Daily Community Chat Megathread

questioningfeminist · 2023-04-06T16:47:46+00:00

Q4GymBros:

When doing curls, my left arm is fine going up, but about 3/4 the way down, there's a popping on the tendon in the inside of my elbow and I'm super sore for the next few days right there.

Do I just need to go down in weight and do more reps? What's the fix here?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-06T16:36:57+00:00

I use to think Crybullies was a woman thing, but I thank this subreddit for showing me that men can be massive crybullies too.

Atleast when Matt Walsh, Michael Knowles, and even Majorie Taylor Greene act like assholes, they dont go “Why are people hating me?! WAHHHHH!” They know what they said. They know what they said was dickish, and embrace the hell out of the backlash.

If you’re gonna be an asshole, dont be a pathetic crybully.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-06T16:01:10+00:00

Saw a video of Ben shapiro criticizing Myron's RP dating marriage strategy

All respects to ben but what does he know dating since he got married 15y ago before social media became a thing

Also because him and his wife are religious

RP-MJ · 2023-04-06T15:45:50+00:00

Remember fellas

A women's power comes from attention

Keep that in mind when dealing with women

chancetolive · 2023-04-06T15:35:19+00:00

i was watching one of his laptop/smartphone tier stuff and noticed this. you can just watch the first few minutes and get the idea. But damn hes setting the bar high for the rest of us guys https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKvZ9KhLgHE

tldw; He asks her parents permission to propose, creates a custom escape room based on their dates for her, proposes with a ring he spent alot of effort finding. Considering he has money, he really worked alot for this.

1Here4Bach · 2023-04-06T15:28:24+00:00

You have no excuse.

RegTextoffender · 2023-04-06T15:07:42+00:00

This topic for women is kinda sad.

The women in those videos look downright bored and this is someone promoting it, so they are looking for the best shots they can.

I can get the appeal for a undersexed young guy who just wants to get laid badly, but thats horribly unappealing to me.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-05T19:24:19+00:00

“I only value sex. Therefore its 100% fact that women have nothing to offer than sex because I said so and I think Im God.”

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-04-05T20:48:22+00:00

Hope everyone is healthy and doing well. I know a lot of us want to slit each-others throats at times but I love this sub and discussing with all of you. I have learned alot from a lot of you. Men. Women. Younger. Older

Have a good day everyone

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-05T23:27:42+00:00

The OP: "women work less hours, so men shouldn't do more chores!"

Also the OP: "even if women work similar hours, it doesn't mean men should do more chores!"

If you don't want to do chores, just say so and look for a partner who's okay with it.

I couldn't imagine dating someone who was using salary as the measure of balance and chores and not time.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-04-05T16:39:21+00:00

Today on me pretending to be a red pill man:

“I hate American women so I go to foreign countries and use the women there as human flesh lights. I have absolutely nothing to offer these women except DEEZ NUTS and I look down on them for agreeing to casual sex with me. Also if they get pregnant I will leave them and if we get into an LTR I cheat. Doesn’t matter, RP is amoral, I had sex.”

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-05T16:16:45+00:00

Just a reminder, most people can categorize people based on patterns without stupidly going “AWALT” and “Yes All Men”.

People who think 4 billion people are the exact same with 0 variations are morons and their beliefs should not be taken seriously. Most people, including elementary school children, can figure out people divide more along the lines personality, hobbies, experience, socio-economics, culture, politics, values etc and not just their genitals.

Demasii · 2023-04-05T16:58:29+00:00

Claiming survey studies are trash because people lie is a dumb argument if you can't provide a better alternative.

A survey of 20K people is more valid with it's conclusion than the personal interpretation of the 20ish people you know IRL.

Edit: Spelling

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-04-05T19:25:13+00:00

Having a partner is hard work. When I was single my friends always told me that being in a relationship wasn’t easy: it was rewarding and being with someone is nice, but it’s hard at times. Boy they were right. It is interesting how my thought process changed now that I’m dating someone seriously. I’ve started filtering some thoughts through the lens of “us” instead of just “me”.

And that sounds nice, but now I worry sometimes about making sure he’s happy. Because I truly enjoy the fact that there even is an “us” to begin with. But there’s so much that can happen and it’s scary to think about. Whenever we have a little argument I low key get scared that this is it, and it’ll be over.

But we work through things. And that’s the tough part. If you want to be a good partner to someone , and you really care about them, you have to look at all the things about yourself and be willing to adjust. Not change completely, but adjust to help that other person fit. And it takes both people adjusting so that one person isn’t contorting themselves to be perfect.

Anyone else feel this way?

saraimarsena · 2023-04-05T19:53:39+00:00

Saw this tweet, and even though it’s written in the context of friendships I think it applies perfectly to dating and relationships today:

“ The individualistic mindset, the concept of self care, and the concept of boundaries are ruining friendships when people take them to unreasonable levels.

I don’t owe anyone anything

I can do whatever I want

My feelings are always valid

I deserve the best “

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-05T20:13:23+00:00

Honestly, if I had to list the most memorable topics I have been in PPD and the manosphere, this is most frustrating:

Manosphere: Its not fair that women’s feelings are cared for but not men’s! No wonder men kill themselves!

