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potoricco · 2023-07-18T16:01:17+00:00

Q4all what is a high value male? Cuz like people here will say stuff like “don’t be with a high value male if you don’t expect him to cheat/do x” but I’m like, someone who is a hvm would never even cheat in the first place am I wrong orrrr

So is a hvm someone who is objectively high value (like rich, attractive etc) or is there a personality component (loving, protective, loyal etc)

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-18T15:59:06+00:00

Never trust a man who goes for women ten years his senior. Vingegaard is on the juice.

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-18T15:43:28+00:00

"Women can be incels too"

What a a load of bull

Peacesquad · 2023-07-18T15:41:11+00:00

But what did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-18T15:41:06+00:00

Ladies what does a guys jizz taste like?

4SSh01e · 2023-07-18T15:34:26+00:00

I agree with a lot of things Red Pill says but I don't agree with the money part, that get successful in your career and make a lot of money to be successful with women. At that point I think I would be very skeptical if she's with me for me or my money and might not even date anyone seriously.

The kind of partner I admire are those who get together in college when they are both poor and working hard to get ahead in their respective fields and stay together. Not those who wait for you at the finish line.

Edit: In simpler words, the Beta Bux part is extremely embarrassing and terrifying to me. I think it's one of the highest form of disrespect a man can inflict on himself. You would be better off paying hookers in such a situation.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-18T15:31:45+00:00

I forgot what I was going to say

OneLobster320 · 2023-07-18T15:25:59+00:00

Is it very unreasonable to only want to date shorter women?

I'm 5'3" so the question lol. I kinda want someone shorter than me (like 5'1" and below), but I really have 0 other standards in terms of looks otherwise - she could be 250 lbs, hairy all over, and could suffer from lionitis - genuinely not shallow at all.

But also, short women tend to be the most height-obsessed people themselves (their life, their predilictions, not deriding them at all). But most of the videos and girls I've seen say it are always the pretty or average-looking ones. Will homely short women be more open regarding it? Idk, just asking.

Should I drop this idea and go for taller women or is it viable?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-18T14:43:38+00:00

I've got a lunch date today. I'm very excited about it. Wearing a super cute sun dress. It's a first date but with someone I've interacted with before.

potoricco · 2023-07-18T14:43:31+00:00

Realizing getting a partner means my family will know I have feelings

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-18T14:41:33+00:00

Need like 70 more Karma to ask a career question on those subreddits.

So I’ll do an AMA.

I’m 6ft work in tech and a mid 20s dude. I can answer any of y’all relationship or career questions or physics questions (since I got a degree in that).

Body count: 0 because I’m waiting till marriage. I don’t care really about dating because I’m on my career grind.

TC: like 120k ish? Aim is more like 200 in the next couple years.

Car: IS350 decent Japanese car with a good tune coming up.

Debt: little to none.

So I guess I’m qualified to help with basic questions about life lol

Red pill or blue pill: both are kinda dumb. Red pill is the pill for nihilistic folks. And blue pill is naive.

You can understand the world is complex without trynna over rely on stats that may not apply to you at all.

potoricco · 2023-07-18T14:40:06+00:00

Tarzan got that rizz

-AvatarAang- · 2023-07-18T14:18:01+00:00

Just sharing what may be a minor success story:

I went to a movie theatre the past Friday to see Mission Impossible 7. I was going with a group of my sister's friends, since I sadly don't have any friends myself. I normally don't dress well, because I gave up on my appearance a long time ago after realizing that I was facially ugly. Also because I deemed fashion to be superficial in the sense that it is just fabric worn on the skin and I didn't want others to treat me differently based on what kinds of clothes I wore - I expected friends and women alike to show equal interest in me regardless of how I dressed. I disagree with this mentality now since I believe that it's nearly impossible to dissociate the concept we have of someone from their outward presentation, we base our concept of other people at least partially on their appearance, and that even though it's "just fabric" we should use our outward presentation to convey our preferred self-image. Fashion and style is illusory at the end of the day, but most the ways our mind conceptualizes the world around us is illusory (we perceive more beautiful people to be more morally virtuous and vice versa, for example), so may as well play the game and try to win rather than lose the game while acting as if it doesn't exist at all.

