What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?

Safinated · 2023-09-19T20:32:11+00:00

Complain, and then settle or stay single

I don’t see what other options there could be ?

-Shes-A-Carnival · 2023-09-19T22:51:19+00:00

Men who want virgins meet them very young and marry them quick

sweetbrown89 · 2023-09-19T23:08:06+00:00

The whole “I want a virgin” thing is a bit wild when you step back and realize how much of a lottery fantasy it is

These guys

want a Stacy / above average woman (low chance)
who is young ~18-24ish (lower chance the older the guy gets)
who is still a virgin (below average chance)
who likes the guy (low chance)
enough to get married (low chance)
magically enjoys sex after it not being important to her enough to be a virgin (VERY low chance)
who is sexually compatible with the FIRST guy she has sex with (VERY low chance) EDIT: sexual compatibility means AT ANY POINT — so if you’re both virgins and you try a bunch of stuff and she doesn’t like any of it and doesn’t want to have sex with you at all now…you two are “not sexually compatible”

The whole situation was only feasible in the past / female-oppressive societies because women were literally subjugated for access to sex and tolerated men to survive — remain a virgin for the male fantasy or struggle in a world designed by men to punish women for not submitting to men

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-19T20:32:21+00:00

They just have to stay single until they find what they are looking for, which gets less and less likely every year they get older.

cactusbeam777 · 2023-09-19T21:13:15+00:00

Whine about it online apparently.

ReditGuyToo · 2023-09-20T02:23:42+00:00

What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?

One thing I've seen happen with people who set their bar too high is that they become extremely resentful and start hating on the world for not delivering to them exactly what they want.

I've seen this in men who demand virgins and women who demand the three 6s (6-figures, 6-pack abs, 6-foot tall). I think these two groups deserve each other.

pinealpresence · 2023-09-19T20:24:56+00:00

Staying single (and celibate).

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-19T20:26:24+00:00

Go to church/the local equivalent.

Whiskeyjack1982 · 2023-09-20T00:04:42+00:00

They can become volcells or travel to more traditional countries.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-19T20:53:45+00:00

Most people that say they want a virgin partner are not willing to wait for the virgin partner. It’s not the biggest deal when faced with months/years without sex in a relationship

kitterkatty · 2023-09-20T03:13:07+00:00

turn back time it’s the only way. Go back to when you were in HS and do it right 😏

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-19T20:29:42+00:00

Get comfortable with the thought of dying alone.

bifewova234 · 2023-09-19T20:37:37+00:00

End up with one who says shes a virgin but isnt really

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-09-19T20:41:05+00:00

If I couldn't get a virgin woman, I'd just go for one that isn't

It's better than just not having sex because your standards are in the way

Pretend-Chef515 · 2023-09-19T20:44:03+00:00

Circlejerk on alpha red pill wannabe forums about how Evilzz wahmen are. Then prolly settle begrudgingly

obviousredflag · 2023-09-19T20:46:49+00:00

They end up with a "run through hoe" or how they call them, who was clever enough to tell him she just had one sexual partner who had a micropenis and sucked at sex.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-09-19T21:00:05+00:00

45% of women are forecasted by Morgan Stanley to be single and childless between 25-45.

So it's safe to say 45%+ of men will also end up being single and childless.

Whether that's due to men wanting virgins, or women demanding Chads is up for debate.

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-09-19T21:22:51+00:00

Just suck it up? What else can you do? lol

If the guy cares more about being with a virgin than he cares about having a loved one, then he'll probably die single.

However, he can eventually relax his standards, e.g. become okay with dating a woman who is not a virgin, as long as she hasn't slept around. That makes the likelihood of him finding a girl much higher than only wanting virgins.

When I was younger I could only see myself dating a virgin. Nowadays, as long as the woman hasn't had multiple casual relationships, I'm fine with it.

As a side note, I know a guy who is pretty much addicted to dating virgins. He's like 30 y/o nowadays, and spent his twenties going to freshmen welcome parties and fishing for young girls. Some guys have a lot while others have so little...

Hubris1998 · 2023-09-19T20:35:23+00:00

Virgin women? Most of them lose their virginity before becoming fully grown adults.

kalid34 · 2023-09-20T04:43:27+00:00

Passport Bros

MidoriEgg · 2023-09-20T16:39:56+00:00

Make a YouTube channel complaining about the degradation of the modern female.

