therefore, if you're debating a woman on an opinion that's shared by members of her circle, even if she follows your logical train of thought, her emotions, which are constantly reinforced by the other women in her circle, will not change much.

To truly beat someone in a debate and get them to change their opinion, you have to convince them both logically and emotionally. Well her emotions aren't changing due to the mirroring of emotions of the other women in her circle, so even if you logically convince them that you're correct, they will still feel extremely uneasy about changing their opinions because their emotions conflict with their rationality.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-18T20:16:27+00:00

Q4M: Have you ever experienced being fuckzoned? As in, a woman you were having sex with thought you were good enough for sex but not for a relationship?

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-18T20:18:48+00:00

I just don't understand how someone's personality can over come them not being attractive enough. I just don't think average dude is that special of a person or that different of a person to override attraction.

Not on blackpill stuff, but just thinking about it, there are very few guys or even people that are that special

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-07-18T20:21:56+00:00

Can we cut the shit about men being to selfish in bed? Like let’s be congruent.

Women aren’t more selfless in bed then men. Men biology just functions more simply.

Men don’t get women off on hook ups because it’s more complicated and takes time to know that specific women’s switches. Not because he’s selfish. Like seriously all she did was bend over until he came. How is that so selfless and high effort of her?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-18T20:29:11+00:00

Q4A: Do you think single men should date non-exclusive or seek a monogamous relationship FIRST

I think when your talking about single men in the young age bracket 18-24, yes at some point the best option is date non-exclusive but same time l can see why many would prefer a monogamous relationship

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-18T20:36:50+00:00

I will now answer your gym questions.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-18T21:01:16+00:00

2nd date planned for later this week. Had a lovely first date that ended with a smooch.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-18T21:08:45+00:00

Just got back from a date with some crazy chick. Kept talking about gender issues and reddit like a weirdo, then at the end she tried to ram her tongue down my throat. How do I let her down gently?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-18T21:09:12+00:00

I recently learned about a medical implant that replaces the CPAP machine, so now you just wave a little remote by you chest and you can breath in your sleep.

Now I'm all about cyberpunk implants, but the aesthetic of a device to help fat people breathe ain't it.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-18T21:39:29+00:00

She is hot, and she want's to cuddle, but it's 102.2 degrees Fahrenheit.

I'm using broomstick to keep her at bay.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-18T21:42:55+00:00

It’s still funny knowing that there’s grown men so detached from reality, they think tinder reflects real life and/or that the average woman naturally looks like a celebrity or IG model.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-18T21:44:42+00:00

q4w

Do you actually ask each other things like 'You're leaving out very important details about the kiss. Duration, PSI, hand placement during?' after dates?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-18T21:53:12+00:00

Added a brisk 15 min walk to my fitness routine. 3x per week. Fat burn picked up. Diet still consistent. It's amazing how the smallest of changes can have such a huge impact.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-07-18T21:58:39+00:00

74.6% of women below 26,you know the only demographic that matters, desire to BE approached more. obviously be more tactful than looking for wife in a walmart but men it really is only up to you

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-18T22:23:08+00:00

Men here get really pressed when I say I don't have sex on the 1-3/4/5 dates. I wonder if the men who don't make past dates 1,2, or 3 are equally upset? I might need to start doing an exit survey.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-18T22:23:28+00:00

I think "the ick" phenomenon is weird. If I am genuinely interested in a man he would have to do something pretty egregious for me to lose attraction to him. Do women get "the ick" from men they actually like or guys they are wishy washy about?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-18T22:27:42+00:00

I will never take “Women are addicted to social media” seriously when they’re still grown ass men who think tinder is real life. Apparently real life only has 75 million adults existing on Earth and it’s 70% male.

philseven12 · 2023-07-18T22:31:49+00:00

i disagree on the idea of there being good or “bad” women.

if you want to experience the “good” side of most women, you need to be tall and handsome

meteorness123 · 2023-07-18T22:33:59+00:00

Homeboy, you better get a clue
She's on my dick cause I'm better than you.
What you expect her to do?
How you expect her to act in the sack when she's closing her eyes
Thinking back to digging her nails in the back of this chad ?!

SianOiseau · 2023-07-18T22:39:07+00:00

Psychologist Andrew Thomas recently ran a poll and asked: “have you ever felt a profound and enduring state of unhappiness, uneasiness, and discontent about your singlehood?” The phrasing of the question was intended to mirror that of clinical dysphoria. 55.1% of men and 44.9% of women responded yes.

...