But since I was going out with my sister's friends, I decided to dress a bit better. I wore a grey fitted v-neck and black jeans. Not a great outfit by any means, extremely basic and undistinctive, but still better than how I usually dress. The fitted v-neck helped to accentuate my shoulder-to-waist ratio, and generally made me appear more muscular than I usually do when I wear non-fitted clothing. The photo attached above doesn't do the outfit justice, because when I looked at myself in the bathroom after the movie my shoulder-to-waist ratio looked so high, I was astonished and felt so masculine in that moment.

While standing in the lobby while my sister's friends ordered food, I noticed a young, pretty woman giving me a prolonged glance (2+ secs), which she discontinued as soon as I looked over at her.

That is all. That's my "success" story. Normally I don't get any glances from women, I'm completely invisible. But on the one day I wear a fitted shirt, I seemed to have gotten at least one. My hope is that she was attracted to my physique, which isn't a great physique yet but has the potential to be one in a few years.

It's possible I'm overrreading it, and that she wasn't glancing at me in the first place, or that she was glancing at me but not because she found me attractive - but a man can hope.

This lone crumb of female attention, the first crumb I've received in ages, gives me hope that if I continue to self-improve in terms of physique, clothing, social skills and the rest, then I might be able to find the wife of my dreams within a few years.

Lastly, Mission Impossible 7 was surprisingly good and I recommend you guys watch it.

mwb111300 · 2023-07-18T14:15:29+00:00

I’ve been chatting (online and anonymously, so not really chatting) with people in my school and it seems I’ve completely misunderstood the term incel. I thought incel was an abbreviation for involuntarily celibate. I am a man who wants sex but doesn’t have any, so as embarrassing as it is, I thought that made me an “incel.” It turns out that actually (within my community at least) “incel” has nothing to do with involuntary celibacy. Incel is synonymous with misogynist, jerk, creep. I am not those things, so I’ve now I’ve decided I am not an incel but rather I’m a monk against my will. Lol. Helps me sleep at night.

LaurenTsaisCatEye · 2023-07-18T14:05:04+00:00

CWV: N count doesn’t apply to butt stuff.

iliyb · 2023-07-18T14:02:53+00:00

This thread makes me lol when I remember there are "red pill" women.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2gsl2k/what_do_red_pill_women_think_of_these_trp/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

FizzleMateriel · 2023-07-18T13:49:01+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/152vysz/f25_met_great_guy_m27_but_taken_back_by_his/

Girl is attracted to guy until she finds out he’s bi and has been with men before lol.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-18T13:40:11+00:00

Q4W: What percentage of men do you think has an abundance of options in the dating game?

scwizard · 2023-07-18T13:19:59+00:00

Women say shit like this:

So, for 30 years I have been in a relationship with someone, with little to no hiatus in between relationships. The longest I went was between my ex bf and my ex husband, which was about a year, and I was still having hookups and dating casually. I was also still unwinding myself from my ex at the time with him moving out, etc..

Then have the audacity to say that dating is harder for women than for men.

Slipthe · 2023-07-18T13:15:16+00:00

Are your friends all incels, or do they have sex and relationships?

If it's the latter, are they very attractive or exceptional in some category?

potoricco · 2023-07-18T12:35:52+00:00

Passport bro who murdered his younger wife liked Andrew gate. This is the end result. Your ideology is killing people. Your misogyny is killing women

“What’s shallow about liking younger women” and a bunch of other disgusting nonsense

saraimarsena · 2023-07-18T12:29:29+00:00

do y’all feel it’s emasculating to feel uncomfortable without consent ?

jobbo321 · 2023-07-18T11:24:18+00:00

https://twitter.com/BanisMajor/status/1680802847019999233?s=20

So fucking brutal. I wonder how many women think like this.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-07-18T11:07:35+00:00

You guys know credit cards were invented in the 50s right? Plastic cards came a decade later, and magnetic strips a decade after that.

The whole "women couldn't even get credit cards until the '70s!" argument isn't the smoking gun you think it is

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-18T10:33:30+00:00

Being attracted to women as a low value male just feels awful. You're constantly getting pulled towards people who want nothing more to do than to get away from you. You feel ashamed for having romantic or sexual thoughts about anyone, and you just can't turn it off. Being around women just feels terrible in general.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-18T10:05:43+00:00

Apparently this is flirting?

