Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?

ILoveFans6699 · 2022-10-21T16:46:05+00:00

women aren't constantly thinking about sex like y'all are. Pervs.

wtknight · 2022-10-21T02:35:53+00:00

Women get to live out their exact fantasies with absolute minimal effort. Why is this never acknowledged as a huge female privilege?

Probably because it's only about sex, and easy access to it is not really what makes most women happy. If the fantasy that will really make her happy is meeting a man who will be handsome, confident, emotionally understanding, and faithful to her for the rest of her life, that fantasy is a little more difficult for her to fulfill.

LouieCKPP · 2022-10-21T03:15:14+00:00

None of this is at all hot unless it's with the particular man she wants. There's no privilege in some stranger we don't want being willing to fuck us.

BreezyBritt89 · 2022-10-21T05:23:56+00:00

Personal anecdote obviously but I was in my 30s before I found a man who enjoyed a role reversal(dom/sub where the woman leans heavy towards the dom side) relationship. I found tons of men who were “subs” only in writing. When the time actually came,they were spooked and obviously not into it. Not saying it’s right or wrong,just saying it’s not as easy as you might think. Men tend to talk a big game about what they’ll do and have done.

Also, on Fetlife men who are not overly attractive or even attractive at all are still hooking up and getting to do the things they’re into. If you think Fetlife is a beauty contest then we aren’t looking at the same website.

neetykeeno · 2022-10-21T02:44:34+00:00

You have no idea how much damn effort, risk and stress is involved in dealing with men who see you as the means by which their weird fantasies will be fulfilled. Here's an idea to mull over ..they never leave you alone if you're the only girl in town who also wants the weird thing but you decide you don't want it with them.

I would rather make do with my imagination than get a man with a fetish involved. Those guys are the worst.

Bananaflakes08 · 2022-10-21T07:34:01+00:00

My ultimate fantasy is romance

Bekiala · 2022-10-21T02:59:44+00:00

My fantasy was always to have some guy really be interested in me and want to hear what I thought and what my perspectives on life were. It didn't ever happen.

I'm okay with it now but it was tough when I was young. This sort of fantasy was just never going to be fulfilled.

Digital-Bionics · 2022-10-21T02:47:24+00:00

The counter balance is that you're more likely to encounter low quality people at best, out and out predators at worst

mrmudzi · 2022-10-21T03:38:52+00:00

Women get to live out their exact fantasies with absolute minimal effort.

Bro, go over to r/sexover30, r/marriage, r/deadbedrooms, r/datingover30 to see just how flawed and incorrect your starting premise is.

Starting to wonder if this sub shouldn't be renamed r/hottakesbysexuallyfrustratedteens

3timemom · 2022-10-21T03:24:27+00:00

Tbh very few women want to be doing these things with random people. It doesn’t feel good just being used by some random weirdo.

hungrychick404 · 2022-10-21T02:36:09+00:00

There are plenty of women who aren’t able to live out their sexual fantasies. There are plenty of men who can too.

techr0nin · 2022-10-21T06:03:24+00:00

I’ve met some men that are in kink communities. None of them are what I’d call physically handsome. Having very specific kinks puts you in really really niche markets where there is actually less competition, not more.

GlamSunCrybabyMoon · 2022-10-21T13:45:27+00:00

When I was on tinder, there were so many men looking for a BDSM or other kink partner. Some are straight up about it, some will have a conversation with you and then ask to smell your feet. I would never entertain them because it’s not a good idea to trust a complete stranger with something that’s supposed to be intimate and involve trust. I used to be into bdsm but some mens idea of bdsm is straight up violence and they don’t care about consent. Sure we could find someone who is into our kinks tonight but the chances that they would treat us like anything other than a sex toy is low.

pro-frog · 2022-10-21T03:46:02+00:00

Because it isn't a huge female privilege. Most women don't do what you describe, because it isn't really that great unless you've got some unusual kinks. If most women did this then the "privilege" wouldn't exist. So how can you say that it really benefits most women?

TATA456alawaife · 2022-10-21T11:04:09+00:00

That’s just the law of supply and demand. There’s more deviants and degenerate men than there deviant and degenerate women. A women on a site like that is naturally going to be bombarded with messages. But honestly I don’t think being able to act out such things is that much a privilege

darkredpintobeans · 2022-10-21T16:25:19+00:00

Women have the privilege of being treated like a crusty cumsock by strangers, why are they complaining about equality?

