girl what

millennialpink2000 · 2022-01-14T05:09:44+00:00

My favourite part was him saying she's lucky to have HIM. This was awesome

East-Willingness513 · 2022-01-14T05:31:18+00:00

I’m sooo happy to see that she’s realised her marriage was a sham. Thank god for that prenup, blessing in disguise! I hope she lives her best life after dropping the dead weight 💃🏻✨

Antique_Fortune6974 · 2022-01-14T06:01:39+00:00

"Should have had 3 kids by now" = "I should have baby trapped you from leveling up " 😒🤔

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2022-01-14T05:05:13+00:00

Not the point but I died when I saw his grand plan to get back at her for leveling up and leaving is…refusing to sign the divorce papers. I wish this guy a very happy “that’s not how divorce works,” and hope he gets held in contempt of court.

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-01-14T05:33:24+00:00

Wow, is he ever a piece of garbage! I want to believe the post is made up, but one of my friends went through something similar (her ex wanted to be a professional gamer).

I’m glad that she has a good head on her shoulders and is divorcing instead of second guessing herself.

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2022-01-14T05:45:37+00:00

How did they even get married in the first place? It sounds like he never even gave a shit about her wtf

BasketLow8411 · 2022-01-14T05:50:25+00:00

Damn she is in a good position with that prenup. What a sack of shit.

Platipus6 · 2022-01-14T05:12:33+00:00

It's unnatural that a woman makes more than a man, she should have been his broodmare on his magical pissed away small salary.

I love seeing men get snapped back to reality.

the-worst- · 2022-01-14T06:49:09+00:00

So.. this idiot made himself poor by gambling all his shit away, and now he thinks because she makes more, SHE should go into debt because of his gambling addiction?

In order to be a professional gambler... you need to be able to make a PROFIT when gambling. This idiot couldn't be a professional at any rate.

Also, he was unsupportive while she was in school, but now she's supposed to support his LITERAL fantasy that will NEVER make him any money or advance his life in any way?

Hahaha "YoU aRe LuCkY tO hAvE mE!" Bitch, what? 😂 YOU GAMBLED YOUR FUCKING "FORTUNE" AWAY YOU IDIOT.

"I'm NoT gOiNg To SiGn ThE pApErS!" What does he think this is? Pre-king-henry-the-eight England? You can't just REFUSE to divorce anymore. You ain't Catherine of aragon in SIX, you troglodyte.

So... in short, he wants her to drop the prenuptial agreement after 6 years and not giving a flying fuck about her career because he's a gambling scrote who is so lost in his addiction he thinks he could make it a passion... and expects her to pay for it.

This queen BETTER leave him to wallow in his own fucking gambling debt.

GodILoveTheEnglish · 2022-01-14T06:41:47+00:00

Men are such golddiggers. I'm glad she has that prenup in place, he thought it was somehow going to benefit him to have it and now he's the one begging for it to be dropped! Too funny.

bookworm1896 · 2022-01-14T06:56:24+00:00

I am glad that she decided to divorce him. But why did she even suggest therapy first? I mean, he flat out refused to support her, when she was graduating and un debt, but the second he notices she earns good money, he wants his share? That's not how relationships work. And he's gambling?! Huge red flag. Even worse he wants to quit his job amd use her money to gamble professionally?! Wtf?!

ccro7 · 2022-01-14T07:37:19+00:00

Amazing. His 'love' hinged on the fact that he thought he was better than her.

NowTruly · 2022-01-14T05:54:06+00:00

He works less than a 40-hr workweek making $90k+, but he thinks HE should be the one to quit working and be a “professional gambler”. 🤯

And that’s AFTER he blew his finances to shit losing at gambling. (Including pissing away real estate in this market!)

Then he openly seethes that he didn’t baby-trap her when he had the chance.

That’s not audacity. That’s naked sociopathy.

This women better make it clear he isn’t a beneficiary on a life insurance policy — then move TF away from this guy as soon as possible. That is unbalanced.

Spiritual_Cockroach · 2022-01-14T06:29:07+00:00

I'm so happy she made money for herself that gave her the financial Independence she needs to get out of that sham marriage safely, he's just mad he couldn't trap her into being his domestic slave, child bearer and bang mommy or take her money for his gambling "career"if she doesn't comply. Who's the real gold digger again?

Eli1984 · 2022-01-14T06:59:21+00:00

I read the original but not the update yet (boo spoilers 😛 jk) what a clown 🤡. I'm super glad she is divorcing him. I would send this guy a video of me every day while laughing and wiping away my happy tears with money...

aoi4eg · 2022-01-14T08:30:13+00:00

Oof. When he asked about monthly payment it was immediately obvious that he expected her to come and beg him for money and he'd had another leverage to manipulate her.

