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purplish_possum · 2023-09-08T22:26:09+00:00

I've noticed that several of the contractors I've hired have a lot to say about gold digging unfaithful women. They're certainly not incels but the women in their lives have certainly primed them to be receptive to the red pill message.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-08T21:40:01+00:00

Another thing I’ve seen happening to most men at one point or another is that he wants to build a house for you.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-08T21:14:56+00:00

I got hired as a journalist for a local newspaper. We can't stop here, this is bat country!

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-08T20:57:42+00:00

I really enjoy hearing strange men critique my life.

How I spend my money is dumb. I'm delusional if I think I'm a 10. I'm unhappy because I don't have children. The men I date are simps and betas with no options. I'm fat.

On and on. Every day. It's quite comical.

potoricco · 2023-09-08T20:28:37+00:00

why would they name this cat ricochet that is a violation 💀

Maffioze · 2023-09-08T20:24:54+00:00

I can't seem to comprehend that I am graduated.

prof_tamura · 2023-09-08T20:12:17+00:00

I probably should be quitting reddit, tiktok, instagram because even though I accepted the blackpill and embraced it, it still hurts a ton seeing it more and more confirmed. But I can't stop. I stop scrolling to go to the gym or to play some fallout, feel a bit better then I come back and do this shit to feel the same pain over and over again to the point I feel like hurting myself. What's wrong with me bros?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-08T20:06:30+00:00

I will never understand guys who obsessively hate on fat girls. First of all, obesity is rising in the west. Second of all, as an American, “no fat chicks” is laughable because 66% of the US population is fat, so........ Thirdly, in the south, fat girls do very well as long as they're not 600 pounds.

Maffioze · 2023-09-08T19:58:36+00:00

If that guy rating emma stone as a 6 is delusional, what would the other people of PPD rate her?

meteorness123 · 2023-09-08T19:55:31+00:00

so what are everybodys thoughts on Destiny verbally manhandling Rollo ? A short summary :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9uis3OEyL7k&ab_channel=PISHWELL

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-08T19:46:12+00:00

Q4All: Did you workout this week?

demedermidimi · 2023-09-08T19:43:25+00:00

the "emma stone is a 6 and margot robbie is mid" guy is entering my ppd hall of fame, he's right behind the "healthy (19-21) bmi" guy

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-08T19:37:40+00:00

someone say something fun wtf

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-08T19:18:47+00:00

This is a perfect example of gross double standards between men and women. If women do something men don't like it is empowering and they're a girl boss for being repulsive. If a man does something women don't like, he is sexist and needs to be cancelled.

- amy poehler does something repulsive and embarassing

- jimmy fallon expresses he doesn't like that

- amy poehler tells him she doesn't care and continues to do repulsive thing

- everyone claps

- tina fey puts it in her memoir to inspire future generations of women

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-08T19:17:37+00:00

The problem with child-free people is the same problem with vegans: When you make it your whole personality, people find you insufferable.

DrCornSyrup · 2023-09-08T19:10:50+00:00

Do you think it is a status symbol for men to be able to support a stay at home wife? Would you prefer a stay at home wife or a wife who has a job

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-09-08T18:55:54+00:00

great vid showing how delusional women are nowadays

Literally lists traits to be a high value woman and then for women she says all of them are inherently high value.

It just shows the women are wonderful effect and how blatantly sexist our society has become.

This also hurts women btw, men who believe this crap have their whole world turned upside down when they realize women behave just as poorly as men do. This leads to far greater resentment in the long run

potoricco · 2023-09-08T18:53:20+00:00

Where is Pizzashillsmom, he’s our last hope

meteorness123 · 2023-09-08T18:53:00+00:00

Bruh, imagine a guy identifying not getting laid as his source of depression, then getting laid and realizing that nothing changed and he's just as depressed and miserable before. and that he was just treating a symptom. That shit will be brutal.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-08T18:44:27+00:00

For the men: There's nothing wrong with enjoying a fun, active sex life before settling down (if that's what you want). If you aren't currently, you may need to build up your sex appeal -- and that's ok.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-08T18:20:13+00:00

Women are slaves to their hypergamy. Anything that inhibits their ability to select the best possible guy that’s obviously way more valuable and superior than them will be met with shame and ridicule

demedermidimi · 2023-09-08T18:18:50+00:00

i think i developed an alcohol intolerance, the last few times i got drunk (not shitfaced, but like a level above tipsy) i always felt sick the next day or two. not sick as in nauseous and hungover, but fatigued and with a stuffy nose

supremethrone · 2023-09-08T18:16:50+00:00

hey you, nice guy, why aren't you psychopathmaxxing and felonymaxxing right now? https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16d8ef7/my_date_has_served_two_prison_sentences/

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-08T17:55:58+00:00

Some of the most annoying men are the ones who CHOOSE to go on Tinder, but then want to be whiny about it. That also indicates he’s the kind of person who never wants to take responsibility for anything he does. Hell, he probably thinks doing the same thing over and over again, is going to yield different results.

