Daily Community Chat Megathread

dbz__f · 2023-11-14T08:11:46+00:00

Just discovered a life hack to get out of washing the dishes.

Make small cuts on your finger and tell her you accidentally cut yourself and the detergent will hurt your cuts. If she loves you, she won’t make you wash the dishes.

I’m literally a fucking genius.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-14T06:59:44+00:00

PPD Breaking news, fu**ing someone old and ugly is equivalent to becoming gay.

chancetolive · 2023-11-14T06:48:47+00:00

Peeking after a while. Looks like a new crowd except a dozen recognizable names.

Steady growth on the followers too! I suspect the growth will continue as red pill becomes more mainstream, more people refer to it or make videos about it. Then other people will eventually find purplepill and this sub.

Interestingly enough most people don't know much about the original TRP and the archived posts. When referring to "those red pill guys" the images they show are Tate, Myron, Pearl. They're starting to show Brian from whatever podcast and Rollo. Missing anyone?

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-14T05:54:09+00:00

In today sub crazy edition. Spying on your husband for the rest of your life is equivalent to a one time paternity test.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-14T05:40:12+00:00

You talk about “bad boy” this, “Chad” that, I let him hit because he was very kind and sweet to me. I don’t know what kind of girl wouldn’t like to be complimented and treated so kindly. It impressed me a whole lot.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-14T05:39:11+00:00

Have a bit of personality bro

purplish_possum · 2023-11-14T05:06:01+00:00

My clients are annoyingly ungrateful. Got probation and drug treatment from a judge who was initially inclined to sentence my client to prison. Is my client happy that she avoided prison? Hell no! She's pissed she has to wait in jail for a few days until there's a treatment bed for her.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-14T05:02:23+00:00

I know it's weird but....I don't like nail polish on women. I don't the way it looks and it's just gross to me. Especially when it's chipped. Makes me not want to touch their hands. Thankfully I'm never in situations where I have to touch hands. I remember always feeling like this as a kid. Something about having color on their hands and feet just freaks me out. 😣

I always tell mother to wear socks around the house, I don't want to see them! Take that fucking color off or put on the socks!

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-14T04:51:22+00:00

It’s kind of funny that one of the few privileges women have over men is being able to find dates and sex much easier, yet some will act like men have the advantage even there. Like, give me a break. It’s one of the most demonstrably false assumptions that you have to be seriously ideologically brainwashed to believe. Spend five seconds on Tinder and you’ll disprove the existence of “femcels.”

And before anyone says it, I know that it can still be a struggle to find a guy who actually likes you or is a good fit. But men have that struggle on top of even trying to find a date in the first place. So no, I cannot and will not pretend this struggle affects both sexes equally.

I don’t go around pretending men face workplace harassment as much as women, so stop pretending women face dating issues just as much as men.

Sillysheila · 2023-11-14T04:17:35+00:00

QF Americans and Europeans: without looking it up or asking an Australian first…what is a Golden Gaytime? Give me a definition!

LoveForRedditAdmins · 2023-11-14T03:58:15+00:00

Spread of the “patriarchy” as a concept is a sign of female lack of accountability. Not only it is a convenient scapegoat for all ills women face, women also play a active role in maintaining it, while gaslighting themselves into believing that it’s actually men who do.

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T03:55:46+00:00

Guyss my english teacher bumped my 79 up to a b YESSSSSSSS

Gladboys · 2023-11-14T03:23:54+00:00

holy shit adderall+viagra+cialis makes me feel manic with energy this shit is unreal LOL

No_Mammoth8801 · 2023-11-14T03:19:05+00:00

Men, stop trying to argue with women who have already made up their mind (you'll know if they use phrases like "women make their own money now", "emotional labor", or "bangmaid" with a certain degree of smugness).

Instead, find other single women complaining about their loneliness (you won't find many of them on this sub) and invalidate their feelings using the same femcel buzzwords and phrases women in the former category use.

"29 and never had a boyfriend? Why would you want one of those? Don't you know how much more emotional labor women have to go through in relationships? Don't you know most men just expect their wives to be bangmaids? Don't you know single childless women are the happiest demographic?"

Obviously, you would need to dress it up a bit and ideally have a new female profile and comment a bit in some female dominated subs (I'd recommend anything true crime, skincare, or any sub dedicated to a reality TV show), but you get the jist.

We'll call it, "Rachel Zegler-ing the discourse." Stop trying to stop the car; step on that accelerator and let it crash, baby!

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-14T02:54:37+00:00

Manicure today: pink, purple or blue? I’m indecisive and overwhelmed when I get there and they have 100’s of colors to choose from.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-14T02:43:03+00:00

A new day, a new offer from another bro to my husband to go on a hoeing spree. I mean I’m not even offended but they are all so shocked when he says no thanks.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-14T02:13:33+00:00

Apparently pre K and (certain daycares)tells parents don’t send you child here unless they are potty trained but parents be lying all the time. “Oh sure little Conner is totally potty trained”. So the first day the kid shits on himself and the people who work there are like bro wtf. I asked my mom and dad and they say we were all potty trained by 3.

