What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell

ruboyuri · 2022-09-06T14:21:28+00:00

Women’s desperation for love/inability to be alone is almost as pathetic as men’s desperation for sex. And also almost as selfish

Edit: I am seriously surprised that this is news to all you crazy animals

calfshrug · 2022-09-06T18:35:33+00:00

Women kick men who are down, whether it be by silencing men who try to explain themselves, expressing their feelings, speaking about traumas, or calling for an opportunity to appeal

thisshitishaed · 2022-09-06T13:49:02+00:00

A lot of women talk about wanting a 6ft successful, nice, romantic etc. guy, but will actually settle for any guy who they're around often. For some reason many fine women get fixated on terrible men even after talking your ear off about their preferences. They will reject you for being 5'11 and then get together with a 5'8 guy. It might be because they get to know them better, like them as person, or they help them with their complexes, i have no idea. But I've seen it happen many times.

Bern_who_Learns · 2022-09-06T19:00:29+00:00

Many women don't really stand for gender equality - they simply want to have the cake and eat it, when it comes to their rights and responsibilities in society.

Feminism is a very deserving cause and clearly women's rights have been lacking for centuries, compared to men's rights, but if you stand for true gender equality then it must work both ways, even when not totally convenient for everyone.

For example, if you want to encourage more women to take up currently male-dominated majors such as mathematics and engineering in university, you also have to be prepared to do the reverse for encouraging more men to take courses in arts, psychology, sociology etc.

If you want legal consequences against men who do "rape by fraud" when they lie about their wealth in order to get laid, be prepared to also have consequences for women who lie to rich men but are in fact gold diggers.

If you want men to stop body shaming women for things such as being overweight or having smaller breast sizes, be prepared to also hold women to the same standards when they body shame men for being short or for having smaller penis sizes.

If you want to push for more rights for women who are mothers, be prepared to also stand up for single fathers or for fathers who want to take custody of their kids away from abusive ex-wives.

If you want harsher consequences for domestic violence, maybe we can stop pretending that it's normal or okay for a woman to slap a man when he upsets her.

The list goes on.

Many women do stand for true gender equality, but also many do not and simply exploit feminism as a shield for them to command as much benefit from society as possible, all while fulfilling as few of their obligations (as good citizens) as possible.

BardOvBrutality · 2022-09-06T22:57:30+00:00

The only reason people feel the need to demonize women (and men), it’s because they’re hyperfocusing so much on the low quality ones based on their past experiences and probably due to a horrible relationship with their mother and/or father, so these generalizations are just coping mechanisms to guard the fact of “I’m still hurting and haven’t properly gotten over myself”

Main-Leek7908 · 2022-09-06T14:33:42+00:00

I do understand that SOMETIMES a man will love bomb women and pretend to want a relationship with them in order to get sex.

BUT a lot of times women will want sex with a man outside of a relationship, have sex with said man, and then expect a relationship to form afterwards. Then if it doesn’t, they accuse the man of “using” them for sex. Like they feel ashamed of casual sex and want to believe they’re not “that type of girl,” and so they’ll shift the responsibility for their own actions and desires onto the man. Or they’ll start a relationship, have sex with their partner, and then their partner simply changes their mind, but he still gets accused of p&ding them.

Then they’ll start making men wait for months, and most of them will believe she’s just not that into them, and will leave, and then they’ll just have the belief that all men only ever want sex re-affirmed.

CosmicBioHazard · 2022-09-06T18:40:35+00:00

Free reign to be unpopular? Sure I’ll bite

-I’ve met women whose body fat is so concentrated in the front of their belly that it barely affects their hip-to-waist ratio and it is shocking how fat those women can get before it has all that much impact on their attractiveness.

-women who are submissive all the time are boring and you only fantasize about them as a compromise because the appeal of assertive women is most evident when they pitch you ideas you’d never come up with yourself, which obviously can’t happen in your imagination.

-Contrary to popular belief and the ‘men are dogs’ mentality, if you’re trying to date seriously (not a hookup) and she’s legitimately attracted to you, chances are she started wanting sex before you would have been comfortable providing it.

gettin_paid_to_poop · 2022-09-06T13:37:27+00:00

That for various reasons (including the dating culture of men usually being the ones to pursue women & women being the selectors), women do not get called out on bad behaviour or incorrect/hypocritical/contradictory opinions as much as they should. Obvs a generalisation and it does not apply to all women, but overall if most guys want to have sex with a woman they will let her say opinions that don't make sense without pushing back or pointing out that it contradicts other thing she said earlier.

This can lead to adults who have never really had to challenge their own opinions, especially if at first glance they sound like they are in line with the current political climate. It can be really hard as a guy to navigate socially around these people and avoid them.

godandgoddess · 2022-09-06T18:25:11+00:00

The amount of women with little to no empathy for people in situations they had 0 control of is nearly the same rate as men, they just hide it better. Women seem to have more empathy for people who made bad decisions and have to face the consequences of their actions which seems to me like a way to cover their own asses so they don’t have to take responsibility for their actions.

surferguy999 · 2022-09-06T16:33:29+00:00

I think this applies to both genders: romantic interests, guy friends, family members, etc. What people and say and what they do are usually different. Always go by actions over words.
Submissive in the bedroom is completely detached from everything else. I don’t see why work and sex would have any correlation.
70% of Americans are overweight, my city is in the top 10 for obesity, and comedians constantly make fun of us (specially the women) when they come here.

ririsbaby · 2022-09-06T15:20:21+00:00

Most women are raging sluts given IF the opportunity is just right. Between what I've experienced in the dating field and what my girl tells me about what her female friends/co workers do after work, is enough to make you go 'wtf"

Side note: Also girls that I went to school with either did some porn, fucked dudes in the parking lot at bars, or sucked their land lord off just for fun.

TheMedsPeds · 2022-09-06T18:39:09+00:00

Women do not “dress for themselves” if they did they would do full make up around the house and heels.

They enjoy looking good, that’s fine. Is it for men? Not always but it is def other people. Wish they would just admit it.

Edit: since this slightly took off, let me clarify, this is not meant to be a clear cut, black and white thing. I’m sure some people dress nice around the house as a form of self care or whatever on occasion. I’m talking about typically. Generally women (and some men) put a decent amount of effort into their appearance because they want to look good, in public. Other people seeing their outfit, hair style, or make up is required. It makes them feel good to look their best in front of others. Since going out or taking pictures which will be uploaded to the internet is present in most cases, other people seeing them is involved in this feel good process. No shame, not meant to a positive or negative thing. Only negative thing is when a women who spends over an hour on hair and make up claims she doesn’t not care what other people think at all and it’s done 100% for her. To me, that seems dishonest. If that’s the case, I should be able to pop up at your place on a day you didn’t plan on leaving the house or having company and you should be in full make up, hair done and in a stylish uncomfy outfit, since it’s done for your eyes only.

alby333 · 2022-09-06T18:29:10+00:00

I've yet to meet a woman who isn't absolutely convinced they are great in the sack but not many actually are.
With minimal vetting it's pretty easy to have mostly positive experiences dating women if you pay attention to who they are as well as what they look like the crazies stick out like a sore thumb.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-09-06T14:25:38+00:00

Number 3 is funny cause it’s true lol. Most women with big asses are just overweight.