Stupidest shit I've heard in while, given the nature of many kinks you should only explore them with someone you know and trust to stop when you say safeword. I would never get into kink with a casual partner there's way too much risk, it's supposed to be a deeper level of trust and respect to fulfill someone's fantasy connecting that way with a stranger is just weird.

Gravel_Roads · 2022-10-21T02:48:23+00:00

Most fantasies are just spank material. My bf once said quite succinctly “If someone actually tried to do to me what I fantasize about, I’d call the cops.”

Due to the nature of female anatomy, there is a very hard limit to the sex most women can have before it gets chafey and sore. Like… 10 minutes of intense fucking, max. Porn doesn’t tell you these things, I know, but once you find out she’ll be pissing blood from an itching burning vagina if you aren’t careful with your friction, you start to realize why women don’t value abundant sex the way men do.

redditmcx · 2022-10-21T03:46:26+00:00

Women want security and relationships, men want sexual variety and youthful partners. Let’s not confuse what men want but don’t have access to with what women don’t want but have access to. It goes both ways.

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-10-21T03:11:41+00:00

Is this what a guy does now , compares availability from one gender to the gender ,pin points whats Nots going on in his immediate surroundings for him personally , and puts statical data up. Nit picking. Thinks this strategy really is going change anything in real time for himself ?

ManzBearzPigzIzRealz · 2022-10-21T02:55:38+00:00

This is one of those ideas that might make sense on paper but in real life isn’t as great as it’s cracked up to be

AGalWithThoughts · 2022-10-21T08:26:28+00:00

Y'all, the kink community is full of rapists and assaulters. Many men use kink as an opportunity to take it too far. If you don't know this, it tells me you haven't actually ever been in a kink community.

ClaraBow01 · 2022-10-21T02:48:01+00:00

Yeah no. That’s not how the world works. Believe it or not, most men are willing to reject sexual advances especially when it’s a kink they aren’t into.

FrostieTheSnowman · 2022-10-21T04:24:54+00:00

Ehhhh this ain't it, chief.

blockboii190 · 2022-10-21T02:56:06+00:00

You redpillers are getting annoying

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-10-21T02:20:18+00:00

I wish I had had access to this alleged privilege when I was young and unattached. The average man’s sexual tastes are pretty bland in my experience.

_demidevil_ · 2022-10-21T07:07:54+00:00

Erm no, living out your sexual fantasies is not a privilege. It doesn’t help you a job or access, financial security, education, access to healthcare or any of those important things associated with privilege. The reality is that lots of unattractive men get to live out their fantasies through fetlife. If you go to a kink club you will see that. The difference between them and incels is that they don’t sit on the internet and moan about not being able to get what they want, instead they try…

wwwArchitect · 2022-10-21T13:32:47+00:00

Because women, overwhelmingly, don’t want it. How is something that we don’t want a privilege? It’s like if a 1000 gay guys offered themselves to you (assuming you’re straight) and me saying “wow, you’re so privileged.”

We generally want one guy, monogamous, loving relationship, and act out any fantasies in that context.

The9thElement · 2022-10-21T02:33:52+00:00

Y’all are so out of touch that you think being able to have sex with random people is a special privilege

johnnyGotHisTabla · 2022-10-21T02:40:02+00:00

I'm guessing this is "Incel/Black Pill Content" as it shows zero awareness of the needs/desires/drives/limitations of the gentler sex.

Cult_of_Chad · 2022-10-21T03:44:18+00:00

All of us have equal access to bad sex with unattractive people.

Human sexual compatibility and attraction are unfair and the world would be a happier place if everyone was happy to fuck everyone. But that's not our reality; we like what we like.

Haunting_Afternoon62 · 2022-10-21T05:59:30+00:00

Or...now hear me out...men...could start being picky too instead of gross horn dogs willing to fuck anything? Who cares if she gets 100 messages. It's not like she wants them all. I get hit on all the time. How many of these guys do I actually want to date? None. They're all disappointing. I don't have a buffet of men. Men have no standards which is why they hit on eveverything. Which is why I have so many "options".

Stop being jealous that women get so many "amazing options" when it's all of you men...who have no standards. Men need to start withholding sex and maybe you can monetize that shit too.

It's literally the fault of all you men. You create this "privilege" women have. And then ur mad about it. It's your doing!!

