What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?

Estimator1313 · 2021-10-21T14:24:40+00:00

I also hate the big “Kardashian” butt. I never understood why people find it sexy or attractive, I just find it nasty. To a lesser extent, I think there is such a thing as breasts that are too big, especially if they’re not natural. I can understand wanting breast surgery if a woman’s are completely flat. But when it looks out of proportion to the rest of the body, it just doesn’t seem right.

I also think there’s such as thing as being overly thin. If you lift up your shirt and you can start seeing bone/outline of your bones, I think you’ve gone too far. A little meat on ya isn’t going to kill you nor will it make you look ugly.

SniXSniPe · 2021-10-21T14:11:15+00:00

Those lip fillers or whatever they are called, that they inject. Looks kinda ridiculous most of the time...

PoMansDreams · 2021-10-21T15:00:47+00:00

Clown face makeup is a no for me

passepar2t · 2021-10-21T15:23:50+00:00

Obese butts.

SpikeTheDragQueen · 2021-10-21T18:02:46+00:00

Makeup. Just flat out all of it. I can see why it's used and can even see how it makes women (and men) who use it more attractive and can be used to cover blemishes and whatnot. But that stuff gets everywhere. Even light dustings of consealer end up as stains on pillows. Kissing someone wearing lipstick is super unpleasant, and after seeing people over the years still wearing the same mascara from a night out 2 days later, I'm well put off.

pubgmisc · 2021-10-21T16:05:54+00:00

Yeah kardashian butts are photoshop garbage

md8716 · 2021-10-21T13:38:51+00:00

Youth. I’m typically not very attracted to women much younger than me or women who look young. I’m typically most attracted to women between 26 and 45.

i_wind · 2021-10-21T13:52:42+00:00

Long ass ratchet nails is OUT

Jakes1967 · 2021-10-21T14:12:32+00:00

Fake anything. Yes, it's a plastic society, but I'm definitely NOT attracted to it.

Fake- nails, eyelashes, boobs, butt, botox, damn even makeup turns me off.

Kaligula785 · 2021-10-21T13:55:12+00:00

Long nails real or fake- the reason for that is i remember hearing a study that was done in a department store back in the early 00s, they took dirt samples from women with long nails and found it was mostly fecal material. Besides that ombre eyebrow and I feel like beach waves are the teased hair of the 80s

pink-summer-sky · 2021-10-21T15:22:08+00:00

Beards. They may be manly and masculine but they are an extreme turn off for me, even well manicured and taken care of ones. I will not date a guy with a beard ever. Guh

michael1962-01 · 2021-10-21T13:21:59+00:00

I do not like the "Heidi Klum" type anorexic runway models.

Insidious-Sid · 2021-10-21T17:11:13+00:00

- Big boobs and showing lots of cleavage (not a fan)

- Big bootie (not a fan)

- Big thick legs (not a fan)

- Cake face

- Fake eyebrows

- Big hair / large hair / super curly hair

I used to prefer women who were more feminine, and hid their sexuality a little bit. A bit more reserved. I liked talking to people who were "fun to talk to" and not competitive all of the time and "in your face".

Thing on a woman that is the BIGGEST TURN OFF EVER:

The "Proud to Be A Bitch" bitch.

"I'm a bitch. Yeah, fuck you. I'm so tough. Let's smoke a cigar. Let's slam whiskey. I'm so BADASS. Look at my TATOO! I have a motorcycle!"

I've met badass. Mouthing off in a bar when you're 5-foot-fuck all and weight 120 pounds is not badass. It's just bad.

Archwz_ovruler2 · 2021-10-21T18:41:44+00:00

I don’t really like thick girls like everybody seems to prefer like cardi b for example. They look good but I just prefer petite girls. Girls that look just regular.

ShonenHeart · 2021-10-21T15:36:50+00:00

Vanity surgery like boob and butt implants. I don't get it.

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-10-21T17:47:26+00:00

Going to echo the big butt thing. I like small tight butts.

koolex · 2021-10-21T16:10:01+00:00

Big boobs, I've dated a girl who had at least D cups and I didn't care for it at all. I would rather have A or B cups any day.

xFallacyx69 · 2021-10-21T17:31:07+00:00

I know someone already said this but youth… I like older chicks. Always have. They’re usually much more mature and aren’t controlled by their emotions… but also super down to earth. I can’t tell you why that connects to my physical preference.