Having a “fatty” while also being skinny is rare

pinktuliplover · 2022-09-06T13:45:09+00:00

Most women cannot properly care for her husband, home, and children while working a full time job.

Help_Support-Account · 2022-09-06T14:49:20+00:00

Most women go into relationships with men they don't find physically attractive because there are not enough physically attractive men to go around but the need for a relationship persists, and thus begin to resent the man due to an expectation of deserving better (mostly stemming from the fact that they can get casual sex from physically attractive men but no commitment) and eventually dead-bedrooming him and cheating.

TimothyDextersGhost · 2022-09-06T17:14:22+00:00

Woman = adult human female

Champa22 · 2022-09-06T13:28:09+00:00

I don't care about what degree or job a woman has, at least in the sense of attractiveness.

Attractiveness for a woman is mainly looks and personality. Like I think it's cool that you're a doctor, lawyer, engineer, etc. but it does nothing for me being more or less attracted to you.

ruthofhades · 2022-09-06T15:34:53+00:00

1) The so called "patriarchy" and the resulting position of women was needed for the development of civilization and may even be justified. There's a reason pretty much 0 successful civilizations (some backwater tribe in rural China or in Africa do not count) had a "matriarchy" or did not utilize the patriarchy in some form.

2) Women are far more emotionally abusive than society is willing to admit.

3) Women only care about "fairness" when they benefit from it. Women are completely willing to uphold "unfairness" when it comes at the expense of men, although many are unwilling to admit it to themselves so they rationalize it in many ways (men deserve it, there's nothing that can be done, it is only temporary, etc).

chingness · 2022-09-06T13:55:47+00:00

Here i would get downvoted for these but not sure about elsewhere

1) Women are not a monolith. Gender is one way of grouping people but there are many other ways including introvert/extrovert and a variety of personality tests. When trying to make generalisations about groups of people I believe gender is the least useful as it has the greatest variance within the group.

2) Women are no more likely than men to overestimate their own ability to determine the reasons they do things or what they respond to. Humans frequently operate with mistaken beliefs about what truly drives them. It is still valuable to listen to what people say drives them as it tells you something about a person and how they think, but people are not usually deliberately misrepresenting their drivers (some will of course but not in general)

3) Women are less afraid than men of “dying alone” because they have better social groups in general and also because being in a relationship requires more “work” for them than for men. Hence widows remarry less than widowers, and there are more dissatisfied single men than dissatisfied single women

strawberries_cow · 2022-09-06T16:27:07+00:00

Women often project 1 bad trait of one man in all men or most men. Before anyone talk, yeah yeah, I KNOW THAT THERE'S MISOGYNISTIC INCELS WHO PROJECT A BAD TRAIT OF A WOMAN IN A ALL WOMEN. But to women it seems more like rule and for men it seems like an exception. Women often judge all men because one man did something bad to them. A good example of this is the amount of women in social media who says things like "men are not worth it" and something like that when a man pump and dumps them and when my father cheated on my mom she said something like "men are shit, they don't do nothing good", my father had been stalked by her, moraly harrassed, being accused of things he didn't, almost got beat up by her and he never, NEVER generalized women. I mean, even women who are not that misandrists do it a lot and even get supported by it. While men openly hate misogynistic men and sometimes even harrass them moraly and physically, women openly empathize and even SUPPORT a woman's misandry. Despite both misogyny and misandry doing very bad to the person's mental health and for the environment, women support misandrist behaviors despite the fact that hatred for a specific group independently which group it is, is really for the person's mental health and for the environment.

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-09-06T13:41:15+00:00

I’m a woman but a lot of the things that are marketed to women seem dumb and boring to me. Real Housewives, Kardashians, “magazines” that are basically just glossy booklets of advertisements, etc.

headchefboyardee · 2022-09-06T16:24:15+00:00

Women often categorize dating related trauma as growth and expect men to value women with baggage as “matured.”

Kman17 · 2022-09-06T14:39:06+00:00

I have a theory that every woman has a need for a fixed amount of drama in their life. Should there not be a natural source of that drama, she will seek or create it.

This the root of the Karen phenomenon (effectively creating drama out of boredom), but also explains women’s higher tolerance of toxic partners/friends/family, why they like reality tv drivel, and their tendency to seem annoyed by men’s desire to eliminate drama in their lives and find happiness in simple hobbies.

Inside-Lynx-5032 · 2022-09-06T14:06:08+00:00

Women don't want real equality. They claim they do but they don't. Being hit with accountability everywhere gets old real fast. The current social order works well for them, they are never gonna give it up.

smokey3801 · 2022-09-06T18:47:47+00:00

Women much prefer sex and are willing to be much more adventurous with men they don't know well then someone they are in a long term relationship with. (hence the "honeymoon" period in relationships)

Women are just as uncompassionate as men, and actually maybe less compassionate then men, especially in work settings

Again this is my experience and I don't base everyone based on it

beidameil · 2022-09-06T15:23:36+00:00

That women care mostly about height and looks. Mainly height

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-09-06T14:16:14+00:00

Every Woman, no matter how hardcore feminist, wants you to make her cum and have you look her right in the eyes and tell you she’s beautiful, and mean it

isbostontheworstcity · 2022-09-06T18:00:27+00:00

This will get down votes but fuckit I've got 15k or whatever karma. I've known, sadly, multiple women who wound up in abusive relationships.

In around 25% cases it was legitimate bad luck / deception and I feel bad for them.

In 75% of cases they were looking for bad boys. And whew buddy did they find it.

SuperCrazy07 · 2022-09-06T16:25:57+00:00

Here’s an unpopular one that I see regularly IRL but will be massively downvoted on this sub (or in general if you say it out loud).

The wall is real and women are totally unprepared for it. Both married women and single women.

Now, to be clear, I’m not saying women over a certain age can’t get laid. I know a couple of late 40s, unattractive, extremely overweight women who get laid by random dudes regularly.

I’m saying past age 35 (or so) it’s rare to meet an attractive, successful man around your age and get married to him. Almost all HVM are married by then and the ones that aren’t either don’t want marriage and/or have a million options.

