Daily Community Chat Megathread

scwizard · 2023-11-16T23:31:36+00:00

Should I tell her "executive consultant" is a fancy term for secretary?

Maffioze · 2023-11-16T23:18:17+00:00

https://youtu.be/VNjyztyH168?si=QTmBREJ2GpII0T1v

Time for depressed vibes.

exponentialtaxi · 2023-11-16T23:10:01+00:00

Thinking about getting my partner a new phone for Christmas (so we can share the same USB C cable in the car) but I don't them to feel indebted. I'm thinking about saying my mom got it for her because she likes her (they have met). Is this genius or no

Keeenw · 2023-11-16T23:03:23+00:00

Q4W : is it usual for you to masturbate to pictures of attractive men you know IRL ? Like pictures on their social media in which they are shirtless.

monster_lily · 2023-11-16T22:53:49+00:00

Have you ever wondered why the average man/boy can do a tuck or backflip in less than 15 Minutes but girls have to train for months/years to do one

scwizard · 2023-11-16T22:52:17+00:00

As someone who has complexes regarding women, I'm super skeptical that there's a ton of well adjusted guys in their 30s who don't have complexes regarding women who can't get girlfriends.

In their 20s sure, but not in their 30s.

monster_lily · 2023-11-16T22:48:27+00:00

Ohh yeah and i want to flex more i got a 1300/1520 on the Psat NO studying and i am now eligible to be a national merit scholar. I might be one of the smartest here in terms of raw intelligence tbh. Maybe not top 10 But top 15 definitely

Keeenw · 2023-11-16T22:45:41+00:00

Fat woman swipes left on tinder : https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x6i8qmh

monster_lily · 2023-11-16T22:42:57+00:00

Hey Guys

ProfessorNaughty100 · 2023-11-16T22:28:19+00:00

I can’t believe there are actual sincere posts about “women don’t like nice guys.” Or that post about attractive people actually being heartless.

In fact, this whole sub has become one giant “revenge of the nerds” fantasy playground.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-16T22:25:39+00:00

I have stopped watching porn, but I think I have replaced it to some degree with baking videos of pretty women and soft voices. It gives me a sense of intimacy but raises my standards of what my future relationship will be like. If my wife doesn't bake Caramel Babka from time to time, I'm afraid I'll have to divorce her.

Keeenw · 2023-11-16T22:17:32+00:00

Ironic that if Elliot Rodger survived his murder rampage he would have received many fan mails and love letters from women and he would have been more popular than ever before.

Women truly hate unremarkableness in men and you need things like good looks; tall height; money; status; fame (even if you get it in the worst way possible like ER) to undo the unremarkableness.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-16T22:16:51+00:00

I had a fever of 104.6 today. Super weird because I didn't feel it at all. Thankfully they were able to bring it down very quickly with medicine and a cooling blanket.

grillopie · 2023-11-16T21:58:44+00:00

Q4W: do you hate tsunderes? Or girls who are hot and cold? Whenever i likened anyone to this trope they got offended, but i meant it as a compliment since im so drawn to them.

I feel like a pretty significant number of women are at least a little tsundere so i dont get why ive had to walk that statement back so carefully.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-16T21:55:16+00:00

Seriously people should stop bringing Margot Robbie into every discussion. She isn’t that attractive. Like, is she attractive to look at? Yeah sure, but would you fantasize about her at 11 pm in bed absolutely not.

Keeenw · 2023-11-16T21:47:13+00:00

Q4W : What would you rate Elliot Rodger ?

My assessment : although apparently ER had rich parents he lived in one of the richest neighbourhoods of L.A. with some of the toughest competition. He wouldn't be able to impress the girls there with his BMW. His face was average and he was short. Again many actual chads and celebrities living in his area. Along with his mental illness he never had any chance there. I think if he moved out of L.A. he would have been able to find an average girl; but not the blonde stacy he always wanted.

Sillysheila · 2023-11-16T21:43:03+00:00

Yesterday was a whirlwind! My partner and I been looking for a new car for a while. I didn’t know we were getting a car in the morning and by 4 pm we got one!

My partner was super lucky and just walked into the local Toyota. They had a cancelled order so, just like that, we got a new car, a Toyota Corolla (not sure if they’re in the states/the EU). It’s an EV hybrid too which I’ve wanted for a while. Petrol is so damn expensive these days and I like the idea it’s more environmentally friendly as I’m conscious of that stuff.

I’ll miss my little Mazda hatchback. It was my first car so a bit sentimental to say goodbye. If was already old when I got it though, it’s total BOMB and has a ton of stuff wrong with it. So I guess it’s also good in a way not to drive a death trap.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-16T21:41:08+00:00

Q4Women - If a guy wants you to split on a date are you seeing him again?

