Daily Community Chat Megathread

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-30T16:50:16+00:00

So I keep hearing from the manosphere that women all have easy lives and never experience any struggle or hardship because men cater to them but also that most women are on anti depressants and are lonely alcoholics that hate their lives because of feminism.

SmootherWaterfalls · 2023-01-30T17:07:01+00:00

While it is a good question, the idea of asking what a sh*t test is on a forum about debating RP ideas is rather noteworthy. I've noticed people here are generally uninformed about ideas they're debating.

DryOutcome3407 · 2023-01-30T04:12:24+00:00

Women rationalize their attraction, aways ask what kind of men fill X:

What kind of men have good haircut => guys with good hair

What kind of guy aways wear fitting clothe => guys with big frame

What kind of guy is confident => successful and good looking guys

What kind of person is aways well groomed => guys with high profile jobs like lawyer and politicians

Trying to fit the characteristics without the thing backing it up will set you up to failure.

HumanNumber348 · 2023-01-30T12:44:34+00:00

I find it mildly amusing that men are simultaneously considered the “lololololol wife be asking whether I would love her if she was a worm, what a dumb question”-gender AND the “buhuuu, I want to be loved unconditionally” -gender.

THHBHStT · 2023-01-30T21:58:25+00:00

Don’t let women gaslight you into thinking OLD is harder for them because of the countless of options at their hands. It’s like someone at a buffet telling a broke college student that they’re having the same experience in picking food.

Picking a good match out of 100 is far easier than picking out a good match from 10, especially when there’s no guarantee of a good match

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-30T04:10:17+00:00

I'm going to take /u/EulenWatcher's advice and take a break.

See ya in a while.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-01-30T16:17:53+00:00

I have trouble keeping up with the complaints about women's sex drives in this community.

A significant portion of users argue that women have low sex drives/struggle to get aroused, and therefore are difficult sexual partners. Another significant portion of users argue that women have huge n-counts, ride cock carousels, and are generally too sexually available.

I am having a great deal of difficulty reconciling these two points, as they seem to cancel one another out.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-30T15:13:34+00:00

I wish the n count debate would just die already. Women also care about sexual past (many wont date bi men or virgins)

Men can have whatever preferences they want for long term relationships and the endless whining about it from promiscuous women wont change that.

THHBHStT · 2023-01-30T18:53:08+00:00

“She was coerced into leaving her country to marry abroad!”

No she was not. Women aren’t children with zero agency. She made a choice to move abroad, she was not forced into a plane, that is not coercion.

lulll · 2023-01-30T19:13:49+00:00

if women want us to pay for the first date i think its fair for women to provide a picture of their prescription pills so we know what type of crazy we are dealing with

caobozo · 2023-01-30T20:29:16+00:00

men who say makeup is deception i hope you appreciate those honest hairy pits and legs on a woman

UneastAji · 2023-01-30T14:03:42+00:00

CMV: Girls whose hobbies are "traveling and eating good food" are just as common as guys whose hobbies are "video games and sex". They're so stereotypical and bound to one's gender's incentives that they can be considered equivalent.

Men who push around that their hobbies are video games and sex are often time bullied or considered negatively, and as a consequence men understand that this isn't something women want to know about men.

The same should be done about women who proudly claim to be into what can be summed up as "very expensive dates". Women who are like this do not understand men or men's incentives and are in fact very little socially adjusted.

pileofmulch · 2023-01-30T16:35:27+00:00

One of the biggest relationship challenges for me is confusing a mature man with good deescalation skills with a man who doesn’t care enough to “fight for me”

Have to actively remind myself he’s not screaming with me because he cares, not because he couldn’t care less

I know I’m not alone in this for many woman as well. We are fed that violence & drama = passion

caobozo · 2023-01-30T20:25:34+00:00

can someone confirm the existence of super hot guys that have sex with ugly women

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2023-01-31T18:40:46+00:00

why do women hate "passport bros" so much? They're just trying to get the best mate possible. As long as it's consensual, who cares...

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-30T04:12:45+00:00

Anyone watch episode three of Last of Us yet? I want to grow old with someone 😢

BreezyBritt89 · 2023-01-30T05:18:10+00:00

Any makeup/skincare enthusiasts who are subscribed with Ipsy? I’m getting my first bag in February and I can’t wait.

