It’s not exactly a secret that most men don’t want to date a retired sex worker. Similarly, many women are not that keen on dating a man who has been a John to many prostitutes.

And no, it’s not just fear of STDs or being a prude or whatever.

A man who has primarily been with escorts and sex workers has a very different attitude to sex than even your regular ‘fuck boi’.

Just like escorts, they too have a very clinical and transactional view of sex. Also, these men will struggle to respect your sexual boundaries.

Remember, there are many escorts who would do anything, entertain any type of extreme sexual fetishes for money. Just look up porta porti.

There are men who have paid escorts to engage in extremely painful and degrading forms of sex and many types of unthinkable stuff. I have read about an escort whose client gave her $500 to apply burnt cigarette to her privates.

A man with sadistic and masochistic tendencies, who has paid innumerable escorts to fulfill those extreme fantasies will never be happy with the regular woman who has boundaries in bed.

Women, especially those who don’t have any extremely niche kinks or are mostly vanilla in their sexual behaviour, should never date a seasoned John for this reason.