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Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-20T06:15:05+00:00

What is the point of free onlyfans

Cethlinnstooth · 2023-07-20T05:54:38+00:00

It occurred to me that some guys here might like the opportunity to go into angry conniptions over Tash Peterson but have not encountered her yet due to not being Australian.

May i present Tash Peterson? Her onlyfans account helps fund her radical vegan activism.

https://youtu.be/ySF5mq3s5eo

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12305555/Vegan-activist-Tash-Peterson-burns-police-notice-ban-Western-Australia-venues.html

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https://onlyfans.com/tashpeterson

ThorLives · 2023-07-20T05:51:59+00:00

Was looking at Prof G's instagram. He has been talking about men's issues a lot in the past few years. What I found most dismal was the dismissiveness of women in the comments, and how many upvotes they got. I expect that kind of attack on PPD, but this is mainstream.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CusAJtdgc77/

Top comment:

As a woman, gotta say I find it hard to care about men’s “struggles.” Being a woman is a thankless job, especially in the context of motherhood, and we’ve fought hard to get a seat at the table. Sorry if you guys failed to realize you had a seat you had potentially never earned. (82 likes)

Welcome to the gender war.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-20T05:33:13+00:00

Honestly I just came from the nice guys thread, and I still haven't heard a good argument for telling guys to work on their personalities, when women aren't gonna give you a chance to show off your personality if your not attractive to them.

And for the women saying that a good personality can take a man from a " no " to a " yes", how many guys or even people have such a extraordinary personality, they are so amazing as a person that they override you not being attracted to them

And this applies to average men too, cuase there was a whole thread a while ago of women admitting that most men to them are " unremarkable "

I think the better advice would be to simply become better looking. There are alot of ways to become better looking, lose weight, get a skin care routine, get tatoos, get a better haircut.

And for all looks analyzers out there, if your jaw is trash, you don't need a jaw implant, get some chin filler. Don't believe me, watch male models on YouTube, alot of them get cheek and jaw filler. Its non invasive, and hopefully it'll make you realize that facial harmony is more important then just have a wide jaw and hunter eyes

SianOiseau · 2023-07-20T05:20:28+00:00

Recently got my husband a nice leather bag. It costs more than pretty much all my pieces of clothes, but it was a gift, so it's worth it.

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-07-20T04:42:52+00:00

Why do people keep saying “ why does body count matter for women, but not for men” as if women don’t literally get to decide what matters for them

HeartCatchHana · 2023-07-20T04:34:08+00:00

Why is dancing so sexy, especially street dances.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-20T04:33:44+00:00

What is up with the phrase “read the room” from my understanding it just means nonverbal communication.

Most of human communication is nonverbal , in fact somewhere between 70-93%. So little is communicated through words. Which is understandable since speech language is quite new phenomenon.

Autistic men struggle socially because of nonverbal communication, they just lack the tools to understand others body language and tone. And their own nonverbal communication might not be congruent with their own verbal words.

When it comes to online, you see them write quite well, which makes them seem normal.

AbdelBoudria · 2023-07-20T04:16:24+00:00

If you don't get approached by women as a man you can safely assume you're not attractive. It's normal not to be attractive, women only see the top 20% of men as desirable.

SianOiseau · 2023-07-20T03:56:16+00:00

I still don't understand how my husband "pays" for sex considering I make more than he does. PPD claims are getting out of hand.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-20T03:32:40+00:00

So I decided to join some of those "are we dating the same guy?" Facebook groups. My application is still pending, they don't fuck around with who they let in. Fingers crossed they let me in, I'm dying to see the drama. It will also be interesting to see the types of men women prefer on there. I really really hope I get in

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-20T03:01:10+00:00

My foot hurts so bad FUCK FUCK FUCK

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-20T03:00:21+00:00

Groups of teenaged girls are so scary

I was walking on campus and wearing this black sweater, just minding my business and there was this group of 10 girls or so walking behind me. One of them randomly goes, “Scarlett, did you just say the guy in the black sweater was cute?” (Loud enough for me to hear).

I was wearing a black jacket, so she was obviously teasing a friend. A bunch of the girls laughed awkwardly and I felt so uncomfortable for some reason, like I was suddenly naked or something. Were they laughing because I was actually ugly?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-20T02:47:00+00:00

All debates should be settled by connect 4

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-20T02:15:51+00:00

I think a lot of women are here, because they enjoy how these incels gas them up and reinforce that they have power over them.