THHBHStT · 2023-01-30T12:35:04+00:00

Hearing pornstars talk about their time in the industry is probably the best example of don’t even try to understand women

Countless of times I’ve heard “yeah they were shitty and exploited me and I felt used, so I left then unfortunately went back, now I’m done for good though after being traumatized “. I can understand this line of thinking with like stripping, cannot understand that line of thinking when getting fucked on camera

Don’t even get me started on the women who criticize the industry but still go under their pornstar name.

Lysa_Bell · 2023-01-30T12:59:56+00:00

The rise of the lonely, single man(~55min)

Includes: How to talk about gender differences in dating, how to interpret articles (opinion vs data), emotional vulnerability vs market value? Misogyny vs the devaluation of the root of loneliness, competition of suffering, what even is EQ? Watch what they do - not what they say, individual vs systemic issues

InfoVariety-8842 · 2023-01-30T15:46:55+00:00

Maybe this is just my ADHD talking, but I don't know how people can use TikTok and still remain functional. I have tried it a couple of times, and it it always manages to obliterate what is left of my attention span.

TigerRude4 · 2023-01-30T16:42:42+00:00

Conspiracy theory time: on one Reddit account I posted some stuff that go against the trans people narrative (it's not even transphobic, it's just facts) and now whenever I try to open some subreddit it takes forever to load, but when I'm on this account, everything works fine. Do you think Reddit did something shady to my other account, if not what do you reckon is the reason why this is happening.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-30T17:50:01+00:00

Lifeprotip, you guys gotta start doing this one thing with women:

Hold their hands.

Beezies love holding hands.

chilikettlechips · 2023-01-30T18:22:47+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/nextfuckinglevel/comments/10p5bax/thai_street_cook_flawlessly_prepares_meals/

Reddit really is disgusting some times. Poor woman probably lost her hands making iPhone parts or clothes or sneakers in a night shift swaest shop but then the Reddit comedian brigade can't help themselves making 800 comments of hilarious puns and comedy and she is soooo "next fucking level"

Lysa_Bell · 2023-01-30T18:51:07+00:00

Q4A

Do you hide who you are? How far do the "white lies" go when you are interacting with a potential partner? Do you lie by omission? Do you try to show yourself in a good light even when you are already in a relationship with a person for a while? Are you honest showing a potential partner everything that could be viewed as red flags? You got examples when you tried to look better for a person by hiding your own opinion?

nothatyoucare · 2023-01-30T19:54:18+00:00

The perfect side by side to compare and contrast how a woman can sexualize/desexualize herself.

https://www.reddit.com/r/insanepeoplefacebook/comments/10of0wk/imagine_seeing_a_wholesome_photo_like_this_and/?ref=share&ref_source=link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mgw6y3cH7tA

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-30T20:36:40+00:00

The Mainstream and Women: Porn is very bad for men, so is cheating. But Porn is great for women and getting cucked bolsters relationships

Puzzleheaded_Joke394 · 2023-01-31T15:24:58+00:00

Best way in 2023 to avoid being a betabux and avoid chad chasers looking to settle?

ChengduThrowaway · 2023-01-31T11:46:56+00:00

The amount of misinformation and falsehoods being thrown about regarding dating in SE/E Asia is absolutely staggering - do people in PPD even travel? Or read?

scwizard · 2023-01-31T05:06:32+00:00

It's weird to hear how common it is for Swedish guys to be taking southeast Asian wives these days.

I've always thought of Swedes as pretty blue pilled and kinda figured that kinda move would be taboo or even illegal in Sweden.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-01-30T04:00:31+00:00

First?

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-01-30T04:06:32+00:00

Friendly reminder to drink water 😤😤😤🌊🥤💧💧💧

_SaltUponWounds_ · 2023-01-30T04:07:15+00:00

In a just and rational society, being a PUA would be a criminal offense.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-30T10:49:13+00:00

Its funny how almost all coverage of Qatar and how they treat their migrant workers has stopped now that the World Cup is over.

lehibu38 · 2023-01-30T14:23:48+00:00

I have never once been my true self with a girl, always felt like im doing a presentation or putting on a curated character so she will like me. My longest relationship is one year, and i feel like even with her I was just pretending. I know i have to be myself, and stop pretending to like what they like, but I can't im too much of a yes man.

Any help guys?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-01-30T15:16:54+00:00

I wish we could compare women with cars without women getting so offended about it.