It’s surprising that single women don’t catch on. I know quite a few professional, single women aged 35-45 and contrary to opinions here, their dating life isn’t meeting their expectations.

Even crazier is that the married ones think if they get a divorce they’ll have all these great options. It’s like don’t you see all your single friends frustrated and going on shitty dates? But, the last time they were single was 20’s (almost every married couple I know got married in their 20’s), and their brain thinks nothing has changed.

[This is not to say that divorcing a crappy husband because you’d rather be single is bad. That makes a lot of sense. But, unless you’re truly married to a below average guy, you’re not trading up and getting married to a guy your age.]

I am now ready for the college students to explain how I’m wrong. 🙄

throwaway164_3 · 2022-09-06T13:32:17+00:00

The average woman has it much easier and is insanely privileged in dating, getting sex and relationships.

TedHynes · 2022-09-06T14:55:44+00:00

women complain about toxic men but consistently reward their terrible behaviour with sex - yes, even the "high quality" women

EasternToe3824 · 2022-09-06T14:20:57+00:00

The juice is not worth the squeeze.

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-09-06T13:45:19+00:00

Women are individual humans not so dissimilar from us men except for the type of hormone that governs our endocrine systems. They come in all shapes and sizes. Some are pretty. Some are less so. Some are kind. Some are monstrous.

Most importantly though, approaching someone you hope to connect and be emotionally vulnerable with like they're a physical repository for the singularity known as WOM is probably counter productive, and suggest treating them like people instead.

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2022-09-06T13:34:54+00:00

many women lie about their live experiences to keep an image, worst example of this? i know a guy who is a nice guy in the good sense, u know, meek, submissive, pays bills, no casual sex, only relationships, dinners, emotinally open, not aggressive, he ended up with a woman who cheated on him, but then she lied about him being an abuser and a violent person and even got him in jail, despite he being the most inoffensive guy i know, that woman told everyone how much of a piece of "shit" he is to justify her cheating and make herself seem innocent, i know because at first me and all the people who knew them believed her automatically cuz u know men cant be victims of abuse right? and women cant do no bad, worst part is that the guy she cheated on with actually abuses the shit out of her but she says nothing.

Thats why whenever i hear a woman complaning about her ex or her current relationship or dating in general, i take it with a pinch of salt, as harsh as it sounds.

Another brutal realization is that many women are annoyed by a mans happiness and will do whatever it takes to break him, they will prey on his insecurities and doubts to destroy him mentally even if deep inside she doesnt sees it as a problem.

The majority of women prey on a man's weakness, so if u re insecure about something, trust me a woman will try and rub it on ur face.

Women are insecure by nature, which is hypocritical considering the previous statement.

There is a complaint that men dont see women as people, but the same can be said as women, they dont see men as people neither, however as stated in my first point, they will try and justify their reasons under pretenses like "i dont feel safe" "is just what i like" "well men can go and die alone then if they dont like it" that one is my favorite one because it shows they have no actual argument.

Many men face the same problems women face, the only difference is men dont complain about it, examples? hollywood body standards, the bodies of super heroes we see there, they re unrealistic as hell and unsustainable, all the movies stars train during a long time and get juiced for the movie, but then they go back to their normal self after some time because like i said, that is unsubstainable, yet many men are trying to reach that impossible standard, and they dont complain about it.

Many men also face what could be considered abuse by women, but they dont say anything because they consider it normal, examples? attacks to ur masculinity, physical attacks, comparisons, manipulation etc, an example would be when a guy gets told he should change to keep harmony and coexistence with women, but when he does and he gets punished for it he gets called a manipulator instead ie nice guys, nice guys are treated the same way "easy" women are, yet one is justified and the other one is outrageous.

Nice guys arent disliked because they are manipulative, it is the other way around, they are disliked because they are weak and easily manipulable and easy to get, but many women use the former reason to not appear shallow and judgemental

Women also dislike easy guys and they take advantage of them all the time, but if the guy complains about it he is the one who faces backlash.

Men are conditioned to be needy and desperate, however you would think that if they try to change they would get praise specially from women, but nothing far away from the truth

The common trope that women only like bad boys is mainly womens fault, why? many women lie about their exes to not admit they were the problem, he dumped me because he didnt like my questionable posts on instagrams? he is a controlling asshole, he wasnt okay with the fact tat i belittled him? he is mysoginist, he disstrust me because of my behavior? he has trust issues, but the point is she is never the problem, only the men, and an unexperienced guy will obviously believe her because why would he doubt that? after all we ve been always told how horrible men are

Many women settle with mediocre men rather than being alone, but they try to paint them as awesome to cope with it which again sets a bad example for the men particulary young ones around cuz they end up believeing they have to act like that.

No woman will admit this.

with this im not saying women are horrible, im saying that the status quo of all women are great and men must suck up to them is outdated and no man should abide to it if he wants a good life and specially a good woman to share that good life with.

Salkinov · 2022-09-06T15:54:17+00:00

My take about women: There is no male privilege in the western world (especially in the country I'm from, Germany).

I think many women and girls grow up with some kind of victim mentality that every bad thing that happens to them has some sort of mysogynistic background. However almost no women wants to acknowledge their own privilieges.

Women don't get paid less for the same work here. However most feminists still use this argument even though its debunked to the point where it is only like 2-3% difference. You can't even prove that this small number is due to gender.

Next argument is how women can't walk outside at night without feeling unsafe. The statistics show that men are more likely to become victims of violence than women. The general answer to this argument is: "But the perpetrator is a man, aswell". Well thats true but its also some kind of victim blaming because why should a male victim deserve less pity than a female victim? Victim is victim.

I agree that things like catcalling and harassement are present problems even in our civilized world but for me thats not enough proof to claim we live in a mysogynistic society. Men face hardships, too and most of them don't even get acknowledged.

This were just a few arguments out of many i can not advocate.

It doesn't get in my head how so many young women start to think they are some kind of victim in this society. Feminism has become quite a virus in my opinion and has not much to do with the equality between genders but with the favoring of women in this society.

Edit: To bring some of my own experience into the statement: Most of the most radical feminists i personally got to know (not many though so sample size is rather small) lived the most hedonistic and irresponsible lifestyle i could imagine. They had a good time at school without any disadvantages. Afterwards they lived the most extreme hoe phase i could imagine, gathering three-digit n-counts in 2-3 years, only partying, studying for the sake of studying, not getting any shit done and suddenly decided to become radical, lesbian feminists. No joke.