GhostofCamus · 2022-10-21T10:14:26+00:00

Recently matched with a woman on OkC, who asked for my fetlife profile. As soon as she saw it, she's like, "I don't fuck male masochists, subs, or bottoms, I've learned my lesson". I told her I've learned my lesson about fucking retards. Now here's the thing, I could've just kept my kink to myself, and she'd just think I'm a dom as I bore her out on her boyfriend's kitchen table. Men aren't just largely barred from exploring kinks without sex workers, we are typecast into a role, and any deviation from it is regarded with disgust. Sub/dom isn't even a kink. It's fucking boring, and normie in fact. Not wanting to make decisions in your life isn't a kink.

gymbro718NYC · 2022-10-21T10:30:33+00:00

You are making a lot of assumptions and as usual you are projecting your own sexual arousal mechanism onto women.

What does it take for a man to become sexually aroused and have a sufficient erection in order to engage in sex? Well, it's a magical combination of two factors:

He needs a woman who is attractive...enough (standard that changes the more desperate he is, the more beers he has consumed or the later in the night it gets).
A woman who appears willing.

When these two conditions are met, a man can get aroused and be ready to engaging sex. So a man reasons that it must be the same for a woman:

"If I were a hot girl, well, everybody would be willing. And if everybody is willing at least some of these men must be attractive looking enough. So all I would need to do to get laid, is go out on the street and loudly proclaim that I will have sex with anyone who would have me. And since this doesn't happen and woman are not having sex 24/7, one can only conclude that their standards are so impossibly high that only super gigs Chads who are 0.00000001% of the Gen pop can actually meet them."

Of course, any man has the exact same power a woman does. He can go on the street and loudly proclaim that he will have sex with anyone who would have him and soon enough there will be takers. Yes, they will most likely be homely men, but there will be takers if all you want is sex.

Well, guys, that's how it also works for women. Yes, they can proclaim that they will have sex with anyone, but if none of the men are able to arouse her, it counts for as much as yet he homely men who want to fuck you - you are not aroused by them. That's because women need more for arousal than attractive looking and willing. They need to be charmed, they need to feel emotional tension with the guy, they need to be confidently led on an adventure. And guess what? Not many guys can do this comfortably.

So the idea that a woman can just spread her legs and say all aboard, while seemingly realistic to you men, it is as far from the truth as humanly possible for women. Not that they don't like sex. Not that they don't even want to try a gang bang. It's just that a woman needs to become sufficiently sexually aroused to engage in sex, just like you as a man needs to have a sufficient erection in order to engage in sex.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-10-21T02:26:13+00:00

No, having sex with a man is not a privilege.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-10-21T04:34:47+00:00

Wouldn’t work for my kinks

catniagara · 2022-10-21T19:06:43+00:00

Speak for yourself.

Yupperdoodledoo · 2022-10-21T20:46:23+00:00

Your premise is ridiculous. Most women are in relationships and don’t see going on FetLife as a real option. Most women don’t want to explore their fetishes with a stranger anyway.

Laytheblameonluck · 2022-10-21T20:59:41+00:00

It's female privilege that they aren't judged as being perverts while men are.

caveatemptor18 · 2022-10-22T00:42:09+00:00

Women fantasize a lot. Check out who buys sexual fantasy books.

Smergmerg432 · 2022-10-21T03:51:26+00:00

Are… you kidding? I just want one guy to make me orgasm better than I can get myself to orgasm. Half my fault in that I don’t know how to communicate how to do that but interesting insight into realities of sex for some women?

Laurely4u · 2022-10-21T13:27:42+00:00

The men if FetLife are disrespectful and they don’t want to pay for a restaurant or provide a residence

MistyMaisel · 2022-10-21T16:02:48+00:00

Just imagine if my kink is listening to men try to define my ability to get sex with almost any man as a privilege.

Access is an odd things because while we do probably have greater access, the consequences and dangers are significantly higher. So unfortunately, it's more of a theoretical privilege than a genuine and actionable privilege if that makes sense?

S1eeper · 2022-10-21T16:59:53+00:00

or is exceptionally physically attractive.

Women have to be physically attractive too to have this. Maybe not "exceptionally", but as far as privilege goes, not all women have it.

Haunting_Syllabub617 · 2022-10-21T17:36:21+00:00

What many men don’t understand is that women fantasize about romantic INTENSITY - the feeling that your partner has such a deep desire for YOU (and just you, most importantly) that it manifests in things like deep loyalty and voracious intimacy.