Edit to add: fuck porn sites for peddling “barely 18”

Eastuss · 2021-10-21T14:05:56+00:00

Redrawn eyebrows, monochrome lipstick, fake nails or nail polish of any sort. All women pretty much fuck themselves up.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2021-10-21T16:32:40+00:00

Instagram models.

LadyM2 · 2021-10-21T18:54:54+00:00

People who are too socially active are not attractive to me. People who party a lot, the kind that seems not being able to have a moment alone is definitely a turn off.

_Oh_Be_Nice_ · 2021-10-21T21:09:52+00:00

Lip-filler.

Rhinoplasties.

Butt implants.

Breast implants.

Hair extensions.

Eyelash extensions.

Drawn-on eyebrows.

The underlying reason is because women demand authenticity, and everything about your appearance is fake. These women don't even look like humans anymore.

quabbicoo · 2021-10-21T13:58:00+00:00

I’m not attracted to muscular men. I hear it peddled here constantly that women require 6-pack abs and lean, fit men but it’s just not for me. I myself am very fit (I lift competitively) so I’m around fit men in the gym daily and I just don’t find it sexually appealing. I need a guy with fluff.

YveisGrey · 2021-10-21T14:26:15+00:00

(F29) Thick necks on men. Overly muscular men. I actually prefer lean and fit vs bulky fit.

Ren_Yi · 2021-10-21T17:16:45+00:00

All the ridiculous filters woman use on photos which make them look fake and plastic. Yet they think it makes them more attractive! God only know why?

JameisBong · 2021-10-21T22:29:43+00:00

Sexually aggressive women like Meg the Stallion.

mistresswhat · 2021-10-21T23:24:40+00:00

Men who are too overtly masculine bore the shit out of me.

Classicjammer · 2021-10-21T15:08:29+00:00

Women with tattoos

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-10-21T14:23:40+00:00

Male aggression. My dad had a short temper and violent tendencies, so lesser men who try to aggro make me laugh and scarier men who aggro send me right into crying on floor in the fetal position panic attack mode.

Another one is calloused hands. I just recoil from the idea of ugly dirty hands touching my lady bits. No thank you!

NarniaFox · 2021-10-21T13:28:14+00:00

That's a hard question, I generally don't get sexually attracted without getting romantic feelings first. I guess just on aesthetic level I don't really like very muscular guys that look as if they're close to exploding. Not really into classical Hollywood male actors like Brad Pitt, Henry Cavill. Sure, they're good-looking, but I find actors like Ezra Miller, Domhnall Gleeson or young Olrando Bloom to be more attractive.

I have generally negative feelings towards stereotypically masculine men. Men who clearly want to lead, very competitive, somewhat aggressive, want to "take care" of me, think they know better what's good for me etc. Also older men who try to be fatherly towards me and hit me on in the same time. Not my type of kink at all, but I guess it's very common among women so I guess it doesn't really fit "suppose" part.

Edit: also beards are a no-no for me. I remember reading something about them being dirtier than dogs' fur.

And older men in general. I've never viewed men >3-4 y.o. as possible partners. And I know the reason for it. Getting harassed by older men as a teen didn't really turn me into a fan of them.

leroy2007 · 2021-10-21T13:18:50+00:00

100% agree about the “kardashian butt” thing. It baffles me. Used to be we just called those women overweight.

DeliciousPussyNectar · 2021-10-21T14:48:23+00:00

Overweight women, according to the media

RavioliPocketoli1999 · 2021-10-21T15:55:12+00:00

Really pretty girls. The princess type.

bordstol · 2021-10-21T16:24:38+00:00

Huge butts or breasts. I like small and firm.

Danielcraigboston1 · 2021-10-21T16:34:21+00:00

I don’t get the Kardashian look at all. These women are supposed to be the epitome of beauty? Give me a break.

StinkingDischarge · 2021-10-21T17:16:12+00:00

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poeticdownfall · 2021-10-21T20:23:47+00:00

Body and facial hair on guys

Like it’s fineeeee as long as you’re not like the beast but it’d be so nice if guys shaved their arms and legs And definitely face

OneAngryBlutbad · 2021-10-21T21:55:36+00:00

I’m an ass man but I don’t like overstuffed Kardashian asses. It just looks nasty. I also don’t like spineless doormats with zero personality, I don’t mind implants but I don’t like cartoonishly huge implants. I also don’t find exaggerated makeup styles attractive.

