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Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-16T06:05:24+00:00

My next door neighbor has a pet snake. His snake apparently pooped on his bed. He came over to borrow a hair dryer so he could dry his bed after the snake poop incident cleanup. This is my life now…wondering about snake poop 💩? 😝

cruciod · 2023-08-16T05:46:51+00:00

It's almost 2am. Why don't I want to write this essay?

houstongradengineer · 2023-08-16T05:31:21+00:00

I lost another couple of pounds already. I'm healthier. Still feels like I have a long way to go. I'm just tired, man. I'm tired. I hope this hard part financially and physically ends soon. I'm gonna get some rest now.

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-16T05:30:11+00:00

Stop trying to make TRP feminism for failed men

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-16T04:59:56+00:00

I’ve been working out daily and making good progress, but it is a little disheartening to see the dudes in the gym who are built like superheroes and lifting absurd amounts of weight- reminds me just how far I have to go. I’ll get there one day though!

meteorness123 · 2023-08-16T04:58:53+00:00

It sucks that I'm not a succesful and talented musician.

AngeCruelle · 2023-08-16T04:37:03+00:00

My friend and I met an interesting guy while we were out together recently. He was looking at us while we failed at DDR together so we went up and talked to him. Nerdy/gamer brunette with brown eyes, 100% my type. He added us both on socials but he's mainly been messaging me since then and now he wants to meet up for coffee.

I don't know though. I'm a few months out of a breakup. He totally reminds me of my ex. Between his job and me being in school our schedules are pretty packed. But fuck he's a cutie. I think I'm gonna take him up on it and see what happens.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-16T04:11:27+00:00

I got some OLD stats back:

- 14 matches. 9,289 incoming 'no's' (women who rejected my profile)

- Best face pic is rating 4.7 out of 10 (below average).

OLD isn't my only source, but I'm also get a pretty high rejection rate in person (granted most of them are the bf objection). I have some work to do.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-16T03:57:02+00:00

I honestly prefer a normal looking (maybe slightly cute) woman who's above average in intelligence than a really pretty woman who's dumb. I don't want dumb kids.

potoricco · 2023-08-16T03:30:30+00:00

What is it like to smoke weed?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-16T03:19:20+00:00

Decent looking guy talking about loneliness and having no friends

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HRoYAY7yU68&ab_channel=JoshHitti

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-16T03:15:14+00:00

Q4E: what do you guys do for work?

tendrils87 · 2023-08-16T03:02:36+00:00

I used to have a troop, married with 2 kids. Owned a house, always took care of them, etc...His wife used to make him play his Xbox in their closet...He wasn't allowed to have it in the living room.

StupidWhiteBoi · 2023-08-16T02:58:47+00:00

Oral sex is now the leading risk factor for throat cancer Published: April 25, 2023 10.07am EDT Hisham Mehanna, University of Birmingham

Over the past two decades, there has been a rapid increase in throat cancer in the west, to the extent that some have called it an epidemic. This has been due to a large rise in a specific type of throat cancer called oropharyngeal cancer (the area of the tonsils and back of the throat). The main cause of this cancer is the human papillomavirus (HPV), which are also the main cause of cancer of the cervix. Oropharyngeal

Michael Douglas warned us, but alas nobody listened!

meteorness123 · 2023-08-16T02:58:42+00:00

I agree that men who are significantly below average struggle to attract anybody. Men who average however don't.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-08-16T02:54:13+00:00

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cruciod · 2023-08-16T02:52:37+00:00

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-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-16T02:46:07+00:00

I've spent a lot of time here. But I think I plan to leave soon. I feel like I understand enough theory to know the direction I need to travel in. This subreddit is starting to feel like a waste of time, even though I do feel like I'm part of an internet family with the users here. But I'll enjoy life much more if I spend time doing other things. I do appreciate the insights I've gained here, though.

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-16T02:42:39+00:00

CMV: The only fat women that get attention are women that still have a clear body shape and aren’t full on spherical blimps

tendrils87 · 2023-08-16T02:37:02+00:00

So I joined the discord about 30min ago. So far all I've seen is a woman who wrote a manifesto about an ex's supposed psychological issues then sent it to everyone they knew, and a guy who stalked some woman after the woman ghosted them twice. (they only ever talked on Snapchat). Come on people...

tendrils87 · 2023-08-16T02:25:28+00:00

People get away with a lot of woe is me posting violations on here. That being said, if you are going to sadpost, you should post a picture of yourself, and a picture of your room, at minimum, so people can gauge the situation more clearly. I can guarantee many problems could be solved with a little bit of effort.

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-16T02:24:27+00:00

CMV: “Lower your standards” is PC for “Fuck ugly men/women”

keebydee · 2023-08-16T02:18:30+00:00

How do you not feel resentful? Contrary to what some people here think about us guys, I don't like feeling angry. But it's very hard not to feel bitter after never having any romantic interactions in your life due to certain traits that are very hard to control. On top of being humiliated, embarrassed and ridiculed for trying.

Willow-girl · 2023-08-16T02:09:26+00:00

I dropped off a coat I was giving away at a lady's house today. She had a wooden sign on her door that said, "Welcome to the shit show. Hope you brought alcohol!" I thought that was pretty funny. I need one of those, lol.