We can compare everything with anything... deal with it.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-30T15:56:18+00:00

You know, when you think about the life long best friendships men have, it makes sense why men don't grow bored in relationships like women do

AidsVictim · 2023-01-30T16:00:41+00:00

Women lose interest in sex more easily, harder to get aroused, more severe filtering, more likely to divorce, more likely to cut off friends and family, more class demands, more appearance obsessed...all I'm seeing is women taking L's on their personalities and values. Where are the white pills for women?

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-30T16:19:13+00:00

What is happening in South Korea is insane to read about, apparently the birth rates are the lowest in the world because women are on a sex strike. Their slogan is “Four nos: no dating, no sex, no marriage and no child-rearing.”

This probably going to result in more young women from South East Asia being purchased by Korean men

https://archive.is/2023.01.28-215214/https://www.nytimes.com/2023/01/27/opinion/south-korea-fertility-rate-feminism.html

https://archive.is/AesHE

THHBHStT · 2023-01-30T18:21:56+00:00

Fellas, that woman knew if she wanted to fuck you or not within the first 15sec of meeting you. From there you can only talk your way out of it, not into it

The juice is never, ever, worth the squeeze

Play_Muted · 2023-01-30T20:30:13+00:00

tax prof all class been like "I'm not telling you you should do [insert borderline tax evasion scheme taking advantage of every loophole in the system], but it is possible."

EBZ1722 · 2023-01-30T04:22:42+00:00

If my male friend is very sad and hurting after a breakup, is it creepy to mail him a care package of cookies for Valentine's Day?

I figure it will be a hard day for him, and cookies make hard days better. But I also don't want to make him uncomfortable.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-30T10:03:15+00:00

The worst type of people are the ones who can see you're closing the shop up and decide to come in anyway and hold you up another 20 minutes.

Like come on bro, it's not my fault you timed your visit wrong, come back another time.

I usually just make up something like I'm already running behind or I've got somewhere to be afterwards so they'll fuck off.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-01-30T13:25:01+00:00

There was this one guy I went to sixth form with that I reallyyy fancied but I knew he was bad news. So we just used to talk and I would say no to “hanging out”. Eventually I grew up and stopped liking him. Then a while later he called me out of the blue and wanted to get me an Uber to a different city so I could have a threesome with him and his friend. I always wonder what the thought process behind that was

Willow-girl · 2023-01-30T13:35:25+00:00

The amount of unworn yoga pants and other athletic gear that I'm seeing in customer returns makes me think some of you people are backsliding on your New Year's resolutions! Time to get with the program ...

shmupsy · 2023-01-30T13:59:31+00:00

I think this sub misses out on the idea that life under capitalism has mutated romantic relationships into crude business partnerships.

You may have heard that modernity has resulted in sexuality becoming transactional. people are looking at themselves in terms of market value. This is a perversion. this scramble is annoying. we would be much happier going back to a virtue-based system. and of course moving away from virtue will ultimately destroy any system because everyone will eventually think like thieves.

Feminism was an absolute boon to big business and tax collection. Everyone can see now there is no reason to have it anymore. it's just another grift like everything, to try and scrape a piece of profit from the precocity ever trying to crush us all. if you can get a group going that gets grants and gains power, you better do it.

Duel income is directly counter to healthy gender roles. and not just the obsoletion of men. You absolutely need a stay at home parent more than ever now or else you will lose your kids to the consumerism beast waiting to snatch their hearts.

It's feeding this alpha-beta thing. Why settle into the slog of wage slavery if you can put it off for 10-15 years? and maybe even score a top earning man so you can enjoy staying home with babies? It's not spoken loudly but of course it's subconsciously on women's minds. we've only been living this way for a relatively short period. women still remember the before time.

I think we are naive to think that we are moving forward into some bright future, and the losers better adapt. I think it's a much better idea to tear down the system. I don't really care how hard that sounds. Not looking forward to the sexbots.

red__hulk · 2023-01-30T18:23:31+00:00

Men are especially awesome on this Monday.

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-30T21:06:22+00:00

[current year] strikes again.

I have a patient who has already had two rather unsuccessful surgeries for a facial anomaly, (not my surgeries), and shes been obese basically since before she was 10 and is now a later aged teen.

So I'm trying to fix the deal with said botched surgeries and her mandible has been growing at an insane rate and not typical for her age (or sex).

I found out (she didn't tell me) shes "transitioning" and I had the "oh fuck" moment as women on male levels of testosterone often get a more masculine jaw.

Sigh fuck, I asked her to update her medications "there's a lot" ... please bring a list next time I see you.