StinkingDischarge · 2021-10-21T23:05:41+00:00

Big tits. Especially big fake tits. Nothing more unattractive than giant lumps of adipose tissue hanging from a woman's chest. And big chunks of silicone are even worse. How does anyone find this shit attractive??

vivalachavez · 2021-10-22T17:36:05+00:00

Women who have no shape. Like they go up and down Like spongebob squarepants

TheRedPillRipper · 2021-10-21T13:18:56+00:00

turns you off?

Plastic Surgery. I understand enhancing yourself. Even things like lashes and nails though, can be too much. I tell my partner almost daily, that there’s true beauty in embracing our natural self. As we can truthfully appreciate the beauty we have. As opposed to comparing ourselves to the beauty in others.

Godspeed and good luck!

SaBahRub · 2021-10-21T14:48:44+00:00

Abuse and shitty, selfish behavior, apparently

Matt_Door · 2021-10-21T15:54:26+00:00

I love ‘em all…

But, the hype over blondes, dark hair is way hotter

goatismycopilot · 2021-10-21T15:37:37+00:00

I do not find beards, athletes, overly macho men, or frat bros, attractive. I like do masculine men and have tended to date outdoorsy or handy type guys but never got excited by the super aggressive manifestation of all that.

GuitarsBack · 2021-10-21T13:16:44+00:00

Any kind of nail designs.

i_wind · 2021-10-21T13:53:17+00:00

So much makeup that you dont know it shes clowning with you or herself.

gottem

wtknight · 2021-10-21T13:56:23+00:00

Fake breasts. Obvious nose jobs. Too much makeup. Anything that makes a woman look artificial and inauthentic that other people consider an “improvement”. I even like how Japanese women often have crooked teeth.

Chunka23 · 2021-10-21T15:02:59+00:00

Make up! Less is more. Too much is a no go

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2021-10-21T17:36:12+00:00

Bald men, short men, and dad bods.

Plenty of women like those guys. I’m not one of them

redheadbeauty15 · 2021-10-21T13:48:07+00:00

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Nihi1986 · 2021-10-21T15:06:56+00:00

I find much younger women physically attractive but I definitely wouldn't want to date one. My preference is women my same age.

As for supposedly physically attractive traits, I don't like it when the girl is too slim, I'd rather be with a chubby (though fit is better).

majani · 2021-10-21T16:20:47+00:00

Asian hair weaves on black girls have never done anything for me. I get that some black girls struggle to grow their hair out but why put hair of another race on top of yours?

Also in the area I grew up in, natural hair was what the classy girls did and bimbos tended to be the ones who did the huge weaves.

KirthWGersen · 2021-10-21T16:25:49+00:00

I'm not really into big tits, big arses or tall women.

I mean, I'll take them sometimes, but not for the long term.

NameGiver0 · 2021-10-21T17:22:06+00:00

Big asses. Fit > fat.

Riacebandz · 2021-10-21T22:42:51+00:00

Fat sloppy white women

MisterJose · 2021-10-23T05:34:54+00:00

Twerking. I like big butts, but twerking does not improve anything.

Hoopy223 · 2021-10-21T15:48:21+00:00

Pear shaped women with gigantic asses and puffed up lips do nothing for me. I’m more pretty face and nice tits kinda guy.

-ButShes1000Bro- · 2021-10-21T13:40:10+00:00

Overly asses. I like wide hips and a nice butt, however, the grotesque, cottage cheese ridden horse behinds im expected to find attractive in american society are fucking disgusting. Unfortunately they seem to be quite popular with other men, so i see them far too often in far too little clothing.

Flightlessbirbz · 2021-10-21T17:33:31+00:00

I’m not nearly as obsessed with height as men here seem to think women are and do think there’s such a thing as too tall. Brown or black hair and tan to dark complexion is a lot more important to me than height, I just prefer someone a bit taller than me and that’s it.

Most older men (10+ yrs) are gross, I like someone fairly close to my age, with some rare exceptions.

Red pill type manipulation tricks are a visceral turnoff. I don’t know if they would be if I didn’t know about them, but they sure are when you know what they’re trying to do.

I prefer kind puppydog eyes to “predator eyes.”

xQueen-Bx · 2021-10-21T13:29:08+00:00

apparently im supposed to be attracted to overly groomed looking homosexuals in suits, and i am not

spinsterchachkies · 2021-10-21T15:08:47+00:00

Muscles. I love a scrawny man. I’ve dated men with muscles because I’m probably too big for a skinny guy 😔

KarmaChameleonian · 2021-10-21T13:22:40+00:00

An older woman. The media is trying to push this “30+ women are the ideal age and if you try to date younger you’re a creep” but I’m not buying it.