Also, guys putting in zero effort on analyzing the situation nor trying to come up with another solution. For example, “Wah, I don't want to pay for dates. You women don't know my struggles.” If I was in that situation, I would thinking “Okay, I don't want to spend a lot of money, so I need to look at ways to have fun on a budget. Also, gotta figure out what type of woman I want, how am I gonna get them, and/or if they’re worth appealing to.”

For any saying “Men can't do all of that!” I know a couple of guys with autism that did it and pulled off getting girlfriends. Now, I guess the biggest difference is that they’re OK having no girlfriend than wasting time with a woman they can't stand.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-08T17:39:24+00:00

Q4Women: Are you fine having sex with a guy that doesn't excite you? Or being in a relationship with him? You're attracted to him but he's incapable of exciting you

If the question doesn't make sense to you, feel free to explain why

u/DerayRevan

slackforce · 2023-09-08T16:51:38+00:00

Another gem!

God I love reddit.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-08T16:46:56+00:00

Another thing I see a lot of people talk about online that I have experienced the opposite is the expectation of the man paying.

In my experience, women have often paid for me on dates simply because I was broke af, or if I was on a date and offered to pay they would decline and want to pay for themselves. I have heard from women that they don't like guys paying for them on first dates because men will have the expectation that they're owed something. It seems in my experience the mentality is that you pay for yourself in the beginning, and then as the relationship progresses you take turns paying based on whoever has the money to do the activity you want to do.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-08T16:36:23+00:00

AF/BB is simply about

Attraction vs Arousal

Most guys can attract a woman but arousing is a different story

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-08T16:31:36+00:00

40yo virgin man trying to date

Guys here is a pro tip: If you are a virgin, NEVER admit you are, even on Reddit. Unless you're some high school kid or religious person, non-religious women do not respect virgins and will virgin shame in a heartbeat. Even if she has a low N-count, she will look at a virgin man like 👀

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-09-08T16:28:29+00:00

I've been thinking about how contraceptives and easily accessible abortions have changed the relationship landscape over history.

For most of human history we would've lived in tribes. Women would've fucked a few of the guys in the tribe even if the chief or top 20% whatever wanted them all to himself. Then as a community they'd have raised the kids who were genetically similar to them because their gene pools were smaller than Alabama's.

But for the period of history we think of most after civilization and large cities, people would've become monogamous. Obviously brothels still existed for some men and women. And the wealthy kings and emperors had more concubines to birth an army of children to use for alliances and officer positions. Most of the time kids 13-15 and 15-17 would've been married off and girls would have their first kids around 13-14. Then for that Victorian Jane Austen time period women would've gotten an education in things like being ladies but still often married men significantly older and without a choice. If a girl got pregnant outside of wedlock they'd either force abortion through poisons, or give the baby up, or the daughters would be disowned since daughters were viewed as property to be gotten rid of when they came of age. Maybe the 2 people would be forced to marry each other.

Nowadays we have plan b and multiple forms of birth control. Girls don't settle down with the first guy to fuck them. They learn a bit about what kind of relationship they want. Guys don't settle down with whoever their family wrote a contract with. They also don't get to beat their wives and get to learn what they want. Women are in the workforce almost as much as men(still some SAHM) so there's less financial incentive to marry young. I've seen some women in engineering roles whereas past photographs of graduating classes only contained wealthy white men. Just imagine if every girl had to raise the baby of the first guy who impregnated them because there were no contraceptives or abortions. Even without factoring dating apps the landscape has changed so much. But we're still illogical and subject to our baser instincts.

AngeCruelle · 2023-09-08T16:24:22+00:00

Help I think I'm starting to like Olivia Rodrigo's music. What has become of me.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-08T16:18:16+00:00

Are there really a bunch of dudes hating on women with tattoos?

old_new_age · 2023-09-08T16:13:10+00:00

the fact that lesbians have the highest divorce and DV rates and gay men have the lowest divorce and DV rates is a hilarious data point that should be brought up more frequently to combat a "men are always to blame" culture in relationships

baresquad · 2023-09-08T16:07:43+00:00

Inexperienced people are too entitled. Y’all simply aren’t a good match for experienced people and it’s a chore for them to give the inexperienced a chance.

At some point we’ve all been inexperienced. Your teenage years were your best chance to hone every dating skill in preparation for being a successful adult. Nearly everybody around you socially during your teen years were at the same level as you. If you didn’t take initiative to set yourself for success later in life, that’s on you.

Others did and it’s unfair to expect them to relent to inexperience. On the bright side though, there’s tons of inexperienced adults. Enough to intermingle and learn from each other together. So it doesn’t matter whether women hate inexperienced men or men hate inexperienced women. Inexperience is compatible with inexperience anyway.

And if body counts matter so much, y’all shouldn’t want to be with someone who’s more experienced than you anyway right?

