The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern world

billsull_02842 · 2022-04-05T07:15:24+00:00

the ones who walk down the aisle cost much more than the ones who walk down the street.

trombompoline · 2022-04-05T03:19:20+00:00

the west has fallen

MyrganGyrgan · 2022-04-05T02:02:06+00:00

I don't know about better off, but I resigned myself to being alone a long time ago and I've regularly visited escorts ever since. It's a great way to clear my head, deal with the dark thoughts when they get to be too much and recenter myself on the things in life that matter.

I find it very amusing how sex workers are heralded as heroes who we should support whereas their customers are unilaterally treated like subhuman filth and discouraged from using sex workers. It's an interesting bit of gendered hypocrisy.

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2022-04-05T02:11:00+00:00

I used to use hookers as well. You have a point regarding sexual need but the novelty of hookers eventually wanes off. I think you can also date and visit hookers, like one week in-between, to get “balanced diet”.

Others have said about other aspects of relationship that hookers can’t provide. But if you don’t succeed in dating, you don’t miss those aspects.

jazzmaster1992 · 2022-04-05T03:00:22+00:00

I feel like the issue of men going without sex for extended periods at increasing numbers is less about the sex itself and more about what the lack of physical intimacy implies, i.e. that they're lacking social skills and connections sufficient enough to meet suitable partners in the first place. If it was really just about men getting laid more guys would just get a hooker and go away, but clearly there is something far deeper and more complicated than that. The lack of sex is a symptom of men's isolation and identity issues, not a cause.

DillonTheFatUglyMale · 2022-04-05T14:16:06+00:00

Hookers cost less in the long term compared to marriage. You won't even get sex in marriage anyways.

Hungry-Nebula · 2022-04-05T02:20:35+00:00

just commit a crime brah

Can you lean a little closer? I could read by the light of your glow.

West_Diet_3729 · 2022-04-05T02:40:01+00:00

No matter how much I hate that I live in a conservative country, I appreciate that sex comes after marriage here, at least no one is expecting it from you when you date them like you guys do, it seems exhausting .

jah-roole · 2022-04-05T01:59:07+00:00

Being in a relationship isn’t just about sex and you’re missing out big time if that’s all you’re expecting to get out of it. Having said that, hookers, Brazilian being my favorite, are just a whole lot of fun and there is definitely a time and a place (like Centaurus for example) for that but to suggest that hookers are better than a serious relationship is just silly. No, they are not.

enoesraht · 2022-04-05T03:05:37+00:00

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spunkystoic · 2022-04-05T08:22:03+00:00

Talking from experience...

ONE TRILLION PERCENT AGREE.

I know it's counterintuitive to the prudish "social narrative" but seeing escorts actually felt WAY mentally purer (for both parties btw) than struggling with half interested women, or even sleeping with women I wasn't attracted to and stringing people along, which is something I hate.

👍

wtknight · 2022-04-05T12:35:41+00:00

I’ve personally had good luck dating women from foreign countries. A lot of men are paranoid that a woman from a poor country will take all of their money, though. If a guy isn’t confident enough to think that he can attract long-term even a woman from a foreign country who thinks western guys are great, then prostitutes are probably his best option then because he likely lacks the confidence to be able to date at all. I think that most men who are actually average and not low value men who think that they are average should do fine, though.

Mundane-Currency5088 · 2022-04-05T03:45:45+00:00

Honestly...we would rather. This would take the pressure cooker off the incels if we mainstreamed prostitution.

Sufficient-Parsnip92 · 2022-04-05T18:17:34+00:00

Maybe the average guy isn't that great?

Forsaken_Software394 · 2022-04-05T02:42:28+00:00

If you can afford hookers for your entire life and they make you happy I say go for it

I wish prostitution was legal for men who just want sex

Hoopy223 · 2022-04-05T05:32:54+00:00

If you are dating for casual sex YES.

If you are thinking it will turn into a real relationship NO.

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-04-05T03:23:09+00:00

chances of finding a non overweight, emotionally pleasant partner are slim

The pivotal factor is value. An average man wants a slim, pleasant partner? He’s going to have to put in some work. As The SMP is skewed to benefit women.