Edit: add fat women to the list too

Asmallnobody · 2021-10-21T18:40:01+00:00

Apparently I'm supposed to be attracted to height, which is so odd to me, abs, muscular men in general. It's not the case for me.

lifeofbrittany · 2021-10-21T15:25:52+00:00

according to other woman in this sub, im supposed to be attracted to 100 pound feminine looking boys who wear makeup and if im not it means im from the ghetto.

but in reality Im attracted to tall strong muscular masculine men.

Imaginary_Spinach_43 · 2021-10-21T13:28:58+00:00

Chest and neck tattoos on women. I don't know why, but it's such a turn off. I get they do it for themselves, but there is nothing more beautiful to me than a woman without Tattoos. Seems so many these days jump on this bandwagon, but maybe i'm just old, lol. I'll stick to the confident plain janes where natural beauty shines!

Diamond-Breath · 2021-10-21T17:12:17+00:00

I dislike dad bods, I love muscular men. My boyfriend has a fit body and I can't stop staring at him and touching his arms.

Anthropscribe · 2021-11-07T18:06:49+00:00

There’s a lot of people hating on women on here.

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peteypete78 · 2021-10-21T14:09:21+00:00

Fakeness.

Demasii · 2021-10-21T16:56:07+00:00

Light skinned black men or tan white men. I prefer either very dark or very pale complexion.

Idk why but medium skin tone looks dirty. I can see the flaws in the skin more readily.

Wowbaggerrr · 2021-10-21T17:04:05+00:00

Big lips. (on both men and women) I think mouths are sort of gross to begin with, so accentuating them with big, bold lips weirds me out. I know people dislike thin lips, but I honestly think those faces are quite attractive.

Enchanting_Smith · 2021-10-21T17:23:05+00:00

Also hate the kardashian "diaper" butt as my relatives called it. It's not only fake but physically not accomodating and unrealistic standard setting and cosmetic dishonest are personal pet peeves.

I prefer height mostly only cause I'm a tall female - my husbands the perfect 6'1 and he dated many short short girls, likes that he can give me a hug without stooping haha.

I dislike "pretty boys" - I'm talking the typical one direction tik tok guys. Nothing wrong with who they are, but the stereotype and then the actual aesthetic - even as a teenager swept up in the zac efron era he was just... idk too perfect by standards I already didn't understand?

Huge breasts. I just think back pain and jogging must suck lol.

Eyes - They don't do it for me, esp blue. I almost want to say it's BECAUSE that's what everyone goes for typically, but also I just don't get lost in peoples eyes. Maybe its a me thing.

I cant think of much else wow I really dont pay attention to physical enough in general.

golden_eyed_cat · 2021-10-21T17:42:13+00:00

I never really liked men that were very tall (190+ cm.), since I felt like a child when I stood next to them, and preferred guys that were roughly as tall as I was.

bubble_gummmmm · 2021-10-21T19:07:34+00:00

Huge boobs, huge lips and small feet

Melohdy · 2021-10-21T21:45:44+00:00

Large breasts, large butts.

ohtobebeautiful · 2021-10-21T21:50:08+00:00

I don't like very masculine men. LOVE me a guy who isn't uncomfortable wearing feminine clothing, nail polish, some make-up, isn't afraid to show emotion etc.

I don't know what the underlying reason is. I just find it attractive.

TheSmallerGambler · 2021-10-21T22:07:39+00:00

I don’t know if this qualifies but fake nails? Can’t stand that shit.

monstera-delicious · 2021-10-21T22:20:04+00:00

Conventional attractive men. I recognize they are attractive, but I'm not attracted to them.

Superfluous_Toast · 2021-10-21T22:24:21+00:00

I also find muscle men to be very uncanny valley.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-10-21T22:31:01+00:00

Yep, kardashian butts, same with the over made up face. Lip fillers look disgusting, long nails or hair extensions are terrible. Boob jobs are out as well. "Curvy" is NOT my thing-- i prefer slim, but with wide hips. The only curve i care about is hips to waist ratio.

