Daily Community Chat Megathread

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-07-13T08:17:29+00:00

God.

Women often complain about men acting like children and having to act like an emotional sponge.

But it for sure happens the other way around.

Hearing about a coworker whose wife only likes him going out certain days and never too late.

Why?

Because she hasn't got any friends and won't make any friends so she's lonely.

Honestly he should just tell her no.

But she should also sort her life out. This isn't the first woman I've seen that's entirely codependent on her partner.

...

Whether you're a man or a woman. Being entirely dependent on your SO is a lot for them to deal with.

chilikettlechips · 2022-07-13T01:39:20+00:00

Preselection eh?

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/vxocjb/my_28m_wife_29f_showed_her_mom_47f_and_4_sisters/

GarbageZestyclose698 · 2022-07-13T01:34:04+00:00

Guys don’t realize that finding the right gf is exactly like finding the right friend. Not all friends you can spend hours upon hours just talking and not feel bored. Not all friends you can learn something from and feel that you are improving as a person when in their presence. In fact, we usually only find a couple of those people in our entire lifetime. A gf is no different. A gf is just that friend but the opposite sex.

techr0nin · 2022-07-13T01:16:12+00:00

The original Rhode v Wade decision was handed down by an all-male Supreme Court. The current Supreme Court that overturned the decision has a female majority.

It’s not the patriarchy controlling women.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-13T00:59:15+00:00

Recommended reading

The happiness trap, russ harris

ayowai2 · 2022-07-13T00:53:39+00:00

I have a theory that women don’t romanticize or thirst after Mr. Darcy because he becomes a nice dude by the end of Pride and Prejudice, but because they miss the point and see him as the ‘douchebag with a soft spot for that one girl in particular’ and women loooooove that trope.

redditthrowaway1478 · 2022-07-13T00:47:39+00:00

Equally hilarious and impressive

https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/vxky71/new_cool_term_for_uterushavers_just_dropped/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

scwizard · 2022-07-13T00:34:03+00:00

The divorce rate is way higher in red states than in NY and California.

https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/divorce-rate-by-state

purplish_possum · 2022-07-13T00:28:16+00:00

Just found out that my 9th grandkid is on the way.

My GF's daughter is also PG so that's basically a 10th one.

Patrickstarho · 2022-07-13T00:24:31+00:00

The people who are concerned about male virgins are focusing on the wrong thing. I don’t think it’s a negative.

You should never chase lust. Those men are building themselves up, it’s an accomplishment and a demonstration of self control.

Get rekt women

ayowai2 · 2022-07-13T00:20:34+00:00

I had a thought today. I know sex ed is controversial in some parts of the country, but I was wondering: what if we had a required Sex Psychology class in high schools? As important as the health and biological aspects of sex ed are, I think the psychology is equally important. You could teach the psychology of attraction/sex/sexual power from writers like Foucault as well as the fundamentals of psychoanalysis so students could begin to grasp some of the more abstract concepts behind love, sex, and desire. I think that could be very valuable since lots of young people have a pretty immature/uninformed idea of how those things work.

TastyCucurbits · 2022-07-13T00:16:05+00:00

Sometimes, even bible verses can be entertaining (Ezekiel 23:20):

"She lusted after her lovers in Egypt, whose phalluses were like those of donkeys, and whose emissions were like those of horses."

MegaGigaTeraBased · 2022-07-13T00:12:16+00:00

Lmaoo I just got my second block today. the women on this sub get triggered so easily

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-13T00:10:28+00:00

Starting my new job in a month hoping there’s going to be baddies but who am I kidding? I’m in engineering, it’s going to be a bunch of 40+ year old dudes and a 4/10 woman fresh out of college that they gas up like an 8/10.

scwizard · 2022-07-13T00:07:53+00:00

It seems like everyone in their thirties that's single has something batshit crazy that I get to find out about later. I'd just rather be alone. I know there are many good men out there, my closest friends are men. I'm just not interested in wading through all of the shitty ones to find the one who is both good and someone romantically/sexually compatible anymore.

Nothing is stopping these girls from dating teenage boys, or 20 something boys or boys in their 40s. Well other than not being attracted to them of course.

Dating in your 30s sounds like hell for women. Basically the entire time you're waiting for the other shoe to drop, when you finally find out why he was still single in his 30s.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-13T00:07:24+00:00

For all the dudes who think you missed out. You also missed out on stds, drama and unplanned pregnancy. Impregnating the wrong woman will turn your life upside down. For next 18 years at least. Imagine not being able to see your kid because of a crazy hoe.

Tldr : gratitude and perspective. We need more of that

ayowai2 · 2022-07-12T23:49:15+00:00

I think my least favorite period of Instagram was when all the girls from my high school went to college and started posting their boyfriends who either were 3-5 years older than them or looked it. Young-looking guys get shafted til they turn like 24.

lulll · 2022-07-12T23:46:39+00:00

im gonna try it nsfw

scwizard · 2022-07-12T23:37:08+00:00

SACRAMENTO – Senate Bill 357, the Safer Streets for All Act, authored by Out state Senator Scott Wiener (D-San Francisco)’s was signed into law by Governor Gavin Newsom on Friday.

