Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners?

SurelyWoo · 2022-02-07T23:43:46+00:00

. . . she posts vids of her sticking bananas up her ass every Monday and Thursday and fingers herself on Tuesdays and Saturdays.

I like this one's consistency and work ethic.

NockerJoe · 2022-02-07T18:00:22+00:00

They both sound like they had some real shit to work through and honestly those are both red flags in their own ways.

Pilling_it · 2022-02-07T21:17:41+00:00

Neither?

One gotta have an interesting psyche for being a virgin at 27-29 while sticking whatever in her ass, and the other got poor impulse control.

I'd just stay single.

baresquad · 2022-02-07T18:24:53+00:00

I’d be inclined to choose the OF model because she’s likely to have a brand and make decent money but I can honestly never see myself dating a virgin

I’d be more compatible with the woman who’s had many partners

KingWhoCared86 · 2022-02-07T18:09:58+00:00

I guess the woman with many partners because I have no idea how to explain what the first woman does for work to my mother.

wonka__vision · 2022-02-07T18:12:39+00:00

Neither. Rather be single.

A women who is a virgin at 28 would not typically be sticking bananas in her ass on camera. I would question her mental state.

A women with 40 partners is just not something I am interested in. That one is self explanatory.

Bandit174 · 2022-02-07T17:58:34+00:00

oh definitely the Onlyfans virgin easy choice

social_mule · 2022-02-07T18:35:52+00:00

One was a virgin but has an active OF account where she posts vids of
her sticking bananas up her ass every Monday and Thursday and fingers
herself on Tuesdays and Saturdays.

Green bananas or ripe bananas?

Massive_Pressure_516 · 2022-02-08T00:34:37+00:00

If there was a gun to my head and forced to choose? I'd probably say the OF girl, but I'd just as likely ask them to pull the trigger.

VanVahlen · 2022-02-07T23:25:37+00:00

Gotta stick with the company of myself on this, I find neither desireable.

Counter_Proposition · 2022-02-07T23:57:07+00:00

One was a virgin but has an active OF account where she posts vids of her sticking bananas up her ass

This sub has officially jumped the fucking shark, lmaoo

BittererWegwerf · 2022-02-07T17:57:38+00:00

Do we assume that all else is equal, like personality and life goal wise they are good matches? Do we also assume that i am attracted to them and they reciprocate that attraction?

Its a tough question because on the one hand you have someone who has gotten so many Dopamine Kicks from the OF attention that their brain could be maladapted to dopamine rushes which is bad for very many reasons. On the other hand the wilder past one probably has significantly decreased potential for pair-bonding and our views on sex would in this case probably not match at all.

I guess i would choose the OF one just because at least it means she got money.

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-02-07T20:12:03+00:00

normal girl with normal job

I’d pick her for one reason; reputation. It’s a lot easier(and more socially acceptable) to admit to a “wild 20’s”. Than have your OF online in perpetuity. If I continue to aspire to greater heights; my choice in partner is a reflection of my decision making. It matters.

Godspeed and good luck!

Laytheblameonluck · 2022-02-07T18:21:28+00:00

She just had a wild early 20s.

So, she's had all the sex she wants and now wants to settle down to a sexless marriage.

wtknight · 2022-02-07T18:10:27+00:00

If woman 2 was having hook-ups then I’d rather date the OF virgin, because casual exhibitionism is not as bad as actual casual sex.

Impressive_Tutor_390 · 2022-02-07T20:01:03+00:00

I've date Chaturbate models and prostitutes. Lol and I would just say no to all. These women use sex for money. They see a relationship as a way to get money. Also they had an OF

So the normal girl that doesn't see sex as a transaction

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2022-02-07T17:46:40+00:00

The 2nd one. She probably knows what she wants in life.

BecretAlbatross · 2022-02-07T19:28:52+00:00

Girl with many partners for free. I'm not dating someone who might publicly embarass me.

2022-02-07T21:10:19+00:00

A. not just because shes a virgin but shes also rich so i can be a sugar baby

woman B has nothing to offer.

M_LaSalle · 2022-02-08T01:34:15+00:00

The chick with the bananas has got issues. If I must choose, then given a choice between batshit crazy and slut, I'll pick slut any day.