Women: Well, I go to therapy-

Manosphere: THERAPY IS A SCAM!

Women: I talk to people about my feelings-

Manosphere: BUT HOW WILL I GET LAID?!

Women: Have you thought that your mental health is more important-

Manosphere: That is weak beta male soy boy talk!

Women: Have you thought this mindset is why men aren't as prioritized in terms of getting help? Along with the fact you’re bullying guys who aren't to your particular standards?

Manosphere: Nah, it's the feminists causing this.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-06T00:24:46+00:00

My favorite contradiction!

The manosphere: Men dont want whores who’ll fuck everyone! They want to feel special and be with a woman with class, self-respect, and dignity!

Some woman: I agree. That’s why I heavily vet the guys I date and I dont have sex until 3 months in when we establish the relationship-

Also manosphere: YOU PICKY PRUDE! No man would want you! How dare you try to have him go through hoops to get laid?! You’re not even in a relationship until you FUCK.*

*But if he leaves after you two fuck, it was YOUR FAULT.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-04-06T08:56:11+00:00

RedPiller - "Western women are so deluded, I'm going to go to Thailand for some sex tourism."

Women - "OK go then."

RedPiller - "Noooo you need to agree with my reasoning for doing so!!!"

Just. Fucking. Go. If you truly don't give a shit about the opinion of western women because of their delusion, then why are you trying to convince them it's actually a perfectly reasonable and acceptable decision?

SweetCarolinaTea · 2023-04-05T16:03:16+00:00

Good morning to all men above 6’3 only

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-05T16:49:05+00:00

I wonder if anyone else has seen this: How dumb women and dumb men communicate.

Dumb women basically are proud they think with their feelings and will use “Think of the children” type arguments.

Dumb men believe they are intellectuals while constantly making arguments purely based on emotions and confirmation bias, completely ignoring when better studies disprove them.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-05T17:54:28+00:00

Also the amount of ads I see for "young girls wanting money" or "massage with reliable clients, all tips are yours" or "private massage, safe and secure" is just disgusting.

questioningfeminist · 2023-04-05T19:40:30+00:00

My buddy at work is going through a divorce right now and she wants $2k/month alimony, even though she has a degree and is perfectly able to work.

Will be interested to see how this plays out and if the courts are really as stacked against men as the manosphere thinks it is.

Billsandasonom · 2023-04-05T20:05:22+00:00

It always annoys me to hear women talk about how they "gave it up" in terms of having sex with a guy. If they don't use that phrase directly there is always heavy implication it was a sacrifice or favor. If it's consensual you didn't give it up. Your pussy isn't some special sacred prize. If you had sex with him earlier than you would have otherwise liked - bc you weren't feelin it, because of morals, or bc you didn't want to be seen a certain way - in order to secure commitment, you didn't give it up. If anything it's something you used to be manipulative. Overall it's a convenient way to minimize accountability and preserve one's image and reputation.

purplish_possum · 2023-04-05T17:45:32+00:00

I'm sitting in court watching a false business records sentencing. Let's see what an ordinary person gets for that type of charge.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-05T18:43:20+00:00

Newsflash, guys who are pushing for “paper abortions” are assholes. It is not society’s problem that a guy stupidly knocked up a chick who wont get an abortion. Should have banged a child free woman, I guess!

potoricco · 2023-04-05T19:28:11+00:00

Males claim women don’t understand that men think differently than them, and then go on to post shit like this, proving it’s actually the other way around. To a male brain,, traveling is a way to sleep with exotic women, that’s why passport bros and race fetishes/comparisons are a thing. Males then project this onto women and claim we travel to sleep around like them

In other words it is physically impossible for the average male to comprehend that women are not as sexually desperate as them

Steakman1 · 2023-04-05T21:39:36+00:00

I just want a woman who will sit on my face and refuse to get up like Rosa Parks😩

dynospectrum7 · 2023-04-05T22:08:36+00:00

Most people in this sub don’t even understand either pill and just get off to seeing themselves type. I get off to the terrible takes.

AquaChip · 2023-04-05T16:44:54+00:00

CMV: Without religions (and the concept of sins, damnation, virtues, etc.) civilized society would have never been created. And even atheists and irreligious societies still subconsciously follow to key rules of major religions.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-04-05T17:04:18+00:00

Well la dee dah, just got myself a 3.5% raise.

Now I can buy the fancy pasture-raised eggs!

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-05T17:32:07+00:00

Husband and I have been going through some shitty times financially, but ppd has made me notice that I concentrate on "how I can make more money" and not on expecting him to do the same. I wonder when the hypergamy was supposed to kick in.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-05T17:56:58+00:00

A study on women and men’s height preferences found that women are most satisfied when their partner was 8 inches (21cm) taller. Men are most satisfied when they are 3 inches (8cm) taller than their partner.

