Daily Community Chat Megathread

sine120 · 2023-11-14T20:26:54+00:00

I was blocked for about 40 seconds. That was fun.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-14T20:13:11+00:00

I recently tried barefoot shoes the first time in my life and they are by far the most comfortable shoes I've worn so far. Let's see if this continues. For now, the hype is real.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-14T20:07:20+00:00

I'm the same age as my mother now when she had me. I don't feel young knowing that. 😾

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T20:06:46+00:00

Im the devil

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CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-14T20:04:59+00:00

how do I wear skirts without looking like a tryhard

I just wanna wear stockings with my boots... it's such a cute look

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T19:56:45+00:00

Whether this is true or not some of you cant even disagree with this Bc the way you talk about non virgins 💀

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EulenWatcher · 2023-11-14T19:54:52+00:00

"You can become your own Korean mommy".

Okay, I'm sold. I'm making a batch of kimchi this weekend and Korean mealpreap overall.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-14T19:49:51+00:00

Who watches anime more, blue pillers or red pillers?

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-11-14T19:47:55+00:00

How old were you when you had your first kid?

I’ve been thinking about the population situation and it doesn’t look good. We need more people unless technology starts taking over and doesn’t screw us all. But to have children you really need a dual income household and even that might not be enough of a cushion, so to speak.

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-14T19:42:57+00:00

I hate Taylor swift fans who act like not liking Taylor Swift automatically makes you a misogynist. Swifties are so obnoxious. Not liking the music of a billionaire white lady doesn’t mean you hate all women

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-14T19:41:56+00:00

Bro, I stopped playing video games after I got red pilled. I could no longer get any fulfillment from playing them.

SMV maxxing > Video games

Peacesquad · 2023-11-14T19:41:29+00:00

Pair bond with me now or else

Peacesquad · 2023-11-14T19:39:29+00:00

Peacesquad · 2023-11-14T19:38:17+00:00

Seggs

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T19:37:47+00:00

Its not because youre ugly its bc YEW as a person arent cool Go outside

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-14T19:32:49+00:00

"Why do people judge passport bros?"

Passport bros in question:

Barneysparky · 2023-11-14T19:29:08+00:00

Someone just told me here that because I was inexperienced I would be shocked when I meet a man who arouses me by looking good.

Ive never been called inexperienced!

Willow-girl · 2023-11-14T19:13:19+00:00

This morning I gave my man sixteen thousand dollars to go buy the tractor we looked at the other day.

I thought he'd be home by now.

Hmm ...

NeonCityNights · 2023-11-14T19:12:49+00:00

JustPearlyThings

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-14T19:11:36+00:00

I feel like my body language or something add to the reason I don't get romantically approached and adds to my unattractiveness. I think it's better nowadays but I had an awkward posture and walk. Mother bought me a posture brace in high school so I guess it was really noticeable. My voice of course I know is funny, nasally and young sounding so there's that too.

I don't know I just wish I knew how people perceived me. I've had two women legitimately call me a retard before so maybe I'm more stick out more than I thought.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-11-14T19:00:32+00:00

I've gone through most of my life operating with the idea that using my brains for income is always superior to using my body.

This idea was planted and encouraged by my parents; poor immigrant who attained UMC status with college education and white collar work.

But this idea was formed before the explosion of the wellness industry on the internet.

In the late aughts/early 2010's I dipped my toes in posting yoga vids on very early youtube. It was ok, but I couldn't overcome a sense of...shame(?) and embarrassment. My husband encouraged me, but I couldn't mentally grapple with the idea countless people watching me, nor could I contend with constant content creation and monetization.

Anyway, 15ish years later I wonder if I would have been successful (like quit my career and live off the revenue) if I had stuck with it. So many of those early youtube fitness girls are now successful health lifestyle brands, have opened up their own fitness studios, etc.

