Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-08-19T16:17:42+00:00

Tbf I'd probably be ok with trying it but im worrying about having poop remnants on my dick.

r2k398 · 2024-08-19T17:01:45+00:00

I don’t see the appeal and don’t have any desire to do it.

Zabadoodude · 2024-08-19T16:08:24+00:00

It feels different and the taboo aspect of it can make it appealing. Especially when your only experience with it is porn where it's always clean, looks painless, and you don't see the prep work.

But I don't know any men that would be resentful with an otherwise active sex life that doesn't include anal. I'm sure they exist, but I doubt these men are as common as OP believes.

gopher_glitz · 2024-08-19T16:00:09+00:00

Never had it and not interested, doesn't do anything for me.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-08-19T16:13:42+00:00

I’ve been with women into it, and a lot who wanted nothing to do with it. There are some ladies who say (when done properly with a lot of lube, communication and patience) that it feels good and they enjoy it too.

It’s not an “everyday thing” but if both partners are into it, then it can be a great experience.

That said: I’ve never felt the “need” to do or pressure anything a partner wasn’t into

comicsanscatastrophe · 2024-08-19T16:00:18+00:00

Never really done it and don't have a huge desire to, there's other acts that are kind of needed in a LTR for me though.

Common-Ferret-1435 · 2024-08-19T15:59:13+00:00

Sure. Why would I want my penis covered in sh*t?

Kaminaxgurren · 2024-08-19T17:00:29+00:00

Not sure how valuable my opinion is, but ngl, I think I'd have the opposite problem actually, if I met someone who wanted anal. I don't think I could do it, it sounds awful.

Jaded-Worldliness597 · 2024-08-19T16:41:33+00:00

I suspect some guys are just curious to see how it feels. I've also seen some porn scenes with this and I just notice the actresses portraying the feeling of pain. I wonder if that play into it in any way.

As for myself... I tried it once. It took a lot of prep, including some pre-stretching, and she still found it painful, and I didn't particularly enjoy it myself. I have zero interest in this. I suspect I just don't watch enough porn, or it may also be that my kinks lie in other directions.

Acceptable-Truck3803 · 2024-08-19T16:27:31+00:00

Some girls like it, some hate it, some are interested and give it a go and some folks say absolutely not. I’ve had flings and girlfriends who LOVE IT and demand it after the first time and/or couple times due to their pleasure is different and some of the kink is due to it being “dirty” and/or depraved.

Blanket statement is that it’s always a relationship plus if you are dating someone who is into exploring sexual kinks with their partner and find out together something is fun or it’s not.

Nothing more, nothing less. I suggest you step away from your Indian conservatism (post history), and realize people don’t all agree on the exact same things especially when it comes to interpersonal and sexual relationships.

tiddermacss · 2024-08-19T16:25:34+00:00

something to try i guess, but if thats a requirement then best to communicate before than get resentful later..

cassowaryy · 2024-08-19T16:44:57+00:00

Personally I’ve never cared for it. I’m guessing it’s appealing to some guys cuz it’s usually tighter. It’s really not that deep

Neptune-Jnr · 2024-08-19T19:59:45+00:00

I'm a huge pervert but I'm not a fan of the idea of anal. I've never done it so maybe it's just pure ecstasy but the idea never appealed to me. So I'd be completely okay with her not wanting to either.

SecondEldenLord · 2024-08-19T21:07:20+00:00

Each with their own preference. I personally don't like it, my dick is too thick for it anyway.

Anti_Thing · 2024-08-19T21:37:35+00:00

IDK why so many want it. Maybe it's more popular than it otherwise would be because of porn. I'd be very happy to have an LTR with a woman who says that she abhors the idea, in fact I'd prefer it.

krackedy · 2024-08-19T16:07:49+00:00

Pretty neutral about anal with women unless I'm on the receiving end, I like being pegged. It's not a requirement but it's a nice bonus.

moonsquid-25 · 2024-08-19T16:49:54+00:00

I enjoy having anal sex with my GF. It's a different sensation, and there's still a bit of a "taboo" aspect to it. Some women enjoy it and can have orgasm through anal sex. Some enjoy the feeling of it if they're also stimulated elsewhere (clit). Some find it -meh- but consent to it because their partner likes it. Some don't enjoy and won't do it. Your overarching statement about how women simply don't like it is way too broad. Some do, some don't.

