Daily Community Chat Megathread

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-26T00:21:00+00:00

I was scrolling through old threads and a deleted user mentioned listening to a local radio stations morning talk show as their "daily dose of normie" now I need a daily dose of normie. Anybody have any podcasts or something that has normies talking about relationships? Give me recs!

DerayRevan · 2023-07-26T00:17:22+00:00

"As a man you should not date if you are broke"

What an interesting way of saying women value a man's money when coming to dating

Common sense but very controversial to say nowadays

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-26T00:17:09+00:00

People who complain about children existing in public are insane. Children exist, they need to exist and you should be happy someone is raising future generations when you’re too lazy to do so yourself. You can deal with a toddler crying on the bus just fine.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-26T00:03:55+00:00

Another friend just broke up with her boyfriend. I'm so excited. He was such a trash panda. I joked with another friend that two more mutual friends will be single by the time Venus stations direct.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-25T23:58:09+00:00

What’s the evolutionary reason for having a small penis? Why doesn’t everyone have a gigantic schlong?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-25T23:54:32+00:00

Some people take Reddit way too seriously. Talking comments from posters too personally. Using a post as an example for all humans. Drawing conclusions based on unreliable narrators. It's weird, letting some internet stranger upset your mood so much.

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-25T23:54:13+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/158hyq2/tifu_by_asking_my_girlfriend_what_my_male_parts/

Bruh are people really this dumb? It takes half a thought for the GF to just lie but i guess "it's his fault if he's insecure"

Peacesquad · 2023-07-25T23:47:45+00:00

“I post bikini pics for MYSELF!”😂😂😂

Peacesquad · 2023-07-25T23:45:21+00:00

Don’t get married fellas lmao

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-25T23:42:20+00:00

So my mother went to see the Barbie movie with my sister and she thought the plot was stupid and didn’t have any substance at all “just like you’d expect from a barbie movie”. No matter how much feminist undertones they try to put in at the end of the day it’s still just seen as a bunch of dumb barbies fighting a bunch of dumb kens.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-25T23:37:44+00:00

I'm going to wrestling where I will successfully channel my anger and pre-workout into the sickest O Soto Gari the world has ever seen and I will finally be able to take down our gyms Olympic wrestler

Goddamn bad faith pisses me off. It's even worse when they admit they're bad faith but don't care.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-25T23:22:46+00:00

One of the most effective birth control measures for men is staying away from alcohol. Alcohol lowers a man inhibition so he takes risks he otherwise wouldn’t have and it makes girls more easy so they sleep with men they otherwise wouldn’t have.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-25T23:17:53+00:00

Official definition of an average US male....

💁‍♂️Height for 25-34, 5’9,

💁‍♂️income for 25-34, 53k,

💁‍♂️ weight for 25-29, 180 pounds.

(Thanks to whoever posted this.)

River_Archer_32 · 2023-07-25T23:11:33+00:00

What's with all the weird questions in askmen? "How do I ask this guy out?" " Whats something romantic I can do for my bf?" Women don't do these things. Wonder if it's just guys larping as women.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-25T22:59:37+00:00

I've been out so I'm replying to these comments individually so it won't get lost because I think it makes a good point

I have finally found something I dislike about women. Because it is consistent across all women : They fucking lie to spare people's feelings.

People calling me average. Not in just a physical sense but as an overall package. I refuse to believe women are actually delusional on masse

Other than Lillith. Lillith is beautiful and amazing and tells it like it is

We insult people worth insulting. Some people aren't worth the juice.

/u/Icy_Ordinary2025

See what's actually insulting is saying that people like me ARE average. It's much more insulting (and much less truthful) than saying "Yeah you're kind of a piece of shit damn."

Because the only reason that people would have major problems dating if they were average is because...they hated women and had weird beliefs about women. That's the only possible explanation. There is no other. If you're average, you can't date, that means you have weird fucked up beliefs about women, congratulations you're kind of a shit person who believes shitty misogynistic things about women (including you, the person reading this who says "I'm average and I don't do well with women!"!)

It is incredibly insulting to say that, much more so than just admitting "Bro you're not average".

And to /u/UninterestingFork

are you the owner of the truth?

how do you know these women are lying? maybe you have a terrible self perception

Yes. I am the owner of truth. I know it's true because /u/Icy_Ordinary2025 was one of the people claiming I was average, and she admitted up above in her reply to me that "Yeah that's a lie, you're just not worth insulting".

