Daily Community Chat Megathread

SianOiseau · 2023-08-23T19:02:57+00:00

Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partners

Women are usually fine with it as long as their partners do their fair share of chores and childcare. The naturalistic fallacy "it's in women's nature" doesn't really make much sense, when we know that most women worked hard just as most men worked hard. It's the minority of women who were allowed (or rather prescribed) to stay at home and who didn't do any hard labor for their families.

Also dating, having sex and building a family with a man you aren't attracted to is worse than having to work imv.

potoricco · 2023-08-23T18:54:42+00:00

I literally just saw my old teacher 🤮

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-23T18:48:33+00:00

Women having shitty taste in men.

PPD Guys: ITS YOUR FAULT! STOP FUCKING LOSERS!

Men having shitty taste in women.

PPD Guys: WHY ARE ALL WOMEN SO TERRIBLE?!

DerayRevan · 2023-08-23T18:37:54+00:00

"Men should just socialize"

Ok that's great but women are still the same, so what about that ?

"Men should want 50/50 relationship"

Ok that's great but women are still the same, so again what about that ?

"Men should get off dating apps"

Ok that's great but again women are still the same

I love how this sub will the "Men bad" discussion but whenever someone try to defer to the other side by having the female conversation now nobody wants to discuss anything, also you can change the hardware all you want but the software still remains the same

SianOiseau · 2023-08-23T18:36:09+00:00

So the girl with "my husband won't change one diaper" is a grifter as well as a few other...things. No one is surprised lol.

https://www.reddit.com/r/FundieSnarkUncensored/comments/15yr1iu/this_gross_human_showed_up_on_my_twitter_feed/

SorryEm · 2023-08-23T18:27:45+00:00

>Man acts mean

"Ugh I can't believe men are such jerks"

>Man acts nice

"Ugh quit being a nice guy"

ilovesoundtracks1 · 2023-08-23T18:27:06+00:00

The gift of hearing

Peacesquad · 2023-08-23T18:25:23+00:00

Single moms are smash only. Don’t pay for the cow when someone else got the milk for free

(Shout out to Lift)

Peacesquad · 2023-08-23T18:24:31+00:00

Sexism, double standards and inequality 100% benefit women yet they complain about it all the time. Chivalry is sexist but women never complain about it. Never heard of a chivalrous maiden but there were definitely chivalrous knights 🫡

Willow-girl · 2023-08-23T17:55:56+00:00

Well HOT DAMN! I finally went to an auction and DIDN'T get outbid! Imgur

There were a few tense moments but I came out all right, whew.

NalkaNalka · 2023-08-23T17:40:23+00:00

When it comes to single mothers, the how and why is just as important as the what.

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-23T17:34:13+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=lELGUlqcjAw

That video was wholesome. I don't know much about the "passport bro" movement, but I don't see why some people get so upset by it, and that video shows that some happy families have been created by it.

Slipthe · 2023-08-23T17:28:10+00:00

Lol my coworker just got promoted and I can tell he's trying to offer praise more often.

Problem is it sounds so hollow and monotone. Like... he's just trying to pacify people and manufacture morale.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-23T17:18:21+00:00

"What do you think of hypergamy"

"Hypergamy is when women decide to go for men who are richer, have a higher social status or are better looking than they are, so in general it's shooting above your league"

On the right track but there's more to this concept, hypergamy is a evolved female mating strategy

That means women dating up and not below

It's also about perception, if a woman has a smv of 7, she'll not date a man with a smv of 5 or anything below

It's only if he has a smv of 7 or beyond can she date that man

So you gotta be on her lvl or above on things like age,income,height,status for her to at least give you a chance

BLKSKNHED · 2023-08-23T17:15:57+00:00

"You neeeeeed to see me as an object of desire you need to, it doesn't matter if you are 5 years away from death and lived with 30 years of companionship and mutual support it means nothing now you probably want to fuck 21 year old women what a piece shit husband"

Peacesquad · 2023-08-23T17:10:38+00:00

Why do women always invade male spaces?

Peacesquad · 2023-08-23T17:09:11+00:00

Can I play the new madden with EA play for more than 10 hours?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-23T16:47:46+00:00

Just a reminder that people who talk shit about single moms are suburban kids who are too sheltered to know what dysfunctional families are like. That or they’re jealous neck beards who are mad that ‘unwanted women’ are still more desirable than they are.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-23T16:24:55+00:00

Is there some sort of project going on? What is up with all the breastfeeding posts on Instagram? It also especially seems to be heavily pushed by Indian channels?