Temporary-Drawing212 · 2023-01-30T22:34:36+00:00

Why do men have such a narrow minded vision on how it looks to provide and protect?? Anytime I hear men claim they only way to do those two action is though a family I laugh. If you want to do those things then go and do humanitarian activities?

liefelijk · 2023-01-30T22:38:10+00:00

Carrot cake is the best cake

purginggastonist · 2023-01-30T04:40:39+00:00

GASTON'S BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS!!!!!!!

- THE BIBLE

- THE MEDITATIONS OF MARCUS AURELIAS

- THE BOOK OF FIVE RINGS

- POLITICS AND THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE

- WILD AT HEART

- BRONZE AGE MINDSET

- RAW EGG NATIONALISM IN THEORY AND PRACTICE

- EXTREME OWNERSHIP

- INDUSTRIAL SOCIETY AND ITS FUTURE

- NICHOMEAN ETHICS

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2023-01-30T04:48:55+00:00

Hey you, if you're reading this, then fuck you :)

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-01-30T04:58:48+00:00

Whats the problem with dealing with issues on your own and not telling anyone about them? Sure if u tell someone it might help, but imagine your depressed and you fix urself without any help. Imagine the confidence that would give u for life

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-01-30T05:30:17+00:00

I have a confession to make...

I've never played Zelda Ocarina of Time until yesterday

Millennial gamers don't come for me 😭

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-01-30T11:05:22+00:00

A departed user DMed me this. It claims growing n count inequality.

https://mobile.twitter.com/DegenRolf/status/1618565662921850881

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/367325876_Sexual_loneliness_A_neglected_public_health_problem

When I was looking for the text I found the following in the tech bro hangout. It's like reading a thread here. Is pill talk going mainstream? What does that mean for society?

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34534272

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-01-30T12:42:59+00:00

Watching nice guys rationalize just wanting a girlfriend for sex is hilarious.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-30T12:51:28+00:00

Gotta love rocking up to the gym when it's supposed to be dead and every bench in sight is gone. Spent 20 minutes riding on the bike waiting for one to free up and it's the same selfish fucks still on the bench.

I shouldn't have to wait half an hour for a bench.

northernlights190 · 2023-01-30T15:04:07+00:00

I wish the handful of dudes here who insist women don’t get horny were right, because my libido has been through the roof lately. I keep accidentally spending entire afternoons fantasizing and it’s a problem.

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-30T15:07:27+00:00

Ironic. More anti-natalist propaganda after we had an agenda post here.

https://youtu.be/hJa1ySkn0m4

This shit isn't a coincidence, perhaps the post here was but it's being driven by people who have an agenda and are paying to promote this shit.

dbz_f · 2023-01-30T15:13:54+00:00

What's your take on going through each other's phones to prove you have "nothing to hide"? Are you entitled to privacy or is that sus? If you're not doing anything wrong, then you shouldn't be afraid of letting your partner go through your phone, right?

thoughts?

I'm on the side that everyone is entitled to some degree of privacy.

chilikettlechips · 2023-01-30T18:10:30+00:00

Men, ya'll gotta subscribe to the women only subs. Abosolute bangers, all bangers all the time.

I feel like I fucked up with my choice in a partner. When I think about what he brings to the partnership the list is pretty short. But it’s also the most important stuff - stability, a good provider (FWIW I make good money myself), good dad. And he doesn’t have any major shortcomings like substance abuse, in law issues, etc. But I don’t feel like he’s “my person.” I don’t even know if he’s a friend.

And I’m starting to realize… I might not really like him very much. He’s a great dad and he’s very useful, but I similarly wonder why I’m suffering and struggling so much for someone I’m pretty lukewarm on. I guess at this point we’ve been together for so long… sort of feels like I owe it to see if maybe the trauma of the last three years of our lives might be a compounding factor and I can come back to liking him… but damned if I don’t sometimes think that if we separated I’d have every other weekend to myself…

Other people already made great comments, so I’m just going to add, he can still be a good provider and a good dad if you aren’t married. Joint custody, child support with weekends, whatever. The short list shouldn’t change if you get divorced (and if it does, then he’s not a good dad, probably shouldn’t be around your kid or you, and the courts can enforce the good provider thing).