TheCondor96 · 2023-09-19T20:56:47+00:00

I think anyone who wants a virgin has never been with a virgin.

almostdoctorposting · 2023-09-19T20:58:47+00:00

they complain sis. new here? lolll

FoggyDanto · 2023-09-19T22:10:32+00:00

Go for younger women (but of legal age). It's easier to find virgin women in younger women

Or

They marry from a religious community, potentially from a different country

Or

They convert to Islam to marry a Muslim woman (or just marry a Muslim if she's okay with inter-religious marriage)

Cethlinnstooth · 2023-09-19T21:26:56+00:00

Keep going turning down even low count women until they give up or find a woman willing to lie to them. Or they settle and their resentfulness and bitterness is a burden on the relationship forever.

It's inherently a counter productive personal tendency in any social order outside of the very small range it thrives in. Not wanting a lot of exes around is a normal tendency...insisting on actual virgins takes that to unwieldy levels of pickiness.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-09-19T21:54:55+00:00

what are they to do since such women are tough to find?

What most guys do is accept that they won't find a low body count partner and settle down with a woman they are attracted to and compatible with.

Do most guys just end up sucking it up and just going for an experienced woman l, and that's all most guys cann do really?

Most men will marry a woman that has more sexual experience than them. There's just not enough virgin women to go around unless you live in a conservative non-western country where women saving themselves for marriage is the norm and not an outlier

AnonPinkLady · 2023-09-19T20:26:22+00:00

Female here but I figured that's why guys go for younger women, because they're inexperienced, so I guess that's probably it. I'm not saying I think that's a good idea that's predatory and icky but I'm pretty sure that's how it goes

scottmtb · 2023-09-20T00:21:11+00:00

We all want things we can't have.

harmonica2 · 2023-09-20T00:48:13+00:00

Well I was also thinking after all the comments, would it be better if virgin guys just lost their virginity to non-virgin women for their first times, or would they be more comfortable waiting for a virgin?

Deadwalking2k · 2023-09-20T00:58:01+00:00

Build a Time Machine

ARatOnPC · 2023-09-20T04:36:08+00:00

There is like 1% women virgins by 25. Good luck lol.

LongNeo · 2023-09-20T11:13:11+00:00

I wouldn't want an experienced woman and certainly not a woman with a high body count.

kvakerok · 2023-09-20T13:07:02+00:00

Find a place where culturally they still exist. Or:
Wait for sex robots.

Captain-Stunning · 2023-09-20T14:10:15+00:00

Take a lesson from all the Evangelicals who fell for the hype of "I Kissed Dating Goodbye".

If you are not in a closed religious community where courting is the norm, then there's a very small chance you are going to meet your dream young virgin or get asked to court their daughter because if you are not in their circle, you will never be a consideration.

The Evangelicals who attempted to follow courtship paradigms but were not in a community where courting is the norm found themselves single.

jay10033 · 2023-09-20T15:55:05+00:00

I assume for people who ask for that, virgin >> low body count >> average bc >> high bc. It's not that hard.

Antisocialite99 · 2023-09-19T21:43:35+00:00

I think most guys don't really want virgins, they just don't want sluts.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-09-19T22:12:28+00:00

They whine on reddit.

Mark-Common · 2023-09-19T20:33:06+00:00

Masturb8

morbidnihilism · 2023-09-19T21:38:01+00:00

Be dissappointed.

Dstar538888 · 2023-09-19T22:24:16+00:00

98% of adult women ( adults in general tbh) are not virgins, so idk how they plan to go about finding that 🌝

ghkblue43 · 2023-09-20T00:06:04+00:00

Best way is probably to find someone when you’re both young then stick with that person for life. That’s what people used to do.

MxMaster9907 · 2023-09-19T20:59:27+00:00

Literally most men won’t get that, because there’s no logical reason to be a virgin. Maybe religious reasons but young people are the least religious group in America.

Why would a woman be a virgin? It doesn’t make sense.

neverendingplush · 2023-09-19T21:06:24+00:00

I can't think of any normal dude that would want a virgin. Seems like a request stemming from insecurity. You know how annoying it is to wanna fuck and have to explain to someone each and every step how to do something.

Rivennoketsui · 2023-09-19T23:18:32+00:00

I settled with a woman that has just 1 body besides me. Where I live, to find a virgin is harder to win 4 millions at the lottery

RepresentativeBook62 · 2023-09-19T21:10:47+00:00

The expiration date on this is 21-22 yrs old in most cases. If you aren't that young. Forget it short of being a groomer.