Consistent with this, a recent Pew survey of singles found half of single men between age 18-30 were voluntarily single. An even higher percentage of single women were voluntarily single. The youth may be dropping out. It might be driven, in part, by fear.

...

About half of single men have not approached a woman in person within the past year. This is true for each age group, but it does vary. For example, 59% of men within the 18-25 age group (Zoomers) have not approached someone in the past year. 48% of men in the 26-40 age group (Millennials) have not. Millennials are approaching more, consistent with the hypothesis of a generational shift in risk aversion (Zoomers being more risk averse). A substantial percentage of all men have not approached anyone within the past month (81.81% Zoomers; 74.52% Millennials).

...

Of the men who did approach women in person over the last year, a substantial number had success. I labeled the percentages of men with zero success to compare. A minority of men, 41.61%, said that they did not make a romantic connection. Most men who approached in person received contact information or went on a date. A little less than half had sex.

However, only about 13% ended up forming a long term relationship. This is expected. As you follow the trajectory from a phone number exchange to a long term relationship you will see attrition at every stage.

https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/

Some interesting pieces from the link below.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-18T22:41:42+00:00

What's your celeb look alike?

I think I'm K-Mart Pedro Pascal

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-07-18T22:44:45+00:00

Fat women: exist

PPD men:

https://preview.redd.it/ucmygitxxscb1.jpeg?width=700&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fa9bd92e3fa6aca3827ac69a419a30a200b8f684

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-18T22:45:29+00:00

Curious: Are any of you into BDSM?

HeartCatchHana · 2023-07-18T22:46:13+00:00

Favorite hairstyle for men? Most hated hairstyle for men?

jobbo321 · 2023-07-18T22:57:43+00:00

How many rejections from Tinder first dates would you go through before giving up?

Right now I'm at 2 and I can't fathom doing even 3 more. The last one was especially rough. Told me straight in my face that she wasn't attracted to me after 2 long dates and weeks of chatting. A young woman telling you in your face that she isn't attracted to you after spending 4 hour long dates with you while you think she felt something is just absolute brutality. Not mad at her for expressing her true feelings though.

I'm gonna try max 8 more. After that I'll accept my fate, live like a degenerate and pay some surrogate to bear my children so that my parents atleast have something to be happy about.

So my answer is: 10 first dates. If you have nothing to show for after that, you either need to change something about yourself or the other gender finds you genetically repulsive.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-18T23:02:27+00:00

It really frustrates when people claim “real life” is some romantic utopia where there are always an equal amount of single women and men in an area, an equal amount of single men and women in an area looking for romance, and an equal amount of looking single men and women actually going to social events.

The idea that somehow “real life” can’t be affected by these skewed gender ratios is ridiculous. I mean seriously why do some places have covers or higher covers for men and not women? Why do some places turn into sausage fests late in the night? I mean come on, think just a little bit…

potoricco · 2023-07-18T23:08:27+00:00

I lowkey want to ask my friend to see the barbie movie this Friday

We are actually childhood friends and Barbie was our thing for like, yearsss so it’s pretty ironic. Her mom is seriously ill as well so maybe it would cheer her up idk. I don’t really talk to her that much anymore I don’t think she likes me anymore.

The thing is that I am awkward around her + various other reasons and it’s way easier to just kind my business and go by myself

potoricco · 2023-07-18T23:18:35+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/rnytcywx3tcb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7690c97492589d963482b7df63142dc78f1ed36d

My Life Is Being Destroyed Bro I Need Friends!

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-18T23:25:41+00:00

My cousin is asexual and aromantic and I'm so beyond jealous. It's like an irl superpower.

He isn't attracted to men or women in any way. He doesn't even think about sex or relationships. It just doesn't cross his mind at all.

He never masturbates or watches porn. He goes to school, plays video games, engages in hobbies alone or with his male friends and he has fun. Since he doesn't want relationships, he doesn't want children either.

It's like a straight man's desire for gay relationships. It's non-existent. A straight man doesn't feel like he's missing out or that he's a loser because he isn't have gay sex. He doesn't even want it.

Imagine feeling that way about gay and straight relationships. I wish my life was like that.

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-18T23:38:41+00:00

"Hottest summer ever"

" Random temperature record #21321934 broken"

"Highest temperature recorded in 12312 years"

Every summer I hear this shit, come mid-September we've all moved on. There's always a new record being broken. Who actually cares at this point? You'd think that if it was so important we'd try to do more about it.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-18T23:38:44+00:00

Money > looks

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-18T23:41:17+00:00

Lol. Someone reported me for harassment. If it was someone in here, grow up and maybe start living in reality if the truth hurts you that much.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-18T23:41:19+00:00

CMV: If a man is failing at dating, it is always his fault. Always.