Living with them was a complete nightmare. They pissed on the bathroom floor, and toilet seat, and sometimes the piss would get on the rug; they didn't clean the remnants of shit left behind in the toilet; they didn't even wipe their asses properly (skid marks in underwear); my brothers usually ate in their rooms and when I, my mum, or granny cleaned, we found chicken bones or mouldy food under their beds. My youngest brother often hid his dirty cups and dishes in the storage compartment of our sofa (although the kitchen was literally only a few feet away).

My dad used to summon me from my bedroom to get him a glass of water while he was in the living room on the couch watching TV...my bedroom was located at the back of the house whereas the living room was located next to the kitchen.

Discussion Q4A: Betabux and settling. Notice the amount of "provider" and, "good guy"(Not an insult but not a compliment) etc. Also lmao at toothbrush pill getting more ammo.

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-30T18:59:24+00:00

Men who do not worship in the temple of Brodin deserve only women who gorge themselves at the buffet of Bacchus. - The Book of Iron

Wheymen.

FizzleMateriel · 2023-01-30T19:00:40+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/10okdvp/the_lifestyle_she_wants_is_all_i_have_to_offer/

Cautionary tale of being a Beta Bux to an Alpha Widowed woman.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-30T21:01:35+00:00

Q4W: How much do you agree with the statement: "If a woman really wants to have sex with a guy, be he married or single, she will move heaven and earth to make it happen, doesn't matter the consequences"

I often heard variations of this thrown around certain subs, boards and wherever and would like to get some opinions.

scwizard · 2023-01-30T21:10:13+00:00

The density of nail salons in Costa Rica is very high.

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-01-30T22:10:02+00:00

So, I just saw a drama that is unfolding in the streaming world. A big streamer accidentally showed that he likes fapping to a deepfake porn of another famous streamer, who apparently is the GF of a friend of his.

I found it funny how people are absurdly mad at it. I think that it's pretty much guaranteed that if your GF/wife is hot, then there are probably multiple guys who masturbate to her. And if she's a celebrity, well, there are probably thousands who do it.

The fact that it was a deepfake to me is pretty irrelevant, unless the guy was distributing/producing it or something like that. But fapping to deepfake? I don't see why care about it.

Stingray2065 · 2023-01-31T04:59:06+00:00

The guy I'm into keeps sending me weird sex memes. I don't know if that means I've officially become "one of the guys" for him, or if it's just him being awkward. But it's a strange development.

THHBHStT · 2023-01-31T04:37:27+00:00

Normally when I’m out I ask women to take a picture of me and my friends then work a convo from that (free game!) but now I’m thinking about pretending to do interviews because damn these women seem to love that shit and it be the dumbest questions

Feisty-Saturn · 2023-01-31T04:30:26+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/CoBSQvXsVrT/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

Single woman killing it

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-01-31T04:20:15+00:00

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Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-31T04:16:19+00:00

Just finished my dissertation for hustlers university, it was difficult 😩

saraimarsena · 2023-01-30T13:48:59+00:00

looking at that recent post, i wonder how common it is for a man to actually choose an average virgin over a prettier girl with a low-average n count. i can understand when some men claim they don’t wanna wife a promiscuous woman, but most women don’t have an n count of 50 anyway. and plus the average woman is overweight.

for men to solely claim that they’d 10/10 rather wife a virgin seems like 1, virtue signaling or 2, that PPD men aren’t representative of the average man.

for one thing, it completely ignores compatibility of personality. would you wait til marriage for a virgin? do you carry yourself to the standards that a virgin woman might expect? plus, i guarantee that many women here have found that a lot of guys don’t even ask. and i’d be willing to bet that most guys (outside of the small % of purists) don’t care so much about the actual number as much as they just don’t want a girl who fucked their friends or carries herself in an attention seeking hoe-like manner.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-30T06:38:32+00:00

CMV: It should not be this hard to put your pp inside a woman

dbz_f · 2023-01-30T08:29:50+00:00

Everyone who was worried about me yesterday, everything’s fine. Everything’s great between my gf and I, don’t worry, crisis averted. I will be taking a break from PPD probably though

purplish_possum · 2023-01-30T16:23:45+00:00

Modern western women are the gold standard. If I were to go abroad to look for women I'd go to western Europe to find women who are more thoroughly modern than American women.

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2023-01-31T04:06:23+00:00

I had dinner with my boyfriend’s cousin and her family. It turned out her husband is an equivalent of passport bro from the US. I ended up talking to him quite a bit since he and I were the only people there who could speak English fluently.