Epiphanic_Eros · 2023-09-19T21:48:43+00:00

Learn to be better lovers and communicators, so that you're not frightened of women with experience.

This whole virgin obsession seems like kind of a pedo thing

Particular-Shape1576 · 2023-09-19T22:13:05+00:00

How clueless these guys must be. Virgins are awful

ThatIslander · 2023-09-19T22:01:50+00:00

why do u think expats and passport bros exist?

CrustyBubblebrain · 2023-09-20T01:56:47+00:00

Lol men think they want virgin women, but they actually don't. Virgin men want the the type of woman that they sniff out to be the "hot slut". They want to lose their V-card to a reasonably hot woman who clearly has had some experience, before they are willing to pursuit a virgin woman. They have to prove that they're hot shit by fucking the hottie, before they feel worthy of taking on the virgin.

If a man actually gets the virgin on the first try, it fully destroys their confidence.

"My self-esteem is so shitty that this poor girl must not have any standards to have fucked me. I need to mow down that hot slut, then I'm worthy to take on what I actually want"

Sounds gross, but all men know it's the truth

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-20T02:48:50+00:00

You can also get over the idea that there is this magic bright line in post-relationship behavior between a virgin and a woman with an N count of 1. And then 2. Etc. It is a continuum. I do believe, ideally, in less promiscuity. But one has to adapt to the world we live in. Social and digital media in a very sexualized society already do a lot of the 'damage' that non-virginity would do, anyways.

So filtering for virginity in this world is not efficient for guys looking for what the OP wants. You have to filter for the qualities and traits you want in a woman, to the extent they can be found at all. But often some woman who fucked around a few times in college, regretted it and settled into a new course will be a much better partner for a guy like the OP than say some technical virgin who consumes massive amounts of media and whose hypergamy has been inflamed by this experience, despite never having slept with a man yet.

Quirky-Fly-4119 · 2023-09-19T21:24:08+00:00

72 in heaven for anyone willing to make the effort 🤷🏽‍♀️

Delifier · 2023-09-20T09:10:48+00:00

All you can do in this case is to adjust your expectation to fit the reality. There are people with less experience, and that is the best you can expect before you can start to expect to not achieve anything at all.

Internal-Fig-7902 · 2023-09-19T20:23:02+00:00

I found mine after being patient, but sadly most men aren't strong enough to stay single and tough out the loneliness and stick to their principles.

FlightOfThePigs · 2023-09-19T20:45:17+00:00

I don't think many guys want a virgin... they just want a woman who doesn't have a high body count which there is nothing wrong with. Big difference. The average number of.partners is around 7 so.it shouldn't be that hard to find someone with a lower count.

SlowEffective8146 · 2023-09-19T21:37:24+00:00

Date younger girls (if they can), settle for the lowest bodycount they can find or passport bro to a more trad country.

Yamato4strawhat · 2023-09-19T20:49:44+00:00

Hookers and therapy

ZigZagZig87 · 2023-09-19T23:35:01+00:00

What grown man would want a virgin outside of religious reasons if they aren’t Pedos? In my experience, dealing with virgins is a pain. The sex is a chore as you have to really take your time for a while until she’s able to take it which for some of us is even hard for experienced. Two was enough for me and that was in HS.

Independent_Score217 · 2023-09-20T07:24:10+00:00

Stay single... You don't buy a product you don't want, especially if it's not a necessity. If I went to the store to pick up steak but all they had was lawn flamingos and manure, I wouldn't go home with gardening supplies just because that's all they had available. I'd either shop somewhere else, or save my money.

I'm not picking up an STD for something my left hand can do better, faster, safer, cleaner, easier and cheaper.

Illustrious-Slice767 · 2023-09-19T23:27:48+00:00

I think few men in the U.S. care about virginity, I mean, this is a country where abortion and homosexual sex are celebrated, so I have a hard time believing that the average man cares about virginity until marriage.

Proudvow · 2023-09-20T00:26:55+00:00

Same thing women do when they can't lock down Chad, slouch down in depression.

There are ways to force the issue like paying 6 figures for some chick's virginity, scouring the internet for socially isolated women, or integrating into a heavily traditional religious society, but even then a lot of these women are "born again" virgins instead of real ones.

Do most guys just end up sucking it up and just going for an experienced woman l, and that's all most guys cann do really?