SB 357 repeals a provision of California law criminalizing “loitering with the intent to engage in prostitution.” This criminal provision — arrests for which are based on an officer’s subjective perception of whether a person is “acting like” or “looks like” they intend to engage in sex work — results in the disproportionate criminalization of trans, Black and Brown women, and perpetuates violence toward sex workers.

Good move or no?

scwizard · 2022-07-12T23:21:23+00:00

It's pretty stark how different the religious view is vs the secular view when it comes to prostitution.

Seems there's not many atheists who think it's bad.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-12T23:20:12+00:00

Testosterone is generally highest in those with various sexual partners and lowest in those in long term monogamous relationships without extramarital partners.

This is true for both sexes.

Thus if you value the traits of high levels of testosterone and select for those you're also more likely to select for a partner who will be sexually unfaithful.

So the answer to why is it at best praised and at worst detrimental when a man has a lot of sexual partners, while it's at worst shamed and at best undesirable for a woman to do the same is simple;

Testosterone.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-07-12T23:20:01+00:00

Ok explain this one to me.

Somebody in r/Disability went on an unhinged rant about how the "global right wing" wants to genocide disabled people. I point out "Actually it's the left that supports aborting unborn children with genetic diseases". It wasn't an argument, that was my only post in the thread. I get perma-banned instantly. ~10 minutes later, I get a message saying it was a misclick and I'm unbanned. ~10 minutes after that, I get two more messages, one saying I'm muted from messaging the mods for 30 days, the other saying I'm perma-banned again.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T23:10:38+00:00

Honestly, I need a girl who will act as a beta bucks for me. I think this is what I'm going for next. I want to be cared for.

scwizard · 2022-07-12T23:07:06+00:00

If a girl with two kids and pregnant with a third, created her onlyfans like 25 days ago, do you think that means she's financially desperate?

Infammo · 2022-07-12T23:02:00+00:00

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NockerJoe · 2022-07-12T22:56:44+00:00

Decided to fuck about with herbal medicine. Accidentally made a psychadelic. Got called in to work right as it kicked in.

Today has been... interesting.

AquaChip · 2022-07-12T22:56:35+00:00

Lol the realest shit. Men think a woman’s ugly friend is cock blocking them. No, we told her before we got in the club to step in if an ugly guy tries to talk to us.

Slipthe · 2022-07-12T22:53:35+00:00

Do you think there are people in this world that are incapable of cheating in any capacity?

I'm not talking about guilt after the fact.

I just find the 's/he would never cheat on me' mentality to be a form of pedestalizing your partner.

TooHornyToFap · 2022-07-12T22:50:10+00:00

thinking you've won an argument on the internet is better than sex tbh

Algae_Natural · 2022-07-12T22:50:02+00:00

I've matched with this girl on tinder 2.5 months ago. We've been texting and she seems very interested in me. I've asked her out 4 times since and she always says yes but something comes up. I even made some sexually suggestive texts and she has answered positively. I don't know, it just seems like she is keeping as a plan b in case something better doesn't show up. Should I move on?

Prestigious698 · 2022-07-12T22:48:53+00:00

I guess according to rp only 8+/10 women get love. Oh well

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-07-12T22:42:16+00:00

I'd say most men don't actually have to worry about being beta-buxxed. A lot of us should be more worried about not being low-value entirely and it's part of why I preach self-improvement on here so much, even tho I'm not a wholly RP dude.

Furthermore, AF-BB is a spectrum and there are a bunch of sub-categories between the two, and most men fall somewhere in one of those sub-categories.

I'm actually wondering if I should make a post about this.

1Here4Bach · 2022-07-12T22:38:43+00:00

Name something men love more than having their perversions validated and celebrated by other men. This is what is driving hyper sexuality in our society. Men feeling like a perv over their sexuality some guy on Twitter writes a detailed sexual tweet and those sexually insecure men relate to it and no longer feel alone in their perversions because 100k other men retweeted (so does he to prove he’s not the only perv and his thoughts are “okay” and “common”) the tweet and the cycle continues perpetuating into other social media and mainstream culture.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-12T22:36:08+00:00

Q4W why are you guys so pressed when redditors are happy to see an entitled women who obviously deserves it get her ass beat?

Sure undeserved acts of violence happen to women and that's an issue but otherwise? A girl smacking a guy and getting her ass whooped? Why is that the hill to die on?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-12T22:28:54+00:00

Q4W - Where's my damn keys?

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T22:26:48+00:00

I also do think there is a huge societal pressure on men and it's not good.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-12T22:26:33+00:00

Something I found that I wrote in 2019: "Why do you think Adele is so popular? [Most of if not all of her songs are her] bitching and whining about her bad choices in men. Apparently she still hasn't learned her lesson, because shes been singing those types of songs for over a decade, and still manages to go number 1 on the charts [with tons of airplay]. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if aritsts like her get into bad relationships just so the could have something to sing about in hopes of remaining relevant (bad relationship -> create heartbreaking song -> climbs to the top of the pop charts). If a guy made those same kinds of songs, would he get the same kind of attention? Name the last song by a guy that has gone number 1 on the charts. I'll wait..."