DerayRevan · 2023-09-08T15:45:06+00:00

Saw a Q4M post asking if men would pay on a date with a 21yo or split things equally between a 30yo woman

To be honest, most men are gonna date the hotter chick and it can be both the 21yo or 30yo woman, men always go the extra mile to keep the interest of a hot woman, that's why many start simping because to them keep her around is an absolute must

Now me personally l don't have a problem paying on a date since that's what l've been doing since l was a teen, it's just common sense at my area for a guy to pay

I also don't have a problem dating a woman in her 30s since am also in my 30s and l don't believe women loose their attractiveness past 25

slackforce · 2023-09-08T15:42:51+00:00

I love these threads.

No dissembling. No justification. Just the raw thought process of a woman that won't even entertain the idea that she can't date Mr. 666.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-08T15:41:22+00:00

RPW don't like their men seeing themselves as husband material and not hookup material

TL;DR: RPW don't understand "husband material" is not a flex unless he had no options with women.

I love RPW as they are trying to be legit...but half of them I am not really sure in the comments in this post. I'm sure quite a few of the women on that sub at some point in their life had a guy who they slept with immediately and made the other guy wait. Granted that might have changed with them NOW. Men hate being gaslighted about finishing last while Chads finish first.

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RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-07T21:02:48+00:00

First

ilovesoundtracks1 · 2023-09-07T21:06:26+00:00

Buzz Aldri

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-09-07T21:13:12+00:00

Women: "Men aren't doing enough around the house they need to step up 🤬"

Also women: "You have such a transactional view of relationships if you complain about your wife not contributing enough to finances 🤬"

Somehow it's only "transactional" when men want women to contribute equally 🙄

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-07T21:17:33+00:00

I'm not really vibing with the y2K fashion revival.

It was ill-fitting on me back then, and it will be just as ill-fitting now.

Don't leave me athleisure!!! you gave me a socially sanctioned reason to walk around in yoga pants all day. 😭

supremethrone · 2023-09-07T21:24:09+00:00

I wonder if the reason why so many people on reddit tell you to do things like sign up for a hobby to meet women when these hobbies are dominated by men and the few women are there with their husbands is because the average redditor is a fat middle class American whose hobbies are video games and pokemon cards

Infammo · 2023-09-07T21:24:12+00:00

I wonder if the benefits from the Reddit gold/platinum I have will disappear on the 12th.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-07T21:33:32+00:00

What’s the earliest you’ve fallen in love with someone? Ie before meeting, first date etc

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-07T21:38:39+00:00

My best friend found out his wife is pregnant again. This gonna have his third child(and final child) in as many years next year and a lot of people say that’s what they wanna do, have them back to back but that shit is hard. He got a 1 year old and a 2 month old right now. Then he gonna have another one next year. It’s gonna be 3 babies under 2 years old.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-07T21:41:18+00:00

I really dont like weak people treated poorly. It creates intense discomfort in me

potoricco · 2023-09-07T21:51:56+00:00

I love how British people say water

They either say Wotta or Wo’a

potoricco · 2023-09-07T21:53:23+00:00

Is it just me or Lisps are really attractive

Not like when they talk like thith emoji 🤓 or when they spit every where but like… If you say your s a little differently 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-07T21:56:28+00:00

Male beauty standards be like, you can be at a healthy (19-21) BMI as a man but you'll be a skinny nerd unless you devote 10+ hours a week working out and dieting.

Meanwhile a girl with the same body type, even one who is close to flat, has a good body, close to the optimal body type for the majority of upper middle class men.

I don't see how any woman can complain about female beauty standards.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-07T22:33:01+00:00

I went to a fast food restaurant with my laptop and I was like 100 times more productive than at home.

gabejohn · 2023-09-07T22:38:41+00:00

Can actors use their acting skills in social situations to seem more confident/charismatic, or are they only able to do that in a controlled setting with a script?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-07T22:42:19+00:00

Forget about finding your “looksmatch.”

Find your “NYT -crossword-match.”

(Or your “likes-to-birdwatch-match” or “DC-marvel-fan-match” or “Starfield-playing-match” or whatever floats your boat.)

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-09-07T22:44:52+00:00

I don't get most women's visceral reaction over the phrase "she's not yours, it was just your turn." Shouldn't male disposability and replacability be something RedPillers and Feminists agree on?

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-07T22:47:18+00:00

Oh boy another body count thread. Here's a universal truth: Never in history has a worthwhile compatiable man had to ask "What is your body count."

Because you should know, pretty much immediately just through interacting with the other person what their body count is just through simple fucking deduction. The point of body count is to learn about the other persons morals and if they align with yours.

You know a better way to do that? Fucking talk to them and observe them.

If you meet a woman in church and she constantly talks about how important Jesus is in her life, guess what probably has a pretty low body count. you don't need to ask. And considering you met her in church you're probably both Jesus freaks and therefore pretty compatiable.

If you met a woman at a rave while rolling on molly and you're also rolling on molly and you ask her, her body count, what the fuck are you doing? Of course it's high, you're at a fucking rave, who goes to a rave ?????

If you meet someone through a friend group and you see, while you're in the initial stages of talking to them, that they also flirt and talk with other guys or they mention other dates or something like that guess what, you have your answer.