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-14T02:08:52+00:00

it's

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-14T02:08:31+00:00

The black pill is completely false and misleading for non deformed non retarded people since a romantically happy society has been achieved before. We just live in bad times.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-11-14T01:46:42+00:00

Billy Eilesh provides a great example of modern women’s delusion

she says men of all body types have no problems because women are “nice”

You see this same rhetoric on this sub despite countless evidence

DivineDaedra · 2023-11-14T01:36:22+00:00

I can’t believe automod couldn’t tell I was a woman from my “✨manic pixie autist✨” flair 😭

Now I have to come up with a flair that’s funny AND says woman in it??? This is a travesty.

janedoebreakin · 2023-11-14T01:35:27+00:00

I went to the local Costco to ask about my job application I put in a couple weeks ago. After enough harassment I got to someone in charge of that kind of thing. She told me that their hiring process is really selective and I probably wouldn’t make the cut. I told her that it’s a warehouse store, not Goldman Sachs and she should stop being so pretentious about it. That’s when I got kicked out of the office. Maybe Subway will call me back soon.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-14T01:09:29+00:00

I've also been thinking of posting my pic for a rating. I feel like people are going say I'm average or at best kinda cute and confirm to me that it's 100% my autism and social anxiety that holds me back like I've been theorizing.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-14T01:05:57+00:00

I don't know what it is but seeing pictures of couples together at their high school graduation hurts in a different way than just seeing them together regularly

meteorness123 · 2023-11-14T01:04:32+00:00

No way, José,

Some people's lies cut as deep as a ..close shave,

could write a whole book

called "all the things hoes-say"

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T00:59:47+00:00

Guys im under so much pressure like i have my back handspring kinda but im landing on my knees and I still cant do it on the floor and i literrally have 2 days

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-14T00:35:30+00:00

I’m debating whether I should post a pic of my face on this sub or Reddit for a rating. Sure as a 23M no one would care but it’d be interesting to see what people would say in my current overweight state. If I got a 4 or 5 I would be very happy, but feel like I’m a 3 because of my weight. Ideally once I’m done with my dietmaxx I’d hope to be a 6.5.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-14T00:34:00+00:00

NO BABIES

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Stock_Cockroach7649 · 2023-11-14T00:21:39+00:00

I find it kinda embarrassing that EDP445, a guy who literally sent a video of nutting to a teenager, is rated more attractive than me on photofeeler. It’s truly game over for me if it actually began.

magivictus · 2023-11-13T23:57:20+00:00

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-11-13T23:56:57+00:00

Matched with someone on Tinder and got her number. we're all gonna make it bros.

Never give up.

Dizzirron · 2023-11-13T23:54:13+00:00

I know this is radical yet perhaps it's time for men and women to permanently leave each other alone. Lets die out as a species and let the earth heal. We don't have to keep participating in a circus of society. This clown world stuff just can't be the way.

bossman146 · 2023-11-13T23:49:52+00:00

Any Mastodon fans here?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-13T23:43:27+00:00

I just love the prenup comparison to paternity tests now.

So you’re wasting money on a lawyer, on a wedding, and moving in together, knowing damn well you can’t trust the bride to keep her legs closed and not cuck you?

Fellas and Pick Mes, make it make sense.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-13T23:32:36+00:00

Fellas if there's one important lesson to take is pretty much this post

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/MwvN8npWCx

Here's the thing, a lot of inexperienced guys loose their shit from rejection but what they fail realizing is women will reject you for almost anything, it doesn't matter if you are the king of all chads or whatever, they'll still find a reason to reject you, hell even high-status guys like Tom brady get rejected, so imagine yourself who is a lower-status guy

No man on this planet gets a pass from being rejected, because when you deal with a surplus amount of women, rejection will always come naturally and you just need to make peace with that

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-13T23:22:25+00:00

Also I'm forced to do therapy virtually because there's no in-person place within a reasonable distance. I fucking hate doing shit like this virtually. I don't want people in the house potentially eavesdropping on my sessions. Our rooms are so fucking close together, I can hear mother doing her sessions. 😒

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-13T23:18:57+00:00

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Got asked this question while filing out a questionnaire for my therapist. Bruuuutal. 😞

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-13T23:18:11+00:00

What’s your favorite type of cheese? Mine is Mozzarella

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-13T23:15:36+00:00

I was out on Friday night touching grass and overheard a conversation by real life women in the flesh.

They were coming back from the club and talking about how they were living the life partying, having amazing experiences they can only have while they are young. You know what they highlighted about the experience? "Talking to and making out with cute boys". They see partying as the epitome of fun and good life experience, with male attention and validation as a core part of that experience.

Why do women keep trying to gaslight men about male attention being worthless? It's clearly valuable and a huge privilege to be able to get male attention effortless.

BigPoleFoles52 · 2023-11-13T23:11:40+00:00

Woman saying “I can get dick anytime” is the funniest shit ever. These woman self report on themselves so often and legit dont see it. Why tf would u ever take someone serious who has dudes lined up ready to fuck them. Most of these woman who are “single” have a fwb then wonder why a dude doesnt wanna date them while they r being fucked on the side by some dude who prob wont commit to them lol

Maffioze · 2023-11-13T22:58:13+00:00

I really don't understand how people can continue to push this point that "feminism just focuses on women" in the context of DV. How exactly is "I am gonna spread unscientific theories that portray men as perpetrators and women as victims by default, while pushing for policies that discriminate against men and while teaching the police to arrest men when when they are victims" "focusing on women" and not just being an immoral asshole with no integrity that deserves to be called out for it?

ratboi34 · 2023-11-13T22:52:10+00:00

Men are the new trophy wifes through social media. It's wild how much women like to show off their boyfriends on tiktok and instagram and they are so good at manipulating them. They show off the things the man has done for them, let the followers hype him up to reinforce this behaviour so he does it again.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-13T22:37:30+00:00

What I would say as a man: “Listen, honey. I love you and trust you. It’s just that I have an irrational fear of being cucked and I promise it’s not your fault. I realize Im mentally ill and should seek professional help so we can continue having a relationship built on trust. Before my therapy session, I would like to get a paternity test for this temporary peace of mind.”

scwizard · 2023-11-13T22:27:32+00:00

I invited my stripper friend to Thanksgiving dinner with some church people, and her response was:

I tend to get very weird about holidays. I very much appreciate the offer 🥰🥰🥰 but I will likely just be working that day (all holidays really)

So if you ever feel like you're lonely, take solace that you're not at a strip club on Thanksgiving evening lonely...