Is that what people do when they close in on 40? Look back on the what-ifs and could-have-beens.

philseven12 · 2023-11-14T18:51:32+00:00

past traumas have caused me to develop certain skillsets that allow me to indulge with women on a physical level but i haven’t healed from what has happened. this is holding me back from having internal peace and healthy relationships.

almost all my experience with women comes from dealing with a certain demographic that are extremely unique when compared to “western” women. i have knowledge and a skillset built up that could help a lot of guys get to the next step and at least become active in the dating game instead of being observers on the sideline.

self reflection reminds me that before i can offer solutions and strategies that could benefit others, i need to work on clearing out the traces of resentment from my own shit.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-14T18:47:02+00:00

why is it unfair to men that women are pickier

men: willing to fuck anything he finds attractive

women: willing to fuck anything she finds attractive

seems kinda fair idk. men also have the option to be picky

Choice-Substance-183 · 2023-11-14T18:44:51+00:00

Why do so many men in this sub expect that if they meet 1 woman that she'll be the answer to all their problems, sadness, and will be the woman they spend the rest of their life with?

Seems like they put a lot of pressure on themselves to find love at the first option available.

Whatever happened to dating multiple people?

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-14T18:35:47+00:00

Polygamy needs to be legalized. We need to stop discriminating against poly people. Our society is very polyphobic. We can't stop homophobia and transphobia if we don't also stop polyphobia.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-14T18:24:42+00:00

Have I hit rock bottom for considering my birthday and new years just another day, or have I simply matured?

Up till around age 19 those days felt magical to me but now it's meh

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-14T18:05:41+00:00

Covid is brutal. I woke up at 4am with a fever of 104.3. That was crazy.

Gladboys · 2023-11-14T18:04:54+00:00

are options you would never take truly options?

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-14T17:59:25+00:00

Around half of the guys in my high school class only had crushes on the three or so most popular girls in the grade, yet you don’t hear me bitching about being beta buxxed when men like me now

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-14T17:54:38+00:00

Nah, most Tradcons are hypocritical and out of touch with reality. They tell young guys to shun teenage love & college fun but still expect them to be married by 25.

Bro, how do you expect some one to shun women through his youth and still be married by 25? Grade A nonsense.

PS; This is coming from a fellow Tradcon

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-14T17:49:50+00:00

Some guy just told me he thinks 66% is just barely over 1/2 (50%).

I don't know why I keep having normal expectations when I come here. At this point, I should expect I will be talking to mental children unless proven otherwise.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-11-14T17:33:55+00:00

Single parents raise single sons, but not daughters.

Single parents raise significantly more children with anxious attachment style, reasons for this are quite obvious... they have less resources and time to fulfil children's needs.

When it comes to attachment styles only men with preoccupied anxious attachment style are significantly more likely to be single. Not women. Not enough data for fearful avoidant (smallest group, and hardest to identify).

Women get to celebrate single parenthood, because they are not on the receiving end of it.

I have data for all of this, don't feel like making a CMV.

scwizard · 2023-11-14T17:30:16+00:00

I had a boss like aggressively and grossly harassing me for a year, while I was confiding in my best friend/coworker (this was in my twenties when this seemed totally normal to meet a bestie at my job). She had worked there longer and would tell me he was harmless despite him doing some pretty creepy shit. Cut to the next year when she finally confessed that she’d been sleeping with him for the past 2-3 years! Throughout our friendship, she would tell me about this older man she referred to as “M,” whom she loved desperately but was married. I would console her and encourage her to move on. Imagine my shock to learn that her M was the very same person who had been making my work life hell - a gross nightmare monster of a boss that was stopping by my house unasked with inappropriate gifts and making me scared to say no to business trips. She had basically been keeping me quiet while also being jealous of the attention he showed me (yes, she admitted this too).

She was shocked that I was upset by the big reveal and our friendship never recovered. I left the job and a few years later I heard his business was shut down after a bunch of ex-employees sued him for sexual harassment.

With besties like this who needs haters...

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-14T17:29:52+00:00

Bro, such posts prove that most incels here are fake-cels. There's some one for every one out there -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/blackladies/comments/17uth0w/celebrating_our_wedding_anniversary_this_past

2_SD_left_of_mean · 2023-11-14T17:28:47+00:00

apd is banned

jaybalvinman · 2023-11-14T17:24:47+00:00

where do older men hang out? There are only little kids in bars and clubs. I want grown men.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-14T17:21:55+00:00

Men. Am I right ladies?

Peacesquad · 2023-11-14T17:21:48+00:00

Women. Am I right fellas?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-14T17:18:28+00:00

I'm watching this YouTube video and the guy is suggesting men delete dating apps because most women are looking for a man who is top .32% and he suggests men instead put themselves in situations where they have to talk to women more often.

