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potoricco · 2023-08-29T13:10:16+00:00

If I was a lesbian my type would be older(40+) blond women

potoricco · 2023-08-29T11:41:47+00:00

Why do I only have people I care about in the class that I hate the most

potoricco · 2023-08-29T11:25:10+00:00

Found group intended for men and women

Men flood it with misogyny

Women leave or lose interest

”Why are there no women here? Why don’t they make threads?

”Why don’t we just ban all the women left anyways?”

A great representation of life. Meanwhile women’s “feminist” spaces are so fucking spineless lmao. They will literally allow all sorts of men and they will still bend over backwards to please you

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-29T10:22:15+00:00

Someone posted a guide to deal with anxiety and insecurities on TRP.

There is hope left.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-08-29T09:33:09+00:00

Q for everyone:

What consequences do you think Rubiales should face for forcibly kissing Jenni Hermoso?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-08-29T09:14:53+00:00

Its been raining for the last few days. I was walking from the gym and I see all the organized youth sports (maybe ages 7-11) practicing in the rain. Parents on the side, watching them. Even the possible Karen looking moms were fine letting their kids play sports out in the rain. I think that is so cool because in this now soft-kid era where kids don't take up some physical activity let alone when its raining outside, there are still parents who are okay with their kids having fun.

Patrickstarho · 2023-08-29T07:56:28+00:00

Still watching 90 days and this season they got this dude falling for a Ukraine girl who’s obviously playing him. He said he sends her 800 a month.

Like some people need Andrew Tate. I feel so bad for this dude and it’s so sad to watch.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-29T07:51:22+00:00

Q4M: Who would white knight a spectacularly pretty but brutally psychopathic woman out of certain doom and lazy poverty? She’s hot, she’s loyal & she will gaslight you to believe you are the Chad of her dreams.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-08-29T06:33:29+00:00

https://youtu.be/Kj0svfqXuGY?feature=shared

This is exactly how reddit women behave.😂

You are misogynist,creep, blah blah ,etc.

SorryEm · 2023-08-29T05:44:48+00:00

The fact that my mom treated me nicer when I had a girlfriend and treated me worse when I broke up with her is something I will never forget.

NoTea4448 · 2023-08-29T05:18:56+00:00

This sub is a red pilled shithole.

It's literally just men regurgitating the same opinions and agreeing with each other, all while talking past the women who beg to differ.

People who come here, do so for the sake of seeing what they want to hear.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-29T03:50:53+00:00

Is anyone watching “The Ultimatum”? The men are certainly all….tall.

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-29T03:45:19+00:00

Why do women here keep telling men to lower their standard and they should not care about a women sexual past. How does one force themselves to not care and be attracted to these women?

BirdMedication · 2023-08-29T02:59:21+00:00

I feel like companies hire customer service reps who couldn't speak intelligible English to save their own lives, just so customers will give up and stop complaining because they're literally unable to

ScaredExamination470 · 2023-08-29T02:59:17+00:00

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thought-terminating_clich%C3%A9

A thought-terminating cliché (also known as a semantic stop-sign, a thought-stopper, bumper sticker logic, or cliché thinking) is a form of loaded language, often passing as folk wisdom, intended to end an argument and quell cognitive dissonance.[1][2][3] Its function is to stop an argument from proceeding further, ending the debate with a cliché rather than a point.[1] Some such clichés are not inherently terminating; they only become so when used to intentionally dismiss dissent or justify fallacious logic.[4]

When people say things to the effect

You have to stop wanting what you want in order to get what you want

They aren't trying to help you. They are actually trying to abuse you with a thought-terminating cliché.

Continuing in wanting what you want is proof that you aren't doing the right things to get it
Stopping to want what you want makes it no longer a "problem" for not giving it to you, so you not getting it is no longer a problem.

Obviously, that's bullshit. Here's an example that highlight how wrong that thought pattern is:

It's your fault you're being raped. The only way for you to stop being raped is for you to stop considering the sex you're having as rape. Until you choose to see things differently, you'll continue getting raped, and you only have yourself to blame.

mummydontknow · 2023-08-29T02:40:58+00:00

What would you rate her?

https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/163k8ux/18f/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

meteorness123 · 2023-08-29T02:34:46+00:00

What kind of man in the 21st century drops to his knee to propose to his girlfriend ?

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-29T02:27:10+00:00

i saw a plate that had the letters TPR and instantly i unscrambled it

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-08-29T02:25:40+00:00

Brutal 😂

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheAngel/comments/162woqh/aita_for_asking_my_husband_permission_to_cheat/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

(Shitpost)

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-29T02:22:44+00:00

ppd rn is

40% ND posts
10% ncount
50% "women prefer assholes and I'm a nice guy"

like this 2 consecutive posts

Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.

Women who wait at the finish line for men get less love/respect from those same men

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FineDevelopment00 · 2023-08-28T11:16:51+00:00

potoricco · 2023-08-28T11:18:26+00:00

I’m at school

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-28T11:20:51+00:00

Men whine about having to be a tall, rich, fit, awesome adventurer provider charmer guy.

Women whine about having to be a thin, big boobed (but not saggy) sexy submissive housewife who is both independent but also takes care of the man like a momma.

"Average people are in relationships".