Special-Possession44 · 2023-07-25T22:46:00+00:00

as many guys already know, recent research has found that the female orgasm is absolutely essential to conception, thus the high rates of failure of IVF (because IVF does not have female orgasms included). so if a woman is not attracted to you, she probably won't conceive even if you fire non stop inside her:

https://www.accessdiagnostics.co.uk/pages/faq-pre-seed-lubricant

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T22:37:04+00:00

Men, if you found out you were pregnant right now (whether you've had sex or not), how would you react? Genuinely, think about having a fetus in your abdomen right now.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-25T22:25:49+00:00

Please define the "average guy" for me so its clear what people mean by that

4SSh01e · 2023-07-25T22:03:22+00:00

Rate my Tinder bio

My idea of adventure is taking a brutally long hike, or challenging myself in some way. I love working out, and listen to audiobooks often.

I want to live in a cozy little home (preferably red) with antique decor, a huge garden with apple trees and preferably have some rabbits or even a goat or two.

I think I will get along the best with someone who is chill and likes to revel in the simple pleasures of life.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-25T21:54:47+00:00

So I've learned what isn't average. Can someone tell me what an average US man is? An average US woman? Be specific as possible, their appearance, their job, where they live, their income, etc.

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-07-25T21:54:24+00:00

Lots of feminists triggered by the fact that Oppenheimer doesn't have a lot of female screen time. Meanwhile Barbie has plenty of male screen time, but all of the men are portrayed as idiots and/or evil. I actually wish Barbie didn't have any male screen time whatsoever.

It's kind of embarrassing how women can't write a movie that uplifts women without also tearing men down. Really reveals how little they think of their gender.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-25T21:36:13+00:00

I think its weird how many non religious guys want a traditional relationship, or a more conservative one. I wonder how many guys convert to a religion just to be accepted by a woman and her family? Probably a lot

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T20:56:25+00:00

If a woman is hungry, tired, or stressed, she probably has -500 sexual desire right now. It's not your responsibility to fix it (though that is boyfriend material if you do), but just FYI.

She's most likely not just withholding sex to punish you - she literally feels NOTHING sexually at the moment.

I don't think men are wired the same way. Correct me if I'm wrong.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-25T20:52:16+00:00

I still don’t understand what the purpose of instagram is.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-25T20:48:10+00:00

https://youtu.be/3Y81L_CUV3M

Do you want to be loved, or do you want to Be yourself?

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-25T20:43:08+00:00

Feminists hate nationalism, I hate it too frankly. But then they love the concept of the "Sisterhood" and women sticking together. To me there is nothing more stupider than this, like I try to imagine an instance where I might say "We men need to stick together" but none of them are realistic. The exact same reasons why someone might hate and detest nationalism as it strips people of their individuality and leads to numerous pointless conflicts so is identifying and trying to "group-up" a whole gender.

There is really nothing more off putting to me than seeing someone so weak that they can't help but find refuge in things like ideologies, politics, beliefs, religion, countries, and other shit like that. Hail individualism and free singular human thinkers who don't belong to any nationality, religion, country, or ideology.

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-25T20:40:54+00:00

Honestly fuck r/twoxchromosomes, can you imagine being this fucking bitter and miserable? Imagine dating a woman like this.

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These are the same women to go “men need to support women”, or that men need to speak up about abortion. Imagine some impressionable 14 yo boy sees this? Feminist nutjobs cause just as much harm in brainwashing young boys as Andrew Tate and the others do.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-25T20:38:08+00:00

Women fail to understand that having good general social skills does not always translate to having good male specific dating social skills.

For women, dating social skills are heavily correlated with other general social skills because they are in the passive role. Be pleasant, interested, good eye contact, ask questions, good conversationalist. But for men there are extra skills required that are about being the active role, leading conversations, planning exciting dates, understanding when and how to escalate romantic/sexual tension, text message rizz/game.

That’s why when women just say “get better social skills” it mostly falls on deaf ears, as there is a whole set of social skills in dating they don’t need to do.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T20:36:07+00:00

Some men here talk about women like they're an alien species as if we're not sitting here on the toilet scrolling just like you are

We're just more likely to be bleeding from our genitals at the same time

S/O to any fellow menstruating or pregnant ladies in here.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-25T20:29:16+00:00

Women don't use these unhinged 1-10 scale ranking. Nobody can even agree with what a 5 and an 8 are. We look at the whole man, not just his appearance.

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-07-25T20:28:42+00:00

What do you do if you're a man with a woman marketing person on a zoom call about marketing, and you try not to manterrupt the woman marketing person, but then she just sits there silently, making the whole meeting super awkward so you speak up to break the unbearable silence?

Should you turn yourself into HR today or wait until she files a complaint?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-25T20:25:41+00:00

"I am not seeing average men having sex all the time" - What are they supposed to do? Send you sex tapes?

The takes in here grow more unhinged by the day.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-25T20:14:49+00:00

Ok but what did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-25T20:14:43+00:00

I want to dye my hair purple and bright green and become a feminist.