DerayRevan · 2023-11-13T22:24:26+00:00

Fellas how was your high-school dating experience ?

Mine was shit as usual, so yea nothing really happened and pretty sure many guys can relate on this

ratboi34 · 2023-11-13T22:20:26+00:00

I will never forget this one girl that called me pretty on omegle 8 years ago.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-13T22:16:47+00:00

Oh crap. I got a positive covid test.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-13T22:02:52+00:00

Another redpill strawman:

"TRP ideology is currently being pushed and proliferated by grifters, they prey on their loneliness, provides them an easy scapegoat to blame, and then they use the horrid views towards women in order to convince them that there are secrets about how to get women that the world doesn’t want you to know"

Wrong

"that they will share with them for the low cost of hundreds of dollars as a part of a broader coaching scam. In actuality, these courses teach men To be truly reprehensible towards women, which makes them completely fail at dating"

Wrong

"but of course it can’t be their fault because they have done everything the course can do, leading to more blame and hatred towards women, thereby isolating them even further from everyone There’s not much you can do for them…. Some will come around, and others never will"

Wrong

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-13T22:00:11+00:00

My husband and I are having a debate. He thinks it’s a compliment when people describe our home as “cozy and colorful”, I don’t.

sine120 · 2023-11-13T21:59:28+00:00

Are beards the male equivalent to makeup? I get there's a slight moral difference between a dude growing the hair himself(some guys don't have the genes for it) versus what amounts to essentially a practiced art, but some guys claim makeup obscures what a woman might look like "naturally", and I'd make the case facial hair is used to similar effect.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-11-13T21:53:16+00:00

I made the decision to let a coworker sink or swim on something. He sank.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-13T21:44:09+00:00

How do you know if you have an average vs below average face? I’ll take it the fact I have to ask isn’t a good sign lol.

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T21:43:09+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DBSV6f/

Good girl + Bad boy is such an underrated dynamic I swearrr

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-13T21:42:43+00:00

You know, in every day life, it’s not the major sexism that annoys me but the minor sexism that ruins my day, like why the fuck there is a women only metro carriage but no men only carriages, why do I need to feel so sort guilt that I am sitting and some woman standing.why is there a forced men conscription but no forced women conscription even though not all military positions require going to war. Why is there a women only university but no men only universities, why is there women only grants but not men only grants. It is the little things that is really annoying!!

leosandlattes · 2023-11-13T18:21:53+00:00

Sometimes I still think about how someone made an entire post about their offense at the term “partner” instead of boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife.

Like out of all things to be upset over… lmfao

cactusbeam777 · 2023-11-13T20:03:24+00:00

It's crazy how many opportunities were kept from women until fairly recently. Women weren't even able to have credit cards in the US until 1958 and couldn't have a Discover card until 1985! Women weren't able to trade index funds until 1976 and couldn't even have a Blockbuster video membership in the state of CA until 1990. And did you know that the Department of Homeland Security didn't employ a single woman until 2002!? Crazy.

sine120 · 2023-11-13T16:47:03+00:00

So I went and touched some grass this weekend by going to my 10 year high school reunion. It was a relatively small crowd and the organizers were less than organized, but it was an interesting people watching experience nonetheless.

After 10 years, maybe half of us 28/29 year old's have their shit together. Most have graduated college and gotten jobs, some of those jobs have decent pay, a lot don't. There were around 45 attendees, I think maybe 15-20 of us owned a condo/ home. My school was fairly affluent and above average intelligence and good families, and maybe half of the them were barely scraping by on their own. I could tell there was some comparisons going on, and after a few drinks people were certainly willing to spout their short life stories and their relationship histories.

My wife and I are one of maybe 2 surviving HS sweetheart couples, so showing up together was pretty recognizable. I think she was envied for having been married by a lot of the other girls there, I think maybe 15 people there were even in a relationship, and we're planning kids next year. She was never the most attractive of highest social standing young woman back in HS, but just being married and having her shit together put her a head above a lot of them. One woman had two kids and was getting separated from her spouse, another had been fresh out of a divorce, the majority of the women there were desperate to find someone. The single guys seems defeated and resigned but were more stable financially and were just living their lives.

We reunited with a super intelligent woman that we didn't get to spend a whole lot of time with in HS and her bf of a few years. She was also an engineer and doing more or less as well as we would have expected her to. She's much more intelligent than us but had a great time talking to them, we hope to perhaps invite them to a game night in our town since they're back on our side of the country again.

Looks-wise, most of the women had declined from HS, the guys were more varied, but on average a little better looking. The women are starting to show their age and some have put on weight. If the guys hadn't put on weight, they probably looked better than 10 years ago. The guys who were in shape still were getting attention from the ladies, and beards improved a lot of men's looks.