=?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-28T11:30:23+00:00

How do I mew in my sleep

ROBYoutube · 2023-08-28T11:37:15+00:00

I am legitimately trying to codify a comprehensive guide to dating because folk are right. There is no good advice out there.

I mean, the red pill is absolute dog shit. Nah, to be fair, 'Get buff, get rich, and start meeting people' isn't the worst advice. You will definitely attract a certain type of woman eventually. And if the goal is to have sex without ever being honest or vulnerable it might be literally your only choice. Sounds good.

I've already easily got enough for a book but if there's an aspect of dating or relationships from beginner to advance that you would like to see discussed, I'd love to hear it.

Bluepill male feminist peace be with you all. Namaste.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-08-28T11:42:52+00:00

Is it just me or do liberals who are deep in woke culture only see things in black and white? Like, if you have one belief that doesn't line up with theirs, you're an automatic supremacist/Trump supporter/whatever toxic name they can come up with associated with the far right to them. They claim any conservative views are completely toxic, but in reality the left can be just as toxic despite society turning a blind eye to that. For them, theres no middle ground.

I personally believe that the reason why men are becoming more conservative compared to women is this whole "you're either with us or aginst us" mentality that creates toxic liberals. This is coming from a guy who used to be liberal but these days I've become more moderate.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-28T11:46:03+00:00

When has there ever been a time where the Internet took a deep look into a life of an incels and didn’t find some massive red flags? Honestly, has there ever been a time when the Internet looked into the life of an incel and said “oh, he’s just a sweet boy that women wont love because they’re stuck up”?

Because there seems to be a difference between the guys claiming they’re just sweet, loving guys that won’t women give a chance and the reality of their unhinged behavior. Elliot Rodgers and Chris Chan are big examples. Also r/NiceGuys we’re guys keep insisting they’re the good guys, despite the fact they keep threatening/wishing ill will on people once rejected.

supremethrone · 2023-08-28T12:00:00+00:00

Being an Eastern European man living in Western Europe is life on hard mode. Our "own" women don't want us because they'd rather date one of the locals, and local women don't want us because they stereotype us all as alcoholic, wife beating gopniks. Thanks for bringing me here, Mom, it's exactly what my depressed 15 year old self needed

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-28T12:18:44+00:00

You’re never going to get the amount of sex and the amount of women that you truly desire. Get over it.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-08-28T12:35:52+00:00

women say they don't find visual objectification of men arousing so why do these folks think using the power of empathy will make men shun jpegs of sexy ladies just because a man is doing it lol

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-28T12:44:01+00:00

I wonder what percentage of women have been a side chick in their lifetime? Both knowingly and unknowingly. Because on one hand there are situations where you can tell the girl “I have a GF” and she doesn’t care. She’s totally ok with being your number 2.

But they are other situations where she doesn’t know, would not accept that at all the guy just lied to her. There was one acquaintance of mine who got into a physical altercation at a lounge because she was dating this dude who didn’t tell her he was married. The wife must have found out tracked him to the location and tried to beat her ass. The cops got called and they both got arrested as cross complainants

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-28T12:47:29+00:00

Girls sign up for ubereats/door dash and have their man work under their account because the guy can’t pass the background check. That’s why your order says Stacey will be there in 5 mins in a Toyota Corolla and a 6 foot 6 dude in a dodge charger shows up

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-28T12:54:09+00:00

Last night, I was flirting with my boy cousin at his family function. Bro boutta find out we gonna be family

anonymous375555 · 2023-08-28T12:55:53+00:00

Why hot women don’t secure multiple men, like chads. What is the point of being loyal to someone who is not loyal to you?

eye_fuck · 2023-08-28T13:07:12+00:00

damn first time got that "from 'your cute~<3' to 'unmatched and blocked' in one message" achievement

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-28T13:13:27+00:00

Over time I'm definitely looking to remove as much plastic from my life as possible due to their estrogenic tendencies, some of these include

Replacing plastic containers with glass containers to store food.
Investing in a steel or glass water bottle
Buying a water filter to remove fluoride from the tap water (full of estrogenic substances)
Removing all polyester from my wardrobe and only wearing cotton or merino wool.
Investing in skincare and bathroom products displayed in either bamboo or glass casings
Moving to fluoride free toothpaste or just straight up moving to tooth powder.
Continue sticking to nutritious and one ingredient foods.

It'll be a slow process, and sure some people do this to save the planet, i personal don't give a fuck about the planet, I'm only doing this to ensure my sperm count/fertility doesn't decrease.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-28T13:26:30+00:00

Being lonely is not code for “Stacy wont fuck me”. You are also not mistreated nor neglected just because women dont want to fuck you, so stop quoting that African proverb. It does not apply to you.

According-Dinner-406 · 2023-08-28T13:27:53+00:00

Just heard this chick and her new boyfriend talking about her ex. The new boyfriend was like "that guy looked like a rat". And she goes "a tall, slim Mr.Splinter".

New boyfriend isn't tall. So, I'm assuming the tall rat left her. Unless women on here want to admit they've dumped a tall guy or two for a shorter one.

But she sounded kind of salty when she was describing his height and it makes me wonder if other women get that way too.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-28T13:40:08+00:00

Too many Red Pill guys fall into the trap of believing that every single Andrew Tate podcast is going to be the secret to unlocking a fulfilling life, no dumbass, taking action and doing something will.