For a very long time I was saved from naked people and in the last couple of weeks Instagram mercilessly keeps hitting me with these.

I mean, seriously, not even PPD men have anything against mother's who are breastfeeding their child. So, what is up with those posts? Seriously?!

ThisBoringLife · 2023-08-23T16:13:11+00:00

Still dating. I will say that I've been finding OLD to work better than in-person, simply for finding people open to talk and possibly meet up.

Based off what one gal said the other day, apparently social skills is still an issue for some dudes. So my ultra-generic advice: Don't be silent. Talk about something. Know a few topics, ice-breakers. Hell, a few Cards Against Humanity topics will do you a solid.

4SSh01e · 2023-08-23T16:05:31+00:00

Let me tell you about this woman at my gym. She is an absolute machine. She works out so hard that she makes the machines sweat. She was working out like crazy a few days before she delivered her baby (on a Saturday) and was back in the gym on Monday and by her admission she also worked out in her hospital room on Sunday. Considering how hard she worked out throughout her pregnancy, she didn't get fat at all, she showed me her belly the week after she delivered and she still has a six pack.

Absolute Terminator. Her daughter is starting so far ahead of the curve that I wouldn't be surprised if she became an Olympian or something. The woman is ~6' tall and her partner is probably 6'3" and also very fit. So the daughter has both top tier genes and exceptional role models in her parents.

baresquad · 2023-08-23T16:03:38+00:00

Modern dating doesn’t need to be more inclusive. It works for tons of people, they’re not gonna change to appease the grievances of people who can’t adapt. It’s a game of survival of the fittest.

legaliserikkekritise · 2023-08-23T15:54:32+00:00

what does blackpill actually mean? I benefit from a lot of the fucked up blackpills, does that make me blackpilled? I don't think things are hopeless, if anything a lot of them give me motivation.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-23T15:43:27+00:00

Polygamy, polyamory and polyandry have negative effects on society and the normal family structure. Degenerates & far left liberals will deny this but its the truth

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-23T15:31:04+00:00

Playing with Fire: There's this penis enlarging shit have you ever looked into that?

Mens Maxxing: No

Playing with Fire: Yeah, me neither

How can anyone take this stuff seriously?

afk_row · 2023-08-23T15:20:14+00:00

Why do climate people care about our plastic straws even though their effects are negligible but not about china? They literally raised their already giga high carbon emissions 50% and they plan to raise it even more.

potoricco · 2023-08-23T15:09:22+00:00

It’s a good decision to be a single mother but also being a single mother is one of the worst decisions you can make

Not that I’d ever want to be one though

onion_rings_addict · 2023-08-23T15:09:16+00:00

How do you deal with a bad director?

I'm on a project that's not working thanks to bad direction. They removed me and put me on a boring project. I'm so pissed. I don't know what to do, because if I don't say anything it looks like it's my fault but if I talk to my boss's boss I'm afraid it's going to be bad for me.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-23T15:02:34+00:00

A woman complimented me in a locker room today. I feel accomplished.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-23T14:56:44+00:00

Bro it's so embarassing, how do so many people subscribe to this, all of this shit is cringe af. It's just guys sitting around talking but they have no clue what they're talking about. They're so lost.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-23T14:48:07+00:00

Feminists: Redpill gurus are women haters and should be shunned.

Also Feminists: We are proud men haters

baiser_vole · 2023-08-23T14:38:22+00:00

I killed it last night with my boyfriend’s mom.

“Despite her delicate appearance, she possesses immense inner strength, determination, wisdom, and courage.

Politeness, tradition, and knowing one's limits are virtues in the Eastern society. I am pleased that in the future journey of life and career, you will have such a lovely yet intellectually mature girl by your side.”

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-23T14:30:51+00:00

Watching another podcast called playing with fire. There are two black pill guys and a red pill guy. Red pill guy is sitting with with open dominant body language, the two black pill guys are sitting closed off and doing things with their hands to self soothe and they look shy and anxious. Kind of funny that these guys talk so confidently about how "it's over" when clearly their personality and body language isn't very inviting.