Would I choose anal over vaginal if I could only choose one? Nope. Is it a nice change to throw in every once in a while when she's feeling a bit naughty? Absolutely. Btw, she's the one who suggested it, not me. Other partners have in the past as well. Would I leave her if we never did and never would? No, that would be absurd.

a_minty_fart · 2024-08-19T16:01:52+00:00

Same reason some heterosexual women love it.

You're overthinking it

jay10033 · 2024-08-19T16:01:39+00:00

Not interested in putting my penis where shit has been.

Otjahe · 2024-08-19T15:59:00+00:00

It feels different in a good way and because of the cultural stigma or significance

AreOut · 2024-08-19T20:17:59+00:00

I think it's just men want their D to feel bigger. I have never insisted on having anal sex but about half of girls I have been with wanted to do it anyway, the key is in communication and trust(that's why girls mostly like experienced guys), if you can get the girl to relax enough she will want to try it. It usually starts with me having my finger there(while we do standard sex) so she gets faster & stronger orgasm and when that happens she is usually open for more. Massaging her clit while at the same time having anal can make her verrry satisfied.

Oh yeah and put the condom on.

Solondthewookiee · 2024-08-19T16:06:15+00:00

It's hard to explain the appeal, I'm sure the taboo aspect has a lot to do with it, but it's not a requirement by any means.

PMmeareasontolive · 2024-08-19T20:16:59+00:00

I'm not sure if I'd be in a relationship with someone who "abhors the idea". A simple "not interested" will suffice, and I'm fine with that. But if she abhors the very idea, there's probably going to be something else, maybe a lot of something elses, that she abhors down the line. I have a feeling the abhoring isn't going to start and stop there.

valerianandthecity · 2024-08-19T22:15:41+00:00

But what's the appeal of anal sex in straight sex?

A key reason is probably the same reason why men like getting blowjobs, it's a different sensation and experience to vaginal sex.

Also, there is the kink of the act. The dominance, the pain or discomfort of the recipient, the mixture of pleasure and pain of the recipient, etc. Before you say "that's sick" there are many women who like that about the act too. There are many kinky people in the world, who like to explore sadism and masochism, dominance and submission during sex.

It's also a common act in porn, and many men desire to try out things they see in porn (e.g. positions). I suspect a lot of men like the visual appeal too. (You get to see the vagina if they are on their back.)

It can be really painful for women. Unlike men, we don't have prostrates and nothing in that part of the body can be stimulated.

There are women who find anal sex highly pleasurable.

Some women like the pain, and also the wall between the vagina and anus is thin.

There are many women that like the sensation of a butt plug, and wear it during vaginal sex.

If the idea of pegging is uncomfortable for you (and it's okay if it is), then you have no right to be bitter towards about a partner who is against anyone coming into her backdoor.

Just in case you misinterpret what I've just written:

In no way am I condoning people acting resentful or bitter towards their partner because they don't want to do anal sex.

However, I believe that people have the right to feel however they want to feel about anything, how they act towards other people is a different story though. Feeling and behavior aren't necessarily the same thing, I'm sure you'll agree. There are people on this planet who have no idea how intensely I dislike them, because I've acted friendly towards them.

JustRuss79 · 2024-08-19T16:12:44+00:00

They just want to try it, plus he doing it for him once makes him feel loved and trusted... if she enjoys it then it's something new to do together. Also built in birth control.

Curiosity mostly

Not a deal breaker for me, I assume it's not for most. Personally my ex wife liked it more than vaginal and it got routine and boring...

ibookmarkeverything · 2024-08-19T17:02:42+00:00

Porn. It's ruined a whole generation of men, and there's no chance of that changing any time soon.

TheGreatBeefSupreme · 2024-08-19T16:17:58+00:00

Zero interest in anal and wouldn’t do it if asked.

Upset_Material_3372 · 2024-08-19T19:06:16+00:00

I think you are greatly overestimating how many men are actually interested in anal.

Judaicyrus · 2024-08-19T16:02:12+00:00

I think most are curious and want to try at least once with their partner but I don't think it's a deal breaker if she doesn't want to. Women typically don't feel anything from anal. Men like it because sometimes anal is tighter than vaginal.

Me and my girlfriend tried both anal and pegging but it wasn't for us. The work that has to be done for it to happen is just too much for the little pleasure it gives us. She doesn't feel anything from anal and I'm not that into prostate massages either.