But blue pillers and women told me it was just dating apps bros?

mummydontknow · 2023-04-06T04:18:23+00:00

This sub summarized

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-05T16:00:48+00:00

Have a good day, everyone.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-05T16:09:56+00:00

At different times in my life I’ve seen women in person or online attempt to make fun of or diss guys who they let smash and it just never works. The jokes or insults just don’t land

“Oh that’s why you have a little penis”

Um ok

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-05T16:22:44+00:00

so this storm really came by my place, dropped a nuke, and left

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-05T17:12:42+00:00

Men are apparently better and more frequent liars than women.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8982912/#S8title

The first experiment indicated that men’s disposition to lie more than women in a face-to-face deception game derives from men’s enhanced assessment of their lying ability, stronger narcissistic tendencies, and to some extent, men’s experiential thinking style

Just another thing us men beat women at😎

Maffioze · 2023-04-05T17:32:40+00:00

We all know the unhinged, hatefull and disgusting takes from some men here.

But what is almost more frustrating is the women here who act like assholes in more subtle ways. They especially come out when topics such as male rape victims, domestic violence and paper abortion come up. There is no talking to them.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-05T21:49:41+00:00

Can someone PLEASE give me provide text messages, videos, or any conversations of women disregarding the feelings of men?

And for the love of God, if it's gonna be a video, make sure the conversation can be heard and/or there’s subtitles!

I am so tired of guys telling me this happens “literally all the time and that’s why men don't show feelings” yet I can never find any proof of it.

I only see men saying this to discourage other men from showing their feelings. At this point, I'm convinced it's men telling men to not show feelings and just blaming it on women.

Edit: And if you’re gonna give me a Reddit post, I better be able to see both sides telling their story.

Brief_Crab_3710 · 2023-04-06T03:19:17+00:00

Of all the advice given here I don’t think any shows less understanding of well…anything really than “just get offline and the video games and go live in real life”

The last time I played video games even semi regularly—it was the Wii. I had to sign an actual contract with my parents just to be allowed a Snap and Instagram (at 19!). Before this gap year the last 8 years of life have been spent either studying like no human ever should or traveling (not shitposting online)

Where do you think my views on sex and dating (which aren’t red pill at all but sure as shit aren’t what passes as “blue pill”) came from if not “real life”? Hint: it’s not from forums I barely knew existed until like 9 months ago

Like most thoughtless advice there’s surely a section of people it actually applies to but throwing it around as a blanket is every bit the dumb sort of generalization that the shit you’re responding to is (likely) making

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2023-04-06T06:27:11+00:00

Men of PPD - were the good guys, we would make such great partners of just given the chance but women here all go for men who are losers who don’t wipe their own ass!

Also men of PPD - men are superior to women if we work 4 more hours a week, why should we also have to help with housework and childcare.

The jokes write themselves you guys. Sometimes I don’t believe it even reading it, it’s like surely y’all know this doesn’t help the whole, “we’re better men” argument right?!

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-04-06T11:23:52+00:00

There's only one thing worse than a man who is a bad dancer, and that's a man who refuses to dance.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-05T16:09:23+00:00

Women: I prefer men above 6 feet

The same women: yAll JuSt HavE aUtiSm

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-05T17:42:56+00:00

I dated for fun for approx 15 years. Didn't start dating for marriage until 30+.

According to what I read here, that is an impossible feat. To be a woman, over 30, with a sexual past looking for marriage. It's impossible to find love and a happy relationship.

Wild that so many people are finding their best relationships in their 30s after a decade plus of dating.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-05T18:08:49+00:00

I think that every regular on PPD has some sort of dating/marriage issues.

This narrative of "I'm just coming here for fun" sounds like B.S.

blueshinx · 2023-04-05T19:44:54+00:00

It’s spring and I’m falling in love with my hometown again. I couldn’t imagine living anywhere longterm that isn’t close to the sea

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T20:38:49+00:00

"Women want sex too"

Ok then why aren't they sleeping with the majority of guys ?

Women do want sex since they are humans but there's conditions to them having sex with men

And this is where the top 10% of guys come in to meet those conditions

rantsincognito · 2023-04-05T21:48:12+00:00

I've noticed a certain demographic here (and IRL tbh), whether through avatars or comments, that comes up with really asinine points, thrives on demeaning others, or is just otherwise insufferable. All while crying about how they were "bottom of the totem pole" (a phrase I saw one of them actually use once) or got the shortest end of the stick historically. Makes me wonder, did them being treated that way historically cause them to act this way now, or did this behavior lead to them having that historical experience?

Play_Muted · 2023-04-05T22:21:10+00:00

https://prnt.sc/KfBh7PsLNfUg

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-05T23:33:14+00:00

I never understood why old guys were so obsessed with golf, even though most guys are shit

After hearing the jokes, spending some time here, and playing a round, I completely understand it now

text-redacted · 2023-04-05T23:39:19+00:00

Date night sure is taking a big bite out of my wallet tonight 😬

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-04-05T23:45:20+00:00

I will pretend to be a red pill man again:

“I am 50 and make $100k a year. I absolutely despise women my age who make $100k a year and I will only date women who are under 30. I am not hypergamous”.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-04-06T00:00:52+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/u/somebuddy1/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

This guy is 5’2. Go through his post history. Zero excuse for guys who swear up and down its their height keeping them getting laid

TooHornyToFap · 2023-04-06T00:04:51+00:00

Y'all ever wonder how cucked you'd be if your AI gf cheats on you

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-06T00:07:16+00:00

Folding my man's laundry and watching X-Men.