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2023-11-16T21:32:00+00:00

This Youtuber legit looks just like Elliott Rodger and is able to talk to women

Proof that ER's problem was his personality.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-16T21:25:34+00:00

"Why don't you go back to your home on Whore Island"

I just watched Anchorman again, there were so many famous people in that movie. Steve Carell before he did The Office. Fred Armisen before he did Portlandia. Jack Black punts a dog off a bridge, "That's how I roll"

ratboi34 · 2023-11-16T21:22:42+00:00

One of the worst things about aging as a man, is that middle aged women like you less and less as you hit your thirties. Losing that sweetness as we age is terrible and there is no way to retain it.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-16T21:21:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/soccer/comments/17wloy1/fcbarcelona_20_years_ago_today_leo_messi_made_his/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Rate young Messi

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-11-16T21:01:41+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/justneckbeardthings/s/TJFY6l94gO

Q4M: what

scwizard · 2023-11-16T20:57:33+00:00

Women: "how dare you suggest I'm attracted to violent men!"

Also women: https://www.foxbusiness.com/media/rage-room-owners-customers-engaging-sex-acts-intense-make-out-sessions

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-16T20:54:45+00:00

I think submissive people are just lazy cowards who want the other person to make decisions for them and blame them if they fail.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-16T20:49:11+00:00

Some lady posted a tiktok video about how her husband took such good care of her and provided for her and made sacrifices for her. Men in the comments weee saying all sorts of bitter, scathing things like “you offer nothing in exchange” “you look mid” “you’re ugly” “you abuse him” “you’re ungrateful”

the main theme in her profile is her cooking meals for him every day

This is a perfect example of male rage and toxicity.

You have a lady who dedicates an entire profile to waking up early to cook breakfast and lunch for her husband. And she posts APPRECIATION for her husband and all his hard work. And

men

Get offended and say it isn’t enough and that she’s ugly.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-16T20:44:33+00:00

Meeting old friends you haven’t seen in a while is an interesting experience. We recently had a game night, and some of my husband’s old band mates came. They were still buying that same cheap beer they used to buy, limited in their taste palette, stressed about work and their relationships.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-16T20:11:34+00:00

Seeing the victorious or iCarly thread made me remember how fucking sus Nickelodeon used to be with that Dan Shneider mfer. The scene that always stands out to me is the one in victorious where they are at the beach and Ariana Grande (or Cat) hangs out with some guys and they have a water gun fight and the dudes team up against her and there is just like 5 seconds of her enjoying getting water sprayed all over her (in a bikini top).

Great moment as a 11 year old for me but now at 23 i’m like W…..T…..F .

Gladboys · 2023-11-16T20:07:27+00:00

what buzz cuts and a bad angle does to a mf'er.

https://i.imgur.com/Wu3jTDA.png https://i.imgur.com/gUFQsVj.png

cactusbeam777 · 2023-11-16T20:03:51+00:00

Women who claim that men self-select for bad women are just doing a gender-flipped version of incel talk. They hate that men are attracted to hot, fun, socially popular women so they demonize them as being some kind of bad people with bpd and try to claim that the only "good girls" are homely homebodies who've never been invited to the party. It's pretty obvious they're just jealous of women who are attractive and socially normal, just like incels seethe about chad.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-16T20:01:29+00:00

How do you know those women are shitty?

Imagine thinking women who knowingly pursue sex offenders arent shitty.

Im actually thinking that guys here do hold a Women Are Wonderful mindset. Or rather, Hot Crazy Women Are Wonderful.

Slipthe · 2023-11-16T19:56:59+00:00

Holiday ham sucks.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-16T19:51:57+00:00

The two people multiple people have said that I look like are Maui (from Moana) and Jason Mamoa.

To me this is a really weird comparison because these two people are on opposite sides of the spectrum. One is a fckn somoan ogre who imo does not have a handsome face so when people tell me I look like him I take it as I’m ugly af. But then I had a women (female friend who friendzoned me but I don’t burn bridges) tell me I kind of look like Jason mamoa and multiple people present agreed. I was under the impression Jason mamoa is hansūme so these are two conflicting images imo.

I won’t know for sure until I reach my goal weight but if I do reach my goal weight and people say I still look like Maui then I feel like the only thing I could do at the point is accept that I’m an ogre, and ogremaxx.

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-11-16T19:41:15+00:00

Why do women think discovering that men feel intimidated by the threat of confrontation with a man as a gotcha?

Like men are overwhelming more likely to get assaulted or killed then women are.

So y’all think men are likely to be able to successfully defend himself from attack by virtue of being male?

Ylduts · 2023-11-16T19:38:18+00:00

Quick Survey

Any sub 30 Journey fans?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-16T19:34:34+00:00

When you're hitting it from behind and she starts pushing back on it

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Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-16T19:22:12+00:00

Watching TV with mother is super fun sometimes. She will try and justify the shitty actions women make in these drama shows and it's fun having debates, calling her out and debunking her. 😂

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-16T19:16:13+00:00

Men, it is not women’s fault nor problem that you want to fuck crazy women.

Harley Quinn IS NOT REAL. Not trying to find her.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-16T19:00:58+00:00

If I scratch you enough I can see the conservative inside. The good old pull up by the boot strap rhetoric sigh.