I guarantee you Andrew Tate doesn't spend his days watching podcast after podcast, he's just buckling down working knowing that brain-dead morons like yourself will eat it up.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-28T14:10:42+00:00

Does anyone else get mad when people completely disregard science for religion? Like, I saw a comment by a very sweet lady that was excited to learn something about prehistoric humans and mentioned that we've been around a longer than you'd think and that it was all part of God's plan. I can vibe with that. I love it when people can balance their faith with facts. Unfortunately a ton of people started making fun of her and calling her stupid for thinking the earth wasn't 6,000 years old. It was insane how they just ignored facts

Workaholiconew · 2023-08-28T14:11:08+00:00

Am I going crazy or are women unable to differenciate "people pleasing and conflict avoidant" with non-hostile attention seeking behavior?

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-28T14:30:10+00:00

What do you guys think about PUA?

I saw this with Owen Cook (RSDTyler), and the footage is being broken down by another dating coach I respect, and I was in awe at how impressive Owen's social skills are. He can talk to anyone and male it look effortless, like there isn't an ounce of nervousness in him. And practically every women he talks to seems to light up when he interacts with them.

I am going to study him closely and then go out and apply the knowledge I've gained. Not to hook up with women, because I don't want that, but simply to be able to have long, enjoyable interactions with women. I've been lied to by all those people who said that PUA is garbage - no, it has some problematic aspects, but guys like Owen have incredible social skills and is living proof that bad looks are not a dealbreaker when you can make up for it with social ability. It's imperative for men with poor social skills to study guys like Owen and learn how to improve their social skills as a result.

But how do I deal with the fact that I care a lot about the women I interact with, and want to be as respectful to them as possible? It makes it harder to banter with them, because I feel like I'm being disrespectful. I guess my inherent simpishness is just something I need to overcome. Women want to be teased. Theylike it. So if I respect women, then I have to be willing to tease them, since it is something they like. I have to stop thinking of women as such delicate, angelic creatures. They are just people, even if their exterior is much softer than that of a man.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-28T14:31:38+00:00

A girl I knew in high school broke up, found another guy, bought a house with him, and is now pregnant, all this in two years. I have nothing against this but apparently he doesn’t want to marry her. This isn’t even the first case like this I’ve heard of, not by a long shot. But why? Surely a child is a bigger commitment than a marriage. It seems such an odd boundary to draw, especially if she’s bothered by it. From what I understood, he owns the house but it doesn’t matter if they’re together long enough to be considered a common law couple.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-28T14:32:40+00:00

Unpopular opinion: women don't need to look like bikini contest competitors to look good. They can be at 25% body fat and still look good.

keebydee · 2023-08-28T14:33:52+00:00

I hate it when women here just always gotta bring up their partners. Rubbing it in my face. I hated since the beginning seeing others have better and happier lives than me. I'm spending my time with psychiatrists and in social skill classes while everyone else is finding love and having fun.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-28T14:41:40+00:00

Time to become a robot (second try). I tried it once and it was going well albeit difficult. Then, for whatever reason a woman, whom I also found very cool said we should study together.

My stupid heart. Despite telling myself that there is literally nothing, my heart still didn't let go and I got myself into harming myself mentally when things didn't work out. In hindsight, because of my heart, because of hopes to make things work out into a relationship, I ended up not being blatantly open and tell her the truth about why I cannot go eat out outside during lunchtime. I am financially poor. Being upfront about this would have saved me a lot of headache and mental battles. Pretty sure I somewhat hurt her feelings too when I regularly declined her when she asked if I want to go eat lunch as well. I would have loved to but my financial situation didn't allow me to. Blame is on me for not being upfront. I still hate myself for trying to hide this. I don't think I'll ever be able to get over this.

Anyways, after I don't how many years, it is about time to become a robot again. The second time. Though, this time I am sure my heart won't fell into its own traps of baseless hopes.

What saddens me quite a lot is that since getting into puberty one of my bigger dreams was to get married. Since that never got fulfilled and seems highly unlikely as well, I guess I have to dig that dream also under the earth amongside all the other dreams I had. The unlikeliness for a relationship in my case is based in my poor financial situation. There is noone to blame but myself. Good game. It was a fair fight.

Her presence motivated me a lot, but nowadays I feel like that train has left as well. I missed the train and it is gone now, almost impossible to catch up. I don't believe that a relationship would motivate me that much again. I am basically done. Burnt out.

Rest in peace my dreams, welcome my robot self.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-28T14:51:25+00:00

Has any one noticed how most left leaning blue pillers are hooked on SSRIs. Is there any explanation for this?

potoricco · 2023-08-28T15:19:46+00:00

On lunch now

potoricco · 2023-08-28T15:21:35+00:00

Guys my dad replaced my car control center thing with a screen, which I wanted but I’m not so sure anymore. The radio is fucked up and cuts in and out, and I don’t know how to connect my aux cord it deadass looks like someone put and android (🤮) tablet in my car 😭

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-28T15:21:43+00:00

Happy bank holiday everyone ! August bank holiday is the best one. Off to the West Indian carnival with my fam

Maffioze · 2023-08-28T15:23:15+00:00

Can some women here please stop sending me only fans links. I am not interested.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-28T15:47:01+00:00

The Red Pill provides cheat codes to men to level up and game the dating market place in their favour, take the Red Pill.

scwizard · 2023-08-28T15:47:36+00:00

CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.