He’s 35 yo, white, thin, and 5 foot 7. He worked as an English teacher. He came to Thailand 5 years ago since he thought the US was going to shit. The thing is his Thai wife was actually a 38-yo single mom of two lovely kids. She also owned a business and earned more than him. I didn’t want to be creepy so I didn’t pry much further. From what I saw, his step kids loved playing with him.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-31T03:51:30+00:00

It's interesting how Jordan Peterson's, probably the most famous medical practitioner, certainly the most famous psychologist, daughter is a single mother.

huhwhatokok · 2023-01-31T03:36:57+00:00

Old Women are gaslighting this dude for having a reasonable age range lol 32-42. Looks good for his age but I definitely feel like he’s had Botox done.

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/10pc2ba/im_new_to_hinge_and_would_like_feedback_on_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-01-31T03:36:38+00:00

Women: dating isn't easy for women because men are scary and the physical threat is there

Also women: chooses the tallest, strongest, most muscular men

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-31T03:34:44+00:00

just talked to older camilla cabello yoga hottie on the phone for the first time just to talk. I think shes going to be my new gf within two weeks.

i'm so fucking excited about her i'm literally vibrating in my boxer briefs

huhwhatokok · 2023-01-31T03:21:34+00:00

Looks like clean shaven except for a stache is making a comeback.

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xzpw · 2023-01-30T04:47:44+00:00

What are peoples opinions on relationship coaches? (Sometimes called dating coaches) I’m not talking about PUA.

It’d be awesome if I heard from folks who have actually used one or know a lot about a friend who used one. I have my first session with a guy this week. I’ll be sure to update the crowd as to how it goes.

I have some friends who used some as well. Not many men are going to come forward with that they used one. The one friend I can talk about used one because he came from another country and was kinda in his shell a bit. He didn’t know how to flirt at all and he had some other issues that the coach addressed like how he exhibited neediness in his relationships pretty early on. The coach gave him strategies for both and the neediness one I think is something he had to work on more long term and even with a therapist. He said it was worth it for him and lead to better outcomes.

I’m in a weird situation where I’m really great from a psychological perspective - I have secure attachment, form bonds well, make new friends easily, etc. but I can’t seem to get dates at all. My last therapist was basically like, “there’s no reason you need to see me” and I only kept seeing him once a month or so as basic insurance. Even now, I don’t think he or other therapists would have anything useful to say. I know some in real life too and they think I’m fine - astounding given my background if anything.

So, it’s just a challenge. I feel like living in nyc and sf has made this shit so insanely challenging where I need to spend so many thousands more dollars than should be necessary on personal trainers, skincare, cosmetic surgery, clothes, photographers, etc. and now people who can help me build the best dating profiles, find the best pro photographers (the ones I’ve used made no difference lol), etc.

I don’t think I am meeting enough men in the bottom 20% of looks often enough to get a feel that this is just a normal experience. I feel like there’s some kind of filtering factor once you get past $200k income where the overwhelming majority of men just kinda look pretty decent overall. (Most of my peers make this income or much more - see flair)

karaishorny · 2023-01-30T04:56:48+00:00

PPD kinda makes me horny

eye_fuck · 2023-01-30T11:19:02+00:00

why tf cooking me food is so damn effective in making me not be mad at you, nerf pls

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-30T12:04:16+00:00

Update on trying to get our friends to fall in love with each other. The outing went okay. Getting drunk was the highlight of the day. Everybody had fun but they didn't hit it off as much as we'd like tbh.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-30T12:13:26+00:00

Anyone here into calisthenics and can tell me if parralletes make pushups harder or easier?

Peacesquad · 2023-01-30T13:47:21+00:00

What’s the haps

eye_fuck · 2023-01-30T14:33:07+00:00

What were the hardest years of your life? What made them hardest?

Slipthe · 2023-01-30T15:04:09+00:00

Do you think its harder to make meaningful friends or to get a date?

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-30T15:36:06+00:00

The Jealousy is a festering wound in my mind

meteorness123 · 2023-01-30T18:04:37+00:00

6'8 chad boxer Tyson Fury suffers from severe depressive episodes.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-30T20:14:48+00:00

Weighed myself yesterday. I weight like 200lbs. But I’m tall. But I’m also not liking the body fat percentage. But I have decent muscle.

How I’m gonna cut fat. Grow muscle and also lean up all at the same time is gonna be a balance.

I could lean down by just not eating. But that makes me tired all day.