It is sureley not for intellectual debate and discussions.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-07-20T02:07:58+00:00

me watching ig vid: 2 pretty ladies say their dream job is respectively Lawyer and Graphic designer. Mfw the male commenters say they don't believe that and prefer to think they both are Onlyfans chicks.

guys I'm starting to think we are the baddys. 😬

Moonclayyx_ · 2023-07-20T01:56:07+00:00

Men should always pay for dates

AdventurousRub6960 · 2023-07-20T01:49:14+00:00

Who would you trust to run a government? The Military or Politicians?

potoricco · 2023-07-20T01:44:35+00:00

Honestly I’m presently surprised that r/Redpi(ck me)llwomen are actually sensible, they don’t promote things like child marriage, abuse and being a doormat just to please a man

meteorness123 · 2023-07-20T01:40:17+00:00

Its amazing how good a little fat looks on women

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-20T01:34:57+00:00

How many people would agree that if you can take someone's value away from them (i.e., basically most physical things) then they weren't really that valuable?

I'm of the opinion that most of a person's value comes from their internal qualities, like their outlook on life, their desire to want to see others happy and well, the effort they put forth to accomplish things, all of their acquired knowledge and understanding of the world around them, etc.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-07-20T01:23:57+00:00

Wassup y’all Had to break up with my boyfriend, has the dating scene magically improved whilst I’ve been gone

Moonclayyx_ · 2023-07-20T01:22:11+00:00

MRA is 🗑️ harms our youth

Youngking41 · 2023-07-20T01:19:21+00:00

Will someone please rate me?

Throwaway1447973 · 2023-07-20T01:10:58+00:00

Q4A: I'm curious what is the most brutal, curb stomp of a rejection you've ever seen irl? I was out with some friends at a bar about a year ago and one of the more attractive women in our group noticed this short, fat, balding guy alone out on the dance-floor. She flirted with him for about ten minutes, and he eventually ended up buying a drink for her. As soon as he does this her boyfriend comes up and pounds her drink while pretending to be an old friend of hers, and then both walked off laughing. I still think of it time to time just because of how cruel it was.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-20T01:03:13+00:00

If casual sex/dating wasn't a huge privilege, millions of women wouldn't be engaging in it and when men say that they want a woman who hasn't had casual sex before, women wouldn't be doubting it's possible, sarcastically saying "good luck with that" because most women would not have had casual sex before, so it's an easy standard to fulfill.

AdventurousRub6960 · 2023-07-20T00:52:26+00:00

Pigs will fly before I get a date

md8716 · 2023-07-20T00:49:27+00:00

Man, my kids are annoying AF sometimes, but I appreciate those little slice of life moments where you're just doing nothing at all really and they just strike up conversations or talk about stuff that's on their mind.

That doesn't happen if you don't spend a ton of downtime with them. A lot of life happens in the dead space between activities, and if you're always too busy working or doing other shit, you end up missing out on it.

mummydontknow · 2023-07-20T00:49:22+00:00

I haven't seen women praise lizzo nor get mad at being compared to her but it is a meme i see often and got me wondering,

Is there a male equivalent?

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-20T00:37:13+00:00

I don’t understand dating. Can someone help me with this?

I was taking to this girl. She was engaging and enthusiastic during conversation. She texted like your average teenaged girl, using lots of emojis and ALL CAPS INSTEAD OF EXCLAMATION POINTS.

After some talking I suggested we go out for ice cream sometime. She said “Okay, but you’re paying. LMFAO”.

Then, she said she was free the next day, and she seemed excited. I replied to her earlier message, “Maybe if we have a good enough time I’ll pay ;)”

Then she said “ok I’m not free anymore”. She was joking though. I said I wasn’t free the next day but could do the next Saturday. She said she works on Saturdays.

I asked her if there was another time she was free. She said her schedule comes out biweekly so she’d have to check. I told her to let me know if she settled on a date that would work. She liked my message, the Sunday has passed, and she hasn’t replied to me.

What exactly did I do wrong here? I’m very confused.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-20T00:36:17+00:00

PSA: The beta myth is a big fat lie

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-20T00:23:12+00:00

Got banned from datingadvice.

Oh well

potoricco · 2023-07-20T00:02:09+00:00

I swear im 100% not even gay but I’m like paranoid of my mom thinking I’m lesbian

I was sitting to her just now on tiktok and a video of lesbian couple came up, she didn’t see it thank god, but my hands were literally shaking

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-19T23:41:37+00:00

Can't get fat if you don't deserve food 🧠🧠🧠

keebydee · 2023-07-19T23:08:55+00:00

Sometimes I feel kinda glad that I grew up having poor connections with girls due to my Autism and other disorders. I didn't deal with the nonsense regarding male & female relationships. No friendzone, beta orbiting or being led on. And I saw a post on Instagram poking fun at guys confessing to their female friends and all the women where making "Can I tell you something?" jokes and seem to have a huge hatred towards male friends they aren't attracted to simply confessing.