I have heard about men in LTR/marriage, stable, happy ones at that, go to prostitutes to get anal sex.

First time I'm hearing about this though. Not sure how common this is.

ta06012022 · 2024-08-19T19:44:40+00:00

It wouldn't bother me if a woman isn't into it. I've done anal with a few women, including one who wanted it fairly regularly. It doesn't do all that much for me and was most exciting the first time as a novelty.

If I never do anal with another woman again, I'm good. Oral is a completely different story though...

OtPayOkerSmay · 2024-08-20T05:23:29+00:00

Porn is mostly anal right now. Monkey see, monkey do.

Unable_Evidence_4028 · 2024-08-20T12:22:37+00:00

Theres a group of men who are into anal. If you want to be in a relationship with them. You will have to deal with it. It seems like it is not up to debate. You either do it or compensate for its lack. I am not part of this groups so I dont know what the appeal is (outside of not getting anyone pregnant) but I know they are very into it for some reason. It is important to add that until you actually try it, many men are into it. I was into it until I actually tried it.

WanabeInflatable · 2024-08-19T16:08:51+00:00

Absolutely. I find AS disgusting.

KentuckyCriedFlickin · 2024-08-19T20:15:28+00:00

Quite the contrary.

I would never allow anyone who even remotely applauds the idea of "anal sex" to be near me.

If anyone I know finds that appealing, I am immediately shipping them into a boat and sending them to an island as far away from me as possible.

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-08-19T15:59:06+00:00

It's just a bonus but not necessary

Velor22 · 2024-08-19T19:12:23+00:00

Ugh. So glad my wife and I aren't part of the hedonistic sex focused alternate lifestyles that seem to be popular these days.

Life is good. No need for cheap dopamine hits from bizarre sex acts. Can't even imagine doing crazy stuff with randoms of unknown hygiene.

Edit: I would prefer (and married) a woman who would abhor it. A woman who didn't, or actually liked it? Big questions/concerns then about her past...

Ok-Specialist-4777 · 2024-08-20T02:52:14+00:00

It feels different, and it feels good.

I wasn't open to trying it at first, but a woman I was dating grabbed my male member, pulled it towards her bum. I shook my head no. She shook her head yes, and put it in.

Once it was in, I was like "Ohhhh. This is what people race about". 🤣

Chebbieurshaka · 2024-08-19T16:08:15+00:00

Power and submission. In Rome it was looked down upon to take it up the ass because you’re submitting and not a real man. It looks bad if you can’t get your wife to submit to you.

MotleyCrew1989 · 2024-08-19T18:35:07+00:00

But what's the appeal of anal sex in straight sex?

I have heard and read about so many husbands/boyfriends who are secretly disappointed/resentful towards their wives/gfs for denying them anal sex.

First and foremost, men like sexual variety, and an alternative way to stimulate our penis is always wellcomed, 95% of our sexuality goes through our dick.

To answer your question, as a strict monogamous man I would lose interest to someone who is unwilling to put 100% in the bedroom. I wont go to other women loking for variety, it would be my partners duty to offer it, Otherwise I would be less interested in her as a long term partner.

It can be really painful for women. Unlike men, we don't have prostrates and nothing in that part of the body can be stimulated.

If done properly it doesnt. The wall between the anal and vaginal orifice is very thin, so you could get your G spot stimulated on the correct position, also the anus has a lot of nerves.

Funnily, many such men who desperately want anal sex from their women would absolutely turn down any requests of pegging from their partner.

If the idea of pegging is uncomfortable for you (and it's okay if it is), then you have no right to be bitter towards about a partner who is against anyone coming into her backdoor.

I like to have my ass stimulated, I sometimes do it while masturbating, I even own a few toys, BUT, I keep that for myself. I would never suggest it to a woman because I know that will change the way she sees me for the worse (less of a man), so pegging is not viable even if I would like to try it.

bread93096 · 2024-08-19T16:19:24+00:00

I personally love anal, it’s my main kink. I don’t think I could go without it long term, but I don’t mind waiting a while if a woman needs to be more comfortable with me. I told my last gf I liked anal but didn’t try to do it with her until like 6 months into the relationship when the mood was right. If it was permanently off the table that might be a deal breaker.