If his preference is hookers that’s fine. He’s however not better off. As humans need a sense of belonging. A sense of family. It’s hard to derive that, when you live alone.

Godspeed and good luck!

Lakeyute · 2022-04-05T12:35:46+00:00

I like fucking raw

I like eating pussy

I will do neither with a hooker.

Bandit174 · 2022-04-05T02:34:23+00:00

I think I'd rather have a sugar baby but not sure how expensive that is. Sugar baby seems more like paid fwbs with possibility for temporary exclusivity which seems better than a prostitute who probably had several men cum in her half an hour before you.

InfernoFlameBlast · 2022-04-05T03:22:18+00:00

If the only goal is sex, then you’re right

But dating can bring more than just sex in the bed room, like companionship, passion, love, intimacy, and support. A hooker just puts on a performance for you until that time is up.

Is dating harder? Yes. But it can be more rewarding.

CentralAdmin · 2022-04-05T02:59:22+00:00

All I could say is I'd maybe agree with OP, but there would never be enough hookers to go around. We'd be back to square one. Dating/hookers, you pay either way. 'The average man' as in generally most men can't be seeing the ultimately small pool of hookers in comparison that exist.

Unless, the idea that the hooker business would be so banging given the demand, that a woman being a hooker would become a norm. I don't see that happening.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2022-04-05T01:58:26+00:00

My thoughts are that johns are trashy and being a john is a massive red-flag that will scare off any and all quality partners.

The average man doesn't need to be anything spectacular to be above average. When 2/3 of men are overweight, just by being in relatively good shape, that's a huge advantage. Even with career attainment, the bar is pretty low.

enoesraht · 2022-04-05T03:37:05+00:00

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edgyny · 2022-04-05T02:03:36+00:00

My thoughts are that a relationship is good for weekly sex at a minimum without a clock running so settling for once a month is an inferior option.

And that's only considering sex and not the other aspects of a relationship.

Usual_Entry_6921 · 2022-04-05T03:23:27+00:00

Idk about that

Can’t wife a hoe though

MissionAd399 · 2022-04-05T03:49:45+00:00

I get the point. Skip all the in between bullshit that comes with dealing with women and have your needs met but personally I could just never bring myself to pay for no desire, no affection, passionless, sex. You may as well just masturbate or get a sex doll otherwise paying an overly ran through sex worker for sex is a tad desperate

koolex · 2022-04-05T04:28:50+00:00

I've never heard of a hooker who wasn't traumatized from the job, the exception might be a brothel. I don't think it's ethical to rely on prostitutes.

The_Meep_Lord · 2022-04-05T05:39:35+00:00

This is better for the average woman as well, because those men will not think they can get the cake and eat it. If hookers became more common I think women will be more proud - idk I think it will lead to more marriage.

wtknight · 2022-04-05T05:39:42+00:00

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PenitentPredilection · 2022-04-05T13:12:48+00:00

Legal prostitution with proper health screening and no unethical connections to grooming and human trafficking wouldn't do anything to help men.

If you're a legitimately unattractive or low value man, you shouldn't even bother with sex or women. If you have to pay a woman to get what normal men get for free...You know what's wrong with that picture. Also, no amount of money will make a woman attracted to you. I certainly wouldn't want to have sex or any other interactions with an unwilling partner.

Since the OP specifically said average men however, my answer is still no. The average man usually has the potential to improve and become a decently valuable partner. Their options might not be ideal, but they could find an adequate partner for marriage, casual sex, or whatever type of relationship they want.

LotBuilder · 2022-04-05T07:59:39+00:00

My income is much higher than average but I will say that having a sugar baby I see weekly is 1000x better than traditional dating. The relationships are way better. You have way more fun and you are seeing a way hotter girl for not much more than regular dating.

The_Meep_Lord · 2022-04-05T05:06:49+00:00

I feel like there’s this idea that all men want is casual sex but I suspect that a lot of men do actually want emotional connection and a relationship more than they openly express.