LVM always want to be private about how much they make as long as they know you're making less. The moment your check is bigger they do a 180 and suddenly it's "But we're a family! We need to share everything! Let's make a joint account and everyone can spend as much as they want!". Pathetic, glad she left him.

ifhewantedtohewould · 2022-01-14T05:35:30+00:00

This is why we don’t date until we are financially stable, yeah sure he should buy things for you and pay for dinner etc, however we need to be setup for ourselves if something goes wrong. This honestly goes for everyone.

SwampDwellingPirate · 2022-01-14T10:31:18+00:00

Ohh how the turn tables. He thought she was going to be broke forever, and homegirl out here is just 32, free of debt, making 175/hour, buying her brand new Audi in cash.

This is too funny, you cannot make this shit up. Good on her that she found it all out. If she was able to level up this much while living with a scrote, I can't imagine what she'll do on her own, once she gets the divorce. What a queen, I'm so excited for her.

SnooEagles9138 · 2022-01-14T07:45:35+00:00

Hahahah, I Love that this prenup shit back fired at him. Honestly, we have to thank those red pill people, they are making it so easy for us

PicoPicoMio · 2022-01-14T07:10:56+00:00

I have so many questions, namely did not file joint taxes?! Did they go 50/50 on everything. Why did they even get married?!

tastyserenity · 2022-01-14T05:20:09+00:00

Daaaaang….I have no words…besides this comment lol. What an absolute psycho!!!!

randomgirl34861 · 2022-01-14T07:26:40+00:00

They say laughing adds years to your life… here’s a wonderful example of that!

NoMoreLVM · 2022-01-14T09:24:59+00:00

She’s clearly just snapped out of a daze and realised that relationship was massively abusive. His entitlement, contempt, and complete disinterest in her is so blatant. How can you be so disinterested in your partner that you don’t notice they’re really successful?

PollyannaPenny · 2022-01-14T09:33:21+00:00

At least the prenuptial agreement forced them to have separate finances and he doesn't have access to any of her accounts.

He inadvertently did her a favor. If they had merged finances, he would have bled her dry

Davina33 · 2022-01-14T08:05:43+00:00

Gambling, gold digger loser scrote! Glad it blew up in his face and she's divorcing him. He wanted his money to be his money and her money to be his as well!

NinjaCynic · 2022-01-14T07:06:26+00:00

QUEEEEEEN SHIT!! What a story. Queen busted her butt to get where she is, out-earns a scrote, pays cash for an Audi, has epiphany about the scrotacity of said scrote, leaves scrote with plans to divorce, still has a shit ton of money plus an Audi minus a shit ton less dead weight.

I love happy endings. And Audis. 👑👑👑💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻

Fun_Sherbet · 2022-01-14T06:26:13+00:00

Good for her!!!! She handled this well

glittersparkles212 · 2022-01-14T08:02:49+00:00

Insecure and pathetic

catchaleaf · 2022-01-14T12:48:32+00:00

Not gonna lie when I saw his profession plus the amount of years he has been in it, with no responsibility of children holding him down (common reason why ppl stay in one place) I thought he should still be making way more than her and something was amiss. The gambling explains it. He seems like a jerk so it’s best she get out now.

Fiebre · 2022-01-14T07:18:26+00:00

Wow. I saw the original post but not the update post, and the original alone was bad enough but the update... The audacity!

NowTruly · 2022-01-14T07:39:20+00:00

Unrelated to this, but do any FDS-ers know: do CRNAs really make this kind of money?

Back-of-the-napkin math says that she’s making $360k+ pre-tax a year, working the minimum 40hr a week she mentioned. More than a family practice doctor makes. That’s jaw-dropping. I would buy ALL the Audis with that kind of money.

Is that covid money? Because even if it is … I think it might be time for a career change.💪

asupernova91 · 2022-01-14T12:24:54+00:00

I don’t know if I believe that story but if it’s true I think they have major issues other than money. Like how do you not know someone you’re MARRIED to has a gambling addiction, sold property and made bad investments? Either the guys a con artist or they just don’t communicate well, or like, at all 😬

gingerandlime · 2022-01-14T11:16:19+00:00

Holy shit. The amount of overlap with my ex husband… same profession, also thought based on nothing that he could become a professional gambler. He filed our taxes when we were together but I have copies… I looked through them the other day and guess what? He was actually losing money every year on that. But you’d better believe that he bragged every day that he didn’t go in the red. Um. Okay.