The interesting thing though is the black pill guys are dressed like they're trying to be red pill, but they would be better accepted by women in a more niche market where male softness is attractive like the art or alternative music community.

The clear problem with so much of the pill stuff aside from blue pill is that they only allow one standard as acceptable. It's like they disregard anything that isn't mainstream. Their standard is The Bachelor or Love Island and not normal people living normal lives.

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2023-08-23T14:27:02+00:00

Am I shooting myself in the foot by not lying about my height on dating apps?

I feel like I'm being honest to a fault. I'm 170cm so I have my height listed as 170cm (~5'7), and despite seeing plenty of girls shorter than me irl apparently on dating apps 90% of the women are 173-178cm (5'8-5'10). On extremely rare occasions I'll see a girl on there who says she's 165cm (5'5) but that's pretty much the shortest I'll ever encounter.

I never lied about my height on dating apps because I figured it would only hurt me if I meet them irl and I they seen I was clearly lying about my height. At the same time I can't help but feel these women don't know their own heights, because there's just no fucking way the average height for women is 5'9".

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-23T14:23:16+00:00

How men do relative to other men isn’t important. Women care about how they do relative to her.

You can see this in action by observing the dating choices of educated women.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-23T14:14:31+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-08-23T14:14:25+00:00

Isn’t it interesting that when a woman calls a woman a hœ she just says “hoe” but when a woman tries to call a man a hœ she has to say “man-hœ”? I truly believe men can’t be hoes, only hoe-makers.

potoricco · 2023-08-23T13:58:23+00:00

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Rules of misogyny

End woman hate

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-23T13:25:51+00:00

Watching world athletics championships. Hella attractive people

Not long distance runners tho. They really should eat more

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-23T13:23:47+00:00

Women used to say "who wants to buy the cow if they can get the milk for free" but now it seems that unless you're an incredibly attractive man, you must buy the cow each time you want a glass of milk.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-08-24T03:11:59+00:00

I have received my first unsolicited dick pic. I was hoping I'd go my whole life without one but alas, it wasn't in the cards.

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magivictus · 2023-08-23T06:03:25+00:00

https://twitter.com/BaddiiesTR/status/1694059632153473077

Master-Gene-8382 · 2023-08-23T06:14:03+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/fzsbnhdixsjb1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f9c8574396626069989fb80193dea89b04fe5f4d

How true do you think this photo is for many women? The idea that they want a “damaged” or “hardened” man but who’s also successful and “reformed” and whom they can credit themselves with being a part of that.

scwizard · 2023-08-23T06:35:24+00:00

I was on hormonal birth control for 13 years until I had enough two months ago. My mental improved so much instantaneously after years of misery… only during the last three days before my period did I have any depressive symptoms.

ultimately I decided to stop and I took the time for the past two months to learn about balancing hormones and fertility awareness. I just track my waking temperature during my cycles now and don’t have unprotected sex during my fertile window

It's such a raw deal. Women take birth control so they don't end to pregnant and spend the rest of their lives miserable, but the pill makes you miserable.

So you're basically screwed either way.

Sillysheila · 2023-08-23T07:30:16+00:00

Does anyone ever wonder why 20 and 30 somethings from the 90s or characters from that era at that age look so much older than 20 somethings or 30 somethings today?

I’m in my late 20s, and my husband is in his early 30s. I was watching a couple tv shows from the 90s era like Friends and the like, with characters mine and my husband’s age. Someone on the show says “I’m 27!” and I’m thinking “wow this is what someone who is 27 looked like.”

I can’t help but notice their hairstyles, faces and clothes look a lot “older” than what people at my age look like today. No one is wearing jeans and t shirts all the time, they’re all wearing this business attire looking button ups and flowy shirts, a lot more skirts on women and a lot more slacks on the guys.

That’s not to say they don’t wear stuff that we do now or more casual stuff but it seems dressy to me, personally. Maybe we just have less standards now or we’re much more casual I don’t know.

People’s faces also seem to look a lot less fresh at younger ages in photos and tv and everything. Maybe it’s cigarettes (because a lot of people used to smoke them) maybe it’s a more outdoor lifestyle, or because there was less knowledge on skincare and less sunscreen uptake and other things. I just find it fascinating looking back on what people my age dressed and looked like in other eras.

dbz__f · 2023-08-23T08:10:07+00:00

I wonder how vindicated Jonah Hill feels now that his ex came out as officially diagnosed as batshit

dbz__f · 2023-08-23T08:12:16+00:00

/u/SianOiseau

Question for you out of curiosity

What are your thoughts on Gorbachev and Yeltsin? How do they compare to putin? I know you don’t like putin but didn’t they basically cause Russia to collapse and half the population to become impoverished?