Thoughts?

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T22:23:34+00:00

I think a lot of problems of men is that they chase hot,impulsive women.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-12T22:23:21+00:00

Q4Nerds, Does Bruce Banner have the right to cure himself of the Hulk?

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-07-12T22:22:40+00:00

Couple goals /s

PM_Me_AvocadoToast · 2022-07-12T22:04:18+00:00

Honestly, the thing I dislike the most about myself when it comes to dating is how quickly I fall for someone if they are my type (nerdy/quirky/Smart), meet even half of my standards and give me even a little attention. It gets the romantic in me so down bad.

I was recently dating this girl who met the above, we were both leaving the city we were in and we had know each other for a couple years so we thought “why not try something short and fun” We didn’t even have sex, just were very intimate in all the other ways. Well that obv ended when we departed but now I legit can’t stop thinking about her, about flying to her city to “return a book she lent me” and asking her to date me LD. But the cynic in me is telling me that’s a bad move, a good way to get hurt, just cherish the fond memories and move on.

What should I do wise, slightly autistic, sages of PPD

CanOfWoody · 2022-07-12T21:38:42+00:00

The harder that sex becomes to get, the less effective asking men to do anything that will further decrease their chances of sex will become.

Sure it would be nice if we lived in some utopian society where all people never think about their personal outcomes, are completely selfless and will be morality martyrs above all, but that isnt real life.

People respond to incentive and disincentive. The more something is incentivized, the more likely someone is to do it, and the opposite for disincentivization.

Lets think about employment for a moment. Imagine a world where it was relatively easy for anyone to get a good job. Well, people would be far less likely to lie and say whatever they need to do in order to get that job, because they wouldnt need to.

Now, raise the requirements for those jobs drastically. The likelyhood of people "being loose with the honesty of their qualifications" goes up, as well as the people willing to do things flagrantly immoral like get a fake diploma etc.

Anyways, my point being here, the harder it is to get sex, the more men are going to lie or do whatever they need to in order to get it. Its a natural consequence in the real word. Women are free to make the choices they want to make, but those choices are going to have direct consequences, regardless of how bad you want that sweet little utopian universe.

Anyways, my thoughts after reading one of the threads here where women are crying about guys being two faced and saying whatever it takes to fuck.

What did you expect? Sex for me and a lot of guys sex is non negotiable. Short of breaking the law I dont see a problem with guys doing what is in their best interest even if it makes da wimmenz cry. Women certainly dont care about the consequences of their actions and how it effects men.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T21:33:12+00:00

Some thoughts on Hip Hop : I grew up on it and while I still appreciate it and listen to it, the older I get, the more I realize that it's it's the home of emotionally damaged men who attempt to sooth their problems through a pursuit of extremely egotistical endeavors. Everything is about ego. Who fucks the baddest bitches. Who is better than whom. More often than not, fatherless men who have issues trying to canalize their emotions correctly which results in some sort of hyper agressiveness. As if they're trying to impress their non-existent fathers. None of it is their fault because they missed out on good parenting. But what works in Hip Hop, doesn't work in real life.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-12T21:08:10+00:00

Nonsense like this is why the right was able to bitch slap abortion rights in the first place.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T20:37:17+00:00

I think I needed to realize that just because people post pictures of being happily pregnant or happily in love or living an amazing life, that might not actually be the whole story and an accurate representation of their emotional well being

Laytheblameonluck · 2022-07-12T20:34:35+00:00

Today is Gender Empathy Gap Day!

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T20:16:04+00:00

When did you have your super edgy atheist phase (believing in god= dumb. Atheism=smart) ? I think mine was between 17 and early twenties.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-07-12T20:15:56+00:00

Getting a new step dad in your teen years must be a terrible experience

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T19:57:35+00:00

Am I ungrateful for doing okay on dating apps but not giving a shit about it ? I wouldn't say so personally

lulll · 2022-07-12T19:53:32+00:00

which one of you owns this car

chilikettlechips · 2022-07-12T19:52:55+00:00

Why is reddit like this

Wife [29/f] went to an anime convention and ghosted me for most of the convention, and is being very vague in telling me [31/m] anything.

tldr: wife prepares an elaborate costume. goes to convention with two friends. ditches their 3rd friend. doesn't reply to OPs messages much. Has a fight with the 3rd. Wakes up massively hungover. Ditches her elaborate costume. Doesn't go to convention events. Tells OP she doesn't want to be a mother right now. Misses flight back home. Comes back late. Friendship break up. Gets defensive about her instagram and accuses OP of not trusting her. Cries when asked for details about event. Has no anime merch.

Top thread becomes

Yeah but maybe she got assaulted and did nothing wrong and you should be patient with her. How can you do this to her?

Straight up inventing scenarios that excuses the woman's shit behavior when a man goes on the sub for advice

Slipthe · 2022-07-12T19:37:55+00:00

Lol why was Jordan Peterson using Twitter if he had this much of a problem with it?

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T19:36:27+00:00

Women need to be held accountable.