My current boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and he’s admitted to me that he was turned off by the act of casual sex without an emotional connection. My bf is a good looking guy and has always been popular. He’s told me stories of how he had chances in high school parties where girls were drunkenly all over him and offering to go somewhere private, but he’d make up an excuse to not, half out of nervousness but also because he didn’t want to.

He’s absolutely not gay despite other guys thinking he was cause he was turning girls down and he had a normal sex drive. He just was the type to want more than a physical fling. He’d even go on dates with girls but he had trouble faking intimacy if the connection wasn’t there.

He only told me recently that he was technically a virgin before he slept with me because despite having many times gotten into bed with girls he couldn’t perform partly cause of performance anxiety but also because he didn’t want to sleep with someone he didn’t see a proper relationship with. Most girls would take it personally and it would become uncomfortable. On our third date he had the same issue but I was understanding of it and didn’t make it a big deal because I knew he was attracted to me and I took it as a good sign that it wasn’t all physical for him. We ended up cuddling and talking and before the next morning we were both comfortable enough to sleep together. From then on we had a very active sex life but only recently he admitted he was technically a virgin. I never would’ve suspected, and no one else knows but me. He’s not the type of guy you’d think would be.

smarmycheesesandwich · 2022-04-05T12:57:58+00:00

The average dude in this sub could probably date and be in a relationship. But that’s not what you want—you want the girl that makes everyone’s head turn. You want other men to be envious of you. This isn’t about the woman in the equation at all—it is about how we implicitly link achievement and social status to the appearance of the women we date.

This post by OP is the latest in the subsequent lamentations of men who feel left out of dating a beautiful woman™️. If you think shelling out hundreds for one night versus a $20-40 bucks on dinner (if you’re even treating her to dinner) or a movie, the move along: go pay ya hooker. You want a girl to not only thirst over you but to have never thirsted over anyone else?

Most of the dudes cheering this drivel on have negative charisma. A lot of you are just fucking weird. Your anxious energy probably sets off every single investigation discovery alarm bell in a woman’s mind to stay away. A lot of you are shite at conversation. A lot of you have no applicable hobbies that are remotely interesting. I know this because all of those things have been true for me at some point.

However, you don’t get anywhere by doing nothing—you have options. You’ve been dealt an average hand. But when the game is less about the cards and more about the player’s intuition, you have more of a chance than ever before. You can play or you can fold.

I choose to play the hand I’m dealt. You can fold like a lil bitch.

Devourer_of_felines · 2022-04-05T14:23:32+00:00

If you have no luck with women in the 2020s you're still gonna be out of luck no matter what era in the past you were born in lol.

ffandyy · 2022-04-05T06:22:40+00:00

If you can stomach the idea of sleeping with a prostitute and have the money I suppose

roguish_rogue · 2022-04-05T12:56:59+00:00

Depends on your needs, I really like dating because I like women and people in general, makes it alot easier, and I usually have some girl in my life I can hook up with if I am single. I am not against paying for sex or for a shortcut as a sugardaddy, its all good.

Zaichick · 2022-04-05T14:08:53+00:00

Have you considered geomaxxing?

Substantial_Video560 · 2022-04-05T14:33:00+00:00

100% agree. I've doing exactly that for nine years and have had great times. Here's to the next nine!

Key-Selection-522 · 2022-04-05T15:14:47+00:00

Definitely would be cheaper,less time consuming, less bullshit and more rewarding than most modern day women. I'm willing to bet safer and at least she was smart enough to get paid for taking a high body count.

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2022-04-06T00:02:21+00:00

I completely support average and undesirable men going to hookers and prostitutes. Especially if he prefers that. Hookers and prostitutes were some of the best things to happen to women that are not attracted to these men and alleviates sexually frustrated men. I think more men should see hookers and prostitutes especially cels.

I fully support sex workers because they are doing the work most women would never want to do, which is be bothered sexually with an undesirable male and appease these needs. It's win/win. Men not using hookers and calling it a day is why women are continuously annoyed with sexless men.