Decisions decisions.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-30T21:34:41+00:00

Q4M: Is cheating really just a lack of opportunity for men?

blebbyroo · 2023-01-30T21:39:20+00:00

Anyone ever play a sex game with your partner from an app? Ms and my partner have done it a few times and I always find it really fun. You pick categories to do/have done and then it randomly gives you tasks to do to please your partner and ends with you both orgasming usually from Penetration

Highly reccomended as a once in awhile bedroom shake up

lulll · 2023-01-30T22:02:22+00:00

thanks to the last of us show ive decided to finally play last of us 2 after putting it off for this long hoping it would get cheaper. fucking game is still $40 though

scwizard · 2023-01-30T22:09:53+00:00

I just got a 6.50 "premium CBO" from "McDonald's signature collection."

Why the fuck can't I have this in the US? Sure it's not as good as a lol $12 burger from five guys but for $6.50 it's pretty freaking great.

meteorness123 · 2023-01-30T22:11:04+00:00

I sometimes wish my mom would have married a rich goofball instead of a broke chad lmaooo

scwizard · 2023-01-30T22:17:00+00:00

I think my skin is the right shade of brown where I sorta blend in. I got lots of people trying to talk to me in Spanish and I haven't had any creeps walk up to me and ask me if I want to meet a hot girl yet.

Peacesquad · 2023-01-30T22:45:41+00:00

What’s your X count?

lehibu38 · 2023-01-30T07:10:11+00:00

Have heard of women getting birth control and it decreasing their sex drive, is there an equivalent for men of this? I'm taking finasteride but my libido is still high

Katatonicsnake · 2023-01-30T09:59:13+00:00

Chubby men seem to have a lot of sex

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-30T17:15:57+00:00

E-girl is my favourite negative xp song and one of the best 'incel core' songs in my opinion. But I also really relate of Left On Read.

I find the best 'incelcore' music has a message of "Im fucked up" instead of "women/society are fucked up".

uno_21 · 2023-01-30T20:06:02+00:00

The key to women is (obvious): Caring less/being emotionally detached.

Let go of your ego. It doesn’t matter if Chad smashed on the first date. Smash her on the 5th date and have on tap pussy for the foreseeable future. You shouldn’t even be that invested in the relationship anyways. Feel free to cheat. Don’t stress about it. Just go along with it. Ignore her when she acts up. Don’t worry about if she’s loyal (just assume she’s going to cheat anyways). Stop caring what women on the internet say. Don’t be afraid to creep out a woman by approaching her. Just do what works.

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-31T03:14:51+00:00

As it turns out feminists aren't against mandatory female draft huh

It's funny to see OP unsuccessfully trying to pick a fight with everyone

edit: even mensrights aproves

WHAT IS THIS

purginggastonist · 2023-01-31T02:50:12+00:00

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAH, THATS ACTUALLY (WHEEZES) PRETTY FUNNY

https://twitter.com/HuffPostWomen/status/724236480667856896

2023-01-31T02:45:46+00:00

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my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-31T02:28:25+00:00

They keep talking about how the deep fake technology in porn is dangerous but people forget photoshop, fans with a lot of time in their hands and special effects have existed for a long time.

Also isn't the whole Atroic drama blown a bit out of proportion?

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-31T02:06:10+00:00

Baby fever is totally a real thing 😩

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2023-01-31T01:54:39+00:00

The Italian actor from that trashy Netflix movie 365 days is dating a 20 year old. He's 32 and his gf is 20. It's accepted as normal. On IG, girls 18 -20 are asking him to pick them. According to PPD women, this age difference is "creepy". In the real world, it seems normal.

scwizard · 2023-01-31T01:53:54+00:00

My sister is very much like you (she’s actually 3 inches shorter) and yeah, it’s super creepy to see unfold. She gets it all the time, even though she’s a bit older now (38, but can still pass for a 17-18 year old due to shortness, skinny, and baby like face). She’s also single and a virgin and has stated many times she’s perfectly happy to stay that way because she just sees men as super creepy. As someone who has gradually in his life gone from having predominantly male friends to predominantly female friends, I fully agree with her.

Damn there be 38 year old virgin females out there.

Can't exactly blame her for not trusting men though when she's looked like a loli all her life.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-31T01:44:05+00:00

A lot of men really need to gain some self respect because this is embarrassing, you can’t argue a women into fucking you.