Even in my own experience recently, I fell for a friend I made on here and she was somewhat able to notice that I liked her but wasn't 100% sure and said that she didn't want it to be true. Like, I didn't do anything wrong but I'm getting told from someone that they hope I'm not attracted to them like I'm some kind of monster that makes inappropriate sexual advances.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-19T23:00:51+00:00

Q4A: how do you define validation from your desired sex?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-19T22:53:56+00:00

Rate 50 cent

https://realbeauty101.typepad.com/.a/6a00e54f77b81d8833010537124a0c970b-pi

Preme2 · 2023-07-19T22:49:52+00:00

I’m sure PPD women have seen the Carlee Russell tweets by now. Shows you women will go to great lengths to lie and falsify information. I’m just glad she didn’t drag a man’s name through the mud with her. The media would be bringing his lifeless body down from the cross right about now.

potoricco · 2023-07-19T22:49:30+00:00

Menslib

Ahhhhahahahahahahahah

Liberation from what? The urge to commit Misogyny? In that case yes please

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-19T22:41:04+00:00

The woe me, poor me, I'm so defective attitude is why some here struggle and constantly will. Nobody wants to date or fuck someone who is so focused on their own self hatred.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-19T22:38:23+00:00

Women really live life on easy mode it’s sickening. Must be nice getting to live life with no hardships or obstacles :/

I still like being a man though. Knowing I’ve had to work for everything in my life is a good feeling, and also not having to worry about the wall is nice too.

UninterestingFork · 2023-07-19T22:32:27+00:00

this is the real chad

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-19T22:29:43+00:00

CMV: Women determine what men are high value and which are low value based on how they date and pursue them

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-19T22:10:46+00:00

Shoutout to Lebron. Dude has been in the public eye since he was a teenager(his HS games were on ESPN) and not one chick has tried to blow up his spot. Either he’s been completely faithful to his wife for 25 years or he got crazy NDAs. So many of his peers have gotten caught

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-19T21:44:36+00:00

Dating is just too tough for guys these days. The juice ain’t worth the squeeze, most guys should be MGTOW imo

BLKSKNHED · 2023-07-19T21:38:25+00:00

What men read: morality,heroes saving the world, war, science fiction, religion, non fiction , the human psyche, politics. what women read: Ye olde man wants to fuck ye olde woman, romance,romance,romance

Q4W:Why?

GlasgaAccentfurYanks · 2023-07-19T21:28:08+00:00

Women! Am a rite or what fellas!

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-19T21:20:47+00:00

It seems like we as a society placed the value of a women’s sweet nectar to high. Seems like a society was at it’s best when the value of a women’s sweet nectar wasn’t very high. Now since it’s overvalued they control the dating market which is sad when you think about it.

jobbo321 · 2023-07-19T21:20:34+00:00

My face looks like a combination of the El Paso mass shooter, Hayden Hillier Smith and Reviewbrah.

Oh and my hair is recessing faster than my 5 year older brother's hair.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-19T21:10:17+00:00

Ugh. Why do some men lash out when you set your boundary? Just received half a dozen back to back messages after saying that I don't think our values align, and there's no need to continue communicating. This is why I just ghost. The name calling, the yelling through caps, is too much.

baiser_vole · 2023-07-19T21:09:29+00:00

How many of you know your attachment style?

I got secure for partner. (Had to put in my email to look at the exact results, but you can get a general one without putting in your email)

https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/

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Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-19T21:01:09+00:00

I feel like there’s something wrong with my knee. Like it doesn’t like it when I stretches it out completely, it doesn’t hurt it just feels weird, especially if I bike.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-07-19T21:05:55+00:00

I just spent almost $200 more than I needed to for Mars Volta tickets for a balcony seat because - as I learned from the Skinny Puppy concert - I'm too short to see the stage in the general admission pit.

The short tax is real and it is discriminatory. Why shouldn't the shorties be allowed up front?