The amazing thing about men is that they are more head-strong and sexually intense from the jump. Thus if a woman is looking for someone to provide the intensity she longs, men are a good place to start.

When men suggest women can get what they need from strangers, it reveals how little you understand of where their desire comes from. While men may watch a scene with BDSM and think ‘thats so hot that they can do those things to each other’ a women is more apt to think ‘thats so hot that they WANT to do those things to each other, and ONLY to each other.’

Because women know the outlets of emotional intensity in men often manifest in aggressive sexual actions, they find pleasure in men asking for submission or something of the sort. But the thrill is from the intense desire, because women may not be able to imagine themselves asking that of their partners. Because women aren’t as sexually aggressive, we’re more apt to tie mens sexual aggression to intense emotions, which is often NOT true.

Thus the randomness of sexual experiences afforded to women mean nothing because they are the antithesis of what they want - the intensity cannot be particular or meaningful if they literally don’t know you. Also why women are much more apt to call their sexual experiences as someone using them because the intensity means nothing. To undergo the brutal physicality some intense sex generates for someone you know doesn’t care about you at all, with all the social stigma of women engaging in intense sex at all, makes it unbelievably unattractive.

imthewiseguy · 2022-10-21T17:41:40+00:00

Most women’s kinks (at least the ones I know of) require a shift in the power imbalance towards the woman. And men aren’t going to agree to them unless it gets them off somehow. In such scenarios there’s about equal consent and pleasure.

With men’s kinks, they’re more self-driven with little to no concern for the woman. I don’t think women necessarily enjoy anal/oral, and I’m sure men have gone way too far with BDSM kinks and have seriously harmed women. Not only that, but many men have an entitlement issue and think it’s expected of women to fulfill their fantasies.

It’s not “because they got a pvssy,” it’s because of a high risk factor.

magiksissclit · 2022-10-21T17:45:07+00:00

Because this bombardment only appeals to men It’s almost as if women are different, huh? 9/10 male op’s on this sub just seem to be seeking some ‘gotcha’ flag they can wave over women to explain why their lives suck more

Then wonder why they fail at relationships

Diddy_1978 · 2022-10-21T18:48:35+00:00

Excuse me… who do you think these women have kinky sex with?

Slyfer_Seven · 2022-10-21T19:51:15+00:00

Unless their fetish is masculine in nature (pegging, dom, etc), I don't think it works like that at all. If the "stats" are to be believed, most women's fantasies place them in rather vulnerable situations, where things could go very wrong if she does it with the wrong type of dude.

Being a survival minded species, most would not be willing to undergo such a situation with a relative stranger. So there is still a large component of trust that needs to be built up over time and I don't know if that shit is as easy to come by as you presume it to be...

So she needs to find a dude she thinks is attractive, have the courage to express her desires with them and also trust them enough to actually go through with it all while maintaining the required level of comfort needed to actually enjoy it.

Is that a privilege over men? I guess so, but we have the privilege of being in the control seat, so to speak, with our sexual encounters, once we've found a partner, so I think it's more of a wash than you realize.

Smitten_Squire · 2022-10-21T20:26:40+00:00

Yes that is one small aspect of female privilege.

learn2earn89 · 2022-10-21T22:30:15+00:00

I don’t have a fetish. My fantasy is having a long term relationship with a guy who loves and desires me as much as I desire him while we’re 100 percent loyal to each other. Haven’t had this happen, nothing close to it.

Hrdbldbbsndrkchclt · 2022-10-22T18:16:35+00:00

Everybody lying in here like sex parties don't exist lol

EulenWatcher · 2022-10-21T02:27:18+00:00

Probably because not so many women actively seek or use this opportunity. A lot of people are pretty tame and don't want to go completely wild and unhinged. And the ones who do practice some weird fetishes probably do it with men, who also get to practice what they want. You need 2 for tango. Or more if you're unto it.

Life_Level_6280 · 2022-10-21T10:02:49+00:00

Its not female privilege. Its just a consequence of the dating market where man want sex with strangers more than woman.

Its literally the other gender enabling the ‘advantage’, so I wouldnt consider it privilege.

Also because theres such an abundance of sex for women, its no longer interesting. Try having 50 pizza delivery man coming to your door every day asking you if you want pizza. Suddenly pizza becomes really fucking annoying and uninteresting.