I really enjoy cosplaying as a housewife.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-06T01:00:08+00:00

lilith post loading...

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-04-06T01:35:14+00:00

Group A: you guys need to stop being stat nerds and using numbers to generalize gender dynamics. Real life isn't numbers and there are alot of variables to account and stats can't represent all of them.

Group B: stats are more reliable then anything we have. Reduces edge case generalizations. We can't be perfect but we can make a good general understanding of the different issues there is with dating.

I see the argument on both sides. I think these are great arguments. What you guys think?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-06T02:29:25+00:00

I've gotten so used to using the word "fattie" so casually here I'm afraid I might accidentally use it in real life and offend people.

Individual-Fan8787 · 2023-04-06T02:59:22+00:00

this is for those passport bros: in a recent private investigator study conducted in asia (not sure whether it can be extrapolated to the west), asian women cheat more than asian men in the age group of 20-40 years old while men only cheat more from age 55 onwards (but still less than women in the 20-40 age group). A whopping 70% of eastasian women were found to cheat on their eastasian husbands, far more than the men. While cheating rates among women have actually been going down in the west, they have been increasing steadily in eastasia until they are now the biggest cheaters in the world.

also, in a study conducted in china, a whopping 75% of chinese women abandon their children to their husbands post divorce, force-transfer custody to their husbands, a complete flip to the west where it is 75% of women who take custody of their children instead.

12throw1234away34 · 2023-04-06T03:03:30+00:00

Are there any actual 6s and 7s here?

I get the vibe most women here are mostly 4s and 5s with a couple 3s sprinkled here and there.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-06T05:32:57+00:00

20% of men and 13% of women cheat in a marriage. What's the percent after taking into account the liars? higher. What's the percent that can be convinced to cheat? Probably a lot higher.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-06T09:33:34+00:00

If your not a verbal communicative guy

Then why isn't your best friend the opposite ?

Should always surround yourself with very verbal people

That's the first step of improving your social skills

RP-MJ · 2023-04-06T09:45:28+00:00

"What do women want"

Money just like every other human

"What do men want"

Sexual variety

Maffioze · 2023-04-06T11:21:14+00:00

Its ridiculous how a man saying anything negative about women is immediately seen as a moral failing that he himself is completely responsible for.

Man A: Most women don't offer that much in a romantic relationship besides sex and childcare and most men wouldn't tolerate it without those things

Woman B: You misogynist! You don't see women as human beings and you're objectifying them by seeing them as bangmaids and in general seeing them as lesser than.

Me observing the conversation: Hold up what if women's contributions to a relationships are often lesser than men's contribution if you remove sex and childcare/household labour?

Why is this question ignored and why do people here constantly conflate moral/value claims with empirical claims especially when the subject is women? If someone is claiming they only care about women as tools for sex then yeah that's objectification since its a moral/value claim but if someone is claiming that most women in reality don't offer much besides that then that's something else intirely. He might wish they did but he thinks they don't, its not a claim about what he wants in women but rather about external reality. There is nothing objectifying about that regardless of whether you agree or disagree with that.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-04-06T11:30:14+00:00

Q4W:

Say you have been seeing a guy for 7 months, you want a relationship but he still has not given you a relationship. You found out he committed to previous partners very quickly. What would be your thoughts? Would feel less valued?

0DarkFlirty · 2023-04-05T16:13:42+00:00

Forget the women for a second. Every guy should be physically active for his own good and bigger muscles just make you look more traditionally manly. None of this is necessary but the level of inherent respect I get by just adjusting my weight only 10-20lbs is well worth it. Not even a big guy myself

Ohmaygahh · 2023-04-05T16:41:10+00:00

Seeing many topics about the "Paradox of Choice" women have and how hard it is for them to select. Traditionally called the secretary problem, occasionally referred to as the marriage problem.

The problem has already been solved: Here's the solution.

Take special note of how it is has further been refined, one is not aiming for the absolute best choice, close to best is still great!

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-05T17:32:20+00:00

These Balenciaga videos are so great

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iE39q-IKOzA

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T17:55:27+00:00

Why in the world are women so scared of what people think of them

Like l get it they are more socially constructed people

But men we lot don't care if we fit in society or not

As long as we accomplish something great and have sex

lulll · 2023-04-05T18:06:58+00:00

bud light is a perfectly fine refreshing bubbly drink to have with food that replaces soda and im tired of pretending its not. haters fuck off