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-16T02:02:59+00:00

fat vs skinny (a uk show) really has no chill

(overweight woman) "so the doctor said they needed to use vet equipment because of my size"

(overly groomed average weight man) "that must be humiliating"

*sobs*

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-16T01:57:35+00:00

Questions for women:

1 - How do you feel about men who are less masculine? For example, it feels natural for me to use words like "adorable" and "sweet" and "wonderful". Whereas more masculine men would never use such words. I don't know if I can become more masculine in my personality (unlike my physique), so I want to know how women feel about it. Basically I'm more sensitive than the average guy, I think that's why ideologies like feminism appealed to me, because I empathized with women and wanted to them to be happy. I feel like I could be best-friends with a woman, and have no ulterior motives there.

2 - How do you feel about frat boys? Those guys are extremely masculine, they literally DGAF about anything besides what they want to do. I feel like women are deeply attracted to the raw masculinity they exude, the "bro"-y energy they give off. The nerdy boys don't have that bro-y energy, and are kind of androgynous in comparison.

For a long time, I wished I could be like one of those guys. But I'm more comfortable in myself now. I am Kenough.

3 - How do you feel about men with a "smol" side? It sounds cringe but basically it feels very naturally for me to switch into a child-like voice and mannerisms. It's called being a "little" in the BDSM sphere, but I don't look into the BDSM world much because I'm not coming at it from a sexual angle, just an emotional one. Whereas the BDSM equivalent has stuff I consider weird, like grown adults wearing pacifiers and/or diapers, and sexualizing people in those roles.

If your man was sitting beside you on the bed, then started speaking in a childlike way and leaned his head on your shoulder and vulnerably looked up at you as if you were his caretaker, how would you feel? You can see that he's very vulnerable in that moment, and is hoping that you will give him love and not shun him.

saraimarsena · 2023-08-16T01:48:16+00:00

if ur mindlessly refreshing a dead daily thread that’s kinda a sign you should probably j check out the discord

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-16T01:42:58+00:00

Watching Tiktoks, taking a bubble bath, and hitting my vape pen while my partner cleans the kitchen + preps / starts dinner is peak post wall behavior.

Ladies, never settle for less than your dreamiest, delusional desires.

xxxMisogenes · 2023-08-16T01:41:53+00:00

N Count theory: women should have more children than sexual partners. Shows why Mary, Theotokos was so impressive. The average woman completely fails this guideline

MyLastBestChance · 2023-08-16T01:38:22+00:00

Men are hairpergamous.

Even men who have little to no hair want women with a full head of hair and will totally ignore or disparage women who have the same amount of hair as them.

“Many start to notice the early stages of male pattern baldness by their 30s, but they may begin as early as your late teenage years or early 20s.”

tendrils87 · 2023-08-16T01:38:21+00:00

Here you go u/sierramistsoda Feast your eyes upon this shit show https://reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/15s3xvt/friend_just_posted_this_and_was_utterly_serious/

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-16T01:25:58+00:00

Can someone make a interesting post or something

Sillysheila · 2023-08-16T01:24:48+00:00

Q4W: Some men have a man cave, if you suddenly had a room dedicated to your interests (a woman cave) what would be in there?

For me I’d have to go with:

-Retro video games (SNES, Game Cube, Nintendo 64, pinball, space invaders)

-Record player

-Library and sitting area

-Random statues and kitchy art collection

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-16T01:17:23+00:00

The boost in attractiveness from makeup isn’t that big, what’s crazy is that it allows people to be attractive when they want to.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-16T01:14:44+00:00

I've observed 3 key things that some men here are doing that are creating their own obstacles.

🐕 Obsessing over appearance and "looks thresholds".

🐕 Hating women and yet demanding them to have sex with you.

🐕 Thinking that one or two examples is a trend of all women.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-16T00:55:43+00:00

n-count question #3

if I have a threesome it surely increases my n-count by 2, but what if it's a cuck situation where one guy is just watching, is it still by 2? what if I'm the one watching? what if the person watching is watching through zoom or something?

what if the person being cucked is mildly contributing through instructions, or a remote control thingy or something.

social_mules_alt · 2023-08-16T00:43:39+00:00

When is the next purge?

PBtoast707 · 2023-08-16T00:42:37+00:00

Complaining about the women’s World Cup is kind of gay. You’re complaining about watching pretty women play a sport? What is wrong with you?

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-16T00:42:22+00:00

I am sorry but I do not see how this is a win https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/15rimtx/anon_becomes_a_stepdad/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1 I’d rather die alone than having to raise someone else’s kids

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-08-16T00:35:33+00:00

“How dare you call me misogynistic! I just believe that women are narcissistic bitches who hate all unattractive men!”

“Who me? Have sex with a post wall fat woman? She’s a disgusting human being and a disgrace to society!! I hate all unattractive post wall women!!!”

meteorness123 · 2023-08-16T00:30:32+00:00

Ladies, would you say this guy's arm are too muscular ?

https://assets.change.org/photos/7/nt/xw/JSNTXwTCkjfIxxB-800x450-noPad.jpg?1521013781

mummydontknow · 2023-08-16T00:30:29+00:00

What is the right thing to do if a group of goons catcall your woman while you're walking down the street? How do you get out of that situation?

tendrils87 · 2023-08-16T00:24:31+00:00

I bet there is a greater than zero number of women here who have been turned on by being told to "be quiet", "shut the fuck up", or any other version of that. The chance of them admitting that? Probably not that high.

potoricco · 2023-08-16T00:13:43+00:00

Based Karen

Listening to misogynistic music just isn’t okay and women and girls shouldn’t have to be subjected to hearing it.

