There seems to be this notion on reddit and the internet in general that men who aren't having sex are these vile, disgusting women haters. In truth, those individuals are really an astronomically small minority on obscure corners of the internet. ~1/3rd of young men aren't having sex. That a massive portion of the population. You're talking about tens of millions of men.

The reality is that most men who are virgins and/or don't have sex are just very unattractive looking dudes and/or guys with very poor social skills who are otherwise fairly normal. They have friends, hobbies, jobs ect... just like other people. You probably know several.

And it makes perfect sense too, because being misogynistic has virtually zero bearing on whether or not you get laid as a man. It is first and foremost about your physical appearance (it has already been statistically proven that women overwhelmingly prefer taller men, men that make higher income, are more picky with race), and secondarily to that about your emotional intelligence/social skills, or what is colloquially referred to as "game"

To be honest, the whole "men who don't get laid don't get laid because they are misogynistic pigs!" is just another way women gaslight men and devalue their struggles. If you paint all men not having sex as bad people, it's easy to just throw out empty platitudes and parrot non-sense like, "it's in your head, you need to go to therapy!" The irony of this is that before I was redpilled women always told me that they know guys that are absolute pricks who have girlfriends. So women acknowledge that some men who are successful with women are pricks, but can't seem to comprehend the fact that if a guy can't get laid it's really not because of his personality.

And because someone will inevitably attribute some kind of bizarre conclusion I never suggested to me, I'll close by saying that the solution for these men is to listen to RP content creators and internalize their advice. Lift. Lose weight if you're overweight. Make more money, whether that means investing in your education, increasing your hours, starting a side hustle. Invest in a better wardrobe. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations to force yourself to improve your social skills. Find out what haircut/facial hair best suits you. Stop spending so much time watching porn and playing video games if you're doing that. Pick up hobbies and strive to have an interesting life full of things to talk about.

NOT empty platitudes like "go to therapy" or "work on your pErSOnAlity"; therapy can certainly be helpful for people with mental health struggles but most of the time people throw it out as advice, it's just a virtue signaling empty platitude. And obviously...do not take dating advice from women under any circumstances. They have zero game whatsoever (less than these sexless dudes...seriously) and no insight into what it takes to being successful with women as a man. Would you ask a fish how to catch fish? Obviously not.