WilliamWyattD · 2022-02-08T03:16:15+00:00

Second option by far. It isn't that indicative of being abnormal in a really bad way. Honestly, that isn't that many partners for some women in some demographics. It just tends to mean a healthy libido and being decently social and attractive. Has it done some damage? sure. But modern life does damage to us all, and I don't feel the need to always think a woman having fallen prey to sexual temptation is worse than all the other temptations she may have fallen prey to.

Hell, I'd pick the woman at 30 with an N count of 30-40 over the same woman with an N count of 5 but who is a complete social media narcissist and addicted to fashion and shopping.

szclimber · 2022-02-07T17:53:02+00:00

2nd one. Can't imagine a good reason the first one is a virgin.

sootlord · 2022-02-07T17:58:18+00:00

Neither. Both women would be problematic long term to date.

superior_mario · 2022-02-07T18:20:13+00:00

Honestly the Only Fans one, probably makes more money then the girl with a normal job. Also has more time off probably

mynipplesareonfire · 2022-02-07T19:15:44+00:00

I would have no preference and date them both.

M3taBuster · 2022-02-07T19:53:55+00:00

Gun to my head? I'd take the bullet. That's how much I hate both options. But I guess if you must know which one I'd "rather" suffer with, it would be the virgin with an OF. But I can't stress enough that I still could never be happy with that. It is just the lesser of two evils. And like... really bad evils.

I mean, another part of the equation is that, yes, we know that she's a virgin because this is a hypothetical scenario, but in reality there is no way of knowing, and I would never believe in a million years that someone with an OF was a virgin.

Neptune-Jr · 2022-02-07T18:52:37+00:00

Onlyfans girl but thats just me.

Mobrowncheeks · 2022-02-07T18:04:42+00:00

Depending on what your reason for not liking sexual history is, these are functionally the same option. A women who many guys experienced an issue for you? Both of these women are exposed that way, a women who makes poor choices and has her sexuality reflect that? Both of these women are that. The only reason to really pick the only fans woman is if you are actually stuck on the construct of virginity.

Lameador · 2022-02-07T18:53:27+00:00

Stupid question.There is no virgin woman running a succès « charm and glamour » account. You might as well discuss unicorn poo.

The other woman you mention may not be perfect, but at least she exists

DeszczowyHanys · 2022-02-07T21:47:53+00:00

Probably the normal girl, though I always tend to make a wrong choice.

Personally, I feel like if a person values money over keeping intimacy private it is an indicator of poor character.

PapaDragonHH · 2022-02-07T22:23:58+00:00

Illogical question. No women that knows her worth and saves herself up would do OF. That's the entry level drug to adult business...

And regarding your question, I would rather take a woman that had lots of guys than an OF girl because she could maybe have 20-100 guys, while OF girls are being watched by the thousands. How can any man have respect for a woman that shows herself to the whole world? There is certainly some men who don't care, but the majority DOES care, believe me. Instagram influencers are a NoGo too. Problem is, these girls are addicted already to Neverending attention. You alone will never be enough in the long term. Better stay away from them.

GVM3SnakeBeater · 2022-02-08T00:47:18+00:00

How about neither. That's also a choice.

CurrycelNumeroUno · 2022-02-08T01:40:42+00:00

Virgin OF

TheMailmanic · 2022-02-08T01:44:30+00:00

If those are the only two options then #1

Both are bad options though

Key-Selection-522 · 2022-02-08T03:09:19+00:00

Neither. Why would I lower my value taking either on? One is sticking bananas up her ass, the other is getting random cocks stuck up her vagoo. Both have been seen by any and every man.

At least the OF woman is smart enough to get paid.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-02-08T03:22:55+00:00

Oooooh this is a very very intriguing question. I'd probably rather date the hookups girl assuming she was very sexual and into me and had sex on the first date, was adventurous etc etc.

I like highly sexual women... I don't like pornstars. They're fakers

HoldtheGMEstonk · 2022-02-08T03:33:59+00:00

Tough question. The virgin shoving bananas up her balloon knot likely has mental issues.

