So I’ve been looking at the common problems I have seen from guys and I think I’m getting a clear picture of the issue.
1. The fact so many of them talk about how romcoms lied to them should be a good indicator that a lot of these guys are stunted.
2. They have a hard time moving on from rejection. Because ONE CHICK wanted an asshole over him, and he makes it his whole personality to be bitter and jealous about it.
3. Speaking of jealousy, the sense of entitlement is out of control. There has been nothing telling guys that women are trophies for good behavior, but way too many guys want to believe it.

  1. They complain about how the world isn’t fair only because they don’t get the pussy they want. Someone who believes fairness is dictated by whether or not they get exactly what they want is not thinking like an adult.

  2. For anyone saying that it’s about love, then they wouldn’t constantly look up to assholes, who just pump and dump bitches. They would look up to good men who are actually able to successfully get healthy good relationships with good women. But that’s not what they really want. They want any pussy that comes their way, even if she’s clearly a nutcase.

  3. Lastly, thinking that the only reason you’re not successful in dating is because of a self congratulatory flaw of being too nice is extremely childish.
    For anyone saying assholes don't have to go through all that: If you want people to look past your personality flaws, you have to appeal to shallow people to not care about your flaws. Otherwise, you’re gonna have to get a tolerable personality like the rest of us.