BrummieAMN19 · 2022-09-06T13:50:20+00:00

Money has never and will never generate genuine attraction, I’m so sick of men constantly telling other men to get your money up for women. As long as you aren’t living in squalor you’re good to go, and even if a guy gets loads of money he wouldn’t even have time to date that much as the more money you make=more hours.
Looks game logistics>Looks money status
Good looking men can and do struggle with women and an average-above looking man can have full autonomy over his dating life whether that be him being a serial monogamist or a slayer.
PUA/seduction works brilliantly if you go to the right source and if you know what you’re doing. And not all of us were former beta nice guys, extremely behaviourally unattractive or perpetually friendzoned men some of us were naturally decent to solid with women who hit a dry spell but learnt formal game.
Women cannot sense if a guy is bad news at all and they misinterpret a guy being socially awkward/uncalibrated or off putting as danger. Actual men who are bad news are excellent actors. They have great frame and game. Women just base it off one awkward dude and then overestimate themselves but if they came across some PUA, a narcissist or sociopath or all the above they wouldn’t know something is “off”. I know so because I am two of those things and use PUA techniques and my narcissism to an advantage so I laugh when I see some women here claiming they can spot a guy like me from a mile off.
Creepy men from what women describe are just dudes with high functioning autism, especially when they go into detail about their mannerisms.
There’s men no matter what hits them physically are full of confidence, not always is confidence is derived from external validation. Some of yous forget there’s men always naturally confident despite having physical shortcomings ie they’re short or not in shape. Not every guy derives his self worth on women and men here project that onto other men and it’s obvious when you see comments like “women will be disapproving of a short confident man as it’s not ‘genuine’ they only like it when it’s from a handsome guy” like why should and do you care about some random vapid slag thinks????? It’s so obvious that you put women as part of your identity like wtf.

malazanbettas · 2022-09-06T16:27:47+00:00

I’m always going to need a man because of spiders and tight jars.

AutumnTop · 2022-09-06T22:31:52+00:00

I used to think women were boring. I guess I still think that, but I recognize that it's just that we usually have nothing in common. Speaking generally, of course.

NikeTracksuit · 2022-09-07T17:40:12+00:00

That every woman can be a whore if the right man appears.

HobbitShaker88 · 2022-09-06T14:59:45+00:00

This opinion gets me downvoted IRL and in other subreddits, but, I dont know about on here:

Women tend to be cattier, hold more stupid grudges and pettier than men. I have been friends with an equal amount of men and women in my life, and I was much more likely to find a nonpetty and noncatty friend in men than women (though I did meet a small amount of catty and petty men when it came to nonromantic relationships, and same with women who are not catty or petty). Women will dislike you for the stupidest crap in friendships in particular and I think women in friendships are less likely to actually move on from a resolved conflict where they were in the wrong, you will think they are over it but youll find out years later they still have a grudge over it when you havent thought about it at all. I am not so sure women are naturally this way, I think society minimizes these traits for women and they are seen as more negative in men.

-A woman myself

MWolf3007 · 2022-09-06T14:17:11+00:00

A average woman's life is much much easier than a average man.

Dogecoin_trader · 2022-09-06T16:22:05+00:00

Many women, mainly feminists, dont understand the concept of having agency over their own life.

She could walk past a sign that says "Minefield", get her leg blown off and not only would she go on to blame everything and everybody but herself, thousands of women would flock to defend her, and if you criticise her decision to walk into a minefield you will get called an 'incel' for 'victim blaming'.

I dont know, maybe you should resist the urge to date the guy who went to prison for beating his wife, get completely wasted in some shitty club or bar with strangers or have unprotected sex with randoms every week.

neetykeeno · 2022-09-06T18:14:53+00:00

If she's smart enough to make good kids she's too smart to put up with a man's bullshit forever.

InspectorSuitable407 · 2022-09-06T20:29:48+00:00

Their need for external validation is ironically often why they can’t maintain a healthy relationship. And also no one really believes the posting for yourself stuff. Bad b**** “confidence” reeks of insecurity and is a huge red flag.

daddysgotanew · 2022-09-06T13:46:44+00:00

Nearly every woman on earth mistakes sexual attention for romantic interest. I’ve lost count of the amount of women who have bragged to me about their follower count, the lofty careers and wealth of the men they’ve dated etc. I always ask them “So where are they now? Why are you single?” And it’s met with a blank stare or “well I just wasn’t that into him” or some BS. Na honey, he wasn’t that into YOU.

Women don’t understand that some rich plastic surgeon wanting to pipe her down doesn’t mean he wants to marry her, or even be exclusive.

ElectricBugs · 2022-09-06T14:03:34+00:00

Women would be better off single and using men for sex.

Baron_Semedi_ · 2022-09-06T15:47:54+00:00

I got one. I love and defend women plenty but one thing that i detest and really feel doesn't get condemned enough is when women want to continue to be friends with guys they know for certain are interested in them romantically. I've seen my sister do that and I've seen it so much that it makes me sick. Don't get me wrong, I equally hate when guys feel entitled to sex or romance for being nice or because they have been a friend. The whole "I'm sorry don't feel that way but i still want to be friends" speech that guys been told strikes me as very inconsiderate. If I knew a friend was really into me or in love, and I'm not interested, I'm respecting her feelings and her mental well being enough to end the friendship.

KissMyAsthma-99 · 2022-09-06T18:20:29+00:00

That when involved in active dialogue, men are significantly better listeners than women.

Men hear what is said. Women interpret what was said, and often with a significant amount of personal bias thrown in.

nursejooliet · 2022-09-06T17:43:20+00:00

I agree a lot with 3. I find that overweight girls use those features to uplift themselves/possibly even put down thinner women.

It’s more about the butt shape than the size anyway. Same with boobs.

NeedHelpPls450 · 2022-09-07T11:33:50+00:00

If women could delete every single man under 6'0 worldwide they would absolutely do it

Capable-Resolve-2001 · 2022-09-06T17:05:30+00:00

Women are less aware of their real motivations and desires than men are of theirs. There was a study done once that showed that women were sexually aroused by images that they claimed did not sexually arouse them, while men’s actual and claimed arousal matched perfectly.

Women are often accused of lying about their preferences, but I don’t think this is the case. I think women are actually sincere when they say they don’t care about height, looks, or dick size. It’s just that they’re oblivious to their own preferences and they genuinely believe they don’t care about those things when they actually do. The discrepancy between what women say and what they do is real and obvious to men, but women seem blind to the discrepancy themselves.

Also, I think almost all women who are in relationships are cultivating a side guy. Women do not benefit from monogamy and marriage was instituted to control women’s sexual behavior. It’s essentially mate guarding on a civilizational scale. I saw a survey once that showed that half of all women admitted to having a side guy. Not all of them were having sex with the second guy, but all were at least having an emotional affair. Very few men had a side women. I think the real number is going to be much higher than half. Women have nothing to gain from fidelity, when you think about it. I think that, while women admit to cheating less, they probably cheat more and are supplied by evolution with the tools to better conceal their affairs than men.