Women acting helpless is a huge turn off to me even though i know some men like it so they can "help" them

Hjelmert · 2021-10-21T23:00:03+00:00

Im not attracted to men that are very tall or promiscuous. If he's much taller than me (5'9) i just feel like a child next to him and he seems scary not in s good way. Harder to kiss and have different sex positions too. Promiscuous men don't align with my values and seem more likely to have diseases, cheat, be coomers etc.

human8ure · 2021-10-21T23:04:42+00:00

Fake/polished nails and makeup.

kyjolski · 2021-10-22T00:06:45+00:00

The 'plastic' look of the archetypical 'babe'. To me they all look the same, and fake.

I prefer natural girls, most of my GFs were cute with minimum makeup (lipstick, eyebrows) and I found it both convenient for daily life as well as amazingly attractive.

Huge boobs/asses. I prefer slender girls and have no issue with small boobs, I think they're great.

Long hair. Surprisingly I know a lot of guys obsessing over that. I don't care, dated a tomboy-ish/alt girl once and she looked great with shorter hair. She was still plenty womanly in her vibe for me.

Basically, fuck the mass media beauty standards. I don't jive much with them.

Lateralanouncer · 2021-10-22T00:07:00+00:00

Lol just reading the header I thought kardashians. Then clicked and read kardashians. In my mind the are butch as fuck. Not that I should be judging someone I don’t know. I will ad Big butts and big breasts. I like my woman petite feminine and tight.

girlindolor · 2021-10-22T00:10:41+00:00

Objectively attractive men. I'm only attracted to average or conventially ugly guys. Also would never date a guy over 6ft and that's bc the height gap is too much for me at that point

banjobilliejoebob · 2021-10-22T00:17:28+00:00

tall women. I don't have a giant fetish sorry

Plus_Program_249 · 2021-10-22T00:47:58+00:00

I'm sure I'm in the minority but gargantuan tatas , I'm really more of an ass guy , but unnaturally large looking tits throw me off for me it's more about nipples other than that I only need a handful.

BrodieDharma · 2021-10-22T01:12:09+00:00

Red toe polish

f1vepointoh · 2021-10-22T02:32:01+00:00

Long nails wtf

SqueaksScreech · 2021-10-22T04:34:35+00:00

I dont like overly muscular men especially when their veins pop out 🤮.

Giant fake butts both implants and bbls. Those giant fake boobs and giant boobs in general they do nothing for me. Fake tans Badly structured sleeves and badly placed piercings. Bulky drawn on eyebrows Lip filler Cheek filler Overdrawn lips Tiny thighs Thigh gaps Hourglass shaped bodies Overly tiny waists Liposuction on the stomach on chubby girls

asdf333aza · 2021-10-22T07:55:01+00:00

Abnormally perfect teeth. You can see girls and guys whose teeth look like dentures in their 20s because they have been filed and basically sculpted. Their teeth like Jimmy Carrey's teeth in "The Mask" movies. So some fangs or irregularities. Not saying i like crooked teeth, but your teeth shouldn't be abnormally fake looking.

jeish_1996 · 2021-10-22T12:25:03+00:00

I don’t find men with 6 pack abs or super big muscles attractive. I never understood the appeal of that.

manfrom-nantucket · 2021-10-22T20:07:37+00:00

Sorry no matter how much society tells me that fat women are to be celebrated, they flat out look disgusting.

resultsmatter1 · 2021-10-23T20:10:42+00:00

Not a fan of kardashian ass and full lips.

ashpr0ulx · 2021-10-21T13:43:59+00:00

i hate any sort of manicured or clean cut look on a man. come scruffy and rugged, please, i only need you cleaned up for special occasions.

also hate when they shave their chests or pubes. i like that hair 🥺

Spacct · 2021-10-21T18:57:12+00:00

Blondes, especially fake blondes.

I think eyes that aren't brown are creepy.

Kardashian asses. The diaper look isn't attractive at all.

Neptune-Jr · 2021-10-21T14:01:01+00:00

Blue Eyes: They just kind freak me out I can't explain.
Women younger than myself: I just think it's weird maybe because I'm 23 so women younger than myself are VERY young

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-10-21T13:23:09+00:00

"Strong and independent" women , but if we're talking about just physical attributes I was never attracted to the supermodel look from when I was growing up the real skinny size 0 Paris fashion model look, the faces may be pretty but I need some ass and titty

Lunar_Compass · 2021-10-21T14:54:30+00:00

Older men

LittyKitsune · 2021-10-21T13:20:26+00:00

Beards/ any kind of facial hair really. I remember the time a guy I went out with said something like "a little scruff never hurt anyone." Yes it did.