Unless you are literally autistic (and I am literally autistic) you should be able to do basic fucking deduction about the other persons morality and thoughts about sex without having to reduce it down to a number of "What's your body count".

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-07T23:05:12+00:00

When did Iggy Azalea get a different accent??

MysterySolverDog · 2023-09-07T23:07:41+00:00

I'm less interested in n count threads and more interested in why the group that gets triggered by "high n count woman bad" threads are cool as a cucumber with "low n count man bad".

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-07T23:10:48+00:00

Is it just me or does it seem like there are more and more single moms being made?

Every time im on social media or dating apps, there are so many

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-07T23:29:37+00:00

When you were partying, I studied the suplex. When you were having premarital sex, I mastered the 1-2 double leg. While you wasted your days at the gym in pursuit of vanity, ~~I cultivated inner strength~~ also wasted my days at the gym in pursuit of vanity. And now that the world is on fire and the barbarians are at the gate you have the audacity to come to me for help.

What I'm saying is, is that despite my bum knee it is finally time to do MMA again

later losers

Sillysheila · 2023-09-07T23:40:29+00:00

Does anyone have nightmares about things that aren’t scary? Normal people have nightmares about ghouls, ghosts, death, etc.

The last couple days I’ve been having nightmares about eating mouldy bread.

CradleCity · 2023-09-07T23:44:34+00:00

"Don't tell her you're a virgin"

"She'll figure you're a virgin and will get the ick"

"If he's a virgin, something's wrong with him"

"Just lie, fake confidence, do whatever it takes to not let her figure it out"

"If you don't get laid, you're not a real man"

Male virginity is probably the last sex taboo in modern Western culture. It's impossible to be sincere and honest about it, judging by how often it's a deal breaker, or it met with outright insults.

Unless one openly does not give a fuck about their situation, which is paradoxically a sign of confidence.

I wonder if I should make a thread about this.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-07T23:46:17+00:00

I swear I'll never drink again...and get on reddit

meteorness123 · 2023-09-07T23:49:39+00:00

She said "I know you gave me everything..but love is not enough".

BeReady6129 · 2023-09-07T23:53:40+00:00

QFA: So i have been with one women in a relationship my whole life, and we are still together and 2 kids. Question for those who have had multiple romantic partners at some point, how do you go from being intimate with each other, and than one day out of each other lives, you do this again and again.

How do you move on from someone you deeply care, like it was nothing at some point in the future.

It is like a different language to me.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-09-07T23:55:44+00:00

The thing about n counts is that people can be super sneaky about sex. You’ll never know the truth. And in reality, you’re just worried about not getting the same treatment and attention as previous hookups.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-07T23:57:31+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16chwaq/comment/jzk0bnf/

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16chwaq/comment/jzjl2p9/

Is this true about older men? Being delusional on how they would dominate in dating if they were 25 in 2023?

I feel like if you didn’t “clean up” in the 80’s claiming you would now because of tinder is lowkey laughable. Like if Brad Pitt who is 59 claimed if you transported 1988 Brad Pitt to 2023 he would eat that makes total sense. You’re not Brad tho

huhwhatokok · 2023-09-07T23:59:54+00:00

It’s funny how many women live vicariously through Chrisean Rock. Blueface told her from the beginning he didn’t want the baby, always told her he doesn’t love her, and when he doesn’t show up for the birth, women vilify him as if she couldn’t have easily avoided this by leaving him before they made a baby or aborted it. Why are you angry on behalf of this women? Oh because y’all got impregnated by a deadbeat too and are just as dumb as her.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-09-08T00:13:04+00:00

A drunk homeless man told me I'm the mist beautiful girl in the world today lol

potoricco · 2023-09-08T00:23:59+00:00

Dumb liberal feminists: Bla bla men’s mental health bla men need our support 🥺 Men are are blablabla too

When was the last time you have seen a MAN genuinely speaking out against rape, women’s health, gender inequality? The few times a man has even come close he was instantly shot down as a simp. All I’m saying is don’t do things for people that they would never do for you

meteorness123 · 2023-09-08T00:24:32+00:00

Saw a goofy bald guy today with a blonde that was taller than him. You really cannot escape the blue pill, these days. Brootal

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-08T00:30:38+00:00

Ever had that awkward moment when it turns out that guys daughter, is actually his GF/wife?

I had...

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-08T00:34:44+00:00

There's nothing more unattractive than a materialistic woman, the type of woman that demands a chanel bag in different colours, the most expensive jewelry, "get that bag" girls if you will.

And if you try and ask them why they need all those things they'll go "if you're broke just say that."

There's nothing more sad than basing your self worth on material possessions. Why do you NEED all of those things?

potoricco · 2023-09-08T00:35:15+00:00

Honestly the only thing stopping me from getting a boyfriend is the fact that I actively don’t talk to boys

There’s someone out there for everyone tbh

One of my friends who is a senior, is like really Christian and shes now dating a guy that wears Bible verse hoodies to school. I know him but I’m not friends with him. Because he’s been in my trivia group numerous times and like, he knows the Bible front to back so whenever we had a religion question it would go to him

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-08T00:35:45+00:00

Hey girls! Do you see the men in your life as interchangeable, disposable, or replaceable???

