90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypes

• "when his voice breaks" ick
• "when he talks with his hands" ick
• "when he giggles with a high pitch" ick
• "when tries to apply sunscreen" ick
• "when the waiter ignores him" ick
• "when he crosses his legs wile sitting" ick
• "when he holds the steering wheel with both hands" ick

I thought this was meant to be tongue in cheek, but I then discovered there are psychologists studying the 'ick' phenomena and its real world consequences. The 'ick' factor leading women to ghost men with the reasons being just as banal and ridiculous. But what stands out is that these 'icks' are most of the time just men doing something what the woman considers unmanly or goofy. And even here I seen redittoretes saying something like a guy sweating or tying his shoes had made them get the ick. Do women really expect men to be doing performative masculinity as a stand up gig for 24/7?