the only acceptable way to meet women, according to women here at least, is via social circles. Something that introverts usually don't have in abundance. Needles to say Millenials and Zoomers are one of the loneliest generations and even if they're not friendless they often times have few fellow nerdy buddies interested in male dominated hobbies, so ones chances of meeting women are still severely limited.

women tho have a habit of dissuading men who would try to approach a woman they see at the library/coffee shop by saying this approach is something only desperate losers do, because well adjusted men are popular , outgoing and have tons of friends where women will not only vet, but also vouche for them. The implication being that if you don't have this there must be something "wrong" with you. In truth this advice simply privileges the outdoorsy extrovert.

And lets not even pretend that at the end of the day hitting on women in your social circle will still be a numbers game as physical attraction is still no.1 prerequisite to even to get your foot in the door.