Chokeman · 2023-07-18T10:03:37+00:00

I couldn't have said it any better.

https://youtube.com/shorts/XDoQLKA5wa0

I still don't get women who had their fun in the past but all of sudden want to settle down and become traditional wives by the age of 30. It doesn't make any sense.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-18T08:17:17+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/152ckkp/cousin_f24_falsely_accused_me_m31_of_sxual/

Can't recall the last time I felt so furious reading a reddit post

happy_discus · 2023-07-18T08:09:04+00:00

Played phasmophobia, asked the ghost if it wants to date me, Ghost killed me. What does that mean?

BigCollectionFor · 2023-07-18T06:33:50+00:00

What are women thining when they say things such as:

I dated a 30 year old when I was 20. Now that I am 30 myself I see how fucked up it was.

I know for a fact that women know that men value youth like how women value height. At some level women must know that this is a weird way t look at it? Why do they say this?

md8716 · 2023-07-18T05:09:07+00:00

I think I'm finally gonna do it. I'm finally gonna crack the top 1% in income, either this year or next year.

I'd like to thank PPD for having a small part in this. I couldn't have done it without your shitposts entertaining me during the boring/downtime, giving me the mental refresh I needed to achieve this feat.

I'm still only 90% in wealth percentile, but I'm still working on that.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-18T02:58:21+00:00

I feel like America has gotten so fat that unfortunately you can't make fun of or criticize fat people anymore because most people are now fat or know someone who is fat.

This is the worst Idiosyncrasy timeline. Bring back the fat jokes, the yo mama so fat jokes. Bring back healthy critcism of fattie women to help motivate fattie women become healthy, to have a healthy (19-21) BMI. Fattie women need direction in their lives to become better people.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-07-18T02:03:23+00:00

My brother does X type of work.(lets say in the construction field)

My brother is finally on his own now. A competitor(Way larger that my bother) called and tried to get him kicked off the job for not having insurance. My brother has insurance, etc so all went well but he had to 'fight' it.

There is plenty of room for all X business so this call was BS. My brother is just trying to make a living feeding his family.

This said. My real point is fellow men dont give crap and will cut your throat but so many of you cry women when your fellow man with cut you faster than a women.

Also this is not some first incident of men being cut throat with men throwing them under the bus way faster than a women would in my lifetime.

Frankly, my life experience men cut each other way more than women cut.

HeartCatchHana · 2023-07-18T01:23:25+00:00

Q4Men: Could you work at a job in which you were always surrounded by attractive people (your type) and had to socialize with them?

nexkell · 2023-07-18T00:53:35+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1529060/men_need_to_stop_telling_women_to_keep_dating_or/

Totally don't hate men.

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15295l8/why_do_the_people_who_advocate_for_mens_rights/

And they wonder why men like me are against feminism.

potoricco · 2023-07-18T00:45:38+00:00

Day 283648282 of asking my parents for a cat

I will update you

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-18T00:41:17+00:00

A lot of women lack the cognitive empathy to see a perspective from a different side. Women seem to have issues men judging women based on her sexual past, because it maligns her character or assumptions about her character that may or may not be true. But women also do the same toward men in different way. Women would call a man creepy or weirdo they did not find physically attractive or maybe based on their first impression. Calling someone creepy or weirdo is also quite harsh, you don’t consider this perspective because you only see it from the perspective of a women.

Specialist_Cod1841 · 2023-07-18T00:34:23+00:00

women don't have to do anything in order to attract men

You'd go into cardiac arrest if women en masse decided to show up to dates and places where men usually approach women unshaven, bare faced, and in comfortable, baggy clothing.

PBtoast707 · 2023-07-18T00:20:39+00:00

My older sister thinks she’s so interesting and cultured because she’s going to Italy and the south of France on her honeymoon. It makes my brain hurt. There’s going to be a thousand other couples doing the same thing there.

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-18T00:20:22+00:00

It’s funny seeing men and women here fight over how true the bluepill/redpill/blackpill etc is.