My question for people who advocate for that is this, assuming women really are as shallow as TikTok and Tinder show, why would you want to meet someone in person who otherwise wouldn't be attracted to you? this idea of building a relationship with someone that way seems so precarious and unstable.

It's like, ok, sure, you might be able to win her over in person if you aren't filtered out, but the fact remains she would filter you out if she could. She will never love you or desire you.

That just doesn't seem ideal to me. I want to know where I stand with the women I'm seeing. Like my partner is very in love with me and a lot of the other girls I've been involved with have genuinely liked me.

I couldn't imagine dating someone and trying to win them over and being scared it would fall apart at any moment. The only way that arrangement would be worth it is if you intend to pump and dump them.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-14T17:08:29+00:00

Something I find funny is that mother always talks about how deadbeat dads never get held accountable and the mother gets all the scrutiny. Firstly, that's just not true. Men (rightfully so) are always blasted nonstop for leaving their kids, I don't see anyone coming for the mother's head first whenever the relationship doesn't work out when kids are involved.

Also, mother doesn't realize the perspective of the shit ton of kids like me who grew up in single mother households hearing our mothers talk shit nonstop about our dads and just men in general. So in my experience, men absolutely do get held accountable for the shit that they do. Lol. I've never had an adult figure in my life say anything against women. Women of course aren't gonna say anything and all the men basically told me to just conform and work around women's behavior. That "happy wife, happy life" type rhetoric.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-14T16:57:28+00:00

Woman asks a man out for the first time, gets rejected and is devastated.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17usz2p/i_approached_a_guy_at_my_gym_and_it_went_so/

Welcome to the club. This is what men have to go through many times just to get one date.

But most men wouldn't react that coldly to a woman asking him out. She must be a fattie, so I dug into her profile and aha!

https://www.reddit.com/r/intermittentfasting/comments/15245lc/been_doing_if_for_a_week_and_a_half_now_and_have/

She does not have a healthy (19-21) BMI. What did she expect asking a fitness Chad out as a fattie.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-14T16:55:05+00:00

Something I've been thinking about is that I definitely objectify women. Porn has influenced a lot of men to put women into different categories. You see a woman and it is like ok this is a pawg, a milf, a teen, etc. Now rationally, I will concede with the feminists that this objectification is wrong and it doesn't allow women to have their own identity through the male gaze. I'm seeing these women as porn categories and not as human individuals.

BUT, the issue remains that these women exist so freely in their sexuality. Sure, I can objectify these women and put them into categories, but it is sort of a compliment, it is recognizing what is sexually appealing about them, and they own that. That sexiness is theirs and as men we are unable to be truly sexually liberated because these women aren't as attracted to us as we are to them.

Being attracted to women and objectifying them as the feminists say is an inherent rejection for the man.

So what is really the worse position to occupy in that scenario?

ratboi34 · 2023-11-14T16:45:17+00:00

I need to delete tiktok asap. I just saw some grandma trying to sell me some manifestation practice and some lesbian trying to advertise her male self improvement course. The rest of my fyp are misandry edits, mogged slideshows and cooking tutorials.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-14T16:30:30+00:00

Idk why guys are think they're any different from the “Where Have All The Good Men Gone” bitches.

These guys will ignore women who are normal, decent, stable, just to hyper focus on on dysfunctional women who date terrible/dangerous men and fuck every guy she sees.

How the FUCK am I suppose to take these guys seriously?!

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T16:22:52+00:00

No srsly though

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monster_lily · 2023-11-14T16:22:33+00:00

Buy me these jeans

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Dusttyy · 2023-11-14T16:19:47+00:00

Is blocking numbers/social media account just a power move/passive message women do? They tend to use it under the guise of safety, which I don't blame you for... but what exactly does that accomplish in that regard? I understand if you just don't want to hear from the person again or be bothered, but that's rarely what's said. Safety could come into play if you share a lot of info on social media in real time, but that would take a lot of active sleuthing by the perp to do anything with. And even then, creating a new account is pretty easy, so you also have to make sure all your stuff is 'friends only' and you're carefully screening every request you get.

I think blocking could potentially even provoke the worst kind of person. If they already have your name and/or number, they can most likely find your address. I use a database to screen unknown calls I get, and it gives me a shocking amount of details--not just current address but past addresses, email address, names of relatives, names of "associates", etc. Apparently it's legal because it just pulls from public info like tax and property records.