Yeah this is da truth. It's gonna be hard to convince me otherwise because I've seen it happen.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-28T15:53:20+00:00

I think that Chinese 2 child policy was awesome.

It doesn't really ban anyone from having more then two children, but society pays all services for first two kids. After that parents have to cash out for school, health insurance... everything.

And it boils down to each person having the right on one kid.

So serial monogamy... you can't pump and dump children and expect for society to take care of them.

baresquad · 2023-08-28T15:54:09+00:00

If being the best sex she’s ever had matters so much, wouldn’t you want her to have sample size larger than 1-2 other men?

Being the best out of 10+ means you could actually be her best. Being the best out of 3 leaves a ton of room for her to find improvement.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-08-28T15:57:20+00:00

My neighbor gave me raspberries and blackberries from their garden, they are too kind to me 😭

scwizard · 2023-08-28T16:01:54+00:00

Fun fact: the original definition of the Middle Eastern style harem was basically “the part of the house where the women live”. It’s not a sex thing, but rather for rich people bragging rights. Like, imagine a rich guy being like, “I make so much money, the women in my family don’t even have to work. My mom, my wife, my sisters, my nieces; they all live in this great big house I bought for everyone, and they even have their own part of it all to themselves! I call it the harem.” Westerners heard of this and immediately inserted scandalous connotations to the “room in your house with all the women” to be some sexual deviancy thing for “savages”. You know how it goes.

The fuck kinda historical revisionism is this? Are they now saying middle eastern guys don't have multiple wives now? Cause that's just factually incorrect.

redheadtingz · 2023-08-28T16:07:44+00:00

I need to get a real career because it’s getting kind of embarrassing being almost thirty and a bikini barista. It’s good money, though, I get the normal state minimum wage with a ton in tips. I’m making a couple dollars below what a nurse makes here per hour. I was hoping getting engaged would give me an excuse to leave, but my fiancé told me to stay because he wants a new truck.

demedermidimi · 2023-08-28T16:11:58+00:00

I'm dying to see women sharing a top tier man. it's just so inconceivable I'd love to see it it would be like seeing a fairy or unicorn or something

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-28T16:18:20+00:00

Q4 people that actually go outside and socialize.

Have you ever met women which behave like RP says they do?

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-08-28T16:19:15+00:00

CMV: men who say “women bring nothing to the table” simply hate women and love men

Uglypostwall · 2023-08-28T16:20:56+00:00

I've read Berserk, and I need a break now. Can someone please distract me with stupid jokes?

dishonouronmycow · 2023-08-28T16:27:01+00:00

Would a woman having 37 of the exact same doll put you off.

Maffioze · 2023-08-28T16:27:08+00:00

Looks like Florida and Georgia are gonna have a very bad hurricane. I hope the people there are making preparations.

keebydee · 2023-08-28T16:27:36+00:00

You know, when I first heard that ND/autistic women mask better than men it sounded believable but now I think I have to call bullshit because people are taking this fact to the extreme.

People are now using this whenever the discussion of why ND/autistic women themselves not even wanting to date their counterparts comes up. "ND women mask leaps and bounds better than men. They're way more socially adapted. If they've done all this work to fit in and their male counterpart hasn't, it would be even more annoying to them because they know you can do better and are selecting not to."

Giving the hard implication that in terms of social skills/behavior there's supposedly a HUGE gap between ND women and ND men that the men are just not worthy and undateable to their counterparts. If that's what women that are in similar situations really think about me like they're somehow above me and I'm undateable then I want nothing to do with them either.

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-28T16:28:54+00:00

The year is 2487 and feminists everywhere are still saying "Ya know, women only got the right to vote 500 years ago and up until 420 years ago, couldn't even own a credit card!! Women have been barred from education and still haven't caught up yet, so women need special treatment."

DragoonXFury · 2023-08-28T16:50:13+00:00

Oversimplified step by step guide to warped perception of reality.

Step 1: Read the posts and comments in this sub and other similar online spaces.

Step 2: Take what negative things people have to say about their opposite gender at face value.

Step 3: Extrapolate the negative rhetoric to the masses at large.

Step 4: Go back to Step 1.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-28T17:00:36+00:00

If you're only getting the shit end of the stick then you will suffer and lash out at others.

If “sweet nice guys” are lashing out at people who clearly arent being terrible to them, then they were never sweet nor nice. And no, women not wanting to suck a guy’s dick for his niceness is NOT “getting the short end of the stick” and any guy who thinks so is the entitled asshole.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-28T17:28:01+00:00

Q4M: What are some big factors that a man wants to be in a relationship with a women vs just trying to attain sex then ghost?

keebydee · 2023-08-28T17:31:18+00:00

I gotta be blunt but the posts that were made by women here last week were absolutely dogshit. They were so ridiculous, I didn't even feel like it was worth debating. Especially the posts like the one where OP basically just said stop wanting romantic relationships, masturbate and get more friendships to compensate just like women do. And the other where OP said men of all ages are attracted to teens. Absolutely awful week.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-28T17:49:33+00:00

Finally, 4 days of thunderstorms and temp drop of 10 degrees.