Where I’m from the women are very based (as the incels would say). They’re very honest with what they want etc. They vehemently hate short men, want taller, handsome men, talk about how toxic and abusive men are better in bed etc.

These things are widely accepted and women (even the ones that are the exceptions) don’t deny it. I’ve noticed on PPD women who are the exception (or at least think they are) will say only a minority of women are like this. Where I’m from even the exceptions accept how toxic the dating market is. Beta bux/alpha fux is also an accepted phenomenon.

I’ve noticed a lot of women posting memes and jokes about how they don’t believe in love or how fun it is to cheat. It’s even reached a point where I’ve seen Tik toks and had women admit that the men are starting to treat them better but they don’t care because being savage is a way of life lol. There’s even a trend encouraging women to hurt men when possible.

You guys would get eaten alive here. We’re way worse than the US.

potoricco · 2023-07-18T00:20:04+00:00

Is it just me or like, if you think about it dating is harder for women

It’s incredibly easy for women to get hookups or low tier guys, but it’s harder for a woman to find a quality partner than it is for man

Most women are quality, high value partners by default It’s harder for guy initially to get dates but once he actually finds one he can be mostly sure she’s a good pick. Meanwhile it’s easier for women initially

bigedcactushead · 2023-07-18T00:07:35+00:00

Psychologists tell us body count is a strong predictor of infidelity.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-17T23:48:59+00:00

Q4M: Are the men who like big boobs and butts not the same guys that like tiny thin women? Because weight wise, a thin women with a larger chest or behind is going to weight more because that is all fat on the body.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-18T17:40:59+00:00

I remember a work training thing that was like 8 weeks long, and the 2nd to last week we all had to share a personal story about a 'strong emotional event'. I was the only one who was uncomfortable sharing a story out of the 30 people there and summarily got the silent ick treatment.

Is it too much to ask nowadays that we keep work and personal lives separate? All I want is to treat my coworkers as people there to do a job and that's it, I don't need friend or therapists or work wives. Just shut up and let me do my job.

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Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-17T19:04:06+00:00

1st :)

Infammo · 2023-07-17T19:04:20+00:00

Diarrhea

mummydontknow · 2023-07-17T19:04:21+00:00

Wtf? No one is saying first? This sub has fallen off

arrgobon32 · 2023-07-17T19:06:32+00:00

Rise and grind Redditors (derogatory) 💪

It’s time to have an unhealthy and pessimistic view on dating, and then spiral into a void of self-loathing and depression 😎

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-17T19:08:29+00:00

I never understood the people who have IG accounts but zero pics

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-07-17T19:12:06+00:00

CMV the squat is the best lift

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-07-17T19:21:35+00:00

As of 2022, Pew Research Center found, 30 percent of U.S. adults are neither married, living with a partner nor engaged in a committed relationship. Nearly half of all young adults are single: 34 percent of women, and a whopping 63 percent of men.

Not surprisingly, the decline in relationships marches astride with a decline in sex. The share of sexually active Americans stands at a 30-year low. Around 30 percent of young men reported in 2019 that they had no sex in the past year, compared to about 20 percent of young women.

Only half of single men are actively seeking relationships or even casual dates, according to Pew. That figure is declining.

This isn’t new information, but why do so many bluepillers retort with “most men are in relationships”? Why include commentary about 40-50-60yo men when the redpill/blackpill critique is clearly aimed at younger people? No one has ever claimed 50yo men are single because 50-something women want Chad?

scwizard · 2023-07-17T19:23:16+00:00

Once you end up being a stripper and your family knows you're a stripper it must be kinda liberating.

You don't have to be anxious ever again about falling from grace due to true or untrue accusations cause you already have sorta.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-17T19:25:59+00:00

"Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of it"

445 comments just exploded

From telling a man to have a frame/boundary

Funny

happy_discus · 2023-07-17T19:30:57+00:00

Take the university pill everyone. There are so many women attending university maybe one of them will find you good enough to date.

John_Oakman · 2023-07-17T19:35:54+00:00

Civilization or barbarism, the suffering continues unabated regardless.

redheadtingz · 2023-07-17T19:38:00+00:00

Q4M: Would you want your girlfriend to be thin even if it made her life miserable?