I had a chat with a female colleague today about her dealing with a creep, which ultimately has me thinking about this. I stopped short of telling her much of the last part though, as I didn't want to scare her or come off as a creep myself... but I think women should be aware of it, especially if there are legitimate safety concerns.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-14T16:18:42+00:00

PPD men when a woman gets with a guy who she is attracted to: 😡😡😡

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-14T16:07:09+00:00

Fellas, you can't keep insisting that men and women are fundamentally different while you act like a bitch.

You are defeating your own argument.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-11-14T16:05:15+00:00

I keep seeing stuff about guys wanting girls with low iron, anyone know what that's about?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-14T22:26:27+00:00

Its funny watching American guys say “I just want an average chick, not a far chick.”

When you’re in a fat country, fat is average.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-11-15T09:34:29+00:00

I don't get it, why is "loose pussy" used as an insult for a promiscuous woman?

I had only 3 partners, but since two of those are/were long term relationships, I had sex way more times than my friend with a count of 14, who mostly had one night stands.

Wouldn't I be more "loose" than her lol

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-14T22:06:30+00:00

Men: Dating is hard for men. Women are shallow. No one wants us.

Me: What’s your success rate?

Men: I had sex with 2 women in the last two month but they were 3’s so it doesn’t count. I had to dumpster dive.

No one is going to feel sorry about the male loneliness epidemic if you are discarding the women who want you. If 3’s is all you can get, that’s your league. Pining over a 7 while ignore 3-5 and screaming that women are shallow is incredibly stupid.

scwizard · 2023-11-15T05:23:13+00:00

It's really distressing how the next generation thinks choking doesn't require express consent. That it's something you do "spontaneously" in bed.

Consent to sex isn't consent to choking.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-14T15:16:39+00:00

Get looks or perish trying

relish5k · 2023-11-15T02:19:07+00:00

Watching Beauty and the Beast the other day with my 3 year old when it occurred to me:

Women see themselves as Belle. They don’t like Gaston because he’s an arrogant prick. They want a guy who’s “different” while functionally still being a typical hottie, maybe there’s like one thing off about him. But he’s essentially just as hot as Gaston, maybe even hotter (Beast is hotter than the price he turns into: fight me).

But men don’t see women as Belle. They see women as the 3 blonde sisters who spend the entire movie swooning over Gaston. They don’t really care about Belle, sure maybe for an LTR, but what they want are those three hot women. And those three hot blondes want Gaston.

So ladies, when guys hear say “yes women want Chad” and you, yourself, do not want Chad just remember - if your mind, you are Belle. But in their mind, you’re one of the silly hot blond ladies.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-14T15:25:51+00:00

(Reposting my good morning qualifications to the new daily thread, oops)

Good morning to everyone who:

Drank coffee or tea this morning
Has a favorite color that includes baby blue, lavender, forest green, or hot pink
Uses any Apple product, or
Would not use company database to illegally obtain a customer's phone number, over one year after delivering her parcel, just to ask her out for coffee.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-15T00:06:25+00:00

TIL guys here really dont want to think nor talk about why most of the women they know are terrible and dysfunctional.

wonder-mech · 2023-11-15T03:53:38+00:00

I saw a recent post on relationship advice subreddit in which the fiance who's partner passed away immediately slept with the housemate of her fiance best friend. The best friend got upset at them for sleeping in the house he shares with his housemate.

And the comment sections was full of self righteous sex positive folks who invalidated ops grieving and immediately defended the women right to sleep with anyone. They care about a women's capacity to have sex more than the grievance of OP.

This just shows how messed up people are. I know a bunch of women on here will defend the women but who cares. OP has right to feel upset especially when this happened suddenly after his best friend passed away and at his safe space. It just upsets me how they neglect ops feelings and defend the women and housemate just because they had sex.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-15T08:30:04+00:00

I feel like the paternity test conversation is like the passport bro conversation.

Nobody here is even close to do either

hannahg000 · 2023-11-15T11:58:22+00:00

i’ve come to the conclusion that i’m not normal and don’t have normal experiences. i’ve reached this conclusion about other areas of my life but i’ve officially reached this conclusion about my (nonexistent) dating life.

i need to nichemax for the demographic of guys that like weird quiet (possibly autistic) girls who don’t leave the house. hopefully, the men in this demographic are 6ft+, make 7 figures, and act like Mr. Darcy. what are the odds?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-14T15:05:07+00:00

How many serious relationships have you had?