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MyLastBestChance · 2023-08-15T23:01:03+00:00

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-15T23:01:53+00:00

Does that angry old guy still post here?

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-08-15T23:04:51+00:00

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John_Oakman · 2023-08-15T23:15:51+00:00

With enough time, almost every villain will be reseen as heroic of some sort, but a loser will remain a loser or outright forgotten.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-08-15T23:24:08+00:00

Worst thing for a man is to be perceived as weak. Worst thing for a woman is to be perceived as undesirable.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-15T23:24:42+00:00

Lol today my mom said my dads side of the family isn’t that tall and that his sister is shorter than my mom, and my dad is “only” 6’1 I laughed internally at imagining what ppd would say if they heard her. I said it’s pretty tall the average is apparently 5’9. She said yeah but it’s not that tall.

We were talking about it because my 19month old is on the 3rd percentile for height, so very short. Her dad is 6’1, I’m 5’4, her grandmas are 5’7 and 5’0 and grandpas are 6’1 maybe 5’9 if I had to guess

She’s got time to grow but it’s interesting

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-15T23:25:14+00:00

So my friend passed away last October and now her dad died on Sunday. Idk what's happening

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-15T23:29:58+00:00

If you could teach at a school that focused on socializing people, specifically in a romantic context but also other situations, what would be part of your curriculum? You’re teaching people your age.

social_mules_alt · 2023-08-15T23:31:17+00:00

It's been 72 hours. Somebody should make a passport bros post.

u/sine120

social_mules_alt · 2023-08-15T23:39:05+00:00

Football season is right around the corner. Are rednecks still pretending to boycott the NFL or has their focus shifted 100% to Bud Light?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-16T00:08:57+00:00

Elliott Smith is the only comfort I have

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-16T00:10:30+00:00

If sex is the cure that men need for their depression, how do we get it to all of those men?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-16T07:08:36+00:00

My 5th of vodka disappeared. Think someone stole it from me

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-16T07:12:13+00:00

An American whose great grandfather once had a half-Irish friend: "Sorry for my temper bro, what can I say, I'm Irish! The Irish blood makes me want to fight and drink!"

What is with Americans' obsession with desperately trying to identify as any nationality other than their own?

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-16T07:48:17+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F3fkkbb9pdeib1.png

Some people should be bullied

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-08-16T08:09:42+00:00

CMV: The blackpill is simply the bitter truth. Some men will simply be incapable of keeping up with the standards modern women demand of men and will simply have to find alternatives of finding happiness...

_Imperator_Augustus_ · 2023-08-16T08:44:07+00:00

Why I can no longer see upvotes and downvotes on comments? Did the sub remove these features?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-16T09:18:58+00:00

Our seventh anniversary is coming soon. I’m driving myself crazy shopping for the right hunting knife. I’ve become what I swore to avoid.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-16T10:14:43+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/5xf7el7k6gib1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=601c8f7c24b04b00c3c53fba9f9d8c04f6d3c6db

potoricco · 2023-08-16T10:29:33+00:00

Womanhood is beautiful❤️

Business-Ad-5344 · 2023-08-16T10:59:04+00:00

gastric bypass discussion guy who is blackpilled in 2008.

https://killthefatman.livejournal.com/32994.html

he also dealt with the bluepillers:

Some of you are going to say "that's not true!'

this is a super blackpilled stat. it alone would have blackpilled me:

The simple fact remains that the divorce rate following bariatric surgery is high. However, if the person was overweight or obese when the relationship or marriage began, the chances of that relationship or marriage ending within two years after the surgery is 80 to 85 percent.

https://www.healthcentral.com/article/divorce-rate-after-bariatric-surgery-is-high-my-bariatric-life

IceColdCoochie · 2023-08-16T11:08:01+00:00

Men are literally called ped0ph1les for having preferences, the world is insane.

https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/15s3xvt/friend_just_posted_this_and_was_utterly_serious/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb

UneastAji · 2023-08-16T11:26:44+00:00

Social equity is an impossible ordeal that will only lead to giving more privilege to individuals that are already relatively privileged.

Some part of feminism and trans ideologies are trying to push this idea around. Social equity is the idea that no matter who you are, your skin color, your gender, your sexuality, or your gender™, you should have the same social opportunities as a white man. That means as a black trans woman who approach a man you should be equally as likely to be successful marrying that man as a white cis woman.

But is it possible to make people race and gender™ blind through sheer education?

The answer is no, if we eliminate completely ideological biases of people, we're left with the problem that people don't find anyone attractive. People are discriminated by their attractiveness and is the biggest factor of social inequity. This phenomenon has been studied plenty and is called "halo" or "horn" effect, and influences every sphere of life not just your sexual and romantic opportunities. Your amical, trade and professional opportunities are impacted as well.

But you're going to ask me, can't we educate people to find black trans women attractive?

The answer is also no.

If we assume attractiveness is subjective, then we can't educate people to disregard ethnic and sexually dimorphic traits. It's subjective we can't change people by definition.

If we assume attractiveness is objective, then we can't educate people to disregard ethnic and sexually dimorphic traits. Some ethnicities don't have the universally attractive feminine or masculine traits. The easiest immediate example is how certain ethnicities are shorter, that obviously will hurt men's attractiveness, or trans women's attractiveness as they're likely to be female height.