I’m told that we do!

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-08T00:51:00+00:00

1st world Timmy: Spends thousands of hours in his youth begging women to even talk to him, going to loud bars he doesn't even enjoy just to be in a place that's socially acceptable to talk to women, sleeping with maybe 1 or 2 drunk slobby fattie woman a year. In his 30s, he marries and has kids with a slobby fattie woman who's slept around and thinks she's settling with him. She barely has sex with him because she's bored of him after having slept with a bunch of exciting hot men in her youth. Everything in his house and car is oily from her fat fingering oil from McDonalds burgers and fries everywhere. In his 40s, she divorces him because she is bored of him and he now has to keep his stressful job 70 hour job which has high pay because the judge assumes he can make that amount of money even when he quits, "imputed income", and orders him to pay $3k+ a month for child support. Literal slave to his job because he can't quit. His kids grow up to be lazy, spoiled and fat from absorbing terrible values from their mother. Instead of taking care of the children, she does gluttonous hedonistic fattie things all day long. He grows old estranged from his family and has no one to take care of him because his kids hate him because of the propaganda and lies from the mother.

3rd world : Marries a thin virgin who concentrates on and takes pride in being a good mother. Happily ever after.

Who's the real king?

md8716 · 2023-09-08T01:07:14+00:00

One of the most important things I impart upon my kids is obliterating the fear of getting outside one's comfort zone. Since I turned 18, every time I feel myself getting complacent, I just dive headfirst into something I'd normally be reluctant to do.

Having to figure shit out, get the lay of the land, and problem solve your way through a bunch of obstacles in an unfamiliar place is an adventure that just makes me feel so damn alive. Even getting married and having kids was an adventure. Like I could sit there and hem and haw about it but instead I was just like "whatever man fuck it let's just do the damn thing!".

I think if most of the dudes around here would just say fuck it more often and go for broke with regard to whatever in life, they'd be so much better off. Instead of being caught in this neurotic analysis paralysis that seems to infect this entire new generation.

social_mules_alt · 2023-09-08T01:08:31+00:00

This is your daily autism/passport bros/n count post. Enjoy.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-08T01:10:14+00:00

Y'all wanna see the notebook I use specifically only for my geology research?

Expert-Judge9762 · 2023-09-08T01:16:27+00:00

The amount of women posting on dating advice saying the men I'm interested in aren't interested in me and the men interested in me I'm not interested in just makes me feel I know I'm right that most women are delusional about how attractive they are.

Women's attraction was broken by social media and dating apps.

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-09-08T01:18:10+00:00

Q4W: Do you think the woman in this TikTok is entitled?: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT82948gR/

potoricco · 2023-09-08T01:24:07+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/jcnqp7xuoxmb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f817597c8624e18cb0088a618118ec86e0421dfb

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-09-08T01:41:25+00:00

"I earn 50k in some brainless HR job and my boyfriend is earning 120k as a software developer but I'm actually dating down because I have a piece of paper that says "bachelor's" and he doesn't teehee. Money doesn't matter teehee."

average PPD female logic lmao

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-08T01:49:20+00:00

I haven't really noticed this. Most women I know can easily find a relationship really quickly. I've also seen women get out of being a situationship and get promoted to gf. Even though he was fucking other women when they weren't official. Then again most women I know are actually pretty attractive.

TheBluePillRipper · 2023-09-08T03:29:22+00:00

Why is mainstream society trying to shame men into wanting promiscuous women, fat women, and “post-wall” women?

Look at all the media – songs, movies, TikToks/social media videos – trying to shame men for not being attracted to women we generally find undesirable or lower in the desirability scale.

Men don’t like promiscuous women? They’re insecure misogynists.

Men don’t like fat women? They’re fatphobic.

(Older) Men don’t like post-wall women? They’re pedophiles or “immature boys” who can’t “handle” a “real woman” and are “intimidated”.

When have male influencers, artists, actors, and movie producers ever come out and shamed women for not wanting to date short men, fat men, bald men, or virgin men?

Imagine the absurdity of a male version of Lizzo talking about how women are fatphobic for not dating morbidly obese guys, or Danny DeVito and a short producer making a movie whose entire message is shaming women for not coming out in droves for short, balding 40-50 year old single dudes.

