My uncle worked as a psychologist in a state prison and when I was as a sociology student I had my praxis there. The whole notion that violent toxic men trick women into thinking they're good, sweet and kind before revealing their true side comes crashing down when you see that they will have girlfriends visiting them while serving. The shit they did is usually widely known as many of them had infamous reputations prior being incarcerated. Some of them even had affairs with female staff working there, a problem that keep happening often enough that the board had to introduce even stricter code of conduct. What is absolutely crazy is that my uncles incarcerated clients are far more likely to be in a relationship while serving time than his high functioning autistic male clients who never committed any crime.