I’m 5’4 and I was 118 pounds when I was with my ex-husband. He liked me being really thin and trying to maintain that weight made my life absolute hell. I barely ate 1,000 calories a day and I exercised so much. I was so fucking miserable, but everyone told me I looked so good and I was at a healthy weight. I just wanted to die. We divorced and I started weightlifting and putting on weight. I’m now 145 and my life is so much better. I’m not always hungry anymore. I can’t believe I put myself through that misery for years.

potoricco · 2023-07-17T19:45:20+00:00

60 Pounds Chest Press 💪

meteorness123 · 2023-07-17T19:45:31+00:00

Friend of mine is dating an older woman (even older than himself). He really enjoys the experience. He likes that she's more relaxed, mature and more pleasant to be around than the younger women. I've noticed a similar effect in older women.

Much different than the narrative here about how older women are jaded and unpleasant to be around ?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-17T19:47:32+00:00

"A woman is a compliment to a man's life not his focus"

And that's how you've a successful relationship

Simple

BirdMedication · 2023-07-17T19:59:30+00:00

Q4W: If women here generally seem to agree that people go through life at their own pace (and that it's immature and unimaginative to expect everyone to adhere to the same rigid timeline), then why do so many people claim with certainty that age gaps must be fundamentally incompatible because the two people are totally "in different life stages"?

baresquad · 2023-07-17T20:15:19+00:00

Hate on “feminist” and “liberal arts” classes all you want but professors like this helped me immensely in college.

If you’re a young man in college and not taking elective classes centered around dating, sex, and/or feminism, you’re doing yourself a disservice. All the help, answers, cheat codes, etc. you can’t find online and across the manosphere are being taught by actual accredited experts in university level courses. It requires engagement and doing the readings but it’s far more beneficial than being spoon-fed content pseudoscience from YouTube.

totallyworkinghere · 2023-07-17T20:21:17+00:00

No one cares that you don't wanna date a fat girl or a feminist, bro. We just want you to shut up about it already. The more you complain, the more you look like the dude calling a girl a lesbian because she rejected you.

Impossible-Guest-170 · 2023-07-17T20:28:25+00:00

Women's rights is not progress, it's an evolutionary dead end. Society's which continue to oppress women will simply succeed by virtue of actually reproducing.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-17T20:55:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1525agf/boyfriend_is_pushing_for_abortion/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

Situations like this are why financial abortion/signing away parental right before birth should exist.

potoricco · 2023-07-17T21:02:20+00:00

The World Is Biased Against Non Extroverts

This is a part of me I will never be able to change and Im punished every day for it. Why. Im not the devil. I

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-17T21:02:33+00:00

It seems like at least twice a year [Lolo Jones goes to the media ] (https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-12295573/40-year-old-Olympian-Lolo-Jones-hints-shes-ready-RETIRE.html) and complains about her lack of a romantic relationship, blaming it on her being a 40 year old virgin. I think someone in her inner circle should stop sugar coating it and explain to her in detail that it's a combination of her personality and her preferences keeping her single, not her virginity. Like if she put even half the effort in trying to attract a decent man as she does in sports, she would have been married by now. Instead she just treats God like a genie that's going to bless her with a mate if she stays virtuous and prays hard enough smh. She might as well get used to the fact she'll never get her cherry popped if she keeps this up.

potoricco · 2023-07-17T21:06:10+00:00

Tired of old people acting like they were seriously affected by covid lockdowns

I didnt have an 8th grade graduation and lost contact with most of my friends

I am irreparably damaged

You could only have sex with 100 people and not 1000. Big deal

SlashCo80 · 2023-07-17T21:07:01+00:00

So what the hell do you do when a married woman drunkenly confesses she's unhappy in her marriage and always liked you, and you're trying not to hurt her feelings? I don't know how I get myself in these situations.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-17T21:30:05+00:00

God, I feel so bad for ghosting a girl a while ago. This girl was so my type. Sexy and chill. We texted back and forth, I tell her that I'll get back to her and guess what I do - I never get back to her. cringe.

At least I didn't do it out of lack of interest. In fact, I was highly interested. (The whole "He's just not that interested isn't always true).

