Dating for men is 90% failure and 10% success, men also have to commit significantly more time, thought, and money into early dating. Men typically pay for dates, plan, drive, and have to entertain. There’s not much expected from a woman on the first few dates other than to show up and look good. If she makes good conversation she already has a leg up on the majority of women.

Most of that effort will be in vain. Women are significantly more picky than men and will find tiny things that’ll turn them off (Icks). Dating for men is disappointment. Risk with the very slight chance of success.

Now in the vast majority of cases, the only thing women risk is sex. They might have sex then never hear from him again, which is rough but honestly forgettable. This is the only thing men get out of women the same way women can get an emotional tampon and a free meal.

So when men pump and dump chicks, they’re not doing any worse than a woman getting a free meal and then jumping.

It’s an eye for an eye.