Daily Community Chat Megathread

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-29T17:58:29+00:00

If looks are subjective, what makes a chad for one woman and makes him unattractive/chad-lite/high tier normie for others?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-29T17:54:32+00:00

I make rules for Becky and break them for Stacy.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-09-29T17:31:18+00:00

CMV: finding a fwb is insanely harder than finding a relationship as an average dude

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-29T17:30:46+00:00

I made a post in All Pill Debate and was told that because of the way I wrote my post I was "trying hard to sound smart"

It's sort of comedic to me because whenever I see incel posts, they always sounds low intelligence. It's like unless you say things in terms of Wojaks and catch phrases like "Chad" and "Top 10%" they have no way of comprehending anything outside of their own world view.

BeReady6129 · 2023-09-29T17:15:24+00:00

People call some of these YouTubers grifters because they advertise products, i see nothing wrong with that they(not all) provide insightful information for free. Nothing wrong trying to make money while helping others. You don’t need to buy anything if you don’t want to.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-29T17:11:22+00:00

Q4A:

Would you rather:

Have a lot of leverage in nearly all social situations at the expense of being cat called and harassed and sent dick picks

Have no inherent value in nearly all social situations but you get to be mostly left alone

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-29T16:49:57+00:00

Where are the men that are 8ft tall, making 8 figures, with the 8 packs

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-29T16:34:59+00:00

Woman who complains about men only wanting sex has a change of heart when Chad shows up. If women make you wait for sex, they don't like you.

https://i.imgur.com/kKuePCb.jpg

Maffioze · 2023-09-29T16:31:25+00:00

Women do have more power in the dating market, but some men here really have extreme beliefs about it.

The idea that you need to be in the top 0,1% of guys to have a woman who genuinely desires you is complete nonsense.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-09-29T16:28:43+00:00

So do guys that like chubby girls only exist on Reddit or what. I’m going to die of lack-of-cowboy-boyfriend disease here soon. I may not be the thinnest, but I make good turkey sandwiches and give foot massages.

princedune · 2023-09-29T16:17:40+00:00

I decided to get a gym membership last week even though I have a home gym because I wanted to try some equipment I dont have at home. This morning a really tall woman (~6'4) came in, lifted a fucking atlas stone for a few sets, and left.

now I have my first gym crush and I dont know how to deal with these new emotions 🥺

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-29T16:15:11+00:00

My god, I wish I had a chance to feel lonely.

Not to get morbid, but the idea of not having anyone care if I lived or died seems so freeing. But I only say that as a person who's entire existence has been beholden to someone else.

There is always a price that has to be paid for where ever we end up in life.

In other news, going to my MIL's lake house this weekend to do white people shit like apple picking and riding in so-and-so's new boat. Husband weaseled his way out of the trip, lucky motherfucker.

Stupid4Knowledge · 2023-09-29T15:40:14+00:00

Weird request, currently struck by a crazy wave of loneliness. Anyone up for a chat till this passes over?

Ummm…I know this is a debate sub but as the I mentioned I am just experiencing a crazy wave of loneliness. I already went for a run and tried concentrating on sleeping, but no luck. This is a strong one lol. I am currently battling the thoughts of being alone and never finding anyone. I feel I am convincing myself to opt out of dating. Which, regardless of whatever side of the argument you fall under, is not a decision to make with my particular state of mind.

So…DM me if you have experienced this and want to share and talk about it. Or..just want to chat. I am pretty friendly, won’t bite too hard lol.

Anyway, take care.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-29T15:38:23+00:00

Unpopular opinion:

The patriarchy works and cannot be ended or replaced.

FizzleMateriel · 2023-09-29T15:31:02+00:00

I was wondering if I was shadow-banned on Hinge because I didn’t reply to someone a month ago and she un-matched me and then instantly got a message match after liking a BBW type girl’s profile prompt lol.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-29T15:29:45+00:00

My friend said going after attractive women is asking for too much

In my experience attractive women are always easy because a lot of the time they are just really insecure and play a bunch of games, and l really do catchup on it therefore becomes really easy filtering out their nonsense

Average chicks they usually are the harder one's because they often come off with a lot of confidence and you know how l feel about confidence when a woman shows it

potoricco · 2023-09-29T15:10:08+00:00

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Boy abusing girl

”These boys are being failed”

Like do you hear yourself

OneLobster23 · 2023-09-29T15:09:34+00:00

Are my standard too high for my height?

I'm 5'3" and can't find any woman.

I want someone who is nice, kind, caring, doesn't insult or abuse me, someone who I have a intellectual and emotional connection with and can share a laugh with. That's all.

I don't care about looks at all no matter how ugly, I don't understand make-up, I don't care about weight even if she is morbidly obese, how tall she is, how hairy she is, or if she gets nails or eyebrows "done", or what clothes she wears. So, I am not superficial at all, attraction is irrelevant to me. Genuinely not hitting out of my league. I don't talk to the pretty or fit girls anyway.

Any chance for me? :(

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-29T14:46:56+00:00

Most of you would get cancelled if your anonymous reddit accounts got exposed

Ohmaygahh · 2023-09-29T14:44:07+00:00

Probably one of the biggest truths that women obfuscate...

For a man, there is NO set predefined amount of time you need to "wait" before making a move on a woman.

It can be as fast as the first 10 seconds, you don't need to be waiting 25 minutes, thinking you're warming her up to be attracted to you. She either is or isn't at a snap.

And if you do encounter a woman that tries to rationalize that you need to wait, or be more patient, I PROMISE you it is 100% not worth that wait. She's trying to negotiate and rationalize attraction, and it simply doesn't work that way. Or she's asexual/she is not going to be compatible sexually with you. Leave her alone and go on to the next one that you fancy.