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-07-12T19:34:06+00:00

Day 87 of music sharing. Coppelius - Habgier. I have this song as my ringtone. What songs do you have set as your ringtone?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-07-12T03:00:37+00:00

women who complain about guys going out with younger women are the same as the guys who complain about women who like guys that are taller.

same type of visceral reaction purely from the emotions that come with knowing there is absolutely nothing you can do about the opposing genders preferences.

womens weight is not the equivalent of mens height, its age.

change my view?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-07-12T03:50:19+00:00

I love how over the years the criticism of Red Pill has gone from

"That shit doesn't work you're wasting your time!!"

To

"Ok yes it works but it's toxic!! That means you shouldn't do it!!!"

Make up your mind, who cares if it's toxic? As long as you get what you want that's all that matters.

I'm sorry, my own self interest is more important than anyone else's.

zoloftabuser · 2022-07-12T04:56:26+00:00

Why am I not surprised?

I’m identifying as a woman next time I send out resumes.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-12T07:09:51+00:00

Remember guys, she slept with 100 guys but she chose YOU

Biggest retroactive jealousy c-word I've ever heard in existence

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-07-12T01:40:28+00:00

Like I said before fellas, don't let these women trick you into being ashamed of liking porn, being addicted to a pretty much anything is bad so I'm not talking about that, but these broads will say "porn desensitizes men to the real thing" , and in the same breath go home and pleasure (desensitize) herself with her super stick 10x, that's 10 inches long, vibrates and has 18 different settings

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-12T03:41:05+00:00

I hate Elon musk more than the next guy, but why are women hating Elon for having kids? He’s been impregnating post wall career women giving them the kids they want and the money to support the kids. He’s the #1 beta buxx.

Hate-Swallows · 2022-07-12T02:55:08+00:00

The idea that women need to sleep around in order to know what they like sexually is false and has been sistematically used to rationalize and excuse promiscuity.

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-07-12T12:02:37+00:00

CMV men care way more about dick size than women do

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-07-12T07:19:55+00:00

r/askfeminists, r/TwoXChromosomes, and r/WitchesvsPatriarchg are such garbage subs, wow.

If most women I meet irl were like the women on there, I would castrate myself so I’d never feel sexual desire again.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2022-07-12T18:27:50+00:00

I think women can be more open about their insecurities with their partners. It might be annoying but it doesn’t do much damage to their sex appeal. For a girl to express jealously about a pretty waitress, or say openly “I’ve always been self-conscious about my small breasts”

Guys would be shooting themselves in the foot big time expressing jealousy over a taller male bartender on a date, or telling a woman “I’ve always been self conscious about the size of my dick”

EulenWatcher · 2022-07-12T10:06:59+00:00

I've seen several comments here how women complaining about all their exes are telling on themselves and I tend to agree with it. I'm pretty sure it works like this for men too. If all your exes were trash, the issue probably is you. Either you attract only this kind of women or you actively choose them.

AestheticSaiyan · 2022-07-12T18:41:30+00:00

Why do women hate being told they should have picked better? They're not victims they need to take some personal responsibility in their life.

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-12T04:22:31+00:00

CMV: After 8/10, looks are subjective. You can only be so attractive.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-12T14:44:01+00:00

Everyday women come here conflate TRP with MGTOW with Blackpillers with PUA, like this.

Then they leave go to twox or something and bitch about how this is the worst place to debate.

Are these people medically unintelligent? Like sub 70 IQ.

Slipthe · 2022-07-12T18:57:32+00:00

LMAO. After my second therapy session, the therapist said I seemed so good and self aware that I don't even need therapy.

Take that, naysayers. I have a doctor's note that says I don't need a doctor!

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-12T11:57:21+00:00

Today I was going through my medical records for why I get VA disability, and you know whats funny and also fucked up? I was (unknowingly) diagnosed with BPD in 2016, and reading the psychiatrist's notes, he wrote nearly a page that pretty much said "I had issues with women stemming from a young age", and for that reason accounts for a huge percentage of my disability benefits. I wish I could make this up. Could you imagine me explaining to someone that majority of the reason I get [somewhat decent amount of money] on the 1st of each month until the day I die for this reason? Embarrassing right? I guess a shitty win is better than not winning at all lol.

Edit: Thank you PPD troll for the Reddit Cares message

ThroneofTime · 2022-07-12T08:08:58+00:00

I’ve read more books this year than any others recently. Glad to finally get out of my slump.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T10:36:13+00:00

I think I realized why everybody here has a different opinion and experience. It's demographics.

Men in the sphere focus on dumb/crazy/uneducated women so what the redpill says appeals to them. These are the women they are stuck with. It makes sense from their perspective.

None of this shit exists if you don't mingle with these demographics. College educated couples have low divorce rates.

figuringMylife · 2022-07-12T13:11:15+00:00

r/GuysHumpingThings

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-12T14:03:33+00:00

Every time the Body count conversation comes up opponents bring up 2 points.

They've never met a guy IRL who cared
It doesn't matter cause women can just lie about it.

Look

I'm not explaining it look.

Like....