The other one I can’t judge too harshly because I’ve been with way more females than 40. But knowing that up front is still a mental roadblock. I’ve often wondered what it would be like if I got all the females I’ve ever slept with in the same room.

CommonBelt6764 · 2022-02-08T04:50:48+00:00

Personally the virgin. I ain’t smashing no one above the body count of 5

Gofishingrn · 2022-02-08T05:03:23+00:00

Option c. Neither.

Libertarian_Gamer · 2022-02-08T05:51:24+00:00

Virgin. She can still pair bond.

someone4eva · 2022-02-08T09:56:54+00:00

OF for sure

SylvestorTalone · 2022-02-08T10:17:20+00:00

The virgin is my choice, still a terrible deal though. I can't imagine what a clown I'm going to feel like walking down the street with her or introducing her to people.

BusBackFromWombats · 2022-02-08T10:23:51+00:00

2nd one easily... As long as they're faithful to me I don't really think passed encounters are relevant (though I'd want to check that they've had an STI test recently).

Question for all of you who are repulsed by a nearly 30 year old woman having consensual sex with a new partner every 3 or so months of their adult lives: Would you be as repulsed by these numbers from a bloke? I get the evolutionary repulsion towards promiscuous women but given that paternity tests are a thing now (at least they're readily available in my country) I think that's kinda outdated...

ThisBoringLife · 2022-02-08T13:37:50+00:00

Off of personal bias, I don't see myself being with someone who's a camgirl.

The biggest concern of a high-n woman, as any individual with a large amount of sexual partners, is whether or not they can maintain a LTR, or do they give in to cravings for being wild and free again.

back_in_blyat · 2022-02-08T14:13:50+00:00

I would take the rich virgin over the used up, jaded corporate slave, zero hesitation no second thoughts about it

stats135 · 2022-02-07T18:15:44+00:00

Do you prefer a car that's been in a commercial for all to see but was never driven, or a car that was pre-owned by 30-40 decent guys?

I prefer the one that was never used.

ianfox6 · 2022-02-07T19:46:45+00:00

Body count only matters to low body count men. It's usually the ones who don't get much action or who are religious. As long as she is disease free, most of us men don't care.

I'd go with the girl without an OnlyFans because I don't want to deal with the hassle of defending the OF model's career choice to my social and professional circles.

Obsession over virginity should be a red flag. Either they are too religious or too judgmental.

BTW - I see men judging and picking apart women all the time. The truth is, these women were never an option. Dudes be a hard 3 trying to criticize a 6. It's a fucking circus 🤡 .

LateralThinker13 · 2022-02-07T22:10:16+00:00

Neither. One is well-used, and one is broken. That's like asking if I want a car with 100,000 miles or one with 100 miles but it sat on the lot/showroom as a demo/courtesy vehicle for ten years. Pass on both.

Seriously though, pairbonding is damaged from high n-count, as is their ability to appreciate a partner. Women always, always compare any shortcomings to a prior partner - and when there's 30-40 partners, at least one of those will beat you in any given category. So you'll never measure up at anything.

For the virgin OF girl, virgins don't do porn, especially a LOT of porn, without serious issues. NO porn girl is fully mentally stable. There's always something going on. Daddy issues, low esteem, something. Porn is a guarantee that girl is damaged. Guarantee. And who (besides predators) like attention whores/low self esteem girls?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-02-07T22:46:46+00:00

Neither, doing OnlyFans is a turn off, having many partners is a turn off.

Plus relationships are a waste of time anyway so I wouldn't do it

Physical-Pie748 · 2022-02-07T23:00:26+00:00

i rather stay single, i wont date any of them. of/high body count = red flag

Liberal_On_Guns · 2022-02-07T18:14:34+00:00

In reality, I would next both.

BUT... in the name of being true to the poll, I would choose the high N-count. Depends on what you mean by "date" though. I wouldn't mind dating either casually. But if we're talking about long-term, or having kids, that's my answer.