After the main venue was wrapping up, most people decided to go to a club on the other side of town (I thought it was going to be a normal bar). When wife and I finally found a parking spot and made our way over, it turned out to be a goth club with so much smoke/ vape inside that you had maybe 8 feet of visibility. We noped out of there at almost a dead sprint and went back to have a scotch with FIL and de-stress from the whole thing.

TLDR:

Went to 10 year HS reunion with a bunch of people who should have been yuppies by now. A lot are broke, a lot are single or divorced/ single moms, a few actually got married. Overall experience was like 60% blackpill.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-13T17:48:33+00:00

Proof that incels are just stacy chasing

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-13T17:41:26+00:00

The biggest reoccurring theme I see “I have extremely bad taste in women”.

Guys here really be wanting:

Women who fucked bullies.
Women who date criminals and jobless drug addicts.
Women who cant be trusted to not commit paternity fraud.
Women who are emotionally unavailable and allegedly think men are lesser beings for having emotions.
Women who fucked Chads all her life.
Women who are extrmely fickle in their emotions.

Like seriously, it astound me that guys here seem to find trash to be arousing.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-13T21:26:39+00:00

I kinda miss when ppd posters were more stupid. where did all the "women are attracted to high quality sperm" posts go. is it being filtered by mods or has ppd actually increased in intelligence

https://preview.redd.it/q73aoakkn60c1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a28b2bb535cda70ffb034bf27f5363166c4513b5

like I never see this kind of thing anymore. has our member diversity decreased 😞

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-14T11:52:45+00:00

The Billie Eilish thread is so typical lmao. Nearly every single woman is defending her and her heinous, false commentary. Even bluepill men are calling Eilish out. But the sisterhood must prevail in any circumstance.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-13T14:15:20+00:00

If you think the cop/sheriff who pulls you over for speeding really gives a shit about your safety and not trying to hit his revenue quota you’re probably the type of guys who think the strippers likes them lol

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-13T15:00:48+00:00

So I spent a weekend with my friends (2 couples, 1 baby and one 18 y/o kid from my friend's bf previous relationship)

It was so nice to touch grass with normal people

I told them all this cringe manosphere theories and they were surprised. The men asked me "are we chads????" and obviously didn't know what to answer since they are average looking (both of them are short for example). They are not chads in the aesthetic sense, but they are chads in the sense they are happy in committed relationships with awesome women.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-13T15:55:23+00:00

Dark triad

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-13T20:23:03+00:00

When was the last time you felt attractive?

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-13T21:20:47+00:00

A really odd and bad argument I've seen some women make for dating shitty men is that good men are rare and that if you were to remove shitty guys from the market then women would have around the same little options as men. Mother also made this argument before.

She said back in the 90s, they were no good black men. I told her there absolutely were good black men, you just didn't want them and those types of black guys were called corny for not fitting the stereotypical black guy mold. In response, she said "Ugh, then you're left with slim pickings."

This line of thinking makes no sense to me. So instead of putting in the hard work and vetting to find that one good guy, you're gonna be lazy and just date the first hot guy that talks to you and call it a day?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-13T16:53:07+00:00

Here's the thing, I'm scared of women. All my misogyny is just disguised insecurity. Women have so much power over me. My self worth is predicated on their approval. Doesn't that make me the real victim?

y2kjanelle · 2023-11-13T21:13:33+00:00

I like that being a high n count women effectively shoos weirdos away. I’ll never have to worry about a ppd loser or some redpilled/blackpilled psycho.

Idk how a few years ago I seriously was feeling bad about myself because of what incels and losers thought of me💀💀 so embarrassing for me and so glad I grew out of that.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-13T14:39:11+00:00

Looks>All

armpitpics · 2023-11-13T18:19:20+00:00

I know there's been a lot of grass-touching going on, but what about grass-licking?

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-13T18:20:34+00:00

I don't know why people get upset when men here say we don't like fat women. Fat women don't approach me or coming to me for relationships so it's not like I'm rejecting them. My standards literally don't matter to anyone to fat women because they have no interest to me in the first place 😂

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-11-13T18:43:23+00:00

Insane amount of mental gymnastics from the males on this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/5ua2WPKMPb

Maffioze · 2023-11-13T19:47:47+00:00

I thought I had seen it all on this sub but then I saw the post comparing paternity fraud to child molestation. I guess the women here needed to pull one back on the most unhinged male posters.

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-13T20:35:54+00:00

My skin looks so much better now that I quit nicotine. So glad I was able to stop finally

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-14T11:26:35+00:00

My little secret is that I tell every boyfriend/partner I’ve ever had that massages really turn me on.

Now every time they wanna have sex they pretend they’re being nice and give me a massage after my “hard day”

It’s a win-win they can “ask” for sex without having to straight up ask and I get massages lol

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-14T13:50:35+00:00

"Women are ridiculous these days, you can't even access customer data to illegally obtain the phone number of some woman you delivered a parcel to months ago to ask her out without being called a creep!"

itzReborn · 2023-11-13T16:22:06+00:00

I feel like the next year for me going be the most important in my life. Turning 25, no experience relationship wise, and I want to change that. And I’ve taken steps in the right direction but now I feel like I need to take bigger steps,especially socially. Need to try to build a social circle from scratch, need to learn to be more comfortable going out by myself, etc

But my social anxiety is so good at holding me back and a reason my life been pretty stagnant for the last handful of years.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-13T18:56:52+00:00

I now know there’s an overlap between ‘guys paranoid of paternity fraud’ and “Of guys we’d fuck everything. We’re men”. It was a theory, but now someone has confirmed.