Zero-zero20 · 2023-08-23T08:50:05+00:00

What are PPD's thoughts on a woman suing a man for gender based violence after he publicly rejected her at an engagement party?

No-Chance-8405 · 2023-08-23T09:09:26+00:00

"I'm 40 and I don't date girls over 24" - very amusing :D

eye_fuck · 2023-08-23T09:45:36+00:00

What are some specific types of people that you personally can't stand and who make you irrationally angry even though others seem to be fine with them?

Bonus points for something more original than just 'vegans'

Tramelo · 2023-08-23T09:50:34+00:00

I was sitting in a bar one day and two really large women came in, talking in an interesting accent.

So I said, “Cool accent, are you two ladies from Ireland?”

One of them snarled at me, “It’s Wales dumbo!”

So I corrected myself, “Oh, right, so are you two whales from Ireland?”

Do you think this joke is body shaming?

NJFlowerchild · 2023-08-23T09:56:02+00:00

How many people here have immigrant parents?

Maffioze · 2023-08-23T09:59:44+00:00

https://youtu.be/wfWSkOiDZR4?si=wV4ndSaLmn4bqzNA

Why is this beat so satisfying?

Workaholiconew · 2023-08-23T10:53:55+00:00

Am I the only one who sees a parallel between social orientation and lack of success w women?

Its always the guys who are sexlesss that say "i need validation" or something like it. While those who pull tend to say it less and less in acordance to their number of past experiences.

I think being so obcessed on how you look or what people think may be a hindrance to those people success.

eye_fuck · 2023-08-23T10:54:30+00:00

Do you think being detached from your group identity is a good or bad thing?

Examples:

— white guy telling or laughing at 'white people lol' jokes because 'its not about it me, it about other white people'

— men supporting or letting pass 'men bad', 'killallmen' feminism stuff because 'its not about it me, it about other men'

— "I'm not black i'm OJ"

How big part of your identity is the group you belong too?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-23T11:05:38+00:00

My language class was not a complete sausage fest. There are 3 women out of 15 classmates. Me, a 30-something woman who wears head to toe black and keeps to herself in the back of the room & a young, petite, cute Indonesian woman who is a social butterfly. She’s maintaining the class’s group Line channel for the duration of our lessons (6 months, with 2-4 hour classes a week). Among the 20-40ish men there’s 1 Canadian, 1 American, 1 Chinese, 1 Italian, 1 French, 1 Australian, 1 Japanese and the remainder are British lads. A UN of bros. They all seem really friendly and like cool people. I’m excited about my future social prospects. Sawadee kaaaa 🙏

dishonouronmycow · 2023-08-23T11:23:33+00:00

I’ve been outside touching grass for the last few days and didn’t check ppd once. Is this how normal people feel? I hate it

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-23T11:29:41+00:00

I think in the grand scheme of things us men get off fairly lightly, but the double standards around male and female aggression/horrible behaviour often raises my brow. I see it most pronounced in fan groups for reality TV shows.

Guy is an absolute Arsehole?

"Scum, he deserves whatever happens to him."

Girl is an absolute Arsehole?

"We don't know what she's been through. She comes across as very insecure and isn't able to regulate her emotions, she's a victim of it herself. She has a toxic ex? Wow that explains so much, she must be carrying so much trauma with her. I actually feel for her, she's clearly suffering."

Guys never get the wall of text trying to rationalise (and implicitly excuse it, despite what they say) their horrible behaviour, the answer is just that they're a Cunt and that's it.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-23T11:34:32+00:00

I wonder if places like PPD exist because people have anxiety about getting older without ever forming a family. People just don’t know what to do with themselves and need a place to kind of lash out.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-23T11:40:26+00:00

Q4W: would you accept it as a fact that women dress objectively sexier than men in general? Or you don't think that skin-tight clothes, clothes that emphasizes curves or show skin are sexy?

potoricco · 2023-08-23T11:55:38+00:00

Morning

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-23T12:11:38+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/zo4p15kspujb1.jpeg?width=772&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c519625a44952c6f5c5482226b3d7a56d1642d72

dbz__f · 2023-08-23T12:12:33+00:00

Do you think a woman in a living long term relationship who genuinely loves her man and is attracted to him could just cheat on him out of hormones/lust the same way a man can?