InternationalSoft431 · 2023-09-29T14:34:38+00:00

PPD women: sex isn't important at all
Also PPD women: sex is so important that I'll only do it with someone I've fallen deeply in love with

I'll wear a t-shirt and jeans to the grocery store because the way I look isn't very important for that kind of thing. My looks are important when I give a business presentation, which is why I'm a lot more picky about the cloths I wear to a business presentation.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-29T14:34:31+00:00

Imagine a man posting this, what would be the reaction? -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16uigcq/help_i_am_concerned_that_i_seriously_despise_and/

hannahg000 · 2023-09-29T14:31:25+00:00

literally me at 14

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-29T14:26:22+00:00

Starting to realise I stress drink water. 3.4liters so far.

Q4All: have you done this or known someone who does?

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-09-29T14:25:31+00:00

Q4All: Can you tell irl if a man (or in more rare cases a woman) is a virgiN AND if so what are some telltale signs that let you know?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-29T14:24:38+00:00

Is missing out on growth milestones traumatic?

Slipthe · 2023-09-29T14:09:24+00:00

I just realized that my coworker is attractive. I've worked with him for 2 years, and because he was gay (admittedly clockable because of the voice cadence) I literally never even assessed him in my mind until this exact moment.

But he would slay as a straight man too.

itzReborn · 2023-09-29T14:05:56+00:00

I’m self improving but I don’t feel like I’m actually making seeable progress if that makes sense, though it’s probably my fault at the same time.

I realized my social anxiety most likely stemmed from childhood “trauma” and that’s why it’s difficult for me to talk/start convos with people(I’m not a mute but I don’t go out my way to talk to people, tho it seems like most people don’t nowadays but that’s a whole other story) and obviously when it comes to women you gotta initiate the convo as a guy 8/10 times.

Obviously as a guy (24)with no experience I’d like to get some type of experience with women(talking dating sex) and I know it comes down to just improving my social skills(which I don’t even think are bad, when people start the convo with me) and I liked to think my looks are pretty decent as well

Honestly don’t even know the point of this comment, but I feel like this a decent sub to let it out in

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-09-29T14:04:52+00:00

Finaly started going to starbucks and I see why people need their daily fix now. Sure it's overpriced but two bacon egg and gyuyere cheese bites paired with a caramel machiatto def gets me threw the day until dinner.

Also noticed the area by where they set your coffee down and yell your name is a nice little small talk zone.

okaybear2point0 · 2023-09-29T13:56:58+00:00

Q4W: Married or taken women. Henry Cavill shows up to your doorstep one day, professes his love and asks you to be his wife. What do you do

edit: assume you had a massive argument with your partner the night before

InternationalSoft431 · 2023-09-29T13:45:07+00:00

Men are currently the victims of massive human rights violations.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-09-29T13:36:35+00:00

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the ok Cupid study

But there are a few interesting phenomena. For one, men on the site tend to be more generous than women when it comes to rating attractiveness, leading to a nice bell curve with the bulk of ratings falling around ‘average’.

But despite their fair ratings, they tend to ignore many of the women they find reasonably attractive and primarily target the most attractive females.

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RandomRedditGuy322 · 2023-09-28T17:00:31+00:00

I used to think the most worthless thing ever created were NFTs. Then reddit went ahead and made their contributor program and now I'm questioning everything.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-28T17:03:35+00:00

My ass is too much on the upper register, it needs more bass.

towerofcheeeeza · 2023-09-28T17:03:53+00:00

What dating apps are popular amongst people you know atm? My friends seem to all be using Hinge and Bumble these days. I met my partner via Tinder but this was 5+ years ago. Interested to see whether preference is regional or different depending on age.

demedermidimi · 2023-09-28T17:04:57+00:00

anyone ever heard "hottest thing a man can be is be around"? ime it checks out. a coworker or classmate sometimes starts looking hot just because he's there and you spend a lot of time together. a real life 5 can be a school/work 10

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-28T17:06:30+00:00

I’ve come to realize that most of the dudes preaching defeatism on here don’t actually talk to very many women, or put all that much effort into self-improvement. Fighting and losing sucks, true. But not fighting at all is worse imo.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-09-28T17:12:49+00:00

Brittany rennet said she’s had 35 partners. Some people say that low, others say it’s high. I guess that seems right to me, given her reputation. After college I worked at a shitty call center and one of the women there said she had 15 partners. The other girls thought that was disgusting. I kinda felt like they were lying or virtue signaling. It was a strange dynamic. Anyway, I think sexless people overestimate how much sex ordinary people have. Most people like to be kissed before they’re fucked. And that takes time. Even when I had roommates who probably slept with dozens if not a hundred women, that took time most of the time.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-28T17:14:58+00:00

This probably now takes the cake for most baffling encounter I've had here:

https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/fRnogqVwAr

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-09-28T17:16:00+00:00

Q4all: Do you believe that having racial preference when it comes to dating is racists?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-28T17:17:42+00:00

Don’t believe every lie?

Far Right.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-09-28T17:18:35+00:00

The other day while I was waiting to pay my pizza at the counter, I saw a woman (early twenties) next to me with visible nipple piercings through her shirt. Instant +2 on the attractiveness scale.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-28T17:22:14+00:00

Men justifying women sleeping around while dating comes from a lack of self respect.

scwizard · 2023-09-28T17:23:54+00:00

When I first had sex I ended up with a pregnancy scare. Blame Catholic school sex ed, but countless negative tests later, 4 months in I was still convinced I was pregnant so late one night I caved and asked my mum if she could reassure me I was ok, just needing her to be my friend for once. My words were 'Mum I know I'm not pregnant but could you please calm me down' and with her selective histrionic hearing she heard 'mum, I'm pregnant'.