JiifuhTV · 2023-04-05T19:10:38+00:00

women’s ability to always become the victim in every possible scenario needs to be studied

underrated trait that men need to start utilising

TheThrowaway964 · 2023-04-05T19:38:47+00:00

I find it interesting how people keep trying to blame men for their dating problems. Are we forgetting the recent study of 63% of young men being single vs the 34% of women? Let me tell you how this is going to turn out. Young men who never get into a relationship, never get attention end up turning 30, by sheer miracle they now have money (yes miracle cause this economy is hell, job hunting is impossible, etc), they start getting attention they did not get when they were younger. Now they're going to start living up to make up for what they missed in theirs 20's or arguably what some might feel like they were denied. Another subset are gonna be jaded & pissed, they're gonna look at all this attention they're getting with disgust & malice. There will a small section that want to settle but most are gonna fall in the one of the two former categories. Now the mere the fact you want blame men for their own dating failures despite the the obvious is maddening. You have men in their 20's who want to find a partner & grow together but alot of you don't from what it seems like. Then you get upset when you get older & men don't wanna settle down. Alot of you also get upset when men date younger women despite it being the same shit you did less than a decade ago. Do you really expect shit to not get worse cause it will. This how rome fell. They said fuck & dipped & then rome fell. The bandits came but who was there to stop them? Keep blaming men for shit that isn't even their fault & watch things collapse faster.

SmootherWaterfalls · 2023-04-05T20:20:58+00:00

Do the Q4M, Q4W flairs inherently place the two on opposing sides?

The idea of the sub is RP vs BP (vs. everyone else), but it seems like it's become a gendered thing almost strictly.

edgyny · 2023-04-05T20:28:39+00:00

Musk really hates the people who buy Teslas lol

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-04-05T21:16:20+00:00

Last question of the day: What accents do you all find the sexiest?

Kipp-Skhool · 2023-04-05T23:12:13+00:00

Men, where are you on women's scale of attractiveness? :

<- mega ugly - super ugly - ugly - medium ugly - cute ugly - ugly cute - Henry Cavill ->

I think depending on my angles, I'm somewhere between ugly and cute ugly.

lulll · 2023-04-06T00:15:44+00:00

why do women always have 50 empty bottles of soaps in their shower? are you waiting for a witch to come over and refill them with magic or something? the fuck is wrong with you

sabaping · 2023-04-06T00:28:54+00:00

How are fat, kinda ugly women getting on dates? Im fat and kinda ugly and would love to know

potoricco · 2023-04-06T00:56:06+00:00

How do I get popular on twitter

potoricco · 2023-04-06T01:11:06+00:00

Michael cera is handsome but y’all not ready to talk about that

LowCreddit · 2023-04-06T02:18:55+00:00

Q4 religious people, would you marry outside of your belief and faiths?

Happy Passover!

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-06T02:38:53+00:00

My back hates me for washing floors by hands. But I can’t find a proper mop here! It’s all plastic, wtf.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-06T09:28:42+00:00

Ngl it’s kinda amazing how many women are saying only a loser would want to go to Thailand to experience the nightlife

It’s probably the biggest “You have to buy American and if you don’t buy American you’re wrong!!!” I’ve seen. People travel for night life all the time. If a woman is tired of clubbing in Topeka , I’m not going to call her a trashy whore or a pathetic loser for going to Miami or Ibiza to have a better time clubbing

chancetolive · 2023-04-06T15:04:38+00:00

so first rings of power shows a couple where the woman is black with non european features and on the bigger side. now mandalorian has a clearly obese black woman as the qween.

cmon bruh

ashpr0ulx · 2023-04-06T14:57:09+00:00

i wanna try church but i really don’t know jack about christianity… im afraid i don’t know any of the moves

lehibu38 · 2023-04-06T14:43:53+00:00

Women if you approached men your rejection rate would not be high, you MAY face a couple rejections if you're asking out above average men, but undoubtedly you will land one, within 5 warm approaches. For men this number could be 10x, knowing this why don't you approach? Is it fear of rejection?

Because I am pretty sure approaching men, is more empowering, allows you to choose the guys you want, and will probably leave you with higher caliber men in your dating pool.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-04-06T14:36:01+00:00

Republicans are starting to pass legislation requiring your kids genitals be verified before they can play sports.

And they say Dems are the pedo groomers...

asofiro · 2023-04-06T14:33:06+00:00

Passport bros are investing in offshore accounts to avoid hoeflation.

shmupsy · 2023-04-06T14:32:47+00:00

what do you guys think of this advice? its so frustrating to me.

https://www.mensxp.com/dating/dating-tips/6273-how-to-deal-with-an-angry-wife.html

Peacesquad · 2023-04-06T14:14:46+00:00

I say this with 100% respect to women but evolutionarily speaking a woman has always been able to detach herself from a man and find a better one with more resources and strength for her and her offsprings survival. If you ever wondered why women get over breakups so easily it’s because they’re predisposed to abundance and self solipsism. It’s why they can replace a guy so easily. Again I say this as someone who loves women. Love my mom. It’s just why woman don’t care that much about men that’s why

potoricco · 2023-04-06T14:13:55+00:00

“Potoricco, why don’t you support casual sex”

Exhibit A

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-06T14:12:08+00:00

I love when a thief comes in the store who tries stealing is skinny af and tries to act tough.

"The fuck you staring at?"