As for the underlying reason, I can think of a few possibilities. Virtually all of the men in my family go for a clean-shaven look or at least they have as long as I've been alive. Looking back at old photos my dad used to have a mustache apparently, it's so weird. My mom told me for her it was the opposite, she was so used to seeing him with the mustache when they were younger it took forever for her to get used to seeing him without it.

ChocolateSharp · 2021-10-21T13:25:43+00:00

Womanly body i.e. big hips to waist ratio, overall curviness (if not muscles), ultra feminine style.

For me that just make them look like someone's mother - turn off.+ Probably the obssesion with heroine type of female characters.

Edit: LONG NAILS

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-10-21T14:40:08+00:00

Muscly guys.

januaryphilosopher · 2021-10-21T13:31:32+00:00

Dominant/masculine men. Apparently that's meant to be all I care about but it's a personal turnoff.

black_snake_m0an · 2021-10-21T16:29:02+00:00

I agree, I don't like super muscular guys. I like them skinny, most of my boyfriends have only weighed 20-30 lbs more than me and are about 4 inches taller. It's probably because I glamorized the rocker look when I was younger and carried it into adulthood. I also don't like how guys' necks look short when they're super muscular...I find long necks more attractive. Muscular guys look stubby to me.

I also only like white guys. I'm not racist, most of my female friends are black. But there's something about white guys that arouses me sexually that no other race has. South Americans look good too.

However, this stems from a deep-rooted self hatred. I'm half white & half middle eastern and I never felt accepted as white (even though middle easterns are technically caucasian) and I longed to be white growing up. All of the popular girls were white. So I got in my head from a very young age if I just marry a white guy and have white kids, I'll be part of a white family.

343_peaches_and_tea · 2021-10-21T20:27:10+00:00

Women who are too petite or young looking

Women with too many neotenous features remind me too much of children and it's gross.

Women in their 30s have always been more attractive to me than women in their 20s. Even when I was 20.

I like women who look like women.

(I am ashamed to say I do quite like big butts like Kim's)

Siukslinis_acc · 2021-10-21T15:47:31+00:00

Ripped men. I prefer skinny fat. Edit: If the man is muscular they need to have at least a bit of padding.

Also no body hair. I prefer body hair (a body hair mod is one of the first mods that i search for in a moddable video game).

Underlying reason could be that I was exposed to skinny fat hairy people (example) when I grew up. I even didn't know in my childhood that people removed body hair, I just thought that it grew on some and didn't grow on others.

nemporisso · 2021-10-21T13:51:49+00:00

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usimariT · 2021-10-21T15:00:19+00:00

long nails (just keep em short and natural, dammit)
big butts, tits, or lips
anything fake, e.g.: makeup (anything more than the very light "no makeup" look), fake nails, shaved/redrawn eyebrows, fillers and other plastic surgery, botox face
tattoos and piercings
unnaturally colored or peroxide blonde (bleached) hair
the instagram/instahoe look
the "thicc" look (a euphemism for "fat")
high heels
deep décolletés, overly revealing clothing (unless it's in private) or any other attention whoring look

StarchRunner · 2021-10-21T14:15:14+00:00

Big tits and big asses.

I associate the former with fake and latter with high body fat.

And single moms can fuck right off. Poor decision making.

CFinCanada · 2021-10-21T14:14:07+00:00

I'm supposed to be attracted to strong, wide jaws in men but I've always hated the aesthetic. I don't mind a strong chin, but given the choice between Armie Hammer and Henry Cavill I much prefer Armie's face because it's not so awkwardly wide. I prefer oval faces on a man. Not Cumberbatch oval (just too narrow) but like, Adam Brody oval or Joel Kinnaman oval.

I never liked a Spongebob square-head.

asdf333aza · 2021-10-22T07:58:35+00:00

Single moms...

The media is pushing them hard nowadays. Trying to trick dudes into thinking it's eh okay to raise a kid you didn't make and pay time, money and attention into ensuring the biological survival of someone else's seed.

Say no to single mothers. Recreational use only.

snowcakey · 2021-10-21T14:27:24+00:00

Dad bods 🤮
whyte men
blue eyes look gross on men, great on women
balding/any kind of norwood/receding
single dads
macho masculine

Ppdebateismental · 2021-10-21T13:29:16+00:00

Overly muscular builds, gym bros who lift. Veiny dudes. Nah. I’ll take a lean, moderately muscular runner or average guy on the amateur swim team any day.