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T15:45:33+00:00

So have you figured out why men here like bragging about being shitty people

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T23:34:54+00:00

No but i just saw this on twitter rn And as much as rp ppl love to be paranoid and hysteric aboyt divorce they literllly do stuff that is more likely to lead to a divorce isnt that just so hypocritical

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hannahg000 · 2023-11-15T02:49:21+00:00

sometimes i wonder what alternative universe people live in where plain, average women get tons of attention. if you are average and don’t stand out socially, then men are not coming out the woodworks to date you

Steakman1 · 2023-11-15T02:57:24+00:00

Do you think vegans get offended when you say “nice to meet you” instead of “nice to plant you”?

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-11-15T03:37:05+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/s/kUWOlrJiVB

Oh okay so women don't want equality lmao

md8716 · 2023-11-15T04:35:45+00:00

I've noticed that so many women's actions in life seem to revolve around living in fear of destitution.

As a girldad, my #1 goal is to raise an easygoing, kind woman whose hopes and dreams guide her choices rather than her fears and worries. I'm going to free her from this capitalist slave machine and give her the most important thing: freedom.

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-15T04:52:25+00:00

Here's mainstream reddit's take on a popular ppd topic, why are women often seen as more attractive than their male counterparts?

Why is there seemingly more attractive women than men? : NoStupidQuestions (reddit.com)

For starters, I remember reading about this topic in the book Evolution of Desire. This trend seems to be stable and universal where women rated the average man to be below average in terms of looks while the men tend to rate women's attractiveness along a normal distribution.

What are y'alls thoughts and explainations?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-15T12:13:05+00:00

Anyone else gotten DMs from some user called grand_duty that just say "correct" with a link to some guy's lecture about why you shouldn't have sex before marriage?

Just wondering if it's a case of mistaken identity or just random schizo messaging.

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T15:44:04+00:00

Guyss my mom told me my hemoglobin value is 8.7

ratboi34 · 2023-11-14T15:49:20+00:00

Men can definitely open up to a woman. It just has to be about the right thing and in the right way.

If you open up about anxiety, stress, fear or insecurity that's obviously an ick.

But if you open up about your best friend getting stabbed and getting beaten up as a kid by your alcoholic father that's actually a potential attractor if you play your cards right.

You also need to do it in a cool way. Nobody wants to see a man ugly cry. You need to open up in your deepest voice at nighttime while only a singular tear rolls down your cheek.

Choose your fucking traumas right.

itzReborn · 2023-11-14T22:05:18+00:00

Just seen a guy rizz up a girl on the train and honestly it looked easy for him. Wish i had that type of sauce

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-14T23:02:24+00:00

Men are saying this woman is asking too much for wanting a man who makes $250k a year.

Men have reached levels of peak delusion that they’re even getting pissed about Stacy wanting wealthy Chad.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-15T00:58:43+00:00

today my mom was telling me about one of my cousins who is a pothead but waiting for marriage to have sex. she said that she’d rather me have tons of sex than smoke weed

old_new_age · 2023-11-15T02:10:24+00:00

APD banned time for an incel brigade

macone235 · 2023-11-15T10:23:52+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/comments/17va4p8/aita_for_telling_my_friend_that_he_has_no_right/

Average man is "lucky" to have a date with a 1/10 according to women.

The state of things are comical.

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-15T11:33:25+00:00

A small bit of advice to all lonely men out there: Avoid escorts, Onlyfans and the like. Most of the women are doing it because they can make good money (in theory at least), but they dislike it and are struggling to hide their disgust and contempt for the men who actually pay. I stumbled across a couple of sexworker forums and it really opened my eyes.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-15T11:47:34+00:00

I most often think that the straw man of "bluepillers" is ridiculous, but sometimes I'll see some outrageous claims like "women don't care about height" and think that maybe they have a point...

Guys, you can disagree with TRP and refrain from being needlessly contrarian.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-14T15:02:58+00:00

First 👁👁

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-14T15:05:51+00:00

Third

itzReborn · 2023-11-14T15:23:23+00:00

What is suppose to give someone self confidence and self esteem? I understand to an extent why they are attractive qualities to have, but how do I know I have either. What accomplishments leads to having enough to be considered attractive

saulbasedman · 2023-11-14T15:37:21+00:00

Do leftists in the US ever wonder why evil big companies such as Google, Amazon, Apple and Facebook donate 10x more to democrats than republicans?