She then went into a screaming rage until she went into shock, collapsed, needed to be rushed to hospital by ambulance and temporarily lost her long term memory, meaning for 48 hours she kept forgetting why she was in hospital and where she was. I'm still not allowed to bring this up many years later because 'I almost killed her with my shamelessness'.

Damn had no idea having sex was so dangerous.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-28T17:32:09+00:00

I think guys would truly have an easier time in dating if they could just keep the first interaction they've with a woman pure sexual, because it would save themselves a lot of time to know if a woman is high interest or not

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-28T17:32:48+00:00

Why social media labels incel as a right winger ? Pretty much sure most of these incel labelled guys are liberal or apolitical who still vote democrats.

illusoryfindings · 2023-09-28T17:47:12+00:00

A lot of men's frustrations about women around here come from perceived unfairness and injustices.

"If only women just did this... If only men just did that... Everything would be so much better."

They've built up a utopic world in their mind, and they're mourning it. It's like they've accepted defeat and are carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders, fully believing things can never get better. The mental anguish eats away at them, but they don't realize it doesn't have to.

When you try to teach them the 'adapt and overcome' mindset, many of them will just double down. They'll either feel you're being insensitive and trivializing a source of great pain in their lives, or feel that adapting and overcoming is so insurmountable that the thought alone is too overwhelming.

For the dudes here who've managed to internalize 'adapt and overcome.' How do you help other dudes reach that stage too? What was it that made you accept the world's unfairness, but still enjoy the challenges of trying to improve what you've got?

For me, it was a liberating mental shift because I started to feel like the underdog in a competitive game, and that made life feel more playful and fun, despite all the unfairness.

OneLobster23 · 2023-09-28T17:48:14+00:00

Being short as a man is the male equivalent of being ugly as a woman.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-09-28T18:02:21+00:00

Q4M: alright I know a lot of king out there would never pay for sex which is totally fair. My question is if you had the opportunity to have sex with a high end escort for free, would you do it?

Here how it would go, the escort would come to your place at the time of your liking (you would just have to book 1 day in advance) and would stay for up to 3 hours. As I mentionned, she's a high end escort, extremely attractive (easy 8/10 minimum) and very agreeable. She also got tested recently and is totally STD free. She would get paid, but not by you. Her rate is 1k$ per hour and she is not trafficked in any way. The only requirement is that you shower beforehand. You obviously wouldn't be allowed to do anything illegal or extreme, but everything else is fair game (sex is with condoms though). At any point you can ask for the escort to leave and she will immediately gtfo. After 3 hours she'd leave no matter what. You have the guarantee that you won't get in legal trouble for this and nobody will ever know about it (imagine that the escort has signed a NDA or something).

So boys, do you do it or not? If you're in a relationship, imagine that you're single to appease your moral conscience.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-28T18:03:51+00:00

Just be sexual with her the first time you meet her bro

This is incredibly dangerous advice to give. A man should only be doing this if he knows what he is doing.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-28T18:12:55+00:00

Lowkey kinda felted that redpillers and non-redpillers filled me with the belief that interacting with women was walking on egg shells. I've been being bolder today sent another less vague flirty-ish text. I'm not sure if it's crab bucket or just that redpill spaces have a lot of people who think like this.

Tim pool lied to me, and is bald.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-28T18:16:25+00:00

It's amazing how a lot of overweight women I know loved Barbie, and all of the normal weight ones were like "meh, funny but wouldn't watch it again".

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-28T18:21:08+00:00

I don't get why women hate it when men express their disliking for fat women. In my eyes, since us men are always told to self-improve to the absolute maximum and if I were to do that scam, I better get a good return on doing it. Not saying I want a Stacy but fat women are automatically disqualified. I didn't self-improve myself to death just so I can end up and reward a woman who has a sloppy lifestyle and hasn't done shit for herself. No one cut me any slack before so why the hell am I giving you the chance no one ever bothered to give me? Especially since I'm not fat myself? Fuck that.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-28T18:22:27+00:00

This sub is the only place I’ve seen people question why women want to gain muscle or do strength training. Isn’t it self explanatory? Muscle is healthy, humans are meant to have muscle and strength. Modern lifestyle is rarely active enough, you need to exercise.

sine120 · 2023-09-28T18:32:33+00:00

I'm curious why you see such massive cultural differences between urban and sparse areas that are just minutes away. Having lived in a fairly big city and now living in a sleepy little town, it's interesting to see how people approach dating in both settings. Does an abundance of options really just sabotage us?

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2636191/

potoricco · 2023-09-28T18:36:24+00:00

What’s YOUR Roman empire

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-28T18:40:19+00:00

The cool thing about femdom (or at least how it looks like on the internet) is that those women are treating their subs as horny beings. Like, deliberately. Regular sex workers don't really even do that, or I guess that depends, but usually they more so just passively let their viewers/clients be into them, they put themselves out there and that's mostly it. But a dominatrix looks you in the eye, knows exactly how she makes you feel, and is grabbing into your male easiness itself. I honestly think this is so fucking underrated in general. I'm not saying that it has to be extreme, but just this underlying dynamic, it's essentially non-existent in "real life", people don1t even consider stuff like that. I lowkey think it has some "truth" to it, like it would be beneficial and healthy for humanity to integrate that sort of stuff a little more. Take the femdom pill.

business_explained · 2023-09-28T18:47:21+00:00

Q4W:

Do you think there's a minimum amount of time a man should spend getting to know a woman before asking her out? If so, how long do you think it should be?
Does your response to the previous question change when both parties (man and woman) frequently interact, such as in school, work, or shared hobbies?
Reflecting on your own experiences, how much time passed between your initial meeting and when the man you most recently dated asked you out? Feel free to share about previous relationships as well.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-28T18:48:23+00:00

I get to go to the governor's press conference today. What kind of questions should I ask him?

scwizard · 2023-09-28T18:56:47+00:00

i lost my virginity in a room full of dried dog shit, piss and moldy food to a boy who couldnt understand the word no and told me he would kill himself if i didnt. when i told my aunt this she said "guys just like it more when you say no."