Like we all know a guy can be in a happy marriage to a beautiful woman and love her and still cheat just cause he can and he gets horny, like Arnold Schwarzenegger did for example. But do women do that?

4SSh01e · 2023-08-23T12:16:28+00:00

As I type this comment, India is attempting to land a craft on the South pole of moon.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-23T12:18:30+00:00

Tyler Perry said there are some people who come into your life who are just meant to be there for a season, or a moment, they’re not supposed to be there for the whole ride which is ok. The problem is when you want to take the summer fling and turn that into something else

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-08-23T12:22:50+00:00

I have been getting blocked a lot lately, I think I am becoming more toxic

mummydontknow · 2023-08-23T12:23:10+00:00

I saw logan paul dillon danis press conference yesterday.

Dillon was shitting on Logan for marrying a woman that's slept around, and Logan fired back about Dillon's mother being a prostitute.

It felt like a mutual assured destruction scenario 😂

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-08-23T12:25:09+00:00

Got foodie called by a Ukrainian war refugee. I ain’t even mad, she can use the assistance, still fcked up to act interested

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-23T12:38:23+00:00

After reading this post I’m convinced that the PPD men who encourage me to make a Tinder profile as a social experiment are trying to get me divorced.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15yyb40/update_aitah_for_cancelling_our_vacation_because/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-23T12:46:46+00:00

Them kids at the school across the street be vibing. I wish I was 8 again.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-23T12:53:38+00:00

Men who engage in gangbangs are closested homosexuals.

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-23T13:01:11+00:00

Q4M: I’m infertile, should I avoid dating because no man would seriously want me? I know most men want kids and I’ll never be able to give them that biologically so should I just avoid men all together? I don’t want to be used and thrown away.

Bandit174 · 2023-08-23T13:09:54+00:00

So I read through that "what do women offer guys in the early stages of dating" post and it doesn't seem like anyone was able to list anything beyond "her time and company (which the guy is also offering) and the hope that maybe she might treat you at some undetermined point in the future (which is a BIG if considering most first dates probably dont end up resulting in a relationship".

The most honest girl was probably the one who said that women don't have to offer anything and that only the attractive guys get to "test drive" for free.

Which to me just further validates the redpill belief that being fuckbuddy material is superior to being boyfriend material. It's super easy to list things women offer their fuckbuddies in the early stages of dating but asking what the boyfriend guy gets in early stages and you get deer in the headlights respinses. The only downside is that it's harder to qualify as a fuckbuddy than it is to qualify as the guy who has to pay for dates and wait.

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-23T13:10:58+00:00

I wish there was more information on social proof, from what I’ve seen it consistently increases attraction, but I haven’t seen much on how it affects women’s actions.

Like women see men who are alone as the least attractive and see men married to attractive women as the most attractive. In between its probably something like men with friends < men with attractive friends < men who other women find attractive < men who are getting openly flirted with < men in relationships

But at what point will most women start feeling jealous or like it’s not worth the effort?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-23T19:19:41+00:00

By not listening to the advice in this sub, I found myself in a relationship.

Had to come visit and see what I missed. Seems like this place is still the same. Men bitter as ever that they can't demand women to love them.

Look around, look around 🎶 Get off Reddit, and some of you might find what you're looking for.

webernicke · 2023-08-23T19:24:03+00:00

What does PPD think about PsycHacks by Orion Taraban?

Seems like RP content without the anger. He seems a bit tradcon for my taste, but still the content seems clearly and calmly discussed

Zavier221 · 2023-08-23T19:46:59+00:00

Q4A

People who had limited friends how did you expand your social circle?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-23T20:16:25+00:00

As a man in a relationship, you absolutely must have boundaries that if she crosses there will be consequences, now for every man it might be different

Some it's going out at the club all by herself

Others it's having social media

Others it's whatever

But point is you need to make it clear to her FROM THE START, this are you boundaries and if she crosses then it will threaten the ending of the relationship

For me it's attitude, l hate it when l get attitude from a woman and it clear if she ever gives one then it will definitely threaten our relationship coming to an end

You guys love talking about too many men being nice guys, well this a good start from not being that, which is not tolerating bs you don't like

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-23T20:19:49+00:00

What if for someone, sex is actually the most important thing?