Sillysheila · 2023-11-14T22:36:33+00:00

The weather where I live (QLD): 32c possible severe thunderstorm 33c thunderstorms and rain 30c thunderstorms and rain

And each day has a humidity index of 80-90%

Howdy y’all I’m from Miami, Australia 🤠

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-14T22:42:13+00:00

I miss house/apartment parties so much. And partying in general. I want to go to a party

Gladboys · 2023-11-14T22:46:57+00:00

ok adderall and viagra gave me such an insane fucking hangover holy shit this is forbidden technology

Choice-Substance-183 · 2023-11-14T23:05:15+00:00

I had no idea that people COUNT their sexual partners. And there's a whole thread dedicated to the discussion about it. What a bizarre time to be alive.

exponentialtaxi · 2023-11-15T00:25:57+00:00

Any spicy reddit tea?

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-15T01:07:10+00:00

Q4All: DC or Marvel? I’m not asking which movies are better or what comics are better but rather just curious as to what people of this sub prefer.

I like DC, mainly because I think they have wayyy better female super heroes (Super Girl, Raven, starfire, wonder women, hawk girl, black canary, Zatanna, Harley Quinn, Catwomen etc.) and also have wayyyy better villains then marvel (Joker hard carries but still a lot of cool villains like Lex Luther, Reverse Flash, Darksied.

Only thing that can rival DC on Marvels side is X-men and Spider-Man.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-15T02:08:13+00:00

There's a reddit user who once a months DMs me this link

Wait until marriage to have sex - Mark Gungor

I'm sorry dude, it's too late for that lol. It's also pretty funny to be in someone's hoe list. I actually want to be a hoe, my life is so boring.

Gladboys · 2023-11-15T02:37:19+00:00

i don't personally know anyone who is hyper successful and has hair. my mentor, bald. my idol, bald. bezos, bald. the smartest guy I know? bald at 15.

baldness=greatness, my buzz cut is a faulty imitation and i will be shaving my head bald to expose the youthful and pale baldness inside of me soon enough.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-15T07:52:42+00:00

I tried to fight this virus, but they said I have to go in and be admitted to the hospital. I can't swallow. I can't drink. I can't talk either. My throat is too swollen. A sip is excruciating

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-11-15T09:36:42+00:00

am I getting shadowbanned on this subreddit? Recently it feels like my comments get no engagement and I recently tried to post and it was waiting for automod approval despite not being very long and most of my former posts being put up automatically.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-15T12:20:00+00:00

The plight of Indian and Arab passport bros:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thailand/s/dSsmdyktif

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-11-15T12:56:39+00:00

A lot of times when I'm in a social situation and a girl talks to me, like she might not even be interested and is just talking but suddenly every other guy starts bringing up embarrassing or dumb things up about me to her. This has happened to me thrice, any other guy here faced this? Crazy how competitive and desperate dudes get

RahLyt · 2023-11-15T15:21:38+00:00

I don't know what it is. I don't know if it's because women are trained to be politically correct from birth or if virtue signalling is literally seen as a virtue. But it's very rare to find a women online who's honest.

Lol have you ever noticed that women online have no flaws? They have been in a relationship for 22 years and never had an argument. They never made mistakes. They were never attracted to the wrong people, never had inappropriate thoughts, they are all very logical and mentally stable.

Sometimes it feels like I'm speaking with a caricature.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-15T15:53:26+00:00

I guess I'm feeling more feminist today 🙄

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-15T16:01:53+00:00

My wife sent me a TikTok this morning. It was about how the sun goes down before work is over. It was this girl and she closes her laptop, lights a candle, and is returned to the 1600s. That was the joke.

It's so interesting to me, like I go on TikTok and I just get street interviews of girls being like "ohhh I need a man thats 6'14" inches tall and makes 6501k a year" and shit and then I talk to women and it's like they are rarely that bad. Those women seem to only exist in my phone. Like the fresh and fit and whatever podcast they always bring on these women that I have never interacted with before in my life. I feel like those are the girls from high school that were bullying people and ended up going to jail for stealing pharmaceutical drugs from the elderly to resell. Like shitty people.