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-25T20:06:35+00:00

Do you usually unmatch people on tinder after you start taking to them on iMessage or another platform?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-25T20:00:02+00:00

I have finally found something I dislike about women. Because it is consistent across all women : They fucking lie to spare people's feelings.

People calling me average. Not in just a physical sense but as an overall package. I refuse to believe women are actually delusional on masse

Other than Lillith. Lillith is beautiful and amazing and tells it like it is

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-25T19:48:36+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/cs0e2rl7z5eb1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8d0ca06a3a483cff42a9b9f533b89103c56ac510

Is this girl being genuine or just fucking with me?

I have been talking to this girl I matched with on Tinder, and we had some nice conversation. I thought it was going really well, until she said this.

I made a really dumb joke (about some guy named Cooper, who I’m now thinking might be her ex) which she seemed to find funny.

Then, she said we should go on a date, but this is weird to me because women never ask unless he’s Chad (I am maybe a high-tier normie on a good day, maybe chadlite if the pic is in good lighting and I get lucky with a nice angle). Also she kinda just sprung it on me, idk. I think this might also be a temu scam.

She even offered to buy me something (I had mentioned earlier that I liked tea). Women don’t do this, right? I was thinking abt this, because if she respected me enough as a masculine man, she would have wanted and expected me to pay. Does she think I can’t pay for myself, or that I’m an inferior male who needs to be paid for?

Is this a setup, or a test? What do you guys think? Should I block and delete?

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-25T19:34:03+00:00

I am starting to think that Icy Ordinary and Lilith are relatives, the resemblance in their mannerisms is uncanny.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-25T19:19:08+00:00

I'm beginning to wonder if "average man" discussed constantly here is really "below average" out there, off line.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T09:50:59+00:00

❗People in their late 20s-30s❗

Look at one of your old yearbooks and look up the names on social media. You might be surprised at how many of them have at least 1 kid and are married/in LTRs. And don't just focus on the pretty people!!! The average/ugly people are out here killing it, too!!!

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Slyfer_Seven · 2023-07-25T02:01:06+00:00

Women...

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-25T02:16:53+00:00

https://pagesix.com/2023/07/20/america-ferrera-admits-her-guilty-pleasure-is-not-showering/amp/

It seems like more celebrities are admitting to not showering now than I remember growing up. This is especially gross because they shit every day and are sexually active

This morning you took a huge dump, wiped your ass with dry toilet paper where there is still shit particles in your ass and butthole hair. No shower

You then went on a date where a dude was on top of you sweating for 20 mins during sex then eventually nuts inside you and you were Again like nah no shower I’m good.

ExpensiveVacation549 · 2023-07-25T02:29:12+00:00

Make paternity fraud a criminal offense

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-07-25T02:44:33+00:00

Q4A: What’s the worst thing you let a partner/romantic interest get away with because they were hot?

HolidayWhile · 2023-07-25T02:49:12+00:00

I asked another question in the previous thread, but most replies focused on my rural situation instead. So I'll ask a question more relevant to those answers.

I'm a man in a rural area/small city environment in a generally rural state in the US. I have made every attempt to "go outside" and "touch grass" and improve my fashion and personality, but there is no one outside, everyone I see is old and the only people under 35 that I see are working cash registers, stocking shelves, or otherwise unavailable.

People yesterday suggested this isn't normal and I should move somewhere else -- so, where?

Slipthe · 2023-07-25T02:53:01+00:00

Functionality is better than authenticity.

Hypocrisy allows for functionality.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-25T02:58:00+00:00

YouTube is recommending to me hot chicks with knives and survival skills: https://youtube.com/shorts/SDWgOSl3MbQ?feature=share

How did it know my type ?

MyLastBestChance · 2023-07-25T03:03:40+00:00

Out in my garden at dusk tonight I got to watch an owl swooping and hunting and it was absolutely amazing. Totally silent and strangely but brutally beautiful.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T03:10:20+00:00

Imo a lot of relationship problems are really "co-habitating" problems. Imagine being in a relationship but you never have to fight about chores, bills, who's making dinner, personal space... Every time you see each other, you're going out of your way to prioritize them. Sex might be more exciting because seeing them naked is more rare. You can keep your own sleep schedule, make as much noise in the morning as you want, sit on the toilet for an hour, etc., and nobody is questioning you.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-07-25T03:16:10+00:00

I made a dad joke to a pretty girl in my building elevator today. She smiled. I was speechless then went to my room and cried.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-25T03:28:56+00:00

my goal is to find a desparate woman in her 30's who wants a family, woo her with my money/resources, then hopefully attraction can develop from there.