Women love social media because it’s a domain where they can exercise tremendous power over men. It’s a hyperreal, efficient, algorithmic construct that plays heavily into women’s mental strengths (navigating social dynamics). Social media has granted women the ability to cultivate an extraordinary level of social power and capital that isn’t available to men on nearly the same scale. It’s the industrial revolution for women. The power that the industrial revolution gave men to shape and control their environment was given to women by social media and the smartphone.

Warm_Gur8832 · 2022-09-07T02:50:49+00:00

Any further societal advancement for women is impossible until men’s loneliness/abandonment issues are figured out in a supportive way first.

NocturnalCoder · 2022-09-07T19:21:19+00:00

Men being intimidated by woman is not really a thing. It is something woman tell themselves and take pride in, but really, 99% it is men seeing red flags, avoiding conflict cause there is zero reason to have it, and remove themselves from the situation.

TonytheNetworker · 2022-09-06T16:13:46+00:00

Women are their own worse enemy. They will wait ages for the “perfect guy” and miss out on plenty of guys that would otherwise make good relationships. Also, I strongly believe there are more traditionally marriage worthy men than there are women. They may be quirky, have an odd collection of Marvel comic books, ask interview style questions on dates, or have no humor but they’re typically ok. Most of these guys end up in the Friendzone or seen as not desirable enough. Finally, I rarely have met a women who owns up to mistakes. They will put the blame on someone or something but hardly themselves. I’ve asked women why and holy shit, it’s always some variant of “It’s too much” or flat out “I don’t want to be responsible.”

mlo9109 · 2022-09-06T14:15:51+00:00

Being intelligent and educated as a woman is not valued in our society, as much as we like to say it does. I hold a Master's degree and was a gifted student growing up. As a girl, I did everything in my power to hide my intelligence.

Even now, I regret going for my Master's. If I could trade my intelligence for being attractive, but dumb as a rock, I would! Men find it intimidating. Other women find you "weird" and "unrelatable" and will pick on you as such.

Bruhmuh · 2022-09-06T16:42:24+00:00

Women look up to psychopathic males and often try to be like them in leadership roles.

Many are also attracted to such guys because they ooze confidence and power due to them having a different limbic system.

Yet the same women will say men should open up more and be emotional xD

They want to be attracted to such qualities but in reality simp for dark triad personality traits

VastlyVainVanity · 2022-09-07T04:37:15+00:00

Adult women are way too infantilized nowadays, even by people who claim to be feminists. It isn't uncommon to see people treating women as if they have less capability to make choices, or less agency in general, than men.
- The cliché example of this is: "A man and a woman get drunk and fuck, the woman later says that she felt like he took advantage of her, and even the people who saw that both of them were drunk will be on her side".
I'd wager that a considerable portion of promiscuous women eventually regret having casual sex, even though it is so celebrated.
Due to the fact that it is so much easier to have access to sex as a woman than as a man, women will hardly ever understand some basic things about how men feel.
- Case in point: when a woman treats a guy as a "husband material" or "great provider" or "a loving partner" (and only that) and thinks that that's a great compliment, while the man is sitting there thinking "But do you find me hot? Do I make you orgasm more than any men you've ever been with? Do you get horny just by looking at me like I get horny by looking at you?"
- Same thing with AF/BB. Most guys understand that that's a horrible position to be in, being the provider with whom a woman is "reasonably content", instead of being the guy who makes her convulse from multiple orgasms.
- Granted, this works both ways. Men are also unlikely to understand things from the female perspective.

There are the ones that came to mind.

AreOut · 2022-09-06T13:33:25+00:00

Women unconsciously destroy their own sons so Spartans were right to take male children from their own mothers at the age of 3.(I'm awaiting a lot of downvotes)

Fentonious8 · 2022-09-06T20:17:48+00:00

Women are bad at communication and conversation, but society doesn't expect them to be because they don't reward/punish their good/bad communication skills, at least from a dating perspective, not from a career perspective.

They overestimate how interesting they are when speaking to people. Most women are worse at texting than men and put way less effort, they just aren't scolded for their comments, and are rewarded with interaction and intimacy despite their lackluster communication skills.

bunnakay · 2022-09-06T15:01:25+00:00

Unpopular for this sub: women's so-called privilege in dating and sex does not come from their gender, but from their ability to uphold their standards and choose to be single rather than settle for a man they don't actually want. Men who have that same level of self-respect are also usually as happy and successful as women are.

LegatusDux · 2022-09-06T15:13:15+00:00

A woman's word means nothing.

TheSongsInYourHead · 2022-09-06T15:48:55+00:00

Women don't really want to be in the workforce, most of them somewhere in the back of their minds are hoping that some rich man is going to take care of them just because they're special.

LaloTwins · 2022-09-06T16:46:58+00:00

Given that 99.9% of all documented cases of mass hysteria heavily involve (if not exclusively involve) women

Even large scale claims of women can reasonably be treated with extreme skepticism

TermAggravating8043 · 2022-09-06T14:26:50+00:00

A women, while looking after her husband for 40/50 years , putting up with abuse, being cheated on, never doing anything for herself. Is usually dumped the second she gets ill, the second she needs support and help she’s abandoned.

The worst thing about women, is that even if this happened to her, if she got better and managed to recover, she would almost definitely take the man who abandoned her back, because society still tells women they will never be whole or happy without a man to look after.

Not only that, had they not got back together, she would still have him dumped on her the second he became ill because of aLl tHeIr yEaRs tOgEtHer

Women, need to stop putting themselves down

beleidigtewurst · 2022-09-06T15:20:15+00:00

Women are entitled as hell (and always were), live longer, spend more money than men while earning less (and working less), yet keep whining about being "oppressed".

Oh, and this lovely moment of entitlement.

Oh, and a FALSE ACCUSATION of sexual assault casually thrown as a revenge for no letting cut the line.

But "women do not lie about" such things, you know. So believe all.

Flightlessbirbz · 2022-09-06T17:35:48+00:00

These are all actually quite popular theories/opinions about women here. My potentially unpopular opinion about women is that we’re not as picky as men think. Women will talk a big game about what they want in a man (think 6ft, 6 figures, 6in), which makes men freak out about our standards. But in reality, most women just want a guy who isn’t super short, super broke, or with a micro penis, and who will treat them okay. Normal women don’t carry around rulers and aren’t checking pay stubs. The other myth is that women only want the top 20% of men. Yes, most women are only attracted to probably less than 20% of men. But they aren’t all the same men. Women tend to think our own husbands/bfs are attractive, but not our friends’.

My second unpopular opinion is that women are no less capable of knowing what they want and no less honest about it than men. Maybe this is actually more an unpopular opinion on men, because quite frankly I don’t think either gender is very honest with themselves overall.