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-20T08:24:09+00:00

Idc about jonah hill very much but the fact that his ex bullying him for the last several weeks is socially acceptable because so many women are enabling/encouraging it is obnoxious as shit, this is how far we have strayed that people can't call out a crazy lunatic for what she is.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-20T08:30:47+00:00

https://www.cnn.com/2023/07/20/football/womens-world-cup-pay-prize-money-spt-intl-dg/index.html

How the hell do news agencies let dumb shit like this get published? The women's world cup earned $200 million in revenue. The last men's world cup earned 7.5 BILLION dollars in revenue. Not even getting into the fact that the men play against the likes of Messi and Mbappe, there isn't 0.01% the amount of talent in women's soccer as in men's.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-07-20T10:02:12+00:00

How seriously should I take a girls giggle? Whenever I attempt to flirt, a lot of them giggle and cover their mouths. Some continue to talk, while others scurry away....I'm a guy that had it rough in highschool so I'm still finding my way in the romance business...

BigCollectionFor · 2023-07-20T10:11:29+00:00

What do women mean when they complain about the men who are featured on "are we dating the same guy" spaces being ugly?

Most men are noy getting any dates. So these guys have to be above average on looks to be able to date several women?

Also, isn't other things like men being tall and charismatic or rich matter a lot too?

happy_discus · 2023-07-20T10:22:25+00:00

I might be the biggest social retard to have ever lived. I are these people nice to me? Whats their endgame? Why is my best friend obsessed with me not eating anything throughout the day. Let me be hungry, it really does not matter. Why is this girl talking to me out of the blue. Why is she sitting down next to me on a bench instead of going to class like everyone else? Why then talk to me like a normal person would do? Why is this other girl talking to me and showing up to class she doesn't even attend only to sit next to me and be bored throughout the class? Was it because I told her the class was helpful for our upcoming exam? But then the doodling and looking at your phone makes no sense. And why sit next to me if the whole room is empty? Why say bye explicitly even though no one else does it? Why did the first girl change her tone of voice while saying goodbye? Why are my best friends roommates so nice to me and totally fine with me coming over regularly? Even though it's a womans only dorm and men aren't supposed to enter the building. Why are they inviting me to do stuff with them? I don't even know them and I never get invited to anything. What's their goal here? What do they gain from this?

I have so many questions. I should write them down and sell them as a comedy book.

4SSh01e · 2023-07-20T11:04:43+00:00

As long as the dating app companies keep treating their users as their customers, they have vested interest in not facilitating a connection and instead want to create a carrot on stick model. Tinder is blatantly like that but other companies do the same thing but in less obvious manner.

An open source app developed and maintained by the community and operating costs paid by donations of the users will have no incentives to follow this carrot on stick model and can instead focus on facilitating a connection among their users.

Consider the problem of gender gap on apps and limitation on number of right swipe but no limitation on number of left swipes.

I propose that each user is granted X number of absolute swipes per day, it includes both left and right swipes. Also, gender gap is tackled by unevenly distributing the number of swipes user of each gender gets.

For example, if an app has 200 women and 800 men, then each woman would get 4x the amount of absolute swipes as compared to a man and you cannot pay to have absolutely any preferential treatment on the app and there is no ELO rating which works to further increase the unequal distribition of likes and matches. By absolute swipe I mean that you will be shown only N number of people, it's up to you how many you accept or reject.

Currently each user can left swipe as much as they want but there is a limitation on the number of right swipes, in a way, it is penalizing selection and incentivizing rejection because the limited capital (number of free right swipes) gets spent with each swipe. Thus in woman's hand it wields an ability to reject infinite number of men but select only a few. This gives her a perception of endless options.

Thus it will force men to not indiscriminately swipe thus artificially inflating each woman's perceived demand, and if the women are in the habit of left swiping 95% of profiles while preserving their ability to right swipe then they will have comparatively far fewer number of matches. Because let's say she's presented with 100 men/day in this app, then at the end through her 5% selection rate only 5 men will match with her. But if she was given 40 right swipe then she has the power to reject 800 men in one day and get 40 matches (assuming near 100% match rate)

lolmastr13 · 2023-07-20T11:25:25+00:00

In general men don’t compliment men on appearance so that they don’t get seen as non masculine and women don’t compliment men because it gets misinterpreted as interest. The end result is that as a straight man dressing yourself attractively is usually not a rewarding activity.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-20T11:41:43+00:00

"Women want as much sex as men do but just with the right person"

Then they don't want as much sex as men if it has to be the right person

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-20T11:44:12+00:00

I showed some red pilled stuff to my mom and she said a reminder of two adults we both personally know:

Uncle - A control freak who abused both his wives. Before someone says “falsely accused”, he also beat up people in our own family and got banned from family reunions because of it.