And I'm just standing there thinking the fuck is this skeleton looking motherfucker gonna do? I could fart and it would blow you over.

Willow-girl · 2023-04-06T14:11:47+00:00

Spring break has begun at the school but custodians still have to report. (We do have Friday off!)

Last night in my boredom, I picked up a novel a teacher had on her desk. There was a bookmark it in, so I opened to that page and found a softcore sex scene. (Something along the lines of, "I was filled with a mixture of anticipation and ecstasy when he finally slid between my legs.")

My initial reaction was sympathy for the teacher, who is stuck in a room full of seventh-graders all day. Yeah, I'd probably want something a little spicy on my break, too. Then it occurred to me: what if a male teacher were watching a video representation of the same scene on his break? That probably wouldn't fly, lol.

Peacesquad · 2023-04-06T14:11:45+00:00

Everyone doing ok? I barely come here anymore haha

happy_discus · 2023-04-06T14:08:48+00:00

It has come to the point where almost all of my friend and even some acquaintances ask me, a 25 year old virgin guy with no dating or relationship experience, for advice in regards on dating and relationships. Don't get me wrong, I like to help and support them. In addition my advice seems to work out most of the time, but it is still confusing.

For example why would a acquaintance of mine who's very good at hooking up with women and did so very frequently in the past years ask me for advice on longterm relationships and how to get them.

chancetolive · 2023-04-06T13:58:32+00:00

8 types of anti-seducers can confirm bumbler+reactor is me

chancetolive · 2023-04-06T13:56:40+00:00

Did anyone catch this podcast with robert greene regarding seduction? https://youtu.be/Qv70RMUFlu0?t=2530 from 42 mins to 1 hour 11 mins

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-06T13:41:23+00:00

Try to talk about anything negative you experienced with women and you have to spend more time explaining that you don't actually hate women.

You know what would be easier? WATCHING YOUR WORDING.

I don’t believe for a second that men here don’t know how wording matters a lot, so this is just an excuse to be a crybaby.

Here’s how I worded my negative experiences with non-binary people: “I dont know why I keep having bad luck. The first three enbys I met were unhinged Narcissists. One of them was pro-Antifa and condoned burning down neighborhoods.” And the reaction I got from my LGBT friends was sympathetic because I DIDNT BLAME THEM FOR MY BAD EXPERIENCES. I stated my bad experiences while blaming it on bad luck.

Like I said, I don’t believe for a second that men here don’t know how wording matters a lot.

WestCombSplit · 2023-04-06T13:20:56+00:00

It's ironic how so many Women think Men don't care about Women. When in reality guys are generally more sympathetic to a woman than they are to a man

In my experience, from what I've seen and myself included, guys would be more likely to help out a woman than help a man

THHBHStT · 2023-04-06T13:15:59+00:00

Ngl if I was a regular poster here for over like 2 years I wouldn’t be telling anybody to go touch grass. No offense to the mods or anything

That’s fucking crazy. No wonder a lot of people here say they’re tired of the same topics lmao

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-06T12:58:24+00:00

I will conduct a series of experiments come September to see how many married/taken women I can get to cheat on their partners with me, and the success rate. I've never really done that sort of stuff before. But the annoying thing with most of these studies on infidelity is that information is so sparse. The PC funding culture of academia has it in a chokehold. The only way to get the information I want is to do conduct these studies myself.

Stay tuned.

relish5k · 2023-04-06T12:49:25+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Mommit/comments/12d2qik/husband_vent/

I see so many posts like this on parenting subs, they are a bummer. It's likely a case of poor communication, and I hope that for the sake of the kid they are able to stay together. But I get why being divorced from this guy would make her life easier, and I certainly understand the "loss of sexual attraction" in this case. Dad needs to step the fuck up, and Mom needs to specifically articulate her needs (and accept some childcare).

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-06T12:41:11+00:00

It's interesting that high infidelity rates don't seem to strongly related to human rights and economic prosperity of a nation. Countries like Denmark, Germany, Italy, Belgium, Norway, and France all have infidelity rates in the 40+ range.

Then you have countries like Thailand where most people cheat.

What could be the cause of this, as opposed to the US, which is ~16%?

Source:

https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/infidelity-rates-by-country

https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america

chancetolive · 2023-04-06T12:39:34+00:00

thigh is the best part of a chicken. dont @ me

liefelijk · 2023-04-06T12:30:29+00:00

Anyone seen Sharp Objects? It focuses on female violence and trauma. Might be interesting to some of you, if you’re willing to watch something with a female protagonist.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-06T12:12:01+00:00

About to visit my friend after his divorce

And l spoke at first lense don't get married at such a young age

But people don't wanna listen when you warn them

Most of our friends told him but he wants to bring up marriage counseling, dude is still in his 20s and going through this. This stuff is for men in their mid 30s-40s

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-06T11:41:43+00:00

According to LA Intelligence Detective Agency:

>74 percent of men and 68 percent of women admit they’d cheat if it was guaranteed they’d never get caught

nahhhh 💀WTF? I'm never getting into an LTR again.