There's no solution to improve social equity in our societies. Anytime you see any ideology claiming that "X people aren't equal and deserve more rights" nowadays, unless they're factually not equal by law, that usually mean not equal in a social equity sense. Which means that ideology is just fighting to get more money thrown at literal positive discrimination, and you can bet that is going to affect only a type of people cherrypicked despite members of every race, sexuality, gender, gender™, has the potential to be uniquely discriminated for being very ugly one way or another. The only people who will benefit from the said positive actions are likely to be part of a group that is already having some sort of privilege, and the individuals of that group who will take full advantage of this are likely going to be the dominant and psychopathic already attractive ones who are already privileged.

In that last paragraph I'm derailing a lot, but that is really to say anything pursuing social equity is a garbage tier ideology. And we, members of PPD, know that, because we've been exposed to one very toxic ideology that yearns for social equity, that ideology is the incel's and their black pill. We all agree that is wrong thanks to their unhinged honesty, we should all also agree the other social equity ideologies are equally as bad even though they won't admit that the end game is similar to incel's wet dreams.

Maffioze · 2023-08-16T11:44:28+00:00

In a few years time, I will have accumulated some money. Then, I will play this song while standing on the balcony of a nice hotel staring towards the sunset over the mountains with a strong yet sweet drink next to me while my hands are on my ladies waist, thinking about the traumatic shit I have been through without killing myself.

https://open.spotify.com/track/4s2BWgnSQ9NZiOQM4PP4HB?si=8b585a8fc8cf404f

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-16T11:49:29+00:00

It’s really weird that guys are still trying to explain how male friendships are better than female friendships when people want to address an epidemic of male loneliness.

So apparently, male friendships are great as long as you exclude a large portion of men from having friends!

Peacesquad · 2023-08-16T12:32:11+00:00

Ok give it to me raw and nice(pause). What did I miss?

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-16T12:37:18+00:00

Re: the vasectomy post

It’s strange to me that men would feel like “not men” if they got sterilized.

Like, I felt like less of a woman when I was struggling with infertility (which turned out to only be sub-fertility, thankfully.) But that was involuntary, and I couldn’t make the kid I wanted to make.

After I successfully had the child that I wanted, I got my tubes removed because I was certain I was finished making all the children I wanted to make. (All my family members were like, “but what if you get divorced and your next husband wants children?!” And I told them it doesn’t matter; Idon’t want more children, and god forbid, if I have to pick a new husband while I’m still of childbearing age, I won’t pick one that wants more kids.) I don’t feel like less of a woman, because I was reproductively successful.

So I would think that a man who’s already had all the kids he wants would feel the same way about getting a vasectomy. Unless he’s planning on getting a new wife and having kids he doesn’t want.

PaleontologistOk1049 · 2023-08-16T12:42:24+00:00

How can I have hookups without girls getting too clingy and wanting it to be something more?

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-16T13:04:52+00:00

It seems to me that most people's ignorant views rarely come from a place of genuine hate but more so of righteous indignation with some other elements. Righteous because the point they're reacting to seems to them unfair, corruptive, and oppressive in nature because they have a fragmentary understanding of the issue at hand. Most people just lack enough general data about practically any specific issue, and the more complex it is the more confused and conflicted the views would be as it'd reflect how partial their understanding is.

So, how can you reach any sort of understanding when both parties are righteously indignant? When both parties see themselves as the victims in every situation, and every party's attempt to defend is another's getting attacked? I'd say it's theoretically simple, but in practice it could take decades of grueling work. We have emotional filters in our minds that make us unable to see the totality of anything because we've unintentionally built barriers against it in our poor attempt to make some sense out of life.

This is the story and downfall of the first psychologically self-aware animal on the planet! How poetic.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-16T13:25:18+00:00

If the ‘male loneliness epidemic’ is solely being concerned about relationships, I have even less reasons to give a shit. As someone who has met way too many people who could not even make friends in elementary school, there are bigger issues being ignored for the sake of whining about blue balls and “women being too picky”.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-16T13:39:13+00:00

After being more than a month away on my own choice, I forgot why we attacked women for wanting to be with men they find attractive? Can anyone date me up please.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-16T13:42:46+00:00

Trying to bring in some positivity into the gender war.

As a man, I have to say women are awesome! Really glad women exist. This world without women would be just very boring. I feel like I could do without a lot of things except for women.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-16T13:46:26+00:00

Yeah, you’re right about hormone production. I did have severe endometriosis. It was suspected but not officially diagnosed yet when my daughter was born. That’s why I had the hysterectomy eventually.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-16T13:48:05+00:00

My butt is so sore and bruised from literally running up the mountain to beat the sunset yesterday that I can hardly walk today. But the views were worth it.

https://imgur.com/a/dXf6IrI

Peacesquad · 2023-08-16T14:00:43+00:00

Social media and feminism has ruined majority of women. It’s kind of sad man

Peacesquad · 2023-08-16T14:00:52+00:00

What did I piss..I mean, miss

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-16T14:02:53+00:00

QFW: Why do most men shun astrology and horoscopes? Is it because of toxic masculinity or men being logical thinkers?

dbz__f · 2023-08-16T14:09:24+00:00

probably gonna violate rule 7 with this post, but my own personal experiences in dating is that Asian women are not really "put off" by guys who have yellow fever or an Asian preference or whatever you want to call it.