All because I said my (then) 12 year old cousin and I cared more about getting help for our mental health than the stigma the stigma around.

shmupsy · 2023-11-16T18:58:32+00:00

this is the most soulless...what is this shit?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVsSGD21Upw

Ylduts · 2023-11-16T18:52:21+00:00

If I say I prefer long hair I’m misogynistic. If my SO says she prefers clean shaven everything is a ok. I’m calling a double standard on that one.

Most men aren’t attracted to G.I. Jane.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-11-16T18:41:38+00:00

I have a conspiracy that the lady that works at the reception area of my office is trying to get me to break up with my fiance to get with me. Which I hope is not the case cause the lady got a son that's around my age and she's not my type. On top of that she's been divorced twice.

Over the past few months she's gotten word i'm getting married and we've been talking about it. On one hand she acts excited for me and then on the other she acts like everything my fiancé does is a red flag.

One example we're getting a prenup and my fiance has to get her own lawyer. She can't afford to drop $1500 outright like I can so she has to save for it. So this lady is all like "Why can't she afford it? Where is all her money going? She doesn't pay all the bills" and so on. I'm like it's not a big deal, she has money in savings but it doesn't make sense to dig into it for a laywer fee. We can wait to get married until we get that situated. She then goes on to talk about one of her ex husbands which i'm thinking this situation is not at all remotely close to yours.

After that this lady follows with "I'm just saying, you're a catch..." which to me implies that I should leave her for someone else. It really threw me off cause I thought back to a month before where she randomly gave me her cell number. I only took it to be nice but I don't really talk to anyone outside of work unless its about work and it's an emergency that can't wait until the following business hours. I texted her once to acknowledge and haven't contacted her since.

So yeah, i've been trying to give the benefit of the doubt that she's trying to look out but idk. I sense some lowkey haterism.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-16T18:41:26+00:00

I don't know if it's the depression talking but I feel absolutely no desire to maintain and keep trying to form new connections with people. Same thing with relationships. I just like complaining about it but have no will or desire anymore to try to get one. Far from being in a position to be having a relationship anyways.

I just don't feel like socializing at all with anyone who doesn't live in my house. It's not like I have a list of people who are just always begging to be around me anyways so not much to worry about there. I couldn't hang out with friends last week because they were with their girlfriends but I didn't care at all. If I can't hang out with them again this week then, oh well. It's whatever.

So I just sit in the house all day every day watching TV with mother. I don't know, I mostly lived this kind of life when I was a kid so it just feels...natural at this point. It doesn't bother me. My kid self would be sorely disappointed if he saw his future self with the same life he had but it is what it is.

Keeenw · 2023-11-16T18:38:02+00:00

Reminder women are willing to go out with a convicted child sex offender : https://cheezburger.com/3017733/guy-conducts-twisted-experiment-on-tinder-as-fake-child-rapist-and-gets-horrifying-results

It was even posted on the local news here lmao wonder how many men got blackpilled that day about women. Disturbing thought that all those women are going to have kids one day. Wonder if they will rethink about this little convo they had with chad and feel very ashamed while looking their child in their eyes.

Keeenw · 2023-11-16T18:34:37+00:00

Right-wing men are more attractive to women than left-wing men; even if the girl is left-wing herself.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-16T18:32:17+00:00

The reason why girls ask their boyfriends and husbands, “Would you love me if I was a worm?” is because women want to see if their man would love her if she was basically useless to him and all she has to give him is her love and personality. It’s a creative way of asking “Would you still love me if I became quadriplegic due to an accident?”

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-16T18:28:44+00:00

CMV: 80% if behavioral differences between sexes are due to socialisation or environmental factors...

John_Oakman · 2023-11-16T18:28:33+00:00

Since genuine moral virtues are completely independent of worldly results, any proclamation that X group is more morally virtuous than Y group just tells everyone that X group can be exploited more easily in worldly metrics.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-16T18:18:05+00:00

Honestly I always thought the whole #girldad hashtag and trend was corny

Omg bro I have a daughter, so I’m not gonna be a piece of shit to women anymore

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-11-16T18:15:26+00:00

Y'know I kinda hate evangelical Christianity. Like, it's ruining any church it touches. Like, I wanna look into quakerism but the one singular friends church we have is evangelical and everyone seems bonkers. Like, dinosaurs are made up bonkers. It's just so frustrating

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-16T18:13:49+00:00

Women often say "the friend zone doesn't exist".

Can any one explain what that means?

Ylduts · 2023-11-16T18:13:23+00:00

When a woman turns 18 and enters the dating market with almost unlimited options, women will champion her exploring her options. When a man sacrifices his 20’s and possibly 30’s building wealth to eventually get to a point where he can experience what it’s like to be an 18 year old girl he is shamed and told he needs to settle down. Why does he not get to explore options when he is finally able to?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-16T18:13:06+00:00

Bro, Victorious or Icarly , which was the better show?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-16T18:10:46+00:00

That’s like me saying I write love letters to the person I’m dating yet they still get off too erotica.

Thats embarrassing that a guy would proudly admit that he thinks erotica are no different from love letters.

happy_discus · 2023-11-16T18:04:10+00:00

My best friend told me: "Your eye color is really pretty." She told me this completely out of the blue while we were in a lecture. It was really weird because she could not wait telling me. She's not wrong though, I got eye central heterochromia in both eyes, which makes them unique. It is still really weird, because no one ever compliments me, at least not without wanting something in return.