Realistic-Custard853 · 2024-08-19T17:27:36+00:00

Male, 33, I’ve had 6 hetero LTR’s of which only 1 of my partners requested and enjoyed/O’d from anal. I would say it’s my least preferred orifice but given she enjoyed it as much as she did I would still do it. I did some research on why some girls love it and some hate it. What I found had a lot to do with the tilt and position of the cervix as this would influence P-spot accessibility via annal intercourse.

MC-Purp · 2024-08-19T18:15:26+00:00

Anal sex for men offers a different sensation than vaginal sex. Some men prefer it, personally I’m not a fan. I suppose there’s an element of “would she do it for me”, but whatever portion of those motivates him is case by case.

And no, women can and do enjoy anal sex. I don’t know the biology to site what stimulates them, but anal sex can be very enjoyable and even induce orgasims in women.

TLDR: Anal is a different flavor for men, and Assgasims are a thing.

just_another_fuckboi · 2024-08-19T16:20:18+00:00

They are porn addicts and your asshole is tighter which helps with their death grip symptoms

it’s also more degrading and painful and they get to use and violate you in every hole you have and they like that feeling of power

Rockkk333 · 2024-08-19T18:54:21+00:00

I love it, it's 'more cracy dirty', it's tighter, it's psychologically hot (it's harder to get in; and i am into being dom and many women are into being sub so it fits nicely)
If they don't like it i don't push it
If i was monogamous and she doesn't like it i guess i would surely miss it
(I had anal with 29% of women out of over 100, i think around a third of women are ok with it and 10% absolutely love it)

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Inomaker · 2024-08-19T18:05:42+00:00

I'm uncomfortable with it and don't seek it. Best reason I can think of for someone insisting on anal is the reduced likelihood of pregnancy allowing the man to skip using a condom.

his_purple_majesty · 2024-08-19T19:29:14+00:00

Because it's taboo. I mean, there are women who are into it, too.

Does it have to be rational? Some wires got crossed somewhere. Some neurotransmitters are leaking into the wrong synapse.

RandomRedditRebel · 2024-08-19T21:57:23+00:00

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-Kalos · 2024-08-20T05:58:58+00:00

Anal isn’t appealing to me at all. Neither giving nor receiving. The best sex is when all parties involved are having a good time and getting pleasure out of it. I have no desire to hurt or destroy anyone with my penis

obviousredflag · 2024-08-19T16:10:55+00:00

No, i would not be in a LTR with a woman who rejects anal sex. It's not painful if done right and if she is too ashamed or not freaky enough for that ,she is not my girl in general.

I_HEART_HATERS · 2024-08-19T16:30:39+00:00

It’s fun. I appreciate women who go the extra mile to do it, it is not as simple as vaginal sex. I like eating ass too. It wouldn’t be a deal breaker to have a relationship without it but it brings a lot of novelty and variety to sex and goes a long way

abaxeron · 2024-08-19T20:33:53+00:00

At least in some dark corners of the Internet, it's simply a meme. Like all/most memes, it starts with a feminist browsing porn sites purely for research purposes, until recommendation algorithm adjusted itself to her tastes and started showing her lots of anal and violence. The next day, she managed to type a promised op-ed for some Buzzfeed-esque "zine", which in short, as usual, was "men bad", but in slightly greater detail, was "men bad because men watch porn with anal sex". As by that moment many understood beyond doubt that good-faith arguments do not work anymore, they responded with world-shattering mockery, pointing out that if there's no anal sex with your wife, why get married at all in the first place? - and alike. Someone was stupid enough to take the joke seriously (as always), some people were into this stuff unironically even before this whole stuff began (as always), some "conservatives" responded with their own op-ed saying that sodomites should do the right thing and just come out of the closet, until the whole thing got flushed out of trend rotation and died down.

In short, it was, is, and will be a niche thing, that briefly enjoyed a spotlight because it accidentally got above a "hype geyser" just before it erupted. There is no "super-trend" of men suddenly deciding that "it's anal or divorce", the appeal is the same as with everything else (different people like different things, they don't have to make sense).

A nitpick, but men don't have "prostRates" either.

DietTyrone · 2024-08-19T20:36:14+00:00

But what's the appeal of anal sex in straight sex?

What the appeal of women liking to be choked, spanked, or have their hair pulled? Why do some guys like to be stepped on? Point is, you're overthinking things. Lots of people kinks, fetishes, turn ons that aren't shared by everyone. Maybe there's a psychological reason, or maybe they just want to mix things up.