Yet mainstream culture has no issue with telling us men that we’re problematic, insecure, and bigoted because we don’t want to wife up the 3some chick and the former OF “model” (aka online prostitute) who’s on video getting a train ran on her…

!kcul doog dna deepsdoG

potoricco · 2023-09-08T03:32:43+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/changemyview/s/WNtwx6ZYSJ

Didn’t I say exactly this a few months ago

SianOiseau · 2023-09-08T03:35:15+00:00

This week sucks. Last weekend were wasted for husband's sake, then lots of work because I had to move some of my classes from weekend to other days, more chores because husband had more hours than usual and tomorrow was supposed to be our day off, but husband has been called to work and I guess I'll just spend the day cleaning. Uggh.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-08T03:56:59+00:00

was just listening to mine by taylor swift and got sad that i never experienced young teenage love 🥲

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-08T05:06:34+00:00

was on my old account and why don’t more of you appreciate my gold digger comparisons?!? they are gold hehehehehe he

me: do men want to know what it’s like to be a woman on OLD? what’s the better option for them to find out, grindr or a sugar daddy site?

deleted user: You know, I think a sugar daddy site would be most likely to resemble the male dating experience: there are more women looking for sugar daddies than available sugar daddies.

me: and all the Stacey’s only want them for their money which would be equal to Chad only wanting hot girls for sex. and the average and below women that will want them will still mostly want them for their money but be more willing to compromise which represents nearly most men on OLD wanting decent looking women for sex

NICHIJOU2411 · 2023-09-08T06:23:50+00:00

I feel bad for the bluepilled men here.

AspiringMogger · 2023-09-08T06:24:40+00:00

What was the rule on hitting someone up after a 1st date. You gotta wait 3 days right?

supremethrone · 2023-09-08T06:25:47+00:00

Redditors unironically saying that you should pick up a hobby that you have no interest in to meet people, but you should also enjoy it because if you don't enjoy it and just do it to meet people it's creepy. Lemme sign up for my local dancing lessons. Gonna dance with some half-dead boomers

OpiumTraitor · 2023-09-08T06:53:21+00:00

My girlfriend and I had the chance to visit a Buc-ees. For those who don't know, it's an American gas station chain known for their large size, wide array of snacks, and their beaver logo. I pointed my gf to a box of cookies called Beaver Buddies and said '"Look babe, it's us."

If I can get a gf there's hope for Missy people out there

SerpentCypher · 2023-09-08T07:00:50+00:00

Those "new ick unlocked" videos are toxic as fuck. Literally anything a man does these days is a turn off or gross. I saw one today saying "healthy masculinity" was an ick and the video they used to demonstrate it was her husband playing with their daughter. These women are trash. Makes me wonder if the husbands know what their wices are putting on TikTok or IG or whatever shitty app they're using.

I've seen everything in these ick videos from getting cancer to swimming to avoid drowning. These men clearly need to die in a more masculine way!

dela_man10 · 2023-09-08T07:41:52+00:00

My current personal thoughts on the Redpill.

I recently unsubscribed to a redpill YouTube channel giving out what would be called toxic or misogynistic advice.

I’m not going to speak to the effectiveness of these tactics. They’re probably very effective as most women (see people are backwards anyways). But if you had to use manipulative tactics to keep your gf from pulling away, cheating or shit testing you then is it really worth it? Redpill men always preach being able to walk away or strong enough to leave but then employ all these manipulative tactics just to keep around a toxic and evidently unreliable woman.

Then they sign it off with AWALT. Women do look for similar things in a relationship (be emotional, financially and mentally stable, bring some sex appeal, be passionate, ambitious etc) but not all with shit test you to the ends of the earth in order to find them. These traits aren’t even hard to display if you’re a normal functioning man and they make your own life better regardless of whether or not they attract women.

Even if most women do the whole point is to find those few worth committing to. You’re not going to be compatible with 99% of people in the romantic sense.

These tactics are thus theoretically really only if you want to maximise the amount of women you sleep with (which can also get old soon enough). Maybe I’m barking up the wrong tree. Maybe redpill men just want to sleep with as many onlyfans club models as they can find in Miami (see Fresh and Fit guests).

I’ve also been hurt and disappointed by women. I’ve also met some cool women who aren’t perfect (no one is) but are not constant shit testing manipulative assholes. My point is sometimes it may be a blessing in disguise if that girl wants to leave you or starts pulling away. Don’t fight it. Let her leave and regret her decision down the line (or not). Either way you will be fine.

Maybe I’ll make a post on this.

PBtoast707 · 2023-09-08T07:54:23+00:00

Sometimes I wonder if not getting male attention until I was 21 impacted how I behave in a relationship. I don’t get the “ick” from anything my husband does. I like it when he’s vulnerable and I’ll always be there to wipe his tears. I like it when he lays on my chest and I call him my sweet boy and rub his hair. It doesn’t make him less masculine, or make me less attracted to him. He’s a person with emotions and I should be there to comfort him, the way he is for me.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-08T08:04:23+00:00

I always heard that 3rd child would be the one to throw your life completely off balance. They weren'tt lying. This boy doesn't sleep longer than 3 hours without waking up and demanding my attention.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-08T08:54:54+00:00

Beards really are OP, we men don't truly appreciate the gift we have. It's basically au naturale makeup.