Good for her, I hope she enjoys the hell out of that Audi.

1x9x1x7 · 2022-01-14T14:31:16+00:00

"You can't have access to my money, but I need to have access to yours" Notice how in both scenarios the woman is painted as the greedy one here. He needs a prenup to protect his assets because she makes less money and has more debt and maybe there's a potential issue here where she tries to take his money and run either in a divorce, or just in marriage where she tries to use his money to cover her own expenses because she has no money and he has some.

Now she makes more money than he does and can pay for a new, pricey car in cash, and she still wants to honor the prenup THAT HE ORIGINALLY WANTED, and again there's an issue here where she's being selfish and greedy about not wanting to share expenses because she happens to be making more & was smart with her money, while he has none, has debts, etc. When she *might need the money* (even though from what we know she never even asked for his help) he needs a prenup. When he needs the money, suddenly the prenup needs to be voided and now everyone needs to contribute finances.

Do not be blind to the double standards. I'm glad this woman could see through it all, because there are plenty of pickmeisha's out there who would just shrug and let their husband bleed their money dry too.

Hostileovaries · 2022-01-14T07:19:08+00:00

Original OP and this sub. Like what? He has shown he's irresponsible with money and he expects her to fund his gambling addiction?! The audacity.

sheokay · 2022-01-14T10:05:18+00:00

This woman straight up bought an Audi and got a scrote-free life out of the purchase. An icon.

GlitterLoveAngel · 2022-01-14T10:09:08+00:00

Prime example of how men can be gold diggers who use women solely for their benefit. Also unfair hypocrites who have huge egos and won’t help you in your time of need but once he starts seeing you being successful and in a much better state than he is, suddenly he needs help and you’re a b!tch if you refuse to help him.

Representative_Ad_56 · 2022-01-14T05:47:17+00:00

I've noticed a common thing with ZVM is that they really do believe you are lucky to be with them even as they do NOTHING. I'm currently in school pursuing a degree and when I broke up with him he said "After all I have done for you." Which was literally nothing. Did not help with bills. Convinced me to split dates 50/50 most of which he wanted me to go on (yes I know 🤡) . When he said that to me I realized he was really out of his damn mind. That's the equivalent to having watching someone make a dinner and then sitting down to eat with someone else and the other person being like "I made this dinner".

WandernWondern · 2022-01-14T14:53:37+00:00

Praying that prenup is iron clad!

iacint · 2022-01-14T07:40:33+00:00

In my country a wife can ask to judge for divorce, and will be scheduled three hearings, if husband ignores all 3, judge will rule divorce. But it’s only if you don’t want to split everything. We are poor so we rarely have divorces like in usa where people fight for tiffany lamps and golf supplies.

funkymorganics1 · 2022-01-14T14:06:34+00:00

Gambling. Everything makes so much sense now. When I first read the original AITA post I wondered why there had to be so many boundaries around what he made. Chances are he will offer to sign the divorce papers for a sum.

Junior-Lion7893 · 2022-01-14T13:26:56+00:00

I love hearing success stories like this.

We have another “Ali Wong” special right here. Ali Wong is a comedienne and her father-in-law made her sign a prenup to protect his son’s assets, because he was a Harvard graduate from a wealthy family/background. Long story short, she became famous, and even paid off her husband’s debt. The father-in-law had the audacity to call what he did to her “the gift of fear”. 🙄

Anyways, good on her for not being stupid by conjoining their finances and supporting his professional gambling career. Words cannot describe how happy I am that she’s leaving him instead being his cash cow.

capresesalad1985 · 2022-01-14T15:18:06+00:00

If I was making 300k, what the hell would I need a man for??? I’d have a hot ass pool boy to service me when needed and let that be that!

I used to work in a very stressful career where I made about 115k/yr which is pretty decent money. One of my male coworkers had a wife who worked for CNN I think, some very high level job making close to half a million a year. God this dude was so beta. I remember around Christmas when we would talk about what we were getting people for Xmas he was just like “I’m not getting her anything because I can’t afford anything she wants”. It was just a really strange dynamic.

And I also noticed that the female higher ups, had super beta husbands and couldn’t STAND any women who were bright and actually good at their jobs. They praised the men who were absolute idiots because they weren’t threats.

KindredMaximus · 2022-01-14T09:35:17+00:00

I love her. Well done, her. Again - he doesn't give a shit about what someone goes through until it affects him. I hope she sticks to her decision, leaves and never looks back. What a damn douche.

alienflowercatz · 2022-01-14T13:29:20+00:00

After reading through this jumbled mess, all I'm curious about is, what profession makes $175 an hour?