I mean if there are people who dedicate their life to random shit like science or being an astronaut, is it really that weird?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-23T20:30:16+00:00

I always thought it was funny that The nepotism that people cry about is never about shit that affects them personally or actually matters. It’s always omg this actress got a job in a movie cause her dad is the director of this guy got a NFL HC job because he’s friends with the owner. If my dentist who is filling my cavity doesn’t have the qualifications to be a dentist and only got the job because of his mom that’s a problem, but thats not the case. It’s just pure jealousy

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-23T20:35:22+00:00

PPD men: "Why can't I find a girlfriend?"

Also PPD men: "What do you mean, I have to actually talk to her and do stuff with her? I'm not a dancing monkey!"

BLKSKNHED · 2023-08-23T20:53:29+00:00

Q4W: If you crave talking on mental level to men you see as equals why are you on ppd when clearly the average man here checks notes is : sex obsessed , can't socialize and always objectify you? Sounds like you virtue signalling bullies who can't deal when the men in your real life belittle you so this is your place to feel smug.

"teehee I'm only here for entertainment"

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-23T20:58:20+00:00

Questions for Women

How do you feel about:

Men who are only 5'8" tall?
Men who are Indian? From South Asia, not Indigenous people.
Men who walk with a slight pigeon-toed stance? Also men who lean slightly on one hip when they're standing up? This happens to me naturally, I probably have hypotonia i.e low muscle tone, such that it takes a lot more effort than regular people for me to walk straight or not lean on one hip when I stand. But it makes me look unmasculine.
Men who love animals? But in the sense of wanting to kiss the animal on the nose and cheeks and forehead, rather than merely pet them from a distance? Would you see this as a sign of effeminity?

Because I feel like only women are supposed to give kisses to animals, men are supposed to be more reserved in how they show affection. But me personally, I have a strong love towards animals and I just want to give them kisses and make them feel loved, even if doing so makes me effeminate.

Men who are vegan? I understand that a lot of women see vegan men as less masculine and feel less attracted to them, which is extremely depressing and a great example of how messed up our society is.

Be honest, virtue signalling only hurts people. I will not judge you for your responses. Use a throwaway account if you need to.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-23T21:19:07+00:00

True or False :

If a woman finds a better option (as in a better man that is into her), she will always take it despite the length of the former relationship as long as the loss is manageable

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-23T21:30:04+00:00

Amiugly has some many pretty women claiming they have never been on a date. I find it hard to believe most of the time. But then again, my husband says I know nothing about what makes a woman attractive.

baresquad · 2023-08-23T21:30:24+00:00

Getting mistaken for a woman for having certain viewpoints and opinions on this sub is funny as hell because I don’t think a lot of men here realize that they emulate the exact sentiments and behaviors as hurt women.

Defending arguments like a person’s past doesn’t matter or the practice of having options gets you replies like “you want your cake and to eat it” or “just say you want to fuck hot men.” That aligns with what’s expected from women who like FDS or thought a relationship was gonna last or happen when it didn’t, but here, it comes mostly from men who think they’re being demeaning towards a woman. If the general dating grievances of men weren’t widely publicized, you’d think women who just got their heartbroken were behind these accounts.

Maybe an unpopular opinion, but as a man, at least by your mid-late 20s you should have some experience of being on the receiving end of that sort of behavior by a woman. I’m not saying have fuck boy fantasies but making mistakes that hurt other people is inevitable in dating as you naturally discover yourself.

It’s insane how many here can’t apply nuance to their own experiences and write off normal dating behaviors as only applying to women.

ScaredExamination470 · 2023-08-23T21:43:36+00:00

Telling people to stop wanting what they want is stupid.

potoricco · 2023-08-23T21:45:21+00:00

Me realizing that if I actually get a boyfriend then I have to stop thirsting after men online 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

potoricco · 2023-08-23T21:45:49+00:00

Guys I got my uniform

potoricco · 2023-08-23T21:46:10+00:00

Also, I gave my teammate a ride today. It was really chill I don’t know what I was nervous about

meteorness123 · 2023-08-23T21:55:30+00:00

Its kind of a green flag if she lost her virginity after 18.