KaleidoscopeEyes12 · 2022-09-06T23:36:00+00:00

Even if she has a power job and lives a dominate lifestyle, she still wants to be submissive to her man.

Stop projecting your experience with one woman onto everyone lol. I’m sure your ex was really like that and plenty of women are, but plenty of women like to be dominant in the relationship, even some women who don’t have “power jobs”. Just like men, you can’t truly tell what a woman will be like in a relationship/in bed until you’re there.

Illinoising · 2022-09-07T00:02:17+00:00

Another thing about women is they secretly find it satisfying to watch women struggle. They offer compassion for young beautiful girls who are getting beaten by their teenage boyfriend but not for a women with 6 kids being beaten by her husband. Then it becomes “poor choices”. They also sneer at successful women. They do not empower women. They generally only rally around their like minded numbskulled friends and family but leave women to fend for themselves. If they don’t like a woman that hatred extends to their children also which is cruel.

anonymousUser1SHIFT · 2022-09-07T02:54:27+00:00

Women don't know where the starting line for dating really is.

Men have to be able to get the woman interested in him, where women just have to look nice, and half the time they don't even have to look nice.

Women are way way more judgmental and shallower than men.

resultsmatter1 · 2022-09-07T11:49:19+00:00

Women have been given far too much privilege over the last decade

Women lie about what it is they’re truly looking for. Reeeeee I want a committed LTR but I keep getting pumped and dumped why are men so bad?

Women are the choosers yet do a horrible job at it

Women are without question the shallower of the two sexes

Women have pushed body positivity to make men in America accept fat women, but will not extend men the same courtesy

Women monkey branch

Women simp harder than men do if he’s hot enough

Women complain about unpredictability when rejecting a man, however on the oft chance they themselves get rejected the reaction is always assuredly worse

herefortheparty01 · 2022-09-06T15:42:10+00:00

The live on validation. From anyone. They’re shit drivers. They can’t control their behavior when they get mad or upset. Maybe it’s just the women in my life. But it seems pretty prevalent

purplish_possum · 2022-09-06T14:34:45+00:00

Expectations are extremely important. If she was expecting something and the guy doesn't deliver she'll lose attraction. If she was expecting 8" and he only has 7" she's going to be disappointed despite the fact he's still way above average.

2022-09-06T17:50:10+00:00

They have no idea what they want. If they saw Steven Tyler at subway they’d be like “ew, old guy” put him on a stage and they’re all fans even if they’ve never heard Aerosmith.

NocturnalCoder · 2022-09-06T18:33:16+00:00

From what I read here: a lot of woman have no clue what actually attracts the men they want, so they mimic behaviour and stuff they hear from others, female writers or these days online stuff. Take advice from self proclaimed experts and couldn't identify their guy if he stepped on her foot cause they have been brainwashed by cretins who don't know either

TungstenAlchemist · 2022-09-06T19:52:00+00:00

Women we much more willing to have on night stands with the top 20% of men then men are willing to get with a random women. Women easily seek more validation for their beauty through sex while most men (who aren’t blessed genetically with being 6’3, stocky etc) just want a relationship

midwesternMD · 2022-09-06T21:53:12+00:00

Not going to bother sharing unpopular opinions- I’m sure mine are covered by one of the thousand replies. Just want to point out how surprised I am that a thread like this is what garners 1k+ responses. I didn’t think there were more than 400 users active on PPD in a given day.

KamuiObito · 2022-09-06T23:41:32+00:00

They like ain’t shit as men…I honestly believe it’s something subconscious in them that makes them like them..cuz they be extremely tolerant of bs. But like a nigga who more average try to do it and it’s a huge issue..most of them men we hear about is the average..the really hot guys get away with doin a lot of shit…especially in the black community…matter of fact specifically in the black/middle/lower class communities

truthfullyVivid · 2022-09-07T00:02:52+00:00

Well, seems and unpopular opinion I hold-- at least in this sub-- is that women are human beings, and men and women shouldn't be held to different standards or any standards. People are different. Approach each person and relationship like it's unique.

Beneficialcattosser · 2022-09-07T17:01:59+00:00

They are biologicaly inclined towards hypocritical opinions of men.

They are also biologicaly incapable of admitting the terrible nature of other women.

Playful_Art_5364 · 2022-09-06T15:05:26+00:00

Capitalism has favored traditionally male traits (going out of the house to work. And not having kids as a priority so they could work more. So on) that men of the past used to see as necessary burdens. And rather then using the tech to let people work less and care for families more and so on. Ie promote the feminine traits of family and staying home to raise the kids. It Has decided the negative parts of the burden of being the provider needed to be placed onto everyone. So modernity to allow this has demonized femininity. Such that women have lost their femininity in the west because it’s been demonized. Check this video: https://youtu.be/o6W2zcSefts
Women aren’t like men. Not at all. And this whole merging of gender roles is causing there depression rates to be sky high. Is it nice to have money and not rely on men? Yes. But that’s deep down second to having a man you could rely on. This whole system involves this admission they can’t have what they truly want and are using money as substitutes. It’s like saying you can’t trust your moms cooking this you’ll have Uber eats all the time and convincing yourself that you actually love Uber Eats and the choices and freedoms it gives. When deep down if you deeply wished you had a mom you could trust. And thus while that cold burger ordered in 20 minutes is decent. It’s no replacement to home cooking and as much as you want to lie to yourself it will never be. A Stockholm syndrome to capitalism to replace actual familial bonds. If they had a magic genie that could give them a good man who was loyal, not abusive and could provide? I doubt many would dream of labor like they do now.
Women are more social creatures then men and that’s why they jump on very far left leaning stuff like the extreme ends of the woke stuff (I voted Democrat so I’m not on the right) or even random sexual stuff like that every chick being bi far more then men. Go on social media. How many men on Insta in your friends group virtue signaling by having their pronouns in their bio even though they’re not trans or non binary? Why is the manosphere super conservative? It’s not because of “patriarchy” but because deep down men like individualist less social cultures.
Men deep down need women but women don’t need men. I remember my own culture (East African) on how after a divorce many women will just stay single forever. While the men will go women to women. I think about this myself because even though I’m a pretty solitary dude I could get myself to not want a wife. I think if we didn’t have this internal obsession. We…
Men don’t deep down without this internal need want to be around women. This is the one that gets me the downvotes. Women will ask if men don’t actually like women. And being honest. I don’t think we do. I think there’s an internal check in us to want to be around y’all. To want be around feminine energy. But like as an ideal. When that ideal is hit with the reality you get this contradictory want to be with you and not thing. This probably created the Madonna whore complex. Our primal brain wants to be around y’all for sex but outside of that rather hunt with the boys. The higher half wants to justify that and thinks of y’all as the idea. It reminds me of the cgp gray video about the left half and right half of the brain. The left half will do something and that right half will try to explain it. And many times incorrectly. https://youtu.be/wfYbgdo8e-8

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2022-09-06T15:15:43+00:00

That women here will downvote the misogynistic takes but there are enough men here to asspat them so it won't actually be unpopular.