Logical-Confection-7 · 2022-10-21T12:55:59+00:00

First of all, I feel women biggest sexual fantasy is being in a loyal loving relationship with a man, so I don’t think they are less frustrated than men. That’s what I have picked on with the women I know, most of them are frustrated with men just like we are with them.

Second, women’s sexuality feels a bit more balanced and less vulnerable to leaving you feeling empty. The problem is that they are not as lustful as we are 😰. Sometimes I wish I wasn’t interested in nothing sexual at all hahahahaa.

daisydaisydaisy12 · 2022-10-21T12:07:09+00:00

Flooded inbox. Flooded with fat ugly horny basement dwellers.

lovelythecove · 2022-10-21T03:11:40+00:00

Most women I've met don't have much in the way of sexual fantasies the way men do. They do often have dangerous fantasies that look better on paper than in real life.. the big R word.

Bananaflakes08 · 2022-10-21T07:28:10+00:00

Yeah but it gets old really really really quick. Just want someone I can eat pizza with in bed and joke around with and have real intimacy with.

beleidigtewurst · 2022-10-21T19:48:37+00:00

Nah, I mean, FFS...

Is it male privilege, that men have a MUCH HIGHER sex appetite (spare me the nonsense touted by F-ist groups pretty please and compare sex frequency among gay vs lesbians) and sizable part of them is OUTRIGHT FRIGID?

I mean, it's a double sided coin, isn't it?

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-10-21T02:35:33+00:00

Yep, I'm sure there will be a lot of gas lighting comments from women about how they don't really want that and it's not a privilege and all that but yes it is

at--at-- · 2022-10-21T03:27:15+00:00

Well - isn’t that just an extension of “pretty privilege”?

NationalistGoy · 2022-10-21T14:28:03+00:00

It's as much a privilege as it is for men to have increased upper body strengh and muscle mass.

Worldly_Piano9526 · 2022-10-21T05:08:08+00:00

It is 110% female privilege, and yes, you should be absolutely furious when women who have 24/7 access to dick start shaming men for trying to get laid or protesting to ban porn. The only reason they don't value it and judge us for wanting it is because they take it for granted. Like people born into money judging people on food stamps. It's absolutely disgusting. Sex is necessary for most people to live happy lives. Modern psychology understands this. Don't let society trick you into believing that your chains don't exist or that they aren't important.

_Davinci- · 2022-10-21T11:09:27+00:00

Sort of seems like women just don't have the same sexual fantasies and needs guys do, but they have the ability to get it at the snap of a finger. And guys do have all those fantasies, but most couldn't get it ever without paying. What a fucky world.

I know plenty of women with body counts over 20 or 30 in their early 20s. So evidentently, some do have the kinks and are using their privilege. Which is exactly what it is.

ConcentrateOk1933 · 2022-10-21T14:28:49+00:00

Yes and they are often excused from sexism if they want to form women only clubs at universities along with preferential treatment when it comes to being hired.

SeliciousSedicious · 2022-10-21T04:02:43+00:00

Ive seen how a few of my female friend’s dating lives have gone.

And with that i don’t think they all do.

So no, not entirely. I do think it is with how much easier it is to get a boyfriend than a girlfriend.

throwaway164_3 · 2022-10-21T16:34:04+00:00

Yes of course it’s a privilege

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5_7pickup · 2022-10-21T04:50:15+00:00

This aint news. Look at vanilla OLD. Don’t even think about fetlife. Just basic ass OLD, women have a huge advantage.

ManzBearzPigzIzRealz · 2022-10-21T06:24:50+00:00

I’d say that the ability to hire an escort doesn’t guarantee access to kinks either. Most escorts aren’t going to engage in the more risqué kinks, at least not without seeing the guy several times prior. Many aren’t going to do choking or anal (or anything physically harmful). And there is an obvious monetary barrier to that as well. You’re talking thousands.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-10-21T07:23:22+00:00

Depends on the kink. Some are more common in men and some are more common in women. Some are just rare. Both men and women have to be pretty proactive in looking for a kinky partner in general. Especially as there are a lot of fake and abusive people in the scene. Someone who can safely and respectfully carry out your kink with you is usually hard to find.

alexmcfnm · 2022-10-21T08:28:33+00:00

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-10-21T08:37:28+00:00

The_Entertainer217 · 2022-10-21T09:06:59+00:00

Eh, not really. There are a lot of groups who get together and live out these kind of fantasies after getting to know each other. Yeah you’ll have to go to a few “munches” which are non-sexual in nature and ingratiate yourself into your local community, and yeah you may not be able to live out these fantasies with the most physically attractive people on the planet, but it’s not like you can’t explore those sides of yourself if you really want to.