There have been studies that attraction can develop over time.

GridReXX · 2023-07-25T03:38:02+00:00

Barbie was pretty good. Kind of a meta movie for this sub lol.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-25T03:38:54+00:00

What did I miss

armpitpics · 2023-07-25T03:40:38+00:00

Female privilege is being able to hide your boners from your co-workers.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-25T03:51:34+00:00

What does a emotionally unavailable man look like

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-25T03:57:09+00:00

I am looking forward to these proceedings even though I expect them to be anticlimactic.

https://slate.com/technology/2023/07/congress-ufo-hearings-unidentified-aerial-phenomena-real.html

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-25T04:04:36+00:00

I'm planning another date, this one I'm paying for. I'm thinking of sporting event tickets and lunch at the stadium.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T04:10:19+00:00

When you actually go outside and look at how people actually interact, you'll see that average people, ugly people, poor people, above average, super hot, young, old, in between.... They all can be in relationships, too. If you're not terminally online you can see reality and it's much better

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-25T04:13:17+00:00

Wait is it true that 70-90% of women don't climax from penetration?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-25T04:13:19+00:00

The gigachad, my wrestling and sometimes boxing coach, that I was talking to you guys about is crashing at my place for a few nights while his new apartment opens up.

I have no idea where the fuck he's going to sleep.

He has a 3 step plan to get laid that he's basically laid out

Shoulders. Every day. Shoulders, shoulders, shoulders. Nobody gives a shit about anything else. We will also do other workouts but because I'm on TRT shoulders every single day. Every day. We'll still do full body workouts and other isolation work but there will be in addition to the normal "Okay today is legs" a half hour shoulder lifting workout, every day.
We're going out every night. We're not drinking but he wants to observe me at the bar I usually go to and he wants me to watch him. I already watched him last night (after party after his birthday) approach like 4 random women and get instagrams (apparently normies don't get phone numbers these days, it's all instagram).
Pictures. He has a photographer girl that works for him for free and follows him around to tournaments and stuff when he competes. We're going to get pictures of us sparring (not actual sparring, he would kill me) and me throwing him and shit. And then we're getting clothes and we're going to take more pictures. Instagram is more important than Tinder and it needs to be continuously maintained.

So there we go

GoldenHornyChicken · 2023-07-25T04:14:44+00:00

Fully awake in the middle of the night for a strait week, late periods, mood swings... All of it oddly familiar. I think I might be pregnant again.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T04:27:43+00:00

Interesting how some fathers really don't like the idea of their daughters dating. Why don't they do the same for their sons?

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-07-25T05:00:24+00:00

Wife comes home today after a long weekend away! Happy days!

Maractop · 2023-07-25T05:09:32+00:00

What even drew me to the pill space in general in all honesty was the feeling that I missed a milestone or that I was passed the normal age people experience all their firsts at. So I began overthinking about things that shouldve came naturally because I felt I was behind. And that just makes things worse because now know too much and have experienced nothing.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-25T05:21:13+00:00

So many guys think they are ugly but they are just really bad at taking photos

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-07-25T05:24:13+00:00

Successful career women are great tbh, they're less likely to want to leech off of you and less likely to be leftist.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-25T05:27:31+00:00

My imaginary boyfriend Jack Black is on the evening news supporting the writer’s strike.

keebydee · 2023-07-25T05:58:27+00:00

I know people don't care about dating woes but I gotta vent somehow. It just angers and depresses me that women that have the same disability as me have a far easier time dating than men do.

I can't even try and look up a wholesome romantic story without the result being plagued from 95% women. Where's my person that's "patient with my illness" That didn't care if I spoke or not? Someone that actually wanted to be around me without some fake stupid ass niceness or pity?

All I got was bullshit. Rotted and suffered alone. I didn't have someone to swoop in to make it all a little better. And that statement includes friends too. You know what? Fuck it, family too. No one gave a flying fuck when my illness was at its worst.

bsmith440 · 2023-07-25T06:06:42+00:00

I went to go see Oppenheimer this weekend. When did ads get so terrible? Most make no sense for what they're selling and seem like they were written by a middle schooler on pcp. Not one of the advertisements made me want to use the product.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-07-25T06:16:08+00:00

If you're a wealthier guy, consider freezing your sperm and getting a vasectomy instead of relying on condoms. There is nothing that bitches won't do to try and lock you down.

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-25T06:16:15+00:00

Clear coat is the supreme nail polish color (for hands)

Maractop · 2023-07-25T06:35:26+00:00

Does anyone actually care about how social media impacts boys and young men? I always see how it damages girls and their body image/mental health but never the boys. Why is it that people act like boys are unaffected by it?