Jesus Christ poor people really live in an entirely different universe...

The only time I was in a place that was anywhere close to that is when this girl got wasted at this cheap bar I was at and I escorted her home via rideshare to make sure she was safe, at her request, and there were empty cans of natty light all over the floor and the mattress was just laying on the floor and it smelled bad.

Obviously I did not have sex there. I wonder how the fuck that boy lured here to that place. Did he offer her money or drugs or something?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-09-28T19:00:13+00:00

What do you think of a dating app where men don't swipe right and left on women anymore. They just set some preferences and a chatgpt AI or something swipe for them. They get notification when they match (so if they never match, they'd never have to open the app). Women continue to swipe as usual.

Of course would never happen, it's a theoretical question.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-28T19:04:20+00:00

추석 찰 보내 돼세요 I need to get out of this country

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-28T19:22:24+00:00

Should I make an account on archiveofourown? I feel like I'm missing out on fanfiction. It's been years since I've read any.

Slipthe · 2023-09-28T19:35:12+00:00

Bruh once you've been a cat person for awhile and then you dog sit for someone you're just like, "WHY ARE YOU FOLLOWING ME EVERYWHERE?? SIT DOWN AND TAKE A NAP."

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-09-28T19:36:34+00:00

Going to watch a 1h show where 4 "experts" talk about porno (here in my country clueless politicians are trying to make it so you can only access porn sites after proving that you're an adult). Seems to be mostly about how porn is degrading to women and dangerous for children. Should be fun.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-28T19:40:25+00:00

Q4Men: how many of you have had a supportive childhood? Growing up did you have any family or friends who would encourage you, cheer you on, tell you good things about yourself, and celebrate you?

I think a lot of the current issues of male self worth tie into not being celebrated when they were kids (plus the cascading consequences of that). Not in an empty participation trophy kind of way, but highlighting what the boy is good at and how they can use that as a tool of agency in their lives.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-28T19:41:47+00:00

Men need to stop making posts about what if scenario on women approaching. They wouldn't approach your ass still if they did. Like my mother told me "Oh, women approach. They just don't approach YOU. They don't like YOU." Women don't give a shit about you.

OneLobster23 · 2023-09-28T19:44:20+00:00

Where can I find fat, ugly, unkempt women to date?

I've recently realized I've been tryna hit out of my league. Want to go for women at my level, now.

Issue is that I live in NYC. Never see an ugly woman under the age of 45 (I'm 21), almost every woman seems to shave body hair, wear make-up, have their hair, nails, and eyebrows perennially done, very few bigger women but even they are extremely well-groomed, and everyone seems to be always well-dressed.

People (rich and famous folk aside) almost always date within their league with maybe minor deviations here and there. So I gotta stick to my end. But I don't really know where to find my niche. Any help?

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-28T19:51:32+00:00

Part of why dating is so fucked up is unironically because of brain drain.

I'm not talking about poor people from third-world immigrating to the first world for jobs, that's always been around. It's mostly male but they're older and don't partake in the culture that much.

I think rich young people from third-world countries immigrating to first-world countries, especially for school and early career made it even more lopsided. These immigrants are mostly male. They participate in the culture since they're young and in college/working. And the world is much more secular these days, so they want to date.

I think general gender ratios at birth or in any age group are pretty irrelevant. Gender ratios of young people, with the means and interest to date, in a certain area is wayyy more relevant. I bet it's close to like 7-3 in some places.

grillopie · 2023-09-28T19:56:40+00:00

plenty of women of higher standing immigrate. are you sure its mostly men? whats the breakdown of student visas?

purpledaggers · 2023-09-28T19:57:34+00:00

Has anyone watched [Soulmates] (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soulmates_(TV_series)) and if so, was it at least an interesting premise?

potoricco · 2023-09-28T19:59:02+00:00

Probably the weirdest thing about me is developing a crush on a celebrity and then realizing they’re a man and then get heartbroken

Like it’s not even that they’re a man just that they’re human if that makes sense

Like for example I am attracted to this musician and I have this idea that he’s so pure and wholesome (for some reason) then I hear him mentioning sex in his songs or having women in his music videos and then I’m like ew. Not like disgusted but shocked

Anyone else relate? Deadass I swear something is wrong with me

BrummieAMN19 · 2023-09-28T20:09:12+00:00

Twitter/X>>>>>>> when it comes to dating dynamics. Far more honest truths compared to the virtue signalling and blatant denial of common sense like on Reddit regarding women liking muscular men.

https://x.com/myfaultog23/status/1706799058617073745?s=46&t=4oxp4OS8ta2rOKFSXRxwOQ

Just LOL after this video do you think women don’t admire physique.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-28T20:11:01+00:00

Its after 5am and I been watching Looney Tunes for the past hour as if I was still in the early 90's.

potoricco · 2023-09-28T20:13:45+00:00

Do you think I should become a henna artist as a gig? Idk if many people would trust me I do henna on myself sometimes but the cone i use is really sh!t so it fades after like 2 days. I need more money help

Ohmaygahh · 2023-09-28T20:18:02+00:00

Just matched with a woman, convo seemed good, fun, talk about whatever. She volunteers she left her husband. I ask why. She gets defensive as fuck stating that she should put on her profile that pushing her boundaries is a red flag.