ThatIntention1 · 2021-10-21T17:22:19+00:00

White males

Blue eyes

Abs

Over 6’

chingness · 2021-10-21T14:08:11+00:00

Beards

parfaitimme · 2021-10-21T14:38:26+00:00

Overly muscular look, beards, older dudes

Bad-DPS · 2021-10-21T15:49:14+00:00

Buff men, they look wierd, and the veins popping out freak me out

HumanNumber348 · 2021-10-21T16:13:59+00:00

Body hair.

06534956 · 2021-10-21T16:15:13+00:00

I’m with you on the height thing. I’m tallish for a woman at 5’7, and I wear heels/platforms every day.

I don’t like to crane my neck to kiss someone, and it definitely feels a little scarier than with someone my own size.

herefortheparty01 · 2021-10-21T16:16:05+00:00

Skinny women. Give me chubs all day.

Throwaway18077 · 2021-10-21T16:19:30+00:00

I don’t get the hype about tall men. I also do not care at all about a mans jawline and I don’t like men that are muscular. Also, I’m not into men that are preppy, jockey or obsessed with gaming.

SkookumTree · 2021-10-21T16:40:44+00:00

Traditional femininity. I like androgyny.

DjangoUBlackBastard · 2021-10-21T16:43:01+00:00

Makeup, makeup, makeup. I mean there's a lot I don't like but I feel like it'll be common things (for example the BBL bodies, fake nails, etc.) but makeup is by far the answer to this because of how pervasive it is. I'll appreciate the effort of someone putting makeup on for me, but I don't think anyone looks more attractive with it on. You just look like a doll or fake.

Of course light makeup application can enhance your natural beauty, but that's not what most women wearing makeup are doing nowadays.

Pigeon-in-Boots · 2021-10-21T17:43:10+00:00

Height! I wouldn't not date someone for being tall, but I prefer shorter, like 5'5''-5''7''

NoRecommendation2007 · 2021-10-21T18:46:37+00:00

Long haired women make me feel like I am walking on eggshells when talking to them.Tomboy is waaaay better.

Affectionate_Ear_685 · 2021-10-21T19:01:02+00:00

Agreed, I'd go so far as to say the sexualisation of butts is the worst thing to happen to western society in years. Give me some good old fashioned titties anyday

M_LaSalle · 2021-10-21T19:49:40+00:00

Any woman whose ass makes me think of the song "Big Bottom" by Spinal Tap.

The puffed out lip jobs nearly always look fake and don't do anything for me.

Any plastic surgery procedure that ends up calling attention to itself. This includes an awful lot of boob jobs, but not all of them.

EDIT: Women, there's probably not as much wrong with your body as you think if you just won't get fat. All surgery carries risk, and that includes lip jobs, boob jobs, etc. Shit can go wrong and even a good surgeon can make mistakes.

Nice_Pass2393 · 2021-10-21T20:31:14+00:00

I don't like older men, tattoos, facial hair, dad bods or overly jacked, steroid, protein powder dudes

Fiestygirl000 · 2021-10-21T20:31:12+00:00

Older men- nothing attractive about sagging balls, wrinkles, or a pushed back hairline, and jack of stamina

2- dad bods does nothing for me. I find these men to be feminine get in the gym and lose weight for heavens sake you weren’t carrying a kid.

3- beards. This just screams catfish and lack of jaw structure. I’ve never been proven wrong

thegr8profiter · 2021-10-21T14:43:20+00:00

Big ass on thin thighs.

Fentonious8 · 2021-10-21T16:15:50+00:00

Nice people

CimZim · 2021-10-21T18:30:35+00:00

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AllThingsAirborn · 2021-10-21T20:25:37+00:00

Muscles.

PassMyGuard · 2021-10-21T22:19:30+00:00

I’ve never liked the Kardashian look, either. My ideal butt is an athletic squat booty.

KinnyMeister · 2021-10-22T00:15:01+00:00

Anyone with model tier looks/physique/fashion.

I've always been partial to people who fit the loose proximity of lower-mid to upper mid tier on the looks scale with a little bit of imperfect, humble rough shag/scruff all around; and as copey/autistic as it sounds - that's my purposeful aesthetic sort of thing that I prefer aligning myself within as well.