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-19T00:06:00+00:00

Just posted on truerateme for shits and giggles

I just want a 5/10. Ima be sad if it's below than that :((((((((

Tramelo · 2023-07-19T00:20:41+00:00

Do men buy cool and expensive cars and put up with the fact that they constantly need maintenance for the purpose of being more attractive to women?

old_new_age · 2023-07-19T00:29:36+00:00

Every time I see "fat people just date fat people," or "ND people just date ND people," "x undesirable group of people date x undesirable group of people," they always seem to ignore that women are inherently more valuable (in dating, at least), meaning no, women have more opportunity than men to date outside of whatever undesirable group they're in. And when they take that opportunity, as any rational person would, it consequentially fucks up the scale

meteorness123 · 2023-07-19T00:39:12+00:00

Why does my experience differ so much from what people say here ? Anybody else feel that ?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-19T01:08:22+00:00

I know a 5'6 bald guy who has never struggled with chicks. What's your excuse ?

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-19T01:22:33+00:00

Apparently telling people on Twitter I’m watching only Oppenheimer this weekend is pissing people off. “Why aren’t you gonna see Barbie!” Why would I? I’m not the target demographic for Barbie.

There’s as many women as men. If all the women see Barbie and support that there wouldn’t be a 10:1 ratio in tickets. It’s that even the women and gay dudes are choosing Oppenheimer. And their the target demographic for Barbie.

SpecificLogical971 · 2023-07-19T01:23:30+00:00

What are everyone’s thoughts on ethically non monogamous relationship? Such as polyamorous marriages.

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-19T01:25:41+00:00

Where are all these women that are constantly having casual sex?

More than half the girls my age that I personally know are virgins, in a Western country. It's kinda obvious too because of the way they act and talk when a guy interacts with them.

If anything, most women I know are actually kind of prudish and aren't embracing hookup culture. Am I alone in this observation?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-19T01:42:03+00:00

Just went 2-0 in chess against a guy that had a winning record against me. And beat another guy 4-0 in connect 4. My evening plans are beating my dick in the mirror, because I deserve a reward.

potoricco · 2023-07-19T01:44:42+00:00

I will make my brother join his middle school basket ball team when school starts

Hes literally 5”7 at 12 years old but chooses to waste all his potential watching bfdi and playing roblox. I WILL live out my SAG (WAG but sister) life. He will become a D1 basket ball player

And before you guys paint me as selfish my dad said it too. That he should either join basketball or track at school

meteorness123 · 2023-07-19T01:54:14+00:00

It sucks that Im not an international mega star.

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-19T01:55:49+00:00

I feel like Oppenheimer is gonna be corny, and a bunch of pseudointellectuals are gonna co-opt it and make it lame.

I feel that it could suffer a similar fate to the likes of American Psycho, Joker, and Fight Club.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-07-19T02:03:33+00:00

Why is agreeing women's fears and truths a bannable offense it's not fair.

"i agree you probably were really attractive and vulnerable at 11 to 12": banned

"i agree you do look more wooden, more objecty than human" : banned

"i agree the low conviction rates of the r word has encouraged me to commit at least one or two": suspended by reddit.

Sorry but saying notallmen counter debates is futile

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-19T02:09:49+00:00

What’s your thoughts on the whole

“Never go to bed angry” idea

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-19T02:15:16+00:00

I always love how people romanticize the past like everyone had a “good” job 50 years ago lol. There was never a point in human history where most or even half the population had what we consider to be a “good” job.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-19T02:27:03+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0epSgm8lmos&pp=ygUWU29wcmFub3MgZGFtYWdlZCBnb29kcw%3D%3D

Last one, should Adrianna have told Chrissy she was “damaged goods” before getting involved with him?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-19T02:33:25+00:00

I don't think I could ever date a woman that appears on youtube dating shows. Or a woman who makes money on social media or the internet.

Would you ?

potoricco · 2023-07-19T02:39:39+00:00

in bowser voice Jungkook jungkook Jungkook Jungkook jungkook I LOOOVE YEWWW

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-19T02:55:42+00:00

Once I found out females also fart that’s when I knew they were different.

saraimarsena · 2023-07-19T03:15:36+00:00

the fact that i love my job is something i am so thankful for everyday

even if i won the lottery i’d still do it part time

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-19T03:29:26+00:00

The amount of potential relationship I’ve destroyed to make memes or jokes for the boys is profoundly high.