I've tried anal cause i like to mix things up. It's a different feel. Maybe guys want to stick it in every whole or a break from vanilla sex.

Unlike men, we don't have prostrates and nothing in that part of the body can be stimulated.

Guess my wife has a genetic mutation, cause she likes when I finger her in the butt and has gotten off with anal.

David-Metty · 2024-08-19T21:27:20+00:00

It’s because her vagina doesn’t grip his penis tight enough for adequate stimulation. This is generally caused by unnatural lifestyle choices.

Visual-Community-743 · 2024-08-19T21:59:14+00:00

My question is why do women like anal? Do they enjoy the degrading feeling of it? Like getting spat on during sex? Choked? Is that what it is. Because getting fucked in the ass is not really a pleasurable feeling, unless you enjoy the degredaton

purplish_possum · 2024-08-20T03:00:03+00:00

No idea. Maybe its a small dick insecurity thing.

NoFapGymColdShowers · 2024-08-20T03:40:39+00:00

Dont knock it till you try it

alebruto · 2024-08-19T16:34:08+00:00

There are men and women who like it, so I don't understand why your post specified "men."

And I don't know of any men who have become bitter about it, but I've seen men on Reddit who have become bitter because their wives denied them what they easily gave to other men (including anal), and I think it's completely normal for a man to become bitter in this situation, because it's one thing for a woman to reject anal on principle, and another thing for her to reject anal specifically with her husband even though she's done it with others.

So I think your question is based on premises that aren't true, or are true for very few men.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2024-08-19T16:56:23+00:00

I dont know ask my girlfriend see seems to be more into it then I am. And if she liked it a lot I do think to a degree it's your duty to please. But I don't get hot or cold by it my self. The only real enjoyment I get out of it is that she is enjoying it a lot and nit in the quiet way

Quiet_Firefighter_65 · 2024-08-19T21:00:50+00:00

Why do people have any particular kinks? I don't think there's much rhyme or reason to it, you can psychoanalyse the people but even that can only yell you so much.

As for relationships, I doubt many people would leave good relationship over it, that seems silly. The only case I could imagine it, and where I would leave myself, is that if she's done it with a past partner and refused to do it with you. Then I can understand wanting to leave.

AlmostKindaGreat · 2024-08-20T00:49:47+00:00

I like to do it sometimes. I could go without forever and it would not dissuade me from getting involved long-term with a woman if she didn't like it, but if it's on the table I like to do it sometimes.

You seem skeptical that a lot of women also like this. Do you view it solely as something men badger women to do and women grudgingly accept?

Plenty of women have asked me for this and women have wanted to do it more often than I have wanted to. Some have gotten a little annoyed that I don't do it enough for their liking.

I don't always like to do it because it takes a lot of work for me to stretch her out and work up to it slowly so it's comfortable for her. Without the prep time I would be more agreeable to do it basically every session. As it is, I still do it sometimes, even if I'm not feeling it 100% at first, because I enjoy giving my partner pleasure.

And there are absolutely women who will not go without anal sex and it's a deal breaker for them for a man not to be willing to do it. You can also see some of the guys here saying they hate the idea of anal sex. So you could ask the same question of women, only changing the pronouns.

cast-away-ramadi06 · 2024-08-20T01:42:09+00:00

Had several women ask for it, but I'm just not into it. I'd do it for my exwife on special occasions but she liked it a bit rough. It certainly wasn't an every day thing because I had trouble walking the next day. All joking aside, we did it a couple of times and even though she took precautions, I just couldn't get the idea of "shit on my dick" out of my mind and would go limp. Outside of some mild bdsm (like edging and orgasm denial) and the occasional three or moresome, I'm pretty vanilla. Biggest reason why sex has been bad sex for me? She doesn't like to cuddle afterwards.

CarHungry · 2024-08-20T13:17:20+00:00

One of my ex's didn't like it at first, and later on pushed me to start doing it. Some people like to get dommed, that's the only reason I ever did it so once she started acting like she liked it It kind of defeated the purpose.

Personally I just find it cumbersome, you can't just go to sleep like some kind of animal afterwards you have to get directly into the shower and cry. Real life isn't porn.

JollyRoger66689 · 2024-08-19T16:10:33+00:00

It's tighter, different moans from the woman, seen as taboo/kinky, different view of it going in and out, and not going to lie the fact that it hurts you is part of the fun (also probably ego boosting for some).