But they're both unmarriageable IMO. And that's okay. Most women aren't cut out for marriage, and shouldn't feel bad about that fact.

purplish_possum · 2022-02-07T20:02:00+00:00

The one who isn't a sex worker. It's not even close. Sex work = automatic disqualification.

cautionTomorrow555 · 2022-02-07T19:57:56+00:00

Onlyfans girl for a lot of reasons.

It is a job but the 30-40 partner women she actually enjoys it more.

Innate disgust at that many partners.

That many partners means she is unlikely to be able to pair bond.

She had all the sex she wanted and now is going to settle into an almost sexless relationship with me and I am not going to be the beta bucks bailout for the village bicycle.

OF girl means more time we can spend together because she doesn't have to work a normal job this is especially good because right now I WFH due to covid.

The first is more likely to be willing to experiment in the bedroom with me based on the banana up the ass thing and because she has not yet experienced what she wants to try but the slut girl has already tried everything she wants to try.

Slut girl is more likely to cheat and more likely to divorce me.

Dell_Hell · 2022-02-07T19:00:19+00:00

Personally, I'd be very concerned that the first one has a complete bullshit technicality definition of virginity by your own description. "Sure, I've given 382 BJ's, taken it from behind 249 times, and have been with 37 women and 83 men - but I haven't had my hymen broken or penetrated by a human male so I'm a 'virgin'.

TheJim66 · 2022-02-07T18:04:24+00:00

The second one. I can at least hide my shame with that chick.

IRL however I wouldnt date any of them. I would just fuck them

toucherofwomen · 2022-02-07T20:13:58+00:00

None, seriously would rather stay single if those are the only options available.

manfrom-nantucket · 2022-02-07T20:37:19+00:00

I don't date women with mental problems.

None0fYour8usiness · 2022-02-07T21:31:38+00:00

Neither.

If the OF girl wasn't doing that degeneracy and was just doing racy shoots I'd maybe consider it, but I'd still be wary.

But the second one is like betting on a horse with a lose streak. Sure it can win, but why risk it?

Deidara-katsu · 2022-02-07T21:33:52+00:00

Neither, but gun to my head to save the world, probably the virgin

scooterbooter23 · 2022-02-08T01:21:17+00:00

neither.

monkeybeast55 · 2022-02-08T01:58:09+00:00

Wow, the overwhelmingly similar responses from dudes here say a lot about the dudes here. And why they are hanging out here.

I would date either, were I a young man. The number of people they've fucked would not be a criteria, nether would what they've done on vids. Why would I care except maybe it adds more color to their character? What would make a difference would be chemistry both physical and mental. What would make a difference is if we generally get along, and like to be around each other.

I just don't get the headspace you young people are in. You're living in some crazy movie or fantasy. Relationships in life are not a job interview for the most pure and perfect, for what YOU think they should be. Just enjoy people for who they are, not for how they match your weird-ass expectations. Crazy.

krischens · 2022-02-08T09:19:52+00:00

Say the girl got sexually active at 17 and is now 27, then 30 partners means just 3 guys per year. Yeah, there are some questions why hasn't she been in a LTR, but the number is not that high tbh. Definitely better than the OF girl, don't understand the obsession of someone being a virgin.

Dell_Hell · 2022-02-07T18:06:05+00:00

EASILY girl number 2 and its not even close

30-40 bodies is high enough that it would give me some pause on a bad day, but I'd likely be permanently apprehensive about the mental state of an active OF girl whos a virgin.

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Hungry-Nebula · 2022-02-07T18:14:37+00:00

I would rather date someone who is interested in me.

SaltyFatNuts · 2022-02-07T18:23:21+00:00

OF virgin not because she’s a virgin just because of the potential she could make bank idgaf whether my partner is a virgin and even prefer them not to be this is the only instance I’d date a virgin over an otherwise experienced woman

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-02-07T18:26:02+00:00

Probably the second one. The first seems like she has some issues

FizzleMateriel · 2022-02-07T18:31:53+00:00

Which do you pick and why?

Provided they’re both equally interested in me and otherwise identical apart from what you said, the OF Virgin.

Barely-moral · 2022-02-07T18:34:49+00:00

Both options are bad for me but for the sake of the thought experiment and all other things being equal I would pick the girl with the OF account.