The summer is over :)

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-28T18:00:30+00:00

this just in!

creepy porn is for women, men have nothing to do with videos where a barely legal woman is dressed in an onesie clutching a stuffed bear while she's getting fucked in the ass (she's not having a good time)

men are good people, so wholesome, they only watch creampies and female orgasm compilation

it's the women who make it creepy

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-28T18:14:17+00:00

It is quite funny to see how the religious right were against evolution, denying physical and structural evolution. Nowadays it is the left who deny evolution, they don't deny physical evolution but deny behavioral evolution. You can't believe in evolution with acknowledging behavioral, it makes no sense. It is like believing Giraffe have long necks but there is no behavioral associated with it. It makes no sense, academia do not disagree when it comes to behavioral evolution when it comes to animals, but when it comes to humans leftiest academia deny it due to activism bias. Wishing what the world should be rather than what it is.

Humans are not a blank slate, devlopmental psychology has already shown that the moment a child is born, that child has so much knowledge of the social and physical worlds. They are already programmed to learn things very easily and some difficult. Nature already provides the first draft of the world, but doesn't mean it is the final draft of the world.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-28T18:36:22+00:00

Q4M: This is somewhat part 2 to my other question, but How long should a women wait to have sex with a guy that she wants a relationship with, to lessen her chances of being ghosted/used for sex.

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-28T18:36:57+00:00

Males claim to be simple but anyone who has ever been in a relationship with one know they aren’t. Males get pouty, moody and passive aggressive over small things just like women.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-08-28T18:41:27+00:00

I think too many male posters are unaware how many of their complaints or ways to address them read to their female audience. It will naturally seem like men want to pressure, coerce or force some women into providing sex to men the women do not find sufficiently attractive (to outright repulsive).

I believe there are possible ways to address some issues surrounding the heterosexual pairing rate without doing any of this to women. But when posting on such topics, it might be better to explicitly bring up some of the more win-win ideas for addressing things, so as to avoid alienating women readers as much as possible.

SianOiseau · 2023-08-28T18:48:23+00:00

I'm against broad generalizations, but when guys go to the store with a list and bring 50% of it and this 50% isn't even exactly what was written in the list, my first reaction is "men 🙄". It wasn't even a particularly long list and there were all things we all eat/use every day, so I'd expect them to remember how they look like or why we need them.

potoricco · 2023-08-28T18:52:36+00:00

School isn’t as bad as I thought

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-08-28T18:57:51+00:00

Why do I even try to argue with people on reddit. I have the urge to repeatedly smash my head into a wall.

gabejohn · 2023-08-28T18:58:22+00:00

My tinder is as dry as a desert right now.

8 more dates and I can finally give up.

Maffioze · 2023-08-28T18:58:32+00:00

I need you guys' opinions. What do you think about this picture? Is it good or nah?

https://preview.redd.it/8y4r1x1sewkb1.jpeg?width=3888&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7d6ba816bdff6407c7913e5b4d586b0d8b1a9d4c

Interesting_Disk_130 · 2023-08-28T19:13:51+00:00

I've been aware and using on and off this sub for a couple of months now, but when I was just starting I got banned for the most ridiculous thing, I am 100% sure who I was arguing with was either a mod or he has a friend mod or something. We were just talking about the importance of looks in dating, like nothing even over the top I just acknowledge that looks are indeed important but there are also other elements at play besides it and then BANG banned for 3 days reason being "incel content". What in the world I thought!

Now, I am fairly ignorant about Reddit policies and so I innocently thought I'll just use another account in the meantime till that ban is over, but as with life it never goes as one really expects it to and so I found myself banned from Reddit site-wide. All of my accounts were banned, personal, niche specific, and nsfw. I thought, "Well that's a bitch and a half, fuck.", and moved on like a regular human being.

However, from that moment onward every time I create an account, farm some karma in it to be able to just post and for my comments to be seen by other people, and start to finally have a somewhat of a normalish Reddit presence which just means having the liberty to interact with others I get banned. Every single time, and it's been happening for months now. What is even more frustrating is the fact that now I have to use a VPN, but here is the thing. They know when someone's using a VPN and so they place a few restrictions on that account mainly the need to wait 10 minutes between every comment you make and the fact that sometimes those accounts suddenly just sort of get shadow banned out of nowhere, you make posts and comments but no one can see them only you.

I was just an innocent law abiding user who never insulted anyone and always backed on when insults started to get thrown around and now I have been pushed against my will to a life of crime, hate, and always having to look behind my shoulders, or rather in this instance in front of my shoulder as I open my laptop and pray there isn't a red bar under my navigation menu saying this account has been suspended permanently.

To that person responsible for this, I hope many unfortunate things happen to you. More than that I hope they can be intense so that you'll be overwhelmed by pain and suffering that you'll never be able to learn anything from them, I want you to be so overwhelmed that your first mental reaction to anything is to blame the other because you'll become that pitiful that you can't even manage a bit of discomfort that results of you acknowledging your mistake. I hope that you suffer a lot and for all of it to be completely meaningless and for it to make you a just even more resentful and bitter person.

Nah, JK. But you's a bitch still seriously.