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biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-05T16:01:03+00:00

Females

Bubbly_Taro · 2023-04-05T16:01:31+00:00

Is it normal to find that the brain is the most attractive part of a woman?

mwb111300 · 2023-04-05T16:13:47+00:00

Is there a similar sub for a younger demographic?

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T16:47:20+00:00

Threesomes ain't that fantastic a lot of guys think it is

Because realistically your just gonna be fucking one women more while the other gets jealous

And that's why l love it so much

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T17:25:00+00:00

How in the hell can you be pro abortion

Yet sametime believe everyone deserves human rights

Absolutely makes zero sense

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T17:43:45+00:00

The only thing that separates humans from other mammals is curiosity

Humans can the questions why ? How ? Where ? When ?

While pretty sure mammals can't

That's why we are the most intelligent species

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-05T18:22:43+00:00

Women, ask yourselves why men are not allowed to have standards. Think about it long and hard. Is it because you want the oppression of men? Are you overtly a supremacist?

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T18:35:12+00:00

Bitches specifically young women over here fucking guys for the same thing

Money and he entertains her

While older women are convincing themselves they are too mature for this but in reality your eggs have run out

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-04-05T18:39:02+00:00

all these talk about finding a women who makes as much as you to wife up, where do i find those who make low 6 figs?

potoricco · 2023-04-05T18:45:22+00:00

The new Barbie movie has too much feminist SJW agenda in it 🙄🙄

Maffioze · 2023-04-05T19:12:34+00:00

I guess some people were commited to proving my previous comment right.

questioningfeminist · 2023-04-05T19:27:22+00:00

How many of the women that are on those facebook "is this guy dating other women" pages are currently fucking tons of other guys?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-04-05T19:44:21+00:00

Bottom line, I'm here to tell you young men. There aren't enough sexy, sexually desirable and smart women in the world for every guy.

Concessions have to be made. There are levels of survivals you must be willing to accept in order to be part of the game.

I'm sorry to tell you this truth. The whole, there are so many fish in the sea is false. There's simply not enough, we need more volume, and there's only so many. This is in fact a scarce world afterall.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-05T19:46:17+00:00

I'm still giggling over SNL's "Short King" bit.

Petite Princes and Tiny Titans has me cackling.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T19:54:05+00:00

Well failed miserably to continue the date with the women l met at the coffee shop

Guess just me alone in my room tonight

Although my ex gf is with her friends in town tonight and she actually thinks l wanna see her when literally her friends is who l wanna hit on

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-05T19:55:44+00:00

Man want's to have sex to get validation.

Feels envious at women because they can easily have sex.

Get's turned into a woman.

Can have sex whenever he want's but gets devalidated for doing so.

DetectiveNo7095 · 2023-04-05T19:57:01+00:00

Sorry guys… what’s CVM? It’s not on list of terms

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-04-05T20:44:59+00:00

Question for the ladies: Are flowers on the first date cute or corny?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-05T20:47:01+00:00

Can’t believe I used to bite my nails. Yuck

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-04-05T21:03:59+00:00

There's a thread on the dating advice subreddit right now asking about how common unprotected sex is. I'm surprised- there are a LOT of comments saying that the women they sleep with don't care. I looked at my own numbers, and only ~25% of the women I've been with were cool with going raw. Is that comment section just unusually cavalier? Am I running into unusually cautious people? It's interesting.

Link for those interested: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12cpx59/is_unprotected_sex_really_common/

potoricco · 2023-04-05T21:27:29+00:00

Fuck movie theatres

Rundown: I am here with my 2 brothers

1 hot dog 1 small pop corn 1 candy bar 1 soda

Guess the cost? <span class="md-spoiler-text">$40</span>

Which then took 30 minutes btw, to deliver literally an empty cup, candy bar and hot dog that can be done in 5 minutes. and and this is in one of the higher end theaters in our area

Disgusting Anyways we are seeing Mario

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-04-05T21:45:16+00:00

u/EulenWatcher I've seen you mention before that you and your husband were Asiatic Russian citizens. Do you mind me asking what your ethnic backgrounds are? I'm curious.

liefelijk · 2023-04-06T00:26:00+00:00

Spring break!!! Let’s go!

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-06T01:28:00+00:00

Q4A: have you ever admitted to being wrong in a debate on this sub?

PS: I'm going to assume everyone who I know saw this comment and didnt respond, the answer is "no"

houstongradengineer · 2023-04-06T02:04:40+00:00

So yes just now realized the meaning of this song. It is about relationships, and it applies to me.

On a warm summer's evening On a train bound for nowhere I met up with a gambler We were both too tired to sleep So we took turns a-starin' Out the window at the darkness The boredom overtook us And he began to speak

He said, "Son, I've made a life Out of readin' people's faces And knowin' what the cards were By the way they held their eyes. So if you don't mind my sayin' I can see you're out of aces For a taste of your whiskey I'll give you some advice."

So I handed him my bottle And he drank down my last swallow Then he bummed a cigarette And asked me for a light And the night got deathly quiet And his face lost all expression Said, "If you're gonna play the game, boy, You gotta learn to play it right.