Bangmade · 2023-01-31T01:29:10+00:00

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OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-31T01:19:37+00:00

"If you wanna be happy living a king's life, never make a pretty woman your wife" - Soldier Boy, 1957.

What are your opinions on this?

https://youtu.be/B2k44uAyN18

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-31T01:12:02+00:00

A woman called me handsome and said I dressed nice when I was at the veteran's affairs hospital while in a elevator.

I've never been so uncomfortable in my life. Thank you women for continously making my existence hell, when I don't even talk to you people.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-31T00:47:47+00:00

if you find a woman that says she likes "generous" men you can be certain she is fucking broke as hell

usually these women aren't very generous with their affection either.

number 1 red flag she is out to extract your resources if she uses the word "generous" to describe others as a preference.

huhwhatokok · 2023-01-31T00:32:09+00:00

So a female streamer went off on a tirade apparently bc her simp fanbase wanted her to play a video game instead of just showing off her body reading chat. She then went on a tirade and one her comments she made was “if you use the crying emoji as a man, you’re gay.” I’ve always send women are more homophobic than men and Ngl I hear pretty often that women think men using emojis is gay.

blackpilledanon1 · 2023-01-31T00:25:34+00:00

HELP bf lied about having sex with current roommate

Now I don't know what to do or how/ if I should bring it up. Any advice/ similar experiences would be much appreciated.

Chads out here abusing their market position. This women doesn’t even know what to do after getting cheated on by Chad. That’s how bad things are right now.

AssEater69x · 2023-01-31T00:24:43+00:00

Some guy got his photo posted on the miami are we dating the same guy page.

Hes currently accused of making gay porn, being married and being a nomad that pumps and dumps women in all different states.

purginggastonist · 2023-01-31T00:13:55+00:00

goddamn sometimes the red pill subreddit still hits hard

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/10p4rwq/tactics_without_strategy_is_the_noise_before/

purplish_possum · 2023-01-31T00:13:46+00:00

Public Defenders should be allowed to strangle one annoying client per year.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-01-31T00:09:33+00:00

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biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-31T00:05:28+00:00

Men under 5'10 should get disability payments

SerpentCypher · 2023-01-30T23:56:04+00:00

Oh god. Just seen another "I get catcalled every day and have done since I was 12" comment. If people are going to make shit up can they at least try to make it semi realistic?

liefelijk · 2023-01-30T23:45:58+00:00

Simple cooking tip of the day: Take a bunch of nice oranges (I used cara cara), cut off the rind with a paring knife, and slice into thin strips.

They keep really well in the fridge and are great as a fancy snack (maybe with plain yogurt, nuts, and brown sugar, yum) or tossed in a salad. They make you feel like you have some fancy cook making stuff for you. 😂

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-30T23:34:48+00:00

Crazy pseudoscience idea.

Public: that's silly.

Crazy pseudoscience idea told in a soft spoken male British accent.

Public: whoah....

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-30T23:28:28+00:00

What I find funny is that all these studies will tell you that men are happier in marriages when every married man you meet in the real world seems to be fucking miserable.

Doesn't add up. Sounds like a load of bullshit to scam men into believing marriage is a good idea.

Dolphin_Moon · 2023-01-30T23:22:38+00:00

i have a date tonight that i am absolutely dreading and i think after tonight im officially deleting my apps and gonna try to volunteer, go out when i can solo, and clean up my life a little. Having that great first date ghost on me after i told him when i was free and he completely dodged me made me wanna slither back into my cave and not get flirty again unfortunately

meteorness123 · 2023-01-30T23:19:39+00:00

Incredibly based quote :

" I've Never lost women while chasing money, but I've always lost money and women while chasing women. "

TigerRude4 · 2023-01-30T22:57:25+00:00

There's a woman on frontpage, young, average looking at best, maybe a bit chubby and she said her dad said her nose is weird or something. She got like 2k upvotes and one of the most popular comments was "All I see is Selena Gomez". Tbh if I got comments telling me I'm like Brad Pitt and if I was very young, I'd too get a lot of ego

purginggastonist · 2023-01-30T22:56:02+00:00

GASTON MANGA RECOMMENDATION!!!!

I KNOW YOU ARE ALL EXCITED

this is one of my favorite manga very funny

https://mangasee123.com/read-online/Gekkan-Shojo-Nozaki-Kun-chapter-135.html

edit: u/Stingray2065 this series is very similar to "my love story" and in my opinion is actually funnier

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