Reputation is not something I care about. Exclusivity is.

That is the reason both options are bad and the reason behind my decision.

Only one of those options can offer me something that she exclusively gives to me assuming all other things are equal.

_symbolik · 2022-02-07T18:41:36+00:00

If the second one had max 10-15 partners then I would consider otherwise I would prefer to be single

NewWayNow · 2022-02-07T18:56:26+00:00

Virgin.

30 to 40? Think about all those dicks. That's like 15 to 20 feet of dick. Gross.

Gravel_Roads · 2022-02-07T19:00:39+00:00

Probably the woman who has a lot of partners. But only because having a successful OF account means she’s probably gonna be busy a lot running her success business. Especially since I have a feeling that means working at weird hours too, since you have to be available when you’re clients are to keep their interest.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-02-07T19:01:44+00:00

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jayval90 · 2022-02-07T19:13:47+00:00

I would date the virgin woman with an OF even over the one with only one LTR sexual partner. That woman has a line that hasn't been crossed that I would get to cross (after committing to her, and her stopping her OF, of course). I think those kinds of lines are important and form the mental barriers necessary to keep each other only for each other. The other girl with a single LTR sexual partner has crossed all lines with another guy, and repeat performances are easier than singular ones.

Yes, obviously I would prefer her not to have either of those experiences, but given the choice, I'm taking the virgin exhibitionist over the alpha widowed woman pretty much every time. The only exception would be a clear indication of changed morals of the LTR woman, or a clear desire to continue things as an OF girl even after our commitment.

Matt_Door · 2022-02-07T19:29:25+00:00

The non-virgin. I like sex and I like women who like to have sex.

thoughtfulsoul10000 · 2022-02-07T19:41:30+00:00

I wouldn't mind dating either tbh.

International-Fun975 · 2022-02-07T19:54:24+00:00

Second one all the way

Skenry · 2022-02-07T20:02:24+00:00

OnlyFans.

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-02-07T20:07:30+00:00

Date the OF virgin and then cheat on her with the high n count woman

nadanonenada · 2022-02-07T20:18:43+00:00

Both would be good friends with benefits. Not LTR material

Mark_Freed · 2022-02-07T20:27:46+00:00

40? 30? At 29? Alpha widowed….

So yeah I’d pick OF girl but if possible I’d rather pick none of them.

wtknight · 2022-02-07T20:33:41+00:00

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PlayfulLawyer · 2022-02-07T20:37:01+00:00

Just kiss me or wear leggings lol

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-02-07T20:40:07+00:00

Depends on what exactly on the onlyfans, but I'd probably go with her either way but that also depends on why she's a virgin

PaidByPutinBot123 · 2022-02-07T20:40:21+00:00

i only date sluts, but im a deviant.

bilged · 2022-02-07T20:43:35+00:00

Easy. I would date either of them but marry neither of them.

AnonRb6 · 2022-02-07T20:43:48+00:00

Neither.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2022-02-07T20:44:01+00:00

Lmao none

hobomojo · 2022-02-07T20:52:39+00:00

If she’s had more partners than she’s old in years, that’s an easy choice, next her. OF virgin for me.

notarmani · 2022-02-07T20:54:02+00:00

honestly, the former

Yahween · 2022-02-07T20:54:09+00:00

Banana Hannah isn't a virgin.

Tomover_PL · 2022-02-07T21:00:00+00:00

Both major red flags for me. I'd just stay single. If I had to choose, I'd rather the many previous partners option, but realistically would never do that.

Deadby32 · 2022-02-07T21:05:40+00:00

Neither but would smash

R0llsroyc3 · 2022-02-07T21:07:03+00:00

Neither

abaxeron · 2022-02-07T21:27:37+00:00

Hard choice. I'd throw a die and pick OF virgin on 1-4 and Chad carousel rider on 5-6.

slixx_06 · 2022-02-07T21:34:38+00:00

The very successful OF virgin.

But she will likely eventually end the relationship and have 30-40 partners over the course of her life.

Lezonidas · 2022-02-07T21:47:52+00:00

The virgin with onlyfans. Because if she has thousands of creeps trying to flirt with her and she doesn't care and don't do anything with them it's unlikely that she cheats or has interest in other men in the future, therefore making our relationship less risky.