Bruhmuh · 2022-09-06T16:45:11+00:00

A decent portion of women is attracted to rude and emotionally disregulated men.

It is like their brain tells them that he is high status because he acts like an idiot and is still alive and kicking.

LiterallyJustDev · 2022-09-06T17:05:53+00:00

My issue with women is that a lot of them, especially in groups, really act like women can’t do any wrong, LIke they don’t contribute to ANY problems that occurs in relationships today. I understand women are all about image and their perception, but men would judge less harshly if more were straightforward about how women CAN be.

Every woman wants to think they’re a “good girl”, that they know how to keep a man, they’re the catch, meanwhile putting down men as if making men seem expendable is attractive. A lot more women than not like the “distant nonchalant fuckboy” than they’d let on, and a lot more women are narcissistic, manipulative, deceitful, cunning, exploitative, etc. than they’d let on.

This isn’t to demonize women, because there are plenty of men who are the same. But women are discouraged from pointing the finger at each other or calling out each other’s bullshit. Statistically supported as well. Women are less inclined to call out each other’s nonsense than men are, almost by 80%. I can provide evidence if need be. My issue is that women lie only to save face or their ego. They have almost no incentive to lie about anything because there’s always a guy waiting out there who’ll do whatever if you’re upfront.

Watching judge Judy the other day, plaintiff tried to say defendant was harassing her over his friends number being in her phone, drunk, punching her, filed restraining order and everything. Audience was a room FULL of women. You could feel the disgust in the air. The defendant had video proof of everything. SHE was the one being belligerent , aggressive and drunk. Meanwhile he just repeatedly told her to get out on video. Judy threw her case out. Bottom line is it’s so easy to slander men than women almost hop to it, and NOBODY would’ve believed him if not for the video. Truly disgusting.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-06T17:28:27+00:00

Most women shouldn't be listened when it comes to dating advice. (for men)

They are too blue pilled to understand the cynical side of intersexual dynamics from a men's point of view. I knew a girl who believed that hair transplants and cosmetic surgery were a sign of ''low character'' men. She also said she only wants to date tall men and would refuse to date men who were balding/facially unattractive. Well, stop BSing.

I also think the politics of most women today would leave a lot to be desired. (Liberal) Women are disproportionately more likely to cut someone off from their social because of politics. Women are more likely to refuse to date someone because of politics than men. This type of behavior will break down the social fabric of society, and women have been driving it.

Women are more shallow than they put on. (The same is true of men to a certain extent) Very few women will marry you for your ''heart'' unless if you have other characteristics.

Social media and the internet has amplified women's narcissism. 25 years ago, a woman wouldn't be inundated with so much attention. This massive level of attention has caused them to be more picky, selective, and entitled.

The average woman in America is less attractive (mentally and physically) than she was in the 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s, early 00s. American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.

Yup, I said it. It's true. And I don't expect it to be popular.

With all that being said, marriage is a very worthy goal for men. MGTOW is wrong.

Fentonious8 · 2022-09-06T20:14:20+00:00

Women treat uglier men more harshly, and in a public way, when rejecting them, in order to signal to society that they are above this person socially; in order for everyone around them to notice that this man is below her and should not have approached her.

Redditcritic6666 · 2022-09-07T01:19:24+00:00

The average women have more rights and privilages in America in comparison to the average male.

infinitofluxo · 2022-09-06T13:46:34+00:00

Most of them can't act in a logical way when dating. They lack the skills to assess you correctly, they can only see the game you play and don't know what to do if you are open to talk about compatibility. Almost all the time I'm the one asking stuff to see they don't have much in common. The only ones that quickly try to see if you match what they want are the bitter ones that sound neurotic and won't get a date with you anyway.

It feels they only judge superficial stuff, so if I'm well groomed, have travelled overseas, live in a decent neighborhood and can talk about intellectual stuff, they assume I have status and money and might be interested as if I am the guy that will pay stuff for them and earn more than them.

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2022-09-06T15:46:21+00:00

A lot of men who are angry at women for not ‘teaching’ them how to date are actually angry at their fellow man for excluding them, but they can’t say that because it’s emasculating.

majani · 2022-09-06T16:49:35+00:00

Given how much modern women partake in drinking culture, they are not truly worried about their safety around men. Any claims otherwise are just a way of winning people's sympathy

daniiiuiiil · 2022-09-06T16:32:09+00:00

Ugly woman will be the hardest fucking copers when it comes to justifying dating the most attractive person they can find. It’s so funny, every time you see a chick with nothing but man hate on her profile there’ll always be a “well my husbands 5’3 and an accountant but he’s soooo sexy to me” followed by “nah, Henry cavil is too muscular anyway. I wouldn’t want somebody that loves themselves that much”

whoknowsme2001 · 2022-09-06T17:01:07+00:00

Hypergamy is real and always has been. Women’s liberation and equality is counter intuitive to the existing hypergamous (is that even a word) ideology. It drives the difficult that women have today in finding partners and in men becoming “incels”.

The_Madman1 · 2022-09-06T21:27:04+00:00

Women treat men as commodities. Recently had feelings for one and knew she was seeing other guys. The Chad's allowed to have sex with her and yet I was passed down as a friend. Women don't want to have sex with men who show feelings because it's not an adventure to them. Also women who choose men base their choices on what men can offer to them not to who they are. That's why if you are a good guy you will get friendzoned and the Chad's can date and have sex. There is an unlimited number of single men who the women can just choose to meet so they will go for the ultimate top even though he is seeing 3 other girls.

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2022-09-06T23:01:20+00:00

Women only want one thing and it's a newly remodeled bathroom.

gastongang · 2022-09-06T23:46:15+00:00

Women are constantly testing you, she is constantly pushing to see how much shit you will take, and what she can get away with, she is constantly pushing your boundaries, trying to undermine you, demean you, or emasculate you to get an edge in your relationship's power struggle. Because she wants to test you. cause they don't really care about you, at least not as much as they care about themselves, and they want to make sure you are strong enough to deal with all her bullshit and are able to protect her, because after all, how can you protect her if you cannot protect yourself from her

that's why they always pick fights about stupid bullshit when you are emotionally frayed or struggling, struggling at work, death in the family, grandma is sick, your friend got in a car accident, in their eyes this is the ideal time to pick a fight, and kick you while you are done because this is when they have the best opportunity to emotionally affect you, and see how tough you really

they are not doing this to be malicious or mean, it's just a natural subconscious thing

TLDR: WILL SMITH PHENOMENON

Elonine · 2022-09-07T00:16:36+00:00

You can't love a woman until you hate women. To quote the great sage, Al Bundy "Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other."