Dad’s BFF - Has 6 kids with 3 strippers.

potoricco · 2023-07-20T12:00:19+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/met3lizo04db1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=436bcb72acdfa10775ad518b28e750b50230813e

What I’ve been saying for like 4748292912736446 years, but a man says it now so he’ll be taken seriously course

lolmastr13 · 2023-07-20T12:37:00+00:00

It’s valid that women feel attraction differently and so it can be harder for them to find someone they’re attracted to than it is for men. BUT young women still have it a lot easier in dating than young men and it’s weird how people act like that isn’t the case, especially when it’s mostly young men who complain about dating struggles.

Most women’s preferences are “~my age or slightly older”, most men’s is “~my age or slightly younger”. But as an adult man, it’s weird to date high schoolers when you’re in college and you get a bad end of a deal if you’re dating college students after you graduate.

There’s also that men are evaluated on status while women aren’t. There’s certainly some ways to get status that peak/are high early in life like athletes, musicians and theatre, but the majority get status through their career which obviously peaks later in life.

saraimarsena · 2023-07-20T12:37:03+00:00

this idea that men are raging wild hornballs that’ll fuck anything with a pulse seems kinda harmful

Willow-girl · 2023-07-20T12:51:26+00:00

Woke up this morning to find an Amazon OTP code message on my phone. O tech-savvy people, what kind of scam is this, pray tell?

I don't shop on Amazon and neither of my credit cards are showing any unusual activity. Should I be worried?

dbz__f · 2023-07-20T13:07:02+00:00

What are your top 5 games of all time?

potoricco · 2023-07-20T13:39:52+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/j2wb7ioji4db1.jpeg?width=886&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=80d99f6b44913253a69dcc9fe03a12ce7752918a

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-20T13:55:11+00:00

If you make the assertion that dating is equally hard for men and women because while men can't find a partner, women can't find the right partner, wouldn't logic dictate that you're saying all women are the right partner for any man?

If men struggling to find a partner is on equal footing, then what about men's struggles to find the right partner under the handicap that being a man brings to the dating scene?

jobbo321 · 2023-07-20T14:19:31+00:00

The vast majority of women have an absolute pure disgust for men with glasses. Glasses indicate weakness, which women are turned off by. If you wear them, wear contacts or laser your eyes. Easy and immediate boost to your attractiveness.

Slipthe · 2023-07-20T14:35:34+00:00

Sometimes I forget which of my friends are bisexual.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-20T14:53:43+00:00

The responses on my post about approaching are quite interesting.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-07-20T14:54:25+00:00

People ask why there are less women on dating apps or how to get more women onto dating apps. I don’t believe it’s because of harassment or whatever, I think the (perhaps small) majority of women simply never go on apps in the first place. Out of my friendship group, only 4 out of 11 of us have used a dating app. Most of the rest met their bfs through another Avenue. But I also think instagram is underrated as a dating app. 2 friends’ bfs slid into their DMs, and another 2 date through instagram as well as meeting guys out and about

Slide into that girl’s dms today!

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-20T14:57:37+00:00

Sometimes this sub feels like a group of dudes who sit around making up stories about women or sharing something they overheard their older brother doing. A bunch of just random conjectures and assumptions. It's like astrology for men.

potoricco · 2023-07-20T15:06:13+00:00

Why I hate true rate me STOP STEALING WOMENS PHOTOS

Like my god it’s infuriating !!!!!!!! Like it’s so blatantly obvious when people just use other’s photos for their fetish it’s very violating. One major giveaway is when they comment on p*rn subs 100% it’s a fake profile

I hate this community but it keeps coming on my home page

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-20T15:09:35+00:00

Yesterday a dog bit me. The owner showed no initiative, didn’t apologise or give me his contact information. I got mad and let him have it. He was stunned by it, wasn’t expecting it. Some people are like that and I’m confused by it. Has no one ever stand their ground against them?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-20T15:18:04+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-20T15:19:48+00:00

Seggs n count pair bonding Chad Tyrone Rodrigo inkwell

potoricco · 2023-07-20T15:39:41+00:00

Ever since I started driving, my grandmother has developed this really, really annoying habit

EVERY TIME I go out, she has to think of at least one random thing that we need from the grocery store, sometimes she will literally just sit there and think of things we supposedly need to buy. you know I can't even blame her for thinking like this because a lot of older people who went through hardships in their youth are like that. but it doesn't make in any less annoying

like this is America in the year 2023 if you urgently need something you can go when you ACTUALLY need it

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-20T15:43:12+00:00

Men are so stupid

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-20T15:44:10+00:00

Im a little unhinged today so you can either ignore me or argue with me

potoricco · 2023-07-20T15:44:52+00:00

What is place

baiser_vole · 2023-07-20T15:51:48+00:00

Hmmm I should probably tell my boyfriend tonight that I feel like I've won the game cause I bagged him. He'd like hearing that.