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-07-25T06:51:20+00:00

How on earth do I stop checking women out? I am aware it might make them feel uncomfortable but some of them are so good to look at...

scwizard · 2023-07-25T06:55:23+00:00

Usually I manage to not think sexual thoughts during yoga.

But the girl right next to me took off her shirt right in front of me.

Of course she was wearing a sports bra under it, and plenty of other girls there were just wearing sports bras. But still her stripping like that caught me off guard...

Creation_Soul · 2023-07-25T07:58:55+00:00

Another vacation, another time to see very few male-only groups in touristic destinations. Almost everywhere I go (seaside, hiking, city-break etc) mixed groups are the norm (no surprises there), but for uni-sex groups, 80+% of them are women.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-07-25T08:51:10+00:00

Tbh the red pill / ppd revealed a few truths about men to me and my dating life improved cos of it so thank you men of PPD 🫡 also employed a few tactics of the red pill women and they go down a treat

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-25T09:20:00+00:00

I'm sick of some of the hot coffee slander I've seen on social media lately, a bunch of people saying that hot coffee is purely for "functionality" while iced coffee is to actually enjoy.

First of all, unless it's cold brew black coffee, iced coffee isn't real coffee, second of all, it's the other way around. Iced coffee is for when you don't have time to make a proper coffee so you just need a quick caffeine hit to chug. Hot coffee is to actually sit down and enjoy.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-07-25T09:27:35+00:00

Been a long month for me to the point I had to take time away from everything just for my mental health. I can say I bounced back well after my car accident earlier this month. Hopefully August will be better than this month.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T10:09:23+00:00

Men acting like women aren't insecure about their looks when eating disorders and cutting were commonplace growing up. For both men and women.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-25T10:17:50+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1590c6v/men_should_not_be_shamed_for_leaving_their_wife/

I stated a position that i did not advocate or believe in, never stated that man should leave their older wife, and the majority response is about my character or what i believe in.

Most people just emotionalize rather than read the actual post.

baiser_vole · 2023-07-25T10:22:05+00:00

I was talking to my boyfriend the other day, and I told him I am 49% serious when I say, I don’t want my kids to leave school until they find their lifelong partners.

Expert-Judge9762 · 2023-07-25T11:00:27+00:00

It just needs to be said, I can't deal with the constant pearl clutching on TwoX.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-25T11:26:30+00:00

The vast majority of mismatched couples(looks wise) I’ve seen in my life were coworkers at some job. You ask them “hey how did you guys meet?”

“Well we worked at…”

Say no more

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-25T11:28:36+00:00

It’s rarely if ever the women who actually live in the shitty neighborhoods with rampant shootings, rapes, and robberies who are online complaining about “how hard it is as a woman to walk the streets at night”. It’s the girls in the soft suburbs which is funny to me

4SSh01e · 2023-07-25T12:05:16+00:00

What kind of coffee do you like? How do you have it?

I love espresso based drinks with a little bit of Oat milk to take the edge off and add a nutty flavor to it. Cow milk in coffee feels absolutely disgusting in comparison even though I consume shit ton of dairy otherwise, so it's not like I don't like milk.

jobbo321 · 2023-07-25T12:19:35+00:00

I'm giving up if it doesn't work out in the incoming college year. I'll do everything, it's now or never at this point.

I won't care that much to the point that I'll get depressed, I just won't put any more effort into getting a relationship. If I get a relationship: cool. If nothing happens and I become a 30 year old virgin, also cool. It will either happen naturally, or it won't. And that's fine too. I hope that I'm atleast rich enough by then to dish out 200k for a surrogate mother.

redguard_crime_stats · 2023-07-25T12:33:03+00:00

So I'm getting a new rentoid, and she will be moving in with me in my personal residence. Yesterday I informed her of the rent, she will have to pay $5000 a month, with an additional 49% mandatory tip (usually it's 50%, but I'm giving her a discount because she will be expected to replace my household servant in doing all the cooking, cleaning, and laundry).

For some reason she got incredibly upset and went off the rails when I brought this up.

Trigger warning, extremely landphobic content:

She claimed that she shouldn't have to pay ANY rent because, I quote, she's my "girlfriend" and we're a "couple" or something?

I've dealt with insolent rentoids before, but nothing even comes close to this. I feel that I am already being incredibly generous with the tip discount, and not charging an additional fee for the honor and privilege of living with me.

So, AITA for charging her rent? That's how it's supposed to work obviously, and I have no idea what she means by "girlfriend" or "couple" or why that would be relevant to her tenancy.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-25T12:59:38+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-25T12:59:47+00:00

Seggs and n count?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-25T13:03:13+00:00

would men cheat if they had the option?