I realized that I have severe time blindness. I think I might introduce a new rule to me : Only be allowed to postpone something for like a week because I push it further, I'm probably never gonna do it.

potoricco · 2023-07-17T21:33:02+00:00

If someone consents to being murdered, it’s still a murder.

If someone consents to being beaten, they were still beaten.

If someone “consents” to sexual violence, it’s still sexual violence.

potoricco · 2023-07-17T21:35:13+00:00

My sister figure owe me $20 and she hasn’t given it to me but I don’t want to ask she’s so nice I don’t. Want her to feel bad😢

meteorness123 · 2023-07-17T21:38:58+00:00

Q : I have severe back and foot pain and I can barely walk for long periods of time without my body becoming extremely exhausted. It's almost unbearable pain. General exhaustion during the day is also present.

Have you had this or any idea what this could be ? I dont think this is normal

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-17T21:40:28+00:00

People sure love to be selective with schrodinger's nature or nurture to whenever it suits them. Dating preferences? Oh, they're natural, I can't help it, it's not b/c of societal norms or environment. If women don't find you attractive, tough luck, that's life. Oh but those beauty standards need to change, they are oppressive for sure, they are misogynistic, unrealistic and unattainable for most, even though I think my own dating and physical preferences exist in a vacuum. Oh but I'm obese b/c of my genetics and biology, not b/c of my lifestyle, so fuck nurture in that sense.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-17T21:47:14+00:00

mOdErN wOmEn ArE eDuCaTeD aNd tHeY DoNt NeEd No Man.

I'm so sick of seeing women trying to push this shitty narrative, because educated women are most likely to be married. Even though college postpones the time at which they do get married, more of them are married.

At the same time, those powerful, educated, independent women which ain't need no man. Just 16% of single moms have a collage degree or more, 45% of them are on food stamps.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-17T22:04:15+00:00

First day at the gym in a looong time. Feels pretty good to get your swole on. I think this period of leaving behind the shitty people in my life is going to be a good thing. Getting fit, reading all these goddamn books I have, learning Flamenco guitar and maybe a new language, focusing on my education and career situation, and just doing me.

I also purchased "The Book of Disquiet" by Fernando Passeo after watching a YouTube video last night. Anyone familiar with it?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-17T22:18:01+00:00

I feel genuinely bad for men who can't find anybody to love them despite efforts. That shit is not fun.

I do think that if no physical or mental illness is present, the aforementioned case is very unlikely and rare - if the man adjusts his expectations ?

potoricco · 2023-07-17T22:37:18+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/7q138aunrlcb1.jpeg?width=1156&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c62e23ac7a0613ebff59e6852e56073cc8d1555b

Should I start doing this for money

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-17T22:42:36+00:00

Two people with a 20 year age gap but who are both having casual sex or situationships or looking for fun are at closer life stages than two people who are the same age but one is looking for marriage while the other is looking to have fun.

Two people with a 20 year age gap without kids and have never been married are at closer life stages than two people at the same age but one is divorced or has kids and the other has never been married and never had kids.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-17T22:44:22+00:00

One of those chicks on the view I think it was joy said years ago that she asks guys on dates what they thought of the OJ Simpson trial. If they think OJ “didn’t do it” or was “framed” that’s an automatic red flag and the last time she will ever see him lol.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-07-17T22:49:00+00:00

Over the last few days, a number of conservative women have attacked Andrew Tate, basically using the same video to “expose” him. It’s really interesting. The argument is very familiar. It’s basically a re hash of blue pill arguments against red pill. And here’s the thing, both Tate and socially conservative women appear to be both be going for the same audience, young men. I am curious to see how this shakes out.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-17T22:50:29+00:00

I'm reading that "How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?" thread and it's crazy how so many people view this as a read flag. Why would you not want your partner to look their best? My gf and I have gained some weight while together as couples generally do, I want to get back in shape for my own sake so I've been hitting the gym heavily over the past ~2 months and she's been coming along with me. So far she's lost 10lbs and has been feeling better. She was attractive to me before but she looks better to. I think she wants to do another 20 which I encourage.