I also theorize there’s always extremes in reactions. Too many guys will take the dumbest risks and then project their paranoia of the consequences of their dumb risks to other people.

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T20:37:25+00:00

Guys i had to get my blood drawn it was unpleasant bc i cant do needles or blood and i had to get injected TWICE bc I hadnt drank anything but at least the lady was nice. She even gave me a picture book afterwards

DerayRevan · 2023-11-13T21:30:59+00:00

My xbox finally worked

There is a God

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-13T14:05:44+00:00

I remember a girl told me once she doesn’t hang out with side chicks, she sees it kinda like a moral flaw. Apparently she’s never been one nor is any woman in her circle. If you fucking someone’s husband or boyfriend she can’t hang with you.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-13T15:20:00+00:00

I think I’m fertile today

hannahg000 · 2023-11-13T15:29:08+00:00

do you ever have a dream where you are pregnant or have a baby and then you wake up and you’re like “where’s my baby?”

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-13T15:31:16+00:00

I remember the only rare few times a girl asked me to hang out was from this one female friend I had in high school. I remember being so surprised when she asked if I wanted to go to the mall with her group after school that I thought she liked me for a quick sec even though she had a boyfriend. That kind of attention from a woman, even platonically just had me so shocked because it was so new. Lol.

Anyways we kind of drifted away from each other because Covid hit a year later. Lol. Good friend, though. One of the rare moments socializing with a girl felt easy, natural and like I didn't have to prove myself to be worthy of being in her presence.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-11-13T16:36:28+00:00

Why are there so many people who think paternity tests are a bad thing? If you're in doubt, protect yourself from being legally held accountable for a child that unfortunately isn't yours. The only time I actually see people having issues with it is when guys ask during or directly after the birth of the child (like, within 30 minutes of the kid being born).

PBtoast707 · 2023-11-13T17:46:27+00:00

I don’t know why so many people my age want to go into real estate and strive to be landlords. Is it a status thing? Being a landlord doesn’t sound too fun. I’d rather do something where I feel productive. I really don’t get it.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-13T17:48:11+00:00

You guys, should I start a cooking and lifestyle blog? No one would read it but it sounds like fun.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-13T18:00:40+00:00

How do guys that were once fat get big while losing weight? For example, I see a lot of weight loss transformations like this. Is it simply hypertrophy? Is it steroids? I see some people who lose weight and become skinny fat and some people who lose weight and look like what skinny people spend 5 years trying to look like.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-13T18:09:09+00:00

Just came back from uni and I saw a huge gyatt. I tried to rizz her up but she said I had no fantum tax and that she was from Ohio. I told her that I know the real skibidi toilet but she said I was too sigma.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-13T18:17:56+00:00

My entire motivation for going to the gym 7 days a week is to be worthy of a man who makes good money and can financially provide. Every day I focus my glow up on finding a man who can provide. There is nothing a man who cannot or will not provide can bring to the table besides stress and exhaustion. I want at least one or two kids, and I am not going to to introduce my kid to a life of struggle because men on the internet seethe and rage and try to tell me I don’t deserve to be a SAHM or have happy, healthy kids. Mess up the lives of your own kids, thank you very much.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-13T19:24:02+00:00

Every day I give more serious consideration to asking strangers on the internet to rate me. I must know the truth.

Sillysheila · 2023-11-13T19:39:25+00:00

I just went out for a walk at 5 am. Now it’s 5:30. My part of Australia has super duper early sunrises (we’re close to the equator). When I went out it was already super bright which is just insane. Sun must be going up at 4:45 now.

It’s so interesting how much it can vary across the world and cross territory.

On another note it’s 85-100 degrees high every day this week. Thank fuck I work in an office and not outdoors or as a civil engineer or something Jesus.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-13T19:42:09+00:00

You only need to be at "hes kinda cute i guess" and your personality can take you the rest of the way. I have never really witnessed an actually ugly guy with many girls in real life but it happens. Just so infrequently that it causes an eye roll internally whenever mentioned. You're better off maximizing what you look like FIRST and not wasting your time asking people who are like "my ex was 5'1 and ugly but I still fell for him during our 4 day relationship that happened 40 years ago on a different planet because he was a GOOD KIND PERSON also we broke up because he abused me."

Willow-girl · 2023-11-13T19:51:05+00:00

Went to the boob-squisher today for the first time since 2012 (I know, I know) and got a clean bill of health!

So far I've been REALLY LUCKY! The last test I have to undergo is the Cologuard screening, which I'm putting off for obvious reasons, lol.

old_new_age · 2023-11-13T20:26:19+00:00

the amount of normie men I know who express how horrible dating is reminds me that a lot of "incel talking points" are things most guys feel, but they're not cringe enough to label it "blackpill." I think things have gotten worse since covid, I see way more doomer comments upvoted on dating subs than I used to 3 years ago

DerayRevan · 2023-11-13T20:47:26+00:00

My two favorite 23s just sitting together

https://preview.redd.it/gpvz03ikg60c1.jpeg?width=1199&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=45a2369354650a41339b05adbd7cdeb34d4c509c

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-14T09:23:25+00:00

Meanwhile…I have purple nails & my favorite bro is coming over for dinner tonight. 😎

MalePsychopath · 2023-11-14T11:00:33+00:00

Q4W: Let‘s say a woman in a relationship has a secret go bag as a safety measure against domestic violence and abuse. Maybe a friend or a family member was in an abusive relationship and now she’s scared that it could happen to her too.