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2023-07-20T15:52:53+00:00

Had a chat with my Korean coworker. She broke up with an ex because he was a white guy who had incorrect assumptions about Asian women. She was like he thought I would be submissive and a yes girl. That's not her she has taken no shit attitude.

Why are men like this?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-20T15:53:13+00:00

People on the internet make 21 feel so old but I don't feel old. Then the 30 year old people all say their 20's were awful and 30's are better and I don't know if that's real or if that's just because they have to tell themselves that.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-20T15:53:26+00:00

I got a hot question: Why is it that women are mostly assumed to be doing everything right or putting in their share of effort automatically?

Women assume themselves to be "worth it" while men have to prove it. Women all rate themselves very highly ("I'm a 10") without any justification. Women are assumed to be putting in their share of the effort while dating, in relationships, in the bedroom, etc., while any failure or dissatisfaction with any of these things usually falls on the man to account for and/or do something about.

Is this some kind of collective Halo Effect that everyone applies to women, or is it something else that needs fleshing out?

potoricco · 2023-07-20T15:56:04+00:00

Doing some research and

How can celebrity "dolphins lundgren" marry a woman barely even older than his daughters? why are men like this?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-20T15:57:11+00:00

Y'all body care items are so expensive. Like for me to have good skin and smell nice not including makeup there is just so much that it takes to make women "feminine"

The guys get the 3 in 1 body wash and shave their face that's like it

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-20T15:58:07+00:00

Whats better tan or pale skin?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-20T15:59:46+00:00

Matriarchy doesn’t work and can’t last. Patriarchy is king. Sexism and inequality also benefits women no matter how you slice it baby

GoldenHornyChicken · 2023-07-20T16:01:59+00:00

My son's nanny takes 10weeks of holidays/year. I'm stuck at home with my 9mo while my husband works. He takes his "holiday shift" next month. We only have one week together. It was planned a long time ago, I accepted the necessity at that time, but to actually experience it sucks a bit.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-20T16:02:09+00:00

I got time today!!!

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-20T16:09:22+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/nba/comments/154sgb8/jidion_banned_from_all_nba_related_events_for/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1

People have no sense of humor these days, this is hilarious

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-20T16:09:37+00:00

I don't even know why I bother taking half days at work. I never actually work during my allotted 4 hours.

eye_fuck · 2023-07-20T16:11:42+00:00

Fuck you

Infammo · 2023-07-20T16:14:50+00:00

Another r/place another fun day of watching Canadians try to draw a leaf.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-07-20T16:28:44+00:00

How are there people who think a body count of 10 is a lot? Are y'all virgins or something lol

John_Oakman · 2023-07-20T16:35:47+00:00

Once all ulterior motives are removed, baser instincts are more likely to be found remaining than moral virtues.

baiser_vole · 2023-07-20T16:37:22+00:00

Q4A: What’s your opinion on someone helping the partner looksmax? Answer for both scenarios.

Him helping her.

Her helping him.

WestCombSplit · 2023-07-20T16:42:00+00:00

If two people are in a relationship then it's within each partner's right to have a problem with how the other person is spending their money. Especially if the other person has bad spending habits and they've set financial goals together

Q4ALL is this controlling?

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-20T16:43:45+00:00

The super involved makeup routines for women are like the hardcore bodybuilding for men. It’s for themselves or other women. No problem with it, but it can’t be used as “effort” put in for the opposite sex. Men absolutely like a baseline level of makeup they does not look unnatural but too much will be off putting. Just as women like an in shape guy who has decent muscle mass but too much will be off putting.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-07-20T17:06:08+00:00

Me explaining to my boss I have time blindness:

jackedsoon · 2023-07-20T17:12:00+00:00

So I joined a freshman gc for my college and I’m added by this girl, she msgs me saying if I wanna party w her n some others. I said sure and gave my number. I ask what the party is and if she wanna come to another im going to, she replies ‘nah come with us it’ll be fun x’. My thought immediately was its a set up. But ima civilian so what would they want from me. Maybe they’re just low inhib kids down to fw a random nigga that seem cool.

Idk why I always think of the worst scenarios.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-20T17:45:41+00:00

I see this weird trend in Twitter with good sex. Its seems that the only guys that give good sex are toxic guys that fuck zone women. That good dick only comes from bad men.

Huh?

baresquad · 2023-07-20T17:51:02+00:00

American conservatives are so unhinged and mentally unstable regarding sex. It’s like the greatest threat to salvation for them but yet they have the most unhealthy obsession with it.