You got to know when to hold 'em, Know when to fold 'em, Know when to walk away, And know when to run. You never count your money When you're sittin' at the table. There'll be time enough for countin' When the dealing's done.

Every gambler knows That the secret to survivin' Is knowin' what to throw away And knowin' what to keep. 'Cause every hand's a winner, And every hand's a loser, And the best that you can hope for Is to die in your sleep."

And when he finished speakin' He turned back toward the window Crushed out his cigarette And faded off to sleep And somewhere in the darkness The gambler he broke even And in his final words I found an ace that I could keep

DetectiveNo7095 · 2023-04-06T03:59:58+00:00

I haven’t listened with audio on, but I’m pretty sure I can read the vibes

Hope yet? lol

hdjdjr3 · 2023-04-06T06:35:16+00:00

I need an opinion from men:

If a girl you were dating told you indirectly that the reason she is waiting until exclusivity to have sex with you is because you are relationship material in her eyes. Would you keep dating her? Or would you dump her?

(The girl in question had casual sex before you. She stopped only after meeting you)

RP-MJ · 2023-04-06T09:00:13+00:00

For the longest time men have always belonged in tribes with other

Yet it seems today most men aren't in large groups with other men especially teenagers

The average men probably has mixed social circle of both genders

UneastAji · 2023-04-06T09:12:13+00:00

I'm not single so I'm not actively approaching women.

But I noticed that among women my age, middle 30s, the vast majority don't care about me and don't notice me. They're taken and/or busy with their kids.

The only ones who have noticed and who frequently make eye contact with me seem to be middle to late 20s, and childless.

As I age it's getting hard to believe that my chances would be with women my age. Just like when I was 20 I also hadn't much luck with women in their early 20s.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-06T10:28:57+00:00

Just a reminder that even children are capable of understanding that people are not defined by their gender, so I dont know what excuses the “Yes All Men” and “AWALT” crowd has for not understanding a basic grade school concept.

Edit: And before someone starts saying “but gender does matter!” There’s a difference between stating a fact and being a dumbass. Saying “Women have the capacity of giving birth” is stating a fact. Saying “All women want chad and ignore the good guys” is what a dumbass says.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-06T10:42:11+00:00

Just added a couple of more suits to my collection, it grows even more by the day.

Sad that a lot of Australians don't take their fashion all that seriously. Good fashion here is considered overpriced t-shirts with shitty designs and overpriced tracksuits. People don't wear suits enough anymore when it's the best thing any man can wear to improve their attractiveness, plus they're comfortable as fuck.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-04-06T11:09:34+00:00

Q4W. Let’s say your bf is found to have done some serious gambling in the past. Lost tons of cash and always choose unilaterally unfavorable deals to play in. And his friends still doing that lifestyle. Would you be ok with him as a parent. Especially if you had a chance he’d tell your son all the positive aspects of that life knowing via survivorship bias.

dbz__f · 2023-04-06T11:29:37+00:00

Gender neutral bathrooms are an affront to men. I don’t want to use the sand public restrooms as women. I’ve seen the lines outside women’s bathrooms at busy shopping centres. I know how long you ladies take in their to wipe your ass or redo your make up or whatever it is you’re doing.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-05T16:40:38+00:00

People say fat shaming doesn't work but look at Asia. Few fat people and fatties are productively fat shamed to depression. We've unfortunately gotten to the point in the USA where being fat is so common, it's considered normal and not shamed anymore.

Make America great and thin again by helping fatties, especially fattie women, be motivated to change by constantly fat shaming them. America will be great when a large percentage of the female population stop being fat slobs and are dateable women with thin bodies again.

Fat shame and help cure the silent fattie pandemic.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T18:09:29+00:00

"If your wife was a former prostitute"

The past is the past but without there's no future

We do not bring human Traffickers in church because they want to become better people

Same thing in this situation, we do not bring such people in the institution of marriage

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T18:21:44+00:00

The moment she founds out you wanna fuck her by taking her out on all this dates

That's when you might wanna involve another women in the conversation

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-05T18:50:41+00:00

Q4A - If your GF gets pregnant, how many Plan-B pills do you have to slip her to abort your baby?

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T18:53:09+00:00

I just love it when many women lie to themselves by thinking they are unique than other women in the dating World

I mean seriously all women can offer a guy the same thing

Being hot and cooking/cleaning for him

So pls don't think your unique to the women next to you

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T19:23:30+00:00

"What if you were to find the right women"

Pls enlighten me on this "right women" on what makes her characteristics that special from majority of women

Crushes don't exist after high-school

potoricco · 2023-04-05T19:23:38+00:00

I’m not gonna lie Miles Morales is cute 😍

potoricco · 2023-04-05T22:15:50+00:00

The new super Mario movie is a great commentary on inceldom, anti female violence, and forced marriage. This is not a joke btw

RP-MJ · 2023-04-05T19:27:41+00:00

"She loves me so much bro"

Then am sure she won't mind you bringing another women into the relationship

RP-MJ · 2023-04-06T09:20:02+00:00

In my opinion

I think the most important skill you can learn as a guy is fighting and being articulate in your words

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