most of the time it isn't men complaining about not having access to one-night stands. They are literal virgins, or single men going through long periods without any romantic intimacy at all -- think about how absurd it is for so many guys to be unable to land a single date at otherwise a 50/50 gender ratio?

There are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of men can't get ONE (1) girlfriend. Not a threesome, just one girl to go out with them. Even online: out of the hundreds of women who they swipe right on it often times doesn't result in a single match, not one girl has thought "I want to be that guys partner".

And what do the women do? Tell men to constantly "improve" as inadvertedly implying there really is not eniugh to be an average bloke these days. Give them advice, often times completely contradictory; talk to women as people, but make your intentions clear from the get-go, just not too soon because she'll only think you want to put your dick in her, so you need to built rapport first, but don't you even try using this to weasel in her pants that way because that what "Nice guys" do and women hate it.