Bitch, you volunteered that out of the blue, of course I'm going to show I'm listening by following up with a question about it. How stupid are you..

meteorness123 · 2023-09-28T20:19:08+00:00

A chubby, laid back guy will always be more attractive to women than a jacked, non-lad back dude

tinasnow-poty · 2023-09-28T20:32:13+00:00

Things I no longer believe in due to how overused they are online: narcissism, gaslighting, abuse, bpd, autism, adhd

Someone can do ONE cunty thing and be accused of all these things. Sometimes people just do shitty things. It really does not mean they are a gaslighting narcisstic abuser. I’m so sick of these words

baiser_vole · 2023-09-28T20:36:07+00:00

I gave someone the list of character traits I was looking for, and was told my list is hard to satisfy these days.

huhwhatokok · 2023-09-28T20:38:15+00:00

Ukraine and Russia will probably be top passport bro destinations after this war subsidizes. If you believe the US source, 70k Ukrainian men and 120k Russian men serving have died. And this is mainly composed of 18-50 year old men too.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-28T20:42:45+00:00

I always kept it casual whenever l dated a woman, because to me if l can get her sexual interest then my work is done since by then l don't need to consider being in a relationship, because l know she'll end up crying for one

That's one pattern l've realized throughout my entire life, am always better off just making and keeping things casual between us until she feels like she's ready for a relationship, which is ironic because in high-school l wanted a relationship first

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-09-28T20:44:48+00:00

Have you ever seen a woman lose her mind for a very, very attractive man?

It really is a spectacle to behold!

potoricco · 2023-09-28T20:54:29+00:00

I just came to this vintage toy store and look at this beauty

https://preview.redd.it/qzss3wqs72rb1.jpeg?width=2758&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b001e29983cbd16602cc253e355851c177b527e8

She’s my exact sign and birthday too. This must not be a coincidence. I think god is trying to tell me something. The dress is ugly af tho but I still like it

DerayRevan · 2023-09-28T20:59:07+00:00

The saying "treat women like children" has some true to it

Because many women want the same things as little children

They want your attention time,attention,resources(money)

So am not surprised why that quote is even popular among so many guys to take as advice

BeReady6129 · 2023-09-28T21:00:50+00:00

A lot of the men here claiming to be RP are actually much closer to BlackPill.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-28T21:28:46+00:00

Q4A: What would your dating strategy be if you were a 6/10 member of the opposite gender? How would you meet people? How would you vet potential partners? How would you deal with common dating issues?

potoricco · 2023-09-28T21:31:38+00:00

I dead have a phone addiction

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-09-28T21:37:12+00:00

It is so confusing that there are so many men who supposedly can't understand why height is important to women. Like how often do I have to read that?
It's simply equivalent to a good waist-to-hip ratio. Sure bro, I get you don't find height important on women, but there are some obvious substitutes that you care about but women don't.

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-09-28T21:38:41+00:00

Can we stop with the stupid "I'm finna ..."

You're not "finna" anything. You're "gonna".

Now get off my lawn!!!

potoricco · 2023-09-28T21:41:50+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/bwvj0ebbg2rb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e9a1c0ee8ad6a35a6c1df9d3a3497919fafb4448

Based wife

Common husband L

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-28T21:50:01+00:00

I’m on a poetry course, it’s online. The teacher is supposed to comment everyone’s work but she either skips mine or delays it long enough that I’m not realistically able to reply. Should I ask her? I’m paying the same amount as the others but I feel like this might be awkward.

danielwastaken · 2023-09-28T22:11:32+00:00

Watching porn regularly is one of the worst things a young guy can do to himself

antisplatter · 2023-09-28T22:13:24+00:00

physical therapist is the ultimate Chad job. they're basically personal trainers with education.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-09-28T22:20:24+00:00

Sex worker therapist should be a thing. First hour you talk about your problems, second hour you bang (or the reverse, but that seem weird).

potoricco · 2023-09-28T22:21:45+00:00

I still can’t believe this was our president at some point

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-09-28T22:22:08+00:00

i went to a club recently in college and there was only this one girl in the room, now i was tired as shit and just wanted to go there to chill and nap, but after a bit she voluntarily started talking to me asking how i was and my class stats, but soon after that i had to leave bc of surprise logistics. wat do i do the next time i see her?

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-09-28T22:25:36+00:00

Fuck, I should have become and doctor and studied for 6 years and then find an average girl purely through money. That sounds great.

business_explained · 2023-09-28T22:44:12+00:00

I went to a student club and a girl asked me to play Minecraft with her. Am I chad?

GridReXX · 2023-09-28T22:48:34+00:00

Mainstream social media and news are reacting to that London girl getting stabbed as if boys killing their exes is new? It’s disheartening. But it isn’t new. A similar incident to that one is on the 6 o clock news every other day.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-28T22:49:21+00:00

Any way how to switch roles from a HTN/Chadlite to a provider ? Lets say youre looking for a way out of the first role because you dont want to fulfill it anymore. How would one go about it ?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-09-28T23:16:15+00:00

Q4M:

https://preview.redd.it/batlllw6x2rb1.jpeg?width=1036&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c5f552c2a03cced42a87bcc577d8c9c009d15bab

a sidenote of dolphin pussy is I'm guessing it sort of eliminates any real mechanical action needed on the mans part. all you need to do is insert and it's basically ready to go like a microwavable meal

as always the question rlly boils down to normal sex vs worse person but more sex

meteorness123 · 2023-09-28T23:33:23+00:00

Getting laid is easy as fuck. Having a good relationship with someone is far more difficult

RahLyt · 2023-09-28T23:38:12+00:00

For the women against age gaps. At what age do women start having agency?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-28T23:38:42+00:00

I've been thinking about how my romantic/sexual life would be different as a man but other than just not getting flooded with messages on dating apps, I feel like the male version of everything I went through is pretty realistic. High school sweetheart, dryspell, meet a promiscuous girl and lose v card to her, meet another promiscuous girl and date her for 6 months, eventually end up with a lower n-count woman. Sounds pretty typical.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-28T23:44:32+00:00