Hefty-Wolverine3675 · 2022-10-21T10:46:42+00:00

I had a dream last night I was about to het laid and then I woke up, its gonna ruin my day

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2022-10-21T16:26:45+00:00

I wouldn't say it's a female privilege rather than an advantage. Women can fully indulge in their sexuality and fantasies for as long as they desire and most do.

AshookaNaga · 2022-10-21T20:25:13+00:00

Is it a privilege?

Women don’t particularly care about sex like men.

So it a man, sex is a privilege. To a woman, not so much. They can have it whenever they want, and they don’t particularly want it.

It’s just fax. Men want sex more than women. Women want money.

Do you have a deep longing urge to spend money on a woman buying fetish items like red bottom shoes and purses? OnlyFans customers seem to like giving money. Or people who pay for porn.

But if you don’t feel a strong urge to give women money , why would she have a strong urge to have deviant sex other than with chad?

You would only want to give money to certain women, and women only want sex with certain men. And it is they who they have “experimental” sex with. Not randoms.

So is it a privilege? Only if you think an empty wallet and no orgasm is for you.

EugeneCezanne · 2022-10-21T20:39:13+00:00

Think about how sick and twisted and perverted we all are. We all have out kinks. Dominant? Submissive? Threesomes? Role play? Foot fetish? Choking fetish?

Meanwhile, her male counterpart only has this type of access if he breaks the law and hires an escort or is exceptionally physically attractive.

First off, all of those kinks are fairly common. Other than threesomes, you don't need to be any more attractive that whatever it took to get you laid in the first place. It just comes down to what your partner likes or is game to try.

shut_up_aubrie · 2022-10-21T21:29:18+00:00

Hi, very freaky female here. I don’t think women do have their fantasies fulfilled very often tbh. I’m into pretty dark stuff, some intense BDSM, control, and other shit. It’s taken me a long time to find a man capable of fulfilling that, because the fantasy is so much deeper than just being choked and slapped or whatever.

I think the appeal of these types of fantasies for women is predominantly mental, rather than physical. I know for me the BDSM fantasies revolve around giving up control and responsibility to a man who can be trusted to do what’s best for me. That’s something I’ve struggled to find.

To conclude, I think you’re right about women having easy access to the physical component of their fantasies, but these fantasies are about much more than just the physical side of things.

Dephlogisticate-kun · 2022-10-21T22:18:45+00:00

It's supply and demand, combined with the fact that overall, men are less choosy than women.

dottywine · 2022-10-21T23:40:34+00:00

No, we don't have access to live out all of our fetishes. I haven't met a man who is okay with a 2 men with 1 woman threesome (where the men don't ignore each other). I also haven't met a man who was able to find another woman to join us. I'm not saying it's not possible because it is - there are communities of people who do this. But I was not going to put the same amount of effort into that as I do a job hunt...

Because there are communities of people who do this, I figure those who are interested that deeply can join and have the similar access... regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

Mind you, a community is a community. Not just a post on a website. You actually meet people and network.

Historical-System972 · 2022-10-22T00:21:45+00:00

It would be if they had any fetishes to begin with.

SlaveMasterBen · 2022-10-22T00:23:27+00:00

How is it the slightest of effort if they literally have to screen people so they don’t get raped and murdered.

Hekinsieden · 2022-10-22T01:20:57+00:00

Are there really that many dudes ready to get their chest shat on?

tictacti1 · 2022-10-22T02:23:57+00:00

Sex is not the most important and ultimate goal for most women. This is so incredibly horribly thought out. You realize how many men post in this sub about how low they think of women with high “body counts”? So even if a woman did live out all of her wildest fantasies, she’s going to face judgement and discrimination directly related to it.

TelevisionTop8698 · 2022-10-23T21:04:34+00:00

I am one of those guys who are not even interested in marriage or any kind of relationship and just want sex.

And N. America and many women are in collusion waging a war on us.

silakkapihvi · 2022-10-30T19:45:14+00:00

The thing is that everything women do has been sexualised in some way. Also it’s interesting that it seems that people who have uncommon fetishes are mostly men.

Moist_Trick617 · 2022-11-09T01:24:57+00:00

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bumbledbee0 · 2022-11-19T10:36:05+00:00

Because men like it

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