Maffioze · 2023-08-28T19:16:31+00:00

Another one lmao, this is a church in a small Belgian city.

https://preview.redd.it/tibs9ky3iwkb1.jpeg?width=3888&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e06b161be16e83f294ae27fcc4a0f6651cbbe288

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-28T19:31:11+00:00

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demedermidimi · 2023-08-28T19:33:06+00:00

at least I'll never have a man throwing a tantrum because i won't have sex with him when my vagina's recently been torn apart by a baby. reddit stories make me want to start a gratitude journal

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-28T19:43:10+00:00

serious question for ND:

have you tried looking for ND support groups? or activities for ND people? I bet there's tons of other NDs who are looking to socialize

I'm still in awe with the group I found for people with speech impediments. They wanted to get together on Sunday as well! I couldn't make it but I love that they want to socialize

I had no idea there's a whole community

Maffioze · 2023-08-28T19:43:39+00:00

To round of my bragging photography moment, my own two favourite pictures. Also because this was a beautifull moment in a time where I was feeling rather bad.

https://preview.redd.it/08ndvovtmwkb1.jpeg?width=4809&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0fd21cb0cfe78b80a8d63f8b08b1fab4e25da19c

Workaholiconew · 2023-08-28T19:44:40+00:00

I laughed today...

Autistic girl in my class is nervous when I look her in the eyes, and said that to me cause I tend to look her in the eyes, so I avert my gaze to make her comfortable today...

She proceeds to try to put herself into my face and faze like a puppy wanting attention... heh... Okay I laugh a bit and lock my eyes on hers to see her reaction...

She then proceeds to avoid my eyes and my gaze like a fearful puppy... Ahahahahahahha... they are cute. I guess female autists are still women regardless of their condition...

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-28T19:46:04+00:00

I wonder how many people will tolerate an insufferable woman who insists that she’s a loving and kind person….but she’s constantly acting unhinged because of “stress” and will lash out at people who did nothing wrong to her, justifying because she’s “stressed” or “been so hurt”.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-08-28T19:50:11+00:00

Women need to stop attempting to force monogamy and commitment on unwilling men.

DoinIt989 · 2023-08-28T19:51:38+00:00

Why do non-Americans keep trying to comment on US dating dynamics?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-28T19:52:05+00:00

Dating apps be like...

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-28T19:53:48+00:00

People be trying to hide hate or saying slick shit under “I was just telling jokes bro” nah you was dead serious

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-28T20:10:33+00:00

First day of school and dudes is already getting rejected. Not me tho, I mind my bombaclatt buissness

purplish_possum · 2023-08-28T20:13:55+00:00

All the poor saps who think status will get them laid. LOL!

There's no sex prize for being a good boy.

SorryEm · 2023-08-28T20:14:51+00:00

Breanna, if you're reading this PLEAASE TAKE ME BACK! I'M SORRY I SHOULD'VE APPRECIATED YOU MORE!!!!!

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-08-28T20:17:40+00:00

I beg you all to actually learn the meaning of the word “gaslight” before putting it in every other sentence. That will be all.

Twinseo09 · 2023-08-28T20:24:20+00:00

I never want to hear again how average men cannot pull. We got a below average guy managed to pull 7 average - attractive women and get them all pregnant.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-28T20:24:58+00:00

Yes all men -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/162zv2k/not_all_men_but_who/

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-28T20:42:49+00:00

Blame men -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/blackladies/comments/163fv3i/a_rant_on_how_men_ruin_dating/?sort=confidence

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-08-28T20:43:03+00:00

Why is saying “ all men” not bigotry, but if I say that about any other classification of people it then becomes bigotry?

eye_fuck · 2023-08-28T20:45:18+00:00

pick one

— very romantic mutual love

— really good sex

baresquad · 2023-08-28T20:53:16+00:00

It’s funny as hell watching the way people talk about sex culture in America. You’d think people were fucking in the streets with how big of a boogeyman “degeneracy in the west” has become.

They make us sound so sex obsessed when millions of students here don’t even have access to proper sex education. We have so many adults living in fear with no real idea how STD’s or pregnancy works but sure, it’s our sexualization that’s gonna ruin the world lmao.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-28T21:05:04+00:00

Do we have any paleoartists in the chat? I have questions

potoricco · 2023-08-28T21:08:49+00:00

Ppd stop being dry challenge GO

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-28T21:18:09+00:00

It’s always amusing watching guys insist there’s differences between male and female behavior…,,while they act just like the “If you cant handle me at my worse, you dont deserve me at my best” crazy bitches.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-28T21:22:02+00:00

so what do you think of the "depression isn't real" idea or "depression is real only if I believe in it" ?

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-28T23:11:37+00:00

Dudes really be sitting here coming up with clever ass pick up lines, thinking of the perfect words to get rejected. Sad case

baresquad · 2023-08-29T02:12:34+00:00

Video games and Matt Walsh are ruining men.

There’s nothing wrong with gaming at all, I play. But it’s fucking up how these boys perceive reality. What the fuck is a year long campaign to gain honor?

blebbyroo · 2023-08-29T02:03:07+00:00

Dancing like a monkey- The whole premise is ridiculous. If you feel like you are dancing like a monkey you are hanging out with someone who doesn’t like you or who you don’t like.