PutthegundownRobby · 2022-04-06T00:25:48+00:00

I guess if you want to cheapen yourself that's a way to go.

shadyMFer · 2022-04-06T07:03:46+00:00

So true. Before I discovered the advantages of sex workers, I actually put myself through the torture of dating modern women. Not only was the dating pool full of fat ugly sows, but you were stuck having sex with the same one for months at a time! The worst part was that they'd drone on and on for hours about their inane problems and emotions, and expect you to pay attention, it was mentally exhausting. Once I discovered sex work, and found out I could fuck substantially younger, prettier girls, and that I wouldn't be expected to listen to them, I was hooked. Finding out that it's actually cheaper in the long run was just a bonus!

Xintani2 · 2022-04-05T07:19:17+00:00

I see posts like this every single day & this one finally convinced me to leave this sub.

This mindset is psychotic. You & all the other men on here that think like this need to stop complaining nonstop and just grow up. This is SAD.

OfCatandPagan · 2022-04-05T03:52:13+00:00

Sounds all fine and dandy until you get into the supply and demand part, hookers have to come from somewhere and hookers tend to be women. If male sexlessness is already so high then the current market won't be able to support them and this will lead to anger about their favorite hooker being booked/busy/on vacation/ill. Which means more women will have to get jobs as hookers, which means higher N counts and also the fact that you now belong to a group of women that manosphere men despise even more than "normal" women.

Eventually people will complain there's not enough hookers, not enough blondes, not enough brunettes, not enough Belle Delphine lookalike hookers, not enough Latina hookers, not enough big booty Black hookers, not enough attractive hookers, not enough Asian hookers, not enough big titty goth hookers, not enough androgynous looking hookers etc etc etc fucking etc.

ClaraBow01 · 2022-04-05T17:34:20+00:00

I’m glad you only value women for sex. Seriously go see a therapist .

lucid_intent · 2022-04-05T03:22:33+00:00

Do it then. It will narrow down the dating options for others.

SavageAnalFissure · 2022-04-05T05:27:24+00:00

When you view women as a means to an end then all you're going to get is the kid of result where you are ultimately unfulfilled. Nothing will fix that until you change your attitude

Prize-Thought-4205 · 2022-04-05T07:13:25+00:00

That will not give the average man the deeper affection or love & acceptance he craved and deeply wants so badly, seeks through this idea that casual sex with women is the answer to this, but falls into a new kind of depression, suicidal thoughts & anxiety when he discovers sex with women isn’t some magical bullet fix to a bad life

Academic_Snow_7680 · 2022-04-05T02:32:29+00:00

I'm so glad you're content with sex workers - just make sure they're not the kind that's forced into doing this 'work'.

I'm so glad you're not trying to date other women, for the sake of other women.

This is a pure win-win situation.

d2bigfan · 2022-04-05T05:51:02+00:00

There are literally billions of women in the world and not all of them are overweight…unless you’re a super unpleasant person I don’t see why “the chances to find a partner are slim”.

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Rare-Cash2655 · 2022-04-05T05:59:38+00:00

Prostitution = paying to rape a woman. You being a serial rapist, makes you unworthy of a woman who loves you. Stay single!

daisydaisydaisy12 · 2022-04-05T04:00:29+00:00

Who is stopping you?

HazyMemory7 · 2022-04-05T04:31:15+00:00

Isn't it a huge turn off that they don't genuinely want to have sex with you? You don't really get to cuddle afterwards either

splunx · 2022-04-05T04:43:24+00:00

Seeing prostitutes, although there have been few studies, has been seen as unfavorable to the well-being of men and women.

Most clients are married and have to go to improvised, crime-filled areas. A large portion of men who visit prostitutes have a prior criminal history. The rate of violence between clients and sex-worker is also dramatically high.

Fragmented79 · 2022-04-05T04:54:55+00:00

If only it wasn’t illegal everywhere in the US except the stix in Nevada…

jonascf · 2022-04-05T06:36:03+00:00

I'm an average man and I would hate myself if I ever went to a prostitute.