... However if you begin a relationship with a girl during a beard phase, unless you reveal your clean shaven face in the first few months you just gotta commit to that shit for life 😂

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-09-08T09:26:06+00:00

CMV: Men shouldn’t date women in their early 20s and get mad when they act like a woman in their early 20s. Imo this is a big part of why Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner split. (They were 20 and 27 when they started dating, he attributes their divorce to her partying)

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-08T09:27:59+00:00

I was today years old when I found out...........

https://reddit.com/r/nope/s/gGhpphto4L

Maffioze · 2023-09-08T10:10:25+00:00

Just did my thesis presentation and I think it went well. I got the compliment that my methodology was very well done and remarkably maturely phrased for a student.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-08T10:21:30+00:00

My last two periods have been weird and noticeably lighter than usual and of course now I am paranoid of being pregnant. Already took a pregnancy test a few weeks ago (which was negative), guess I am going to buy another one today and hope that gives me some peace of mind. I should really seriously look into getting sterilized, I don't need this added mental pressure. My next gyn appointment is in December. And she likely wont be open to the idea so I'll have to look for a specific doctor after.

dbz__f · 2023-09-08T10:30:16+00:00

Does every female friendship group have that one high-libido girl who always talks about sex? My gf’s old circle had one who was a white Aussie girl but the new one is a Muslim hijab wearing girl. I wouldn’t have seen that coming.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-08T10:44:33+00:00

One of the biggest reasons people weren’t as fat in the past was there was a huge chance your job involved some type of physical labor. It’s not like dudes in the 60’s worked out at higher or significantly different rates than guys today, your job was your workout.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-08T10:45:47+00:00

Being a grandparent is probably easy. You just have to watch the kids maybe one day a week(if that), feed them mcdonalds(it’s funny how they have McDonald’s money now), and tell them stories about how milk was 1 dollar back in your day.

And the ultimate perk is you drop them off or hand them over at the end of the night to their parents if they start to get annoying

That__EST · 2023-09-08T11:06:52+00:00

I'm regularly talking about the love lives of Gen Z and hypothesizing on why they aren't having more sex and how casual their relationships seem to be. Well now I'm starting to see the first wave of Gen Z weddings and it's making me wonder how they're going to navigate these marriages through the years when they're marrying in their very early 20s. I'm talking these people are between 20-22 which is just insanely young to me to even be getting engaged. But they will likely have a very long life expectancy and they've witnessed their Gen X parents be in admittedly depressing "it is what it is" type of marriages. They also are less likely to have parents who put a lot of rules on No Sex Before Marriage or stuff like that. So I'm wondering if we're about to see some kind of expectation of serial monogamy. Maybe a thought of "no relationship stays happy forever so we might as well get the tax and government benefits while we're in it and then amicably end it before we both move on". Because Gen Z just seems like they grew up accepting the defeat that their Gen X parents had already accepted and then built upon that. They are some cynical and therefore unshakable people.

nexkell · 2023-09-08T11:09:27+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16cizom/is_dating_men_even_worth_it_anymore/

Oh look bitter toxic women who hate men and think men are trash and women are so wonderful.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-09-08T11:11:49+00:00

Whenever that guy with the "38M Virgin" flair comments about dating to shit on TRP/incels and defend women, it's like seeing Hellen Keller trying to lead the blind.

potoricco · 2023-09-08T11:19:43+00:00

It’s crazy how many hit songs Rihanna has. I remember watching the Super Bowl and was shocked by how many songs of hers I knew even though I have never been a hardcore listener

Barneysparky · 2023-09-08T11:22:57+00:00

I just read here that having sex with a prostitute does not add to your body count, and everyone knows that.

If I'd been eating I would have choked. Is this why the guys here think women lie on surveys and don't count sex unless they want to??

UneastAji · 2023-09-08T11:30:24+00:00

Reminder that if you don't get 80% of the results with 20% of the efforts, it's not worth it.

potoricco · 2023-09-08T11:30:51+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/nvxdnw73p0nb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=04ec438d5f1e9ac883c6476f160dada60d023593

My mom 💀

hannahg000 · 2023-09-08T11:35:32+00:00

i’ve been thinking a lot about duty. as the eldest daughter, i feel a lot of familial duty

dbz__f · 2023-09-08T12:04:58+00:00

https://www.theage.com.au/national/victoria/sex-offender-has-reporting-conditions-wiped-for-life-in-first-case-of-its-kind-20230828-p5e02s.html

Thoughts?

gabejohn · 2023-09-08T12:06:26+00:00

So, so you think you can tell?
Chud from incel?

Bluepill from based?

Can you tell a red pill
From a short beta male?

A smile from a cope?
Do you think you can tell?

Uglypostwall · 2023-09-08T12:09:32+00:00

I finally received a salary increase!

Willow-girl · 2023-09-08T12:45:35+00:00

Here's a guy getting down 'n' dirty!

purplish_possum · 2023-09-08T13:25:18+00:00

Just paid a contractor another 5K. My cheep house isn't quite that cheep anymore. I'm into it over 60K now.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-08T13:38:21+00:00

If I have sex with a prostitute, and she doesn't charge me.

That adds to my N right?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-08T13:39:10+00:00

Women who choose to fuck lots of men are mentally damaged sluts.