How do you think should her boyfriend react if he happens to find the bag?

a) Feel hurt and insulted because the existence of the bag implies that he might secretly be an abuser who nefariously hides his heinous nature. Break up with her as a consequence.

b) Be understanding of her fears and insecurities.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-14T14:16:55+00:00

I’m laying in bed with zero tinder matches while my best friend next door is plowing the shit out a lady he just met on Tinder. I’mma just cry myself to sleep and call it a day

Do you think that if you're chad enough, you can convice a girl to give a pity fuck to your homie? :D

leosandlattes · 2023-11-14T15:13:40+00:00

Good morning to everyone who:

Drank coffee or tea this morning
Has a favorite color that includes baby blue, lavender, forest green, or hot pink
Uses any Apple product, or
Would not use company database to illegally obtain a customer's phone number, over one year after delivering her parcel, just to ask her out for coffee.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-13T14:02:09+00:00

boo you whore

leosandlattes · 2023-11-13T14:55:08+00:00

Good morning to everyone who:

Had a 3.5 GPA or higher while in school
Drinks their coffee with any kind of dairy-alternative milk
Wears some kind of uniform to work, or
Did not open any social media this morning (besides Reddit)

Peacesquad · 2023-11-13T15:20:09+00:00

I’m ready to be a dad

ratboi34 · 2023-11-13T15:48:43+00:00

I feel like I need to learn French to be more cute and feminine.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-13T16:16:08+00:00

Would I be the asshole to offer to make Thanksgiving dinner at my mother in laws? I've always been known as the guy who likes to cook. Her parents would disparagingly call me gourmet when I was living there because I would cook from scratch for their daughter and for them sometimes where as she grew up eating fast food or hamburger helper.

Her mom isn't a very good cook. I am not looking forward to a dry ass turkey, watery mashed potatoes, soggy stuffing and raw ass rolls from a bag especially when I enjoy cooking and am pretty good at it.

The only people there will be my mother in law, my wife, and myself. My wife's uncle might come over since his wife just died.

Anyways, on the one hand I'm scared that they will know that I'm only offering because I think I'm a much better cook, but on the other hand her mother tends to get stressed easily so offering could also take a lot of stress off of her.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-13T16:54:29+00:00

Currently going through 'development hell' as I establish my business.

It isn't fun, I still push through regardless

ratboi34 · 2023-11-13T17:12:37+00:00

I genuinely don't know how I would deal with a second relationship. There is a flower, that is my favorite, which I used to get her a bouqet of every once in a while, because it was her favorite as well. Is it ok to gift my new gf the same type of flower, or does it already belong to someone else? Can I call her by the same names? Make her the same compliments? These things confuse me so much.

relish5k · 2023-11-13T17:22:49+00:00

I don’t know if Matthew Perry was discussed here, but his case is an obvious case of showing that money, looks, talent and wealth will do nothing for you if you lack emotional maturity and resilience.

So many people think - if only this one thing happened for me, then my life would be better, everything would be different. And sure, there are things that can make somewhat of a difference. But ultimately we are all prisoners of our minds, and if you are a viscous warden to yourself there is no amount of positive external changes that will bring you happiness.

Wherever you go, there you are.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-13T17:35:08+00:00

N-count-obsessed PPD men, how much can virginity compensate for a woman’s shortcomings?

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-13T18:18:02+00:00

Half of the reason for working out is to have the physical ability and stamina to turn your bedroom into a Pretzel factory.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-13T18:31:41+00:00

Today is therapy hunting day 😁

Gladboys · 2023-11-13T18:56:02+00:00

what are the telltale signs of an insecure woman and how do you handle them? i wasn't able to tell this girl was insecure and i triggered her insecurities and now i feel awful. my friends told me it was obvious as fuck but i couldnt really tell lol

she constantly asked me questions like "if i had a girlfriend/wife/was seeing someone for 3years/6years/3weeks and she told me or did xyz what would i do" for like 4 hours. is this the sign? repetitive questions about relationship dynamics?

the way i "triggered" her was talking about her boyfriends sexual history because she kept asking and apparently this made her so upset that they "broke up"(un broke up in like 3 hours LOL)

i feel a bit lied too because she explicitly said "women don't care about the past, we just want to know what happened and how it made you feel" verbatim so I thought I would tell some funny stories but here I am lol.

is this normal? we are like 22+ years of age bro this shit was almost insufferable how do i avoid insecure women in the future.

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T20:46:27+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DkKGwe/

This is what i want for my life IF you even care🙄

Maffioze · 2023-11-13T21:03:55+00:00

I'm doing a postgraduate degree and for the first time in years I feel intellectually challenged.

Dusttyy · 2023-11-13T21:20:14+00:00

With birth rates starting to decrease and young male/female loneliness epidemic not making the future any more promising, do you think we’ll get to the point of a declining population soon?

Thought of this while I just adjusted my work benefits for next year. I raised my 401k contributions, but then started to realize how my retirement is wrapped up in the stock market… which is largely dependent on a constantly growing economy. Kind of hard to grow the economy when your population is going down, just look at Japan. Their stock market has basically been flat for 20+ years.

Maffioze · 2023-11-14T09:33:31+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzT2LWSIa5z/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

hoisk · 2023-11-14T13:22:06+00:00

I dumped the ex. Have a date this weekend with a guy who is sexy AF. Why waste time? While the ex kind of sucked, I know I contributed to my relationship’s failure too and I will need to transparently communicate my needs.