I disagree with the whole "bring your girl flowers"

Because l also want some flowers too 😔😔

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-28T23:45:34+00:00

Rate him and what advice would you give him?

https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/evr9K8ogUi

danielwastaken · 2023-09-28T23:48:45+00:00

If you're hesitating to approach that baddie at the bar, just remember that you have the right to ask out every woman and that every woman has the right to say no

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-28T23:59:34+00:00

Any tips on approaching from you guys? I actually need to work on my ability to approach people when they are in the middle of talking to others, since I am attending events with politicians and business leaders. Do you usually try to start a conversation about something relevant? Ice-breakers?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-29T00:00:04+00:00

Whenever people debate whether women or men are more shallow, it should be debating assuming that the women already have healthy (19-21) BMI bodies. Wanting a woman with a healthy body is only a health standard, so it doesn't count as a looks standard.

In the debate, you have to first assume that both the man and woman have healthy bodies as a base starting point. Note that height and hairline are orthogonal to having a healthy body. Then you start the debate about what additional factors prospective mates would care about.

Slipthe · 2023-09-29T00:04:31+00:00

Did an incel sub shut down?

There's a huge influx of incels today.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-29T00:12:43+00:00

Height isn’t a cheat code

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-29T00:14:19+00:00

My youngest escaped for 4 minutes and managed to put one of my boyfriend's ties and shirts into the toilet and flushed. 🤣

DerayRevan · 2023-09-29T00:26:16+00:00

"We don’t need women, we want women"

Exactly, men want/love bitches

Let's embrace that

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-29T00:26:31+00:00

So I've been reading about how a lot of male models are struggling 🙏 and I was thinking that niggas should just get a becky buxx girlfriend. Women WILL gladly pay for broke gigachad.

Maffioze · 2023-09-29T00:28:37+00:00

My gf is so pretty.

Yuruyakatou · 2023-09-29T00:30:27+00:00

Male mental health awareness is a psyop. No one cares about mens feelings. They want you to be more vulnerable around them so they have ammunition to use against you.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-09-29T00:32:54+00:00

Ive only seen getting "jacked" become a game changer for dudes who already had a ton of girl friends and some barebones level of game. Now if the dude could already pull while being a fat fuck, once he became really fit then it was like adding jet fuel to a bonfire.

Every gymcel I talk to is just very lame and doesn't know how to spark a girls interest or is on the spectrum which sucks for them

Slipthe · 2023-09-29T00:50:52+00:00

I'm realizing that, as an incel, if you tell a girl, "I was waiting for the right one."

You have the potential to make a girl feel really special with that line. That's kind of the secret to men and women, they both want to feel special.

And something like that is going to make you come across as intentional, not desperate.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-09-29T00:59:25+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/KitchenConfidential/s/Cls9nmCgUs

I've been wondering would Brittany be considered fat here. I don't think so but idk

Slipthe · 2023-09-29T01:00:35+00:00

Sometimes I read shit like this:

My kid is the best and the worst thing that ever happened to me. I have such great highs and such low lows. But the highs definitely outweight the lows and hes so worth the hard work.

And I think it's just cope. The high highs are just like... the bare minimum given that your new 'normal' is worse than your normal was before having kids.

Like it's gotta be that your life has essentially become the trenches of parenting, and whenever something isn't absolutely shitty or mind-numbing you're like, "wow amazing."

These are my intrusive thoughts that keep me on the fence.

Slipthe · 2023-09-29T01:10:58+00:00

PPD Women: Ok, so how will (men without sex/relationships/whatever) be fixed?
Me: I propose (perfectly reasonable solution that might slightly inconvenience women).
PPD Women: WHAT??!? Absolutely not! That's coercion! Why should women fuck ugly disgusting men just so those losers can get laid? Sex isn't even important anyway.
Me: Why? I thought women had basic human decency. Huh. According to you, a PPD woman, women have no capacity to empathize with others .. okay .. but you sound very myogenetic.

dela_man12 · 2023-09-29T01:47:43+00:00

I’m not fully healed and I know that log term I’m incompatible with this woman but I’m thinking of getting into a relationship with her anyways and wasting a few years of her time. The goal is to become so high value in that time that she struggles to replace me (at least fitness wise and financially). Thoughts?

p.s. I’m still not going to marry her

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-29T01:59:16+00:00

How many else struggle with starting to hate women? Day by day, I give less of a fuck about women and what I say online, form negative opinions about them as a whole and starting to just not want to date them ever in my life. Genuine good experiences with women my age throughout my life has been so small and shortlived that it's simply not enough for me to continue wanting to interact with them.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-29T02:35:58+00:00

As cultish as no fap might appear, my most succesful phase was when I was on it. I told myself I'm not going to touch (or summon if you will) the kraken until I start going on more dates. It worked because now I was forced to go out more. Motivation wasn't high enough before that

potoricco · 2023-09-29T02:47:03+00:00

It is WAY too easy to find graphic content on twitter like i just saw a video of a guy jumping off a bridge … totally unprompted, no warning, I don’t interact with those types of videos so like what was that for. Twitter is a shithole the only thing keeping me there are my mutual

DuetLearner · 2023-09-29T03:09:53+00:00

Y’all want to see my DMs with someone? 👀

DM.

dbz__f · 2023-09-29T03:13:31+00:00

My gf is too cute

meteorness123 · 2023-09-29T03:21:07+00:00

Be grateful, you could have been this guy :

https://usreporter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/2.png

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-29T03:34:30+00:00

I feel like such a fool for ever thinking girls in school would want to date someone like me with special needs. They would sometimes openly make fun of those type of kids (the kids obviously had more issues than I did otherwise I wouldn't be in the same class as these girls) so I don't know why I ever thought I had any chances.