Look at it this way, in modern western culture, the stereotypical "beautiful woman" is a blonde haired, blue eyed woman with white western features, pink or tanned skin, and so on. Asian women are acutely aware of this, they know that their appearance is not considered the basic standard of what is considered default "beautiful" in the west. So they will worry that a guy they date might feel attracted to such women or will find such a woman more beautiful than them.

So if they know that for a guy, his preference and standard is asian look > western look, they will feel reassured. They know he won't rank women who look differently as more beautiful than them by default. They know in his view, that they are the new default for what is beautiful, and this is reassuring to them.

I know heaps of people will disagree, this is just my personal observation/experience.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-16T14:29:47+00:00

So many guys are failing at very fundamental things and it’s upsetting their problems will rarely be addressed because the priority is “How to get girlfriends”.

Guys are suffering undiagnosed mental issues, barely have social skills, struggling in academia, miserable at work, but SURE! Let’s the lack of pussy the top priority!

🙄

IceColdCoochie · 2023-08-16T14:35:35+00:00

I want a debt-free virgin girlfriend without tattoos.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-08-16T14:35:56+00:00

Adam Sandler is the hottest man in Hollywood I won’t change my mind

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-16T14:37:25+00:00

I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Capricorn.

This girl is secretive as fuck. Hides her true feelings and motivations all the damn time. While at times regal and elegant, she is unable to truly get down and dirty. Sex is tied up with other things, status, money, payback, rebound. It's rarely just sex with her. It's a chore and a bore. There's really not much to expound on, she thinks she's complex, but she really isn't.

Emotionally, she is an old soul. She grinds for wealth, security, independence. My take: Just avoid her.

Sex with her is just ... ok. Very vanilla. Sure, sometimes they can look like magazine stunners, but she lacks a lot of enthusiasm it's sorta like, who cares.

Recommended approach: Intrigue and mystery. Don't answer her direct questions with direct answers. Tease the F out of her. The first day upon meeting, don't say a single truth about yourself, make up something that be both fantastical and plausible. She just might intrigue her enough to think about you. Don't mistake that for her developing feelings for you, she just cares about what is true and what isn't. Somewhere in that process is something that approaches attraction.

Don't worry too much about hurting her feelings. She seldom has any. And if you do manage to bruise her ego, she'll just slink away meekly and ignore you forever. You don't have to gear her going scorched earth, as long as you don't spread any word about her (true or otherwise doesn't matter, you act as though she doesn't exist). She will respect that.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-16T14:45:31+00:00

Bed against the wall or bed with gaps on both sides?

potoricco · 2023-08-16T15:07:25+00:00

I am making a quizlet for this children’s language group and the topic is animals, cat is called “pusi” in that language I don’t know if I should add it or not

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-16T15:18:33+00:00

Its my birthday tomorrow and I have no idea what I'm going to do.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-16T15:32:19+00:00

I think it’s insecure to only want a woman with low count. Higher the better. It shows she likes men and she’s liberated. Liberated people love harder. Duh fellas. Stop being patriarchy and insecurity vibez

Peacesquad · 2023-08-16T15:33:45+00:00

I’m going to brokeboymaxx and get so much puss-puss

Zabadoodude · 2023-08-16T15:39:52+00:00

Just ran into a homeless couple out on a morning date being cute smoking meth on my apartment building's front steps. Don't lose hope guys! There's someone for everyone. Especially if you're willing to share your meth!

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-16T15:50:09+00:00

Pussy isn't a problem solver.

Far too many men here think that a relationship will save them.

It won't.

Maffioze · 2023-08-16T15:59:14+00:00

People on this sub can't even read what has been said. They argue against someone who doesn't exist lol.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-16T16:03:25+00:00

Women's first experience very often isn't super "meaningful". That goes for men too, but it's women who tend to talk about how sexual experiences are supposed to be based on a deep human connection. And that's not even wrong as a general rule of thumb, but just what kind of excitement you felt that led you to that first, unsatisfying kiss at age 15?

Inexperienced men are stuck like that, yes, they are excited about sex and physical intimacy and romance being a thing. I so wish people (mainly women) could just get over inexperienced men being like that. This is a complex realm of life that can leave people disappointed or hurt, but it's kind of silly to bring that up as an argument for why it shouldn't be important for people - it is important for women too. They date, they have sex, they sometimes end up being hurt, maybe they discover themselves through sexuality, maybe they grow through these experiences, maybe they began to appreciate single life more after their fourth abusive ex. Or maybe they actually luck out. But they PLAY this intense game. And if you actively do something that's much less available for other people, then how important you think it is doesn't really matter.

IceColdCoochie · 2023-08-16T16:05:19+00:00

Requirements for women

Be a virgin: Just don't have sex

No tattoos: Don't tattoo yourself

Debt-free: Do not spend more than you have

Women can meet male requirements simply by NOT DOING stuff, yet they complain.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-16T16:11:44+00:00

Body language and non verbal communication maxxx, is probably one of the best practical advice one can give.

Your body language, posture, tone communicate so much about you. Remember 70-93% of communication is non verbal. Makes sense since through most history of mankind we communicated without verbal language.

mummydontknow · 2023-08-16T16:26:26+00:00

CMV: Capitalism brainwashing is so bad in the west that women thought rallying for a social safety net was less realistic than rallying having to go to work.