And I don’t regret a thing.

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-19T03:38:49+00:00

How accurate is truerateme?

thetruthishere_ · 2023-07-19T04:21:08+00:00

All my loved ones are a sleep... My cat just died suddenly and I have to dig his grave tomorrow. He is lying on a bench in my living room...

Im in shock as my cat was his normal self yesterday, he is only 5 years old and vibrant. Went 0-100. I. Just. Cant.

Im just like what the hell happened?!

Just had to say it out loud I guess.

TheArchmaghea · 2023-07-19T04:42:32+00:00

Can everyone be at least average looking with surgeries?

text-redacted · 2023-07-19T04:44:27+00:00

Friend flaking on me once again 🙃

NalkaNalka · 2023-07-19T05:27:33+00:00

It's funny how both extreme feminists and male incls push the idea that talking to woman in public is a terrible crime.

Their maladjusted antisocial histrionics make their horseshoe ends meet at the bottom.

text-redacted · 2023-07-19T05:46:17+00:00

on a side note, a customer randomly gave me two movie vouchers for the cinema today

Tramelo · 2023-07-19T12:03:49+00:00

My neck beard grows at a fast rate, is this a sign that nature wants me to stay a neckbeard?

Ok-Bee-6216 · 2023-07-19T16:42:55+00:00

I feel like the nice guy question has been answered a million times already

yet you have people saying "Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts them"

maybe the reason you don't attract women isn't that you are a nice guy but you have trouble listening

spunkystoic · 2023-07-19T17:50:01+00:00

Female work colleague of mine recently split up with her bf - a huge, jacked military dude who was obviously high on the autistic spectrum and had a penchant of shouting abuse at homeless people for no reason and trying to dominate every single conversation into being about him.

She's approaching her mid-thirties and has just gone through guy after guy exactly like this...literally only filtering by an insane looks filter...and the men are just getting crazier and crazier from what I hear.

She's getting more and more depressed every year and has developed an eating disorder.

...the saddest part? This story is echoed in tons of other women I know in my social sphere/local area.

Yes, I know men can be similarly foolish - but honestly, my gut says this is overrepresented on the female side and it does make me sad to think where these women will be in 10-20 years time.

The next decade is gonna be a crazy ride for gender relations.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-07-19T18:46:09+00:00

Virgin/inexperienced men should only go for virgin/inexperienced women. Any women with a body count of more than 1 will never be satisfied and will always be comparing you to previous lovers.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-19T18:52:53+00:00

People finally have a real choice when it comes to sex, relationships, and life pursuits when they didn't for most of human history.

People are blindly trying to navigate this relatively new way of life, because the previous generations didn't experience this.

Some people are going to fall through the cracks, trying to find something meaningful throughout all this chaos.

All we can ever do is treat each other with respect, empathy, and do the best we can with what we have.

potoricco · 2023-07-19T18:58:16+00:00

Im a trendsetter

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-19T18:59:32+00:00

I think I ran into a Reddit atheist today...

I forgot my wallet at Walmart and went back to see if it was still there, and someone had turned it in. I was really happy to find that my 100 dollar bill was still inside so I thanked the cashier and then said "god bless".

He looked at me weird and said "what does god have anything to do with it". So goddamn awkward.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-19T19:03:04+00:00

Women are designed to extract resources from men. That’s why men don’t give a _____ about a woman’s success or accolades especially if she ain’t got no ass

Peacesquad · 2023-07-19T19:03:08+00:00

What did I miss

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-19T19:12:03+00:00

Q4A: How many rejections do you have until you give up on dating? How many experiences with the desired sex before you are considered experienced?

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-19T19:13:32+00:00

Saw this cat with a heart shape playing with a cockroach

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-19T19:27:53+00:00

The tricky thing about dating, and imo the real reason why women have such a hard time seeing that they are sort of advantaged compared to men (while yes, they also get harassed more), is that dating is literally just a dangerous game. Seriously, engaging with people in any sort of sexual/romantic way can leave you hurt, and it seems like a lot of the times it DOES leave people hurt, in all kinds of ways.

So sure, if your metric of "advantaged in dating" is "x gender is extremely happy with their amazing partners for the rest of their lives more so than y gender", then it's obviously about equal. But the point is, even if dating and sex-having is often disappointing or hurtful, at the end of the day the vast majority of people DO engage in it anyway, because they have hopes, and a certain kind of longing that they want to follow. Sometimes they learn from it, grow through it, or the opposite, some never ever reach any sort of true satisfaction. Who knows, anything can happen.