Check out this scientific investigation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K07czSmRmu8

Slipthe · 2023-07-25T13:03:17+00:00

How disappointed would you be if your daughter got into porn or OnlyFans?

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-07-25T13:09:08+00:00

Are you friends with your mother/father? How is your relation ship with them now that you’re an adult?

(Serious)

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T13:47:42+00:00

I haven't seen Barbie yet but I like how men are making fun of it before seeing it, as if they didn't play with Barbies or other dolls as a kid.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-25T13:52:51+00:00

I think it's fair to say, while the 80/20 rules are debatable when it comes to dating, what isn't debatable is when it comes to lust. Women only lust after the extreme minority of men, the majority of which all have the same bodystyle and absolute maximum amount of care taken into anesthetics.

The only way for a man to be listed after like men lust after women is to be at least 5% top tier in these categories or higher.

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-07-25T14:00:27+00:00

Barbie: We saved the constitution from the patriarchy!!

Ken: Can we have 1 spot in the supreme court?

Barbie: Mmmm... no... you can have as much power here as women have in the real world.

Umm... should men have 3 seats in the supreme court then??

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T14:24:51+00:00

If women like super masculine men who don't show their feelings, why do so many of them love/loved Ed Sheeran, John Mayer, Justin Bieber, K pop guys, Zac Efron, *NSync /Justin Timberlake, Backstreet Boys, One Direction /Zayn /Harry styles /Niall Horan /Louis Tomlinson , Edward CULLEN /Rob Pattinson, Jonas Brothers, Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom, Tom Holland, Lin-Manuel Miranda, Jude Law, Tom Felton, Drake... Who am I missing?

Yes these guys are popular with teens and young women along with middle aged women (gross when it comes to the underage guys)

And before you say it's because they're rich, talented and successful - they only got rich and famous because they were popular with the ladies AND some of them are barely talented let's be real.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-25T14:41:08+00:00

Apologies to my fans, I was banned for a handful of days,

This is a recent txt I got from a lady friend, who recently informed me that years ago, when I was regularly cumming inside her, her IUD had fallen out. She allegedly didn't know.

"I love when you cumm in my pussy daddy. It marks me as yours. But you taste so damn good too. I love that I pull your orgasm out of all my slutty holes..."

She is batshit insane. But damn she's so good in bed.

I have a sneaking suspicion she was trying to baby trap me.

Q4W: why would you try to baby trap a fuck buddy? This is assuming you are sex positive and engage in having casual sex often with fWbs and other non exclusive, non committed relationships.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-25T14:51:15+00:00

The way men in this sub are so afraid and emotional about the Barbie movie is hilarious. It's a movie about a toy doll, get over it all ready.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-25T14:51:35+00:00

You need to stop citing kpop idols as an example of women having varied taste in men. These guys are all ridiculously good looking.

https://preview.redd.it/dkgl972kj4eb1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=643471db69471a47520bb5f0629025fd586cf62f

Slipthe · 2023-07-25T14:54:55+00:00

Man I am so bad about dusting my keyboard.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-25T15:04:57+00:00

Last night the guy who is staying with me, he's literally sleeping in my closet for like 2 weeks lmao he might even stay for longer we don't know, show me his instagram DM's to show me he "wasn't bullshitting" (not that I ever thought he was)

I actually broke down crying

Like full on actual fucking sobbing

We're going out today to get clothes and get a haircut, he's directing all of it. And then he's going to take pictures for OLD

He has a professional photographer friend who works for the UFC (a lot of women just do stuff for him for free) who does shit for him for free and she will come by and take my pictures

AspiringMogger · 2023-07-25T15:16:30+00:00

My thread got absolutely filled with snide comments. I swear the people who comment here got a chip on their shoulder

baresquad · 2023-07-25T15:20:48+00:00

How are you supposed to dictate your life and choices around someone you haven’t met? People argue that a person’s past matters so is the expectation to miss out on experiences because your future partner might have a body count preference or not like that you had sex with a certain type of person?

You’d have to be an idiot to sacrifice things that you want to do for someone that you haven’t met and may never meet.

Ideology-619 · 2023-07-25T15:21:49+00:00

The fact that my recent post with a novel perspective was so aggressively downvoted tells me how much it struck a nerve.

Maractop · 2023-07-25T15:29:01+00:00

You really cant indentify a problem/issue you have without someone saying your are complaining lol. Its like if it doesnt impact them they dont care about it and see it as you making up an excuse

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-25T16:04:20+00:00

Men hit the wall once they leave university. They actually hit the wall earlier than women. Western Universities are the top of a man’s chances for women bar none, nothing even compares to the level of women you can get et a university especially since they are skewed female.

tumblr_throwaway78 · 2023-07-25T16:33:41+00:00

The dance off in barbie is an accurate portrayal of men tbh. You start out fighting, so stupid shit together, then become homies.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T16:44:00+00:00

I wonder if men who have very negative views of women ever voiced these concerns to a therapist and if so, what happened?