We got an entire political party so obsessed with the president son’s dick that they’re plastering his nudes during congressional hearings. That’s not normal behavior.

potoricco · 2023-07-20T18:03:37+00:00

Saw a spotted lantern fly My day is fucking ruined !!!!!!!

Peacesquad · 2023-07-20T18:08:51+00:00

Men are trash but men invented tampons and the satellite dish you need to post that comment online

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-07-20T18:18:11+00:00

Women should improve their personalities and take a shower if they want to fix the wage gap

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-07-20T18:25:36+00:00

I admire single career women in a way, they are making their own wealth and fortune instead of leeching off of a man.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-20T18:26:35+00:00

Very useless to use word like "bad man/boy" or "nice guys" why use such words that assert some kinda morality. Use specific adjective words.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-20T18:31:09+00:00

Working as an engineer is being around other socially inept people all day. Like it’s fun when I’m the one who’s not always socially in tune but my coworkers got to be on some spectrum.

Cethlinnstooth · 2023-07-20T18:32:39+00:00

Just a quick question...who here would totally exclude anyone with BMI over 30 from dating apps if they had the opportunity?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-20T18:32:41+00:00

"Feminism cannot exist without men protection it"

Yup just look at the Afghanistan situation

When America left and the Tailiban took over and ban women from attending school

Where was Feminism ?

HeartCatchHana · 2023-07-20T18:38:22+00:00

Small shoulders are sexy

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-20T18:48:17+00:00

At 30 body count stops mattering

People single at 30 are a red flag, I don’t know why people think this is a good argument. People with more trad views are more likely to be paired off by 30 so the only people left on the market are hoes.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-07-20T18:59:32+00:00

Very difficult to feel sympathy for women whose misogyny detectors malfunction and suffer the consequences as a result. Most rational people will agree

potoricco · 2023-07-20T19:04:58+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/lpn0emfg46db1.jpeg?width=2570&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6e9c9859488fa0ead7c8dd076bec7146db903d95

Look at what I found but couldn’t afford I hate hate hate hate hate hate my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-20T19:17:44+00:00

Does being good at baking bread get bitches

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-20T19:55:09+00:00

kind of sexist how the queen in chess is much more powerful than the king

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-20T20:05:06+00:00

Ok, is making a strong move to make out after a first date a good idea? It seems like a good way to get Me Too'd but there's a certain someone saying it's an incredible turn on

potoricco · 2023-07-20T20:06:38+00:00

“Just have confidence sis”

How when this is what my peers look like

jobbo321 · 2023-07-20T20:17:37+00:00

Does anyone have stats on dead bedrooms?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-20T20:37:45+00:00

"Modern men offer to relationships"

Wow l am so sorry your last boyfriend was like that or the men you interact with

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-20T20:49:35+00:00

Sad and probably controversial comment incoming

The fact that the child support and abortion issues are so common is actually depressing because that means millions of people don't want to pay the MINIMUM amount to care for their child, let alone actually PARENTING their child or giving ABOVE AND BEYOND what is required.

We have to have laws to force people to do the bare minimum. It's like getting paid minimum wage - they would pay you less if they could. Parents would do less if they could.

Kids should have parents who will bend over backwards to give their kids what they need to THRIVE, not just survive. Just like full-time employees should be paid enough to THRIVE, not just survive.

No wonder so many kids/adults have emotional problems - the people who gave them life treated them like a front yard that gets mowed once a week for $10 by the kid down the street.

I'm not saying people should not get abortions or have to live in absolute poverty from paying child support - I'm saying I hate how humans are blinded by fucking orgasms and lack empathy for their own offspring.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-20T21:07:08+00:00

America: Homosexuality and trans people are important

Me: ok fine nobody cares what yall do

America: we wanna teach kids under the age of 10 about it

Now that's extreme

4SSh01e · 2023-07-20T21:07:24+00:00

I have always been a big Special Forces fanboy and I watched numerous documentaries covering their selection process and one thing I often heard irrespective of the country was “it’s all mental". I heard it but never truly understood what it meant until today.

So for cardio, I usually walk on 15% incline at 4.6 kmph for 40 minutes, it’s moderately challenging but very manageable that I do it 2-3 times a week. Today I thought let’s challenge myself and throw in some weight in the mix so I hopped on the treadmill with a 27 lb Bulgarian Bag. Lemme recap my 40 minutes journey.

First 2-3 minutes: Hmmm time seems to be moving a bit slow but not too bad overall.

4-8 minutes: Hmm my glutes and lower back are being lit on fire. This is not going to be fun. At all.