Making someone laugh, or having good conversation skills and planning dates in not dancing like a monkey. This is socialising and is relevant for all relationships you will have including familial or platonic.

If someone doesn’t match your romantic effort - leave, easy as.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-29T01:36:47+00:00

Logan Paul's girlfriend who wait him wait and who he considers to be his dream girl, asserting in a video before she met him that she "needs penis to destory her body" :

https://youtu.be/RMG1sCPKsc0?t=10

thetruthishere_ · 2023-08-29T01:26:33+00:00

Ive been in the hospital for the past three days, did you miss me? Haha.

Whats been going on?

potoricco · 2023-08-29T01:23:48+00:00

Ngl with all this autism conversation I imagine this is what you’re like in real life

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-29T01:13:01+00:00

Anyone know any good lab equipment surplus sites? I want a good microscope that won't bankrupt me

old_new_age · 2023-08-29T00:54:23+00:00

when men claim that a large percent of sexually successful men are manipulators/sociopaths, people rush to say that they're just coping with their own frustrations and chads are actually good people. however, without that initial claim, a lot of people, particularly women, lament that the dating scene is filled with horrible, abusive, manipulative men, "bAR is In HeLL" etc. I am confused

Sillysheila · 2023-08-29T00:28:36+00:00

Oh my god! I just got a new job offer!! Let’s goooooo woo

houstongradengineer · 2023-08-29T00:17:46+00:00

I just commented that "I'm trying to lose weight." I've lost like 40 pounds and I'm still just like "idk if it's working lol." Anyway, trying my best!

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-29T00:14:06+00:00

Did anyone watch 10 Cloverfield Lane?

Who is the woman that begs for letting her inside the bunker? I thought she is just a decoy, a paid actress, or Howard's wife who helps him with his crimes.
If the alien invasion is real, why did Howard get so enraged about the woman touching the other dude at the dinner table? Is he jealous? Why is he jealous by that touch if he claims to only want to help? I mean he is not married to that woman anyways, there is like no point in being jealous.
What is up with the "HELP" written at the entrance of the ventilation room? Does Howard actually kidnaps women and ends up killing them and the alien invasion is just a very convenient coincidence for him?

Peacesquad · 2023-08-29T00:06:21+00:00

Also you’re welcome Reddit

https://imgur.io/gallery/7PghAK1

Peacesquad · 2023-08-29T00:06:13+00:00

What did I miss

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-28T23:59:47+00:00

https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2023/aug/28/burning-man-protest-climate-change-environment

Anyone at/going to Burning Man? And WTF with staging a climate protest that is so annoyingly preaching at the choir?

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-28T23:49:36+00:00

does anyone dream of leading a coup against the us govt?

diaryofalostgirl · 2023-08-28T23:42:26+00:00

If a guy tells you he doesn't want to be settled for, you decide not to settle for him, and he says NO NOT LIKE THAT, that's on him, right?

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-28T23:34:55+00:00

it's posts like these that makes me lost faith https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1o0lol/paternity_test_proves_man_is_not_the_father_of/

Special-Possession44 · 2023-08-28T23:30:04+00:00

women are up in arms about men saying serial monogamy is technically just polygamy. well, assuming women are correct, then genghis khan is a serial monogamist too, not a polygamist, because he had sex with different women at different times of the year, always took a new woman in every country he invaded and never came back to the same woman after fcking her (put her in cold storage or banished her today called 'breaking up') XD

yes under women's definition of serial monogamy, no polygamist in history had ever even a polygamist they were all serial monogamists XD see how ridiculous liberal doubletalk is.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-28T23:29:41+00:00

I should dive back into my local "are we dating the same guy?" Group so I can remind myself at least 50% of the "Chads" on there look kind of busted

BigCollectionFor · 2023-08-28T23:21:20+00:00

Hey fellas, what do we think about women over 30?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-28T23:04:18+00:00

What does this sub consider a long-term relationship.

In my mind, a long-term relationship is 2+ years.

Anything under 2 years is short-term. 1 year = short term

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-08-28T22:38:46+00:00

I wonder if, deep down, women here actually believe that modern dating takes equal effort from the sexes. Like I really want to know how brainwashed these people are.

It’s the equivalent to thinking trump won the 2020 election.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-08-28T22:21:24+00:00

I think I’m gonna leave this sub, it’s not for me. I am just a normal guy who wants to date hot girls. The blackpill content assumes every guy is a virgin, the redpill content assumes I don’t know what game is (I have like 5000 approaches and have slept with prob 80 women), and the bluepillers defend the lowest possible bar of “average guys have sex,” as if my dating life would be ideal if I banged an obese woman once a year.

I’m going to search for a sub that helps guys with decent SMV find someone amazing. To the virgins, tradcons, Finnish rural denizens, and the other deviants here, I wish you godspeed

potoricco · 2023-08-28T22:06:59+00:00

Misogyny is alive and well and ingrained. My brother has literally cursed out my mom, called her names and then attempted to pull her hair one time and my mom forgave him within 2 days, since then it has never been mentioned. However I do something mundane which she perceives slightly stupid, and then she has to bring up my life history, the time I cried too much when I was a baby, the time I kicked too much while in the womb, the time I breathed the wrong way. Just constantly bringing up idiotic but harmless stuff I supposedly did in the past and holding it over my head

I don’t have abusive parents but they are just SO SO overly critical of me especially when in 90% I haven’t even done anything wrong I just didn’t do it the way THEY liked it done. Meanwhile having brothers they could literally burn our house down and everybody will flock to their side

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-28T21:49:27+00:00

I've never approached a woman before, but I plan to soon. And when I do, I think I'll have great game. I've always strived to be funny, since I was a kid. And I had to rely on it even more once puberty hit and I was too ugly to make friends based on looks alone.