And all the manosphere stuff is so cringe. Like they talk nonsense. And it isn't like the male feminist content creators are any better, they're cringe af too but for different reasons.

Idk man, this is all too chronically online.

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Purple_Kangaroo8549 · 2023-11-14T21:11:32+00:00

I love getting oral while driving.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-14T21:16:11+00:00

"The future is female" Is this statement misandrist?

saulbasedman · 2023-11-14T22:02:44+00:00

Here's a choice: Would you still have child if there was a 100% chance he'll grow up to be an incel and depressed? No matter what you do, you will not change his outcome.

On one hand I still want to give him a shot at life but there'll be so much suffering for him as well.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-14T22:08:35+00:00

How would you order these qualities -kind -hot -wealthy -loyal

AethertheEternal · 2023-11-14T22:21:19+00:00

Describe your ideal partner:

Physically: Pale complexion, +5/10 face, healthy weight (preferences: thin nose, straight hair)

Personality: Reasonably agreeable and emotionally stable, faithful (if things don’t work out, we should be able to part ways as mature adults), wants to have a family with me

Social-Political views: Honestly, I don’t care as long as she’s not trying to become a media figure or actively getting involved in the political realm

Onefamiliar · 2023-11-14T22:53:42+00:00

What's up gamers?

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-11-14T23:53:56+00:00

Q4W: How much do you spend for a first date in terms of money and time? Please also describe the cost-of-living in your area.

I'm a guy in an expensive coastal city, it takes me about 30 minutes to shower and get ready, a $15-20 Uber to get to the date, $50 per person on average which I pay for 95% of the time, and a $15-20 Uber back home. Typical date is drinks and maybe appetizers, almost never sit-down dinner. That's $150 total and 3-4 hours from start to finish.

Some_Lawfulness_7092 · 2023-11-15T00:24:03+00:00

Lilith deleted her account 🤣 good riddance you dumb fat bitch.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-15T00:35:04+00:00

A woman needs to be aware that there is a difference between "girl pretty" and "boy pretty". Women tend to give wildly different ratings to other women than men do. I thought this was common knowledge, but now there's a whole tiktok trend on it.

Find 'boy pretty' on TikTok | TikTok Search

There needs to be an experiment done where you have a list of women and are told to order them in terms of increasing attractiveness. I suspect men and women will tend towards different orderings.

monster_lily · 2023-11-15T00:44:08+00:00

No but i cant even conceptualize what my life would be like as a guy Literally ive used male filters on myself but i cant even imagine it

monster_lily · 2023-11-15T00:48:15+00:00

Next week is literally gonna be Saurrrrr good bc. i only have 2 days of school next week and one of them is literally a free day its like a festival kinda for thanksgiving, plus my cousin is coming over from college Plus i get to watch the parade and cook and also prepare for christmas SO slayfulll

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-11-15T01:24:31+00:00

What is the theory and explanation on why low self esteem men and BPD women attract each other

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-15T01:45:07+00:00

Today my friend reprimanded me for liking every ig post/story of the people I like.

I don't like playing social media games. So what if they think I like them? I do like them.

I'm also very intense via chat or IRL. I use many emojis, I laugh a lot, I compliment friends a lot, I hug, I'm always suggesting plans to go out, etc.

But I still feel kind of bad about it. Is it really that bad? I'm tired of pretending I'm cool, I'm not, I'm an emotional affectionate mess.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-15T02:17:23+00:00

"If you let a bully come in your front yard, he'll be on your porch the next day and the day after that he'll rape your wife in your own bed." - Lyndon B Johnson

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-15T03:35:18+00:00

“My friend looks like the elephant man but is tripping over women because he’s 6ft+ bro”

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-15T06:10:18+00:00

On the way to Starbucks the other day, my eyes were assaulted by the sight of a homeless man’s scrotum. Stay safe out there…

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-15T06:26:11+00:00

What’s something you would splurge on if you could afford it? I almost never wear jewelry but I’m contemplating treating myself to a nice necklace.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-15T07:15:39+00:00

Do you guys think anabolic steroids should be legal? I'm not talking about sports (they can continue to kick out people who use them), but letting normal ass people go into stores and buy them for their own personal use. Would this help unattractive men?

mummydontknow · 2023-11-15T07:56:29+00:00

Which option are we rooting for here?

Option 1: a partner that would fuck your dead body to try to have another kid with you.