Agree or disagree ?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-23T22:10:36+00:00

My favorite song to show feminists :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H77fRz1rybs&ab_channel=JamesBrownVevo

(absolute bomb song btw)

potoricco · 2023-08-23T22:30:51+00:00

Lmao the guy that was showing people his dick deleted his account

ScaredExamination470 · 2023-08-23T22:41:23+00:00

Don't focus on dating, just try to make a good life for yourself, and focus on the things you enjoy

... yes, that is why I "focus" on dating: I enjoy it, and it's part of a good life for me.

gabejohn · 2023-08-23T22:48:27+00:00

Daniel radcliffe would've most definitely been browsing this forum had it not been for his insane luck. 165 cm height.

HolidayWhile · 2023-08-23T22:49:57+00:00

I have seen plenty of men complain about their baby face or being confused for teenagers. What about the flip side, men who are mistaken for far older than they really are? Do women see this as equally defective?

NJFlowerchild · 2023-08-23T22:56:12+00:00

PPD theme song

lacuti3 · 2023-08-23T23:02:35+00:00

Q4M:

Do all guys think they know a girl really well after having a few conversations with her and refuse to change their initial perception of her after?

NJFlowerchild · 2023-08-23T23:14:34+00:00

What would your first impressions be of 30 year old female virgin?

eye_fuck · 2023-08-23T23:14:51+00:00

Eww all this women creeps dm'ing me on reddit smh it's hard to deal with sometimes...

meteorness123 · 2023-08-23T23:15:54+00:00

Reminder : Women don't give a fuck about a six pack. Broad shoulders get them wet however.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-23T23:43:32+00:00

q4m what the hell do guys mean by social media especially when you say you wouldn't date someone who has it? like she's not allowed to have a private Instagram account or are you just assuming you're snagging an Instagram influencer over here

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2023-08-24T00:08:46+00:00

Serious question for women:

If he was your son, what dating advice would you give to him?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-24T00:52:30+00:00

It’s amazing that so many guys here will claim “The average guy has to choose between shitty women and no women, it's unfair.” If you know little to no decent women in your life, you are not average.

As the saying goes “If you meet an asshole, you met an asshole. If you everyone you’re meeting is an asshole, YOU are the asshole”.

onion_rings_addict · 2023-08-24T00:54:25+00:00

I get reaction vids, I actually like them

but what's the point in posting a video with your silent face besides a viral video and not reacting at all?

does this make sense for young people?

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-24T01:10:37+00:00

Was watching a Fresh And Fit podcast yesterday, and there was a 31 or so yo woman on there saying that under 35 yo women are basically babies.

Like, at what age can we just call adult women adults? Soon enough it’s gonna be in the 40s

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-24T01:45:19+00:00

CMV: From a purely business standpoint, it's 23% more risky to hire a woman than a man because she will eventually metoo some sorry guy that dared to look at her for longer than the allotted 7 seconds and now I gotta pay a $50,000 settlement. Not to mention how she'll leave for 6 months to have a kid and I can't do anything to fill that position, which there's a good chance she'll just say "sorry, I'm not coming back".

Therefore, I'm justified in paying women 77 cents on the dollar to cover my risk.

Willow-girl · 2023-08-24T02:03:57+00:00

Just like me, they long to be ... close to him. Imgur

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-08-24T02:04:35+00:00

I'm pretty sure porn is the main cause of the sharp increase in male sexlessness. Specifically high-speed Internet porn. The rate of sexlessness in young men skyrocketed starting in the 2010s, which directly coincides with advancements in smartphone technology, Internet speed, and wider availability of HD video (thus, high-speed high-definition porn).

Studies show that around half of men aren't even trying to date anymore. These young men are getting their sexual needs met through online porn. Back in the 80s and 90s, porn was only really available through magazines and shit quality VHS tapes, and these generally costed money and were limited in supply. But now, a man has an infinite number of extremely sexy women right at his fingertips, in all imaginable possible skin colors, body types, sex positions, etc. All for free and delivered at lightning fast speeds straight to his monkey brain.

Many people blame economic factors, and indeed this is a small part of it. But contrary to what delusional feminists on Reddit will tell you, men were not just "handed girlfriends and wives" in the 1950s and 60s. Men still had to work hard to attract women and impress her parents, they had much better style than the men of today and they needed to have a decent job, mostly working jobs even more dangerous than the jobs we have today. However, young men of today spend much of their brain's crucial dopamine on porn, so they aren't putting in the effort, and if they do they're coming off as much less charming than the men of the past due to lack of dopamine. Low-dopamine men lack confidence and masculinity, and thus are less attractive to women.