What does she mean by that? Why is she complimenting me? What's her endgame here?

Edit: She has a boyfriend.

Luciansleep · 2023-11-16T17:59:44+00:00

Q4W: Let’s say a man and a woman are married and want to have a child but she learns she’s infertile.

He really wants a kid and she can’t. Is it wrong for the man to leave his wife to find a woman he can have a child with?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-17T12:33:27+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17v1h12/the_reality_of_dating_for_men/

Missed that thread. Ngl it's pure suifel for below average men lol

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-17T09:10:48+00:00

Personality, compatibility etc doesn't mean shit if you are unattractive in women's eyes, which most men are.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-17T10:05:32+00:00

Woman tells her boyfriend not to go on nights out and not to have female friends - "This bitch is insecure af, don't put up with that shit. Just typical female entitlement 🤷‍♂️"

Man tells his girlfriend not to go on nights out and not to have male friends - "Hell yea that's some alpha shit bro! You're establishing boundaries and letting her know you have a spine, she'll respect your masculine strength 😎"

...Guys you're not fooling anyone. You're insecure, and that's OK.

Keeenw · 2023-11-17T15:17:24+00:00

Western Europa has a huge problem with immigration and it’s stacked against local men as 80% of immigrants are male. Female immigrants could have solved the incel problem in the West but of course they stay behind and only men enter our borders making it even harder for us.

Those men also tend to be more direct and aggressive in their approach (catcalling and touching women) making women uncomfortable and on guard when walking in public in a big city making it harder for other men to approach or make eyecontact with them.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-16T17:13:37+00:00

Im realizing that guys here will do not like nunanced and having to give sound reasons for distrusting people.

A woman upset that her boyfriend watches porn is stupid. But a woman who makes porn for her boyfriend and he’s still rather be on pornhub has a legit reason for being upset.

Just like a guys having reasons to suspect his girlfriend is a cheater will get more support than a guy accusing her for shits and giggles.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-17T01:40:20+00:00

I think I had the best first kiss of anyone I know and honestly I love that for me.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-17T01:50:12+00:00

I totally forgot that I never even had my first kiss before. Fuck, I feel so extremely behind.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-17T04:33:10+00:00

If you say worlds like -western women -n wave feminism -promiscuity -domination/submission -any trp cringe acronym -fertile

You can't be saved from eternal awkwardness

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-16T17:36:57+00:00

A terrorist is a good person for some people, even Hitler was good in the eyes of German people.

Nice Guy logic be insane.

ProfessorNaughty100 · 2023-11-17T02:09:02+00:00

An observation about Reddit that is especially true on debate subs like this:

I think a lot of people come here for their daily dose of intellectual validation, and that is why people are so abrasive. The personal stakes are too high. Everybody needs to chill. Coming across as smart or barely functional on Reddit has no bearing on anything.

Now breathe and relax

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-17T05:44:02+00:00

The violence done to men when it comes to dating in current times is underappreciated. It's a very serious problem, but most people are in denial about it. What is going on should be criminal.

I've seen where people will respond to a comment like this and say something like "haha, no it isn't a crime." It's exactly like how marital rape used to be considered no big deal.

If you are one of those "no, it isn't harming men in a significant way" then you are the problem.

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-17T06:57:41+00:00

Who here know any single women and will introduce me to them? No? Then how do you expect anyone else to do that either? Oh, but your IRL friends know you better. No, they'll make the same excuses. Shucks, it always seem like if I just knew the friend/acquaintance a little closer then they totally would introduce me to their single female friends who are looking for a relationship .. except we do become closer friends over significant periods of time but they never introduce me to them ... and then when I ask for dating tips they tell me I'd be a great catch and if I just keep trying I'm bound to find the love of my life ...

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-17T13:14:14+00:00

When a guy says physical touch is his love language 🚩🚩🚩

When a girl says acts of service and gifts are her love language 🚩🚩🚩

FuuraKafu · 2023-11-17T14:13:28+00:00

Women's obsession with outwardly confidence is about as cringe to me as men's obsession with sexy bodies is for women. It's just absurd.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-17T15:00:24+00:00

No one asked, but I think my parents were the main reason I was so socially retarded for the longest time. My dad has no friends and both parents instilled in me that I should focus on my career over hanging out with friends. Like they'd actively discourage me from arranging meetups with my friends when I was in UNIVERSITY and I wasn't allowed to play or own video games which would have helped me relate with all the other boys in my class. I wasn't even allowed to watch TV or youtube videos either. I also wasn't allowed to have a proper computer till I was in grade 10 and had parental locks on every download till I was 20.

My dad has a camera in my brother's room to make sure he's studying. To him, every moment not studying or doing something "productive" is wasted time.