And somebody decided to throw in showing nipples lol.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-08-16T16:26:40+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15sp8vn/aita_for_rejecting_my_boyfriends_proposal_because/

This is wild. 44 yo woman and 47 yo man get divorced, she then finds a new relationship with 45 yo man who wants to marry her. She rejects his proposal because if she gets remarried she'd lose the alimony and insurance that her ex husband pays for. That alimony is her only source of income, and she doesn't want to work because she doesn't think she can get a job that is as much as she gets from ex. So she chooses to be a SAHM to 4 grown kids. She doesn't even want to move in with her new bf because if she does, the court may take it away since the BF is another source of income.

Anyway if I was that guy I would run from that situation.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-16T16:28:56+00:00

Anyone been watching Down For Love? I wonder how the incels feel that people with down syndrome are dating and starting relationships and they can't lmao

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-16T16:35:17+00:00

I’m glad I'm not the only one who notices that the manosphere has a lot of grown men acting like annoying ass females, which ironic considering their whole “men and women are different!”

https://youtu.be/7e2zyit5zT8

purplish_possum · 2023-08-16T16:37:21+00:00

Listening to a bunch of religious assholes try to justify a 20-year-old guy sleeping with a 13-year-old girl. The judge is actually buying this BS.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-16T16:43:17+00:00

Q4M: Are men naturally leaders?

baiser_vole · 2023-08-16T16:44:19+00:00

My boyfriend was deeply touched when I responded with “Okay” when he told me to take it easy when working out today, cause I hurt myself last night. He thinks I never responded with “Okay” before.

baresquad · 2023-08-16T16:54:51+00:00

Q4m: why am I supposed to be scared of being a free meal? What’s genuinely lost by paying for dates, even if they go nowhere?

Feel like it’s desperate behavior to get hung up over the potential for dates to lead to nowhere. Like I’d rather have a bunch of dates that go nowhere than limit myself because I’m not scared of being played.

mummydontknow · 2023-08-16T17:14:51+00:00

I am getting older and losing r/smv at unprecedented rates, I have to lock down a woman NOW.

Early 20s btw...

purplish_possum · 2023-08-16T17:20:26+00:00

Apparently it's travesty of justice morning. A white peace and love hippy chick is about to get probation in a drug sales and child endangerment case with facts way worse than those of many Black and brown men and women who were sentenced to years or even decades in prison.

potoricco · 2023-08-16T17:30:14+00:00

Am I out of shape? I go to the gym but at practice I have to run for 3 minutes straight, I can do it but when I’m done I am like sweating and hyperventilating, and it makes me feel like a lazy fatass

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-16T17:35:28+00:00

What the F is wrong with talking in generalities here? Yes, different people have different experiences. I don't want to talk about exceptions and outliers. I want to talk about general rules.

One such general rule is that women like and are sexually attracted to "bad boys" - men who are fun, spontaneous, edgy, exciting, and exhibit the ability to deploy violence; because those traits are proxies for masculinity.

Women DO NOT like and ARE NOT sexually attracted to "nice, kind, good men" - men who are boring, predictable, stable, studious, industrious, loyal, introverted, and uncomfortable with violence.

NOTE: The phrase "sexually attracted" means "wants to fuck". It does NOT mean "is willing to have sex with" or "will have sex with in a 'relationship'." It means "wants to rip clothes off and bounce on his cock".

Can we agree on the above? Can we agree that the above is GENERALLY true?

HolidayWhile · 2023-08-16T17:44:55+00:00

Where can single women be found outside of clubs in 2023?

Peacesquad · 2023-08-16T17:52:27+00:00

Women view men as a means to an end. Status from marriage. Resources. Security. Make their life easier and less accountability. More competent. More logical therefore more useful and congruent

Women don’t love/view men idealistically. They’re not designed to. Men need to understand this to have success with women

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-16T17:53:59+00:00

Men really think they are experts on women because they read a Reddit thread or watched a movie.

Never are they real-life experiences. Always screen based experiences. Fucking pathetic.

Slipthe · 2023-08-16T17:55:02+00:00

What is a question for your husband or wife that you wouldn't want to know the answer to?

happy_discus · 2023-08-16T18:09:09+00:00

Lets settle this once and for all.

Woman bad or Man bad?

Respond to this comment with either/both I will count them all and release a final stat. So we can finally close this sub down.

scwizard · 2023-08-16T18:10:08+00:00

My 6 year old nephew is terrifying and awful......

he ENJOYS hurting people including my 5 year old daughter who is very sweet. He finds extreme happiness in causing other people pain. Also, when he doesn't get his way... he will SCREAM and SHAKE until he's red with his veins popping out. Fists folded, like he's ready to beat the shit out of someone. He's SIX but he's acted this way ever since he turned 2. He would hurt my newborn, throw rocks at her face, twist her fingers, pull her hair.

And my sister was the same type of child and all she can say is "I feel his anger too... I have such a soft spot for him because we have the same soul" I just really can't handle any of it.

Whenever I read stories like this, there's always something missing.

Where is the nephew's dad in all of this?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-16T18:11:47+00:00

Psuedoscience time, People can be divided in two three categories:

Monogamous: Your partner gains value over time to you (wouldn’t leave even for someone better).

Hypergamous: Your partner value stays the same to you (would leave, but only for someone who is better).