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-25T16:44:55+00:00

Egalitarianism and gender abolitionism does not seem to apply to heterosexual dating. Anyone who would disagree with this take?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-07-25T16:52:44+00:00

I can’t believe I spent the morning explaining to grown ass men why a movie about a damn doll isn’t that important to most people.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-07-25T16:52:46+00:00

Q4W: In what ways are men winning?

It seems that in every metric, women have the upper hand in society and in dating. Anything a man does to increase his chances will only last a generation before women turn it into them having the upper hand again.

I can give examples if needed.

scwizard · 2023-07-25T16:57:04+00:00

Most women I know who are in loving relationships with men also had loving fathers. That's no coincidence.

Is twox acknowledging that fathers are important now?

scwizard · 2023-07-25T16:59:26+00:00

There are subs like /r/truerateme and /r/FaceRatings that hit the front page more often than before.

What front page is this? I'm not seeing them on r/all

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-25T17:04:59+00:00

When a refugee ship carrying 500+ people sinks and 100% of the women died because they were stuffed below deck like second class citizens, it makes me wonder why feminism doesn't talk much about religion-based oppression. One of the biggest advocates for female victims of religious practices is an author who "must not be named" because of her views on gender.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-07-25T17:16:15+00:00

Movie dates are far superior to coffee/dinner dates for a first date. You spend time together without having to talk. If you can lean over and make at least one good joke during the movie she will think you're more charming than if you had to entertain her for an hour while talking. Dinner dates are like a job interview which isn't fun for anyone and she will be on guard and screening you the whole time. You both are facing the same direction invested in the same activity together as opposed to being in competition with one another essentially when facing each other trying to qualify for her admiration. It gives you something to talk about immediately after.

If she is the type that pushes for a coffee or dinner date, then you can simply qualify that you're not interested in her or that she isn't interested in you enough to take your suggestions into consideration. You could literally respectfully say, "I don't like coffee dates, it feels too formal, like a job interview" If she doesn't respect that, she doesn't respect you.

The only downside is that it can be expensive. In my experience though, women have always wanted to pay for themselves, even if I have offered because they don't want the guy they're meet to expect something from it. This is one of the many examples where my experiences with women are vastly different than the reported experiences with women online.

Workaholiconew · 2023-07-25T17:21:14+00:00

Girl: "Men dont want a honest, humble and traditionalist girl"

Me: "Do you leave your home?"

Girl: "Only to church, I am a god fearing woman"

Me: "Do you let men talk to you?"

Girl: "No, they may attack me"

Me: "Are you pretty or give anything good to people?"

Girl: "I am plain and I dont talk much to people"

Me: [Sigh] then how THE FUCK do you expect men to get to you? Arrive from the fucking sky in white wings!?

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-25T17:26:37+00:00

If taller people make women feel more safe on like a visceral level, and it's normal enough that they justify it and refuse the idea of changing this dating preference of theirs (a man should be at least taller than me), then what if employers also viscerally feel like taller people are more reassuring? The wage gap might just be "reassuring gap" or "tallness gap". Who would blame people for choosing more reassuring people for positions of power and responsibility? When you promote someone, you are supposed to chose a person who you deem to be the best suited for it, no?

scwizard · 2023-07-25T17:37:22+00:00

I was in a long-term relationship of 5 years at the time. Unfortunately, this relationship had been incredibly abusive. There was one sexual assault, but the main bulk of the abuse I experienced in this relationship was neglect, manipulation, gaslighting, and coercive control.

Everyone around me, including colleagues and even customers knew about this relationship! Everyone could see how much I struggled… but no one could help.

My now ex-boyfriend helped save me from this relationship.

Everyone else wanted no part in the drama triangle.

Like any relationship, it was wonderful in the beginning. We laughed all the time, he was funny, witty, charming, and charismatic. Incredibly intelligent. He was everything I’d been dreaming of… I really believed that the universe put us on each others paths because we were meant to be.

But… it wasn’t long before the abuse started.

And the drama triangle continues...

Before they released him on bail, I was called again to be told that he’d denied everything, but that they would be keeping both of his phones for the next 3 months.

Here’s the thing. I still love him. Even now, even after everything he’s done to me… I still love him. I was worried sick about him when he was in custody. I was worried about how having his phones ceased would impact his work (he’s a store manager). The police know that if he did contact me and asked for the relationship back, I’d say yes without hesitation, and that’s what puts me in a very vulnerable position.