I always wonder what the suburban white people family experience would be like.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-17T15:14:05+00:00

Women give a beta dating advice -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17wv6eh/hi_i_have_a_question_for_the_women_here_im_m26/

Absolutely comical

mrrelaf · 2023-11-17T15:51:27+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/17w9u3p

farmer Chad maintains a soft harem of women trying to fuck their way into a relationship with him, despite them (allegedly) knowing he's only down for casual

basically this sub's wet dream lol

Keeenw · 2023-11-17T17:15:24+00:00

I see no difference in the amount of IOI's I get from women when I was skinny vs. fit now. They still barely flirt with me.

The truth is you are either a 1 or a 10 to them. If you are a 5; manage to make yourself a 6 through haircut and better body you will still be invisible if you have some other flaws like height or face.

LoFiPanda14 · 2023-11-16T17:24:23+00:00

Need a tl;dr requirement for CMVs/posts longer than 300-400 characters. The replace porn w/ prostitution thread is an example. Too much jibberish.

monster_lily · 2023-11-17T00:23:30+00:00

Im such a fake soccer fan

monster_lily · 2023-11-17T00:28:55+00:00

I just found out my brother has asthma bro has an inhaler and everything

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-17T02:11:58+00:00

Imo in most relationship there's an imbalance of attraction as men are more attracted to women than women are to men. Men have a wider range of features and body types they can find attractive in women, while what women like in men is quite narrow and so few guys are attractive in women's eyes

Keeenw · 2023-11-17T10:42:30+00:00

Don’t be an misogynist. Just let your GF/future wife have her fun wifh the girls.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/7PkPiSJZU1

Maffioze · 2023-11-17T11:38:43+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzhfevFy4-D/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This kind of trope shows how normalized emotional abuse of women towards men in relationships is. I'm definitely not saying sorry for no reason, fuck that.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-17T11:58:17+00:00

Women with autism : https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/s/6lRy12LoDZ

Men with autism: Rot in their room

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-17T13:27:15+00:00

Here’s what seems to be happening:

Guys here have paranoia, but won't make logical choice of self isolating from untrustworthy backstabbing evil humans. Why? “Muh dick”. They think with their dicks and just want to fuck ASAP, so they are more likely to end up with women who fucks indiscriminately. It's logical to be paranoid she’s cucking him. He only committed because, to him, she’s just a willing wet hole and he didn't vet her based on morals.

Why I think this way:

First, guys keep comparing a LTR to government workers asking for ID or a woman taking precautions on a first date. Guys don't seem to understand that shows an extreme disconnection to the relationship. There is clearly no trust, no love, and no bond, when you see your relationship in this manner. Also, just projection. They're untrustworthy, so they assume everyone else is too. Now, they could always get professional help for these thoughts, but won't do it.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-17T13:32:52+00:00

So we always hear about how the incel problem is totally impossible to solve because it's not possible to make women attracted to men they aren't which of course is true.

But I just thought of a funny solution for Western countries: limiting immigration to women only. That way over the years, the gender ratio would become skewed in favor of men and make it easier for single men to find a partner.

It wouldn't completely solve the balance in the dating market of course and I'm obviously mostly shitposting here, but still, I found the idea in theory feasible enough to type it out haha

monster_lily · 2023-11-17T14:50:37+00:00

Bitch is still a slur btw

https://preview.redd.it/owxqtgcj8x0c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b70a0037e619d2af5ba6f81c66ce393ca8477376

ratboi34 · 2023-11-17T14:59:04+00:00

"...women, but not men, were willing to inflict costly punishment on sexually accessible women."

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513818303064

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-17T15:36:57+00:00

One of reasons why I don't get along very well with masculinity and femininity concepts is content like this.

Energy, manifestation, feminine flow, king inside...it sounds like astrology for gender role. I'm a woman because I was born one and raised as one, I've never had issues with it. It's the same for my husband and his manhood. We don't need to do some extra step to claim out genders, but, sure, we have a much simple view on them and aren't into energy thing.

Also if you insist that your partner is a king and leader and whatnot, the necessity to prep them up like a little kid heavily questions that.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-17T15:43:45+00:00

Some of you don't know how psychotic you can make a woman by giving her really good dick and then taking it all away. Probably one of the greatest feelings in the world until you end up getting stabbed.

Keeenw · 2023-11-17T15:50:04+00:00

Using Bumble and have women sent you the first message; chat a bit and then completely ghost you is such a brutal feeling. It basically means “I matched a hotter guy”.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-17T15:54:37+00:00

I hate these flare-ups where sometimes I am just aching for some affection.

Rach1943 · 2023-11-17T16:30:11+00:00

Anyone fully optimize their looks/image and STILL get absoluely no signals of interest from women when out?

I'm talking working out for years to build a great physique, dressing very well, haircut/grooming, lowbodyfat etc.

I get tons of success online, but when I go out to environments like coffee shops, bookstores, bars, gym etc I never ever catch women looking at me - basically invisible.