Serial monogamous: Your partner loses value over time to you (will leave often for someone’s who’s not even better).

purplish_possum · 2023-08-16T18:28:11+00:00

Travesty of justice part 3. Another woman just got probation with 120 days on an electronic monitor for assaulting multiple police officers. She bit one officer leaving a lasting scar. Tried to take another officer's gun. A third officer decided she no longer wanted to be a cop after the altercation.

This lady can have her case reduced to a misdemeanor and her probation terminated after one year.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-16T18:28:20+00:00

Men which are virgins and unhappy because of it should hire a sex worker.

Those which don't wan't to because they can't get validation out of it should see a therapist.

Those which don't wan't to because they are too afraid to should see a therapist.

Those that need permission from women to do so should stay virgins.

AidsVictim · 2023-08-16T18:37:46+00:00

New paper on how sex ratio influences female body image! My colleagues and I found that women in female-skewed environments experience stronger body dissatisfaction & dieting motivations than women in male-skewed environments https://drive.google.com/file/d/13y4YzY03fLRiJWEKc_98erNrdPzI8wuC/view?usp=sharing…

https://twitter.com/TaniaArline/status/1691469293635215360

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-08-16T18:44:21+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/comments/15ss065/til_that_men_who_ejaculate_more_frequently/

One reason why I find nofap to be stupid.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-16T18:57:08+00:00

Whiny guys: Cries that no one helps out guys like girls are helped out.

Girls: Have you thought of going to therapy, socializing, and talking about your feelings-

Whiny guys: NO, THATS FUCKING STUPID! Continues crying that no one helps out guys like girls are helped out.

scwizard · 2023-08-16T19:07:02+00:00

How long can I survive in this DEI class...

Infammo · 2023-08-16T19:08:56+00:00

One common human desire I've never related to is the urge to trade in your car when it's paid off for a new one. My car was brand new when I bought it three years ago but I'm about to be done paying for it and the dealership has started calling again about a trade in. My coworkers are saying I should do it.

I'm about to be 650$ richer every month going forward, the hell would I give that up for literally 0 quality of life increase?

tendrils87 · 2023-08-16T19:23:17+00:00

Why do you all respond to these sad ugly women? They hate themselves and the world so much that they don’t want to have children. Common theme amongst them. I’d go so far as to say a woman that doesn’t want children is a massive fucking red flag of mental illness.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-16T20:05:04+00:00

Ah, so it finally happened, my 60 year old MGTOW brother finally got married.

He was never a political or self professed MGTOW, but whenever my dad pestered him about marriage he'd always respond that he was too busy living his life.

Anyway, he's finally found himself a nice lady to accompany him on his expensive toys/jet-set lifestyle.

Fun fact; my brother's first marriage occurs at 60, whereas my father had his 4th and final child (me) at 60. The circle of life?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-16T20:14:21+00:00

What assumptions do you have about me?

I'll tell you if you're ✅️ or 🚫.

Maractop · 2023-08-16T20:23:00+00:00

How do I become more impulsive? Im like the exact opposite of that. I do better when I plan stuff out and have time to think about things, but it often leads to analysis paralysis. Then I think too much and end up doing nothing, especially when approaching/talking to girls and dating. Is there a way I can like shut off my brain for a bit? Because I feel like thats my main issue rn and I missed out on a few opportunities because of it.

baresquad · 2023-08-16T20:49:03+00:00

Nothing is harder than watching men chase young girls only to let themselves get played. I’m sorry but by a certain point you should have the experiences and tools equipped to not allow someone with far less adulthood experience to take advantage of you. It’s a strict standard but always being on your p’s and q’s is just part of being a man. We gotta stop excusing pathetic behavior.

Context.

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-16T20:58:46+00:00

Men are the only group of people who when they fail all over the board, as a group, no one question if there is any structural inequality that is causing a general pattern and most just assume it's an individual failure that is rippled through the group.

What is the problem with telling men to "Just do Better"?

SianOiseau · 2023-08-16T21:22:15+00:00

Do you or your partner have more clothes?

Husband was doing the laundry today and figured out that he has twice as many t-shirts as I do lol. I think he has more other pieces of clothes as well - when we were packing things I packed more his clothes and here we generally buy clothes for him because I'm far pickier with shopping and it's harder for me to find things that I like. I also work from home, so the need for clothes is lower.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-16T21:31:46+00:00

I’m curious to know what people here sound like. Can you describe your voice and how you speak?

hellotomo94 · 2023-08-16T21:47:53+00:00

u/tendrils87 is living proof for the men of this sub that you can be a fuggo and still be a shitbag. You hear that PPD men, you don't have to be Chad<sup>TM</sup> to talk down to women!

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-16T21:59:11+00:00

Men need to learn the difference between whiny and opening up, but don’t leave yourself wide open

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-16T22:03:15+00:00

Trying to remember to make eye contact with people is hard

potoricco · 2023-08-16T22:08:56+00:00

The new F-word

!Feminist!<

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-16T22:09:52+00:00

Its sad the state of male relationships. We see eachother as competition, life is a zero sum game, someone's loss is your gain. Alot of low key hate, and jeliously. I'm not any different, I've definitely been jelious of the bros, or seen other guys as comp. Its sad man.

But I also had some great older dudes, mentor me and give me advice. They was really trying to see me win.

