Men here constantly keep talking about women's n-count and how they prefer a wife who is a virgin which is honestly preposterous because men themselves don't want a serious relationship/marriage until they're 30. Realistically, you can get a wife 2-3 years younger than you.(No john you aren't getting that 21 year old hottie) So do you really expect that a 27 year old woman has to be a virgin especially in 2022? She probably went to college and met tons of guys before you.

Just like men, can women not have fun when they're young and then want to settle? I cannot wrap my head around why that's an issue. I understand if the n count is way too high but somewhere around 10-15 is normal especially if she hasn't been in a super long term relationship. So let's say she became sexually active at 17. Even if she has sex only with 2 different guys in a whole year by 27 she'll have an n-count of 20 which is apparently too high for men. Please someone explain to me why men can't do simple math and have unrealistic expectations of a virgin wife. And it's highly likely that a 27yo virgin woman is not attractive to you.

The only conclusion I can come to is extreme insecurity on the man's part which btw has been said multiple times on this sub.