But how can you love what you don't understand?

So, you must grow to understand them, because if you don't, you'll be constantly surprised and disappointed that they didn't behave in the manner that, in your eyes, was the most obvious and and reasonable course of action.

as a note, i'll add that by "hate women" i simply mean believe things that will have you accused of hating women. That's not as fun and edgy, though.

BulletReaper · 2022-09-07T01:45:45+00:00

Women complaining about how they’re sick of being judged for their looks while they proceed to judge men based off their height and income. (And looks as well)

No_Mathematician8341 · 2022-09-07T06:05:02+00:00

Its truly sad but most women are the same. the ones i meet at bars and clubs flake at the same rate of girls who dont go to bars and clubs.

Women overall are dishonest. Instead of being straight up they would rather give false hope to a man and string him along. glad im not dating. women are wack af. especially in new orleans

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-09-06T13:48:44+00:00

Women's 'attraction' is completely based on what they perceive they can get. If they're 40 then they believe 40-45 year old men are 'attractive'. They secretly want Chris Hemsworth but know he's unnattainable for them, and therefore pretend to be not attracted.

None0fYour8usiness · 2022-09-06T14:51:51+00:00

Women can't love as deeply as men can.

When a girl says she likes a "dad bod" she means a fit guy without a visible 6pack.

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-09-06T15:25:39+00:00

The same way that women like to say that "male attention is meaningless", the overwhelming majority of female complaints are meaningless noise and not worth men's time
the degree to which a number of women skirt responsibility for some of their dating actions and decisions would be admirable if it wasn't so pathetic

TATA456alawaife · 2022-09-06T13:53:58+00:00

If age gaps really are bad, and a women can’t make an informed choice when an older dude asks to date them, then maybe they shouldn’t be allowed to make decisions until they’re older.

jonreynolds1999 · 2022-09-06T15:32:42+00:00

They only like guys who are good looking. anyone else is being used or settled for

FutureBannedAccount2 · 2022-09-06T20:36:23+00:00

Many women will unapologetically coopt the trauma of sexual assault or rape for use against men, despite they themselves never actually being victims. Same with abortion to an extent

TodTheRod01 · 2022-09-06T21:12:37+00:00

Women who mention something like i've had guys tell me im top 5 or best bj giver or whatever...are usually the worst.

Most women don't actually want TRUE equality.

A lot of women in the west and modern world think men and women process things the same, and view things the same....its baffling to them to think otherwise

most women dont realize the physical strength difference between men and women...because they've never actually had it enacted on them....play fighting/wrestling the guy is usually giving you like 10-20% went 100% youd get thrown around.

g0juice · 2022-09-07T00:15:47+00:00

They chose the part of equality they want and scream when they get the opposite of what they want.

Without the grip of sexual attraction many are just uninspired, boring, useless, etc.

It’s like having a boring useless friend that hasn’t accomplished anything. Put a good set of boobs on it and hey! All of the sudden it’s society workable

narfywoogles · 2022-09-07T01:25:06+00:00

A great way to make a women these days mad is to ask her what she brings to the table. A great many have no answer. Not even cooking. Which every adult should be able to do. They’re children with extra rights and no responsibilities.

rurunoa · 2022-09-06T13:41:54+00:00

women need to stop putting hot men on a pedestal

bsmith440 · 2022-09-06T18:49:07+00:00

An overwhelming majority of women are undeniably poor drivers.

_Duriel_1000_ · 2022-09-06T16:52:42+00:00

most women wont admit to enjoy riding the cock carousel for their entire life.

back_in_blyat · 2022-09-06T18:39:19+00:00

Very, very, very, very few women have dated legitimate abusers, but almost every woman will claim to have been in one or more abusive relationships.

7-11-21-Luck · 2022-09-06T15:43:09+00:00

Women make terrible friends especially women who drops all their friends in every new relationships.

-25T · 2022-09-06T18:57:22+00:00

The wall is real, and it affects everyone. There are dumpy-ass frumpy men and women. How solid that wall is (concrete, plaster, or scotch tape) is heavily dependent on how much money you had growing up and in your 20s.
Women tend to lower the bar to keep the man they already like over the bar. (Some men will rarely manage to go even lower. If the woman puts the bar on the floor then he breaks out a shovel. These are the random couples you feel sorry for or wonder why they're together.)

If you missed it, let me say it again: a woman's set bar that men have to meet to be with her is raised or lowered, sometimes arbitrarily. And the lowering of said bar is always to keep a man over the bar. The bar is never lowered to give someone a chance unless she already likes them.

optimus69prime69 · 2022-09-06T20:14:17+00:00

Women choose attractive and abusive every day of the week than opposite of both of them.

Hell even abusive traits attract women since they act as a deterrent of other women that might want to poach him. Dark triad men do good with women for a reason.

Fentonious8 · 2022-09-06T20:25:32+00:00

Women want a man who doesn't need them, and don't want men who do need them.

LoudPiece6914 · 2022-09-06T22:36:07+00:00

Women give each other horrible advice. Don’t settle is horrible advice. Settle on preferences don’t settle on values.

A_lesson_in_pee · 2022-09-07T00:04:29+00:00

Not sure if controversial, but from what I've noticed, most women are genuinely uncomfortable dealing with an emotional man, or even just a regular man showing his emotions.

anon12xyz · 2022-09-07T02:12:21+00:00

Women are individuals who don’t fit in a box created by men so that men feel better about not being successful in dating or understand women?

wolvtongue · 2022-09-07T05:44:09+00:00

All(!) Woman need drama. If you are in a relationship and you aren't providing at least a little bit of drama and indignation - they will look for it outside of the relationship.

theartoffun · 2022-09-07T07:08:14+00:00

Women are attracted to assholes so much more than nice guys. Took a women to point this out to me. Saved my marriage. Hate and desire are more closely related emotions than I would have guessed.

dbz19_kai · 2022-09-07T09:23:38+00:00

I honestly feel a lot of women are solipsistic and lack the capacity to understand the male perspective or male experience, and empathise with it. They look at a situation from only the fame perspective and completely fail and lack the capacity to understand why the man feels what he feels in that situation.

melody_of_ · 2022-09-07T13:30:11+00:00

If the genders where flipped but people maintained their personality nearly every women would be in the bottom 5% of current men attraction wise because they never had to cultivate enough advantages to make up for being born with a penis.

Title	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell
Author	Gorillaman30
Upvotes	346
Comments	498
Date	September 6, 2022 1:25 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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