Skycat9 · 2022-04-05T07:48:33+00:00

Americans talk as if what is true for them is true for the rest of the world

bunker_man · 2022-04-05T08:46:49+00:00

Anyone who thinks this is not the average man. Pretending the average is the top is a coping mechanism.

Emil_1996 · 2022-04-05T11:23:26+00:00

Get in the gym then and become the top 25%

Modern day society is so pussified, it's easier than ever to be in the top 25%

Ohmaygahh · 2022-04-05T15:59:10+00:00

It's junk food. A poor facsimile of what men really want. A healthy sexual woman prefers to use her wand, hand, or giant dildo for sexual release. It feels better. They say it all the time.

A man wants to have sex with a woman that desires him back. That's the rub. And women try to tell us in a million different ways, generally speaking the majority of women do not desire the majority of men, at all.

For men, the majority of women can be considered for sex and relationships. For women, only the same handful seem to be.

2022-04-05T09:19:43+00:00

Or don't have sex with women, ergo eradicating any need for them.

I always laugh when women say "all you want is sex".

It simply isn't true. All I want from YOU is sex.

OrdinaryFarmer · 2022-04-05T03:52:01+00:00

What were your results in those 3 months of casual dating?

A hooker will have sex yes, but it's completely transactional. Much better to have a woman that legitimately wants you, makes you feel valued. Though of course that's not easy to come by as a guy.

gucciwillis · 2022-04-05T09:17:25+00:00

Or, you could go to gym, work hard to make some money and work on your looks, style and general health and you'll find yourself in the top 20%. You'll then be able to find women you like and have meaningful relationships. And if at that point you still only want sex, you can get on tinder and look for some hoes while also meeting prostitutes. Earn your women and stop complaining

beckyromcoms150 · 2022-04-05T09:33:32+00:00

Possibly, I appreciate the fact that you can share this fact op, I feel like Reddit censors so much shit now, especially anything that could remotely be considered a generalization of women.

cholmanattom · 2022-04-05T09:54:21+00:00

I do agree. I have millions other things to do beside appearing attractive for women. All I need from them are just some brief moments of physical intimacy while what they would demand from me would be astronomical. Even such a simple thing to do like being loyal and faithful , they can't give me any of that. So I better just pay them off, no feeling hurts.

And if anyone would come at me here and shout "Don't you afraid to die alone?". The answer is I don't. I was born alone from my mother womb with no siblings, so I can die alone, no one need to see me off.

Lateralanouncer · 2022-04-05T10:07:05+00:00

It's definitely a case for a lot of HVM. The more you have the more you loose. Hence why Sugar babies etc are so popular.

sunkized · 2022-04-05T10:13:27+00:00

Agreed

EthicallyIlliterate · 2022-04-05T11:02:13+00:00

Once a month?! Boi.

penguintransformer · 2022-04-05T11:03:12+00:00

If a man is looking for purely sex then obviously it would be the go to option. Having sex once a month is pretty pathetic though. If a man is looking for anything beyond sex, obviously a prostitute wouldn't be the better option.

wtknight · 2022-04-05T11:24:24+00:00

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SgllsTaklnDux · 2022-04-05T14:35:58+00:00

Don't give up before you've tried. I feel like my faith in God had a strong hand in my wife and I getting together, so there's that.

Elevatedheart · 2022-04-05T17:13:57+00:00

How sad .. my boyfriend is a lucky man. He gets treated right and loved right.. It’s sad that so many are so desperate that they would pay a prostitute for some fake fantasy..

sarkington · 2022-04-05T04:16:57+00:00

So, there’s either relationships, or else sex workers?

Good to know, I guess

HoneyNJ2000 · 2022-04-05T12:30:07+00:00

I can't imagine being so freakin' piggish and desperate to get laid that during the times I'm not dating, I have to PAY someone to have sex with me.

Jesus, some men are just so damned pathetic.

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Habil13 · 2022-04-05T12:31:01+00:00

Sex once a month isn’t enough lol.

ConfusedPuddle · 2022-04-05T12:32:23+00:00

It really depends on what you are looking for, if it's just sex and some paid intimacy then sure but if you are looking for a life partner I don't think you are gonna get that with a sex worker.