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T18:41:22+00:00

"College or learning a trade is a scam, you can just open a business, I know somebody who made it without it, you just need to hustle"

5-10 years later : Welcome to the wonderful world of retail, sir.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-07-12T01:10:58+00:00

Red Pill may have sexist tendencies and other not so nice factors, but who cares?

It's a means to an end, you do what you have to do to get what you want.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-12T02:40:04+00:00

Whats the deal with high n-count women claiming the best sex they had was with their current bf who was a virgin? Is it a sorta cope thing with for them, or do they subconsciously feel they can kinda sexually groom those men to fit their sexual needs? How can you have the best sex with someone who has no sexual experience just blows my mind.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-12T10:03:21+00:00

And I pointed out how self defence was okay of course in some circumstances. But a small woman slapping him, and him retaliating by hitting her in the face was not right, when he could easily restrain her. I’m not a big woman, but if I could overpower a man trying to fight me by holding his wrists, I sure would.

One time this girl slapped me cause she was drunk and I warned her not to do so again. She did because she felt like it and I tried to restrain her by holding her wrists so she headbutted me.

I took her wrists, turned her around and held her head in a kinda rear choke to completely restrain her.

She bit my bicep. I finally retaliated by grabbing her head and smacking her. People who witnessed all of that still gave me shit because she's just a girl.

-passepar2t- · 2022-07-12T10:13:28+00:00

Also, why is some weirdo ranting about random PPD users and tagging our usernames?

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-07-12T11:04:25+00:00

I do not get the popularity of Joe Rogan. He is such a softball interviewer. Put some pressure on them. Dial up the heat. He is just so dull.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T12:54:18+00:00

Just to push back against the autism here. "Chads" have terrible marriages all the time. Also no woman will be with a husband who can't lead a relationship, who neglects her and who can't speak a normal sentence just because he looks good. The novelty of a nice face wears off extremely fast.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T14:53:41+00:00

I've never envied good-looking, dumb guys. And I've never been interested in dumb, hot women or have envied men who get with them. Intelligent conversations or beat it.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-07-12T15:57:27+00:00

It’s kinda weird how fds randomly decided to kill itself

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-12T17:04:28+00:00

This is why a lot of boring women grow up thinking they’re funny and how Amy Shuemer got a career in comedy.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comments/vx3y0b/had_to_share_she_really_cracked_me_up/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T01:08:29+00:00

How much do you think what a man does in life has to do with wanting to better his chances with women ?

YaKnowEstacado · 2022-07-12T01:47:32+00:00

What's the most neurotic relationships sub?

tired_hillbilly · 2022-07-12T01:52:50+00:00

Q4A: I'm going to subway, anybody want anything?

eye_fuck · 2022-07-12T04:31:56+00:00

Q4m

Choose one:

All women always have sex on 1st date (with you and anyone else)

All women never have sex until 10th date/month of dating/whatever other long period of time (with you and anyone else)

eye_fuck · 2022-07-12T11:53:00+00:00

Girls really do be fucking, a lot

Mark_Freed · 2022-07-12T12:43:24+00:00

How many of you agree that "attraction cannot be negotiated"?

-passepar2t- · 2022-07-12T14:11:14+00:00

Do y'all ever feel really fucking insecure next to some of your colleagues? Like you look at their work and you look at yours and you just want to ball it up and slink off, tail limply between your legs. 😔

That feeling when your colleagues are diamond vessels into which the muses have poured all of their sweetest honey, year in, year out and you're just Bob Mediocre over here, whose best efforts are rendered laughable in comparison.

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-07-12T15:42:25+00:00

CMV: The reason the term “short king” is so popular is because people subconsciously don’t want to refer to short guys as “men”

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-12T17:34:57+00:00

Expanding on comedy, the reason there’s not many female comedians at the top is because women won’t allow fellow women to push the boundaries needed to be a top tier comedian like men will. Like the gender pay gap, the crux of a lot of womens problems are self inflicted at the end of the day.

errrright · 2022-07-12T01:00:44+00:00

First?

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T01:18:54+00:00

Reminder that Arnold Schwarzenegger cheated on his wife https://i.pinimg.com/originals/d9/bb/09/d9bb09e87430360a314f05d2ff74077a.jpg

with this woman

https://nypost.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2013/08/mildred\_baena\_photos005-300x300.jpg?quality=75&strip=all

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-12T01:25:27+00:00

Q4M - Would you fuck an amorphous blob of breasts and asses (assuming it had a vagina somewhere)?

dbz19_kai · 2022-07-12T01:33:30+00:00

Men, if a women accuses you of rape, even if you didn’t do it, you shut up, and accept the charges, women have been systematically oppressed for years and you giving up some years of freedom doesn’t compare to the oppression they’ve been through.

-angels-fan- · 2022-07-12T02:37:38+00:00

Q4W: Have you ever done something sexual to a guy to get stuff from him?

Drugs, food, booze, trips, etc?

TooHornyToFap · 2022-07-12T05:59:38+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vx1kbn/i_cried_over_my_height

Bro 💀

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T09:52:24+00:00

This is an actual redpill https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vwphed/the_divorce_rate_isnt_as_scary_as_men_here_make/

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T12:06:20+00:00

I just realized I will probably never achieve anything extraordinary in life.