I don't want to look like or befriend nor date literal mannequins.

heyitsjeape · 2021-10-22T00:38:24+00:00

I don’t know. I’m not sure what other people expect of me. I know what I like when I see it.

flowerwoven · 2021-10-22T02:34:10+00:00

Masculine guys. Give me a young energetic boy who looks like a girl please.

asdf333aza · 2021-10-22T07:52:01+00:00

Sure are a lot of people on this post saying they prefer skinnier bodies over fat or muscular ones. But we still got like 70% of American overweight or obese. Maybe we could fix some of these gender attractiveness issues with weight loss.

sunkized · 2021-10-22T08:14:40+00:00

I live in an area where many people get plastic surgery. I guess I missed the memo that bug eyes, no nose, and huge lips are attractive.

Prismatic_Symphony · 2021-10-22T08:32:58+00:00

What's the big deal with blondes? Hair color is irrelevant to me. If she has hair, I'm happy.

It's not a turn-off, just something that I'm neutral too but that seems to get fetishized all over the place.

annabeelongx · 2021-10-22T09:57:50+00:00

I don’t like men with thin lips. A little smooth puffiness makes me more apt to kiss

abaxeron · 2021-10-22T10:02:25+00:00

Uber-cheekbones, prominent angles of mandibles, generally "octogonal" jaw line.

Can't really say anything in terms of "why"; since I'm in Eastern Europe, girls and women around me always were more "baby-faced" than average American comic book standard.

curiousincurious · 2021-10-22T11:43:08+00:00

Long nails

Univalent6 · 2021-10-22T12:41:30+00:00

Males the same race as me. Older males. 18-25 is the most attractive for guys

greenjoe10 · 2021-10-22T12:43:54+00:00

I think boobs, rarely do I find myself drawn to big boobed women. Don't hate it, but i've always prefered <= C cup.

JudeccasSupremacy · 2021-10-22T16:53:21+00:00

Traditionally masculine faces. I'm sorry but nothing good ever comes from men like this.

social_mule · 2021-10-22T21:55:28+00:00

Bleached blonde hair. Natural blonde is fine.

relaxandrule31 · 2021-10-22T22:17:46+00:00

Fake butts

Also i like big tits but not when it sits on top of flat booty.

Rather have petite “everything “than large tatas and no booty.

Scarypaperplates · 2021-10-23T01:22:43+00:00

Men who have had many partners/slept around. Never understood why that would be considered attractive.

Anduino · 2021-10-23T10:59:00+00:00

Women with long legs. To me they look oddly proportioned and not at all feminine.

Willing-Fee3978 · 2021-10-23T20:47:04+00:00

Big breasts

Ziaeos · 2021-10-23T23:44:01+00:00

I prefers guys my own height (5’6) and not much taller.

Although I love wearing heels and hate being taller than him in them. I feel like people judge the girl more harshly when there’s a height difference. :/

grand_tiremaster · 2021-10-24T02:51:32+00:00

In conservative circles apparently the e-girl look is the worst thing ever and red flag central.

I LOVE the e-girl look, they are SO cute, their eyeliner skills is amazing. Pretty sure all the grown eyeliner women nowadays went through an emo/scene phase in their teen years. I know I did.

Whatever conservatives are usually attracted to, I don't really like. Those women just look too normal.

Umm for men idk.. oh! I'm not a fan of 6 pack abs and guys having very little body fat. The super cut, chiseled look, looks nasty to me. Strength and muscle is always appreciated but please even it out with a little fat.

TheMorningJoe · 2021-10-24T08:30:40+00:00

BBWs, I’m all for body positivity but there comes a point where it becomes a problem medically.

Edit: Also single mothers (I might get flamed lol)

midwestufohunter · 2021-10-24T20:25:34+00:00

“Alpha” dudes.

rilakkumkum · 2021-10-30T05:11:44+00:00

Dudes that are 6’. I’m sorry but I’m scared of a guy is that much bigger than me

2021-10-21T13:18:43+00:00

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kittenated · 2021-10-21T14:21:59+00:00

"Predator eyes"
Prominent jawline
Muscular builds
Perfect teeth

Coolio_Street_Racer · 2021-10-21T14:25:48+00:00

I'd say the only thing that really turns me off psychically is being fat or having a masculine frame. With that said. Anything within a healthy BMI is ok.

Ruben_the_Fish · 2021-10-21T14:43:03+00:00

Hairless chests.

2021-10-22T04:35:08+00:00

Since no make up is supposed to be considered attractive on this sub, I will say I find makeup attractive. The absolute horror.

Title	What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?
Author	CimZim
Upvotes	77
Comments	545
Date	October 21, 2021 11:51 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qcq0vr/what_is_something_youre_supposed_to_be_physically/
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