But damn some things I thought “should I really have to explicitly ask for this?” because it should be a given.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-14T14:02:36+00:00

https://x.com/ovobrezzzy/status/1724216803583271048?s=46&t=KT4n50z4guKAeHfOYurSTg crying when you get caught cheating will always be the weirdest thing

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-14T15:52:04+00:00

The thing a lot of men stressing about women fail to realize is you don't need to be the most attractive or desirable man to have a robust and enjoyable sex life. Even if you're 5'6, you can still bag 10 new bodies a year. Max out every area of your life you can and be grateful for what privileges you do have. Red pill is 🔛🔝

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monster_lily · 2023-11-13T14:19:50+00:00

I want to go to ultaaaaa

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-13T15:10:16+00:00

Why are "bastards" and the risk of splitting family wealth even considered a problem in the first place?

I can't believe I was basically asked why having less money is considered a problem.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-13T15:29:12+00:00

Normal guys: I keep hearing that my wife was talking to other men around the time she got pregnant and I have low sperm count. I'm getting a paternity test.

Me: Good!

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-13T15:34:06+00:00

At what age is male libido supposed to go down? I'm almost 30 and still as horny as I was as a teenager... m

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T15:38:40+00:00

Ok so what i dont get is when ppl complain about learning advanced math in school bc gthey wont use it after school but im saying

Like if it was 300 years ago you couldnt even learn this unless you were as smart as albert einsten and you had to go to a random school in the middle of nowhere for intelligent people but now this is being taught to kids everywhere so be grateful. Youre literally learning what the SMARTEST people from 300 years ago were learning

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T15:44:01+00:00

My mom wants to be crunchy so bad though

DerayRevan · 2023-11-13T16:12:36+00:00

"Facial Aesthetics>All"

For me it's money

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-13T16:17:50+00:00

Them: Consent & communication is sexy, always.

Also Them: https://twitter.com/gsnivxa/status/1720843826951000437

ratboi34 · 2023-11-13T16:34:39+00:00

Let's say you have the n-count talk with your partner of 2 years

What would be the number that would actually make you break up with them? I'm asking for the smallest number that would make you reject them.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-13T16:37:42+00:00

So here is an insight into my pathology. I see a post like this and it is like my head starts doing all these calculations to prioritize this anxiety I have around not being more sexually successful in high school. It's like, this person has a valid point. The age of people in porn should probably be pushed back until they're more mature, and a lot of the deceitfulness, grooming, and taking advantage of women does make me feel empathy for them.

But on the other hand I feel this defensive anger towards these women because it is somehow a reflection of my own insecurity and fear of rejection. It's weird how the mind can be both rational and irrational. I was doing well for a while when I was getting into DBT therapy. I know for a fact there is a part of me that doesn't want to heal from my own emotional torment. It is like allowing myself to be in pain sort of excuses my more nefarious behaviors.

I think it is also a defense mechanism to not have to feel empathy for others.

I'm able to have these insights, but I don't neccessarily want to change. I watch porn, but I'm not a coomer. I have no interest in watch interviews or knowing about the personal life of porn actresses. I might watch something about a male performer though to fantasize about living a life closer to theirs, but when I see a woman in porn outside of the context of a porn video I feel scared.

And it's like, ok, I could be a "good person" I could live this moral life, but at the end of the day it doesn't change how shit life is for a lot of men. It just further solidifies our "less-than" status in society compared to women.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-13T17:02:43+00:00

What would you rate her, and would you date?

meteorness123 · 2023-11-13T17:06:42+00:00

Do you go to your high school and class reunions? Why/Why not?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-13T17:25:23+00:00

Lame stream media & Big Tech will ban all masculine content and call the manosphere dangerous.

The same guys have no problem with promoting gang violence and toxic cultures.

The result? --> https://twitter.com/DailyLoud/status/1724087069738172420

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-13T17:30:33+00:00

I live in a place with lax marriage laws and no child support laws.

Its heaven on earth for promiscuous men. No one is afraid of marriage here.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-13T17:32:24+00:00

I don't know why Chris Williamson hasn't brought Rollo on his show till this day but his brought someone like Dr David buss and even wants to bring mark sertain now

He'll never even bring myron, which shows he doesn't want to upset the female audience

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-13T17:56:04+00:00

Just because a woman is attracted to a “low values man does not men’s she is a “low value” woman herself.

This is the kind of stuff I mean. Guys here say that women are sneaky and its impossible to vet them, but when told the woman is bad news, guys here will deny it. Probably because she’s super hot and there’s the halo effect going on.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-13T18:08:15+00:00

What do you think I am? Am I an incel? Am I not? Am I red pilled or black pilled? I'm hard to define. I'm definitely not an ultra macho red pill guy. I think looks are important, but you don't have to look like a male model to get girls. I think looks are important for first impressions, but personality is what creates attraction. I am able to get women pretty easily, I'm in a relationship, but I had trouble keeping girls when I was younger because I was emotionally unstable. I started to define myself as an incel basically or identify with some of that, but not all of it. I just wanted to get laid regularly which I can pretty easily. I've always been able to attract women, but I feel this deep seated insecurity that women don't like me. I crave the validation and attention of women. It triggers dopamine in me. Idk, I guess I don't easily fit into any of this. I'm just kind of a 2013 era fuckboy millenial I guess.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-13T18:11:13+00:00

Does anybody look better in selfies than in reg pictures?

Lovers691 · 2023-11-13T18:25:55+00:00

If someone from your highschool died and you were on good terms with them but weren’t friends would you post about them on your Instagram story?