The sad thing is while a woman will at least be courted by the men she's settling for, a guy still usually has to do most of the work to pull a woman he's settling for. So in some cases the guy just can't be assed to put in the effort for women he considers mediocre, and ends up perpetually single.

md8716 · 2023-09-20T04:12:19+00:00

Well, here's how most guys do it:

1) find unattractive older virgins that nobody wants to date and lovebomb them

2) 3rd world child trafficking

3) incest

4) grooming

5) dating within religious cults and sects

As you can see, this puts you in the company of a few unsavory types of people.

macone235 · 2023-09-20T05:09:54+00:00

Do most guys just end up sucking it up and just going for an experienced woman l, and that's all most guys cann do really?

Many men are single and rising. Currently, that is the case, begrudgingly. However, I expect this current generation of women will graduate into a harsh reality when the men in 15 years don't want to settle down with them.

pandillerodelapampa · 2023-09-20T07:19:29+00:00

I ll never wife any girl who was the village’s bicycle.

I d rather stay single and just have fun

StacksHoodini · 2023-09-20T13:49:55+00:00

The best thing every man above 25 can do is assume all women are hoes and select based from there.

That way it’s completely out of the equation.

Ok_Smile_60 · 2023-09-20T14:56:33+00:00

Settle. Most men settle for whoever will settle for them. Women tend to do the same, but they get to have fun with the men they actually want first. The average man doesn’t get to ride the…pussy wagon? Before settling like a women does the cock carousel

gntlbastard · 2023-09-20T15:21:08+00:00

Stay single. To borrow a phrase from the whamen - "I know my worth and won't settle for less"

MateriallyDetatched · 2023-09-19T21:39:36+00:00

Find a woman that isn't for tha skreets lmao.

They exist, you just need to talk to bitches.

monkeybeast55 · 2023-09-19T22:24:27+00:00

In that case, say hello to your hand. Warm and always friendly, will give you exactly what you want. I mean, why would you take a human being and boil them down to virgin/not-virgin? Or rate them on body count, as though they're a dog you're looking to buy? How degrading is that? I would advise any woman, whether they're pure as the Madonna, or have serviced the football team, to never go within a mile of someone that "requires a virgin". Ugh. Blech.

(From an older married hetro male, that's stunned at how shallow people are.)

carljungs · 2023-09-20T00:19:29+00:00

Zero miles always best as the saying goes. Ask any car owner. You know what you are getting fresh off the lot and I stay away from domestics. Imports are better and more reliable I'm my experience. Japanese and German are good.

princedune · 2023-09-19T21:12:28+00:00

ill keep looking for the next couple years, if I stll haven't found someone then ill start taking naps on train tracks or something

abaxeron · 2023-09-19T21:13:59+00:00

Not marry. It's "no hymen no diamond", not "no hymen tie my dick in a knot so it doesn't itch so much".

Nihi1986 · 2023-09-20T01:15:33+00:00

Why that obssesion, though? Unless it's very closely influenced by your religious beliefs a woman with a relatively low number of exes should be fine, if not ideal...

Anyway, the only virgin I dated (we were 30, btw) was a nerdy girl who happened to have some autism and anxiety problems... apparently I was the first man to make her feel safe enough. Her issues made her dump me a couple times in a row and when I warned her there wouldn't be a third and she still did, she spent a year trying to get back with me and going on dates with every friend or acquaintance I had to make me jelous...not worth it.

Virgins are virgins for a reason just like people with a ridiculously high number of past partners have such number for a reason. I'm not shaming those, all I'm saying is they clearly aren't ready for a healthy relationship (perhaps neither I am, if you ask me...).

The best woman you can get is the woman you like and likes you back, in an ideal scenario both of you have similar experience with committed relationships even if she has had more hookups.

Anyway, if I truly wanted a virgin again, I would aim for unattractive women who didn't make themselves too available. If you don't care much about her looks, you can listen to her, be nice to her and she will open.

Mr-Yuk · 2023-09-20T03:38:24+00:00

I don't understand the whole thing honestly... people new to sex suck at it... I'll take a wartorn vet that knows what and how she wants it over a virgin any day

miahoutx · 2023-09-20T03:38:27+00:00

You date one or two and realize they not only are grossed out by everything sexually, they’re incompetent in communication, home life, alcohol use, and are in fact your oldest child. Then you look for someone who’s lived and enjoyed life and has the skills and knowledge to build a happy one.

fucksiclepizza · 2023-09-20T03:56:46+00:00

Man there are some pathetic dudes on here, are you guys not embarrassed because you should be.

monkeybeast55 · 2023-09-20T04:11:48+00:00

In that case, say hello to your hand. Warm and always friendly, will give you exactly what you want. I mean, why would you take a human being and boil them down to virgin/not-virgin? Or rate them on body count, as though they're a dog you're looking to buy? How degrading is that? I would advise any woman, whether they're pure as the Madonna, or have serviced the football team, to never go within a mile of someone that "requires a virgin". Ugh. Blech.