"Based"

Women who get tattoos are Trainwrecks.

"Based"

Women who choose to remain single are deeply unhappy cat lady man haters.

"Based"

Old men who exclusively go after young women are creepy.

"How dare you!! Why are you assuming that?? You know nothing of their true character!! It's just a preference!! 😡"

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-08T13:51:35+00:00

It will never not be funny watching guys complain about women making bad choices when it comes to dating men, but when it comes to guys pursuing garbage unhinged women, you will see a plethora of excuses made. It is even funnier when they preach “women should learn responsibility” while explaining men can’t choose better women, because “all women are awful and I’d have no options if I didn't pick one”.

Stupid people being too stupid to realize they’re stupid will always be comedy gold.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-08T14:00:58+00:00

The benefit/downside of black pill and looksmaxxing is that if you succeed at it you can use it as an excuse to be non committal. It's easy to say that girls don't like you, they just like the idea of you, or they just like how you made them feel. It's easy to say those feelings they have aren't real and that you could be easily replaced. If you succeed at attracting women, it's easy to say that you're not special because the feelings aren't real. This works out if you're mentally ill.

Glittering-Roll-9432 · 2023-09-08T14:03:15+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/16cvyd7/its_our_f27m30fourth_day_of_being_married_and_i/

The greatest troll account in thr history of reddit? It's literally amazing to read the updates. Better than any trashy romance novel.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-08T14:09:58+00:00

CMV: Attachment styles are a pysop simply used to eliminate accountability for bad decisions.

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/16ctsvp/is_this_avoidant_behavior_or_do_i_just_not_like/

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-08T14:21:43+00:00

Pair bonding has got to be the dumbest thing invented to shame women from having sex.

Men have no issues. It's uniquely women, of course.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-09-08T14:27:46+00:00

do people actually believe in the women pair bonding thing cause this literally sounds like some made up fanfiction trope

https://preview.redd.it/45cvhybok1nb1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d3fee7d7b602e9589051b3f0cf33996758c85128

take on his essence 👻👻👻 🤯 pair bonding ruined!!! people use the strangest "biology" science to defend their points and it gets more embarrassing every day. you can 100% just use personal values and morals to justify your preferences but no it gotta be she's ruined because too many penis entered her

hannahg000 · 2023-09-08T14:31:22+00:00

Q4M: would your girlfriend reading or writing fanfiction make you feel weird? is there a difference if she is reading vs writing it?

(i’m talking about the smutty variety of fanfiction, of course)

potoricco · 2023-09-08T14:36:38+00:00

I am sad

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-09-08T14:38:56+00:00

Is it weird i can go hours without eating

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-08T14:45:29+00:00

Some men here are so pressed that women have "options".

They are so angry that women don't pick them up on their little apps.

I'm not gonna lie, it's hilarious to read. Cracks me up to see them whine about an app created to prey off men by men. Lol.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-08T14:48:41+00:00

Todays my birthday. Today I am your god

Peacesquad · 2023-09-08T14:48:46+00:00

Also what did I miss

potoricco · 2023-09-08T14:56:19+00:00

Freshmen act like middle schoolers and look like them too

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-08T14:57:08+00:00

Hell you don't even need to refer to the experiences of older women regarding whether older men who exclusively go after young women are creepy or not, young women attest to it too.

I've heard so many stories from female friends about old men hitting on them, guess what? They said they were acting creepy too 🤷‍♂️

potoricco · 2023-09-08T15:01:21+00:00

I hate humanity i just read something that’s making me want to cry

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-08T15:02:52+00:00

What would you rather be?

A fat-cel or a roid-cel

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-08T15:16:57+00:00

Joe Jonas' wife divorced him because at 27 she doesn't want to miss out on getting to have a hoe phase. Can't make this stuff up.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-08T15:23:29+00:00

The male disposability post is great. Or depressing? Idk, I can't get it out of my head.

It explains so much stuff. It explains why the birthrate slightly favors males, why there's greater male variability, why we're the ones who get stuck with backbreaking jobs, go to prison more, etc. I guess some guys read that and become 'enlightened'. My reaction was I just lost empathy.

As a guy, my core function would've been to protect my tribe from other attacking tribes during wartime, and kept the village functional during peace time. Biologically that's why I have testosterone. A lady's job would've been to birth + raise the kids and care for the home. Biologically, that's why they're small, weak and ideally fertile.

Everything else is just that biology interacting with modern day comfort. Men are either lost or political radicals, because we live in relative peace and not fighting for something depresses us. Women's sports and accomplishments aren't as valued as their looks, because their biological purpose is to raise families, not compete or create PowerPoints.

Maybe I should be more progressive instead of looking at everything through some determinist evolutionary lenses? Idk, but people hellbent on equality and ignoring those imperatives also look at everything through their own egalitarian framework. They're ignoring the 'science'.

old_new_age · 2023-09-08T16:08:27+00:00

women when they see a man with arrested psychological development: "what a manchild, maybe he should try therapy and grow up?"

men when they see a woman with arrested psychological development: "I need to help her"

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