Men's issue is ultimately a feeling of the entry level being higher for them in this dangerous game. I think generally it's not necessarily about this idea that having sex will "fix them" and give them eternal happiness for the rest of their lives... although of course everybody who has a sexuality is hoping for something like that deep down, isn't that right? But no, that's more women's framing of men's grievance imo.

No-Regular1667 · 2023-07-19T19:31:03+00:00

CMV: Most women do not want men to talk to them under any circumstances, about any topic, in any setting. Even if the setting is one where socializing is expected.

Evidence: Replies to this post and this comment.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-19T19:36:24+00:00

I only feed female cats because they're skinny and the males are already big and can fight for food better.

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-19T19:52:19+00:00

Fuck Hollywood I don't give a shit about the writers or actors if these dogshit movies they are churning out are any indication. We never fucking needed 10928454 marvel or superhero movies. To the point now where if anything remotely different comes out - like fucking Barbie? lol - people are actually excited and think it's novel and refreshing.

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-19T20:02:11+00:00

Is it ethical to date fat women who I'm not attracted to?

I don't really want to hurt anyone, or to "use" them, but then again, not knowing whether you are attracted to someone on a first date yet is a standard experience for women anyway. I guess I don't think it's impossible that a fat woman could actually won me over. It's hard to imagine how, but who knows.

The upside would be that there would be much less pressure, I would have a much easier time "treating her normally as a human being" (with no stupid anticipation in the way). Maybe I would be pleasantly surprised, or find a good platonic friend. Or worst case scenario it will just be a "sorry I don't think we fit" kind of deal, which is normal.

Women, what you think?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-19T20:06:16+00:00

What’s your favorite tv show right now?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-19T20:06:22+00:00

Also what did I miss?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-19T20:12:37+00:00

Andrew Tate. N count. Hypergamy. Next time on dragonball Z!!!

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-19T20:15:15+00:00

I don't consider men who have a lot of casual sex as successful in terms of dating. Seems a lot here measure male success based on how many women he can have sex with

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-19T20:15:22+00:00

I don't consider men who have a lot of casual sex as successful in terms of dating. Seems a lot here measure male success based on how many women he can have sex with

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-19T20:15:29+00:00

I don't consider men who have a lot of casual sex as successful in terms of dating. Seems a lot here measure male success based on how many women he can have sex with

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-19T20:15:40+00:00

Red Pill - Having your perception of women and dating dramatically changed.

Black Pill - Belief that physical attraction is most important, and everything else accounts for very little.

Blue Pill - Viagra

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-19T20:15:44+00:00

I don't consider men who have a lot of casual sex as successful in terms of dating. Seems a lot here measure male success based on how many women he can have sex with

potoricco · 2023-07-19T20:21:41+00:00

Can You Do 145 Pounds on the leg press machine?

potoricco · 2023-07-19T20:25:25+00:00

Golden

“with the barbie movie coming out, i think we should start treating men. the same way they treat us when a new superhero movie comes out. you spot a man in the theater, you ask: oh you're gonna watch barbie? name every barbie movie ever made. who's bibble? sing every word of i'm a girl like you while doing the choreography”

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-19T20:36:42+00:00

“personality” it is most vague word used around here. The context could mean several things.

Barneysparky · 2023-07-19T20:40:32+00:00

Yesterday I starting painting around my front door. The only time I talked about doing it was on the phone with me husband. Guess what's on my simple google feed today, door updates. No social media. No Siri etc.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-19T20:44:32+00:00

My friend wants to start a company. I don’t know how to tell him that I don’t want to start it with him.

Mostly because he views entrepreneurship as a simple quick money game. Rather then a long hard struggle up the mountain.

He could be right. But his naivety is lowkey turning me off the whole entrepreneurial route all together.

For some reason I surround myself with naive folks. And I have to always ground everyone. Which is causing me to think I need to work on how I portray myself. I’m not gonna help y’all dreams guys. I honestly can’t even get myself motivated. Much less y’all.

Smh

jobbo321 · 2023-07-19T21:16:04+00:00

My face looks like a combination of the El Paso mass shooter, Hayden Hillier Smith and Reviewbrah.

Oh and my hair is recessing faster than my 5 year older brother.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-19T21:57:54+00:00

The dominating reason for mens lack of dating success is a combo of : Neurodiversity, anxiety and poor social skills.

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