Option 2: a partner that would move on from your death in less than a month.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-15T09:26:13+00:00

How to have a more attractive face: wear sunglasses if it's sunny. If you are constantly squinting, that will change your face. I have Ray Bans aviators, cost $82. Expensive sunglasses fit better.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-15T11:27:42+00:00

Is there an area in the world with the climate of Los Angeles but without homeless, reasonably developed and ideally European?

dbz__f · 2023-11-15T11:49:08+00:00

Had a debate with le grillfreund

I was saying I think women don’t like nice guys. They prefer guys who push the boundaries, are dangerous, are more exciting.

She completely disagreed. She said women like guys who are nice and kind and gentle and who will be a good husband.

Thoughts?

Peacesquad · 2023-11-15T14:57:38+00:00

When women use the word “partner” to refer to their boyfriend or husband….🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Peacesquad · 2023-11-15T15:00:04+00:00

I’m Purplemaxxxxxxxing. Which means I’m deep diving so hard into this sub until I become a GigaChad Type 6 with a Thundercock and endless hordes of bitches. I mean sluts. I mean whores. I mean women

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-11-15T15:21:09+00:00

Okay now I really think I'm being shadowbanned, asked why my old post wasn't going up and was told the sub doesn't accept posts about feminism not related to relationships anymore. Cool, posted a new topic completely different and it's still not going up. Which mod did I piss off here?

Slipthe · 2023-11-15T15:23:36+00:00

What current slang or phrase annoys you?

monster_lily · 2023-11-15T15:40:01+00:00

Im reposting this in the new thread but Marrying/dating women significantly younger = BROKE

For apes we went on a website called dollar street and im telling you. Basically EVERY time there was a very poor family living in shack like buildings. The wife was always like 12 years younger. Even in the poorer countries, the more affluent and stable families there had parents close in age. So you encourage a non wealthy lifestyle when you encourage age gaps

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-15T15:54:39+00:00

Q4M Are there any of these nasty internet misandrists that have the reach and audience that say Andrew Tate or Fresh & Fit has?

monster_lily · 2023-11-15T15:55:17+00:00

I swear bro some ppl are just on a power trip i just got sent to the office for wearing a hoodie 💯

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-15T16:08:29+00:00

These feminists will come for PPD next, you have been warned -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17vd6fy/it_finally_happened_rallpilldebate_has_been_banned/

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-15T16:30:17+00:00

Bro, feminists will justify anything as long as it benefits them. ,-->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17vdqgv/why_cant_men_understand_that_ghosting_is_a/

How is this any different from Myron trying to justify emotional abuse and cheating?

Peacesquad · 2023-11-15T17:15:45+00:00

Ladies stop money shaming and date broke men! It’s time to step up and date men that earn less!!

Peacesquad · 2023-11-15T17:16:42+00:00

I’m fertile today. Are you?

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T15:47:03+00:00

Billie Eilish is based and always has been and always will be

monster_lily · 2023-11-15T03:04:56+00:00

Yet Again I Failed Another Goal Now I'm Sad

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-15T15:19:02+00:00

"The results from this study revealed that both feminists and nonfeminists held positive attitudes toward men. Contrary to the misandry stereotype, feminists did not exhibit significantly different attitudes toward men compared to nonfeminists. While there was no significant difference in hostility toward men, feminists were found to be less benevolent toward men than nonfeminists" -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17v6vue/large_psychology_study_debunks_stereotype_of/

Bro, these studies are clearly a joke. You mean the same people tweeting k*llallmen have positive attitudes towards men? The same people who call any non-woke man an incel?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-14T15:57:31+00:00

Matched with a woman I previously matched with years ago. We only txted a few times and never got together, she seems to have remembered we matched before, so that's a surprise! ( Often, women I have rematched with throughout the years don't recall txting, sometimes even meeting, and to my amazement, I have FUCKED a woman years ago, and she seemed to not even remember it !)

I'm playing nice because she is very attractive and sexy, but I am of the mind that if a woman has made the decision to stop pursuing romantically/sexually in the past and somehow returns to your present, she is no longer fit for anything "serious" or long term. She is strictly for fun, her prior action excluding her from anything more.

Q4M: Has this situation happened to you? Do you agree with me, or do you not accept them into your life, no matter how small the role, or do you do something else? I'm curious about your experiences.

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