I'm a bit different from most since I lost my virginity that way though lol (she was pretending to be a virgin which I knew was bull so tried my luck with going for the other hole).

Never would do pegging and never try to make women do anal or feel bitter if they don't.... although most women I have been with I have done anal with

pg_throwaway · 2024-08-19T17:35:18+00:00

Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women?

As a straight man I've really had no desire to do this ever in my life. I think men wanting this is a sign of western porn-addicted brain or something. I don't think most men were into this 40 years ago.

Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?

My wife is certainly not a fan of it, though she might be open to it if I really wanted it. But if she didn't I wouldn't care because I don't want it either.

Crimson-Pilled · 2024-08-19T16:24:01+00:00

Its different, taboo, and degrading. Men like degrading partners more than women, in fact women can have an incredibly negative reaction to a man being degraded.

Its not a must for me, but should be replaced with equal kinkiness in other things. If she's not a slut to me, especially when she's a slut for others, I'm out.

sprckets21 · 2024-08-19T18:34:50+00:00

Girls have some things they are down for and like and other not so down. If you got a girl that don’t even want to try and only interested in vanilla sex she likely don’t want you that bad. Think of it as a shit test for guys, doesn’t have to be anal but she should be down for some things you want to do.

Lovers691 · 2024-08-19T20:04:00+00:00

The reasons why some men want anal sex feels good, variety and it feels naughty/kinky cause it is the "wrong hole". As for why many men including the ones who want anal are opposed to pegging, it uses a phallic object to penetrate, hence it is gay, although in reality it is not gay since it is a woman doing a penetration and the object is not actually a penis. As for the pain, anal shouldn't hurt unless you just really can't do it or the guy penetrating didn't put enough lube and/or warmup the woman beforehand and any man who goes to a hooker for anal or any kind of sex outside his marital bed is a degenerate.

ColbyXXXX · 2024-08-19T16:52:38+00:00

Had anal this weekend. Its awesome as hell especially if the woman is into it heavily that might be a small dicked guys best chance at making her orgasm.

Whiskeymyers75 · 2024-08-19T17:33:14+00:00

If your man keeps suggesting anal, your vagina is probably loose.

Cactus2711 · 2024-08-19T17:31:06+00:00

We do not have the exact same sexual fantasies. Stop trying to compare the genders like for like. Many women love to be dominated, but most do not get off on dominating their man. We are different

Anal is hot because it’s a woman submitting her most intimate part of her body to you. It’s not hard to understand when you look at it from a male perspective

Yes I have left women who are a hard no to trying even a finger up there. Life is way to short for boring sex

fundamentally_comfy · 2024-08-19T17:51:27+00:00

If she's not pegging me, I don't need her

Affectionate_Cat1512 · 2024-08-19T18:04:53+00:00

Did it once with my ex-gf, she didn't like it, so we did not do it again. It's not a must, but still appreciated. And why? I don't know. Feels nice. It's also a part of sexual degradation (before you call me names, I like some done to me too), so a mental pleasure is also present

his_purple_majesty · 2024-08-19T19:26:45+00:00

Funnily, many such men who desperately want anal sex from their women would absolutely turn down any requests of pegging from their partner.

Which is their right.

I want to watch Jake Paul get his head boxed in by Mike Tyson. I don't want to get my head boxed in by Mike Tyson. Nothing hypocritical about that at all.

You really should be directing that statement towards men who are resentful, not men who merely want it.

And, yeah, I posted this before even finishing your comment. Whatever.

indigo_pirate · 2024-08-20T12:37:21+00:00

Porn sickness and cultural grooming.

It’s not a natural occurrence whatsoever

BrainMarshal · 2024-08-20T00:47:36+00:00

Euugh, I hate anal sex.

OkProfessional9405 · 2024-08-19T17:18:10+00:00

It can be really painful for women. Unlike men, we don't have prostrates and nothing in that part of the body can be stimulated.

You need to get out more. Women that like anal sex. Love, love, love anal sex. The reason why men want to have anal sex with women is because he's probably seen it give women the most incredible orgasms they've ever had.

Maybe it's not for everyone and that should of course be respected. But usually you just haven't been introduced to it right.

I think you are projecting your experience on to the whole of everyone and not realizing your experience may be a bit of an outlier.

Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?

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Title	Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?
Author	sweetalison007
Upvotes	103
Comments	437
Date	August 19, 2024 3:54 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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