(From an older married hetro male, that's stunned at how shallow people are.)

enmanuel995 · 2023-09-20T12:25:46+00:00

Fuck each other, what else?

BurgerMcKinley · 2023-09-20T14:24:11+00:00

Grow tf up, or stay a lonely weirdo, untethered to reality

froderenfelemus · 2023-09-20T15:06:37+00:00

Start browsing the middle schools or stay celibate. Some might come to their senses and lower their standards

TraditionalBeyond810 · 2023-09-20T15:25:27+00:00

Wanting a virgin while you're not a virgin yourself is very weird to me. I'd even say it reeks of pedophelia.

Substantial_Video560 · 2023-09-20T07:56:43+00:00

Never understood this obssesion for virgin women. Personally I've never met a guy who wants one.

AutoModerator · 2023-09-19T20:20:49+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

dsegram · 2023-09-19T21:29:32+00:00

It depends on where you live. I think it’s hard for men living in western countries. The Zulu culture(South Africa) has what we call the Zulu Reed Dance, I can’t go too much into it since I’m not Zulu but they encourage young girls to stay virgins until marriage.

CradleCity · 2023-09-19T22:21:52+00:00

Do most guys just end up sucking it up and just going for an experienced woman

There's no general rule to men in that area. Some prefer younger and/or virgin, some older and/or experienced, some on roughly the same level of sexual history.

Looking back at all the women I ever had a crush or felt in love with, the vast majority were older than me (either by age or, when the age was roughly the same, in terms of mentality). In fact, the one woman I went out on dates with, years ago, is older than me by 4/5 years.

Friendless-pariah · 2023-09-20T00:14:26+00:00

Guys don’t care about virgin women except if they are virgin men fantasizing about what they would like

itsokiloveu · 2023-09-20T00:34:07+00:00

From an article published on premarital sex statistics in 2002 (which is probably significantly more in 2023):

“Data from the 2002 survey indicate that by age 20, 77% of respondents had had sex, 75% had had premarital sex, and 12% had married; by age 44, 95% of respondents (94% of women, 96% of men, and 97% of those who had ever had sex) had had premarital sex”

If you’re looking for a virgin, you’ve reduced your dating pool to very few people but all the power to you

Intrepid_Ad3062 · 2023-09-20T01:21:39+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

MyLastBestChance · 2023-09-20T01:23:28+00:00

I think a fair number of those men are creating artificial barriers to success in order to create the illusion for themselves that they aren’t unsuccessful, just selective.

This allows them to sort of believe that they would be swimming in pussy if they weren’t prioritizing a “virtuous” woman (aka unicorn). Meanwhile their actual sincere efforts to find that unicorn are ummm lacking because deep down they know that their success rate wouldn’t be any better and would likely be worse if they actually found her.

jadedrosary · 2023-09-20T01:43:17+00:00

Maybe they should ask themselves why they want virgin/inexperienced women and what they're really looking for.

Most guys, deep down, want validation.

Veloci-Tractor · 2023-09-20T01:50:51+00:00

idk, seeth? seems like usually seeth

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-09-20T02:34:36+00:00

If they have sense they stop making it a hard "requirement." Like, yeah that would be nice but if you're outside of your early 20s and still dead-set on a woman that's a virgin you'll be waiting a very very long time. There was some guy here (not flaming coochies, PBUH) that was dead-set on this. I hope he got some sense.

Anti_Thing · 2023-09-20T03:37:30+00:00

In my case, I simply lowered my standards. I still don't know if I could actually bring myself to marry a woman with a past of whoredom, though I'm at least theoretically open to dating such a woman & seeing how it goes. I guess it would depend on how bad it is (a few boyfriends I can overlook, though not actual prostitution) & how otherwise attractive she is (which includes not just looks but religiosity, worldview, & life goals).