So its not all bad. But it definitely isn't good

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-16T22:10:00+00:00

Plenty of women will listen to guys talk about being lonely and unheard….when it’s actually about being lonely and unheard.

Whining about “My dick isnt wet because women are too stuck up and evil to suck my cock” is not about being lonely and unheard. That’s about being misogynistic and entitled.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-16T22:11:38+00:00

Still laughing at the time I didn't know what a woman moment was

potoricco · 2023-08-16T22:13:52+00:00

My sister figure is going to get us a seafood boil, I mean is free food but even I have limits 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮👶🤮

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-16T22:14:24+00:00

So Linus Media Group another company overly focused on seeming “progressive” turned out to be full of crooks? Who could’ve guessed.

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-16T22:15:30+00:00

someone's comment:

why would you tell her this, what's wrong with all of you

can be applied everywhere on this sub

TheSunWillShin3 · 2023-08-16T22:15:36+00:00

It's actually shocking how the girl I'm talking to is so different from women here.

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-16T22:19:01+00:00

Can’t reply to that one woman because /u/EverVigilant1 has me blocked and she actually seems pleasant to talk to and note rude or combative

potoricco · 2023-08-16T22:20:05+00:00

Damn what are y’all saying to people to get blocked or are they just petty and sensitive? I’ve only been blocked because I’m annoying

potoricco · 2023-08-16T22:21:51+00:00

Christian rap is SOOO bad omg

potoricco · 2023-08-16T22:24:07+00:00

I just passed a shop where they were selling bongs /paraphernalia omg

This is a rare sight for me

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-16T22:24:54+00:00

“rEpOrTeD fOr UnCiViLiTy”

princedune · 2023-08-16T22:35:08+00:00

i am starting to think that women are not actually 50% of the population.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-16T22:45:39+00:00

In case some guys here need help figuring this out:

Men and women are not monolith. People’s genitals do not define them.

Idk why I keep forgetting to stop overestimating people’s IQ.

scwizard · 2023-08-16T22:46:54+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15st8jg/aitah_for_telling_my_brothers_girlfriend_that_he/

Deceiving your lover like this is never ok.

LaloTwins · 2023-08-16T22:49:42+00:00

They fighting in r/chess over women's tournaments

DerayRevan · 2023-08-16T22:51:44+00:00

You know when l look at the reason why guys watch porn it's always rooted in the fact guys want variety without trying to get it, they want something to get their nuts off very quick without putting in the effort of getting themselves out there, having the social skills to interact with women they find particularly attractive because guys who are addicted to porn have anxiety of approaching girls and make it a sexual interaction

But the thing l find interesting with all this is certain guys who just don't wanna admit they want variety, they sit there and gaslight themselves to thinking one woman is sexually enough for them yet when you look marriage couples or even relationships in general, it's no secret a large percentage of men have a porn addiction otherwise we wouldn't be talking about it in the first place

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-16T22:53:34+00:00

This tweet basically describes how Feminist see world issues or history. Got to remind yourself this is the people you are having debates and discussions with.

https://preview.redd.it/sw57moxewjib1.png?width=540&format=png&auto=webp&s=cc8d3f40a77057aa873fd7de4bca9af41bd0998b

0DarkFlirty · 2023-08-16T22:59:49+00:00

There was a girl I met once who didn't feel any arousal towards me until we tried making out. Before that point I was neutral. So there can at least be a case where she doesn't even know she'd be into you until you actually make some sort of move.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-16T23:02:22+00:00

You know what I think is actually kind of tragic? Being an ugly person who is only attracted to like 7-8+ people. Every single person you like is out of your league. I imagine it must actually be painful to live like that.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-16T23:17:26+00:00

I don't understand why some complain about being blocked, in fact i wish more people would block me. Just not Johnny Autism. Cause this whole place would disappear.

Maffioze · 2023-08-16T23:18:51+00:00

Civility is for nice guys. Kind guys say the truth even when it's disliked.

old_new_age · 2023-08-16T23:20:43+00:00

I don't know why, but my entire dating experience has either been women completely disinterested in me, like to the point where if I try any harder to impress them it's pathetic, or women who are unhealthily obsessed with me to the point of stalking and monopolizing my time. There has been no in between of a woman who just shows a normal amount of interest in me. I seem to attract the BPD types - I don't want to, though. Apparently they're attracted to either narcissistic men or codependent men, so I'm one of those. Probably codependent.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-16T23:27:23+00:00

I seriously love how this sub will claim men only going for really attractive women yet in the same air they'll literally say most couples are looks-matched, claim most couples are average looking

Yet when l do a broad observation of most relationships guess what's happening ? The man is

Older than her

More educated if it's long-term

Makes more money if again it's long-term because if the woman makes her more income then it's likely to end in divorce

Much taller than her

So how can you claim guys only go for attractive women when this is the case, see this is why l can take what anyone here says because yall create entire narratives with tons of contradiction

old_new_age · 2023-08-16T23:35:24+00:00

I don't know why, but my entire dating experience has either been women completely disinterested in me, like to the point where if I try any harder to impress them it'd be pathetic, or women who are unhealthily obsessed with me in regards to stalking and wanting to monopolize all of my time (it's like a 98/2 ratio but still). There has been no in between where someone just shows a healthy amount of interest. I seem to attract the borderline types - I don't want to, though. Apparently they're attracted to either narcissistic or codependent men, so I must be one of those. Possibly both.

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