On the other hand, the other has had 30-40 men and it never worked, the likelihood of making it work with me is small given those statistics.

motherseffinjones · 2022-02-07T21:51:14+00:00

The OF virgin

Luisd858 · 2022-02-07T21:52:37+00:00

Virgin OF

OffThaGrass · 2022-02-07T21:53:14+00:00

I would be fine with both except the part about being a 27+ y/o virgin, huge red flag 🚩

DesertSweat · 2022-02-07T21:54:34+00:00

Neither honestly but if had to choose I guess 1

pinoyboy93 · 2022-02-07T22:05:26+00:00

iwasneverherehaha · 2022-02-07T22:08:40+00:00

Does the OF girl show her face ?

prettymuchredpilled · 2022-02-07T22:19:48+00:00

I'd stay single or try to plate both of them.

Any_Championship_654 · 2022-02-07T22:39:34+00:00

Definitely the onlyfans girl. Maybe if the other one had less than 10 partners it would be less of an obvious choice.

That being said I wouldn't turn down a girl just for having OF or just for being with 30-40 guys, even though it would be a red flag.

Beneficial-Strain-25 · 2022-02-07T22:40:13+00:00

Enjoy both. That's what they would do.

Wildhouse83 · 2022-02-07T22:50:56+00:00

Neither.

By the way, a virgin who is successful on OF does not exist. A promiscious woman who only had "clean" guys is unlikely to exist.

ffandyy · 2022-02-07T23:07:35+00:00

Couldn’t care less about either of these scenarios, depends what her personality and values are like

Alililyann · 2022-02-07T23:09:08+00:00

From an female perspective (maybe that’s not helpful) I’d 100% choose woman with multiple partners. Few reasons. Think about why someone may have an OF account, could be some deeper stuff going on there especially if she’s doing the things she does. And why is she a virgin at such an older age? Might also be frustrating with the inexperience in bed. A woman with many partners - yes, it there could be a deeper negative meaning behind it, but maybe she just likes it, and she might be a great adventurous sexual partner. 30 at 28 Isn’t crazy at all! If she started having sex at say 18, that’s 1 every 4 months.

FoxCQC · 2022-02-07T23:11:27+00:00

Both are fairly vague no points on their personality. I will go with whichever one likes anime more. High partner count doesn't bother me. OF model doesn't bother me either.

oprahjimfrey · 2022-02-07T23:33:37+00:00

Ridiculous hypothetical. No way the OF girl would be a virgin lol.

6gpdgeu58 · 2022-02-08T00:51:19+00:00

The first if I have money problem, the second if I'm secured, a virgin with OF sound like fake sex, cramming up to Max. So someone with many partner should have some maturity and knowledge, also I'm 29 now and I can't fathom someone who are still virgin at my age range.

Like yeah, I know incel and femcel exist, but I'm well off enough to be picky.

Viv4ofans · 2022-02-08T01:51:32+00:00

This must be a 30s thing but who tf asks this question anymore? I don’t even know the last time I even counted how many I have had in the past 🤣 I must relate to the second girl lol. Odd a virgin is doing all that. I bet she goes to BYU and does the whole “soaking” thing while their friend “jump humps” for them but it’s “not sex” smh this world

MCMTI · 2022-02-08T02:06:00+00:00

many partners. I'm not a trainer.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-02-08T02:08:54+00:00

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hari_hbp · 2022-02-08T02:18:10+00:00

Whoever meets my needs for a relationship. If both of them do, the "normal" woman. The onlyfans lifestyle isn't my style. Regarding promiscuity, I tend to focus on the present so that's irrelevant. The "normal" woman for me.

kentucky-windage · 2022-02-08T02:22:18+00:00

I’d end it.

Valuable_Passion4938 · 2022-02-08T02:41:33+00:00

I’m 17 so It’s illegal either way

a1b1no · 2022-02-08T03:33:47+00:00

Neither - my hand has less issues!