It's funny becuase I'll always hear stories about men having women checking them out after they've done x,y,z - or women checking out men trying to get their attention.

the funny thing is that i used to get checked out more when I was a mess/more slovenly. it's also bizarre that I get a ton of success online but none in real life.

old_new_age · 2023-11-17T16:53:28+00:00

I still don't think I understand why the "I-can-fix-him" women usually try to fix drug dealers and felons instead of like, autists. There's a lot to fix about autists - teach him to socialize, teach him to fuck, fix his wardrobe, teach him to shut the fuck up about trains. But generally they'd prefer the challenge of teaching a felon that assaulting people is bad. I don't understand why this challenge is more appealing, given that they're trying to fix someone at all, of course. This is not about women who are looking for stability.

Ylduts · 2023-11-16T17:06:17+00:00

The biggest disservice we are doing to young people is telling them they can have everything. Life is short it isn’t fair and you can’t have everything. Life is about priorities, you can have a family and a career but you can’t have a career and a family. You need to figure out what’s important to you and prioritize that.

Konoha_Shinobee · 2023-11-16T17:17:38+00:00

What does it even mean to "Work on your personality".

People say that phrase often, but I've never actually seen anyone describe what that actually entails.

Most often when I see discussions on it, "work on your personality" seems to mean "somehow have a different personality".

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-16T17:41:14+00:00

I saw on IG a post said if she goes to the club and hugs the bouncer and or the DJ it’s over lol. Or if she’s on the flyer for the event

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-11-16T17:52:58+00:00

Got cold approached today while I was leaving my doctor's office.

Geez, I spend so much time at home I forgot what its like.

Guy opened by asking me how I did that (give blood) so fast. I laughed, and said I drank a big smoothie before I arrived. Guy laughed and said I should give him the recipe, cause every time he has to give blood it takes a long time. I start mentioning that its mostly banana, but I noticed he had a lot of nervous/manic energy and he cut me off but fumbled his words. I couldn't understand him so I said "what?" and he followed up with another laugh and said "sometimes I say stupid shit."

Then he asked if I'm from the area, I say yes, he mentions where he's from and followed up with "so you got a man?" I say yes, so he struck up a big smile, put his hand out (I shook it) and said "well I'm so-and-so, it was nice to meet you....[I say my name], alright well it was nice to meet you SeveralSadEvenings, maybe I'll see you around". and then he turned around and left.

A for effort, but C- for the execution as it was botched with his spazzy energy.

If I was single I would have accepted a date for entertainment's sake, but it probably wouldn't have gone any further than that.

monster_lily · 2023-11-17T00:20:04+00:00

As a man i feel like you cant be physically attractive above like 30 esp if you look kind of girly and not super super masculine. Like i cant explain but they look young but they have wrinkles and very WEIRDLY shaped bodies

Probably the only man above 30 i like is cillian murphy.

mummydontknow · 2023-11-17T00:25:17+00:00

This is how I'm going to talk to my wife.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzkBE0TvUDr/

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-17T00:51:56+00:00

Q4W: have you ever thought you wouldn't like something, only to try it, and realize you like it a lot? What was it? What was it that lead to you ending up trying it?

Gladboys · 2023-11-17T00:58:02+00:00

Do you think being in a relationship is a "skill"?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-17T01:45:18+00:00

If you’re having trouble with women then all you gotta do is just complement them, be nice, and be charming man /s

md8716 · 2023-11-17T01:57:41+00:00

Bro, imagine having but one life to live, only one shot at ever existing, and you spent most of it at some bullshit office job most of the time, and then in your spare time fucking people on apps until you got old and ugly. That's it. That's what you did with your one shot.

Couldn't be me, man.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-17T02:14:07+00:00

This random homeless lady came up behind me while I was getting into my duplex from work and asked me for a dollar and I just shut the door in her face. Weird

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-17T02:29:31+00:00

I just thought of something. I think men are more attracted to women up front and then their attraction fades, where as women get more attracted to their partners over time.

Why is so much of the way humans operate in conflict with one another.

AngeCruelle · 2023-11-17T02:51:31+00:00

Can someone explain Reddit's obsession with Sydney Sweeney to me?

Like I get that she's conventionally attractive but plenty of female celebrities are and this one in particular gets mentioned every 5 seconds.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-17T02:53:25+00:00

Copenhagen, Budapest or Lisbon?

Already have London and Istanbul on my itinerary and this is my short list of other European cities I want to visit. I’ve got at least a couple of months to kill (March-April). Looking for walkable or easy public transport cities.

PPD Europeans or travelers, what would you recommend?

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-11-17T03:26:19+00:00

What does getting high on weed feel like? I tried it a few times when I was a teenager and I didn't like it. I got light-headed and a bit anxious/ in my own head.

It seems that a lot of people are abusing(?) weed nowadays or use it excessively. This past summer I was dealing with back pain and considered the use of THC to help with the pain but I decided not to since there would be a chance I could have gotten hooked on it.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-17T04:13:54+00:00

Need this

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzrgUbOuhti/?igshid=NTYzOWQzNmJjMA==

Anti_Thing · 2023-11-17T06:50:04+00:00

What should I do if I'm a naturally passive, self-sacrificial, relationship man, but I'm convinced that the man should be the head of the household (& I'm only interested in women who want such a dynamic?) Should I try to change my personality?