GrandBurdensomeCount · 2022-04-05T12:39:01+00:00

As a non-westerner I am so so glad I can import a girl from my own culture who still understands the meaning behind "till death do us part".

ThanatopsisRex · 2022-04-05T14:23:37+00:00

"The cheapest sex you'll ever have is the kind you pay for."

- An older coworker from early in my career

wtbrift · 2022-04-05T15:19:41+00:00

I have yet to use a hooker/call girl/whatever, but am happy dating. A few years ago I decided to grow thick skin and take breaks from OLD and it has helped tremendously. When I do date, we eventually get to the bedroom and that satisfies that part of me.

lord_of_memezz · 2022-04-05T16:59:08+00:00

Dating for men in the modern age is a complete exhaustive shit show... Meeting pleasant women who are wife material is quite hard. You usually get social media whores, extreme feminists, women who do not take care of themselves, and bitter single mothers as your picks if you are as OP said not the 25%.

Most women think they can always do better even when they are with someone who takes care of them well and is husband material which is something I never understood. I personally would rather be with someone with 5/10 looks but is 10/10 wife material than some Instagram twat that shakes her ass for likes. I guess I am trying to hang on to the old fashioned ways in where women were feminine and pleasing and not so desperately trying to be a man and "Stick it to the Patriarchy" as one girl I dated so boldly said.

Being in a modern relationship today is draining enough with work / life / money / and all the other problems that are out there today. The decline of family values I think started in the late 90's with the advent of the internet and social media. Gone are the days for most where a man is welcomed home with a smiling wife and happy kids; which are now replaced with scornful girlfriends, depression, and being blamed for being a toxic man just because he wants to do manly things.

Men have been emasculated to death now in where society forces them to become women to appease the female generation, shit even the government caters to women now like they are children.

I say fuck all that.... Men need to become the Alpha Sigma beasts they used to be. Stop simping to E-Girls and toxic women who know nothing of femininity and don't deserve you, start building up your bodies with muscle and healthy eating, start educating your minds and remove social media glut from your brains, get plans in place for your future, learn how to make money, and learn how to take care of your business. Men have time on their side as we age like wine but you have to start at some point.

We are in the stage of "Good times create weak men" and are fast approaching "Weak men create hard times" but as time goes on "Hard times create strong men" and I hope it comes sooner than later for most.

Nago31 · 2022-04-05T17:47:33+00:00

If you only crave carnal fulfillment from your partner, yes a professional is going to be able to service you. Especially comparing to the casual dating scene. But when you’re in a relationship, especially the earlier stages, you get much more sex unless you have a ton of free capital to blow.

Think about how much you would be spending on hookers for sex 3 times per week then compare it to how much you would spend on dates with a girlfriend 3 times per week. From a straight volume play, the numbers slide heavily in favor of a girlfriend.

Having a close group of friends helps fill other social gaps but there are also other things in a relationship that your buddies probably don’t provide either. Do your buddies ever rub/scratch your back? John you for boring family events?

reignoferror00 · 2022-04-05T19:05:29+00:00

The chances of "finding a non overweight, emotionally pleasant partner" for myself are a lot closer to none than slim. Hell, I'd be content with an overweight, not conventionally attractive ,non-bitchy partner who thinks I'll do for now for some making out, touching; sex would just be a bonus.

Finding a hooker that is close to worth what you'll likely end up paying is a bit or much more than a bit of work - especially if you live in a smaller city or town. Those that give a proper GFE aren't all that common; hell, many of the ones that advertise 'massage' as part of their services don't even have a rudimentary knowledge of massage. Found a good experienced GFE provider from Alberta that tours all the way out to my city a handful of times a year.

One massage provider that I saw regularly for a massage plus hand job, unfortunately is taking a break from or has quit that business. Gave a very good sensual massage with 'happy ending'. Have another I see not very often that offers a sensual massage (without the hand job - too bad) at a low cost; don't see her often because she also has a regular full-time job with shifting hours - think at one point in the past she either owned or at least worked at a spa.