Beach_Guy517 · 2022-02-08T03:41:20+00:00

I only want to fuck, not interested in dating, so the better slut is for me

TheOnlyDijaini · 2022-02-08T03:42:41+00:00

Meh. Neither of these things really matter and are only superficial flaws at worst. I would date either as long as we matched personalities. I don't care as long as they only want to be with me from that point on. ✌

Midnightchickover · 2022-02-08T03:48:37+00:00

No decision--

I think I'd need to date or talk to either of them, before I choose. These are some very basic details about someone's life. It tells me absolutely nothing about the person. Moreover, I'm not even sure if we'd have chemistry with one another or even be interested in dating one another. Way to many factors that could take place, before relationship is made.

ragman75 · 2022-02-08T03:56:16+00:00

Easily the latter, its much harder to keep OF a secret then a high body count.

tryingmybestatm · 2022-02-08T04:08:51+00:00

i'd rather be single, the first girl is no different from the second. she is doing what the second is doing virtually but the emotional and psychological behind it is the same. both of them are not relationship material.

virgothot88 · 2022-02-08T04:55:13+00:00

The real question is would either want to date YOU? One got busy with career because she realized men are worthless, the other finds it pointless to take guys seriously.

thatunicornkt · 2022-02-08T06:41:42+00:00

the OF girlfriend. she's making BANK. no matter what way you look at it, girl is getting money. just take me out to breakfast when you're done with the banana ❤️

Background_Intern_55 · 2022-02-08T06:56:55+00:00

I would choose the woman with a high body count. Chances are she is looking for LTR and as long as she was loyal to whomever she was with then it could work. If I were to be the OF first in this day and age her friends would probably push her to go and test the waters and see what she likes so I already wouldn’t trust her loyalty much. Both aren’t ideal but OF girl has a few to many flags to even consider. Maybe if she had a solid reason to be a Virgin like maybe she lost 3 toes as a kid and she doesn’t feel comfortable with her body in person.

Da_Famous_Anus · 2022-02-08T08:57:08+00:00

Trick question. Neither.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2022-02-08T09:11:19+00:00

I'd take the virgin, she can stop doing onlyfans but with other woman, what's done is done?

Hefty_Yogurtcloset35 · 2022-02-08T09:17:37+00:00

Probably just the one that I get on best with. You know, humour, conversation, attraction, all dem good things.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-02-08T13:43:40+00:00

From reading these comments do you actually ask a nee partner how many people they have had sex with?

GreenMenace1915 · 2022-02-08T13:56:23+00:00

neither.

primotivegeth · 2022-02-08T14:09:47+00:00

neither

Confident-Medicine75 · 2022-02-08T14:52:18+00:00

If you have a very successful only fans how can you still be a virgin?

Hopeful-Process5311 · 2022-02-08T15:14:34+00:00

Let me explain seeing a partner naked is supposed to be something beautiful and something that shows how much you feel safe with me and how comfortable you are with me i win that by being a great partner not by giving you 20 bucks

KickAss2021 · 2022-02-08T16:41:09+00:00

We give women so much lee-way after university. Less than ten high school and university relationships and she's till not making relationships work is huge red flag. It's shows she doesn't know what she wants out of relationship and jumps into one's where it won't work. Both of them need major counseling or at the very least they should write down what they want out of life. They should write down the pros and the cons, and go from there.

cyberdemonite · 2022-02-08T17:45:47+00:00

Neither I would rather be single, both are terrible LTR options

rosarevolution · 2022-02-08T19:29:00+00:00

Can we get some information about their personalities before we pick one or..?

B1G_Fan · 2022-02-09T14:18:41+00:00

They are both damaged good in my opinion

The women who has had many partners is obviously damaged goods

Virgin who has a successful OF is also damaged goods

It’s unlikely that she’s actually a Virgin
She whores herself out on social media which means she thrives on male attention. She almost certainly won’t be satisfied with attention from her boyfriend/husband, which means she’s an infidelity risk
She’s 27-29; any boyfriend/husband who gets involved with her won’t be her first choice. And it’s very hard for a woman to be happy in a monogamous relationship with a man who’s not her first choice

dskcnsnskcnn · 2022-02-09T15:29:23+00:00

Lmaoooo successful onlyfans FOR SURE. Id be a stay at home dad

Flat_Plane_V8 · 2022-02-13T09:59:42+00:00

very successful OF but virgin..women just donot get it, how prized virginity is for men. I am not saying it is right or wrong, it is what it is

StarchRunner · 2022-02-07T17:51:36+00:00

I’ll fuck the virgin and keep looking for someone normal.