EulenWatcher · 2022-07-12T13:37:47+00:00

I feel kind of sick today for no particular reason, so hubby brought home some snacks I like and cooking kitchen soup for me although he's in pain due to yesterday training session. Makes me feel loved.

What has your partner recently done for you? Or vice versa, what have you done for them?

kittenated · 2022-07-12T14:11:02+00:00

A common talking point from men here seems to be the need to blame women for a lack of romantic/sexual success, rather than the man who can't find a single woman who desires him.

"The reason I'm single is because women are children"

"The reason I'm single is because women want Chad"

"The reason I'm single is because women's standards are too high"

"The reason I'm single is because women's egos are overinflated by thirsty men on OLD / body positivity / IG likes"

"The reason I'm single is because women my age are riding the CC and will only care for me as a BB when they're post-wall and not hot anymore"

Is this kind of pathetic mindset truly congruent with TRP - a movement which is supposed to be about self-improvement, becoming a HVM, and not impotent Reddit whinging?

purplish_possum · 2022-07-12T14:34:07+00:00

CMV: Sluts are far better than virgins.

Sluts are looking for fun. It's safe and fun to hang with sluts. Virgins don't know what they want. After a guy deflowers a virgin they don't seem to have a clue what to do the next morning. After a good night (and morning) with a slut it's time for breakfast.

When a slut falls in love she really falls. There's nothing better or more loyal than a slut in love. She doesn't want your money or any other material benefit. She just wants you. She also doesn't have any fairytale delusions. She knows relationships can be rough. She's chosen to be your ride-or-die bitch.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T15:35:49+00:00

I think I'd rather have a job that I got from my degree than be a youtuber/influencer/whatever even if the latter meant that I made more money

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T16:30:38+00:00

I know two brothers. Both 5'6. One never struggled with women. One did for a while. One was socially suave. One wasn't.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-07-12T17:57:18+00:00

Apparently people are still falling for the phone scam where they say you purchased an iPad from Amazon and need to verify your name address and credit card numbers

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-12T18:52:18+00:00

My answer to yesterday's thread cause I missed it

3
∞
Usually some time after we've started fucking, never before then
No

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T01:50:03+00:00

would you rather be 30 and look 35 or 35 and look 25

dbz19_kai · 2022-07-12T03:46:27+00:00

Q4 le women: would you rather have huge boobs and no butt or a huge butt and no boobs?

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-07-12T06:58:15+00:00

Women are either 19 or 35. There is no inbetween.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T09:22:37+00:00

People who say that money/intelligence/competence isn't real attraction (which is bs) : who do you think a woman is gonna choose : a good-looking guy who is broke or a good-looking with money/smarts ?

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-07-12T10:03:27+00:00

If I got cheated on by every GF i had I would assume my dick game is trash and try to make improvements. If I have to BEG my girlfriend to sleep with me and she treats it like a chore I’m probably trash in bed.

-passepar2t- · 2022-07-12T10:05:38+00:00

For some reason my FWB seems to require more and more pressure on the clit to approach orgasm and my tongue gets tired, fast. I try to help out with my lower jaw but then everything gets tired and I have to switch to my fingers while I rest my face, at which point she may as well be doing it herself.

Anyone else run into this? I used to be able to get her off with just tongue action without my muscles seizing up.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T10:24:49+00:00

Why is everybody here so afraid of the pool boy ? Do you even have a pool ?

-passepar2t- · 2022-07-12T11:07:04+00:00

So what is the major malfunction of Gen Z? Is it still narcissism, like the generations before them? Or has it evolved into some other form?

nahuel-nahuel · 2022-07-12T11:35:52+00:00

How to make friends in a new city as an adult?

I miss the simplicity of childhood.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T12:27:31+00:00

"Education and intelligence doesn't make you more attractive, I know cause I'm very intelligent but women are not attracted to me"

The educated/intelligent dudes :

https://www.thewrap.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/superbad-mclovin.jpg

https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/traditional-indian-man-23804674.jpg

growandappear · 2022-07-12T14:47:09+00:00

Q4A What is your life gender balance? If you take every ond of your relationships/interactions from birth and weight them appropriately (distant acquaintance vs family etc) what kind of breakdown do you get?

I have 90% female and it's made me wonder about a few things 🧐

Patrickstarho · 2022-07-12T16:29:29+00:00

I dropped a bag on prime day. Quest protein chips and nautica t shirts 💅💅💅💅

Mark_Freed · 2022-07-12T17:25:49+00:00

Any predictions regarding trp culture in 50 years?

Stronger? More mainstream?

More prescriptive? Less descriptive?

Lost to history and only shadows remain in memes?

decoy88 · 2022-07-12T17:37:26+00:00

PurplePillDebate related communities

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-07-12T17:44:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vwpq8a/q4m_whats_a_high_n_count_how_does_that_affect_a/ifspklf

The response to this comment is golden I didn't know how many RPs were literally prepubescent lmao

"Ewwww kissing 😤 nasty!!!"

