Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity

1. women: "we need to combat toxic masculinity in boys and men"
2. *man does innocuous slightly feminine thing*
3. also women: "ick, my pussy got drier than Sahara"

It is no wonder that men who have problems with attracting women are told they lack 'swagger' (aka performative masculine behavior) and then turn to alpha male gurus to learn how to behave like the men who are popular with women. These men have realized that any deviation from masculinity is a turn-off when trying to attract a partner.

People with high functioning autism often times have problems with internalizing gendered behavior, but failing to abide is far more punitive toward men than than it is toward women. Studies have even shown how high functioning autistic men are much more likely to struggle in attracting a partner compared to autistic women, precisely because unlike with men, women are more prone to get 'icks' over banal things.