In this case I didn't exactly decide to lower my standards in the abstract. I found out that a girl I had a crush on wasn't a virgin; up until that point it had been a hard standard of mine to never go for such women, though I decided that I was willing to give her a chance. (Incidentally, she ended up rejecting me anyway, as the women I try to date almost always have, though that's neither here nor there). This is the same way that I've largely dropped my ethnic standards, i.e. I wasn't into very British-looking women until I met one I liked.

bootyhunter69420 · 2023-09-20T03:53:59+00:00

Settle

WintersSolace · 2023-09-20T04:42:07+00:00

Hmm... church girls?

Z1ayer · 2023-09-20T05:36:46+00:00

Nothing special about it, just your turn. That is all

KamuiObito · 2023-09-20T06:18:52+00:00

Eww i dont want a virgin..i just don’t want a thot. I tried with them they are terrible people usually. I know women are submissive asl and their mam plowkng 100 women and settling with them sounds cool to yall but we dont like ts . Women be fans due to their submissive nature so yall wont see it but yall basically start dickriding certain men..just cuz..its like men glossing over a random thot that did nothing but hurt us, while our wife is doing everything our dream girl would..women are weird. and do things subconsciously

mista-john · 2023-09-20T07:15:33+00:00

Get over themselves

Environmental_Toe463 · 2023-09-20T07:28:14+00:00

i mean, i’d imagine they just go ahead and unalive themselves because what’s the point of living if you can’t have a virgin, which, as a man, is your god-given birthright.

coping_man · 2023-09-20T08:31:10+00:00

adjust to reality

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-09-20T09:41:57+00:00

Mass murder if the trend continues.

Appropriate-Gate-851 · 2023-09-20T09:44:03+00:00

I am a virgin 29 almost 30 woman (saving myself for marriage) and i cannot get a virgin man or any man. I feel invisible to men since i never was approached by a man and i got rejected everytime i setpped out my comfort zone/shyness and approached a man.

What do I do ?

I am focusing on myself studying/working/travelling/spending time with my familly/do hobbies like i have always did, i try to occupy my mind from the fact of never knowing what a man's intimate romantical affection untill now and probably never will know what it is like personally. Yeah, i am almost giving up on finding love and having a marriage because i am not pretty/worthy enough to have such beautiful things in my life... The most i can get from a man is sister/friend looks/affection/zone. 😬😬

Comprehensive-Pea812 · 2023-09-20T10:13:23+00:00

I prefer non virgins cause I don't know how to pop a cherry

LoneStranger87 · 2023-09-20T12:08:51+00:00

They could go abroad to more sexually conservative countries maybe??

ExactSong390 · 2023-09-20T12:25:19+00:00

stay celibate or look for hookups

asofiro_ · 2023-09-20T12:47:56+00:00

They will have to either compromise on a lowish n count girl or travel outside the west. Most will take the first option.

maam9243 · 2023-09-20T13:25:27+00:00

Logically speaking, what kind of women on average tend to be virgins after age 25? If you said introverted, socially awkward, neurodivergent, ace/aro spectrum, religious, very thin and frail to fat and hairy, and otherwise afflicted with exotic conditions, you might be correct. If men really cared about women ages 18 -25 being virgins, they would crack down on incest and child molestation and then alcohol/drug/porn/sex trafficking industries. Bottom line - this whole slut shaming movement rings hollow when you pay whores more to do anything and everything than you pay virgins to remain virgins.

Hot_Sign_936 · 2023-09-20T14:33:29+00:00

Get a passport

_mad_adventures · 2023-09-20T20:06:27+00:00

Wtf.

_mad_adventures · 2023-09-20T20:07:05+00:00

Grow up?

BeneficialRush4171 · 2023-09-20T22:19:49+00:00

Just look out for a purity ring and make sure their single since they are easily mixed up with promise rings.

sharksville · 2023-09-21T00:03:26+00:00

Wait until we find one. That’s what I did. If I’m taking it from her then it’s fair I give mine to her. And the best part is that we are still together all these years

Uglypostwall · 2023-09-21T10:14:27+00:00

I think men wait for girl child to turn 20 and marry them

AustinNoelMusic · 2023-09-22T01:21:25+00:00

Gotta go for 18-23 year olds if you want a virgin guys and if you’re 30+, you can’t do that, I mean I’m 34 and go for 22-25 but 18-21 is off limits despite many women looking for a husband while in college.

Title	What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?
Author	harmonica2
Upvotes	57
Comments	493
Date	September 19, 2023 8:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16n1a4w/what_do_guys_do_if_they_want_virgin_women_but/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/what-do-guys-do-if-they-want-virgin-women-but.1232347 https://theredarchive.com/post/1232347

Comments