But I previously had a lot of issues with social anxiety, with my voice feeling trapped inside my body and sounding quite faint when I spoke to people, and accompanied by a stutter.

However, a technique I've been practising is "continuous muscle attention" - all it involves is me placing my attention on various muscles in my body, feeling whatever sensations they are feeling, and doing this to the point that I'm unable to simultaneously be "in my head". Try it yourself.

Doing this has decreased my anxiety by a lot. Talking to people is much easier, the words flow out of me. And the delivery is confident rather than timid like before.

I watched this pickup video and was surprised that a dating coach who claims to have a bodycount of 1691 would be so bad at approaching.

But I imagined myself being in his shoes, and what I would say to a girl in that situation. I personally wouldn't want to approach someone who looked like they were trying to get somewhere, but I imagined it just for the sake of curiosity. After the woman in question told me she was going to Circue Du Soleil, and that she was alone, I would say:

"It's Circue Du SoLEIL, not Circue Du SoLO. Why not let a tall, handsome man accompany you there?"

And since I'm a short and not-handsome man, I'd pause for a second and then say:

"Now I don't currently know where that kind of man is, but I can stick around and help you find him"

I'd deliver these lines with sincerity, as if I were being completely serious, never laughing at my own jokes (like I used to).

I imagined another scenario (or it could happen in the same scenario) where I was talking to a woman and she asks me how tall I am, to which I instantly respond:

"Me? Oh I'm 6 feet".

I'm only 5'8", so that's clearly a lie. I'd observe her expression of amused disbelief and follow it up by saying:

"Yeah the ground isn't always level, see right now the ground you're standing on is much higher on than where I'm standing, hence why we look much closer to eye level. Just trust me, you keep walking with me and we'll eventually hit a patch of ground that makes you go 'Wow, he really is 6 foot 3'."

It's funny because I initially said "6 foot", but am now saying "6 foot 3" - the number just keeps getting higher and more unbelievable.

I would deliver these lines in a manner that makes it seem like I'm almost entirely serious, but also just insecure enough that she knows I'm totally joking around and not actually delusional.

I think that's an example of good game. Certainly better game than the dating coach in that video. I also wouldn't touch a girl at all unless we had been talking for a while, and she showed signs of comfort around me, whereas that dating coach tried to touch the girl really early on and she moved away from him due to discomfort.

I have some other real-life conversations that I made some pretty good jokes during, and other conversations where I had good jokes in my mind but was too anxious to say them. But I know how to overcome my anxiety now.

Another thing I've realized is that delivery matters far more than the punchline itself. A mediocre punchline with confident, well-timed delivery will be WAY better than a great punchline that is delivered without the right vocal tonality or timing behind it.

The emotional state you deliver the words from matters far more than what you actually say, because non-verbal cues comprise the majority of animal communication.

Maybe in the next few days, I'll hit the town and chat up a woman or two. And hopefully I'll be relaxed and will come up with some really funny lines on the spot like I did here.

What do you guys think? Are my above lines witty enough to be considered "good game"? I came up with them on the spot, while imagining myself in the scenario of that dating coach. I didn't have to think hard to come up with them, they just flowed out of me.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-28T21:49:05+00:00

Interesting moment. We have a kid on the way and GF want's me to read all this books on raising kids, child psychology, changing diapers... etc.

I already read the all :)

I can't let her know that I really wanted to have a kid, and I already read all of them. So now I have to put up an act :D

Maffioze · 2023-08-28T21:48:11+00:00

https://youtu.be/ZgO2pN2xmVU?si=0ihBHRgEBeQQyNM3

This is the ultimate sunset vibe song.

potoricco · 2023-08-28T21:46:04+00:00

I’ve never been pregnant but i feel like people stop caring about pregnancies once you have your first child. Because it loses the novelty kind of like if you get married repeatedly less and less people care

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-28T21:41:16+00:00

You all are self improving because you want to be better. I’m self improving because I don’t want anyone I don’t like to be more successful than me in any way that matters. We are not the same.

jpla86 · 2023-08-28T21:40:15+00:00

Why are men who are unattractive and unsuccessful with dating always told to go make female friends? If you're unattractive, they don't want to talk or go near you, much less be friends with you.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-28T21:33:32+00:00

So, almost everybody knows some women which behave like RP predicts.

Also almost everybody knows some women which do not behave like RP predicts.

Which proves that both pills are wrong...

All women are certainly not angels, and all women are not superficial virtue signaling sociopaths.

Now I understand that some people can't comprehend that human behavior is always on a spectrum, and seeing things black and white is easier. But for fucks sake try harder.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-28T21:29:06+00:00

Q4A what do you bring to the table? for dinner of course. what are you guys cooking? can you cook?

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