It seems there are guys who are afraid of then because I guess they feel their SO will all of a sudden cheat or up and leave them. This makes no sense to me because unless you're dating a woman the size of an average NFL linebacker, she can up and find a replacement at any moment she feels like it. Women don't need to be built like supermodels to gain male attention. If she is going to cheat/leave, then she already had plans to do so which in that case regardless if she loses weight or not, she mentally checked out so it's done right then and there.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-17T22:55:45+00:00

The best argument against age gap relationships is that normal well adjusted women generally don’t date that much above their own age.

Shit like “you wouldn’t have anything in common” or “what would you even talk about?” is dumb. It’s not like I as a 23 year old has much in common with the average 20 something party thot, both in interests and in values.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-17T23:19:02+00:00

How come women don't care if men have a physical preference, like big boobs or big ass.

But if men have a personality preference, like prefers low N-count women, all hell breaks lose?

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-17T23:33:17+00:00

The average female in the USA has such an inflated ego and sense of self worth it’s hilarious. It must be from years of being raised as daddy’s little princess.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-17T23:41:22+00:00

One of my favorite topics I love to see come up on Reddit is n count. The arguments and responses that ensure from both sides are delicious.

potoricco · 2023-07-18T00:03:46+00:00

Seeing women lose their shot over this aging filter has been…interesting

potoricco · 2023-07-18T00:06:07+00:00

Vinnie😍

SparksLab · 2023-07-18T14:23:09+00:00

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AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-18T16:17:56+00:00

Dinner conversation between two out of touch old ladies. Regrettable face tattoos aside, I have become a fan of Post Malone's music, but I could take or leave the Weeknd. My similarly aged friend is crazy for the Weeknd but could take or leave Post Malone. Which side do you fall on? If it's the Weeknd, what amazing track have I missed?

Jingobingomingo · 2023-07-18T16:26:02+00:00

So I not only managed to get a girlfriend, but we've been together for two years now and I love her to tears, however I'm still filled with sadness, rage, bitterness, and extreme emotional instability and a part of me still wants to watch the world burn anyway. All she's done is give me hope, light, warmth, and stopped me from being generally suicidal at all times.

Explain this shit bloops and reds

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-18T16:39:36+00:00

3ish weeks until Florida. I didn't lose the 10lbs I wanted to, instead I got jacked. I guess there are worse ways to fuck up a goal.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-18T16:54:10+00:00

I'm really sick of weirdos going on and on about how women need to "control themselves" sexually.

Why? What for? So that they remain attractive to men who don't want them to enjoy themselves and have weird, misogynistic views? No fucking thanks.

The only valid reason I can think of to intentionally keep your n count down if you're a woman who likes casual sex is mitigating STD risk, but even then, you can just use condoms and make sure that all your partners are being tested regularly.

Also, not a matter of "poor self control" *if you're not attempting to not do something.* Like, imagine if we said everyone who reads a lot of fiction books has "poor self control," just because they're doing something pleasurable. They'd be like, "What's wrong with reading? I see no reason not to read; it has nothing to do with self control. What are you talking about?"

potoricco · 2023-07-18T17:13:48+00:00

Grrrrrr I have applied to 3 places recently and none have reached out

Been searching since I was 15 and in the span of ~2 years probably over 170+ position, 0 jobs in sight

Like how is it so easy for other people

Definitely not excited to be an adult. pretty sure it only gets worse

Like I don't even care if they flat out reject me but im tired of people leaving me in the dark and making me feel like all my effort was for nothing

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-18T17:17:27+00:00

Wtf is up with youtube shorts being commentated by a random ass dude all the way through, and nobody having a problem with it? Is this just normal now?

"Here in this video you can see a woman walk down these stairs with her dog. What she never expected was a black bear standing there, so she got scared and her dog started to bark, but luckily the bear ran off and nobody was hurt."

Dude, it's a fucking 15 seconds long video! I can see what's happening in it, I have eyes! What the fuck are you on about?! It's literally like the braindead version of daily dose of internet, and there are so many of these shorts now. I'm baffled.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-18T17:18:31+00:00

Nothing worse then seeing a female without her nails painted. One of the first red flags that can show up instantly when you are looking to mate.

proud_white_boy · 2023-07-18T17:29:39+00:00

What do you guys think of this?

https://youtu.be/DCvocvRyCqk

Particularly the redpill and blackpill guys. I already know the women’s comments lol

baresquad · 2023-07-18T17:52:40+00:00

Is navigating dating seriously this difficult?

