You can’t enter into a lifelong contract with the gender who acts like they will die without sex and die if their penis isn’t inserted into a warm hole and not expect to be their sex doll of sorts.

I do think that’s foolhardy of women.

I truly don’t think many women realize just how horny and sex-minded the average dude is until she’s been in a relationship with one. Like she thinks she has an idea. But she doesn’t.

It’s a bit pathological their need for bone’ing. And it’s not just straight men. It’s all males. The males who have sex with males community has countless NSA sex because that’s just how dudes are. It’s the testosterone I suppose. Either way, it’s outside the scope of what the average woman craves.

I think women have to make a choice. Commit to men and what that means. Or don’t. But don’t act shocked you married a male human and he’s humping the walls like a pit bull.

That said, I also think men should be more upfront about just how horny they are. Be explicit about how much sex you desire. So no one’s blindsided or caught off guard.

Inb4: This is not me saying anyone should have sex when they don’t want to. I’m a woman. Clearly I am against that. I just want people to be more honest about the situations they find themselves in. I’m saying perhaps consider your incompatibilities and compromise areas before “I do.”