This goes back to all the bitter men that claimed that they were lied to by their mom about how to get a girl to fuck him when they were children. First of all, it is not Mommy‘s job to teach you how to get your dick wet, especially when you weren’t at the age to be trying to do that. A woman telling her little boy to be nice and respectful to get a girlfriend is fine advice. As the boy gets older, he should be able to figure out on his own that there’s more to being then just being nice and respectful. After all, unless asexual, he also doesn’t wanna get with a woman just because she’s kind and respectful to him. If anything, he just wishes women didn’t care about looks so he can put less effort into his looks.

Lying to yourself and not understanding nunance does not mean other people lied to you.