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-13T19:14:02+00:00

Anyone else think crooked teeth on women is attractive? Idk, straight and perfect ones just seem so weird and robotic. It's just plain. No personality.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-13T19:18:40+00:00

Q4Redpillers: do you guys wait for sex ?

If you do then how long before bouncing ?

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T20:47:39+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DB1uFm/

If my hair could be draculauracore

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-11-13T21:03:22+00:00

I've noticed a influx of women being more open to greeting and being nicer now that its getting cold. Now that I'm older I have the ability to navigate through all the so-called signals that women could possibly give off. I guess I will be on the market to looking for one soon if I chose to go that route if things are going the way they are now.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-13T21:11:11+00:00

"Because of the red pill, a peculiar cult which convinces men that they can control women by "creating attraction" or dread game or looksmaxxing or whatever jargon they are using at any given moment. If a man doesn't succeed with women, instead of writing it off to a natural lack of chemistry or mutual attraction, he's convinced he failed to follow through with some behavior he believes will cause women to dispense pussy"

Wrong

But some of them just have zero female friends (which the red pilled men actively discourage) and have no idea how to talk to or relate to women at all, so they look for prescriptive advice from other inexperienced, incompetent men, most of whom despise women

Wrong

"TRP men are consumed with their failures because they convince one another that women can be tricked into submitting when they apply the correct hacks and cheat codes"

Wrong

y2kjanelle · 2023-11-13T21:15:35+00:00

my one year anniversary with my boyfriend is coming up. im so so excited. i want to do something big for him but I’m a broke college student and just am unsure of what i should get or do for him!! pls give me ideas :))

I saved up for his bday last month to get him tickets to see an artist he liked and we were pretty close to the stage it was super fun!

But now I need to top it🫡 maybe another trip somewhere??

monster_lily · 2023-11-14T01:05:30+00:00

Should i be It networking, Cybersecurity, Comp sci (top 3 options),Optometry ,Real estate, Dentist/person that works with ppls teeth

Like my dream job if i could be anything is like cosmetology, animation or fashion or costume design or working with animals or kids OR coaching but then my dream job like as a reach is to be an actress

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-14T11:44:32+00:00

If I could delete one phrase from existence, it would be "just let people have fun"

That__EST · 2023-11-14T11:47:42+00:00

Q for the Paternity Fraud Worried:

Do the fears of paternity fraud go down with each child your partner has? Like say you already have two children and they are just the spitting image of you and she's about to give birth to the third, are your fears the same?

To add to it, say that none of the kids have had an honest to God paternity test, but they look like you and they have some unique trait about them that makes it obvious that they're your kid. Does it help calm your fears about the third?

Onitsukaryu · 2023-11-14T13:58:02+00:00

Weird place to ask, but anyone remember that video where some streamer (?) was filming herself at a line to a club and some random dude put his hands on her neck in a choke. She then backed away right next to some huge Chad who smiled for the video. Think it took place in the UK.

Dusttyy · 2023-11-14T14:21:59+00:00

Ex and I broke up 5+ years ago after a pretty serious and long term relationship. We had a nasty breakup, but the dust settled quick after the initial drama, and we went no contact ever since. Haven't seen or talked at all, and even had each other blocked on social media until she just recently added me on IG.

I decided to accept it because I'm well over her and not holding a grudge. I didn't add her back right away (we're both set to private), thinking maybe she's just being nosey, and I don't really care all that much about what she's been into. Then she started liking a bunch of my pics, but didn't say anything. I thought maybe she did want to talk or something, but my lack of adding her back was making her question things... so I did end up adding her back.

Nothing else has really happened since. I checked out her profile... she seems to have just gotten out of a long term relationship, but also already seeing someone new. So I don't think she's trying to get back together with me.

What do you think? As I type this out, I realize I don't really care and she's probably just trying to play mind games with me for validation in-between relationships. So I think I'm just going to block her again lol.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-14T15:13:03+00:00

So unbelievably unfathomably inexplicably abso-terr-fucking-rifficaly based

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-14T15:20:59+00:00

being a shitty boyfriend is the most empowering thing you can do as a man.

Dusttyy · 2023-11-14T16:11:58+00:00

Is blocking a number/social media account just a power move/passive message women do? They tend to use it under the guise of safety, which I don't blame you for feeling such... but what exactly does that accomplish in that regard? I understand if you just don't want to hear from the person again or be bothered by them, but that's rarely what's said. Safety could come into play if you share a lot of information on social media in real time, but that would take a lot of active sleuthing by the perp to do anything with. And even then, creating a new account is pretty easy, so you also have to make sure all your stuff is 'friends only' and you're carefully screening every request you get.

I think blocking could potentially provoke the worst kind of person. If they already have your name/number, they can most likely find your address through public records. I use a database to screen unknown calls I get, and it gives me a shocking amount of details--not just current address but past addresses, email address, names of relatives, names of "associates", etc. Apparently it's legal because it just pulls from public info like tax and property records.

I had a chat with a female colleague today about her dealing with a creep, which ultimately has me thinking about this. I stopped short of telling her much of the last part though, as I didn't want to scare her or come off as a creep myself... but I think women should be aware of it, especially if there are legitimate safety concerns.

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-14T12:58:24+00:00

Ok, maybe it's just me, what is so wrong about something like this? The guy liked her and shot her a message asking if she'd like to get a coffee. Yet everyone in that thread is losing their minds acting like he's some kind of creepy stalker who should be arrested. Maybe it's a culture thing or I just genuinely don't get it, but to me those women sound mentally ill.

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