Most people don't want to accept that if you're a man, that personality is one of the last things that matter. It doesn't matter how good of a person you are if you're ugly, poor, and have a small dick. That woman will never respect you and will either not look in your direction or cheat on you.

Physical attraction matters. No girl ever thinks "wow this random dude on tinder/at this bar is fucking uglier than the design of a Xbox series X, guess I'll give him a try"

As long as you aren't completely socially illiterate and not a complete psycho, she won't care as much.

The second thing if your looks manage to gain her interest and you live in a fucking shack with a car that's falling apart, she's probably going to bounce. Especially if she's beyond college age. Why would an attractive woman ever date some poor dude when she knows she could do better. Women can smell the financial struggle miles away and will dip.

Let's say you do all of that and then you whip out the 2 incher, after you gets done fighting back her laughter to not completely destroy you on the inside. She's probably going to dip. I feel bad for any guy with a mirco dick. But ya she's not going to care that you're a great guy. At best, you'll be the equivalent to her gay male friend. So basically if you're dogshit at sex, she may still move on.

But only after you pass those metrics does your personality matters. This is the final thing that keeps you in the game. Everything else is garbage because nobody wants to seem shallow. But let's be honest, nobody looks at a person they think it's hideous and goes "I can't wait to date this person" Nobody...men included