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vwpq8a/q4m_whats_a_high_n_count_how_does_that_affect_a/ifun7rb

Hahaha

TastyCucurbits · 2022-07-12T18:06:56+00:00

"I want a harem of virgin, submissive, agreeable, SAHM-type females who never even kiss anybody and would be ashamed of touching another man or going out in public with a man's permission or an escort of similarly traditional females or eunuchs. I also want one of these females to be my favourite and to compliment me and my manliness, and she mustn't be taller than me or wear high heels because I'm height sensitive, and she must also be desirous of my affections whenever I do desire them, and be ok with all of my many kinks.

She must also cook, clean, decorate, and scent the house, and have absolutely no debt of any kind. She must never be more educated than I am, and have neither ambitions nor life goals to tempt her from my embraces (which she should consider rare and precious gifts, because heaven knows I'll not buy any for her). This female must also be hot, perfectly slim and curvy simultaneously, and experienced in bed - but NOT a slut. This female must also never speak unless I want her to, because I can adequately understand what she's thinking by observing her actions anyway.

In anticipation of all this, I propose to do absolutely nothing to improve my station, hygiene, clothing style, income level, or personality. I also expect these females to respond graciously to all of my advances when I butt into their daily routines, and to sleep with me in the first half of the first date, which will always be a half-hour coffee break in order to deter gold-diggers. Naturally, they will pay for all of these."

(How am I doing so far?)

WilliamWyattD · 2022-07-12T18:22:21+00:00

Why do so many women think that they look younger than their age?

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-07-12T19:20:08+00:00

I really wanna like the crocheting sub but almost everyday there's someone bitching about friends/family complimenting and making requests.

Like at first I felt sympathetic, now after 50th one from a different user it's starting to feel like some weird humble brag karma farming ritual.

Yes we get it! It absolutely sucks to be so good at something the people around you are literally willing to pay money for it. How about you follow the advice made on the last 49 posts where this exact issue was addressed and stop pretending like this is a completely original problem that has never been brought up before.

End of rant

HighValueMoidxD · 2022-07-12T19:33:47+00:00

Man so I’m a women whose married to another women (just for context) and I hear my friends complain about it! They say there’s no good men and all of them are toxic, and then they rationalize this when they get with a dude who is actually toxic while the non-toxic guy down the street gets left behind! I’m overhear thinking what are they doing settling! I guess the dudes hot and all but there’s more to a relationship then looks.

Thank you u/-pettyhatemachine- for being honest.

GridReXX · 2022-07-12T19:32:52+00:00

Ploppin my comment from the "What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast?" OP here for more viz cuz I got to the party late and want to argue 😈 :

These are likely naturally introverted and inhibited men who would have been paired off to a woman in need of a provider by the church elders 100 years ago.

They weren’t all that active in their outcomes back then, why would they be now? It’s the same type of person.

Those men tend to flounder without systems that artificially create, in this case, lifestyle attraction.

For all the hate for religion on this site, men like that hyper-benefitted from religious paradigms.

Also! Those men would have benefitted from someone strongly encouraging them to continue in team sports and masculine attribute building like tilling the land, hunting, farming, building, fishing, athletics, etc.

For whatever reasons many are seemingly from two-parent households with active fathers who allow them to fester by a computer or gaming console screen 24/7 for 18 years. Deep forums and gamer chats in a room for that long isn’t going to produce an adjusted person. It just isn’t.

And as related to “getting sex,” that type of behavior and the type of person it molds isn’t sexually attractive. No one’s knocking it and it doesn’t make you a “bad person,” but I promise the boys who were encouraged to play outside, continue in team sports, and build IRL goal-oriented and platonic bonds with other boys and girls aren’t intentionally “sexless” at 32 or 22.

TL;DR: This is not an issue for all men, but an issue for men as described above.

I have a critical POV for women, but it revolves around social media and obsession of beauty standards and attention. Women are ruining how they look with Botox before they hit 24 and ruining how they act as well.

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2022-07-12T01:01:28+00:00

Just a second

dbz19_kai · 2022-07-12T03:49:47+00:00

Did Vegeta ever get out of “anger phase”? He’s always raging at being second best, but he constantly tries to improve himself and does. Also he settled for bulma after yamcha had been through whereas Goku was chi chi’s first and he wasn’t even trying

botfiddler · 2022-07-12T08:49:57+00:00

Hey, how is it going? Oh. https://www.mgtow.tv/watch/the-dangers-of-education-plandemic_yf1zNMqLsmnI9yf.html

Play_Muted · 2022-07-12T10:07:18+00:00

99$? Yikes... even a toddler would draw this under 5 minutes and its 99$...

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-12T10:20:20+00:00

Why do women love being the centre of attention so much?

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-07-12T10:38:57+00:00

If somebody is campaigning to "free the nipple" it's really just a cry for help and attention seeking behaviour.

There is no logic behind. Plus in the list of things you could be protesting, that is pretty much at the very bottom

Cjaylyle · 2022-07-12T11:39:57+00:00

Why would you pick a very "confident" but physically unremarkable man over a (normal level of confidence) man you find physically attractive?

What's the benefit?