JadeBaby2211 · 2022-01-14T14:41:57+00:00

If her story was put into a screenplay I'd definitely watch this movie! Just a good, lighthearted story of a woman waking up from her conditioning and leveling up❤

modernmedusaa · 2022-01-14T18:55:41+00:00

Don’t open join accounts with men

Keep everything seperate

They’ll clean you out first chance when it’s time for them to monkey branch to a new Pickmeisha

RuntheContinent · 2022-01-14T11:55:22+00:00

That was a wild ride.

EurasianEmpress · 2022-01-14T11:34:06+00:00

Her husband is right that it’s unnatural for a woman to be making more than her man, that’s why she’s right to not support him and should leave him for a man who earns even more than she does lol.

I love it when the scrote is the 🤡.

cloacadiddle · 2022-01-14T06:26:01+00:00

I laugh whenever certain people say women are impossible nowadays, not worth it, have crazy high standards, and initiate 80% of divorces. Women almost always stay….way too long. They contribute more than they should and get taken advantage of for years before smelling the shit in the roses and deciding to walk. So I think the question is, are you better than this guy? Because that’s a low ass bar, but (un)shockingly a lot of guys like to clothesline themselves on that bar.

“I’m so perfect, I’d be a great partner, I respect women, I can’t believe the bitch divorced me like that, so crazy” means “I’m actually a controlling, greedy, miserable little parasite that looks to suck the money, life, and time out of successful women and hiss with rage when I’m dropped like a bug and have to make it look like women’s fault for being perpetually unsatisfied with soaring standards”

malibooyeah · 2022-01-14T16:15:42+00:00

Men are gold digging weasels. Everything they told us was projection.

BrightIdeaGenerator · 2022-01-14T17:45:36+00:00

WHY IS SHE TAKING A LEAVE OF ABSENCE FROM WORK, SHE SHOULD BE LEAVING HIM?! edit: oh, I didn't read them all. Good for her. And they call women golddiggers.

Hypatia-etal · 2022-01-14T06:14:18+00:00

I enjoyed reading this one very much. Everyone who gets married should get a very good prenup. I love how his prenup ended up protecting her from his gambling addiction. He didn’t take long to take off his mask once he saw her finances. What a loser thing to expect her to support him so he can quit working to gamble. That sounds like a recipe for a very not fun marriage.

Is she overreacting? Probably not. What he did is very petty and if her buying an expensive car with cash is all it took then if she wants more reasons to get a divorce, she should just dig a little deeper into where his money goes. She doesn’t need his signature to get a divorce. A visit in front of a judge will take care of that. He doesn’t have the right to deny her a divorce. This isn’t 1910.

I do wonder though how anyone can be married and not know what their spouse earns. Do they not pay joint taxes? I know couples can file separately. But having been married it’s very difficult to do anything financial without either knowing what your spouses finances are or needing to know. Are their credit reports separate too? Marriage creates so many instant legal ties to each other’s money that it would be hard to avoid.

extraodi · 2022-01-14T08:26:39+00:00

Zamn.

Ace_killah · 2022-01-14T09:56:43+00:00

You should get the F**k out of that relationship like YESTERDAY, get a restraining order too because he might become vindictive and dangerous.

You married a B*tch, only reasonable explanation.

ferociouslycurious · 2022-01-14T20:31:26+00:00

I am so happy to see her unwilling to fund his gambling addiction. I am so happy to see her seeing through his shit and leaving him.

Big-Respond8481 · 2022-01-15T01:00:05+00:00

He should have dumped her for a younger woman who is in school and still broke, but what he actually wants is a woman's bank account? Make it make sense.

SincerelyD90 · 2022-01-14T06:57:27+00:00

Is this even real?

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-01-14T17:30:40+00:00

And men wonder why we call them golddiggers...LMAO

Good for her!

AphoticEnigma_ · 2022-01-15T00:47:04+00:00

My god this is the stuff of nightmares

I hope she gets out of that marriage unscathed financially

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2022-01-15T02:45:43+00:00

Wow! That was a wild ride! I can’t wait til he has the shattering realization that the divorce will happen with or without his cooperation. 🤣

panicpixiememegirl · 2022-01-14T07:22:20+00:00

Not that men dont suck and are capable of this but this has all the signs of a made up AITA story which most AITA posts are lol

donttextme_k · 2022-01-14T23:49:08+00:00

Woah I feel so bad for her, if he suggested the prenup, he might as well stick with it. What a asshole

Title	girl what
Author	Thereismorethanthis
Upvotes	1617
Comments	185
Date	January 14, 2022 5:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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