Billsandasonom · 2023-08-24T02:12:33+00:00

Just more feral low-class femcel/FDS/twoxchromosomes logic due to mental illness :

"Get your game up, billionaires are incredibly sexy and where it's at. If you aren't at least making 7 figures you aint it" but "LOL these ugly billionaires think a woman will like them when they just want their money. 10/10 model gigachad or death"

"Women are naturally drawn to providers, providers and rich men are sexy af, too bad for the rest of you peasant moids" but "Men who date younger women are predators"

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-24T02:54:52+00:00

Baking or cooking? which one is less gay

Maractop · 2023-08-24T02:55:23+00:00

Why do some women expect men to be good at sex right away? Its not like there is a way you can practice or something because the only way you can really get better is by doing it. You can learn anatomy and watch instructional videos like sex-ed but it wont make you better unless you can apply it somewhere. Thats like tryna how to play piano by reading about with out having an actual piano. You aren't gonna get better unless you actually play it.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-24T03:14:38+00:00

Anybody else enjoy Zack & Miri Make a Porno? It’s one of my favorite movies that I love to watch when I run across it and then promptly forget it exists.

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-24T03:51:57+00:00

anyone remember talagius? he’s not doing too well it seems

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-24T04:26:10+00:00

Yeah you can say stuff like just being yourself in dating can work, I'd agree to an extent.

Red Pill just makes dating more fun though, it's a game. I like seeing how many chicks I can see at once without them finding out about each other, I like pulling away when she does something I don't like so she comes crawling back etc.

Yeah I could just do the regular stuff all well and good, but it's nowhere near as fun as dating through a Red Pill lense.

Twinseo09 · 2023-08-24T04:35:56+00:00

Weather in Michigan has become so odd especially during this August. Thunder yet no rain for 10-20 minutes. And I kid you not. The sky has basically been lightning up continuously for minutes due to the lightning. Every 8 seconds im seeing the sky light up. And hearing loud balls of thunder I’m actually wondering Wtf is going on.

Billsandasonom · 2023-08-24T04:37:54+00:00

Common skincare advice everywhere says on sunny days you need at least SPF30 ideally with UVA broad spectrum protection. They also say a t-shirt provides SPF5 protection at most. I've always found this hard to believe since I have never ever worn sunscreen/block on an area of skin that was already under clothing even as thin or flimsy as a t-shirt and I've never gotten burned in those areas, and I am light skinned.

scwizard · 2023-08-24T05:13:28+00:00

I currently work at a job where it is the first time in my life I haven’t been sexually harassed by anyone. I’m in my mid 30s and have worked since I was 15/16. To sum up some of my experiences I’ve been berated for not giving a manager a bj in front of coworkers , had my hair ruffled and too long touches, people indicating repeatedly they’d like to sleep with me, had a coworker push me on a bed and lay on top of me with my female boss in the room who said nothing, been picked up and spanked, and so many more little daily glances, comments etc. To me, this has always been low level not that big a deal, this is just what happens if you want to work.

Man women really do live in a different universe.

scwizard · 2023-08-24T05:43:34+00:00

I worked in a restaurant where our uniform was a Little House on the Prairie style dress with a friggin’ bonnet. As I was taking a drink order from a large family, the Dad/elder of the group grabbed me, pushed me over his lap and started whacking my ass. It was pretty awful…

I don't fucking get it. I'm like 90% sure if I felt a waitresses ass she'd come back with her manager and they'd tell me I need to leave and not come back.

Meanwhile girls out there living in a parallel universe where it's perfectly normal for guys to pull down their pants and start whacking off at a restaurant and no one does anything about it cause it's all normal and such.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-24T06:39:23+00:00

Seriously what is up with these?

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtJd35SMpn_/?igshid=NjIwNzIyMDk2Mg==

"Motherhood is beautiful, let me show you my full naked body with children around."

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Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-24T06:41:18+00:00

Rewatching Steven universe has been such a fun experience so far

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-25T14:28:59+00:00

Today is my last, first day of school. Idk how to feel, it kinda just hit me this morning

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