Apparently confidence is THE big thing that most people who lean into traditional dating advice claim is going to get you success in dating above all else.

Yet a lot of female posters here claim their partner is attractive or that their "type" is their partner....who they find physically attractive....

How many of you would admit your partner is NOT that physically attractive to you, and that confidence is what drew you to them...and HOW did that confidence benefit you significantly over being with a guy with normal esteem (not unconfident, just chill and normal) who turned your head in the street?

And if confidence alone isnt the be all and end all....what is? Money? Looks? Humour?

Would ANY of you say your partner is a physically average looking person who doesn't arouse you on sight alone, but their humour and confidence does?

If NOT then whats left.....money.....looks.....

QuenchlessGato · 2022-07-12T12:52:01+00:00

"Dating is a numbers game"

Do you think that this is something perfectly normal, or is it something fundamentally bad but it is necessary to find someone?

I have a friend who basically approaches every new girl in our community. He doesn't really interact with them prior to asking them out so he doesn't know anything about them. So it's just throwing stuff into the machine hoping that one of the inputs finally results in a success. It all seems so shallow, it lacks any connection or any depth. It's like on tinder where guys swipe everyone right hoping something sticks, and who they match with is a secondary thing.

However, is there nowadays even a place and time for nurturing your relationships with the other sex before even considering asking them out?

I myself am conflicted over this - I find it revolting to follow the steps of my friend and just approach every human with a vagina just because they have vagina, but I can't deny that there is success to this method.

nahuel-nahuel · 2022-07-12T14:40:15+00:00

Pro-life ppl:

What are your thoughts on the pregnant lady in the HOV lane case?

Slipthe · 2022-07-12T15:21:57+00:00

Q4ALL: If you were someone who used to call all your previous partners names, but you decided to stop doing that, do your future partners deserve to know that you treated your exes differently?

OkConcentrateNow · 2022-07-12T15:44:32+00:00

Shall we crowd fund a study to settle the N-count and age gap relationships debate? It will cost about $2500 to survey 2000 participants for 5 minutes each.

Patrickstarho · 2022-07-12T16:21:25+00:00

Andrew Tate is getting pushed onto us. The algorithms want us men to be misogynistic.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T17:33:16+00:00

Would you agree that dancers, while hot, are probably problematic marriage partners ?

FilmStew · 2022-07-12T05:22:07+00:00

I’m a 20 year old guy with an n-count of 40-50.

Is that concerning? Idk, it feels like it’s too much, I feel gross and slutty. I have BPD though, so I have abandonment/attachment issues, and a host of other issues.

Idk, should I stop?

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-07-12T08:33:18+00:00

Q4A: If your SO cheated but admitted it and apologised, would you stay?

ashpr0ulx · 2022-07-12T14:57:56+00:00

Q4All: Do you have friends of the opposite sex?

decoy88 · 2022-07-12T16:44:11+00:00

This subreddit r/NPD reminds me of a lot of PPD users

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-07-12T16:49:01+00:00

I was thinking about the whole 80/20 thing earlier, and I think I've had a realization- the 80/20 thing is in fact real, but it varies from woman to woman who is a part of that 20 percent.

For example, a groupchat I'm in is mostly women, and one of them has just started seeing a new guy. When she sent a picture of him, the response was as follows:

Girl A: Here he is!

Girl B: ....really? Him?

Girl C: Man looks like the scarecrow from wizard of oz

Girl D: why do you keep dating guys that look like they were made in the sims?

Girl A: come on, he's cute!

Now, I would point out that this guy looks similar to other dudes Girl A has dated in the past; when I look at Girl B and C's romantic history (Girl D is a bit of a shut in), I don't see guys of this dude's type at all.

So while I do think that the 80-20 rule has some basis in reality, I believe that almost every man is capable of making it into someone's 20 percent if they're willing to put the work in.

luliloo · 2022-07-12T17:25:46+00:00

What do you think of her story of how they met? Sounds fine or beta bucks?

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-07-12T17:36:14+00:00

How would you rate brittany griner from to 1 to 10?

https://www.google.com/search?q=brittney+griner&client=firefox-b-1-d&sxsrf=ALiCzsa8FsruNNXsESk8pVUNNMRnDYHoWw:1657647363369&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwj0p4bS8fP4AhXFrIkEHQDaDYcQ\_AUoAnoECAIQBA&biw=2240&bih=1062&dpr=2

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T18:15:40+00:00

I don't understand the angst about being a provider. I'm not what you would call the provider man but I really like the idea of providing for my kids. Why else would you be a father ? That's the whole point. I care more about it than fucking

meteorness123 · 2022-07-12T18:52:47+00:00

How accurate do you rate this statement

"A lot of group movements today aren't necessarily about the content they pretend to care about but more about the attempt to find substitutes for the disappearing of religions. As these organized institutions disappear, human beings will try to organize in other groups and find causes to be passionate about. Such as environmentalism, veganism, feminism, etc."

decoy88 · 2022-07-12T19:09:13+00:00

How do you run a political platform on “anti-wokeness”?

EDIT: USA is truly fucked but UK is working on catching up!

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