8-12 minutes: I think this is a bad bad idea and I am woefully unprepared for it. But 30%? Am I going to quit at measly 30%? At least get to 50% and save some pride.

12-16 minutes: It fucking hurts. I am worried I might blow my back or pass out soon. This is when my hand first twitched to either stop the treadmill or at least halve the incline. But my pride pulled it back.

16-20 minutes: It hurts but the amount of hurt is constant so it’s only matter of enduring it. Let’s get to 50% mark then we’ll see.

20-24 minutes: Holy shit. I am halfway through, every additional minute is a bonus now because I planned to quit at 50%. Let’s keep adding minutes to the bank. But goddman! It hurts 🥴

24-28 minutes: This is when I started getting a bit wobbly and sliding a bit further back on the treadmill, the self doubt creeped in massively if I am going to faint sometime in the near future.

At 30 minutes mark it I was feeling a bit lightheaded and it was just battling it out minute by minute but since I was 75% through the thought of giving up was both very lucrative and shameful at the same time. It was only in the last 2 minutes that the sight of finish line overwhelmed the thoughts to give up because it was pointless at that point.

But goddamn! It was the biggest act of masochism I have inflicted on myself. Afterwards there was no "runner’s high", it just sucked through and through.

But today I learnt what those guys meant by "it’s all mental". At 25% mark my body told me alright this is enough, let’s go home and the remaining 25-95% were spent just negotiating with myself and breaking those promises. It would be quite interesting if someone could transcribe those thoughts. To the girl walking next to me at a comfortable pace and talking to her friend, it might have looked badass but the internal dialogue was not so macho.

I have no plans to repeat it anytime soon until I start hating myself enough again.

potoricco · 2023-07-20T21:08:35+00:00

The way that the average person looks better than professional models these days LMAOOO times have really changed

Wtf is this brah

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-20T21:36:18+00:00

Why do women tell me I “look white” like it’s supposed to be a compliment?

They smile so broadly and shit. It’s never white women that say this though.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-20T22:00:32+00:00

Considering deleting all my old posts or starting over with a new account. Idk what to do, my current acct has a ton of karma so I don't want to start over, but ehhh. I don't like it.

-AvatarAang- · 2023-07-20T23:05:35+00:00

In yesterday's thread, I shared the story of how I recently visited a movie theatre and think a young woman was glancing at me longer than normal because I was wearing a fitted t-shirt that showed off my shoulder-to-waist ratio, and how this experience resurfaced my memory of receiving glances and smiles from women back when I was lifting weights on a college campus during the summer of 2016.

For years, I've been hearing the idea that "women only want Chad". It sounded ridiculous to me at first, like a caricature of what women want, but as many lonely years went by without receiving any interest from any women, I reluctantly started believing in it. After all, if me and so many other men online were this invisible to women, then it must be because women only wanted the "top men".

My memory is quite poor, so rather than recall the positive female attention I received in 2016 as a result of my increasingly muscular body and realizing that I am living proof that women don't only show interest to the "top men", I instead lived under the inaccurate belief that women have never shown me interest in my entire adult life and only want the top men.

But after receiving a glance from a woman at the movie theatre recently, memories of previous instances in which I received female interest have resurfaced, and I no longer believe the narrative that "women only want the top men". It feels really nice to believe this, like the clouds have started to lift over my mental horizon and I can begin to see the sun again.

And for anyone wondering, back in 2016 I was not anywhere close to a "top man". I was:

-5'8" -Indian -enough muscle to be considered "toned", but nowhere close to being "jacked" -a weird-looking face, not handsome -wasn't even dressing well, just wearing shirts which hugged my body better and thus helped accentuate my muscles and shoulder-to-waist ratio -neurodivergent

Yet if someone with my stats was able to garner female interest, then I believe other guys here can too if they just find one or two aspects of themselves to excel at: physique, fashion, hairstyle/beard, social skills, whatever it is. So that's my advice for men out there who are struggling. We need to build our routines around excelling at as many of these departments as possible, and by doing so we'll gain female interest. It might take a bit of time initially, but having a loving wife is worth it.

I never actually approached any of those women in 2016, since I'd never known what it was like to receive those IoIs (Indicators of Interest) before or knew what I was supposed to do in response. If I had approached them, my social skills were so bad that I'd definitely have bombed every interaction with every single one of them. But the point is that despite not even being close to a 6ft+, white, jacked, handsome, neurotypical man (i.e "Chad"), I was able to at least attract some initial interest from women. Once that pivotal criteria has been met, then it's just a matter of developing the social skills to be able to interact with her in a way that maintains said interest.

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