DuetLearner · 2023-09-29T03:50:41+00:00

Does anyone want to chat? Down for some convo.

Blocksplain · 2023-09-29T04:08:47+00:00

And then women receive attention and women receive attention and women receive attention and outlier women on dating subreddits protest but women receive attention and women receive attention and women receive attention

Society will be fine

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-29T04:16:29+00:00

QFM: when you talk about women on here, do you have specific women in mind? Like women you know IRL or in your personal life who do x y and z. Or is it just general with no specific image of a particular woman or women in your head

hannahg000 · 2023-09-29T04:17:55+00:00

guy on the subway caught me looking at his ass, i think. not my proudest moment 😭

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-29T04:23:03+00:00

ADHD is the most bullshit made-up "disorder". Humans have been hunter-gatherers and farmers doing hands-on physical work for their entire lives from childhood to the grave, the trend of forcing kids to sit in a classroom for 6 hours a day is incredibly recent. It's not "disordered" for people, especially boys, to not want to sit still and learn things that bore them.

lolmastr13 · 2023-09-29T04:25:28+00:00

I hate having a crush, PAIN

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-29T04:26:35+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/ThailandTourism/s/JBVYDIv3VW

The rare passport sis thread

sine120 · 2023-09-29T04:48:34+00:00

u/Ainsleygz vs u/AngeCruelle, who's winning in a fight?

DeliveryBoy1821 · 2023-09-29T04:54:28+00:00

Finally bit the bullet and got on test. The mental benefits are in my book way way more beneficial then the gym benefits (which are also awesome). I can finally walk into a room with my chest up, I can finally feel comfortable saying what I want without worrying about what other people think. I'm no longer worried about the slightest confrontation or argument. I can finally be who I really truly am. I legit feel like I have been liberated from a lifetime of low self esteem and anxiety. And I did not have low T before, I was above average, and I was already fairly jacked as a natural. So it's not like I didn't try before.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-09-29T04:56:35+00:00

fuck recursion so bad dear fucking lord. not even chatgpt can help me

blebbyroo · 2023-09-29T05:15:21+00:00

Any one read this fresh aita yet? Virgin lashes out at chad brother probably deeply ruined their relationship.

https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/SKYImxGeOz

lolmastr13 · 2023-09-29T05:30:09+00:00

Have you ever had people take pictures of you randomly? 3-4 times where I think girls have done so 1) kinda weird 2) what do you want from meeeee

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-29T05:32:13+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/uiuyqgo9s4rb1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d499a2a02819cdda84fb9e7cd64626aff1fd68e6

I think this is incredibly telling of the truth of the situation we find ourselves in. Alot of guys in this internet space think women hate their precense and that's not true.

I think this is the root cause of why so many men are checked out of dating.

shanshkrishur · 2023-09-29T05:45:02+00:00

Amongst the top posts in TwoXChromosomes:

All posts complaining about men. All contain highly upvoted comments where the female users generalize men in negative and degrading ways.

One post is literally titled: “Help. I am concerned that I seriously despise and am repulsed all men.”

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16uigcq/help_i_am_concerned_that_i_seriously_despise_and/

This one particular post having multiple women saying they’d prefer to never deal with men and that they essentially disdain them. Pure bigotry.

Isn’t it curious how Reddit allows such virulent hatred to go unchecked but even the most tame RedPill subs are banned or quarantined?

Just read the comments on that thread, and imagine it being about men saying the same disparaging thing about women and how they wish they’d never have to even see them. And yes, though surely some men did stuff to those man-hating women, surely there’s plenty that could cause men to not hate women, like cheating and monkey branching (and all general manifestations of hypergamy) just as an example. Neither of those justify hating half of humanity.

I can already hear the apologists saying that when women disparage men it’s deserved, but never when men disparage women. To hell with your hypocrisy and double standards.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-29T05:47:50+00:00

No hair, no life

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-29T05:55:19+00:00

So was that women want a dad bod shit all just Bs? Because I never benefited from it lol

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-29T07:17:14+00:00

My husband just left for a few days. He been really stressed out. It’s made me stressed out. I’m just gonna have myself a smoke and chill in the quietude. 🪷

business_explained · 2023-09-29T08:46:22+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cve-swWgibx/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Fuckkk I need her🤤😪😣. How can some dudes see this and still be gay.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-29T08:49:21+00:00

Dolls are so cool actually what the heck

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-09-29T08:58:41+00:00

At what point does sweetness become simpery?

Let's say a friend really likes a certain girl and he tells me that after talking to this girl, she has confirmed that the feeling is mutual. However, he's concerned that he's beginning to simp for her hard. For instance, he cooks meals for her, he brings her chocolate whenever he visits her and most recently paid for some of her school expenses. I think he's just trying to be sweet, but I haven't been too successful with women, so I doubt I'm the right person to pass judgement.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-29T09:22:07+00:00

There’s a certain level of arrogance to believe anytime you fail or take a L in something, the game, the system etc is “rigged” lol. Like me or my friends can’t just suck at something it has to be some type of outside factor

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-29T09:26:11+00:00

I think the whole idea of funerals is kinda weird. When I go just cremate me and keep it moving.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-29T09:50:06+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/dating/s/IpZfL3rDdo

this girl is dumb as fuck. i feel bad for her but how you going to let a guy go raw just because he said he’s “infertile.” and now he wants to take her anal virginity 🙄

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-29T10:07:58+00:00

What happened to the Body Positivity movement is one of the saddest failures of societal awareness. The Fat Acceptance and HAES nutters just couldn't resist taking over the community to spew their ridiculous, completely unscientific beliefs. Now Body Positivity is synonymous with "You're obese and there's nothing wrong with that, don't let doctors tell you differently, and anyone who isn't attracted to you is a bigot"...