SlothMonster9 · 2023-11-17T09:06:11+00:00

I live in totally white country, but there's one black woman in my neighborhood that goes jogging with her 2 cute mixed race kids. She is so drop dead gorgeous that I can't take my eyes off her. She's like a goddess! (No homo).

Maffioze · 2023-11-17T11:42:44+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cyo28empyyW/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Who the fuck dates these kinds women? Just find a nice humble lady instead lmao

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-17T12:08:56+00:00

If I scratch you enough I can see the conservative inside. The good old pull up by the boot strap rhetoric sigh.

I love how much guys here REALLY HATE personal responsibility. And they wonder why I compare them to woke Karens.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-17T14:31:02+00:00

Q4A: When was the last time you were at a party? Did you arrange it? How often do you party? Do you meet new people at parties? Do you know people who are not your age and have parties?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-17T16:27:07+00:00

Why is it so controversial to admit some people are inferior to others? Like in a work place setting, some people get respect and others don't. It might be as small as mannerisms that exhibit behavior similar to prey like behavior. You know, just inferior behavior where as others exhibit behavior that commands respect. This is real. It is observable and demonstrable.

Is it because people feel guilty about the fact that they don't act fairly?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-17T16:31:58+00:00

I'm 33 and I've never had more than an entry level position.

Puzzleheaded_Sign_46 · 2023-11-17T17:05:25+00:00

i think a guy in my class has a crush on me. how do i shoot my shot....i already played dumb about where something is so he could show me the directions, but he didn't ask me out and that's like my only move 🫠

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-17T17:37:54+00:00

I wish a woman would ask me if I wanted to hang out because she's secretly crushing on me 😞

ratboi34 · 2023-11-17T17:42:23+00:00

There is hope for comediancels.

"Males’ humor production and females’ responsive laughter were both associated with females’ dating interest."

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1474704915598918

"Across eight experiments, we demonstrate that humor can influence status, but attempting to use humor is risky. The successful use of humor can increase status in both new and existing relationships, but unsuccessful humor attempts (e.g., inappropriate jokes) can harm status."

https://www.hbs.edu/faculty/Pages/item.aspx?num=51589

Hopefuel for male supremacycels:

"Results based on random-effects model revealed that men's humor output was rated as funnier than women's."

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656619301072

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-17T18:14:00+00:00

How many unmodified pushups can you do? I honestly cannot do one.

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No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-16T17:02:02+00:00

First

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-16T17:24:09+00:00

Q4M What pill are you, and how successful are you with women?

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-16T17:28:19+00:00

-> Thank you, I think that's what I'm feeling too. Our relationship isn't bad it's just really run its course. And I think I just need different things in a partner now that I'm 30 as opposed to 22. I'm trying to tell myself that change is natural and it happens.

AFBB. She was monogamish and her fiance was poly(he was broke too). Now she wants kids while he doesn't.

Time for that nerd to shine.😂

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-16T17:43:09+00:00

Some people are in what we call transitional relationships, like transitional jobs just pay the bills for right now but it’s not the long term plan

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-16T19:30:08+00:00

If I say I like bimbos with big fake monster jugs and plumped up botox lips looking like they got stung by a bee and I like them a little dumb and ditsy, suddenly I'm the bad guy and misogynistic?

Women just hate seeing a man who knows what he likes 😤🙄

ratboi34 · 2023-11-17T00:30:26+00:00

Who comes first? Rank them.

Your children, mother or wife/husband.

Keeenw · 2023-11-17T00:44:18+00:00

Q4W : How do you feel having a stacy friend in your social group (or how do you think you would feel if you don't have a stacy in your social group) ? Is it something that would threaten you or make you feel insecure ?

I was watching some vlogs of Alexandra Daddario (a stacy) and her two best friends are rather average looking so I was wondering if they don't feel bad by getting "fogged" all the time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsaQ2FtlbzY&start=50

Anti_Thing · 2023-11-17T01:37:15+00:00

Q4W: Would you rather date a guy who hasn't had a stable job since 2020 or a guy who's never been in a relationship?

monster_lily · 2023-11-17T02:09:46+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UdVT3K/

Waitt this is so cute i love kinda awkward loser boys

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-17T02:16:04+00:00

https://youtu.be/aIDdzCZVupw?si=aIztPF_bXQtevqXP

Fucking love this song. Depression music is a pretty good cope.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-17T02:35:29+00:00

Q4All: Might be getting my ears pierced soon, do I have to wear those ugly silver ones they give you by default or can I just buy earrings and tell them I want to wear these specific ones ? I only want to wear black studs or some based ass anime ones imma get from hot topic.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-17T04:04:54+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Fa1IN1GN4Q4&pp=ygUYNDAgdWVhciBvbGQgdmlyZ2luIHNjZW5l

Be David Caruso in Jade

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-17T04:07:40+00:00

Note to self: Check out the profile of people before responding. Will probably save a lot of time.