Redbroomstick · 2022-04-05T20:50:01+00:00

Why not do both?

swedebeanz · 2022-04-05T20:57:20+00:00

if you yourself are not conventionally attractive, don’t expect to find a woman who is (although most are). why are you even having these expectations? if you find a woman with a good personality, her appearance would matter less anyway.

oh and definitely do not pay for a hooker. let alone how incredibly sad and embarrassing that it, it’s also extremely morally despicable having that poor woman sleeping with you purely for the money. most women aren’t exactly ecstatic being hookers. god damn man.

_that_dam_baka_ · 2022-04-05T20:57:43+00:00

You're still eating money.

Idk what hookers cost you financially. Maybe they're cheap, maybe not. If you can afford it, get sex toys for men. You never have to worry about the legality.

Taipanshimshon · 2022-04-05T21:24:23+00:00

Something... Unpleasant about the idea of hookers.

briiiana1122 · 2022-04-05T21:59:23+00:00

If you only want sex and feel like once a mont is enough, then go that route. If you were happier with the dynamic of paying for sex than interacting with a person who may want to build a relationship with you, then you didn’t really want a relationship anyway. You should just pay for sex.

Anti_Thing · 2022-04-05T22:14:00+00:00

There are more important things than happiness.
IMHO it's not a big deal if a woman is slightly overweight. Struggling with dating is no excuse for immorality (I say that as a man who struggles with dating & has specifically been tempted to visit sex workers himself). I see average men with average women all the time anyways; it seems to be a matter of luck, patience, & finding your niche. To be fair, as a devout Christian I'm somewhat insulated from modern relationship dynamics, in that the girls that are an option for me literally believe that they're obligated by God to be faithful to their man & generally to be a nice girl.
I'm against all sex outside of marriage, which obviously includes sex work.

feistykalorina · 2022-04-05T23:17:57+00:00

Bold of you to assume sex is all a man needs, with that mentality men will be better off with AI sex dolls much less riskier than being with a prostitute

SuperSaiyanAssHair · 2022-04-06T15:29:38+00:00

Even if I do, modern relationship dynamics are a shitshow and I have tons of cheating stories from friends.

This is the sign of a broken, collapsing culture.

likestocuddleandmore · 2022-04-06T20:37:18+00:00

Well overweight people can and do lose weight. People can get more emotionally pleasant overtime. Just because your friends have bunch of cheating stories, does not mean it would happen to you. Love can be magical like that and you never get ahead if you never take a chance on a person. My SO have used escorts. He said it was “meh” compared to sex in a loving relationship. First, you gotta be careful because of the legality id the whole thing. Then they always wanna drink/smoke pot. Gotta use condoms. Hard to relax. Actual sex very mediocre. Wouldn’t you rather find someone who will want to suck your dick for free because they love you and enjoy making you happy rather then paying someone to do it half ass way, knowing they are really not into you? I mean, part of relationship and sex is intimacy with someone who wants you and cares about you. You cannot get that from a sex worker. I think escorts are for people who have tried everything and failed. It sounds like you are not even keen on trying.

KickAss2021 · 2022-04-06T21:17:35+00:00

While couples spent an average of $28,000 in 2019, the average spending plummeted in 2020.

The pandemic decreased the average cost of weddings in 2020 to $19,000,

creekcrystall · 2022-04-10T22:34:48+00:00

I honestly could not agree more. Literally one of the best PPD posts I’ve ever seen. We’ll finally get guys who’ll stop bothering the rest of us about unfair height requirements (lmfao) on dating apps or stop crying about not getting matches. Just pay a girl who will fuck or give you a GFE and be done with that. It’s a big beautiful world, undesirable lads. Find where you fit in 😉

Alandofwolves · 2022-06-17T22:08:48+00:00

I was hurt and since then I can’t date as use too , felt very depressed about it. This could be a great alternative for me since I don’t intend to create something meaningful again. Nowadays it no use for the commoners who is not part of the 20%. It’s all about the money. Always as been. So I will fix my problem with money.

Title	The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern world
Author	cantwifeahoe
Upvotes	283
Comments	722
Date	April 5, 2022 1:53 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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