And the drama triangle continues. Maybe a new rescuer will come along at some point.

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-07-25T17:47:19+00:00

/u/mrs-drgree we need a Barbie Movie weekly thread

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-25T17:55:43+00:00

I am the Ugly Man.

My sexual desires will always be considered Disgusting due to being the Ugly Man.

Therefore, my sexual desires will fill me with disgust, seeing as they will always be viewed as Disgusting.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-25T17:56:21+00:00

Dang, today would have been a great day to go to the pool, instead I'm stuck in a meeting with an insurance company complaining about budgets and dead people showing up in their mailing lists.

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-07-25T18:14:07+00:00

We had a company lunch yesterday and the husband of one of the young 20-something girls that works here had an emergency meeting that he couldn't get out of.

He comes in and says he's in big trouble with her because he had to miss the lunch.

Yeah, that seems totally reasonable and rational to get mad at your husband for skipping a shitty lunch to keep his job! Why are women so entitled??

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-25T18:24:58+00:00

WTF? Saving Private Ryan didn't pass the bechdel test!???🤬🤬🤬

supremethrone · 2023-07-25T18:31:39+00:00

I've finally accepted that I have no talent whatsoever for music and that playing guitar just makes me mad, frustrated and depressed. I would just break it in half and throw it away, but society and women tell me that I need to have a hobby or else I'm a red flag. I really wonder why my buddy whose only hobby is drinking beer after work is so successful with women though. Perhaps being an alcoholic is a legitimate hobby.

ThisBoringLife · 2023-07-25T18:45:57+00:00

I already asked this at work, so I may as well stretch the list:

I'm looking for a solid film to watch. List one film only (explanations if you care to add it).

DerayRevan · 2023-07-26T00:33:54+00:00

"Women do not become more romantic later on in the relationship"

Are women even naturally romantic at all ?

Most common romantic acts, are done by guys

Buying her stuff like flowers and chocolate or whatever

Going on nice dates which majority of the time is done by the guy

Saying romantic stuff

TheSongsInYourHead · 2023-07-26T00:46:14+00:00

The issue with men being the ones who approach is that it's inefficient.

When I touch grass I'm at least somewhat attracted to the vast majority of women I see, but most of them aren't going to want anything to do with me.

Women aren't attracted to most men, so it would make more sense if they just approached the ones they wanted.

Women complain all the time about unwanted attention, but twin facts that men are the ones expected to approach and that they're going to be rejected by the majority of women they approach, pretty much ensures you're gonna get swarmed by thirsty men.

If the norm was women approaching, you'd just quickly select your mate and get off the market and whoever doesn't get picked can just accept that their palm is gonna have to do.

saraimarsena · 2023-07-26T00:48:17+00:00

so ik we’re all pm auto banned from certain subs for being active here.

are other mods just able to see our comment history? if i scrubbed and deleted all my comments from this sub would i be able to skirt being banned? or can bots still tell that i’ve been active here before

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-26T00:58:18+00:00

People who have been in interracial relationships - have you noticed any differences with dating, maybe more or less struggles?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-26T01:03:20+00:00

"People underestimate how circumferential attraction is"

For women sure, because you can use the environment situation to attract them

For men it's not circumferential at all, either we are already attracted to you or not

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-26T01:19:37+00:00

What movie or tv show would you recommend a woman to watch to help her understand men more?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-26T01:27:25+00:00

I think my jaw might be broken or dislocated after I tried to O Soto Gari the Olympian and he reversed me. Oof. Ouch. Owwie.

Q4All: What are the dating advantages of having a dislocated jaw

Follow up: What is the point of a dating debate sub if people are doing it in bad faith

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-07-26T01:52:32+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/cqo87dbst7eb1.png?width=1169&format=png&auto=webp&s=093e1839faedf5ae112b4cf5953db269ca0a337b

Which one of you made this hinge profile??

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-26T02:52:34+00:00

Romance/comedies that (wholly or in part) focus on the men's experiences:

Sleepless in Seattle

Groundhog Day

500 Days of Summer

Before Sunrise (HIGHLY RECOMMEND, IF YOU WATCH ANY, WATCH THIS ONE.)

Garden State

Man Up

Always Be My Maybe

40 year old virgin

50 First Dates

Warm Bodies

What If/The F Word

As good as it gets

Annie hall

Say Anything

Jerry Maguire

Forgetting Sarah Marshall

The Wedding Singer

What Women Want

Nick and Norahs infinite playlist

About Time

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Hitch

Love & Basketball

If you've seen them, what are your opinions?

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-26T03:19:27+00:00

Q4W: if a guy says let's grab dinner and then hang out at his apartment after (and you said yes), what % chance are you expecting sex to happen?

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