Less std risk and already had plenty of sloots. Virgins are rarer. It’s not like I’m missing out.

onJuputerandMars · 2022-02-07T18:08:23+00:00

Why Mondays/Thursdays & Tuesdays/Saturdays? You okay OP?

I’m fine with my partner producing sexual content and/or having had a lot of sex. Bananas up the bum is pretty silly but as long as if isn’t unhealthy shrug 🤷‍♂️ Same age range. I’d generally prefer not to be with a virgin.

effeteintellectual · 2022-02-07T17:53:44+00:00

I would date the second girl for the short term and break up with her after a while.

StarchRunner · 2022-02-07T17:56:27+00:00

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throwawayblue900ss · 2022-02-07T19:07:16+00:00

How about a third option that would make a good wife and mother?

I wouldn't be compatible with either of these women.

Coolio_Street_Racer · 2022-02-07T19:41:13+00:00

I don't think it even matters. Would you like coke or Pepsi. Same shit.

Lateralanouncer · 2022-02-07T20:20:20+00:00

Only fans girl. I wouldn't want a 27 plus virgin as I would be worried about her libido only fans girl has the libido. For that reason i would choose her, also for some reason i would feel masculated with her she is mine. Vs run through girl. She is typical dime a dozen. I would feel demasculated being with her.she is not mine it's just my turn. 30-40 partners is very conservative in today's dating culture.

Sea-Opportunity4683 · 2022-02-08T02:00:20+00:00

I’d have to go with the girl who’s been around the block. Just bcuz the virgin will be upset when ( if ) she finds out about how many partners I’ve had. She’ll get jealous and want to have adventures too and end up cheating. I’ve loved this exact scenario out, so I know. And ol’ Run Around will have it out of her system.

They’re both probably gonna be loose as a goose, so that part doesn’t matter in this scenario.

So I’d go with Lady Hookups over Whore with a Hymen.

No_Exercise_8670 · 2022-02-08T10:41:15+00:00

Much too improbable case. That's the thing - virgins don't usually do OF.

But given this imaginary situation both girls are bad choices. Both probably have mental issues. Yes I think that most women with 30-40 partners have those. So I would just flip a coin.

Soft-Quarter-25 · 2022-02-08T12:21:20+00:00

Question is too unrealistic (this sub used to be better) theres no virgins on OF

kirewes · 2022-02-08T15:04:57+00:00

i've read some of the reaponces and the replys. op said to assume they have the same personality goals and are equally physically attractive. in that case, the only fans girl has money to spare but has no experience in a relationship. the girl whose had multiple partners may be more experienced and better (hopefully) at sex. and desire damage from the past, relationship or better in a relationship.

I see most people picking the virgin, I'm just slightly more inclined to pick a woman whos had multiple partners and who's actually been in Long term and short term relationships. but I definitely see upsides and picking the virgin.

i don't know i see benefits as well as red flags in both. So actually going on a date with either one and seeing if either one are worth it.

MuffledScreamin · 2022-02-08T16:12:16+00:00

Look at these men digusted of a girl that their 'porn positive' narrative created, and scared of a girl with many partners when none of them would manage to keep a girl around for longer than a month.

Is a value of a woman really based on how many other men have seen her vagina or had sex with her?

MalePsychopath · 2022-02-08T20:42:07+00:00

Great question, OP. That was a really tough decision. Both options are incredibly disgusting.

I think I would have to choose the slut.

The mental problems of OF girl are a dealbreaker and I don’t like that she’s chatting with the creeps. That comes dangerously close to cheating.
And I find sexwork gross and embarrassing.

Let's say you had to pick one woman out of these two to settle in a LTR with. Both good looking and decent in other areas. Both about 27-29.

Also, why do I have to settle down with an old woman? Eww! 😭

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