Gladboys · 2023-11-17T04:17:21+00:00

Do you guys like trimmed and shaped facial hair or big and bushy? If I’d have to guess trimmed and shaped is probably more popular overall but having a big bushy beard is so damn nice

old_new_age · 2023-11-17T05:49:20+00:00

why does it seem like everyone in dating is either borderline psychopathic clingy or not interested at all. I don't think I've ever witnessed a healthy attachment style in people my age. "if she leaves you on read for a day she's just not into you" yeah because if she was into you she'd be sending you 186 paragraphs per day about her love language

Inside-Gur5568 · 2023-11-17T06:14:56+00:00

Are women also influenced by pornography like men are? I don't mean pictures and videos, more like books and such. 50 shades of Gray being a prime example.

Sillysheila · 2023-11-17T06:39:20+00:00

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-11-17T06:50:13+00:00

Q4W who desire sex:

What if you could only have sex in order to procreate with a completely random man under the supervision of the state and its experts?

How many of y'all would jump at the chance to fuck and get knocked up by a stranger while other strangers watched and inspected to make sure the pie was indeed creamed?

Come on, don't be shy... we're all friends here...

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-17T06:59:30+00:00

Q4M: Who is more pathetic:

the women who complain about how everyone is SHALLOW, or
the women who brag about how everyone wants to be with them?

Honestly, both types of people are so repulsive it's hard to decide which are worse.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-17T07:31:09+00:00

If you don't want to be shat on then don't troll. Simple as that.

u/NalkaNalka

StaunchNomad · 2023-11-17T07:31:21+00:00

The biggest red pill I ever got was realizing that all the advice of the red pill doesn't help if you're ugly to begin with.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-17T07:50:58+00:00

I can’t believe there are people going through life without lotion, lip balm, hand cream, and facial moisturizer. How does it feel to walk around all dried out like a big piece of jerky?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-17T08:34:46+00:00

Would you rather marry someone who has six young kids or weighs 600 pounds?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-17T09:22:58+00:00

My friend doesn’t approve of his brother’s girlfriend because she’s ugly. Should I tell him his brother is also ugly so it’s fine?

dbz__f · 2023-11-17T14:14:08+00:00

Do open relationships favour the man or the woman? On one hand the woman is gonna have a much easier time finding side flings than the man is. On the other hand the woman has less incentive to cause women in a happy relationship are less likely to want to have sex with other men for fun.

itzReborn · 2023-11-17T14:24:38+00:00

I feel like I’m so close to figuring out this approaching women thing…

hannahg000 · 2023-11-17T14:47:14+00:00

i’m excited to see my spotify wrapped results

Maffioze · 2023-11-17T16:16:37+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzWcJTvOlla/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

The comments are making me lmao.

Maffioze · 2023-11-17T16:28:47+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cy9HW_htQOZ/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Rizz 100

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-17T16:29:03+00:00

Just ate some greek yogurt that was in the fridge for over a week. I hope I don't get sick, I'm just sick of wasting food/money because I can't finish things fast enough.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-17T16:32:17+00:00

What the fuck is tinder select

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-17T16:53:12+00:00

Litterallly most of the issues men here complain about is because of excessive male thirst of some men

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-17T17:00:50+00:00

Does anyone else view all of human interaction as a game? Like you can perform acts to be better liked and earn social currency.

Maffioze · 2023-11-17T17:00:55+00:00

One group of women I have a lot of empathy for when it comes to dating is highly intelligent women. Because its incredibly hard to find a man who isn't intimidated by a woman that is more intelligent. And the amount of men that are even more intelligent is a very small group. I think it must be really difficult because I unfortunately know from experience how awfull it is to have people be intimidated or simply disliking you just for existing. It's a shitty experience.

mean_bean_machine · 2023-11-17T17:53:07+00:00

I once heard the phrase:

If you have a problem and you call the police, you now have two problems.

This is also what it feels like being emotionally open with a woman.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-17T17:55:24+00:00

I feel like me losing weight has blackpilled tf out of me even tho I would say I’m more leaning towards the purple pill. I def used to be blue pilled though evident by me even getting to 350 pounds in the first place thinking a women would ever be attracted to me.

Seeing people that knew me when I was 350 vs 270 now is like night and day.

Keeenw · 2023-11-17T17:59:48+00:00

It's your job to impress and convince her; it's her job to accept or reject you.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-17T18:09:10+00:00

I want to create a new pill community, but I cant decide on a good color that seems marketable and attractive. It is a mix of black pill and red pill so it would be like burgundy or maroon or something. Maybe crimson pilled, but sounds too feminine and doesn't capture the masculine angst I'm going for.

monster_lily · 2023-11-17T19:38:25+00:00

As a woman youre better off just not mentioning anything vaguely positive about your life here bc evidently it makes some users here have mental breakdowns Literally

monster_lily · 2023-11-17T19:39:09+00:00

Why did i get marked for AI on something i didnt use ai on 😑 Unfair

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-17T01:02:31+00:00

Q4W: If you're one of the ones who expect the man to pay if he asks you out on a first date, let's say he asks you where you'd like to go, makes sure it's a place that you can afford, why go on the date in the first place? You aren't entitled to free shit. If you can't genuinely enjoy the company and contribute your fair share to the relationship, that is a huge red flag for most men in their 20s to 40s.

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