That was never the point.

ratboi34 · 2023-09-29T10:32:32+00:00

Do you guys know any good age gap romance movies?

Ok_Cable3215 · 2023-09-29T10:43:08+00:00

A girl I used to know over 6 years ago, had superliked me on Tinder, I liked her back, and it was a match... I did not recognize her, but she messaged me first told me she remembered me, and asked me what I was up to. We wrote a little bit back and forth, now 6 years ago I did not think we had a lot of chemistry, nevertheless I asked if she was open to meeting and catching up and she literally wrote "I can't right now I'm super busy haha". I'm not mad about the rejection, but I just feel akward. I would never have asked her out if it were in any other setting. I just wish she had made that clear to me in her first message, like damn I feel so embarrassed.

okaybear2point0 · 2023-09-29T10:57:48+00:00

how much help does mr run and dunk need

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-09-29T11:12:43+00:00

I believe that women should never swipe right on men more attractive than them on online dating if they don't want to be used and dumped. So if a girl is a 6/10, she should only swipe on 6/10 men or below.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-29T11:24:49+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/s/4Ye5mWYTF7

But they get threatened by porn women lmao.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-29T11:25:12+00:00

It’s weird how people can go from wanting to be treated like an adult as a child to wanting to be babied as an adult (it’s me. I’m people)

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-29T11:26:59+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/16uzpv0/people_who_dont_like_children_are_immature/

Needs to be said.

business_explained · 2023-09-29T11:51:44+00:00

Q4W: What would you rate each band member in the video clip of House Of The Rising Sun? So singer, guitarist, bassist, drummer and pianist.

https://youtu.be/N4bFqW_eu2I?feature=shared

0DarkFlirty · 2023-09-29T12:08:22+00:00

"It's impossible to shame a man who's still getting his dick sucked. It's ever harder to shame a man who's trying to" - Sun Tzu

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-29T12:14:22+00:00

I think I'm slipping towards being a "fat hater" and I don't like it.

Obviously the HAES and Fat Acceptance nutters are a minority and should be treated with ridicule. But I'll hear things from obese people who aren't those nutters by any metric that are still clearly false.

"I really don't eat that much yet I don't lose weight!"

No. Not true. It's just not.

They'll claim they don't eat much, then have a bag of nuts as a snack which comes out to 700+ calories. They'll claim they don't eat much, yet will have a meal every day which is easily over 1500 calories and don't even realise it. My mate says he doesn't eat many calories yet has a large burrito for lunch basically everyday...bruh.

I get that it often comes from a place of innocent ignorance, but we've gone so far the other way as a society that informing them of this clear ignorance is seen as something ghastly.

No, you don't have to lose weight if you want to. Yes, BMI is incredibly flawed as a metric when applied to an individual. Yes, no one should be an arsehole to you or have prejudices against just for having excess body fat....but I don't think it's asking much at all to be aware of how many calories you are actually consuming and the health implications obesity can have.

It's gotten to the point where any form of weight loss advice or content is seen as encouraging eating disorders, that asking people to be aware of how many calories they are actually consuming is feeding into eating disorder culture...fuck off with that nonsense.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-29T12:36:57+00:00

My husband is taking a break from me for a few days with my encouragement. I think it will do him some good but it may be a “Bangkok has him now” scenario.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-09-29T12:44:59+00:00

What's worse, a man lying about having seen sex workers or a woman lying about her n-count?

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-29T12:52:50+00:00

Another hottake: societal progress is a bigger reason for this loneliness and atomization thing than technology. To give an example of what I mean: vegans are hated less these days than they used to be. Actually when the topic comes up, you can see more people admit that yes, the meat industry is kind of... disgusting. And guess what, it's still going.

I think that's very emblematic of where we are right now. The fact of the matter is, I think it's reasonable for humans to kind of cringe. It is. We literally live in a fundamentally hierarchical world ran by sociopaths, and this is becoming less and less of a "crazy communist hippy" hottake and more of just... a mainstream, common knowledge kind of thing. But it's still going. And so humans cringe, and feel awkward. As they should be, honestly. It's perfectly natural to feel cringe and awkward and distrustful of others in a fundamentally hierarchical world.

Dashing2025 · 2023-09-29T13:07:21+00:00

I cannot believe how weak those traditionalist conservative men are: like a helpless child they want to work a full-time job and pay the bills... and expect their partner to do all the housework!

Imagine a woman doing the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and childcare, while the husband gets away with doing just one thing: paying the bills, how lazy!

Those conservative traditionalist men need to man up and take more responsibility in the household.

Dashing2025 · 2023-09-29T13:07:59+00:00

I cannot believe how weak those traditionalist conservative men are: like a helpless child they want to work a full-time job and pay the bills... and expect their partner to do all the housework!

Imagine a woman doing the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and childcare, while the husband gets away with doing just one thing: paying the bills, how lazy!

Those conservative traditionalist men need to man up and take more responsibility in the household.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-29T18:06:45+00:00

Fucking hate that all the autism content I see on social media are plagued with 95% women. No male creators that I can relate too. All of them are extremely high functioning stupid normies who have dating lives, children or are married. Get the fuck out of here. People who really struggle can't even fathom the idea of someone being attracted to us. Where the hell are those types of creators rather than a sea of women shitting on autistic men.

business_explained · 2023-09-29T18:45:00+00:00

Yesterday a girl sat next to me on the train and she suddenly asked me what type of train this was to which I didn't know the answer and she put on her headphones. See ya' later virgins!

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But despite their fair ratings, they tend to ignore many of the women they find reasonably attractive and primarily target the most attractive females.

LOL