How don’t you know what to think in a situation like that? It’s demoralizing watching other men be so helpless over situations that are extremely easy to solve.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-18T18:06:29+00:00

Q4A: what questions do you ask on a first date? Are there questions or topics you avoid?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-18T18:17:02+00:00

Turns out I actually can't afford mental health treatment. Womp womp.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-18T18:20:46+00:00

Q4A: when do you bring up the topic of sex on a date? Does it matter if it is the 1st or 3rd date?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-18T18:30:02+00:00

L O L

A woman just superswiped me on bumble moments ago. Ever the detective, I quickly glanced at her bio, took four elements that stood out to me and found her facebook in 2 mins ...

Apparently she's married and two kids. Bonus, the majority of her profile photos are of her and her husband looking so in love! LOL.

I got a special chuckle reading the most recent comments of how perfect a couple they look from family. I can only imagine, little do they know this blonde hair, blue eyed sweet mommy is looking to get fucked in the ass by a total dark haired stranger.

I wonder if the husband is aware. Even if they play ENM, that's not the image carefully curated by them on their social media.

Right when I was beginning to think it'll be another boring week, this juicy scandal just landed on my lap. I can't wait for my swipe cooldown to reset.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-18T18:32:56+00:00

Our opinions are influenced by 2 major factors:

- emotion

- logic

When our emotion and logic both agree is when we feel most comfortable in holding any particular opinion. If our emotion disagrees with our logic, we feel uneasy.

Then can you see the problem of trying to change a woman's opinion, as a man?

Women have stronger mirror neuron activity than men.

A mirror neuron is a neuron that fires both when an organism acts and when the organism observes the same action performed by another.

I.e. when we observe someone like us doing something, we sort of feel as if we're doing it ourselves

This pattern is stronger in women than men. What this means is women's emotions are strongly influenced by the emotions of the other women in their circle, and as a result they frequently share similar opinions.

Therefore, if you're debating a woman on an opinion that's shared by members of her circle, even if she follows your logical train of thought, her emotions, which are constantly reinforced by the other women in her circle, will not change much.

To truly beat someone in a debate and get them to change their opinion, you have to convince them both logically and emotionally. Well her emotions aren't changing due to the mirroring of emotions of the other women in her circle, so even if you logically convince them that you're correct, they will still feel extremely uneasy about changing their opinions because their emotions conflict with their rationality.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-07-18T18:33:55+00:00

youtube recommendations are on point today: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=giYvwLM-JEo

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-18T18:35:20+00:00

Guess the gender:

What a lot of people fail to understand in their early years is that sex is literally just sex. Pussy is easy to get if you’re tall, short, ugly, gorgeous, it literally doesn’t matter. Hell, you can pay for it. But people think too much with the little head, and end up heartbroken. Sex is just sex and u can find it anywhere but when you have a real connection with someone and you want it to last, take your time. Good things take time.

M | F ?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-18T18:35:34+00:00

waiting for the new thread so i can paste my block of text

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-18T19:13:06+00:00

Sometimes, I read posts on here from a woman, and I can't help but think that it is a man pretending to be a woman. There's a new thread that made me question if it really is a woman.

Does this happen to anyone else?

scwizard · 2023-07-18T19:39:49+00:00

This is fucking heart breaking

https://old.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1530ql7/further_update_husband_accused_me_of_financial/

Some fuckhead reads why women deserve less, and totally nukes his relationship with a sweatheart of a woman.

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-18T19:59:26+00:00

Was anyone else really cute from like 0-6 or 7 years old, hideous from 6/7- 16, started looking better around 17-18, and became decent looking as an adult?

Pics of me as a baby look nothing like me as a pre-teen to teen, but adult me looks the way I did from 0-6. The middle is just some really weird ugly duckling phase where I truly can not recognize myself. It's bizarre.

It's like I was a different human from 6- 16/17 years old.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-07-18T22:48:45+00:00

What is one thing that, if the other side admitted or stipulated, would end the debate for you?

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